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What are you even trying to say? I genuinely am trying to understand. What did I say that gave you the opinion that we are helpless or clueless?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:04 AM
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Ok I'm sorry, but that's an outrageous take. If I see a gas station getting robbed, does me not rushing in and confronting the guy mean I'm agreeing that it's ok to rob stores? If I see someone shoplifting and don't confront them, does that mean I think that shoplifting is ok? The reason he feels safe doing that is because I(nor any other man) can really stop him besides maybe someone hitting them with trespass or something. He isn't breaking the law, and if you put your hands on someone else fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:41 AM
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If you are actually wondering, the other men are just...around? Like we are just living our lives. I can explain it in a way that hopefully helps. So my partner and I have been together for 10 years. She has a pretty big friend group and all of them are with someone as well. Several of these women have been harassed at the mall and they all can explain it, because it's the exact same dickhead. So this one guy is out there harassing and annoying women all day long. So that brings me to me and all…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:03 AM
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Oh is that all it is? Damn if only we were in different times my schizophrenia would have never developed! Glad I knew that.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 02:01 PM
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As horrendous as this all is, you don't know SHIT until you start recording every conversation you have with a BPD lover and show them that they actually did say something later. You know the "I never said that!" lines? Imagine the horror on their faces when they hear that they did. After seeing her reaction, I'm honestly confused whether or not she actually does remember saying it. A large part of me feels like they are just living in an alternate reality entirely.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 03:25 PM
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As a disabled dude, I'll put in my two cents. If you hate/struggle with exercise, pick whatever form of exercise you hate the least and just do it. I know lifting makes you look amazing, but so does swimming and being. The swimmer's body is a thing for a reason. Also, don't start anything at all once. If you are a lazy fatass, just go take a walk. Just start with a walk, and the next day do it again, but a little bit further(even anothet 100 feet or 30 seconds). Eventually in a month this small …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 07:49 PM
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That's true, but it also helped me not feel like dog shit. Eating carbs I always feel tired and my joints hurt. Giving that up I have even energy and actually want to exercise.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 08:55 AM
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This is funny to me because I specifically only ever watch porn that are solo girls for that exact reason. I don't need or have any desire to see some dude pounding some chick. If I want that, I have enough motivation to BE that guy. Instead if I decide to watch it, it's about that woman alone.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 04:10 AM
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I would absolutely put the wrath of hell out of someone who tore up my memories. I don't collect things and have barely enough possessions to fit into a single room, so if I had a picture, it means it has a lot of personal value to me. If some chick rips up a 20 year old picture because she's jealous, there's going to be hell to pay.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 11:31 AM
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I'm curious about your post. I have "patchy" facial hair but it does grow fuller. However, some of it grows at 5x the rates of the other hair. How the hell do i let it go for 4 months while having some hairs 2-3 inches long and some hair 1/4th of an inch without looking like I just came out of a fucking D&D meeting?
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 11:29 AM
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As someone who was relentlessly called "cute" and "baby faced," maximize that shit. Chicks flocked the boy bands and rarely did they have massive manly faces. It's the package of being extremely fit and confident. Obviously if you are a burly ass man with body hair and a weathered face, beard is a different great asset to that type of man.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 11:28 AM
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I don't honestly think it's niche. The reason I say this is because I have constantly heard women say "Oh I thought I wasn't a beard girl but then I met/saw X and now I find them really sexy!" Obviously there are things that women like(muscular low BF and the like) but things like beard are more about the man feeling confident and the woman likes it BECAUSE she finds the guy attractive.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 11:26 AM
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I've always heard this, and while it's got to be true for many men, when I tried doing this, it made me feel like a hollow shell of a person. I know that I was still like 90% firmly in bitch mode, but after my last LTR and I split up(what pushed me 100% into TRP) I slept with 3 different girls soon after. All it did was make me want to leave and immediately cry in the car because it reminded me of my ex. As before, I was totally in bitch mode but I think even knowing what I do now, it would stil…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 11:20 AM
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This is a pretty simple, great guide. I lost about 90 pounds so far and I'm down to 24% body fat. I still have another 30-40 pounds I want to lose but yes when you are in it, it's just so simple to do it. You also never realize how much you have lost until one day 60 pounds in you suddenly go "oh wait what is going on this shirt is way too big I remember not even being able to fit in it." However I think many people who lose a lot struggle with never feeling like they lost enough. Also big boned…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 04:31 AM
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I seriously doubt that. If you consider that almost 90% of all divorces are filed by women, then that would mean that even if every single man was only filing to bang other chicks, then only 20% of divorces are because of being unhappy and wanting to find someone else.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 07:46 AM
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This has been a rough one for me. I grew up a people pleaser by having my mom be unmedicated bipolar from an early age. It was like a survival mechanism to be able to read and basically predict her future mood for the next hour or so. Obviously I didn't want to get grounded for eating too loud or whatever when she was in the wrong mood, I got incredibly good at instantly reading people and changing my mood. As an adult it constantly permeates my life. I would never call myself beta at all,but so…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 06:17 AM
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Do you have any real tips for people who need to take medications(very real need for health issues)? Taking my medication on an empty stomach absolutely takes me on a one way trip to stomachache city. It makes me feel like my guts are actually tearing themselves apart for 2-3 hours after. It wouldn't be the biggest deal but I have to take my meds twice a day. Any way you know of to fast while stopping that?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 05:59 AM
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I certainly wouldn't call women stupid. That's a bit ridiculous. I went to engineering school and some of the women I met there made me feel like a total dumbass even though I excel intelligently(wish the facial genetics were a bit more kind though). You need to see there's a difference between being stupid and just being "in the moment" emotional where things don't matter to them.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 05:50 AM
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My one huge weakness isn't even staving off the oneitis, it's staving off the co-dependency. I was raised by a single mother blue as they came and even after really transforming how I act and think, if I am not on my game, I start slipping back. I'll start noticing that I stop wanting to do things by myself and start wanting to do them more in an LTR, and not even because SHE is special, but because doing things together is "special" to me. It really murders any attraction someone has for me unt…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 05:45 AM
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While I agree with part of what you are saying, the last part is total shit. Studies done literally show you gain more muscle on Test E while sitting on your ass playing Playstation than you do natty and training properly. http://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJM199607043350101
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 02:30 AM
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Not with 1/10th the ease. You have to really fight the trend for a long while before it works. Not only that, but prepared for an absolutely unbelievable amount of shit testing.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 03:59 AM
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Literally laughing at this comment. I'll have to remember your thoughts next time I pop my daily schizophrenia meds that all they do is make me a slave to women instead of flailing around at random people in paranoia.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 11:32 PM
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Christ same here. I'll shit out a book and seconds after I send it think "oh god did I just let that happen." Instead I just try to send it to close male friends to irritate them.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 02:39 AM
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It was honestly a bit of both. The issue has always been that I am extremely bright(I'm not bragging it was honestly part of the issue) and as such I didn't do my homework. It was always explained to me that the point of homework was "to fully learn and understand what was taught." I didn't ever feel like I needed to. My school had a final grading system of 30% homework/70% tests. I typically had a 40-50% in homework and a 95-100% in test grades. I simply didn't believe it was worth my time to w…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 05:34 PM
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Well my parents never paid me for my grades. They actually would ground me if I got a B or lower until the next semester finished. It actually fucked me up a lot harder than anything paying me ever would have. After being ground from TV, video games, talking to friends, or going and doing things for almost a year and a half, I just said fuck it and accepted that was my new life and stopped trying,
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 12:39 AM
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Funny story about this app. I asked my sister and girlfriend both "Have you heard about this app I think it's called Makeapp or something?" Immediately without hesitating, both of them absolutely went insane on a 5 minute rant about how horrible it was and degrading and shameful and all of these things. I didn't even say anything about it, just asked if they had heard of it. With my sister I kept pressing her on WHY it made her mad, and she couldn't actually give me a reason but kept bringing up…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 03:47 PM
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I could say depending on what you want, pick someone who you need more. I'm schizophrenic and I see two different therapists. One who is all action and helps me try to "normalize" myself so to speak. It's all action and essentially just tons of workshop type stuff and planning and it really helps me function. However I also see a woman therapist and the entire point of seeing her is that I have a lot of fucked up thoughts and such I can't help. I can't bottle that shit up but I refuse to burden …
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 11:18 AM
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At the same time, the few times I have ever really fell for someone, things went to shit pretty quickly(infrequent sex, random bitchiness). Taught me extremely quickly how important it was to essentially not give a shit about things and never take things seriously when it comes to romance.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 09:57 PM
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I think you hit the nail on the head. If you were to ask every single woman who has probably ever spoken to me, they would say I am a massive asshole. If something isn't important to me, i couldn't care less. I have no time for drama or whining. I will drop someone instantly if I get the feeling that they aren't worth bothering with. I look out for myself and do whatever I feel is the best thing for me. However, if you talk to most guys that know me, they would say I am a dependable guy who isn'…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 02:41 PM
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Absolutely. When you know the best ways to do things, you know what to look for and expect in other skilled peers. The problem with untrained people or novices is that they act erratically in ways you wouldn't anticipate under the thought of "no one would be dumb enough to do x".
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 04:46 AM
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That's the best way and the thing I do as well.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 07:51 PM
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Damn that's really too bad. I would get in on that.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 05:44 PM
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The Statham part couldn't be more correct. There is 0 reason to have your girlfriend or whatever friends on Facebook or whatever you are doing. First, they are going to scour your page and know everything about you at all times. This kills your mystery. Second, you really don't want to see all the other guys up her ass 24/7. It's mostly the first though.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 05:38 PM
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Being schizophrenic is such a double-edged sword, because it's damn near impossible for me to hold eye contact, but my blunted expressions are pretty much guaranteed permanent stoic face.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 07:16 AM
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I think that's the part alot forget here. Obviously AWALT, but that means all women are easily capable of cheating, not that they will. A great many will be miserable, and a rare few might actually stay happy in their relationship. The man who keeps his woman happy forever though has got to be the real unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 07:08 AM
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A huge word of caution on turning down sex is that you are about to have to weather some unbelievable shit tests shortly after. There will be a massive plea of "You don't find me attractive this hurts so much I can't believe you rejected me." There are many ways to react to this, but placating and explaining yourself is certainly not the correct way to do it if you want to apply actual dread. Oh also don't go full MGTOW and start screaming about "HOW DOES IT FEEL!?"
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 09:30 PM
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Interesting you bring this up. I think it's something important to talk about. Obviously we should all know that never applying any comfort will result in this problem, but applying dread is honestly just a form of adjusting your SMV in her eyes specifically. The reason I bring this up is because even if a 4/10 guy is with a 3/10 girl and he starts lifting a bit and applying dread, he's going to APPEAR like a 6-7/10 for her. If he never lets off, eventually she will crack under the pressure and …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 09:26 PM
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Exact words I got from an ex after I lost weight and got my shit together was "Why didn't you care enough about me to lose weight and try so hard when we were together? It just hurts knowing you didn't really love me." This is coming from the person who cheated on me and left me for someone else after 4 years together who I beta'ed the fuck out and begged not to leave because I loved her so much. The solipsism was so unreal that me improving myself after a breakup was a personal attack on her.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 05:31 PM
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I was in a seriously long LTR who always pulled the "is it always going to be like this we fight all the time! It's nearly every day!" Finally I got so annoyed whenever we even had a minor back and forth I wrote every single incident down with details and date. Finally she whipped it out again in an argument like 5 months later and it turned out that we had "fought" 7 times in all those months, and most of them were 5 minute irritations where we had a back and forth and forgot about it. Then she…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 12:13 AM
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Considering we are still applauding one president for talking about incorrect wage numbers of women(Obama) and another one running half on the platform of "It's her turn" and "It's time to get a woman in the white house," we aren't even remotely close to being nicer to fathers. If we can suddenly push every single problem on white men, it's a nice distraction for quite a long time.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 06:30 AM
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I like what you are saying but really have one question for you. You say you go to the gym to have fun with people and pal around and joke and laugh. I'm not exactly the most in shape dude yet, but I am well on my way to it(dropped about 85 pounds and I'm nearing the weight loss finish line) and while I am in the gym I am so near collapsing exhausted I don't honestly think I could talk to someone if I tried. By the time I leave through the doors my legs are shaky and I'm guzzling my water and ha…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 08:50 AM
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Christ alive dude if I would have read this as a 17 year old I would have absolutely died. It took me nearly 10 more years to really figure out the "what's weird what isn't weird christ I hope I'm not coming off like a pushy dick." This pretty succinctly spelled out all of the stuff I learned and then some into a perfect digest.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 01:16 AM
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I have a contact in my phone called "No answer" that is stuffed full of about 10 numbers from girls at this point. I like it even more that way because even though I've come a long way, sometimes I still get beta feelings pretty strongly. By having them all under one contact, I don't even know who the hell is contacting me, so even if I wanted to respond to it, I would be sending a response to 10 girls while also caving in.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 02:08 PM
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Stop looking to the woman's natural inclinations and the world's toxic conditioning as the final authority. "Stop looking at what a woman does biologically as well as what society tells her to do which both happen to align to say the same exact thing." Do you even realize how silly that sounds? Logic and reason should be a strong suit, and if you are hedging your bets on a woman fighting off both her natural desires AND what everything around her tells her, then either you are somewhat foolish o…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 04:47 PM
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Actually he said that they almost always do, which is true. He said that when the woman DOES end it, then it's because of what he said. He said "this is how is goes when the woman breaks up with the man" and then you said "YEAH BUT I CAN ASSURE YOU THAT WHAT YOU SAID ISN'T TRUE WHEN THE MAN DOES IT," which he never even said was the case. Also you are talking about intentionally fucking things up with a girl. If that means you start treating her badly or whatever until "she leaves you," then she…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 04:44 PM
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Third, emotional investment makes you stupid and saps you of your vitality and awesomeness. Tons interesting, smart, funny, cool, successful guys become vacant shells of their normal selves around women, partly because their thoughts and emotions are empty of everything that makes them awesome. This needs to be posted at least a thousand times more for everyone to see. I know so many amazing men who do so many great things, but as we all know, when men become "serious" with a woman they just fuc…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 03:23 PM
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The women I know just do enough to "pass standards" or "get by and not get in trouble." Whenever I ask about going for a promotion or anything, it's always "well more money would be nice but..." and just trail off or give me half-assed reasons why they can't put forth the effort required. The only women I know who aren't like that are all nurses or caregivers. My sister basically kills herself to make sure her patients in the ICU are always looked after and cared for properly. She will even pick…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 06:57 PM
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How will you possibly get an additional dopamine spike of "oh boy someone texted me!" while also getting it from working out? The ultimate high!
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 05:52 AM
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I'm always glad to see shit like this. Every time the male hamster in my brain even remotely looks at the wheel in the other side of the room, I see a post like this. I want to scream and say "that's fucking moronic when someone wants your help or wants your opinion or needs you, then you should listen because that's what being a decent person is." I just know that in doing that, you are screwing yourself over.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:02 AM
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I agree with you 100%, however that's now how others and society see it. Not just women, but people in general almost always need blame somewhere, even when it's not anyone's "fault". What I mean is like this. Say I have plans to go with a lady. She and I are close enough to know that I have a few problems with my health. Now let's say the day of, I have a really bad cardiac function and my chest is hurting and I feel tired and can barely move. I absolutely cannot go in that shape, or if I could…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 10:54 PM
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I think this is the MUCH more important part. The original post is great, but this is the main takeaway. In the objective sense, it is NOT my fault that I became a schizophrenic, nor my fucked up heart. It is my parents' faults for having bad genes and passing that genetic lottery onto me. There is no shitting way I did anything for that to happen. However, as your post says, it doesn't actually matter whether or not it's objectively my fault. All that matters is that because of my problems, the…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 09:02 PM
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Birthday cat is the ultimate test online to see if a woman is interested. Even as a blue pilled moron yesrs ago I noticed and also loved to fuck with people on Facebook by sending random pictures from the pusheen cat. Their reactions usually cracked me up. I actually noticed quickly that women would either not respond or would send me or 4 or so texts in a row starting what "what the hell is that" and ending around "so you aren't going to respond to me now...ok then I don't know what i did."
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 11:30 AM
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You might be on to something, but my genetics are completely fucked and I do not function without meds. The bulk of people on my dad's side of the family either suicided or murder then suicided. When I hit 13 something felt very off. I loved working out and still do, and naturally get that feel good rush when you move some weight around, but for some people it's more than that. For some people we really should have just died the fuck out from natural selection, but in the modern era we live. I h…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 10:52 PM
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I feel like I seriously need to doc shop a bit then. I had my doctor check it twice and he told me it was "still in normal range for males". I ended up getting getting the results myself and looking. 231 and 263. Maybe that's normal for a 75 year old, but I'm 28 and tired as shit 24/7 and my workout recoveries take DAYS to stop feeling sore.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 01:25 AM
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Absolutely I agree, but there's also the weird camp I keep seeing more now lately of "If it fits your macros", especially in women, where they will destroy some starbucks and a scone, then eat nothing but celery and shit the rest of the day, all while still losing weight. It's entirely possible to go on a diet and lose weight while staying under calories while eating almost entirely processed foods.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 06:50 PM
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You do know that keto isn't enitrely eliminating carbs? I can eat about 60-70g a day of carbs and still remain in ketosis. You can eat enough carbs to keep your muscles filled a bit and be fine. Eating insane amounts of proteinon keto is actuallybad like you said. It's hard on the kidneys too. I think most people forget to mostly eat fats. The only thing I can agree with is being pretty deep into a state of ketosis makes you smell like a dying animal 7 hours after a shower. I think honestly thou…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 09:18 AM
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Some of this is true, but at the same time I'd literally rather kill myself than not take my schizophrenia meds because "big pharma profit."
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 04:00 AM
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On the one hand, I want to agree with you. On the other hand the only reason I dropped 120 pounds was because I couldn't let myself accept that I was ok being fat and out of shape. My lack of acceptance was the prime motivator.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 09:19 PM
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As someone who used to be a fat fuck and has a heart condition, thar sounds more like you should probably do a bit of cardio. Even with a fucked up heart, it can generally keep going while eventually the muscles get too soreand give out.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 09:15 PM
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The thing you are mentioning that bugs me is I had mine checked and it came up 260 as a 27 year old, and my doctor told me that's totally fine and normal. Am I missing something here? My workout recoveries last for what seem like days.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 02:07 PM
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That last paragraph is ridiculous how true it is. Had a girl I was talking to say "if you buy me a few wings from (local place a lot of people like wings from) I'll fuck you later." She was telling the truth.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 11:43 PM
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While I agree with you, there actually is something real with the whole "positive affirmations" thing. When you are so deeply ingrained to do one set of things for so long, you naturally need repeated reminders for the first bit to actively change what you are doing.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 11:33 PM
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Couldn't agree more. As a dude with a heart condition, my life was always "this feels a little bad I'm scared and need to stop." Through trial and error I realized I can go so much further and there is definitely a feeling of "stop this now or get the fucking nitro tablet", but I was nowhere near it before. Getting to that point was 90% mental.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 02:31 PM
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Unlike what most people say, I found the beginning of lifting to be the shit part. I am a disabled guy from having a fucked up heart, and after getting weight lifting cleared(somewhat) I got in there with the most fucked up muscle imbalances imaginable. My hips and abs are so weak that I can't even squat without my spine turning into the St Louis Arch, and my heart gives me blackout eyes anytime I try to do standing core lifts. Since that was happening, I am in the process of about 9 months of t…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 12:04 PM
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Can you tell me the name of said pill?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 10:05 AM
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You can't be serious. A man's normal complaint is a woman's "I think she made a slightly different expression for an instant", only it doesn't just go away and permanently fucks things up with her opinion of you for quite a while.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 02:20 AM
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Holy shit that original post on the relationships sub makes me want to kill myself. I'm full blown disabled from heart problems and god damn if that's how people think of me, might as well blow my brains out now.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 07:50 AM
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Probably because of your upbringing. I'm not even kidding. I was raised to be ashamed of everything and never feel good about anything I did, and even now I still can't always shake it. Not surprising consider I was raised by a single mother with bipolar. The crazy thing is that I developed schizophrenia about 5 years ago and even with a complete like of empathy or caring, I still find myself feeling unsure of myself because it's so entrenched in "me".
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 07:24 PM
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I was like 'ok that's not too bad" until I saw cucumber. I would rather eat a piece of bread that fell on a hairy floor than a cucumber slice.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 12:10 AM
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No he's talking about dating a girl(or being married) and letting the world walk all over you but still having a wife that still wants to fuck you.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 12:06 AM
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I have the opposite problem. I've lost about 80 pounds now. I've gone down 2 shirt sizes. When I walk past mirrors I think "holy fuck have I even lost any weight. I swear I've actually gotten bigger since before I started losing weight. What the fuck is going on?" Bit of a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 04:57 PM
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I have a question that I've been curious about for a long period of time. You say that manipulation is a learned thing from observation. I think this is definitely true. You observe other people do it, and follow suit. However, you also talk about "how would you feel if every time you had sex, you had a chance to get stuck carrying a baby for 9 months." That however is no longer true. Most younger women I know have had at least one abortion, and I know a few in particular are nearing double digi…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 04:56 PM
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I can't tell if you are being sarcastic or not. If you haven't looked into it, there is an ENTIRE subreddit dedicated to long term relationships with TRP mindset. The main takeaway when people say things like "It's just your turn" is that if you go through life as the average man, it will just be your turn, into you get stuck in a dead-end marriage. I watched my own father do it, then my stepfather, and so on. What the LTR subreddit focuses on is exactly what made my current stepfather keep arou…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 04:32 PM
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The part about 200 selfies is definitely correct. I am a person that many people call handsome, but I look like a fucking foot in nearly every single picture I've ever had taken. There's something about making sure you smile and do something perfectly for a picture I don't have. That doesn't stop people from talking to me and women telling me how handsome I am though.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 05:43 PM
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I really try my hardest to not jump on the "fuck women they are awful" train, and I usually never do. Women are pretty great and they offer a lot of things men struggle with. They are fun to be around generally. Women have a lot. However the single thing I find more true every single day, is that women just do not have hobbies. Every time I ask a woman about hobbies, I either get nothing, or I literally get "you know facebook and instagram, things like that." Staring at the lives of other people…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 09:53 AM
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Anywhere between 5 foot and 5'3".
/r/askTRP08/07/16 09:04 PM
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This is one of the things I found I was actually doing even while almost totally BP. It would turn me off how a girlfriend in an LTR would turn me down for sex and it be fine, but then if I would turn her down, I was expected to coddle her as she literally cried and played the "you don't find me attractive enough what did I do wrong I don't understand" for 3 hours. I eventually got to the point where I would pretty much literally say "Who gives a shit I get turned down constantly. Grow up." I sh…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 07:54 PM
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You want to talk about an even stronger dynamic than what you just said? I still sometimes have a hard time separating sex and love(I just can't seem to beat it out of me I always catch hard feelings after every fuck and have to kill it, but it's always hard). I've learned that the romantic "making love" shit is complete horse shit for at least 90% of women. Every girl I've ever been with, even a 9 year relationship before I was RP she always told me "sorry but it's just sex to me. It's just som…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 07:48 PM
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Keep it going my man. I am there with you. 9 year relationship down the shit after I got sick and let myself get weak. You have to realize that maybe you messed up, but you learn from it, realize you have unlimited worth as long as you work for it, and you go on. It took me 2 months to work out the grief, and I still feel it almost every day, but you learn that you are much stronger than you thought you were, and it makes you feel invincible.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 06:41 PM
2

Jesus fucking christ. I just got out of a 9 year relationship when I was blue pilled as fuck. All the signs were there that's in here. Everything said here is exactly how it she explained it. "I did love you and I always will and I tried so hard to get those feelings back but I couldn't and I can't ever again. I'm sorry." So then one night we get into a huge argument a few weeks later, and she drops that fucking bomb on me. "All you EVER wanted was sex you never cared about me in the last 6 mont…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 05:52 AM
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Nah she was my first oneitis so I acted like a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 07:29 AM
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Couldn't agree more. When I was in an LTR about 10 years back, my best friend was killed in a car wreck. At that point I had been exclusive with this girl for about 6 months. I broke down crying about it finally one day out of nowhere. She asked what was wrong and I told her I finally was feeling something(I had never really felt that sense of loss and pain until that moment). A year later we broke up and she actually brought that shit up about how she always knew I was weak because I cried over…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 11:05 PM
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Thanks for the words man. That's kind of what I'm trying to do is really internalize all the shit I need to understand instead of trying to keep working out the "why did it" shit. I already understand it all, just trying to wake myself up from the dreamworld I was kind of living in.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 11:01 AM
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Very true. I just kind of felt like I should be, considering she wasn't really invested in it, so I logically tried to work out how it wasn't even worth my time. I somewhat let myself go, so I'm getting back into working out and losing a bit of weight to try to carry me just a bit, considering my game is about a decade old of rust.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 11:00 AM
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