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Feminist claims of oppression are false. Look up the Massachusetts women’s suffrage referendum. If you’re going to spew misinformation all day then YOU educate yourself that isn’t my job. You said I should support feminism and I’m explaining to you all the reasons I would never support lies and evil propaganda. Trans dumbassery included. You are not capable of having a logical conversation if you care so much about “feminism” then stop upholding negative stereotypes of women that you are incapab…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 11:24 AM
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Feminism is about equal rights, freedoms and opportunities between men and women This is false. I’ve read the history, the anti-suffragettes were the original anti-feminists. A large majority of women (95%) opposed women’s suffrage because they believed their interests were already represented by the husbands they chose and the sons they raised. They did not view the family unit as oppression. Yours claims that women were oppressed under this system are revisionist. Many women felt loved and pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:00 PM
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I’m not going to put religion aside. why do some men from 2000 years ago, tell you what you should be doing Men do not tell me how to behave my faith does. God is not a man he is a spiritual being. and how convenient that it’s all the unpaid never ending labour) while only the man’s work is considered valuable. This is you continually engaging in bad faith making assumptions and one of many attempts you have made to write fan fiction about how my relationship functions and downvoting my answers …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:28 PM
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We are spiritually equal. The quote from the Bible is we have “equal value before god.” No I do not believe men and women are equal on earth we are different. We have different duties to society and to the family. Also you assume leadership means domination which is not inherently true. Are you being dominated by your boss at work or lead? A good boss will lead a team not dominate. I don’t know where you got that I hid a lasagna lol. I wanted to make lasagna instead because spaghetti is a nutrit…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:20 PM
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Hierarchy. Some women see feminism and modernism as helping women who are below them get a leg up or cutting the line, so to speak Can you explain how modern feminism helps women who are below average get relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:14 AM
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I’m not “red pill” but there’s a lot of overlap. I have different motivations for submitting to my husband: my Christian faith. That doesn’t mean id follow him off a cliff. I chose him carefully and I trust his character because I know he is disciplined and intelligent. I also just believe male leadership is more effective and there are studies supporting that.. There are no versus in the Bible that support men controlling or mistreating their wives… It says, “Husbands, love your wives and do no…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 10:11 PM
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…. You can’t handle a joke then play the victim online for attention. If you can’t take someone pointing out you suck dick when you do you probably shouldn’t be online. You engaged with a random troll they aren’t even faired as red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:35 PM
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Do you realize harm in dating requires proximity? Lol by definition men who don’t get chances don’t have an opportunity to harm women. It could be bad choices but it could be that there are risks to dating men..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 11:16 AM
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I mean yes but weariness of men is partly instinctual.. I observe it in my daughter and she is 5 months.. I personally don’t feel comfortable around men I don’t know and nothing will change that. I know avoiding men contributes to them feeling left out but that only makes me feel bad briefly then I get over it. It has minimal impact on my actions. Often basic friendliness like smiling is perceived as interest. Which leads to me feeling uncomfortable and regretful. I don’t sacrifice my comfort an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:32 PM
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I never wished for someone to die nor was happy when they did. And as for meeting other people who felt that way, I’d say no because most people don’t spend their entire lives hating someone lol. When I worked in a nursing home as a teenager the older women always spoke fondly about their husbands. My grandma committed suicide a couple years after my grandpa was murdered. If my husband died I don’t think I’d recover mentally but I’d obviously live on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:03 AM
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decent genetics I thought the right was a different person with down syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:31 AM
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That isn’t anywhere close to perfect. I’d rather date down in all of those categories than enter a sexless relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:26 AM
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Blah blah blah. I have no idea why you bothered trying to distract from issue again. Except this time you added a strawman and a bunch of emotional nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:32 PM
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This is like arguing whether it is worse to chop off an arm or a leg without consent. You don’t actually care if all you do is talk past people and distract from issues with whataboutism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:18 PM
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Idk how to make you understand that my original comment highlighted Christian virtues as a moral backing as to why scenario B was wrong and you came in randomly bashing Christians
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:58 PM
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Yes you broadly smeared an entire group of people for no reason. You are a mirror of the very hatred you claim to oppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:55 PM
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Ok so you just wanted an outlet to spew your random hatred we get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:45 PM
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Oh I thought we were attacking groups of people for no reason cause that is what you did
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:57 PM
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“It more worse to unconsenually cut off some babies body parts that others” energy.. I can’t believe people think this is a good argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:16 PM
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Ok? And a lot of feminists are not very independent
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:43 PM
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I think it’s interesting that Hubert reflects qualities that align with Christian teachings and Cedric’s behavior doesn’t. Yet a lot of these women seem to prefer men that adhere to their duties of protection and provision when they are not even Christian.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 10:28 AM
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… If a man is casually hooking up with women and she knew that she should know how he values women…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:37 PM
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Do you know what a metaphor is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 12:44 PM
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In places where women can get abortions, men who get pregnant can ALSO get abortions. Do you have amnesia? “I didn’t do it I just gaslighted people by saying it wasn’t happening” Children are unsafe with you yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 12:00 PM
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People don’t want to engage with your world view because they realized how dangerous it was when you guys started “lobotimizing” children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 11:33 AM
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Transmen are not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 11:10 AM
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Men can’t get pregnant. It’s crazy this has to be said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:24 AM
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I take financial advice from a similar Person to person A… People who grew up with money tend to be more experienced with money. They usually begin investing earlier, oversee their parents handling assets/businesses and have more knowledge about taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:51 AM
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Yeah but sexually the logistics won’t work out between two fatties so what else are they gunna do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:40 AM
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Men have always seemed very focused on looks regardless. There was similar lecturing on the other side. I was constantly told that to get a loyal, respectful relationship, I should date a man less attractive than me because studies showed men treat women better when they’re “dating up.” I understood the point was to encourage people to care about personality and no I don’t understand the anger unless you are constantly concerned about comparing your partners attractiveness to your own instead of…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:37 PM
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From man's side, it's harder to replace a SAHM for a younger model without getting ass-fucked in divorce So I don’t have to keep him chained up in the basement anymore? That sounds fuunn I don’t see any downsides to being a SAHM in you OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:39 PM
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Because men tend to pursue women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:54 AM
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No one looks at truck driving as a dangerous job and yet there’s more deaths than child birth. So thanks to modern medical care women not taking dangerous jobs is an accurate statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:59 AM
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It’s laughable you think whataboutism a great debate strategy. Ok here we go. Obesity contributed to 29% of pregnancy-related deaths https://www.mmhla.org/articles/new-maternal-mortality-data-and-analysis-published-by-cdc-and-commonwealth-fund So when we control for obesity then the number of deaths go down to: 24 ish. Imagine the irony of feminist “fighting” so hard for their independence just to lose it because you let gluttony rule your lives. HeAlThY aT alL wEigHtS. But yes if you factor in …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:44 PM
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Whataboutism but yes obesity is dangerous especially when you’re pregnant. Luckily not being a fatass is within your control. How many men died on the job in 2021? Something tells me no matter what the number is you don’t really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:43 PM
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My mother wasn’t a feminist.. So I was raised to show men what I bring to the table other than existing: cooking, cleaning their place, doing their laundry ect.. I even cooked meals that I brought too my guy friends when they were studying for tests.. So from my perspective the dynamic didn’t exist because I didn’t pay attention to what other women were doing.. I didn’t create a dynamic that I had value by existing and that men I liked had to do a lot to be seen by me. Women can empathize with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:58 AM
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I'm married so all men are invisible to me. Right.. All men are invisible to you so you post 16 hours a day on PPD. Seems like your “husband” is invisible to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:32 AM
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sex isn’t love.. If you suddenly replaced my husband I wouldn’t want a divorce but I can’t know what id be willing to compromise on until I’m in the situation and I am not just going to give a random number. It’s impossible to measure because there could be people I would never give a chance based on looks alone but to learn it’s someone I loved for 8 years changes that a lot..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 05:39 AM
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The question was phrased as “want” not “would.” And the “would” is unanswerable because there are too many variables and you literally don’t control for anything. And most people are not gay..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:39 AM
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want to No.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:09 AM
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There is a legal route to challenge paternity in court in the US (and get a DNA test).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:29 PM
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Someone who doesn’t recognize an action as abuse can still feel stress, pain, depression or have a lowered self worth caused by the abuse.. Children who grow up in abusive homes may not realize they’re being abused… Yet they still suffer and this negatively impacts their relationship w/ their parents because ignorance doesn’t preserve happiness.. Even if people don’t have a label or knowledge they will still feel something is wrong..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:34 AM
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You don’t want your view changed: .. Most cheaters don’t just cheat then act like perfect partners because infidelity is often accompanied by a pattern of abusive behaviors.. blame shifting, deception and misplaced anger.. you’re view of cheating promotes a fantasy that excuses abuse.. And people who cheat once have a very high likelihood of doing it again so it’s unlikely a one off behavior.. YOU are creating a fantasy about infidelity which largely doesn’t exist.. Ignorance isn’t always blissf…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:45 PM
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do you believe that applies in 100% of the cases? “Isn’t usually” you were not hooked on phonics. Though I guess I can’t expect much when you thought research was “conjecture and assumptions” but a meaningless platitude “ignorance is bliss” sounded rational in your brain.. Ignorance can be miserable.. Ignorance can cause anxiety.. And your little data point has nothing to do with anything I said. Do I have to remind you I was talking about the dynamics in a hypothetical current unfaithful relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:32 PM
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Cheaters turning guilt into anger/blame isn’t conjecture it’s a well documented coping mechanism… The premise relies on assumptions.. “ignorance is bliss..” And it is oversimplified.. Cheating isn’t usually a one off behavior… And we know that it often shows up in a pattern of deception that can involve abuse.. because of research..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:17 PM
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“If they are unaware they are being abused” energy. .. Most cheaters don’t just cheat then act like perfect partners.. And most cheaters experience cognitive dissonance and turn their guilt into blame shifting anger towards the unaware individual as they struggle to cope with the reality they are not a good person.. you’re view of cheating is a fantasy..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 08:02 AM
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I was annoyed at hearing it but I began to think to myself, could this be interpreted as disparaging towards women? ….No.. People made jokes about me being a woman driver all the time and I never cared because I’m not insufferable and those comments don’t affect me at all… It’s not like people won’t get in the car if I am behind the wheel.. I even had a job where driving was a large part of the job despite all the dIsCrImInAtIoN… Maybe stop unnecessarily victimizing the people around you.. Actin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:54 PM
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would you be open to dating a trans guy? Absolutely not. would you be open to dating a cis guy who's been with a trans woman? No. It seems in modern many people are atleast curious about trans bodies. Lots of people are curious about horror movies. You don’t watch the human centipede because is “sounds like a good movie.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:17 PM
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… Yeah it’s not like they ban the women who do... Oh wait this is a radical left echo chamber.. Reddit is not a serious website..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:00 PM
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Fuckboys tend to have a reputation and men who want relationships have a different reputation.. Also their behavior usually gives it away.. lol maybe this was just because my college was small but I would notice the dudes cycling through women would often ask me out or try to make moves/befriend me so it wasn’t a secret. Also I had 3 roommates.. So the likely hood of me knowing was pretty high when one of my roommates threw herself at every guy that knocked on our door. If he avoided her I knew …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 03:41 AM
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That depends your example is extreme but a lot of people learn from their past relationships and change based on how they get treated. For example my husband and I were long distance at first and he appreciated I split the travel burden with him. He had a relationship where he did all the traveling and he wasn’t going to do that again. I didn’t take it personally. there is something to not being irrationally insecure..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:55 AM
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In my experience bad advice is usually woman projecting their own envy.. A woman in our friend group constantly pushed other women (especially those in happy, respectful marriages) to cheat or manipulate their husbands by making them jealous (tactics she used herself). She repeatedly urged me to manipulate/cheat on my husband “to get what I want.” I knew it was jealousy because: 1) she threw a fit when she saw my engagement ring, 2) she would become angry upon seeing my husbands love for me was …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:17 PM
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I don’t brand as blue or red because (most) people who post make their flair their entire personality and use this an excuse not to use their brain. The portrayal “denial of reality” seems accurate if you go by these BPers. I do agree the best way to find a good partner is by being yourself (but with self improvement which includes personality and physical health). It worked for me, and it worked for my husband.. it also can’t really work any other way because once you start using manipulation/l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:12 AM
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It’s pretty obvious that your intent was to be inflammatory. Have a good night
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:30 AM
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.. If you are just going to agree with it then why does it matter a woman said it? nothing changes about my original comment.. And receiving death threats from angry feminists doesn’t mean it is a universal truth.. Are you for real?? What kind of morons do you think send death threats to people over a book that has 0 reputable or scientific backing? Most normal women probably just ignored how provocative her book was because who in their right mind would stunt their own intelligence to be that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:59 AM
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What.. that’s really fucked up.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:07 AM
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My parents were more traditional and raised me the same way. I see that a lot in progressive relationships where it may be acceptable for the woman to be more dominant. I have pointed it out to my friends before they actually responded positively and stopped acting that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:05 PM
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I’m not into dark romance or men interested in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:40 PM
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she can no longer bait him with sex into the role of provider. You act like men have no agency and can’t select partners for reasons outside of sexual attraction.. The argument that you can’t filter for compatibility and walk away will never work because most people are not so stupid as to believe that.. Also two people deciding to stick to their gender roles to divide the work in their relationship doesn’t harm you, isn’t morally wrong and has nothing to do with you. You are victimizing yoursel…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 06:57 PM
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I legit lol’d at the responses. I can’t believe these idiots don’t understand that you have to teach kids literally everything except how to breathe because children are not born compassionate or understanding. The only logical option is A.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:02 AM
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Are you serious..? Because most women fantasize about being in loving romantic relationships.. The top reasons people pursue relationships are emotional connection, companionship, love, and shared life goals… That is researched and common knowledge..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:46 PM
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The only woman I ever met like that had extreme childhood trauma from being raised in Iran.. It hard to imagine that is super common
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:31 PM
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I have never heard anything like that lol.. It is not a vacation if you can’t have sex.. I would just assume a person saying those things about me didn’t want to have sex with me because they found me repulsive lol Although I guess the husband could be a bad selfish lover.. Who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:36 AM
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I thought it was natural for men to never get even one woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:27 PM
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Yeah I’m afraid to know what is in they refrigerator if they think cannibalism is natural
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:06 PM
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That’s called a red herring. It’s unfortunate you play into negative stereotypes of women publicly. This is why people think women can’t be logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:52 PM
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Yeah sure wallowing in the miserable ramblings of feminists who purposefully and willfully ignore research and science that doesn’t fit their narrative has nothing to do with her being unhappy. It’s all men’s fault. We cross paths and it’s none of your business who I hang out with or why.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:30 PM
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Yeah but most of us don’t choose to have kids with abusers so
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:14 AM
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Lmao. What percentage of women are beaten to death by their husbands?? That is some crazy fear mongering by a “happily married woman.” “1 in 5 women” yeah that is not exclusively to husbands that figure is referring to that is lifetime partners exes, dating and cohabitating. I know what you’re referring to and you did not read that study correctly if you think it was specifically about husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 08:50 AM
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I know women who didn’t want children and women who don’t have good marriages and support are not going to be happier which is why I looked for your studies controlling for those things which they don’t.. and marriage is a huge predictor for women of happiness… which by the way.. a large part of my original comment was focused on single childless women.. I did not insinuate women who don’t want children should have children. I said a measurable fact: that women get an oxytocin bump after having …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 08:39 AM
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Me: biological facts You:some moms drink wine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 08:12 AM
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It is a biological fact that you get an oxytocin bump. It is also married women with children reporting higher life satisfaction overall across studies. You cherry picked a study that fit your little narrative. Nice try. Context matters. The married/social support variable is important which your little study did not control for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 08:06 AM
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Wines memes over biology. You sure are good at Reddit science
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:01 AM
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Having children permanently raises women’s oxytocin levels. So there is scientific explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:35 AM
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The women in my social circle are not 35 but are around 30 and they already have regrets about being single and childless so I imagine it does not.. I struggle to be friends with women who are not happily married because they are too miserable it impacts our friendship.. And if you post in the feminist subreddit that you know of any women who are not happier single they will ban you.. So that lie gets repeated and you will see it repeated here as this is a radical leftist echo chamber. I know on…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:00 AM
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Women are generally worse parents than men. Women are primarily responsible for “trans children”/child mutilation. My own mother was a good mom but she was naive which meant we were able to get away with more under her supervision than we could with my dad. Studies suggest that the increase in physical child abuse following the end of a relationship can be attributed to biological mothers abusing children they had with their former lover . When this is combined with data regarding single-mother …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:40 PM
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Because I need his record to show me that he has lived a little but isn’t dangerous because most men lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:39 PM
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I am very serious about the hidden pocket underwear
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:31 PM
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To be fair there is missing context that matters. I knew him very well and I could ask him to leave and he would at any point. So I had no concerns about my safety. I just think people are quick to jump to conclusions anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 11:46 AM
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Yeah ppls responses did make me miss pre-me too and cancel culture times. We had a lot of fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 09:22 AM
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Hmm I see ur point about sleeping naked that is not something others should replicate. the boundaries thing was in reference to internal minor annoyance of his behavior disrupting my gaming. I never communicated that so he probably thought I enjoyed his company because I did. He was friends with my roommates also and would frequently hang out with them too so it wasn’t as weird he was over everyday as that sounded. I am not traumatized nor think he was creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 08:06 AM
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I dated a guy for two years who I wasn’t initially that attracted to. He wasn’t unattractive just not as facially attractive as the other guys I dated.. but he was extremely ripped, outgoing, funny, and we were both star soccer players in the same friend group. We’d practice and scrimmage together all the time. One weekend I threw a party while my roommates were gone, and he stayed over in my top bunk. In the middle of the night he stole the only blanket thinking I was asleep, so I climbed up to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:53 AM
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Hrrk No one needed to know your hand is a biohazard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:29 PM
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I dated men in our friend group. So I knew all my bfs anywhere from 1-6 years before dating them. I never had casual sex nor did anything else, if I was single I was fullly celibate. I did not have sex with the majority of my bfs because I was waiting for marriage but I got caught up in the heat of the moment with my bf of two years when I was 21. Waiting is hard. With husband sex was quicker probably the 3rd date but that was mostly because I had already had premarital sex so i didn’t see a poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:25 AM
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It’s almost like that is different from being 47, in your thirties, newly married and married a long time in the same week.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 09:52 AM
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“Thinking” rigghhtt
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 02:53 AM
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No one said you had to care but it is pretty creepy. Although you probably should care about whatever insecurities you have that lead to your pathological behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 02:16 AM
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A little birdy told me I’m not the only one who has pointed out you larp as a younger woman who is “married.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:01 AM
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lol these women are so catfish. I remember some chick pretending to be skinny but went to her profile and saw no pics of her but of course her hands were in a photo: sausage fingers. One week they are 47 the next week they are “in their thirties.” Or one day they are faired as man then the next day posting in Q4W
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:44 PM
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Well that wasn’t ambiguous
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:35 PM
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It’s not 2006 it’s 2026 tho
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:33 PM
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Right
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:26 PM
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6’5”+ or has the genes for 6’5”+ other men fear him because he is ginormous but he is also vegan and relocates spiders outside Criminal record that is 10 years old. Preferably a drug addict cause then I’ll just sew him hidden pocket underwear so he wont get arrested again. Makes at least six figures because none of his charges were felonies. I want to forget bills exist. Looks like Thor with long hair and full beard but is highly intelligent. Isn’t a democrat. Very outgoing could make friends wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:20 PM
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You were almost 50 a couple weeks ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:04 PM
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I’ve done both and you are absolutely full of crap. Make up is not more effort. I have even done cosplays and you develop a routine and can do things quickly. You cannot rush results at the gym and dieting is hard work. “iPad kid” was the correct assessment. Make up isn’t more expensive than diet and exercise either. More bull shit. You spend more on makeup per month than you do on food? That is unbelievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 09:36 AM
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I’ve always wanted my own family but I wanted to make that decision wisely.. So I volunteered at low income daycares. Working with kids and confirmed I was a natural, people even begged me to tutor theirs for money as a side job for pre-K. I then worked with children at DCS that solidified my desire for motherhood. Those who get to live selfishly may not understand the “sacrifice,” but you learn to love through it.. As a newly SAHM to my newborn daughter, I feel incredibly blessed. I stayed home…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 09:27 AM
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That is not “a lot of effort”. Dieting and gym training all of which I have done, and still do, is a lot of effort. You IPad kids have no idea what the word “effort” means.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:50 AM
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I mean I agree most women do not put in a lot of effort into their appearance. But “alter you face and body it’s effortless” is most definitely savage lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:47 AM
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I will just respond here new best friend. “A clump of cells” more evasive language and scientifically imprecise. I guess you can’t be reasoned with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 10:56 PM
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Hi stalker. I never said “women.” One day you will learn how to make a logical and coherent argument, we might be waiting a long time though as you were not hooked on phonics apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 10:51 PM
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There is a baby involved. Using evasive language to avoid calling it a human life means you have no argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:43 PM
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Well if sex is superficial then killing your children looks like an extremely disproportionate punishment to preserve something that trivial. I think we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:33 PM
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I dont have feelings for strangers.. i dated (and preferred) long term friends or people already within our shared circle of friends. Then I definitely gravitated towards athletic builds and men that everyone liked.. If a man was attractive (usually celebrities) I may use them as a “base model” give them more attractive features in my head and fantasize about my creation but I did not spend embarrassing amounts of time fantasizing about men who exist they were the starting point not what I actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 05:29 PM
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The indifference thing might work for online dating because I would not want someone I barely know acting super into me. That would be very weird and I would not trust them. I only ever dated guys I met IRL, usually after being friends for years so acting indifferent would’ve killed any attraction cuz I’d assume he wasn’t into me. I do find dominance attractive but not the controlling/toxic kind you described. More “soft dom.” Like deeply kind but protective. As for negativity, I never tolerated…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:53 AM
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Physically? Face, body hair, arms, hands, abs, voice, and how tall they are. I am really attracted to long hair on guys because it’s safely rebellious. Emotionally I like being held by men because it feels secure and warm. There’s also a lot of random things they do that are hot. Seeing my husband be a father is hot. Soft dominance is hot, like if they are controlling in a caring and protective way. The powerful/tender combo gets me. My husband pretty much perfectly demonstrates this duality of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:10 AM
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Literally google… https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db508.htm Overall adult obesity prevalence (BMI ≥30) was 40.3%, with men (39.2%) and women (41.3%). severe obesity (BMI ≥40) was notably higher in women: 12.1% in women vs. 6.7% in men overall, and this pattern held across all age groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:41 AM
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You can absolutely chose to be wrong. Fat is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:04 PM
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No it’s not a middle school take. Fat is unattractive no matter where you are at in life. And yes BMI can be one metric but I can also just look at people’s double chins or sausage fingers and know they are obese..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:02 PM
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Yes because the average American woman is actually 172lbs which is in the obese territory if you are average height.. So saying most are fat is the reality..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 10:56 PM
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Quote me where I said all… Why are you all addicted to everything but phonics?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 10:41 PM
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Your study is almost 10 years old.. Things were completely different 10 years ago..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 09:59 PM
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There are other ways to gain weight other than eating hot pockets. Shocker I know. Which gender do you think spends more time at the gym? There is more obesity prevalence among women. And when we are talking about severe obesity women have double men’s rates…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 09:35 PM
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Is your argument seriously time travel.. Do you know how many logically fallacies you just committed?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 09:02 PM
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That wasn’t ambiguous. You people are hooked on everything but phonics. My goodness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:10 PM
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It is when you’ve never seen a bill
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:01 PM
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I know because I have eyes..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:53 PM
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Men can have weights that present as overweight if they workout and build muscle. No woman does that your collecting your weight on the couch. Men put much more time and effort into their appearance and it shows everytime I go outside and look around. It’s obvious you would have to be delusional to not see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:41 PM
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No they are not.. it’s not even close.. women are far shorter than men on average and the average weight of both men and women isn’t far enough to even adjust for that. And men’s weight can present overweight if they work out. American women are so fat and ugly I haven’t seen an attractive one in over five years and the protests were more proof of just how fat and unfuckable women have become.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:37 PM
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No. The average weight of women in America is 170lbs and women are not attractive at that weight. I haven’t seen a woman on my husbands level of attractiveness in over 5 years. The more I look around the more I understand why men are marrying women in other countries. If I go to the gym I might see one attractive woman but a hundred men who are attractive. It is not even comparable. Women have completely let gluttony rule their lives thanks to the body positivity movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:41 PM
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The watch is not going to be the difference. You have to stop being such a nerd this is not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:41 PM
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I assume a “ladies’ man” means someone many women are attracted to and at least open to date/have sex with? I’d say my husband fits that description, and men like that are rare. It usually takes a mix of strong social skills, wit, and good looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:10 AM
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This would be a long list. There are too many instances where a woman could theoretically be too picky or superficial… I guess I knew a 300lb woman who wanted a provider and I knew just by looking at her it wasn’t happening. Did I say anything about it? No.. I figured she didn’t have much longer to live anyways may as well be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:59 PM
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I don’t personally know any women in real life who fit that stereotype.. The men they slept with men who were generally about as attractive (or unattractive) as the ones they eventually married. I never had casual sex myself, but yes, I’m genuinely attracted to my husband… They completely reject TRP, yet they still let the online ramblings from those spaces mess with their heads..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:06 AM
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No, I wanted to be a stay at home mom. I would have dated someone with the same career as me but not less than me. I was making the minimum amount of money someone with a college degree typically makes so for them to make less they’d have to not be college educated or unemployed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:14 AM
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I rejected attention from an Olympic athlete, doctor, and movie director so yes.. The athlete had weird ideas that were morally inconsistent. The doctor was a democrat. The movie director I was not compatible with so I ghosted him. Maybe if I were born into poverty I would have been less picky but I wasn’t and I don’t date people as if they are “someone else.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:45 AM
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he could be a midwit. Literally you. Edit: dude went schitzo in DMs lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:56 AM
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The question explicitly asked: If you’ve friendzoned a guy, would you say you’re more attractive, less attractive, or about as attractive as the girl(s) he managed to attract? Read.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:47 AM
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Oh my lord… Just because you got friendzoned doesn’t mean they assume they are more attractive than you there are a lot of reasons ppl get friendzoned.. Most of the time I found the men I friend zoned attractive enough to date they just weren’t for me.. They could have been a democrat.. They could have said something random I didn’t like.. My friends could like him and I don’t want to deal with the drama.. Or he could be a midwit. Who spends all their time comparing themselves to who other peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:09 AM
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None of this comment applies to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:40 AM
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So men are good at filtering because they have a 100% success rate of staying single?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:59 PM
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Typically when women hate men it’s because they are hideous. It’s called pretty privilege for a reason.. I’ve seen hateful women post their pictures and they are so ugly my husband and I thought they were a troll using a meme of some viral hag but I reversed searched the image and they were a real person.. Or women who post here pretend to be skinny and I go to their profile and see sausage fingers. I have no idea how you can be so fat as to gain weight in your hands they must be an amorphous bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:10 PM
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Conservative Americans who force 18 yr olds to become broodmares are not progressive. Americans aren’t forced into marriage this is delusional. This happens under patriarchal Islamic regimes.. 100 years ago Yeah more proof you are out of touch with the reality of today. Also technically there are plenty of sects of Americans who end up (under the American state) having like dozens of child brides. Under religious extremism not conservatism. conservative values ARE extremist values. Nope this is …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:19 PM
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Did those women have a choice? How can you use such a bad example… I cannot believe what I am reading liberals are free entertainment.. The best comedians in the world couldn’t be this funny. The concept of hypergamy couldn’t even exist without women’s choices..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 07:27 PM
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No it’s not lmao conservativism strongly opposes polygamy.. it pushes literally the opposite.. monogamy.. It is associated with patriarchal radical religions.. Such as Islam.. but you won’t admit that because it does not fit your delusional narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 07:25 PM
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You know men are rarely unaware of their wives pasts right? Especially when everything is online.. if random people found out about her past, then he most definitely knows… The real answer is who cares… If men did their part in rejecting women, then women wouldn’t get away with half the shit they do. But I guess you could make the argument that women wouldn’t be bitches if they actually took accountability and did some self reflection for their behaviors like an adult.. Both apply but one you ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 07:04 PM
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Respond to people instead of making top level comments. Most people who post here are too stupid to defend their positions and aren’t going to go out of their way responding to top level comments to avoid looking like a dumbass. However their ego gets the best of them if you respond directly to them then they feel like they have to defend their stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:31 PM
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then they also need to step up and help change the dating script not just condemn the result. That means questioning traditional expectations that advantage women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:35 PM
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I find their position more honest than men who claim they pay because they are “expected to be traditional” rather than “you pay to compete for women you find attractive.” At least they admit they are a simp not traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:27 PM
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The answer is still no. Why Is it my responsibility to make women someone you’d want to date? I didnt sign up for that job. I assume you can communicate the kind of relationship you want.. You control what BS you tolerate.. And guess what? Not a single man who posts here would ever pay for a meal of someone they don’t find attractive.. You guys don’t pay to be traditional you are simping to compete for the attractive women…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:19 PM
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then they also need to step up and help change the dating script not just condemn the result. That means questioning traditional expectations that advantage women No, because there isn’t anything wrong with having traditional expectations. I don’t shame people who want an egalitarian lifestyle. Gender roles are derived from religion, I know you all hate Christians for no reason but traditional gender roles are not immoral.. You aren’t oppressed because certain people have different preferences t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:23 PM
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Because the use of “shaming” is for holding people accountable. You don’t list a single reason that casual sex is immoral or causes societal harm (it does you just didn’t provide any evidence in your OP). The argument you provided was designed to be sexist rage bait lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:29 AM
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Studies show parental regret is RARE… Babies developed features that trigger the desire to nurture to ensure their survival.. This is factual and scientific that many people find fulfillment in parenthood.. Yet the popular thing now is that everyone is fear mongered into thinking they will regret their children by feminists.. This uniform narrative is problematic.. Why? Because that is what propaganda looks like…I want young people to come to their own conclusions whether to have children, based…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 08:51 PM
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I’ll start by saying I’m not trying to shame you for not wanting kids because quite frankly I don’t care. But it does sound like a position you were fear mongered into.. Only a really selfish person would regret having their children. Thats like someone who adopts a puppy because it’s cute without thinking of the responsibility that comes with it..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:26 PM
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Pull off having a man who earns significantly more than them while still expecting him to do half (or more) of the housework, childcare, and emotional labor. Fatties can’t negotiate those terms if their lives depended on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:20 PM
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That’s what every feminist woman I know is doing minus the moving and prioritizing his career part. Except their contributions are not always equal (if at all). Unless they are too fat to pull it off.. I did that before we tried for a kid then quit my job, but I also had to move to be with my husband so I had to quit my job then too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 10:36 AM
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Where's the male privilege? The Middle East, India and China.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:29 AM
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This depends on the country you’re from, but my country (USA) I see the title as true. I wish more people in my country would express how tired they are of women victimizing themselves and making everything about them personally. Women are the main ones participating in the victim Olympics and I find it embarrassing considering they aren’t the ones getting circumcised or discriminated against in the workplace by DEI and they get all the scholarship opportunities. A lot of discrimination was caus…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:36 PM
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It’s rarely discussed how competitive women are over men. Your friends will betray you over a man they want even if he has no interest in them and I had to learn that the hard way just how out of control the jealousy and manipulation is among women. Women who are actually loyal to their friends are rare. A lot of feminist goals boil down to being jealous of happier women and trying to destroy that happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 11:12 PM
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No the loudest complainers are just old ulgy fat bitter feminists manipulating younger women to tank the competition for the men they want. I see this jealous crap IRL constantly. women my husband’s age hit on him then look crushed when he introduces me. They’re nowhere near his league (or any woman he’s ever dated) so it shocks me they even tried. My husband and I even notice women start looking depressed seeing us happy together. I feel bad for younger women who were mislead by fatass ugly fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 06:59 PM
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I used to make cosplays for fun and had people request pictures and porn for money there are several reasons I never followed through with the requests. 1. I believed it was sinful even though the Bible doesn’t specifically mention pornography it causes enough societal damage to be immoral. 2. I wanted to have a family and did not want that to negatively impact my future kids. 3. Many pornstars get stuck in the industry and I enjoyed working with kids. I also signed a contract to work with kids,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:03 PM
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I don’t spend any of my time thinking about this. Why would I care unless they are trying to skirt the laws? That doesn’t make any sense. I know men who married non-US citizens and I never assumed malice behind it.. It was obvious they were just searching for love like anyone else. These women are just terminally online. I hadn’t been online for a month and the same no life’s still bully ppl here. It’s pathetic and some of you supposedly have kids, shouldn’t you be prioritizing your fucking kids…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:49 PM
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He wasn’t found liable for rape. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:32 PM
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Oh I didn’t realize you were schitzo. You invented misogyny in the US in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:17 PM
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Men died fighting for all the freedoms you enjoy. If misogyny was a societal problem you’d be wearing a burka and you wouldn’t dare open your mouth. You don’t even understand how to craft a rebuttal to what I said apparently because you still haven’t come up with an equivalent to circumcision in the US. Am I speaking to a woman or a petulant child? Intellectually I can’t tell a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:06 PM
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Your idea of kissing ass appears to be acknowledging objective reality. You have proven the last sentence of my comment. Maybe when people weren’t taking your ideas seriously it had nothing to do with you being a woman it’s because that is the energy your opinions deserve. Some people have no business pretending to be intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:37 PM
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Most women I know love when men sensually make out. I legit lol’d because this is the worst advice I think I’ve ever read. If I re-read it I’d laugh again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:44 AM
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No because then yall would think it’s ok to circumcise me at birth. There is no equivalency to that kind of sexism in the US for women. The only women who believe they are oppressed in the US are retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:30 AM
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Doing mental gymnastics to create “problems” in our relationship and hoping I’d be dumb enough to agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:05 AM
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If you are talking about the jealousy aspect then it’s mostly just insulting my husband behind his back or trying to get me to leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:39 AM
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I have been in that situation and the answer is no. I don’t act differently with who I am dating around specific people and when there was jealousy then I stopped contacting them and never invited them to anything ever again. I dont tolerate any drama. Someone who was my friend would be happy I was happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:12 PM
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When my husband gets approached usually introduces them to me or if I was quick enough to hide he looks around for me to save him then says he is married and shows them his ring. Instead of being distant he is usually just direct because he is a very outgoing person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 07:42 PM
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And we all know later you’re going to be the same person to claim consent requires consciousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:30 PM
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Because she is a sex offender
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:41 PM
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Women doing demolition with their fists isn’t going to change what men find attractive and turn them into gold diggers.. This is a nonsensical gender flip.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:35 PM
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Literally everyone has sex toys. The only sex toys the men I dated never had were blow up dolls thank god because that is too antisocial..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:30 PM
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Define “care.” I think men have standards they can afford to have.. My husband wouldn’t have dated someone without a college degree because it is a testament of intelligence even if he doesn’t expect them to provide financially. There’s absolutely men who consider certain lines of work hot. Female cops are fetishized for example. Because I had a CJ degree this was something that was brought up a lot.. Men I dated liked that I worked with kids because it showed empathy and kindness. It also signa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:01 AM
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Your reading comprehension is so exceptional that you keep not understanding that the US school system is the most expensive in the entire world and yet our scores are lower than the rest of the world. You want to keep sending money to a failed system and pray it gets better, some people are done with your naivety and being scammed while our kids are being “uneducated.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:27 AM
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It’s laughable that you addressed nothing I said. Are you ignorant the shift away from phonics created reading problems for a lot of kids? Why the fuck would I want to continue to send funding to the most wealthy school system in the world with the worst outcomes? Your reading comprehension clearly suffered cause you weren’t hooked on phonics. Your advice is fucking useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:09 AM
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Why the fuck would anyone want to pay the most to have the shittiest school system? Especially after leftist dumbasses did away with phonics and introduced the sight words bull shit. What a brilliantly retarded idea to “teach kids to read” without actually teaching them to fucking read. MeMoRiZe tHe ShApE oF wOrDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:25 PM
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Do you have any examples of your opinion being disregarded “because you’re a woman?”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:22 AM
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You are not describing normal deterioration due to pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 07:40 PM
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Doesn’t matter where you are from her idea of “perfectly healthy” is probably not accurate based on the decline of her health. That’s just reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:30 PM
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Doesn’t mean she is healthy. Pretty much all of her problems can be explained by poor diet and deficiencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:42 PM
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Well yeah there is that but it doesn’t help that people blame the wrong things for their declining health because they are retarded or misguided.. In my OBs office I have to request a doctor who isn’t fat themselves every time I go in. Pregnancy doesn’t have to decline your health.. Yeah you need more nutrients that’s why we have multivitamins and produce... But the majority of the things I hear women complain about on Reddit can be explained by being obese or making poor dietary choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:27 AM
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Anecdotes are pretty meaningless especially when most people don’t know how to take care of themselves. Yeah pregnancy does take a lot of energy out of you but most women have unhealthy eating habits they cave into when pregnant or they don’t take their prenatal which makes their energy levels sink lower due to deficiencies. They stop exercising because walking upstairs becomes more difficult but if you don’t stay active that stuff all just gets worse not better.. my hair grew thicker, I have 0 …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 10:32 PM
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My husband would not cheat on me for $10M and I would value our relationship over $10M because I know it would bother him. That being said, I would probably let it slide for $10M if he was willing. That would be too life changing for me to actually hold a grudge over even though it feels nice knowing he would not do it. This is probably the one time I would wish he wasn’t so by the book.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:36 PM
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Masking is a hypothesis. Also individual level data does show conservatives are happier around the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:26 PM
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Except he looks like a crack head.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:14 PM
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Confidence/mental health is also another major difference where conservatives have the upper hand. Leftists have more mental health issues than conservatives statistically. Women may say they prefer leftist men but that is never going to be reality for multiple reasons. The more left leaning you are the higher the probability you are mentally ill… Extreme liberals showed a 150% higher rate of mental illness compared to moderates in a meta-analysis of General Social Survey data.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:11 PM
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Being assertive is definitely not the same thing as being dominant. I am assertive naturally but I would not describe myself as dominant.. Dominant would refer more to people who prefer to lead others/ take control. Assertiveness is the ability to enforce boundaries and stand up for yourself to get your interests represented. So as you can imagine when my assertive side is triggered it is actually stressful. It isn’t a quality anyone enjoys being.. It is much nicer when you feel respected by the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 04:55 PM
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I have also noticed conservative men are more romantically successful than my liberal guy friends. Pretty much all my liberal guy friends are incels. There are only a couple exceptions. One of the most alt right men I know has no problem being himself (retarded) and getting annoying liberal feminist women to date him/want to marry him. At least they are the attractive ones. It blows my mind out of all the conservative men they date that he is the one the select. I prefer conservative men because…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 04:38 PM
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I don’t care about men sexualizing women. Men sexualizing women isn’t sexual harassment and there is a distinct difference that matters.. Sure there are examples of women being sexualized in media against their will but the majority (90%+) are doing it willingly… It would be great if women would actually do something about it like not getting plastic surgery or using filters and creating insecurity in other women they are role models too.. Or using make up as plastic surgery replacement..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:04 AM
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Yes. When I play video games I use gender neutral usernames typically because I had people hitting on me then throwing the game when I ignored them. I never disclose I am a woman and I do not act in a way that may signal I’m a woman. I don’t lie about it I just don’t talk about it. I have even had people report my accounts out of spite if I don’t reciprocate interest. I never had consequences from that but I know they reported me because it was something they threatened and that was a situation …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:18 PM
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Oh, so “you didn’t read” really means “you didn’t agree.” Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:48 PM
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Yeah you assume the worst which makes it hard for anyone to communicate their reasonable needs to you. Then yall wonder why 50% of men avoid interacting with women to avoid appearing creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:28 PM
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Everyone needs physical touch as an expression of love FFs. Imagine being in a relationship where there was 0 physical touch and maybe you will understand why it isn’t a “yellow flag” to communicate that as a need. Do yall not remember what happened to the dam monkeys who never got touched? Some of them committed suicide, while others lived and were mentally destroyed. Most never recovered even when re-introduced to peers. We know physical touch is a need. Why would this change into adulthood? T…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:08 PM
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This is a blatant lie. Sexy red twerked her ass all over the stage at Kamala Harris’s campaign event and it was praised by lefties as a “fun, culturally resonant moment to energize the crowd.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 06:20 PM
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They don’t slut shame sexy red or anyone else that does similar or worse things. It’s racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 06:02 PM
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No idea where you got the “slut shaming” thing from. Women were calling her hitler girl because she’s white with blue eyes. They were being racist let’s be honest… They wouldn’t be saying anything if she was anything non-white.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 05:44 PM
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My husband currently is about 90% of the reason I’m happy because we are about to have our first child. Before that he was like 75% of the reason I was happy. Still quite a bit, because it’s like living with your best friend. However the financial stability has also brought me a lot of happiness. I was working dangerous jobs I no longer have too work at all. We were able to buy a house together which has helped keep our costs of living low enough to have excess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 03:31 AM
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Attractive women have no issues getting married regardless if they are feminist or not. There is no data supporting the idea that feminist women have an easier time getting married than trad women this is entirely made up. Lmao. Of course it has upvotes tho because people just like feeling good. Conservative(who are more likely to be trad) are statistically happier and have less mental illness. They are also more likely to be married..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:33 PM
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If men are “red pilling” because men and women gossip differently then they are not rational. That makes no sense at all. Red pill has 0 to do with gossiping it was supposedly about “facts..”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:35 PM
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I’m not attracted to liberals or modern acting men. Outside of that I don’t compromise on: sense of humor, religious, securely attached, assertive, has good leadership skills, kind, generally happy/positive in vibes, makes friends easily, doesn’t participate in hook up culture, no addictions, doesn’t anger/agitate easily, is highly intelligent, expresses affection (both verbally and physically), doesn’t hold bitter opinions about exes or women, morally consistent, good with kids (and is open to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:38 PM
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If the truth bothers you then don’t ask because you were never prepared to hear the answer. This doesn’t represent how I have ever witnessed adult women gossiping.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 12:40 AM
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I don’t gossip in the way outlined in the OP. If you had asked: do women gossip about their own partners then the answer would be different. You asked about women gossiping about other peoples significant others and the reality is men have more incentive to do that than women.. You don’t like the answer? Don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:50 PM
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I said I see more adult men doing something similar as what is described in the OP more often.. I did not say I never see adult women gossiping but I am not a person who gossips that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:37 PM
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I saw that when I worked with teenage girls buts that is how most teenagers are: shallow. I see more men doing this as adults but more so from men I had considered my friends directing insults towards my husband, telling me I could do better when they themselves are not better then him in any category.. Or liberal cucks who use feminist buzzwords to try and create issues between me and my husband from nothing. Personally I’d never attempt to ruin anyone’s happiness by trashing their partner over…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:27 PM
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I actually understand where the stereotype comes from but pretending that is used as a compliment is just gaslighting. Lol Yeah women are the majority of the feelings over facts crowd today but men have fallen victims to propaganda in the past.. Nazi Germany wouldn’t have been possible without men.. The moral of the story is that no one is above “group think.”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:14 AM
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I liked talking to guys and getting to know them. If I was friends with them beforehand it was just another fun thing we did together before committing. Also the way you think feels jaded and not reflective of men I dated I could tell they were having a good time also.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:46 PM
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You too!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:15 PM
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Whoa Mr AI apologist you could have just said the days of proof reading are over.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 04:34 PM
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Would you like me to make it sound a bit more polished or natural, as if it were written for a social media post or short essay? Humanity is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 04:23 PM
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A 4 year old should be able to handle going to the bathroom by themselves. You just wait by the door and listen if they flushed and washed their hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:47 AM
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The math in my response is my opinion Then it isn’t math you are using a subjective judgment.. I know far too many women who won't date a man who makes less than X$ per year and is under 6' tall This isn’t “caring or thinking about statistics.” This is a preference you are equating with “using statistics.” If you do not compare dating parnters against other options and determine which one you prefer physically, personality wise, potential future with including earnings etc. Personality is a subj…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:38 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 09:25 PM
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Most of them just make the stats up anyways. They aren’t using “stats” just about every guy who responded who claims to use stats actually uses “guesses” and calls them stats.. Every time someone mentions a percentage I cannot find their source, it’s like I’m watching the news but these are real people..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:38 PM
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You guys keep saying men think about statistics when dating and not one of you have listed an actual statistic.. You made up all these percentages and even I know they are wrong.. A 7 is significantly above average and you are treating it like a grading scale. A 9 would be a model… You a little delulu yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:27 PM
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I don’t understand how that is enough information for anyone to answer this question. I have dated an Olympic athlete and married the nerdy IT guy. I had a vision for my future and only one of them fit that vision perfectly and it had nothing to do with career path.. That isn’t how I decide who I want to marry or have sex with. I would not have hooked up with either guy. In order for me to eliminate someone for their career path it would have had to been a career that requires constant moving, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:52 AM
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Your anecdotes are not statistics, which is the topic. Most women I knew were not hooking up with anyone. If I went off statistics which you guys claim to do then you’d know most pre-martial sex isn’t hook ups it is happening within committed relationships.. Your perspective is amplified not by reality but by your own jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:57 PM
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I'm not RP, don't have tik tok or any of that nonsense, Doesn’t mean you don’t spout the same nonsense. I’ll give you a hint, in reality the majority of people don’t have abusive exes… You act as if you apply statistics to your opinions then in the same breath demonstrate you don’t do that at all.. Your little anecdotes are meaningless. most men would likely agree. Then most men are not using statistics to make decisions, they are using their biases. lol I'm flattered you think so much about me …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:38 PM
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I was wrong it isn’t related to autism the OP is related to tik tok brain rot and so is your response. You guys keep saying “all women have an abusive ex” but that doesn’t reflect reality so you are not logical. I will treat you as biased because you are. Men complain about abusive exes.. They actually do it on this sub all the time.. If you actually lived in reality you’d realize life is more than inserting red pill ideologies in everything as that will just fuel bias more than it will awaken y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 05:12 PM
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You said in your OP home maintenance will stress you out, the older the home the more maintenance it will require.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:54 PM
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Well yeah if you’re compatible with one specific person personality wise and you never or rarely meet anyone like that you’d know by common sense the probability of meeting another person like them will be low. That is something I have thought about, and I may value someone like that higher. What I have never thought about was anything remotely comparable to what the OP suggests, actually the OP is not autism it’s absolute brain rot tik tok garbage. I was wrong about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:59 PM
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Copy paste: It is your autism, I don’t treat dating like a poker game... Most people just date people until something works out.. they aren’t thinking about 6ft, 6 figures, 9in penis “oh this is a 0.01% guy maybe I don’t have a chance.” They literally just date people around them that they like and that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:50 PM
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It is your autism, I don’t treat dating like a poker game. Most people just date people until something works out.. they aren’t thinking about 6ft, 6 figures, 9in penis “oh this is a 0.01% guy maybe I don’t have a chance.” They literally just date people around them that they like and that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:47 PM
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I would consider it more financially responsible to live with parents while saving up for a down payment than to waste money renting knowing you can’t afford a home. Home ownership is the single biggest money saver. If I were single today I’d get a trailer.. or one of those pre-built homes for $19,000 plus a lot to put it on.. I don’t go into debt for cars, going into a debt for a house not only is normal it’s a great investment.. It’s not financially responsible to think you have to live above …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:40 PM
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I’m not autistic. It’s really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:09 PM
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People don’t tolerate that behavior out of love they do it for selfish reasons.. like being taken care of by a rich guy.. You seriously think the goal of someone tolerating that is a healthy relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:25 AM
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You’ve made it pretty clear you’re in this for money. You’re not a victim..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:13 AM
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Literally nobody thinks about statistics when dating.. And who gives a eff about hair color??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:10 AM
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I put off looking at houses until I was in a relationship that was heading towards marriage which meant I had a home by 25 but if that didn’t happen I would have probably still rented. If either me or my husband would have had a home then we wouldn’t have been able to pick out a house together in a location we both liked. There are pros to not owning a home when single. Now.. Never wanting to own a home until retirement like you do is absolutely a red flag. That I would consider complacent, low …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:04 AM
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People used to understand that people who chase novelty will be more likely to cheat because they will be less likely to be satisfied settling down with one person. Woketards and feminists don’t like common sense because of what that says about them so now they deny science that indicates sex is a pair bonding experience. Women care less about men’s past but that doesn’t mean men are unaffected. Anybody with a brain would have some level of care about a persons past including their sexual histor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:04 PM
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His actions didn’t demonstrate a miscommunication, it demonstrated a lack of empathy.. You are excusing not holding him accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:29 AM
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If he wouldn't have back off when she screamed. Since he is taking advantage of her. You are not holding him accountable, you are excusing his behavior when he has a history of not caring about her well being.. Just because he didn’t rape her doesn’t mean he didn’t try to take advantage of the situation.. You could have made up a situation to discuss the topic you chose to downplay abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:18 AM
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You are downplaying abuse because you are failing to recognize that this was not a situation of miscommunication. Why haven’t you considered that he possibly used her moment of vulnerability to his advantage? You were the one who made the post did you not know he has a pattern of behavior or did you just ignore it? Out of all the people to give the benefit of the doubt too it’s someone who lies and threatens to kill people?? Are you serious??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:10 AM
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What you are actually doing is downplaying his behavior which shows clear patterns of abuse in totality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:50 AM
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Yeah after reading he threatened to kill them in his car because he wasn’t invited to some YouTubers party this isn’t what that situation proves.. This isn’t a case of “miscommunication” this appears to be a situation between an abuser and a victim. Apparently he also said, “I never threw my phone at her. I stopped when she said it was giving her bruises…” Sounds like he threw something at her and his word is meaningless. No idea why this was the example you thought of when discussing non-verbal…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:39 AM
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It’s really hard to imagine myself being attracted to women.. I’d probably be gay if I were a man.. and 25% of 0 is still 0 we cannot both be unemployed that would not work and the only unemployed person I have room for in my life is myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:37 AM
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What? How do you know she is going for an 8? Maybe she is just going for someone who has their own place?? Your conclusion doesn’t seem to stem from a logical place. How did this story jump from she unmatched you because you are living with your parents to she wants someone more attractive that makes no sense.. Also why does it matter if she can replace you with someone better or not? Are you really this invested in someone you just met who is that hypocritical anyways..? Seriously just move on …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:41 AM
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Most of the time they are attractive but I have also been approached by men who are not physically on the level of men I’d ever consider dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:20 AM
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That’s my vision without glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 11:40 AM
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Ngl I was on the OPs side until you brought up the dude was unconscious. That definitely changes things. Thanks for bringing me back to reality lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:15 AM
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I find approaches annoying because of the frequency. In college I had to walk through the woods or men would be approaching me or trying to give me rides on my way to class daily. Today I have to avoid certain styles of clothing, I like video games/anime but if I wear clothes of that aesthetic or that signal I game, I could be approached 5 times in one Costco trip and I do not enjoy frequent disruptions. Once a month is complimentary, daily or multiple times in one outing is frustrating to deal …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 04:07 PM
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Democrats have supported prison work programs along with republicans for all of history this is not a partisan issue. What the hell kind of revisionist history is this?? Your party was central to these programs even existing.. You radical lefties keep pretending you’re the party of the people while you gut the middle class and keep them in poverty with the lower classes making escape from poverty impossible.. You just use words like voluntary to sound better but eating, needing shelter and retir…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 09:38 PM
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lol what.. the amendment you probably have no idea your referring to was ratified in 1865 and was part of the amendment abolishing slavery that was supported by democrats and republicans… Stop trying to revise history to fit your smear campaign..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:36 PM
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Most perfection you see on instagram or tok tok is filters/make up. I have seen too many of those women in person to compare myself to something I know isn’t real. I have had friends who did OF or were prostitutes so I know what they look like de-glammed, without photoshop and not postured in weird poses that makes their bodies look way sexier than they actually are… I could also view no make up pictures of most celebrities and that helps me appreciate the way I look… Also I live in America and …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:00 PM
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My original question, was whether or not someone understands the paradox of tolerance. And then you spewed untrue but very prominent leftist political propaganda as an “example” lmao. But suddenly when you were called out for being detached from reality you claimed “it’s not real it’s just an example.” Ok bud. 👍Thanks for admitting that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 04:57 PM
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Oh so your examples just happened to be weird political propaganda that moralized what democrats per performatively posture themselves to be and demonized a caricature of what democrats notoriously misrepresent republicans as... Weird how you’d push a false narrative instead of attaching your idea to something real. So you have nothing real to tie your ideas too then..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 04:43 PM
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One person thinks everyone should live happily without interference from the government. No they don’t. They absolutely want government interference you are completely out of touch with reality. The only thing democrats don’t want the government interfering in is crime even violent crime.. One other person thinks colored people should be slaves to serve cacausian people. 2 completely made up groups of people. However the left is tolerant to slavery that is why they want the illegal immigrants he…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 04:27 PM
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No, I don’t dress like I just walked out of a sex store in public because I’m not a fucking pedophile trying to show off in front of peoples kids..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 12:10 AM
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My husband asked, other men did not but the other guys already knew I was waiting for marriage so they wouldn’t have asked anyways. Small community of people and everyone felt entitled to tell anyone my business for whatever reason. However the was a mix of men who clearly preferred higher or lower body count partners. I do think body count is common for men to think about especially when deciding if they will still around long or short term because my sluttier friends had a revolving door of me…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:18 PM
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What? Single women don’t report being happier than married women in surveys… Maybe you mean single women are happier than single men though? Marriage is a significant predictor of happiness for women.. Single women are happier than single men because women tend to have larger social circles and more support outside of relationships than men. That doesn’t mean they are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:53 PM
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Not in my experience. I know a red piller who makes 6 figures, is decently attractive, works out hard, has good social skills, pays for dates, and easily gets casual sex. He is also openly MAGA and even though I’m a republican I would never touch this guy with a 10 ft pole because he is lightly misogynistic and controlling. Yet I see young liberal feminist women who might be 11 years younger with him all the time ignoring all the dumb things he says and he is in my friend group so I have witness…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:54 PM
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I’m not trapped in any bull shit game I enjoy my life and I don’t pay for services that I don’t need. I was raised to understand what actual luxuries were and to save money appropriately. The same radical lefties complaining about the economy are spending $100 a month playing Pokemon go or buying video game cosmetics. I am a gamer myself and I’d never pay for game cosmetics that’s insanely dumb. The irresponsible spending is a monthly and weekly habit it’s not a rare occurrence. People will orde…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 05:52 PM
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Scenario A. I never needed a lot of friends to be happy I go for quality not quantity and I do not enjoy most people’s company to dedicate my free time to having experiences with them anyways. I have gfs I love and would miss them but the happiness I get from them does not compare to my husband and my family. Plus I’m like 8 mos pregnant with our daughter and I’d never give this up for anyone’s friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 05:23 PM
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It’s peoples own fault they are going bankrupt over a wedding.. It is not the systems fault.. You don’t have to simp so hard, holding people accountable for their actions is actually good for them. Also I just confirmed that the average rent payment is about 31% of the average American income so you just talked out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 05:10 PM
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I watch as you people screw yourselves over all the time because you have an infinite amount of knowledge at your fingertips and yet don’t know shit. Blame capitalism when people are starting their marriages off in debt because of the wedding? No that’s your own damn fault your priorities are not straight. I have 0 sympathy for you people once I realized how poor your decision making was. You people are paying to drink petroleum in cranberry juice because you are that stupid. I am not about to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 04:56 PM
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Nope hate your own stupidity and irresponsible financial decisions. People hire wedding planners instead of planning their own weddings.. If the button falls of their pants they go buy new $200 work pants instead of just sewing the button back on.. People pay for services that lower to middle income people used to do themselves such as making their own bread when bread makers actually do all the work for you including the kneading, yeast incubation, ect but taking 2-5 minutes to measure ingredie…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 04:49 PM
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How do you know it’s the content effecting his relationship and he didn’t seek out the content in response to how his relationship was making him feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:00 PM
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This could have been my own fault for not paying attention in school, but I didn’t understand my body’s anatomy or how it worked. I luckily learned quickly that penetration alone doesn’t typically lead to orgasms for women that is was actually clitoral stimulation.. sometimes I wonder how many women never discovered this. Schools should teach anatomy and its functions clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:30 AM
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Communication and social skills are definitely something you can learn. You posted this on Reddit which tells me you have access to a lot of damn information for free. Why don’t you go learn something instead of victimizing yourself on the internet??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:19 AM
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Have you tried showering daily? If guys who are attractive aren’t sleeping with you or offering on tinder that means you’re likely not attractive at all. Maybe lose 30lbs or something I never met a woman with this problem who was remotely attractive. Can you walk up a hill? This reminds me of that clip of pearl davis complaining guys won’t even have sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:17 PM
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Because a certain online crowd of people’s personalities are centered around being as bitter as possible for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:51 PM
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Martha that is xenophobic. I am American but I’m white so people are much more likely to have to ask me to speak up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:08 PM
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I value my sanity and peace enough to date someone I am more compatible with. I never have been in a romantic relationship where arguing was a monthly occurrence. I have family and people I have to interact with where that may be the case but I don’t yell we just have to agree to disagree or I walk away/ hang up the phone because that’s my coping skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:01 PM
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I know at the trailer park it is easier to hear the loudest ones but there are people outside your social circle that communicate differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:38 PM
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Did you know not everyone yells at their partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:30 PM
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Bigger=dominant applies to men’s body parts not women’s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:24 PM
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That’s how I got that joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:09 PM
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Therapy can work but it also doesn’t work for everybody. You could change but the risk isn’t worth it to me. I worked as a social worker so I worked with criminals and men yelling at me is very stressful. Living under that kind of stress would completely compromise my ability to feel like I could be myself and feel safe in my home. I can pick and choose which past behaviors I forgive based on how I perceive it could affect me in the worst case scenario. Same with employers, they can say they hir…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:05 PM
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I didn’t say I don’t believe your behavior can be fixed by therapy so don’t put words in my mouth. I would not risk dating a man who yells or has a history of anger issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:33 PM
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And some people microwave aluminum foil. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:24 PM
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It’s not a double standard to avoid men with behavior that make you feel unsafe and uncomfortable. You are wrongly making this about your therapy. It’s about your past behavior and what that could potentially mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:16 PM
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It’s not a double standard in your case at all. You clearly don’t seem to understand how your past behavior made others around you feel. A man who yells is intimidating and scary for women because it signals you lack control of your anger. If you knew that you’d know why women are avoiding you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:07 PM
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Because bigger are visually more attractive probably because it’s a sign of dominance. I’m not a size queen nor do I have dick size preferences because I have never been in a situation where one was too small but I do think a natural curiosity exists for most women about testing the limits until you realize it’s not actually more fun than average or smaller. I’m not passionate enough about dick size to be vocal about it..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:23 PM
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I follow guidance from the Bible since it lays out duties of wives there. However I also stay home so I do the cooking, cleaning, gardening, laundry, grocery shopping, if his pants rip or the button falls off I sew them, when he wakes up for work I also wake up and make breakfast and pack his lunch just stuff to make his life at home easier/more pleasant. I’m having his kids and I’ll be staying home with them and raising them preparing them for school.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:46 AM
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You found a Reddit comment and concluded that “lots of women like cervix stimulation.” Which isn’t supported because of the biology of the cervix being thin and easily broken. Also women are telling you (on your trusted source Reddit) that it is not a common pleasure source for most women. You are embarrassing yourself and men with actual big dicks who get laid would know their limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:48 AM
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You apparently don’t know the meaning of the word arrogant. Lmao at the suggestion comments on Reddit have more merit than my doctors advice which I can and do confirm by doing my own research not on Reddit.. Men who actually have big dicks know only a certain length can go in without causing pain... I’m pregnant. My placenta was over my cervix which is not where it’s supposed to be. I was told and confirmed via research that any penetration could result in serious complications for both me and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:29 AM
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I just had a conversation with my doctor recently about it you are not educating anybody you are clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:10 AM
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Do you realize the cervix is a thin layer of skin that can actually break and bleeds heavily if broken? Youd have to be close to a hospital or you could bleed out. It is almost comparable to having an artery nicked. This comment was absolutely uneducated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:55 AM
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A mod using the n word is crazy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:02 PM
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It does make sense because I know certain women who act that way in real life. Typically those women are really hot but there are women who used to be hot who let themselves go and didn’t lower their standards. Unfortunately they could have been attractive well into their thirties and forties. I recently went to a bachelorette party and there was no drinking because the bride did not want to deal with crazy behavior but of course that couldn’t happen as one chick managed to eat cheese until she …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:56 PM
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The problem is most of the mods don’t follow the rules. They are allowed to post off topic radical political rants here. They use personal attacks, don’t engage in good faith and even downvote which another mod said we are not supposed to do. Little do they know certain mods do all of that and there is no consequences. So I’m not surprised this was allowed to stay up because only two mods act like the rules apply to them anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:15 PM
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None of these jokes are actually funny. Youre just a lazy contrarian maybe that is why ppl get mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 05:26 PM
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This post didn’t even pretend to discuss dating. This sub is becoming a radical leftist squawk box. Trump isn’t even pro-life. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 05:04 PM
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I have lived in multiple states. I don’t believe that treatment is specific to women but it’s definitely a problem in broader society. Obviously I’m not going to accuse you of being that guy because I wouldn’t know but men who have friendships with women who are unattractive are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:30 PM
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Nope I can confirm men do not treat women they don’t find attractive kindly as I had similar experiences when I was in middle school/highschool. I had a hormonal condition that prevented me from developing and it required guidance from a doctor and medication for me to go through puberty. So basically I looked like a child until I was 17 almost 18 and absolutely no man wanted me or ever expressed interest in me until after I recovered. The treatment I received from men was night and day. Men act…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:25 PM
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Those podcasters could have been better leaders if instead of humiliating women in sexist rage baity ways they had integrity. Imagine if they gave well intended advice like “sex is a bonding experience and once you have sex with someone you won’t be able to rationally judge if they are a good partner for you.” Instead of calling them sociopathic whores meanwhile those same men are “spinning plates.” Maybe the best people to hold women accountable weren’t men who lack any accountability or duty t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 05:42 PM
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How often do you get approached by strangers? Depends on what I’m wearing. If I am wearing my gamer sweaters or dressed punky then I get approached daily. If I’m dressed more normal I would say weekly. How often do you get approached / shown sexual or romantic interest from a person you know? Hasn’t happened much since I have been married, this used to happen more frequently. Pretty much all my guy friends made “moves” which is why we don’t talk much anymore. Do you feel like you could find a se…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:48 AM
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Not angry but that will be the last time they hear from me or see me. I don’t care what the lie is I won’t date a mentally ill lier.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:02 AM
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Yeah that sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:00 PM
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My guy friends didn’t struggle to date and get hook ups in college they struggled after due to lack of shared spaces and not wanting to go to bars. They said they should have taken dating more seriously in college because now they believe they will die alone. People tend to underestimate how difficult it is to find a good partner and it’s easier to find that in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:20 PM
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Guys do talk about women’s bodies and who they’ve had crazy sex with. Ever heard the expression “it was like throwing a pencil down a hallway?” Some men even lie about who they had sex with.. I have even noticed men sharing their stash of nudes with their friends.. I remember when I was in high school and the guys were gossiping/ making fun of some chick who “allegedly” shoved a shampoo bottle up her vagina. People suck, this isn’t a new concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 04:35 AM
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I was summarizing your logic and pointing out how it could be used. I don’t agree with it. That should be clear. Again, I have never lied to get in a relationship or sleep with someone nor would I ever. Which is why I also don’t give advice to people of lying to cure their loneliness at the expense of others under any circumstances. That’s you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:01 PM
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So are you saying lying to get laid is worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:22 PM
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I don’t understand the relevance of this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:05 PM
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I can’t even put my finger on a “common” lie. The only commonality is learning about me or my standards and try to appear like someone I want. Which makes the lies different every time. Once I told a guy I wouldn’t date anyone who wasn’t taking school seriously (referring to him) and he began lying about his grades. I called him out on that and said that can’t be true because no one in that class even knows who you are because you never show up. I actually talked to a lot of guys who were truthf…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:52 PM
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lol at your claim I don’t understand. Your argument for men is essentially “effectiveness is separate from morality.” I could use that same argument to justify lying for any reason.. You just chose to apply your “logic” in a manner that is biased which I don’t find rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:03 PM
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No he repeated that lie to other women. Youre misunderstanding my situation, he lied about the women he was having casual sex with because the kinds of women he wanted for long term were a specific kind of woman: Christian and waiting for marriage. He did not want those women knowing he was morally inconsistent. Men lying about their virginity to lose it is just one of the examples I gave, there are many things people chose to lie/omit to get into relationships. And it is comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:49 PM
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This response is just you trying to pivot away from your own hypocrisy so you can criticize women for having the same game plan you give to men. Saying “lying isn’t moral but it works” isn’t you condemning that behavior you are encouraging it then trying to justify having it both ways and I don’t care to hear about anymore of your excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:58 PM
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You have defended men lying about their virginity be more romantically successful so you seem to understand why people lie to get relationships enough that you recommend it yourself. I never lied to get into a relationship because I trusted my outcomes would be better if I were honest even if it meant I’d be rejected. Lying to get into relationships was something I learned I had to be careful about men doing actually. One guy hid his own sexual history because he knew it wasn’t Christian and thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:32 PM
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Yeah that is why I had to learn how to show interest because the men I wanted tended to be respectful enough to step back if they felt I wasn’t interested. Most women didn’t struggle with social skills like I did and I observed that people prefer extroverts. There is just more nuance to leading in courtship than it being a game which it may be for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 02:15 PM
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I almost never texted first because I was shy but my interest would have been exposed in other ways like my enthusiasm to be talking to them and smiling a lot. Most of that I did subconsciously it’s very hard to mask your emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 01:24 PM
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No lol. It is very hard to ghost someone you actually want to talk too and like.. it’s more likely she is talking to someone better or forgot you exist. And pretending to have a bf is also is a typical strategy for men you have no interest in… You people cannot be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:44 AM
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None of this made any sense. It is against the rules to make new accounts to contact people who have blocked you on every social media platform that exists. People have done that to me and I have always reported that as harassment..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:34 AM
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If someone blocks you and you convince yourself they are “just playing hard to get” you are probably a stalker.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:06 AM
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What? Sex appeal isn’t a “male invention” women literally use that to their advantage all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:51 PM
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He found out his kid was actually fathered by a Mormon.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:20 AM
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You cannot apply morality selectively and expect meaningful change to happen. Sexism doesn’t work. If we acknowledge the problem is promiscuity then focus on the behavior and provide rationale to make better choices. Shaming promiscuity is often misinterpreted as shaming sexuality instead of encouraging people to be responsible with their sexuality. For example the rationale to not have casual sex would be because sex increases emotional attachment and clouds your judgement. There is a reason pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 09:42 PM
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Yes it does and it always has. 96% of women will be married at least once by the time they are 45-49…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:42 AM
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The group of women who are anti-marriage is so small it’s basically non-existent like nuns.. Fantasizing about marriage is something women have done across time. The themes of finding a life long partner have made up the majority of our favorite literature and our hobbies for a long time.. It has nothing to do with being religious or vapid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:17 AM
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That isn’t what the research says. A small percentage of children deviate from their parents political or religious ideologies. You people badly want to live in the land of make believe and people will/are noticing how full of shit you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:54 PM
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The parents have the most influence on how a child is raised. It’s not that hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:47 PM
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Well it seems to be a surprise to most men who get divorced. Even when everyone else knew she was a bitch beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:06 PM
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You give enough of a shit you fantasize about finding a lifelong partner then lie about it online. Even the martians would enjoy a good wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:25 PM
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I gave you worldwide data. 96% of women WORLDWIDE will get married at least once. And that literature has been popular amongst women across time. Nice try. And yes everyone saying women don’t fantasize about marriage is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:49 PM
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It is not a “cultural thing” you are lying. Global literature across time that has been popular with women has the theme of finding a lifelong partner that ends in marriage. Even in 50 shades of grey they get married.. Pinterest pages show me women from different cultures and backgrounds have all spent a lot of time fantasizing about marriage. Worldwide 96% of women will be married at least once. Both your house and head are on mars.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:42 PM
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Probably not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:12 PM
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Some women sure. Some women receive guidance from their parents and the Bible on the responsibilities that come with a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:08 PM
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Oh so men are marrying the wrong women then. Choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:01 PM
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This is disingenuous. I have literally never met a single woman in my life who was against marriage. They have full Pinterest pages of wedding rings dresses and accessories picked out by the time they are 18. It’s now a popular idea to travel for the proposal or “take your girl to Europe before you marry her.” Which my husband and I literally laughed at because we just got married without all these dumb rules you people have come up with. I see that a lot from liberal and feminist women also. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:40 PM
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I’m in the US. Can’t imagine anyone I know asking to be chocked that is weird. I think they prefer what you described as soft dom which I just looked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:57 PM
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My god the people posting in this thread are so retarded. I never read in the OP ideology was hereditary since that is the most obvious and lazy bad faith misinterpretation of the OP possible. That goes to show these people have nothing going on in their brains. Then the denial that how children are raised does have a meaningful impact on their ideology as adults is insane. I guess their plan is to indoctrinate other peoples children. Oh well people are already aware of you groomers but thanks f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:45 PM
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Well obviously that stuff matters to an extent. What it isn’t going to do is make me give up on my pursuit of happiness or waste time on people that won’t make me happy. Men here act as if other preferences don’t matter is the problem or that women never compromise on anything. Some women get better deals than others with no real explanation other than those two were compatible. The most attractive woman I know is dating a guy making half her salary and I don’t consider him attractive. I know an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:44 AM
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I’m well within the age range of women you claim you have experience with and we would have made fun of women like that almost unanimously.. I’m also from a conservative state and my college was conservative leaning. People talked about how weird she was for years..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:09 AM
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This is hard for me to even imagine. I remember a girl from college who wrote a paper about BDSM and she chose to present it to the class even though that part wasn’t required and we all made fun of her even the women. People were straight up laughing as she spoke. The professor was even uncomfortable. She wasn’t even attractive she was obese so the guys were all cringing in their chairs. It was the single most embarrassing thing I have witnessed. Yeah I’m aware the fifty shades of grey book was…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:50 AM
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Or just downvote them like I do.. We are supposed to downvote trolls and/or people who don’t engage in good faith. You are allowed to block people you don’t want to engage with
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:33 AM
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This is such a weird post for many reasons, because one: it assumes 50/50 relationships don’t exist. Two: someone who actually wanted to be a mother would do it regardless of if she would have to work and pay 50/50 or not. It would have never even occurred to me to try and charge someone for the biological realities of motherhood.. Especially when that was what I wanted. You don’t have children for paychecks, this is what the democratic welfare system has done to your brains. You are not entitle…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:11 AM
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