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Get out of your own ass. Figure out why you aren't getting anywhere, is it because you suffer from social anxiety/ADD/ASD/NPD/Other? Find out how you connect with other people. I guarantee you haven't given this nearly enough thought.
/r/seduction02/05/19 04:38 PM
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At least you admit it.
/r/seduction22/03/19 11:51 PM
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As for frame, I never said that I don't have frame, merely that I like to let her frame her own experience. Meaning that if she wants my frame, she can have it. But that's her choice, and I don't care one way or the other. ​ Edit: Thank you for answering the question directly. I appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 11:27 PM
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Are you truly MGTOW? Why do you believe that I have to declare what I want to her? She'll know what I want, just by the fact that I'm there. Calling it something different is up to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 11:26 PM
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Oh, I suppose it's not the most coherent. It's rather metaphysical though, in my defense. I was merely trying to explain the relationship dynamic between a potential mate and myself. The main point being that I don't find myself tied down, but she is free to act as she wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 11:25 PM
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Does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 11:24 PM
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Caught me, I worship at the shrine of your lies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 11:24 PM
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Yeah, that's what I mean. Honest and no-bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 11:22 PM
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What would make me RP?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 11:21 PM
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I know what you mean, but at the same time, there are those awful posts that garner all the "concern-trolling" complaints. I mean, would everyone die if we all just admitted that people in general can be pretty shitty? Some of the stuff in TRP is straight up woman-hating masquerading as advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 11:21 PM
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I guess I could try? I haven't had enough sleep to be creative I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 11:18 PM
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I only speak english, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 08:07 PM
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meta
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 08:07 PM
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Thanks for your input. Are you RP or BP?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 08:07 PM
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Okay, good to keep in mind that different groups have different needs. As I said, women are pretty good at self-selecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 08:06 PM
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Interesting. This is the first time that I have seen this term. I shall have to do more research...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 08:05 PM
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I guess I look for lies, and if I see one, I leave. And about a year, both were uninvested, but it benefited both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 08:05 PM
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Interesting that you find my view to align with BP thought, as another poster suggested that I might be a follower of RP thought. What makes you think that? I talk about holding the power and leaving whenever she doesn't call, which sounds pretty RP to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 08:03 PM
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Interesting that you find my view to align with TRP, as another poster implied that my views were very BP. Is there anything inherently wrong or unhealthy about my approach? I don't mind becoming more attached as the relationship progresses I suppose, but the above holds true at a basic level.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 08:02 PM
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I mean, is the "letting her lead" approach uncommon?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 08:00 PM
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Not so. I'm actually super depressed about something related to the above. The above worked great, but something else screwed it up. I've had some time to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 08:00 PM
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tl;dr, I don't care if she dumps me, I let her come to me, I spend a lot of time listening.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 07:59 PM
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Just my outlook on dating in your 20s, as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 07:59 PM
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Why do you make that assumption? You don't know me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 07:58 PM
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See my edit. You could have just answered the question instead of resorting to namecalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 05:12 PM
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Thank you for your honest input. I don't see my understanding as transactional, but perhaps I am wrong. I simply feel that if she wishes to build the relationship beyond its initial stage, then she will have to put in the effort to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 05:10 PM
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Well if you really read the whole thing, then I'm sure something would have stood out to you...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 05:08 PM
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This is why I never ask people online for their opinions, because inevitably someone from /r/iamsmart will show up with their malformed take on nihilism to try to prove something. I just wanted to ask a damn question.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 05:07 PM
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What about my post is bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:58 PM
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Is this at my post or who you're replying to?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:57 PM
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Yes, we're all ghosts riding meat-coated skeletons, but that's not what this sub is about. I meant the above quite literally, which you seem to be intentionally ignoring. By "her" I mean personality/soul/brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:57 PM
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This is a debate sub and I asked a question I had.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:55 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:53 PM
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Did you read my post? You didn't answer either of my questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:53 PM
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If you are ready to fuck immediately, then she is the one will be deciding if sex takes place. Therefore, she needs to feel comfortable. And coming off as clingy and desperate and needing attention is not showing value because it makes you look weak. Seriously, why would she feel safe enough to have sex with you if she thinks that you'll protect your own feelings before her needs (her feelings). Think of it like opening the door. You'd do it for any woman, whether or not you want to sleep with h…
/r/seduction09/12/18 08:17 PM
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Nah man. If you're already DTF, then fucking is up to her. So she better like the things that you do. All you're doing is putting your needs first, which is not attractive in the least. If all you want out of a relationship is cuddles and cutesy texts from Pintrash, then you're probably too young/not ready to date.
/r/seduction09/12/18 06:25 PM
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Stop thinking about yourself and actually care about the other person. These things aren't about you, they're about her. SHE doesn't like it, but that doesn't mean she's not your type. You just don't enough experience to understand how the exchange should work.
/r/seduction09/12/18 05:15 PM
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We must always try again when we fall down.
/r/seduction04/12/18 12:33 AM
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Also remember that sometimes, alcohol lowers your ability to cope with social anxiety before it relaxes you, so watch out for that too. I find that it's linked to amount and time since you started drinking.
/r/seduction04/12/18 12:24 AM
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The real problem here is a lack of disclaimer. For a certain type of gaming, this advice will probably get you laid, however you want to look at that. However, time and place is everything, and this kind of mindset can really set you up for failure. I'm going to make a guess and say that you're male, because most women I've gotten along with would probably agree with the general theme. The comments about logic, and making fun of her mom being sick are certainly unneeded, but the OP is targeting …
/r/seduction04/12/18 12:19 AM
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That's the terrible thing. As someone who nodded along to most of this post, I can also recall how posts like this used to be totally opaque to me. The best advice I can give is look at your social life and think about why a girl would think sleeping with you would be "cool." Are you popular? Do people gravitate towards you? Do other hot girls/girls with options fuck you? Point is, a girl wants a guy with a strong sexual connection with HIMSELF as well as her, to lead her and make her want him. …
/r/seduction04/12/18 12:13 AM
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You failed the sister test, sorry to say.
/r/seduction03/12/18 11:53 PM
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At this point you are concern trolling. And I'm not sure what you think you mean by "plenty of people."
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 01:49 AM
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So what? Is the story implausible? Or this just a comforting lie to keep you company.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 12:43 AM
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Dude, nothing about this story is out of the ordinary. It reads as European for sure, but nothing absurd. I've pulled off similar stuff myself from time to time and I'm way younger than this dude. Check my post history if you want, I don't comment often for the amount of time I spend on this site. This FR is not bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/18 07:49 PM
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I am so offended right now! I'm gonna go take a nap in protest! ugh!
/r/TheRedPill30/10/18 12:54 AM
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There should be a female-dedicated forum somewhere that isn't all about politics and the F-word. Oh well.
/r/seduction24/10/18 04:11 AM
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Jeez that sub is dead. That's too bad; it was actually pretty interesting.
/r/seduction24/10/18 02:22 AM
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Hold eye contact next time. You can break if you are walking over to her, though. Once near her, initiate conversation immediately.
/r/seduction18/10/18 04:36 AM
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jsyk, girls can tell when you're looking at them without you realizing this fact. So she may be purposely avoiding eye contact.
/r/seduction17/10/18 04:33 AM
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How come when I see a pretty girl I have this overwhelming desire to tell her how pretty I think she is? From what I've heard this is usually a pretty bad way to approach, since it objectifies her immediately. Is there any connection between this impulse and what a girl wants to hear? Is it because I'm idealizing her in my head already? If she were my girlfriend, such a comment would be welcome (ime). Answer to the extent you can; this is a pretty complex phenomenon.
/r/seduction17/10/18 04:32 AM
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Dry 99% of the time? Wtf bro you might want to check yourself...
/r/TheRedPill17/10/18 03:34 AM
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Agree with the other posters here. The HB7 is winging for her friend. Do what you like with that information, just don't make an ass of yourself.
/r/seduction11/10/18 06:11 PM
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You literally added a "nervous laugh" at the end of a typed sentence? Holy shit
/r/seduction11/10/18 05:34 PM
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Yikes do you want to make her uncomfortable?
/r/seduction10/10/18 03:03 PM
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Lie about why you need the earplugs. Just say it's a medical condition. Not really a lie, but don't say it's because you're autistic. Above all, make sure you don't come off as needy. This "sole goal" is setting yourself up for failure, even if that's the real reason for going at that time. Make the goal about having a good evening, with a possibility of sexual tension coming up. ​ Going alone isn't always suggested, so step #1 will be finding some people who seem like decent wingmen to make fri…
/r/seduction10/10/18 07:04 AM
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Do you also experience moments of anger, impulsivity, and a lack of an emotional connection to other people? You might want to look up symptoms of BPD, even if you probably don't actually have it. Recognizing that certain behaviors/symptoms are 100% not standard can do wonders for self growth.
/r/seduction01/10/18 02:39 AM
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Well going towards a bed is probably not a good way to "pull away." Focus on body language also.
/r/seduction01/10/18 01:11 AM
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Holy shit dude you knew from the start it was a no-go. You should've just told her to have a good night and walked off and talked to some other people. You're not out to get laid, you're out to have a good night.
/r/seduction01/10/18 01:10 AM
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Is this fiction?
/r/seduction30/09/18 11:33 PM
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I wouldn't. She will feel embarrassed and put on the spot and resent you for that. If you really want, try to sit near her (but not close enough to make her uncomfortable) and pass her a note explaining that you always see her sitting here and asking if you can have her number (or snapchat). When she looks at you, make a humorous motion indicating the relative silence of the room.
/r/seduction28/09/18 04:19 PM
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Hey, I saw you looking at me. Hi I'm Amycut, what's your name? Do you work in the city or are you traveling?
/r/seduction28/09/18 04:17 PM
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Well I know she couldn't have been cheating because she literally never left me alone. Besides that... well let's say I was probably a healthy reach for her. It was sort of like gaslighting, but more anxiety-driven emotional neediness than anything. ​ Edit: Also I broke up with multiple times and cheated on her while we were going out, so...
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 11:07 PM
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That's not true! I dated a smart girl and all she ever did was live in my room and never leave and always ask if I was okay and constantly pick fights over nothing so she could comfort me when I couldn't take it anymore and... oh god.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 07:21 PM
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This depends on your intentions. If you just want to fuck, ignore. If you want to date, say it. Also, she's crazy and you should run anyway because she will want to date you no matter what. Ask me how I know...
/r/seduction18/09/18 03:42 AM
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It's already there bud. You just need to feel it inside you. Find that excited part of you, the part that wants to figure her out.
/r/seduction17/09/18 04:23 PM
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This is dead-on. I am not good with people in-general, but I'm in double digits with only 3 years experience (including two year long LTR's).
/r/seduction17/09/18 04:16 PM
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You aren't communicating value. They consider you a second option, or a "maybe."
/r/seduction16/09/18 11:25 PM
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Openers: ​ "Hey what's up Meagan?" ​ "Hey Paradise, how's Paradise?" ​ when she mentioned being back from college about to take a nap: ​ "Oh yeah? What are you studying?" ​ The marrying comment was good, but you missed a step. She said that you lived too far. It's push-pull. You pushed with the marrying comment and she countered by saying you were too far. You then started talking about yourself again, after which she stops responding.
/r/seduction14/09/18 03:41 PM
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Probably ask her to do something, maybe in a group setting if you want to start slow. If you don't any group activities, might want to find a large event. Tell her that you're going and ask if she's going. Tell her she should go if she seems unsure.
/r/seduction14/09/18 03:33 PM
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Yike dude. Girls don't want to meet a guy who talks about weird existential shit. Literally imagine all the boring shit that people talk about in class that you feel is pointless. Got it? That is what these girls find interesting, BUT only if they're the ones talking. First message should make her feel excited, like you're really positive or your life is a party or something, positive energy etc. Secondly, stop overinvesting, asking a girl why her school is named a certain way gives her power be…
/r/seduction14/09/18 03:29 PM
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Girls ALWAYS notice when you touch them. If you think contact was accidental, it probably wasn't, BUT DON'T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS. Got that? Girl touches you, assume it's interest, but don't do anything stupid like grabbing her ass right away (unless she's open to that, like your girl seems to be).
/r/seduction14/09/18 03:24 PM
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Publicly fight him to show your dominance. /s ​ ​ Maybe you could start by not caring? Also ditch that dude. He will drag you way down.
/r/seduction14/09/18 03:14 PM
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What if every girl looks at you like this but they all look really grumpy?
/r/seduction14/09/18 02:41 PM
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I'm not discussing the board as a whole. I'm talking about a specific issue with the board. My original comment is referencing the OP.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 01:51 AM
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Weird. I must only go out with Nicegirls.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 01:46 AM
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Well what if I fake the chemistry and she thinks I really feel that way? Does that count?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 01:45 AM
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Alright not trying to be a dick, but what part of culture does this even apply to? I've never messed around where sex felt transactional. Is this limited to LTR space?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 01:34 AM
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Ok but what if I'm the better option that she's been waiting for? Like what is your argument dude? I agree that you're shorting yourself in a bad way if you settle for something you aren't happy with, but what if you are the magical other option for her?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 01:32 AM
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It's not that simple. I'm talking about people who present valid arguments with veiled opinions. We're not in the business of banning discussion, but sometimes it feels like there is a significant lack of legitimate advice and necessary correction when people begin to make incorrect assertions. What I'm saying is that if I make a post about how I banged these 10 chicks and they all let me do nasty things to them and I'm alpha and fuck their boyfriends blah blah AWALT, I'll get 100 upvotes a gian…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 01:29 AM
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Thank God I'm not the only one who thinks this. I swear this sub gets worse every day.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 02:10 AM
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Just don't dude. Go to the yoga class looking to make friends.
/r/seduction12/09/18 04:16 AM
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You need to stop thinking short-term dude. Never ask for a next date immediately. I would say you should just wait it out and text her in a few days. DO NOT, freak out hoping that she'll somehow change her mind right before when your date would have been.
/r/seduction12/09/18 04:14 AM
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When I do this I come as too polite and anxious. How to reconcile?
/r/seduction11/09/18 02:36 AM
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