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I want to have another baby so bad ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:12 AM
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I ❤️ dirty blond men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 09:02 PM
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When men take care of themselves a little too well, I get suspicious that they’re gay or a manwhore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:01 PM
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That’s not my point. Putting in extra effort is flattering and a sign that a person really does enjoy being around you. You do nice things for those you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:58 PM
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Wanting to make a girl you like happy is simp behavior? I don’t think so. Normal people generally enjoy making those they like happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:39 PM
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I never said I’d expect flowers, but it would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:30 PM
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It’s absolutely not a problem. But this rigid expectation sets people up for failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:29 PM
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One thing I’ve noticed about Gen Z is how standoffish people are to a member of the opposite sex. Everyone is so serious and has such rigid views and expectations. Gen Z is obsessed with dating to marry. No one is fun and flirty anymore, and enjoy interacting with the opposite gender. It’s all “what can you do for me.” It’s like no one is actually interested in the opposite gender. Men are in the mindset that getting flowers for a girl and things like that is just extra work to get laid, and not…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:17 PM
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Guys say women need to start settling or they’ll be alone, then get mad and accuse you of settling when you find a guy attractive who isn’t stereotypical Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:20 PM
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Some men just can’t comprehend that 6’2” Chad isn’t what all women want. Attitude plays into attraction the same way looks do. Perfection is less attractive than character.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:04 PM
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I’ve observed that gym bros are insufferable and I’d rather be with a normal dude. Some extra weight is okay on a guy. Sometimes it’s really hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:32 PM
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I don’t think I could ever date a man who goes to the gym. I’m a big fan of that dad strength, though. Like dudes who look normal but are incredibly strong. That’s super hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:11 PM
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Dudes really let their anger over a girl having sex in the past ruin their chances of having sex with her in the present.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:50 AM
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I was walking through Home Depot a few days ago and saw so many hot contractors. Most of them were older than me, probably 38-50. They weren’t traditionally hot “Chads,” but they were just so damn attractive. The imperfections give people personality and a unique attractiveness. They look a bit more rugged and give the vibe that they know how to talk to women. One of them told me my baby is cute like me when I was waiting to check out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:01 AM
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Are you illiterate? I don’t care what people do in the context of choosing to hook up or not. I obviously don’t want people smoking meth all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:57 PM
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People who complain about hookup culture are annoying. I never participated in it, but I don’t give a fuck what people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:36 PM
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It’s really strange how different Gen Z guys are than Gen X guys at the same age. There’s this strange movement of young guys telling women to cover up and being absolutely neurotic about body counts or past relationships. My dad is Gen X, born in the late sixties, and doesn’t understand these young guys. Him and his friends were always chasing girls and loved it when they dressed in a revealing way. He doesn’t understand why a young guy wouldn’t want a girl in the gym to wear a sports bra and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:57 PM
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Do couples just stop using birth control right after they get married? Every couple I know who got married had a baby about a year later. Does getting married mean a couple is about to start having babies? I have no idea, I got pregnant before getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:07 AM
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Being nice and polite is how my husband got me. Maybe it’s because I was a virgin until 21, but a man being kind to me is all I wanted. He was nice to me, so I wanted to spend more time with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 07:44 PM
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I don’t know why some men think they can be rude to a woman and still expect other women to like him. It’s unattractive. Men who are nice and know how to talk to women are attractive. It’s similar to being polite to a server or someone who is working.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:58 PM
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Well, I kind of agree with that statement too. Chasing a guy like that sets a girl up for failure and heartbreak. Dating a tall, wealthy Chad sounds exhausting anyways. Average men make better lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:44 AM
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I think that men who insist women are in their prime during ages 18-24 don’t realize how fucking immature people are at that age. Sure, the 21 year old is hot, but she’s probably a mess. There are exceptions, but generally speaking, people that age are a lot to deal with. I just don’t think it’s a good idea to chase people who don’t know what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:32 AM
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I think that is also true. But I think after conception, carbs are needed to grow a healthy baby, as well as lots of protein and fats. All of those are essential when pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:29 PM
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Women who do carnivore/extreme low-carb during pregnancy piss me off. I ate low-carb before I got pregnant, and I’m getting back into it now, but I increased my carb intake while pregnant. You need the extra energy to grow a baby, and low-carb can be linked to birth defects and undersized brains. It’s so selfish. I just don’t understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:23 PM
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I have to ask, does anyone still date another person because they just like spending time with them? It seems like young people are obsessed with dating being some mathematical equation, but it’s not. When I met my husband, we weren’t asking each other “what do you bring to the table,” we just liked to spend time with each other. We did fun things. Sometimes we would hang out and say almost nothing to each other just because we liked being in each other’s presence. I think that built a strong fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:04 PM
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I really do think that caring about body count is a recent thing. My parents are older Gen X and told me it’s not something they even thought about when they started dating. I’ve never seen anyone over 40, even online, who cares about that. That’s just the philosophy they had when they were young and most of them turned out fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:43 PM
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Yes, I was kidding with the gold digging comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:13 AM
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Husband is getting a nursing job at a plastic surgeon’s office soon. It’s four days a week during business hours, so much better than hospital shifts. Am I a gold digger for being excited about his pay increase?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:23 AM
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Yeah, it’s so hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 12:38 AM
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Today has been so good. I got to watch my hot, dirty-blond Spanish husband play tennis with no shirt on. I smell like sunscreen and it’s so nice outside. I have that exhaustion that feels good after a nice day outside. We’re having shrimp and pasta for dinner and then having a movie night. I haven’t had a day like this in so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 12:33 AM
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I don’t have a job because I just had a baby. We live with my parents. My husband is a nurse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:04 AM
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It’s my goddamn shower, it’s connected to my bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:36 AM
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My dad was grumpy after he figured out my husband and I were in the shower together. We have a baby. We’re obviously doing much worse if we have a little one around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:31 AM
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Men with brown hair and blue eyes are so pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:50 PM
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The Chiefs should have never made it to the Super Bowl in the first place. This Super Bowl was so underwhelming.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:52 AM
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The Stanley tumbler trend is so insane to me. I’ve seen videos of people scrambling through a Target when doors open to get some exclusive release. It’s not even an understandable trend like a clothing item. My in-laws got me a similar style cup made by Pelican for Christmas, but I’m too embarrassed to take it anywhere. It’s very nice, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:43 PM
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I don’t understand guys who are so adamant about finding a virgin, not even just a girl with a low n-count. Are we not allowed to love? My husband has been my one and only partner and I’m thankful for that, but it’s crazy to think that one long-term partner is too much for some men. I would never hold a failed relationship against someone like that. Just because a girl loved someone else in the past doesn’t mean she won’t love you just as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:59 AM
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My baby has red hair and I don’t get how a blonde Swede and a brown-haired Spaniard produced that. She has blue eyes like my husband and I, but I have no idea where the bright red hair comes from. My grandmother had red hair but there’s none that my husband can think of in his family.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:12 PM
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No, the very end where Sharon meets Rick and invites him inside, and it’s playing that slow music.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:34 PM
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I watched Once Upon a Time in Hollywood and cried at the very end. Sharon Tate was so beautiful. She should have gone on to live a happy life like she does in the movie. I think it’s the post-pregnancy hormones getting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:32 PM
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And it’s your right to not want to date them and find them repulsive. But it shouldn’t be okay to publicly shame and disrespect a woman because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:46 AM
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It really makes me sad seeing men shame previously promiscuous women who turn to God and change themselves. God forgives, and although those men don’t need to date her or be with her, they should realize that she has been forgiven. She is not a bad person and should not be put down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:26 PM
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I had my baby ten days ago and I still can’t believe I had a girl. My husband was so sure it was going to be a boy. I highly recommend waiting until birth to find out the gender, it was such a good surprise. It also makes me wonder why it seems like everyone wasn’t to find out early nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:45 PM
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I was a virgin until 22, and I still learned how to turn a man on from TV, movies, and the internet. I was a virgin but not completely sheltered. It’s possible she is a virgin. Of course I wasn’t a pro at seduction but I was more capable than you may think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:27 AM
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I thought that going to a loud movie would make this baby want to come out, but I was wrong. I should just relax and enjoy these last few days before my life changes so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:57 AM
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I don’t know why so many people my age want to go into real estate and strive to be landlords. Is it a status thing? Being a landlord doesn’t sound too fun. I’d rather do something where I feel productive. I really don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:46 PM
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No, but I could go into labor anytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:46 AM
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I’m exactly 39 weeks pregnant now, and it’s so crazy to think that within 48 hours I could be holding my new baby. I’m starting to freak out a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:09 AM
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I ate too many of those Aussie Bites from Costco and now my tummy hurts. They’re so fucking good though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:48 PM
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Having a very interesting childhood is cool when I want to tell a story. Sometimes it’s really annoying having to explain to people I’m not actually British, I just lived there when I was young and learning to talk. Maybe driving a Land Rover and eating Digestives doesn’t help my case for not being a Brit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:44 PM
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Why are large black families/groups always getting into fights in public? I just saw another one tonight at a movie theater.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:28 AM
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I’m due in about two months and my husband has already gone full dad mode. He’s rocking the white New Balance and khaki shorts combo, and bought a new GMC Canyon. He’s 22 years old and is already becoming a middle-aged man. It’s cute, though. He’s so excited for the baby to arrive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:37 AM
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Personally, I was more into the Kiwi heart surgeon who showed up after he died.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:27 PM
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I do eat complex carbs when I’m doing low carb, I’m not ignorant to the different kinds of carbs. Throughout my pregnancy I’ve been eating carbs with a low glycemic index. I’m not one of those people who eats nothing but butter, cheese, and bacon. I try to eat a balanced diet of vegetables and meat, with nuts and occasional fruit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:24 PM
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Not to be dramatic but I think going low carb/keto saved my life. Sometimes it feels really restrictive and limiting, but eating so many carbs made me feel so shitty. I feel more awake and attentive now. The worst part about it is how difficult it can be to find things to eat in restaurants and how sugar is everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:08 PM
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Yes, my queen Mia Goth and her hot Texan companion (who is really a Kiwi).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:50 PM
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Yeah, that’s probably true. I’m just silly like that, I like to have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:23 PM
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Just posted a fake AITAH based off of a movie, let’s see how long it takes for people to get mad at me and telling me it’s fake and not realize I’m joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:17 PM
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People on this sub make me feel abnormal. Like, I thought most women hated it if their man showed vulnerability or cried.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:07 AM
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Sometimes I wonder if not getting male attention until I was 21 impacted how I behave in a relationship. I don’t get the “ick” from anything my husband does. I like it when he’s vulnerable and I’ll always be there to wipe his tears. I like it when he lays on my chest and I call him my sweet boy and rub his hair. It doesn’t make him less masculine, or make me less attracted to him. He’s a person with emotions and I should be there to comfort him, the way he is for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:54 AM
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I don’t understand the concept of “women need to settle and stop chasing the top X% of guys” existing alongside “most women don’t find their husbands attractive and that’s a problem.” It’s one or the other. You can’t say that women need to settle, and then complain that you have been settled for. It doesn’t make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:09 PM
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And he was an adult, but younger than me. We’re married now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:10 AM
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Do men’s standards get lower as they age? Between the ages of 18-21 I was overweight and no guys my age paid attention to me. I worked some minimum wage jobs and men between the ages of 35-45 were somewhat consistently complimenting my appearance and flirting. It made me feel really good, I never once was creeped out. I probably would have gone out with one of those guys, but my dad wouldn’t have liked that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:42 PM
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Almost every time I go to Chipotle, a family of 5+ races and beats me to the door, then takes ten minutes to order and get their food. I will take less than ninety seconds to order and get my food but they absolutely cannot let that happen before them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:29 PM
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Jobs where they have a skill and can actually make real things. Tech jobs may pay a lot, but at the end of the day you work on computers and that skill isn’t going to be useful when times get tough. Being able to weld, build a home, being a machinist, or provide medical care are much more important. A man who can make real things is very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:57 AM
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Complaining about the women’s World Cup is kind of gay. You’re complaining about watching pretty women play a sport? What is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:42 AM
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Yes, I just got married, and our baby will be here before the year is over. I’m so excited. I may not have a lot of money or a fancy career, but I have a family, which is what really matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:15 AM
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It’s so crazy watching men who refer to women as “females” wonder why they can’t get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:10 AM
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Everyone thought I was crazy when before it even started, I said the US will not make it to the World Cup final. And then they choked and lost to my home nation of Sweden. It feels so good to be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:20 PM
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What’s so funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:14 PM
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I need Atlético to figure out what they’re doing with Félix soon. I need to know what team he’s going to so I can buy his new jersey. I just know I’m going to be stuck waiting until the last day of the transfer window. That’s if they can even get rid of him, they’re asking too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:44 PM
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Are Red Lobster and Olive Garden really not good enough anymore? I get that they’re not fine dining or anything, but they’re good. I’ve been on several dates to those places and I was thrilled. I grew up thinking those were fancy restaurants, though. But it certainly makes going to them feel very special.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:37 PM
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I don’t think stepfathers are humiliating themselves. They make a choice to be with a mother and they’re obviously okay with it. A man’s legacy isn’t just his children. A man could be a piece of shit and having kids won’t make people have a positive view on his legacy. Once you’re truly in love with someone, you stop caring about their flaws. You just want to be with them. That’s what happens to stepparents.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:02 PM
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I haven’t said anything to her, but god some things she’s said just made me internally cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:42 AM
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My older sister thinks she’s so interesting and cultured because she’s going to Italy and the south of France on her honeymoon. It makes my brain hurt. There’s going to be a thousand other couples doing the same thing there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:20 AM
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Not so much. Life hasn’t gone the way I thought it would. You take risks, things happen, life gets in the way. I try to remind myself that it’s okay to not be on a schedule. It isn’t a race. My parents didn’t buy a house until they were forty, which is late for a lot of people. Instead of being mad they bought “late”, they looked at the good parts of buying later in life. I think young people like myself are too focused on doing things ahead of our peers. We think it will make us look better tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:46 AM
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I don’t find black men attractive no matter what country they’re from. It’s just how I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:02 AM
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I’m white. My mom is from Sweden and my dad is American but his parents are Swedish.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:02 AM
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White guys from any of those countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:47 AM
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In my opinion, probably black.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:29 AM
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Or white men from any hispanic country: Argentina, Mexico, and so on. I’m a fan of the Portuguese as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:29 AM
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White hispanics are the hottest kind of man and you will never be able to change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:20 AM
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What are you guys thankful for today? I’m lounging in the shade with a virgin piña colada, watching my boyfriend mow the lawn and do yard work without a shirt on. When my parents get home from their round of golf they’re going to invite some friends over and have a barbecue. That’s what I’m thankful for. Don’t get caught up in the hustle, take a moment to relax and enjoy what you have in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:04 PM
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I didn’t get my first boyfriend until I was 22, so I think that part of my brain matured differently than most people. I’m with a man some would call “Chad.” He has cried to me multiple times. I haven’t got the “ick”, and I haven’t left him after six months like men here said I would. He’s a person with emotions and I’m here to comfort him. He’s one of the greatest things that has ever happened to me. I love him so much. When I know he’s upset, I want to make him feel better. I guess I have a mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:39 PM
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I don’t understand the hate towards a lot of single moms who want to date. You’re not being forced to go out with them. They’re people who want love too. You don’t know how or why their relationship ended. Just don’t insult them or belittle them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:31 PM
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Are people from Portugal and Spain white? My sister is oddly obsessed with saying my BF isn’t white because he’s from there and his skin is darker than most white people. He knows he’s white and I don’t know what else he’d be. Not all white people look the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:51 AM
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I think I’ll be more attractive at 30 than I was at 21. I was chubby and an absolute mess then. I’ll be hot when I’m 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:51 AM
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Like, halfway in-between? They’re shorter than the long ones but not tight, they’re pretty loose.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:30 PM
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I go to the gym but I don’t know if I’d describe myself as a “gym girl”. My boyfriend says it’s very attractive that I always wear modest clothing to the gym, usually a t-shirt and soccer shorts. I just don’t think I’d be comfortable in any tight clothing and I’ve never worn leggings. I don’t have a superiority complex because I go to the gym. It’s something I do because it’s fun and keeps me in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:20 PM
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Those hotel breakfast waffles just hit different at 6 AM.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 01:55 PM
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Dudes who talk about how much they love eating pussy and brag about it give me the ick. It feels like virtue signaling. I like receiving but some guys act like they’re a unique gift from God for doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:39 PM
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I played soccer and I like to watch it. Depending on what team they play on they could travel all over Europe or the world. I could be in Spain one day, Italy the next, and England after that. Like I said, it was all a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:38 AM
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I knew I didn’t deserve a world-class athlete. After losing weight I had a little bit of loose skin and I’d never look like a model. When the Spanish soccer player from the local college asked me out, I was thrilled. I got to date someone I share an interest with and go to his games to cheer him on. It certainly felt like dating a superstar. Now we’re getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:36 AM
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I get it. I would cringe too, but then I started thinking to myself if a man so far out of my league really loved me, then I don’t have anything to be embarrassed about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:18 AM
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Dude, I was sixteen. I was writing to have fun. It was just a little teenage fantasy, we all had them. It’s not like I was actually going to find a good boyfriend at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:53 AM
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I found some of my creative writing from when I was fatter and younger. I wrote about a girl like myself who falls in love with a famous soccer player and they get married. I find it kind of cute, looking back at it. It’s also embarrassing. And it makes me sad thinking about how lonely I was at that age. I never thought I’d find a boyfriend so I wrote about grand fantasies instead. At least some of it is coming true. I’m getting married to a soccer player now. He’s not rich or famous, but I’m gl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:43 AM
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Missionary. It’s easier to kiss, I get to look into his eyes and see his face. I feel like I’m one with him, very connected that way. It doesn’t stimulate me the most down there, but he still makes me finish, it’s just not as intense as another position. Cowgirl probably feels the best down there. I haven’t been able to do much missionary since I’m pregnant and my tummy is getting bigger. I want to get back to it :(
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:53 AM
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Co-ed sports leagues is a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:15 AM
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My life has significantly improved since I stopped wanting expensive things and being more grateful for what I have. I’d much rather spend time with my boyfriend and family, or doing something I enjoy, rather than working to afford a fancy new car. Expensive things aren’t going to make my life better, and they could bring me even more problems. I don’t feel the need to show off and impress people with my possessions anymore. I’ve never felt peace quite like this. It’s very nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:53 AM
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Yes, he lives with us. We have a whole wing of the house to ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:52 PM
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Did anyone else’s parents want them to continue living with them as an adult? My dad wanted me stay at home and not go out on my own. I think he was worried I wouldn’t be able to take care of myself. I also think he would miss me too much, even if I lived just a few minutes away. Maybe he just wants to keep an eye on me. Hopefully he doesn’t mind hearing my baby cry all night in just a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 03:28 AM
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Is it a red flag for your partner to get tattoos without telling you first? This is the second time he’s come home with a new tattoo. I can never complain, though, they’re really well done and kinda sexy. But maybe it would be nice to have a heads up he’s going to get a fictional pornstar played by Mia Goth tattooed on his quad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:34 AM
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I want to be thin again after the baby is born :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:06 PM
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I know :( It’s my favorite snack but I can’t have peanut butter or bread in the house anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:56 PM
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Food addiction is genuinely the worst thing I’ve ever experienced. It’s not like I can just quit eating. I eat low carb/no sugar and I still binge on healthy food. It’s hard to find people who understand. It’s so much more than no self control. I don’t want to fight this battle for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:28 PM
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I’m a woman and I got cockblocked by other women so often. I live near a large university and I used to go to places the students hang around in an attempt to make friends. There were a few mixed-gender friend groups I tried to befriend. The guys were typically cool with me, but the girls were hostile. I thought it was weird they were so cold when they weren’t even dating the guys. I eventually lost interest because of the girls. It’s so weird to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:11 AM
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I still have my first car and it had four owners before me. I love it to death and it has never left me stranded. I don’t think about what the previous owners did to it because it’s a dependable truck that I’ve had loads of fun in. It’s always been mine and I’ll probably keep it until it dies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:11 PM
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I hope João Félix comes to the MLS to play since he’s done with Atlético Madrid. He’s hot and I want to watch him play in-person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:55 PM
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I was laying in bed when my boyfriend said that my Scandinavian genes and his Iberian genes will make a perfect baby, then he rolled over and went to sleep. He keeps making odd remarks like this and I’m a little concerned he’s a eugenicist in the making. When we started dating he asked me a bunch of questions about my family’s health history and history of hair and eye color.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:03 AM
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If I were picked, would I at least get to pick the men I have to reproduce with? Do I get to live in a nice house? Can I have hobbies to pass the time while pregnant? If I got to live a cushy life, I’d have no problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:42 AM
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At least I can go on knowing I tried. Maybe someday I’ll try having my own business again, but for now I need something that will pay well enough to get back on my feet. I lost an unthinkable amount of money I’ll never get back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:43 AM
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I did have a business that’s trade-related and it failed. I put everything into it and have nothing to show for it. I’d like to help people and becoming a nurse would help me get my life back on track.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:21 AM
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I’m afraid I’m not even good enough. That’s what I mean, I’m almost never “good enough.” It took me until I was 22 to get my first boyfriend, that’s something most girls get in middle school. I didn’t get into a four-year university, my business is failing. I’m just never good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:37 AM
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They let 1/4 in for this RN program. I probably won’t make it, it’s too competitive. I might become an LPN instead. It’s less money, but easier to get in to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:47 AM
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I was rejected from college so it’s really difficult for me to picture myself in school again. My boyfriend has a BSN and he had such an easy time in school, I’d be embarrassed if I couldn’t get in or struggled. I know failure is supposed to build character or something like that but I’ve had too many failures and don’t know if I can take another one. My business is failing and I just want to die. I’m behind everyone at this point. How many times can you apply to these things? I don’t know if I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:46 AM
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There’s always someone better than me in everything I do or in every way. I could have good grades in the prerequisites, but someone with actually nursing experience and good grades would beat me. I’m afraid to waste money doing prerequisites and then not get in. I would just end up wasting money and time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:13 AM
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I want to apply to the RN program at the local community college but I graduated high school with a 2.6 GPA, I’d never get in. There’s some prerequisite classes to complete before the program but I doubt I’d get in even if I did really good in those. I thought about doing the CNA program but I’d be looked down upon if I had that job. It seems like there’s always something in the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:09 AM
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I think you can approve of age gap relationships but also acknowledge that partners can be in different parts of their lives. I’m 24 and if I were with a man who is 40 there could be some conflict. He may want children and I may want to work a few more years and save up. The relationships can still work, but it could take more effort than conventional relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:01 PM
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I’m thinking about a career change soon. I like running my business but I’m thinking about shutting down. It’s hard for me to admit failure. I couldn’t get into college so I don’t know what I’ll do. I feel like such a failure. I’m 24 and other people my age are making six figures out of college, and I’ll have nothing. I’d like to be a nurse but I know I’d never get into school. I’m so lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:27 AM
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Why are women grossed out by men crying? I’ve comforted my boyfriend while he was crying many times and it has never bothered me. It makes me feel better knowing he trusts me like that. I like being there for him and wiping his tears and calming him down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:56 PM
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I’m a very straightforward person so I wasn’t hurt by what he said. I know the truth, and the truth is I don’t look like the size 0 model he was dating beforehand. I’m my own person, I look different but I’m happy with myself, and I’m very happy that someone loves the version of me that I like. He still finds me very attractive, but in a cute way, not a hot way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:42 PM
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Yeah, I don’t really care that he’s “had his fun” with the hot girls. He lived and loved before he met me, he’s a human being. He’s with me now and he loves me. People change, and you can’t change the past, so why stress?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:01 AM
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Q4Men: Would you rather be in a LTR with a hot girl or a cute girl? I finally asked my boyfriend why he approached me, since his past girlfriends have been extremely attractive, one even does modeling work. He said it’s because I looked like a sweet girl who would kiss his bruises and tuck him in after a rough day. He said that he couldn’t be vulnerable like that with hot girls, and they’re not caring the way I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:10 AM
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I played forward. I think it was always hard to make friends because I would show up and play on a team with already established friend groups. A lot of times I’d take the spot of an already well liked girl. I’m 5’4” and was around 200 pounds during those years, but I was freakishly fast. I could put up speed and physically challenge the bigger defenders. I just never really got along with teammates.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:59 AM
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I used to play soccer at a high level, but the girls I played amongst were just absolutely insufferable. After an injury I just couldn’t get back into it. My boyfriend asks why I don’t watch women’s soccer, but he just doesn’t understand how much I dislike female soccer players.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:35 AM
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I got mine as an adult, from the ages of 19 to 22. Having them on sucked. People never took me seriously, they thought I was fourteen. But I’m glad I did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:29 PM
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I’ve told myself for years that I’ll get a tattoo once I’ve gotten into shape and kept the weight off. I refused to be a fatty with tats, there’s nothing worse. But now I’m pregnant so I’ve got to wait even longer. Maybe that’s not a bad thing, it’s more time to think about what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:10 AM
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I don’t like girls, but I can say with confidence that his wife was mid as well. It had nothing to do with her age, she was just mid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:11 PM
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It really does. When you’re pregnant, everyone knows you can be their designated driver.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:07 PM
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Yesterday I heard a married guy in his mid-thirties talk about how he sees women under thirty as children and could never date them. He looked like he felt so smug while saying that at the bar. I don’t understand the superiority complex there. Some men like young women, some like women their age. If I were single I’d hop in bed with a forty year old man no problem. I wouldn’t think he’s a predator, I’d think he likes young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 02:59 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:08 PM
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It would be a lot of traveling and he wouldn’t be making a lot of money. I don’t think he wants to be away from the baby at all. They’re only little once and he doesn’t want to miss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:18 PM
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He’s 21 and I’m 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:13 PM
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No, I encouraged him to go but ultimately it was his choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:12 PM
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My boyfriend just turned down a spot on a semi-pro soccer team. The league they’re in is really a feeder league to professional teams. He’s pretty upset and he’s trying to act like he’s okay. I’m pregnant and I know that’s why he turned them down but he’s acting like it has nothing to do with his decision. I was cuddling him earlier, and he liked it for a while, but he seemed to want to be left alone. I know he’s excited for the baby but I’m sure this feels like the ultimate failure for him. I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:36 AM
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I was a fat kid. The first time I got complimented by a man was when I was 21. I went on my first ever date with that man. While everyone was spending their first adult years out having fun, I was looked down upon and talked down to by everyone. I remember working at Dairy Queen during the summer and serving all of my peers out having fun in the evenings. I didn’t have anyone to hangout with, so I worked to keep busy. I know why I didn’t have many friends, I didn’t have the look they wanted. I’m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:06 AM
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I absolutely detest the new “anti-diet diet culture.” Attractive women who have been thin their whole lives tell me it wasn’t healthy that I cut out sugar and carbs and ate 1,200 calories a day to lose weight. It was quite literally the only thing that worked. It would have been more unhealthy for me to stay obese. No, I cannot have sugar “in moderation.” No, I cannot “just eat the damn pizza.” They will never understand. My diet is limited and people can’t accept that. They project their own in…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:43 PM
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Do you ever wonder why your partner picked you? I mean, I think my boyfriend is ridiculously attractive and he’s tall. I’ve seen pictures of his exes and they’re objectively super hot. And then he got with me. I’m not ugly, but I’m nothing compared to who he used to go out with. What the hell is my x-factor? This has been his longest relationship. It’s not like he doesn’t have options, girls try to flirt with him when I’m with him. I don’t ask him these things, because I don’t want to come off a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:33 AM
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Not all men think with their dicks. He’s said they’re so unhinged that the traditionally attractive ones aren’t even attractive to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:44 PM
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My boyfriend is in nursing school. My mom asked me if I ever worry about him cheating because he’s around women all day. After hearing him talk about the women he goes to school and works with, I think I have nothing to worry about. Nurses are fucking crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:22 PM
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I hate how much food has become part of social life. I rarely eat sugar or carbs and it makes me feel isolated when everyone wants to go out to some Italian place or get ice cream. I really watch what I eat and people make me feel bad and like I can’t “have fun.” I’m not one of those girls who can eat 4,000 calories of junk food a day and stay thin. It’s just not how my body works.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:54 AM
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Wearing an oversized t-shirt makes me feel like a female CBum. Even though I’m not that muscular. It just improves my mood. It’s truly revolutionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:00 AM
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I’ve reached a stage where I’m really happy with my appearance and who I am, but not very many people like me. It’s kind of odd. But I’m not bothered by it. I’m not really approached by men, which is good because I have a boyfriend. Maybe it’s because I don’t wear too much feminine clothing or because I’m built like a man. Oh well. I’m just glad I finally love myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 12:33 AM
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Nissan Frontier. I have a baby on the way and needed something a little bit bigger. I wanted a Tacoma but they weren’t giving me the price I wanted, so I chose something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:59 PM
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Today I bought a new truck and was able to get it for about $4K under MSRP. The salespeople were really surprised to see someone my age (24) actually negotiate and fight them on the price. Are people my age really that avoidant of confrontation? They won’t even negotiate? My dad always told me to never pay MSRP, always lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:45 AM
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I may start wearing the bonnet other places, I just think it’s so cute. I’m starting to care less about what other people think of me so wearing it would be a good way to get out of my comfort zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:29 AM
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Yeah, it makes me sad to see a man treat his wife like that. I was a fan of his but now I can’t watch any of his stuff anymore. Once Dave Landau left I lost a lot of interest anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:16 AM
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My boyfriend bought me an old-timey prairie bonnet and wanted me to wear it to church. It’s actually really cute with my church dress, but I got some funny looks when we went to breakfast afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:14 AM
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Yeah, I just got pregnant. I’m not even showing yet. I won’t stop working until the baby is pretty much here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:58 PM
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I used to be proud to say I own a business, but now I’m starting to hate it. I’ve realized that when a woman under thirty says she owns a business, most people think she’s a lash/nail tech or does overpriced catering out of her home without any kind of state permit. I have a real business and people don’t really take me seriously until I explain what I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:53 PM
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“Be yourself” is unironically some of the best dating advice out there. Apart from a few things like getting into shape or practicing basic social skills, don’t change fundamental parts of yourself to please another person. If someone doesn’t like me or like my interests, I don’t want to spend time with them and I’m not going to spend any energy trying to win them over. I want to interact with people who want me from the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:55 PM
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My boyfriend says it’s really attractive that I’m in shape but I don’t wear revealing clothes to the gym. I always wear a t-shirt and shorts that are loose but not super baggy. I think I look good in normal clothes and don’t need leggings that go up my ass. He’s just really into that. I thought he’d like the more revealing stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:15 PM
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Aww that dress is so cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:46 PM
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What is a “bad boy”? Is it a guy who pushes the boundaries and does what he wants, or is he a genuinely awful person? I’m a little lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:45 PM
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I seriously don’t understand why I can’t make many friends. I have a boyfriend, so I’m not some weirdo who absolutely no one likes. I’ve been told I’m very straightforward so maybe that’s the problem. Maybe it’s because I don’t really care about what other people think of me. Maybe it’s because I’m not a part of something, like in college or a sports team. I really don’t understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 04:50 AM
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Yeah, why wouldn’t I be? I just found out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:18 PM
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My boyfriend gets away with saying some really racist shit because he’s a Spaniard and people who don’t know him really don’t want to correct him because they think he could be something other than white. It’s honestly kind of funny. He gets a pass for a LOT of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:04 PM
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Why are 17-22 year old guys who play soccer the biggest shitheads imaginable? I’ve met most of my boyfriend’s college teammates and they’re such assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:52 PM
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Men here really don’t like it when women are in a loving relationship with “Chad.” It’s just impossible to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:39 PM
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I had been overweight since I was little, so it sort of was news to me when I was treated well after losing weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:18 AM
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As much as being overweight sucked, I’m glad I was because I have a much different perspective being thin now. I appreciate it much more and I’m treated better. I know now a lot of men are only nice to me because I’m attractive now and I used to be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:59 AM
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I started my own business after high school and I’ve been managing it since then. I live relatively close to a big college so I thought I could make friends my age there. Turns out almost no one there wants to interact with someone who doesn’t also go to school. I really don’t get it. I’m their age, I like similar things. The only difference is I’m not in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:51 PM
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I’m never letting myself go back to that. I spent my entire childhood and adolescence that way and I can’t do it again. I’ve kept it off for six years.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:44 AM
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Is slight loose skin on the stomach a dealbreaker for men? I was always a fat kid growing up and I lost seventy pounds during my senior year of high school. I don’t have loose skin hanging down but the skin there will never be super tight and toned. It makes me really insecure, especially with bikini season coming. Is it a dealbreaker or a turn off?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:02 AM
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It’s usually him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:49 PM
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I’d say I am. I wouldn’t want to be with someone I wouldn’t like long-term. There’s no point in wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:41 PM
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Two years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:49 PM
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I won’t get on birth control, so our contraceptive method is condoms. I guess it just didn’t work one night.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:49 PM
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I don’t think he’d let me do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:44 PM
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He’ll stay with me. We’ve talked about children many times before, especially since I refuse to get on birth control. He could pull much better than me, and he still decided to take that risk and be with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:35 PM
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He definitely wants to marry me, we’ve talked about it before and I wanted him to finish school first so we’d be more free with money and time. He’s from Spain and here in the US to play a college sport so there’s also some immigration things to sort out, but he wants to stay here. If I’m pregnant we’ll probably just get married now. We both want children too. I’m three years older than him so the idea of having a baby isn’t as scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:06 PM
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What goes through a twenty-one year old’s head when you tell him you’re pregnant? I may be pregnant, I’m buying a test later today. If I am, I don’t know how to tell him. It shouldn’t be bad news to him. He’s said he wants to marry me when he’s done with school.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:46 PM
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Yes, and I’m more excited for that park based on what I’ve heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:21 PM
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I'm going to Disneyland for the first time for my mom's birthday in a couple weeks. I'm so excited but traveling with my parents stresses me out sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:06 AM
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