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Did you go to an all boys hs or something? Anyways, starting anything new with brand new people is anxiety inducing, but good news is that feeling goes away pretty quickly after a few weeks!. I sorta feel you because I did cs for undergrad and was around all men all 4 years with maybe a few exceptions. I felt excluded a lot and that I stuck out like a sore thumb. But it just made me focus on the school part. If you make friends you make friends. Otherwise your new (classmates?) can just be frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:20 AM
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Women are not walking around afraid. We are walking around wary. We don't expect to be assaulted. But nearly every girl grows up being told that there are people out there that can take advantage of you during moments of vulnerability so looking out for yourself is important.. the whole "everyone says it won't happen to them til it does" spiel gets told to most of us our entire lives. Looking out for yourself and forming good habits around safety precautions when in unfamilar environments or wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 02:19 AM
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Bruh a girl ain't going nowhere with some random dude she just met because she can't bring herself to say no.. you get an awkward laugh and a "ohh nooo sorry I can't/am taken/not interested" then they keep going about their day. I think you have trouble reading social situations and need more practice. What I did when I was younger was like "break the ice" and have meta discussions about how an interaction or relationship was for the other person if I was unsure. If you're just endearing and hon…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 11:53 PM
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Assuming you're still pretty young yourself because there's no way this post exists if you're not then that means that girl was probably in or fresh out of her teenage years when this story occurred. I think every girl learns to enforce their boundaries/be upfront at their own pace. It doesn't happen overnight just like men have their own social/romantic issues they need to learn to navigate better through experience. If you interacted with that woman today I'd be willing to bet it would be much…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 11:41 PM
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Your comment is confusing do you think women should have not been able to vote? Men didn't die for our freedom they just simped for rich white men instead. Actual choice seemed scarce then all around
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:16 AM
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That's literally high school you're talking about..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:31 AM
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Exactly. I'd say myself and all my close friends are pretty liberal around casual sex and not one of us has gotten accidentally pregnant. If I did I have the means to handle it. Was a concern when I was younger. Now it just isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:19 AM
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I don't understand why you'd make a sarcastic remark when her comment is very reasonable. Her life experiences have clearly been different from yours. Having blurred gender roles in today's day and age are common. She just wants a relationship where both people are expected to cook if they both work full time. It's not that hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:15 PM
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Starting their careers early, as in becoming more valuable with years of experience in their chosen fields, wanting to settle down and start a family in the future, self respect and so on. My friend got laid off a few weeks ago and her mortgage had put a strain on her finances so she went on seeking arrangements and blew a guy and hung out with him for a bit, met up around 3 times and made 2k. Again, it's not bad money, and I'd consider myself pretty attractive and I still would not be willing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:33 AM
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50-200. They don't really get charged like that though haha I mean like the negotiations take place between them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:01 AM
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A decent buck to make ends meet and supplement income to afford a cheap apartment while you're completing your studies ya. For only a few hours of work week thats decent money for a young person. But who would want to be doing this that much in order to replace their salary? You do realize people care about how they spend their time no?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:42 AM
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It's not free. It's still trading your time, which is the most valuable finite resource on the planet, to be around a person you would otherwise not want to spend time with. Now that most of my female friends and acquaintances in my life have graduated college and most have secure careers it would not make sense to do this so you see it much less after 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:34 AM
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It doesn't really work that way. Honestly, the interactions seem pretty normal and sometimes kind of endearing. Both people chat about their lives, stresses, kids etc. Most people are pretty decent to each other in life. There's no need for any pretending if both parties know it's temporary, but there's still respect involved in majority of cases. I know you're trying to say shit like how girls are just getting "fucked and chucked for barely any money" because you'd like to think you understand …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:25 AM
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The situation in this comment is more common than you think. Had a few friends make a decent buck just going out to dinner, walking around the mall chatting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:12 AM
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Yeah no shit but the short term arrangements are still technically sugar daddy relationships. You said they're hard to get and they're not. The super high class ones you are talking about are in a totally different ball game. OP is talking about the more common general cases where your average woman seeks these arrangements. Most women just use it for the short term and can easily make a few grand. Most of the men on these sites are just rich dudes with grown up kids and wives. They're not ultra…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:05 AM
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That it is particularly difficult to find an arrangement. My guess is that around 34 is the time it'd start getting noticeably more difficult. I have a number of friends who have resorted to this during times they were strapped for cash. My friend just got laid off and her mortgage became more of a strain so she hopped on and found something nearly immediately. She's 28 and this happened only 3 weeks ago. I have never gotten the impression from anyone that it was difficult. I saw my one friends …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 12:50 AM
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This just isn't true
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:59 PM
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This stuff is literally never talked about within my circle of friends. Maybe occasionally people make jokes about OLD but now that I'm out of college nobody uses it anyway. Working adults just don't care about this shit. You and I clearly live in a world apart so I'm thinking you may think this shit is bigger than it is cuz otherwise I'd have to be living in a bubble and I don't. If anything I'd be more inclined to see it being my social circle of friends is massive, includes both genders and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:49 PM
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God I found this sub because my brother who is now 31 talks about rp and mgtow and has for years. I can admit it's harder for men than women in romance and sex but I will never cross the barrier into promoting this is an actual healthy life choice to base your convictions from. How men here think most women are only applies to the 10-20% of toxic women you went to hs with. You noticed them cuz they were hot. Think of how many booksmart/drama club dweeb women were silently walking around your hs.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:14 AM
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I don't know why I watch it tbh. The reason I don't like it irl is I just enjoy intimacy too much I guess. I see sex as a way to connect with your partner and physically express love towards them. Just doesn't feel natural and enjoyable to be any other way though I have tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:20 PM
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They're also not taking into consideration watching vs actually wanting to participate in irl. I watch so much aggressive, rough, rape rp, etc and I have no interest in doing any of these things. When I'm with someone I want intimacy. I get immediately turned off and distanced from them emotionally when anyone gets rough with me. You'd never think how vanilla I was based on what I watch. Many of my friends are also like this haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:07 AM
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I watch that kind of sex regularly but do not enjoy it at all irl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:03 AM
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My bachelors is in cs and I think this is literally the first time I have ever used discrete math for conditional statements in an actual conversation. I am going to start doing it more now lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:41 AM
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Touché
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:34 AM
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Basically you believed she was talking about only wanting sex rather than a relationship, which is literally fine to want. But I am using her words and she is clearly not talking about the subset of only wanting fwb/casual. She clearly, by the literal language she used, is talking about men who say/think "women are only good for sex." To which you asked "why is that bad to say," do you see how it was you who made the misinterpretation?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:27 AM
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It's you who are confusing what the original commenter said. "I only interact with women for pussy," she said shes seen some men say this in her comment you responded to. Using literal laws of formal logic, de morgans law, p(interact with women) if and only if q(pussy), is only true if q is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:14 AM
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Because the sentence implies seeing any other interaction with women as a waste of time or something to be avoided if it cannot have sex as a potential outcome. We're social creatures. If there was no women in a dudes life he liked to interact with, be it a platonic friend or coworker, or even a friendly neighbor, all because he ONLY interacts with women for pussy than you are probably a sociopath or wildly bitter. I am using the quoted words explicitly from the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 11:51 PM
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I'll say this a thousand times but if you willingly and intentionally voice your opinion on a public forum or in public space you are 100% agreeing to be having that opinion judged by the masses. Nobody is free of judgement in the world. If you put it out there and there's an audience, people will make conclusions. This is how the public social sphere works and its a good thing. It's as simple as open debate and it's been going on since the invention of language itself. If you say something that…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:57 PM
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On top of this you never spend much time on it. You're more likely to have used it periodically in short phases. Girls don't get as into swiping and collecting matches since it just clutters everything and sheer numbers make things more difficult to sort through rather than most men who'd undoubtedly want higher numbers. Regardless, as this comment suggests, nearly all my friends just met their partners through other friends, work, rec leagues, etc. So much more effective to meet someone through…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:38 PM
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Totally agree. Though I will add that a rich man walking down a busy Manhatten street wondering if the women he chats with are only feigning interest for his money is much less distressing than, "I know most people want to fuck me but which ones want that and ALSO enjoy my company." Because in the mans example he can choose to give or take as much as he wants. It's a position of power. He might have enough to spoil multiple girls as much as he pleases and not bat an eye. At worst, he becomes jad…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:56 AM
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Idk with being rejected I feel it's easy to just be like "this person wasn't compatible with me or me with them." Most dudes know girls are pickier and less motivated by sex so you'd think they'd be less likely to take rejection personally. Whereas, when you're young and especially if you're pretty, as a woman, you basically have to be on high alert all the time because you assume everyone is treating you differently just because you physically look good to them, and they are. You basically beco…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:43 AM
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All good. Not socially anxious but maybe a little off the mark with the energy they give off. I have noticed men who have had more success are much better at being, or at least appearing, aloof as they are inherently less concerned with the outcome of a situation and this is an attractive quality. I find it pretty easy to spot when a dude cares more about the outcome as his energy will have a weird "walking on eggshells" vibe. His words and actions feel slightly.. scripted? Up to you whether you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:57 AM
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Yes, but I wasnt even responding with the OP in mind. Basically, all my comment said was "well according to the men on here this(social anxiety around women) is quite common." Which was intended to point out how so often on this sub people think certain things are widespread and are commonplace for discussion here when hardly relevant in the real world. So yes, I know most men irl aren't like this. The only problem is that in here, that abnormal subgroup is actually large percentage just based o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:27 AM
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Are they edge cases if social skills, or lack there of, are a very frequently floated topic around here? A normal guy who just doesn't like it is irrelevant here since I was responding directly to your first statement. Also, I wasn't attacking, I know you probably want me to have been but I was just pointing out that by what I see talked about here on this very sub, clearly there are in fact grown men who are nervous around women. The men, and women, in my life don't "oppose" me. It's amazing ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:02 AM
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Yeah that's you but have you missed the tons of user accounts here of grown men here who talk about crippling social anxiety and lack of social skills over all? Or grown men who will take you down a rabbit hole of "but how?" "But how?" while simply discussing something mundane like getting dates period or expanding their social circle a little? Plenty of men out there are clearly nervous/awkward in front of women they are trying to pursue and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:53 PM
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Haha way more common? Not really. More people in general are exploring their options and holding off on on marriage. I don't think there's an increase in "fuckboys."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:07 AM
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What's the point of talking about fuckboys and saying it's "beneficial for men" when it's just beneficial for very select subgroup of men who were always going to be getting laid anyways. Like yeah attractive people fuck more. Big surprise. The men on this sub do not benefit from this. The men on this sub are very clear that they believe women have all the power yet you say men have the power once they get the poon only men(in general) are not getting the poon and are very clear about the diffic…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:07 AM
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Plenty of average joe's walking around with stable gf's. Having at least some combination of these will get you somewhere. You don't need all of them. I see this literally all the time with my guy friends. Only one of who is 6ft. They all do well with women. My best friend married a dude who's 5'6. She's an inch taller and very pretty. They just celebrated their daughter's 4th birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:43 AM
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So the bar is low! Standing out isn't too hard if THATS your competition. That or expat to scandinavia where everyone is thin and sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 11:08 PM
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Lol having a stable job/career, good hygiene/grooming habits, staying in decent shape and not being socially inept is a high bar? Huh TIL...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:43 PM
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It's entertaining. And like idk we still need to be caring at least about money and good looks to pull more attractive women. Sure the game isn't as harsh for us but girls aren't lining up at my door just cuz I'm a woman. I wouldn't get nearly as many women without having a decent career.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:42 PM
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But does the desire for virgin wives cause them to not want to have sex with them because they see sex as inherently disrespectful to the point where it damages their sex life? Now you are backtracking because you see where you effed up don't you? You tried to make an argument comparing A to B but B is a medical term with a very specific definition and criteria. You didn't do your research and I think you're understanding that now and don't want to admit it. You can want a chaste wife but not be…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:12 PM
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These lesbian relationships are actually far and few between. Most hot feminine lesbians want other hot feminine lesbians. Sure you occasionally have the "roles" play out but more of the time if you see a butch woman with a more gender neutral one it is only physically appearing to have roles. The dynamic of the relationship is usually very balanced. The whole butch with a hot girl thing is some like weird romanticized view of lesbians from the late 80s and before. Lesbians do not want male ener…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:04 PM
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It's only problematic when you literally can no longer be aroused or willing to have sex with your chaste wife as a result. If you can't get it up with your wife because of this complex you are literally going against your drive to procreate. That's why its seen as a psychological/medical issue. Do you understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:53 PM
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Yes, it's problematic, no one is really arguing that it isn't. But it isn't a diagnosable psychological "complex," that's why the word complex isn't used. When women do what you're describing the behavior isn't necessarily rooted in deviancy. It's not psychologically/mentally problematic to yourself or others. The reasons for alpha fucks beta bux is literally nature. Women are more sexually attracted to tall, masculine men, inherently. It's not a phenomenon. Which is why it's not a complex. How …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:48 PM
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Oh my b I see that now I didn't follow the comment thread well
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:42 PM
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It's referring to the virgin Mary.. type Madonna and child artwork into Google images.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:33 PM
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Well ya normal in that it probably happens to a certain degree of regularity, yes. But the thing is the lack of attraction in that situation doesn't necessarily come from a psychological need to be dominated, thrown around, degraded, and so on. I know a lot of the men on here want to believe all women have this secret innate desire to be treated like submissive whores in bed, and those women do exist, but many if not most women are vanilla as anything, aren't even particularly inclined to have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:28 PM
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Lack of attraction isn't even remotely as severe/problematic as what the above comment is referring to. I know you want the two things to be similar but how you are even attempting to say a woman marrying some average dude she doesn't necessarily have the hots for is similar on a psychological level is beyond me. You need to go to marriage counseling or divorce for one situation. You need to go through some serious therapy if you can't get aroused unless you're fucking someone you have zero resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:17 PM
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Why not just stay horny for a woman you are mentally into and also just as physically attracted to compared to any other girl you could pull? I think many people enjoy the intimacy part of sex. You can have an early spark. But the genuine development of romance, realizing you both connect well, learning what makes them laugh and they do the same for you; that is a feeling that is an additive bonus to the physical stimulation aspect of sex that multiplies the more you involve yourself with anothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:07 AM
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Alright so you're saying more genuine advice from women who do casual interactions, regarding what they genuinely look for/get intrigued by when they enter a casual relationship/fwd, would be beneficial to you and/or men in general? This is the information you're looking for, correct? I can't change your view on how most women respond to this because I'm not overly inolvolved in the online public spaces that touch upon these things. But I am willing to offer my perspective in the most honest and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:46 AM
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This I think is the best positive to testing to waters far and wide early on.. the lack of fomo. I am certain of what I am, or am not, missing out on so I love the lack of "what ifs" and the clear direction of what I want now, what sort of experiences I'm still open to, and the kind of sex life I need to strive for in a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:01 PM
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F, count is 27. Yes I had loads of fun haha staying up all night, trying a variety of recreational drugs. Had some interactions with couples in which I got to see the inner workings of someone else's relationship up close which I find interesting. Sometimes it was just a drunken night with a dear friend, many of whom I've known 10+ years and there was intimacy but obvs no intention of romance and I think fondly of all those memories. Rolling around in bed, playing slay the spire laying next to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:52 PM
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If they have children or planned to there are many valid reasons to get married. My one friends parents weren't married and it was really annoying for things like insurance. She now has a child of her own and the baby was born before her and her fiance had gotten married and again, huge annoyances with collecting certain benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:44 PM
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You personally associate those with women. Most don't and the ones that do are typically men stuck in the past or who want a "traditional marriage." Cleaning up after yourself isn't feminine. Communicating well isn't feminine. Edit: Also those things you listed should be a pretty minimum expectation of both parties in a relationship. It's weird you seem to not understand why these qualities would be expected in a good partner, man or woman. And that modern women expecting this of men is some sor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:11 PM
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TIL communication skills, being emotionally supportive to your partner and cleaning up after yourself are "women roles."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:04 AM
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With your point about her saying "what exactly do women do to men?" not every statement made needs to be followed up by "well, of course there are some women/men who..." or "and "I'm obviously not talking about alllll men/women when I say..." every post and comment would be so much longer than necessary. Not every statement needs to include the edge cases in which everyone reading it already knows said thing of course doesn't encompass ALL people and scenarios possible. She's just making the poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:27 PM
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I personally think the post is pretty weak in terms of its arguments and general tone of delivery, but I disagree that it doesn't belong on the sub or doesn't add to the conversation. There are plenty of meta posts aimed at discussing the state of the sub. She isn't even saying that she expects to see more sympathy from men. She's just addressing a very common theme in PPD where people will quite literally allude to some sort of upcoming fall of society brought on by these issues, oftentimes ple…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:45 PM
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She likely means necessary for livelihood, not the workforce. As in, when women were not able to or encouraged to study, work, etc and basically needed to marry and have children as there were few other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:28 PM
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The motivation part in general is tough to overcome however in the context of physical activity where the goal is losing weight and receiving the mental health benefits of fitness I would suggest trying to find a more fun, goal oriented way to exercise and see if that helps. I don't really enjoy just going to the gym and either running on the machines for cardio or lifting. Joining something like an ultimate frisbee rec league, getting into cycling, joining a hiking group or getting a season pas…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:20 AM
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I just set my location radius to very close - 10 to 12 mi and take the best pick of that crop. I don't feel bombarded cuz I'm only swiping for 5 out of maybe 50 profiles. So only interacting with a few and of those few will only meet up with one or two that after a short conversation I have decided there's potential compatibility. Very manageable as likes don't mean "people capable of reaching out to you"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:33 PM
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Oh no way! I live a bit of ways underneath ya right by the gwb in north jersey. I've noticed in areas not so populated/city-ish the expectations are a bit different. I'd personally see those things as a bit old fashioned and but nothing I'd leave a date over. Just a culture difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:54 AM
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Oh cool I was just curious. I've just never had this happen with either men or women and have never done it myself. Where did you grow up if you don't mind me asking
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:45 AM
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Those are two ends of the spectrum. Most people fall somewhere in middle where they had two or one parent(s) who just held consistent jobs period and didn't have a ton starting out but lived a comfortable enough life. Maybe their kid played some sports growing up and they pay for some but not all of the kids housing and college. The kid is still by no means coming from wealth but they pick a decent enough major, graduate on time from some state school and end up with a decent enough job after an…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:42 AM
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You pull out chairs for people and take their coat? I'd find that stuff strange to do or be on the receiving end of. Is that stuff a common expectation?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:36 AM
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Yep. I see already the top two replies saying "yes we care," instead of "I personally care." I date both men and women and I usually ask people how many people they've been with purely out of curiosity and to see what the range of sexual experiences they've had are but unless it's like nearly 60 I have never had another thought about it. As long as they seem like they're respectful and don't view hookups as some sort of game/trophy and it appears that they've just had there fair share of fun and…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:12 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:52 AM
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You are correct. Queer women are also inherently different than straight women. Totally different ball game.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:49 AM
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None of my guy friends experience this haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:42 AM
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Tbh I think we'll see more accurate numbers for this when gay marriage has been around for longer. A lot of gay people got married out of excitement when it was finally legalized
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:27 AM
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Oh wow yeah I haven't met any of those types probably because I live right outside nyc. Almost no religious/conservative minded people unless you're boomer age+. I'm sure location by region matters a lot for so many of these posts now that I think of it. People closer to the coasts are guna experience way different things than in the Midwest. I have a friend from MS. She says there were lots of high school sweethearts and people get married/get pregnant earlier. I couldn't believe what she was t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:20 AM
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Samsies. Lots of folks with answers in their 20s haha I've met very few, but a couple of virgins in their early or late 20s. Most of the time they just seem to have started off with bad self esteem then got disinterested in trying and they were definitely normal people. If anything the late 20s girl virgins are far weirder than the men haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:06 AM
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Nope but no one on this earth is free of judgement. People are entitled to their opinions therefore if you go out in public and say women have no value to you other than for sex(even though people should be judged by their goodwill, being a good, kind person, what theyve given back to world, regardless of gender), you better believe people are going to call you out for having such a disturbing attitude. If you say something in public you are allowing the public the opportunity to respond to it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 08:27 PM
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I mean if you get x from y time and time again without much change you'd understand y is the norm. Anyone with any reasonable social experience knows right away that this didn't happen. Something like it may have happened. But his play by play from memory is this exaggerated story to fit the agenda of his post where he also happens to be literally called a funny, dominant, leader(he had to add this part in of course as it was integral to the story). This isn't assuming he's lying, it's knowing l…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 08:01 PM
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I live just outside nyc haha that many hoochies huh? In my experience if you hang out with smart, driven, interesting people you don't run into human garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:52 PM
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The first step would be to have a solid group of homies that you've likely known for a good while. You guys have good social synergy and other people will have fun just joining in on what you guys do/talk about. Next is to consciously, as in you all discuss and agree that being more universally compatible people is ideal. Me and my group is basically a bunch of dudes that like board games and mtg. But, after college we all started doing shit outside our usual shtick. Hiking, rec sports, cooking,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:35 PM
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Bruh... where do you live. I ain't ever met a single person that has done meth and I only know 2 women in my life that have children and they're both married lol everyone in my life is educated and all around good folks. The dudes in my group are skinny nerdy dudes and they meet women pretty easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:46 PM
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Someone they meet through work or friends. Many women I know have pretty robust co-ed friend groups. If you're a guy and you and your friends only hang out with each other and it's a sausage fest all the time you're not guna meet many girls or have exp treating women like normal people. My friends and I invested into our social circle. We bring in new people all the time. We spend time with each other but we also regularly host gatherings like little party/BBQ things. We invite anyone, friends o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:40 PM
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Lol you have not looked around much. There are dick sucking toys now they look dope. Also you can get vibrating ring things. Vibrators are not any more or less special than your options. Just be glad you guys have dicks they seem way more enjoyable to use period.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:29 PM
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You severely misunderstand the variance in human psyche. Some people are simply not capable of feeling romance the way others are. Personality disorders like narcissism, asd, or any other number of them make reality and what is "correct" very different for these people. Humans are meant to be self serving, even altruism is understood to be a selfish trait at its core. For some people, chasing after these things is correct because they desire nothing else. And no amount of self reflection will ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:08 PM
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You weren't able to answer my question so
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:46 PM
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"Correct" by what standard? There are no absolute truths in this existence by which to create a universal standard for living a good/"correct life. There is nothing about chasing after money or looks that is any less objectively correct than not. This post is nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 08:43 AM
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All of the other answers here are what I would say. To add to that: It just feels good to make it on your own. I like my career and wanted an education. It's fulfilling. Also when power dynamics exist it puts the person with more power in a position to use their status as the nondependent one to use their "good grace and financial support" as a means of leverage to control the other person. Then every disagreement or conflict becomes them holding that over you. And what can you do when your live…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:39 PM
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Same it also went from thinking I was 65% man that looks like Josh hutcherson to 87% woman who looks like allison mack. Got age 17 in one pic and 25 in another lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:29 AM
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No way hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:07 AM
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Potential is a key word. Preferring n count is only a potential side effect. There are environments/societies in which humans could theoretically exist where no one would have an n count preference. This is why is 100% cultural. Only some people behave/think this way as a response to jealousy. Cultures that heavily slut shame would significantly increase the n count preference. If it was biological and in our genes all men would have it. It's related/rooted in biology but the behavior itself isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:26 PM
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Yes that is exactly what I'm saying. Violence is a behavior, a potential side effect of the evolutionary trait/feeling anger. Humans are far less violent out of anger nowadays because of cultural reasons. Preferring n count is a potential side effect of the feeling/trait jealousy. You need to think it to have the preference. I'm not sure what you're not understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:11 PM
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In what I wrote I clearly state jealousy is what is biological. Behaviors such as preferring low n count is cultural. I intentionally make the distinction between feeling vs behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:51 PM
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That's unfortunate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:10 AM
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"I meet women all the time and I know them really well yet I severely struggle with dating"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:25 AM
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You are seriously doubting the fertility of women buddy. You think women don't ever think about what they want? Haha make some female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:58 AM
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They do not prefer it, on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:22 AM
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Then why are you speaking about a woman's reproductive and romantic choices when you only seem to know her on a surface level? Maybe she plans to freeze her eggs, adopt, find a surrogate.. The compatability and chemistry that is necessary for a stable, healthy marriage and literally bearing someone else's children is massive. I'm glad some women, usually the smart ones, vet heavily and do not take this potentially lifelong decision lightly. It is better that women take their time to mature more …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:14 AM
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No wayyy lmao. Well dude since this appears to be real you just don't have good energy. Do you know if she's willing to adopt? Do you know if she's on the fence or 100% about biological kids? How do you know you're a great guy? You think women are into men who make posts like this on reddit? You think we're all incapable of sensing someone's energy/mindset by interacting with them? I snooped a little on your profile, I see you're a dev too. Do you really think smart women can't sniff you guys ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:22 AM
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Imagine thinking just because someone is single and not into you specifically you think they're gambling away their youth for it and write some mildly spiteful reddit comment about it. Reminds me of the mad men scene in the elevator where the guy goes "I feel bad for you" and don goes "I don't think about you at all."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:31 AM
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Thanks man! Lots of folks around here don't wana face the reality that they are not under some magical, all-powerful nature spell that rules their monkey brains and controls their every thought.. Too bad this thread finna be buried and no one will see this haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:45 AM
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Sexual chemistry is an important part of a healthy relationship. You gotta find out if you're compatible in this way somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:29 PM
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Why should she not?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:21 PM
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Preferring low ncount in and of itself isn't the "trait"(it's not a trait at all) it's a POTENTIAL side effect of the actual evolutionary trait jealousy. Jealousy invoked feelings of possessiveness. Which was useful for a whole bunch of self preserving behaviors but in this context the main one would be for mate guarding. Mate guarding emotions/behaviors are useful for resource preservation by way of preventing possible infidelity that could potentially result in having to care and provide resou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:05 PM
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If you grew up there than yeah I'd say definitely consider going back if you feel your values will be more compatible elsewhere. It's your life to with as you please.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:11 PM
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For some, physical touch as a love language is very low or nonexistent. Some people just don't connect intimately through sex, however they do it through other acts of love. Different strokes for different folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:57 PM
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Eh I still feel like American women are quite a bit more on the extreme when it comes to identity politics. I'd imagine the women are just sorta normalish over there. It would seem so much easier to integrate too and good work life balance. Some of the highest quality of life ratings than any other places. Anyways, I get what you mean though I just wanted to see if he had considered it. Wasn't even suggesting it myself, just asked if he had thought about it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:52 PM
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Yeah, definitely. It's pretty easy to find people irl and online especially if you are thin and have a decent face. My match rate when swiping for women is absurdly high compared to my guy friends. Don't need to post the stats for swiping on men lol the person I'm dating rn I met through a mutual friend who set us up and it actually worked out, for now. I'm super glad how things have changed on a social level in terms of freedom to choose. My grandma is a very smart woman who just sorta attached…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:44 PM
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Post the study with those numbers that say the top 20% of men are or have slept with 80% of women period.. those look like the stats from tinder swipes. Swiping right on someone is not the same as sleeping with them buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:26 PM
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Well, you may have some difficulty depending on the country and the woman's family/upbringing. Being against mixing races and wanting to marry within the race is still prevalent in some or even many of those countries. What's your salary like? You might still end up with many of the same roadblocks as you would finding a wife here if you don't have a good career as it would be far easier to expat and date in that country as a high paid white collar worker than it would be in any other position. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:17 PM
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Oh my bad! Totally misinterpreted your comment, I see that now. Cheers!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:34 AM
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Oh cool someone trying to participate in a debate sub but doesn't make any counter arguments except "herr durr LiBeRaLss" Nice one, got me!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:31 AM
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It is not a mainstream belief. We can't stop any small group of people from saying/believing ridiculous stuff online. People are entitled to their opinions. Why are you so concerned with something such a small percentage of people think? Stop thinking the loud whackos on twitter represent how the majority of normal working age women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:11 AM
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Alright, stay in your echo chamber it is!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:59 PM
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This shit is not mainstream. It's not on the news. I don't care what a bunch of idiots on twitter are saying in their echo chambers and neither should you. Men are very much allowed to say they won't date fat women on twitter no? Do we put them in jail? Do we ban them from the platform? So since we know you actually are allowed to say those things I'm going to assume you mean they are not "allowed" because of the select group of people who comment on those posts, which if I'm to guess is far les…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:31 PM
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Very few people are engaging with and sharing that kind of content and the people who are you wouldnt be interested in, nor would I, so they're irrelevant yet you continue to talk about these random people, and let them bother you and influence your perception of society. If you think this rhetoric is widespread then you're living in a bubble. If you hang out with smart, compassionate and interesting people you will never come across this stuff and it'll be like it doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:57 PM
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I wouldn't know since I don't have Twitter/insta/tiktok/etc so my views are shaped by the real world ya feel? Looks you you're working with the inverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:42 PM
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This is cringe lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:40 PM
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I've never had an Instagram/twitter/tiktok/etc. lol I just work, play games and hang out out my bunny. I also have a ton of normal ass girl friends and none of them shit talk men. I'm the only queer one in the group and tbh almost all of them seem quite fond of men and/or are in long term relationships with really great dudes. The social media space /= real life. Only that whackos who are that involved in it. The only thing you'll find on my friends ig are pics of their pets, memes, scenery, ran…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:50 AM
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Having an only fans isn't about profiting off of male loneliness. People like porn, most people aren't lonely, unrealistic, weak, getting affected by porn negatively. Sexual content is in demand and people need money. You never know what someone's situation is when they need food/rent and are very young and lacking familial support for reasons out of their control. I probably wouldn't date an OF/cam girl either but I think the reason you gave is not in any way reasonable. It's a dog eat dog worl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:24 AM
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"I'm guna kill you bitch"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:15 AM
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Oh look you weren't capable of coming up with any sources to prove your point, you don't need researchers that spend their lives learning about our biology to make informed conclusions, you just KNOW because it's what you've experienced in your lifetime. You just KNOW that women in your country are hornier than men because USA studies aren't inclusive but too bad there are none for your country with apparently proves you're right. But yeah I'm the dumb one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:47 AM
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Then post a study/studies from a different country, or your own perhaps. If you can't then your anecdotal experiences mean nothing. I brought up an anecdote too but only because it's widely available to access the absurd amount of data showing that men are hornier on average. Without proof your life experience really doesn't hold weight in a discussion like this. Also why wouldn't our cultural context be nearly the most unbiased than anywhere on the planet because the women here have achieved a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:34 AM
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There are plenty of studies that prove this, you are free to literally explore this topic. I have plenty of sex but it's a joke to say that on average men aren't hornier to some degree. Why do you think gay men have way more sex than lesbians when lesbians orgasm even more than straight women? I date men and women. Been with 15 men and 10 women.. it's a hugely noticeable difference in libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:57 AM
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Yeah I feel like there's a big misconception about how attention and compliments just shoot our egos up into the atmosphere... like nah at 16-18 it's marginally exciting by 21 I was so over it and people commenting on my appearance so often it actually kinda upset me and made me question whether any interaction I had of any kind was genuine or not. I know what I look like. If you wana compliment something specific like my eyebrows(which I do myself and take pride in haha) or a dress that fits me…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:30 AM
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I've always said that the one thing that seems to be consistent throughout my entire life is the average dudes that I see pulling the most women and having the most successful relationships are the ones who have at least one or two longstanding friendships with a woman. Usually the girl is a super cool chick and the friendship is actually like pretty substantial/valuable, so there is a bit of luck that goes into meeting someone compatible to fill this role.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:10 AM
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Being an introvert doesn't imply not being outgoing or socially adept. I enjoy being alone/spend most of my time alone but I also usually have a pretty large presence in social settings. I'm funny, I've always done well socially and had lots of friends but I've always been a solo person at my core.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:02 AM
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Lol no we are not. We are past this already and the science is in. Look up any recent study on this and you'll see that the results are in.. testosterone is a much more powerful horny chemical. Men are in fact hornier than us by quite a large margin and this is pretty evident.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:46 AM
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You're saying you're seeing women rejecting attractive men but the truth is that sometimes people just aren't interested for any multitude of reasons and you'd really never know why unless you asked them. They could just not be feeling it that night, they could not be looking at the moment. Sometimes I feel like I wana be more proactive about finding a partner or something casual then the interest just vanishes. You having personally seen hot dudes getting turned down means nothing and doesn't i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:41 AM
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Eh I moan to make them finish quicker when I'm bored and wana do something else or starting to dry up, not getting any build up. I also moan so I don't risk having to coddle them when they're upset they're not "getting me there." Sometimes, I don't know why piv doesn't feel good. Sometimes it's mood, stress, dick size, but I don't wana make someone else sad and feel guilty for something I can't control. So you fabricate and everyone wins. He's happy, and I don't need to answer 20 questions about…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:44 AM
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I'm in my mid/late 20s and most people I know, man or woman, are hoping to meet a compatible partners for a long term relationship. The people who don't usually have a good reason ie. just got out of a relationship, enrolled in a difficult grad program, not looking to stay in the area for much longer. I've found that in general women tend to be a bit more socially adept, likely because meeting partners and friends is much easier as a girl at any age. Most people you meet through work or clubs wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:57 AM
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I prefer relationships because I want a familiar face, someone who has passed the test of time with me so we know each other far more deeply than anyone else, and the connection and intimacy that comes from having shared values, goals, and years of memories and inside jokes. I play video games so I think the idea of having a permanent duo is cute. Commitment and striving to continually choose the same person year after year to spend your life with is beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:37 AM
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Yeah... he is not their "friend" at all if he is so bothered about them not wanting romance with him. He is the user here haha can men and women not have legit friendships?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:03 AM
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You're also seeing them in like perfect lighting and makeup. Plenty of celebs just look like your average hot girl/guy when out and about on a random day
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:10 AM
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I mean I'm very objectively attractive lmao if I had someone that was paid to do my makeup I could easily pass for playing a character much younger as well. I literally get surprised looks like every time I get carded like "oh! Okay you just have a baby face sorry!" I've worked out my entire life and my diet isn't perfect but it's very good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 01:54 AM
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Honestly my friend just did that and she loves it haha I'm honestly kinda jelly of her. We're both 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 01:51 AM
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Haha don't need dieticians and personal trainers to make good choices. Takes habit and a bit of diligence. Everyone has access to the info and tools to stay healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 01:42 AM
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My physical therapist is 32 and she's literally the most beautiful woman in the world to me and I would marry her in an instant lol if you take care of yourself and stay fit a beautiful woman who's set in her career and stable is the hottest thing in the worlddddd
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 01:39 AM
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Yeah I mean I date women too and yeah exactly no one expects you to continue after that point, when someone starts to do that to me and they're not starting any convos or making plans I just stop reaching out immediately. If theyre interesed you'll hear from them. Just the way it is. He's saying he dated someone for "MONTHS" and there was still this like disconnect. There should be no confusion at that stage. If the mutual connections and feelings aren't there it's just guna be dust in the wind …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 01:24 AM
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Saying everything is fine is a very empty statement. After a 3-6 months if there aren't relatively substantial feelings, not necessarily love, but you're both admitting you only think of the other, you're so glad you met, you love spending time together and so on, and I mean literally sharing these things vocally with the other.(Kissing and touching will also likely have become a bit more intimate by this time.) These are the markers that things are progressing. If you dated for literal months, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:12 PM
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Working adults aren't shaming each other for their private lives in the real world I promise you. If they are they're not worth being around, man or woman. People are focused on themselves, starting families, or just.. dealing with their mundane lives trying to find enough time outside work to still enjoy life lol God, "shame" gets thrown around so much here and it's like you just saw a tweet where some random bitch online is like "men who be sleeping around in their 30s ain't shit" or something…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:52 PM
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She just lost interest. I was in college not too long ago. Many of the men I went on dates with and saw a number of times seemed to think things were going super swell just because I was showing up and answering their texts lol your friends are probably not being mislead just inexperienced and can't tell between genuine, growing connections and someone that's willing to hang out with them for a bit to test the waters that they happen to have fun with when together. Though, I never ghosted anyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:44 PM
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Omg this is the best comment I think I've ever read on this sub haha I'd give you an award if I had one!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:57 AM
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I'm at 25 and 27 yrs old. The amount of variation in the people you meet will be quite large. It depends on so many things. But no, most people do not have numbers as low as 3 or 4 at least when you're talking about your average adult with a healthy or somewhat healthy social life. Almost everyone I know is like 8-30. 10 at 32 isn't super low or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:57 PM
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Did you see my comment underneath this one?? It's just pointless to an argument to being up the male experience to minimize the woman's for no reason when they both sucked in different ways. I can agree mens sucked much more. But I don't see the point in say, on a thread talking about the loss of pets and grief, and then another commenter coming in and being like WELL HAVE YOU LOSY YOUR PARENTS SOME PEOPLE LOSE THEIR PARENTS?!?!! It's just stupid and adds nothing of value since we're not talking…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:23 PM
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I'm not even comparing it to the male experience, you did that yourself haha I'm just saying women taking pills isn't a new thing. Just because they weren't working in mines doesn't mean having to deal with a rowdy man you practically hate and being forced and pressured into sex is fun. Everyone's lives sucked then. Men and women's. In different ways. You basically had to marry someone even if you didn't love them. Sex with someone when you're not into is a bad experience for anyone. You don't n…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:49 AM
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80%?? More like 30% max. Nothing is going mad max. People have just enough to be satisfied getting fat with their high corn syrup foods. Mostly everyone I know mid to late 20s either dates to some degree or is paired up. More men now are left behind cuz I have noticed many of my girl friends just don't want kids and don't seem interested in sex all that much, they just live nice quiet lives with their friends and don't even actively look for partners nor have a desire to. Most of OLD app users a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:46 PM
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Lmao do you experience the real world? Anyone who lives a healthy social life, has a career where they meet other average working class adults knows that most people get paired up or has had some experience at least by late 20s early 30s. I have a huge group of co-ed friends, though def heavily more male, and they're sorta your typical board game types but they drink and stuff too, none of them are "hot", but they're not ugly either, not a single one is in shape or goes to the gym and they get d…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:24 PM
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Most men I know and meet are doing fine tbh. Most of the people you meet won't be in any weird manosphere circle or critically lacking social skills. And by late 20s the ones who were a little weird but now have a career and some savings will have equally average gfs usually long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:55 PM
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Any person who works in America knows this. Anyone who doesn't is just too young/doesn't have a salaried position yet. Most of my friends make about 100k with a few exceptions and at mid to late 20s most of us are buying houses even if single, can afford new/nice cars and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:51 PM
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Oh pleae women were medicated even when married all throughout the 1800s and 1900s haha this isn't new. Like the whole manic, despondent wife that needs to be in a psych facility trope. If anything it was worse then cuz women could either get sent away, go on meds or learn to cope and have sex with her husband just enough to not get beat or screamed at lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:43 PM
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I don't think they should be shamed I thought for a long time hypertealistic AI sex dolls are the way of the future for the lonely male subset. Also, I can't imagine most of these dudes even live lives where they could be shamed? Like why tell anyone what you do in your private life anyway if it suits you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:40 PM
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Yeah but this is the only time in history where a swing back won't really be able to happen in any meaningful way. This is the first time women can just choose their mates selectively, opt out of child rearing and enjoy being single for the women that don't want kids. Like just because it happened in the past when revolutions still took place on a social level doesn't mean it can now in the age of tech, means of warfare at a gigantic scale, and an overall just a much more organized, monitored so…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:34 PM
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He's saying he doesn't work like a slave, now, but people back then did. He just built a contrasting perspective on the lives of people throughout history to the commenter above who had a more glorified view of the working/spiritual lives of more ancient pre 1800s societies
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:25 PM
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5
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:12 AM
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I think those phrases are more often said to average guys who are just normal looking. No obvious physical flaws. I don't think anyone would argue with someone who is 1-3 on the scale trying to surgically or otherwise fix these issues. If you have the money, do it. I wana get my top lip done and theres nothing even wrong with it lol Elon looks wayyyy better with his full head of hair haha short doesn't really have much of a known solution yet afaik. Women actually have a dedicated sub for this. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:33 PM
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Nope. But I'm probably a slut myself haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:13 PM
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Oh yeah definitely not haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:09 PM
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My group of guy friends are exactly the same. All skinny nerds that didn't do well in hs but finding great women now in their 20s. They're just sweet, smart and interesting to talk to. We're in the age of the geek. There's never been a better time for nerds to meet girl nerds lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:35 PM
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That's a given as only a certain type of woman in her 20s is guna be open to dating a dude that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:30 PM
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It's still just words to explicitly explain what you think/feel and why. It isn't some magical bond lol if you can't communicate and resolves issues quickly and effectively and adjust to your partners communication style either they're just vacant and don't understand themselves or are playing games which means you married the wrong person or you are or you're just incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:50 PM
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Both career and finances are pretty important. Mostly cuz I would prefer someone who is college educated and I tend to mesh well with stem types as I play games and have other hobbies those kinds gravitate towards. Also I find intelligence extremely sexy and smart people tend to be rather successful from what I've experienced. If they switched careers and made less down the line I wouldn't leave though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:41 PM
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What's pua?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 07:09 PM
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Eh it's not really that hard to be flexible in a conversation and address the connected issues in an orderly way. It takes some back and forth but as long as you're evenly letting one share their piece then you responding as best and accurately as you can and then sending another point back as long as you're patient with this method many things can get cleared up at once. I went from dating only men, to mostly men, to mostly women then to only women. At first I thought it was sorta crazy how lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:19 PM
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Have fun living in your world where you think a 35yr old man can freely date another "adult" who is 18 and not attract the attention and judgement of other adults. Nobody in this world is free of judgement. You can cry bigot anytime someone has an opinion you don't agree with but to me you're just proving my point that you're immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:45 AM
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Bigotry and race and sexuality arguments don't apply here. If I think a person is stupid because they can't do basic addition I'm not a bigot. I just have an opinion based on a piece of information. Stop trying to make it seem like it's even marginally related to racism or homophobia. Being a bigot would be thinking it is perverted or wrong for an age gap like that to occur, illegal even. Which is not what I'm saying. I'm not a bigot for thinking you're immature, nice try though lol your argumen…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:21 AM
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You can jump through as many mental hoops as you want to justify it but people like myself are always going to come to the same conclusion haha I don't need to know anything else but your age and hers, that says it all. 31 and 40 is completely different. Just the fact that you can't understand this proves my point. You want so bad for people to think it doesn't say something about you but guess what? It literally does and you're still free to do what you want anyway so I have no idea why you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:00 AM
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Yes, literally the flaw is immaturity. That girl literally had JUST been given the ability to buy alcohol for christ sake haha they are in a completely different headspace mentally. When did I bring up that men in general are evil/predatory/bad? This is a completely different topic of discussion regarding age gaps specifically so I'm going to assume you threw in the men=bad thing as a projection of some sort because it doesn't make sense for my comment. I'm not just randomly bashing gay marriage…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:29 AM
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It's not manipulation/predatory past 21/22 it just says a whole lot about you and where you're at mentally if a 21 year old can provide that kind of connection for you. Who cares if people you never met lose respect for you by sharing that information. Live your life and stop caring so much about what other people think. You know it's legal so if people judge you, let them. I don't think you belong in jail, I'm just judging you and expressing that judgement on a stupid forum. Who gives a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:49 PM
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Of course looks matter the most haha there's literally no point in even discussing this anymore. Both men and women that are 7-10s basically always date other 7-10s, because they literally can. But average people are still guna try to swipe up and get lucky. I basically only date women I find physically attractive and all I have to do is be mildly interesting and basically show up and I'll at the very least usually end up hooking up a few times if it doesn't become a relationship. Why? Because I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:29 PM
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It's not nefarious I just wouldn't respect him as much but who cares what I think if he's happy. Tbh though I only know 2 women that date men in their 40s and they are absolutely not planning on being serious with them. They are flings and want to go on vacations with them, making "daddy issues phase" jokes. I have a feeling serious, committed, LTR's that end in marriage with an age gap like this are so extremely rare they're not even worth discussing. I don't know a single decent, stable woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:02 PM
1

This is the way lol 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:44 PM
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That's about where I am. Everybody seem like they fuggin over here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:13 PM
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Fr the men in my life that are out here getting gf's and slaying pussy are the men who aren't necessarily confident, just not unconfident, have a soft side that allows them to connect with women on a much deeper level than any other men I meet, they are kind, give compliments, are pleasant and charming to be around have a style that suits them, and has a few long standing friendships with women, not just a pack of tight knit dudes. Like all my girl friends bf's are the sweetest dudes I've ever m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:45 PM
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It's more like it's just fucking weird and if you've every attempted to date someone fresh out of hs when you were already out of college you'd know why people look down on this. She can be the most profoundly mature girl you've ever met but her most recent memories are still her fucking prom and shit. It comes out in sooo many ways that unless you're super immature for your age you really can't connect with them in a meaningful way besides taking on a mentor role as a friend. I met a 19 year ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:35 PM
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It's a trade on both ends. She offers up her value, youth and looks, and trades it for what he can offer, resources. They are almost never fragile men haha both parties are very much aware of the transaction that's occurring.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:27 PM
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Most people don't wana hear you talk about programming jibberish but I have found the complete opposition is true. They assume you're smart for working in software and that's hot to them cuz computers = mysterious internet boxes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:18 PM
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Yeah definitely, on apps I go for the most attractive pictures/profiles because so many of the profiles I took a chance on were crazy misleading with pictures. Then I'm stuck for 2-3 hours with a date I'm not attracted to. So I don't do that anymore. I rarely see this being said but since people are so misleading with pictures it's just easier to go for the profiles you have the lowest chance of being duped by even after you've subtracted a few points for accuracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:16 PM
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Software developers have notoriously great work/life balance unless you're the 1% that's working on bleeding edge technology
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:09 PM
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Of course not, but you went from one extreme to the other. A good profile/bio is what sets you apart from the other average joe's that are average or slightly above average looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:06 PM
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Those are probably instances where conversations end up happening naturally and rapport is built over a couple of weeks after two people who usually go at the same time randomly have a friendly exchange and introduce themselves because they've acknowledged they've seen each other a bunch of times. You shouldn't be "on the prowl" at the gym, as in, scoping out women you find attractive and inserting yourself into having a conversation with her. It can happen but gyms are not places where women sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:07 PM
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I guess I can't refute that. I don't go to bars that often anymore. Also, I feel like the bitchiest, most annoying women are the ones that go to bars regularly so that's probably why. The women I know that I would describe as just being normal, sweet, educated types are very rarely going to bars unless it's like holiday stuff or birthdays.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:47 PM
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Well it's not necessarily not appropriate it's just far less likely to be successful than it would be consistently inconvenient for women. They aren't dedicated socializing spaces and sometimes if you're not interested it can be mildly annoying to have to have random small talk until I can indicate I'd just like to focus on my workout and not be disturbed because the gym is when I listen to my podcasts. Bars, clubs, meetups at least you know they are "social spaces." People are there to either s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:41 PM
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That's true. I know it's not available to everyone but I do think on some level it's just because we all consciously made efforts to have the life we do. Luck is a byproduct of skill. Like I wouldn't hang out with someone who is(to me personally) close minded in this way because I couldn't relate to them. I don't think my dude friends have been indoctrinated. I think they're just good people that don't have to force themselves to understand that some people, both girls and guys, like to drink an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:28 PM
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I mean for me, LTRs are always the end game. When I meet someone I think I'm compatible with in that way, or at least have the potential to become long term or at least just an experience to learn more about what works for me going forwards, I invest everything in them. But in between the LTRs sometimes you meet someone you find attractive but its clear you're not romantically compatible, or like friendship is just what comes naturally but sex happens. You can be intimate with your platonic frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:01 PM
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Well it's not an organized group. They are my friends/neighbors I grew up with and I'm the only woman in the core group. I've known them my entire life and none of them did well in hs tbh. But I've seen the women they date come and go, the gfs usually bring around their female friends and then they get added to the group to expand it.. one couple is set to get married. So this is just my group of friends, we just happen to play board games and I think that's the easiest way to describe them to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 09:26 PM
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I'm a girl who dates mostly women and occasionally men. My brother is in his 30s and talks about a lot of this stuff and it's how I found the sub cuz he told me about mgtow so I went to read about it. He seems very unhealthy mentally and clearly very bitter so he hasn't been able to move forward with his life. Digging himself into a deep hole. I just like reading this stuff because I want to know why/how he got to this point because I think it's this echo chamber as none of my guy friends are su…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 08:49 PM
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Lol idk man I've said no to men at bars plenty of times and said "no thanks" to people offering to buy me drinks when I wasn't looking for anything sexual/romantic. I've never thought "ew why is he doing that here," neither do my friends, like it's going to happen, we all know that, you just politely decline if you're not interested. It's expected to happen sometimes. This isn't something "I miss" if it's literally an expectation that it will regularly occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 08:36 PM
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Exactly but if we all understand this and we know why it occurs is there really a point in coming here week after week seeing literally the same discourse in this echo chamber, knowing nothing will change? I doubt it's therapeutic because everyone here just seems angry and bitter, or writing revenge porn fantasies where they, the main character who was le nerd all his life, finally has money and can now reject all the women that rejected him in his 20s for chads. Wouldn't it be better to just be…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 08:31 PM
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So what do you propose to fix the free for all then? How would you like the dating market and expectations to change?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 08:17 PM
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The only time I've ever seen this is when dudes are asking about approaching women at the gym or other places that really aren't appropriate for that kind of socialization. I've never seen dudes who asked a general question like "where can I meet women?" and not basically get unanimous answers of bars, clubs, hobby groups/meetups, through your friends' social circles, religious organizations. But you guys only seem to see and hear what you want to and focus only on the negative replies and not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 08:11 PM
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Definitely this. My brother frequents these circles. He's always trying to convince me that friendship between men and women don't exist, a man will never hang out with a girl for anything other than sex. But what do I see? The dudes in my friend group are all nerds, play boardgames, only a few are even near 6ft, and they all do well with women/have stable ltr's. They all maintain good friendships with both women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 07:07 PM
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You guys love blaming your own failures on other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 07:02 PM
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You literally said you've been with one person and you're only 22. Get some perspective and then see how cringey you were. It'll be cathartic I promise. Not even sarcasm. I keep a lot of the stuff on my notepad, text exchanges from when I was fresh out of hs/college. You'll cringe at yourself but also realize how much you've grown and not just how little you understood then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:36 PM
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Well yeah my point is just that they'll be more likely to continue with an activity if they can opt for one they like slightly more than another as opposed to just only offering one just because it's slightly more optimal. I'm not in any way against signing your kids up for a sport even if they don't want to. If you make them do gymnastics against their will for a few years they can be training and practicing a sport they'd prefer you have a much higher chance of them not turning away from sport…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:10 PM
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Ehh I don't think girls or boys should have to do any sport they don't like. My parents started me off in gymnastics and I hated it and complained until I could switch. Was sooo much happier after that. I think any fitness is good and kids should enjoy their extracurricular hobbies since its supposed to be a recharge from school. You still stretch a lot and get a ton of cardio no matter what sport you play. Even at the high school level you are not doing upper body for most women's sports and if…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:42 PM
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Why should girls have to do gymnastics? Haha that seems so random is there some kinda of particular important thing gained from gymnastics as opposed to other sports?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:51 PM
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Don't listen to these nut jobs. You can have great relationships with the women you are casual with if you find women that catch your eye and are also easy to hang out with and make for decent conversation. It'll never be "one true love" levels of emotion, but intimacy can exist between people you respect and see as friends but also happen to sleep with. There can be a lot to learn and experience as well. It's really just about finding joy and appreciating the moments of sharing that particular …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:03 PM
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You think that's a lot of words? Aw.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:56 PM
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Totally your choice whether you want to defend your side or not, I don't know how you would anyway seeing as it's incorrect so I think you made the right choice!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:52 PM
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The women on onlyfans are more like a brand/financial entity than they are a person. So, someone with an OF providing a service is a business2person interaction in the form of a transaction. A man, or woman, not being upfront about expectations to another person is completely different. That's a real life person to person interaction where common decency and respect should be the norm. You're investing, time, emotional and physical vulnerability, and so on to this person. Man or woman, lying or …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:42 PM
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They should know that if they're on the shorter side it isn't the end all be all. My hs bf I dated for 4 years was 5'6, I didn't even know he was considered shorter until after we broke up. I'm sleeping with a dude that's 5'7 currently, he also has a really small frame despite working out so he actually fits in some of my clothes. He enjoys the tighter fit and we giggle over it. My best friend had a baby with a guy who's built but 5'6, she's an inch or two taller than him. My other friend was ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:23 PM
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Yeah I read through the responses and as a girl I think this one is pretty spot on. I would say a healthy chunk of the men my friends are dating/married to aren't attractive to me at all. They don't look bad or anything, they're just normal looking dudes. A few I find objectively good looking though if they have the same features and body type I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:12 PM
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This shit never happens in real life. Waving their hair? Exactly zero of my friends do this to signal people. We all just touch our hair a lot to get it to sit how we want lmao also I feel like 90+% of times a dude gets rejected it's politely. No one is getting called loser. I won't say it hasn't happened but women are generally suuuuper nonconfrontational, conflict avoiders, they like to avoid socially awkward situations so they're more likely to just involuntarily act cordially with a hint of …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:56 PM
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I commented this twice cuz I answered the first time on my other account that I don't want PPD stuff on haha Yes lol I have taken that into consideration. I'm sorta bisexual but homoromantic if we were to get technical but I don't like long labels and identifying as a lesbian feels correct since I don't date men. But that's not what I mean anyway, I'm not speaking about my own perceived feelings. I just mean the approach, frequency of initiation and response to saying I wasn't in the mood was di…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:47 AM
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What do you mean by women being more sexual than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:12 PM
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The comment thread was specifically talking about bi vs gay in terms of hardship. So I'm saying yeah 50% is huge but it's nowhere near the numbers for actual gay people who don't have both genders to pick from in terms of sheer number of available partners
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:18 PM
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Well I'm sure there exist married bi men so I can't speak for how common this is as I am not a straight woman. I can see some women ruling them out for being bi but even if 50% of available straight women refused to date a bi man the other 50% is still a much larger portion of the population than the dating pool for gay/lesbian folk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:49 PM
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Most of them have been with my guy friends who were dating or married to a bi woman. I did meet two lovely couples on an app before though and I only did it because I thought the women were exceptionally beautiful, it wouldn't be worth it for me if they were just average looking. It's not something I do often though. I'm sure it sounds odd for a lesbian to sleep with men but due to heteronormativity growing up most lesbians started off dating men before they were gay so they're comfortable being…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:26 PM
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Yep. All of them have been mff. None were mmf or fff
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:52 PM
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Or just dating normal, mature, respectful men. If a dude was out there pressuring all his bi gf's for threesomes I'd assume he was just some douchey college aged dude. People are much more mature when you starting nearing 30 from what I can tell. IM the one getting bombarded by requests for threesomes as a lesbian lmao all the women, gay or bi, are on OLD but I don't see why they complain. It's not against the rules so people should be able to look for what they want on the online market. Not in…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:23 PM
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I did notice the pillow talk, whispering sweet nothings, communication with a focus on feelings, general acts of romance were much more common when I switched to only dating women. When I was exclusively dating men I did notice they're much hornier than women on average. There was sooo much less pressure to have sex when I started dating women. You're right that nothing is black and white but from my own experience and talking to other lesbian women, because majority of us started out dating men…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:12 PM
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Probably close to half of my female friends are bi and no one is pressuring them into threesomes lol. Not saying it doesn't happen but this isn't the norm for them. I'd still rather have a large dating pool vs a small one. My bi friends have a way easier time dating than my gay friends. Can't speak for bi men though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:50 PM
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I'm a lesbian and I agree with what he said for the most part. Why do you think it's false?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:34 PM
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I'm not sure this is true, I'd say the hardest is the ones where it's the most difficult to meet partners. Bi women who have trouble finding women to date can always just fall back on the sea of available men. Bi men can likely easily get sex with other men, maybe struggle to find ltr's but again, they have a slew of straight women to date in that case. I'd rather be occasionally met with biphobia than be fully gay and more lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:30 PM
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It was normal for some of my friends, not the case for plenty others depending on how many ltrs they had had and also their value in the dating market. People that typically have good success, live very social lives and hang out with the opposite sex frequently will get their numbers bumped up a lot in their early 20s if they're not in a serious relationship. I knew plenty of people like this so it's not uncommon. I also knew plenty that didn't which was normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 05:03 PM
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I think 30+ is when I'd start wondering if there was like a reason for that many(sexual trauma as a child, super high libido, etc) but I still don't think it would deter me from dating them. I'd probably start asking questions about it though. 4-20 is ideal/acceptable/expected for me personally. F27, now gay but was straight and then bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:58 AM
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My dad is pretty good about just gently nudging him in certain directions. Like going back and finishing his bachelor's. He does this infrequently though because bringing it up too often will do more harm than good. My dad just retired and wants peace in the house. My mom is far more aggressive but after so many fights they don't really speak anymore. Now my brother only leaves his room to go to work. Nobody sees him. Well, they're not going to kick him to the curb. Our family is relatively well…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:28 AM
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I would strongly suggest taking what you see here with a grain of salt if you are young. You are mostly getting prompts and replies from similar types of men, making a lot of the discourse inherently biased/skewed towards one side. A lot of the generalizations that get made here are not nearly as prevalent in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:01 AM
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When you are just doing indoor bouldering you don't have to go on the high walls where you need to be belayed. The shorter walls that are only about 10 ft high imo are more fun and challenging anyway. Also cheaper due to not needing someone to belay for you. Definitely give it a try I absolutely love it and wish I started sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:56 AM
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My brother talks about this stuff unironically all the time. Even at family gatherings. It's really weird and makes people feel sorta awkward but honestly he used to be a normal guy and still sorta is? I mean he's super bitter towards women and just checked out of life for awhile, didn't work for a long time, is 30, hasn't had a gf since high school, still lives at our parents house. But honestly I think he treats people with respect especially when in a nonsocial setting and keeps these thought…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:42 AM
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I often find myself thinking, "this HAS to be a troll post," then I read the comment thread and everyone is responding seriously lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:29 AM
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There's way more men that are bitter towards and/or seem to strongly dislike women as a whole in the RP community than in any other random unrelated subgroup of people like violinists. Let's be real here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:50 AM
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I think they understand you but don't agree with you. Do you really think you're that much more enlightened than everyone else? If you're the most unique person out there how will there be others like you? I have a feeling you are very young. 18-20 if I'm to guess. Maybe keep the post up and in a few years come back to see how much your beliefs have changed. Everyone said the same thing over and over because it's the truth. Everyone in the world has to get by with the hand they are dealt. You ei…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:42 PM
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"and I want communities to have freedom to self govern themselves how ever they want to" -Are you not free to search for what you want in a partner and in life currently? Are you not free to get on a soapbox and get your beliefs out into the world to rally up a following and "find your people?" Do people not gather in clusters with people who share similar values and beliefs currently? You don't get the privilage to give or rescind consent to social shifts if they don't infringe on anyone's free…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:05 PM
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I'm saying the increase in casual sex likely has no or very little correlation to the situations in which a child is abandoned. I don't have a source but since economic status has a very large impact on the rates of fatherless/motherless children I think it's fair to say it's mostly a poverty problem. I don't see an increase in casual sex as an issue at all though. So I basically respectfully disagree with your entire post. Personally, I believe for a long time people were pushed into molds and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:01 PM
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I don't see how it's the norm. The majority of the women in my life (I'm in my 20s went to a big state university and have a ton of female friends, live near a big city) have graduated college and are either just starting to settle into people they're thinking about marrying or are focusing on their careers or unsure if they want children all together. This is anecdotal but if it were that common surely I'd see it more. I'm not saying what you're saying doesn't happen but I highly doubt it is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:16 PM
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Its more like you date people for 1-6 months, see if the connection is substantial enough to become long term (sexual chemistry and attraction is one of the things people who value a healthy sex life in their relationships will look for), so by this time you've probably slept with them during the early dating stages and if you can't see yourself spending your life with that person you split amicably or sometimes even choose to just remain platonic friends. This can easily happen twice a year so …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:03 PM
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It is up to the individual to do their own risk assessment and preventative measure to avoid pregnancy. I for one would not have to worry about this because I have great health insurance and live in a state where abortion isn't going anywhere. I also primarily date/have sex with women, so for me it would be mostly a none issue. However, I always use protection and if by chance I did get pregnant I would not carry the child to term. The risk of getting pregnant if you take the right precautions i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:32 PM
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How are you not presented with the option? People are always allowed to choose not to engage in any activity. So long as the person thats propositioning you is honest about their intentions. I'm just making the point that casual sex isn't always just about the sex and lack of care and respect for your partners. It can include romance and intimacy and even love. Sometimes people are not long term compatible but they enjoy the others company a lot and also are attracted to them. I personally feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:12 PM
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Honestly it didn't sound like she was arguing plus what she wrote is pretty clearly just a corollary to piggyback off what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:09 PM
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I'm basically always looking for a compatible ltr but, in the process of searching, if I'm single and I meet someone I find very sexually attractive I don't mind having temporary casual sex with them. Casual sex/fwb can still contain intimacy depending on your mindset. You're still sharing time and space with someone, talking, being vulnerable with each other physically. I treat meeting anyone and spending time with them, even if it's temporary, as special.. because life is short. So I feel a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:45 PM
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I just live in and around cities. I agree the peaceful suburbs are different. But many young women live in urban areas so yeah, it's different here. When I was living in Philly I didn't wear headphones walking alone at night, things like that. It doesn't feel like paranoia, I don't walk around in fear.. I just calmly take precautions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:18 AM
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I honestly always figured he'd hit rock bottom, be there for a little while, but then use that suffering he felt to turn everything around because he'd have nothing left to lose really. But once he hit his low point he just stayed there and it's been years so you're right about charting a path. Me and him actually both use psychedelics recreationally. I personally will stack mushrooms and mdma, lsd I take by itself about once or twice a year, but I do not smoke weed. I know he occasionally does …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:14 AM
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When I was that age I was getting approached constantly. By my coworkers, my classmates, my guy friends friends, men at bars. Eventually you just become sort of jaded and tired and it's hard to ruffle up genuine interest in a dude unless they really connect with you well right off the bat. It was so time consuming haha much better now at 27! 18-24 was wiiiiiiild. So yeah, basically I personally think it'll get a tiny bit better with age. Just a tiny bit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:52 PM
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This is Iike telling your guy friends after the fact that they shouldn't have married a crazy wife when in reality people in general tend to show their true colors only when they're settled in. It's just that women are more likely to be nutty than they are violent, if you partner is going to have any huge issue, because there's less point in being a violent woman cuz you could just get your ass beat. Yet some men marry women that turn out to be crazies and claim she was never like that in the be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:37 PM
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Tbf we probably wouldn't even need as many social programs if we price capped certain things that were necessary to live. Not luxury homes or apartments but we probably should have some way for the lower class to not be at the whim of a completely free market that's main intention is to squeeze the entire population for as much capital as humanly possible lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:24 PM
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True but it's always important to stay safe and alert because you just never know!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:01 PM
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It's not about keeping an eye out for you personally it's more about women just continually being aware of their surroundings, always locking their car doors immediately after getting into their cars in parking lot, crossing the street if suspicious of person walking behind you ect. Cuz if we let our guards down because we feel bad we might make an innocent dude feel like a predator it only takes one unlucky day/night to be the girl that ends up on the news yknow? I know it's difficult but try n…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:57 PM
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I absolutely love the suggestions you mentioned to make him more comfortable with his home situation in conversation. I have never thought of anything like that before and I'm definitely going to put those to use! That is seriously like ingenious haha And it's true! There really is no pressure. It's all in the mind. We have a very fortunate and comfortable life. We come from a loving home with nothing but support. In know way are his shortcomings putting strain on the family in any way. My paren…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:47 PM
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Yeah, I never asked him directly, cuz I figured he didn't wana talk to his little sister about it, but I believe he saw how much success his friends were having in that department, they are very tall and very good looking dudes, literally just dudes that look like typical jocks but are actually super awesome, funny, upstanding gentlemen, and got kinda disenfranchised? Then I think he maybe had a bad year where he spiraled into depression, unfortunately his senior year, and him failing out of col…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:32 PM
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I agree this is at that level of severity and my family is actually very pro mental health awareness except for him. He simply refuses to go to therapy or try medication. He's 30 so really, no one can force him yknow? He is definitely not on the spectrum, but I'm sure some mental health issue is at play. He's actually a very sociable guy that has lots of friends. That's the weird thing. Believe me when I tell you that he couldn't be more of a normal guy from the outside. He's just lonely and tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:56 PM
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Well he actually is fit. I wouldn't say he's super fit but he's broad chested, athletic, full head of hair, and has nice Italian features. Think thick eye brows and olive skin. Also we live by nyc in nj so those are actually very desirable features hear. The sopranos type look. I think the height thing pulled him into a depression in college, he was doing okay at first in a difficult major and planned to go to into physical therapy. But senior year he apparently just stopped doing anything. Fail…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:24 PM
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Thanks.. I do care but I also need to be observant. He's talking about ending his own life, how nothings going to get better for him and drinking too much. I had a girl I knew from high school have her brother, who was a grade below my brothers, end his own life for unrelated reasons about 2 years ago. It was the craziest, saddest thing to happen to my town. It truly was. I played softball with his sister and knew her parents. My brother used to confide in my cousin that he'd "never make it past…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:06 PM
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Failed out of college* sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:42 PM
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Umm?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:19 PM
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Honestly your friend sounds much more open minded than my brother. It doesn't help that I'm not a friend.. I'm his little sister. There are some things he simply does not want to hear from me unfortunately, even if it comes with the best intentions. So while I actually think any kind of lifts would be an awesome idea, I just know if I bring it up to him, or if my mom or dad does it will make him mentally worse. He doesn't want to be a 30 year old man getting suggestions like this from his female…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:18 PM
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I think what really got to his head was him and I were both very talented athletes and he has remained close to all these men throughout his life. They have all known each other their whole lives and I'm really glad I have them in my life too. They're like brothers to me and his best friend Steve we go to his house on Christmas eve annually. But he's got to be around 6'3. I don't even know. All the guys in his group are tall handsome men and we live by nyc so they always go out and he wants the …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:59 AM
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I think it was the mindset. I have never dated a man over 6ft. They look like giants to me. Sex/snuggling is difficult with them. My first long term bf was about my brothers height. He had a different build so I think he looked a bit taller but really wasn't. He actually looked "normal height" to me no joke. I didn't realize he was a "short dude" until after we had broken up and one of my girl friends brought it up. I was with him for 4 years haha. When you're my height everyone looks pretty big…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:19 AM
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Being short. My brother is a bright, handsome guy. He's 30 now, hasn't had a gf since hs. Seems so bitter towards women. I don't recognize the person he's become. He was at a disadvantage yes. But I have a close guy friend the same height who just had a kid and got married to a girl I went to hs with. He's so angry. No one would have expected him to turn out this way. Failed out of school is senior year. Hasn't picked himself up since. Loads of trash in his car up to the windows for christ sake.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:47 AM
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I have a feeling the people in these situations grew up with trauma and abuse with home lives very few people in this thread could even imagine. The psychological damage done to the people in these situations, also the likelihood of exposure to drugs and alcohol at an earlier age makes it useless to just point fingers and say they should've known better. When we lift up the lower class folk we create families more similar to their middle class counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:55 PM
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The women in these situations are probably so much more likely to have suffered sexual abuse growing up than the average woman by a landslide. They're probably less educated, less encouraged or not at all to become so, fewer role models, emotionally vulnerable, feel trapped and so on. You're approaching an extremely complicated and tragic circumstance of people in the lower rungs of society as a "hurr durr if women weren't fucking Chad drug dealer cock." It's easy to talk about whats obvious fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:44 PM
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Yeah something about how weird and almost unbelievable this scenario going down the way he described is makes me skeptical of whether his interpretation of the events are fully accurate or not.. I very rarely experience bizarre interactions like the people in this sub claim to be having on a near daily basis haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:46 PM
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Yeah... like if she had been interested I don't think that's how the interaction would've ended... if she thought he was moving too fast she'd probably just be like "slow down cowboy how about dinner next week?" or something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:50 PM
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I think it's more like women arent really wired as much as guys are to be attracted to the opposite sex. Like, even if a dude isn't crazy about some average looking chubby girl chances are he can still get hard and enjoy sex with her. It doesn't make sense for a woman to go for someone she is not physically attracted to. I don't know why I'm not attracted to short men, I have a few shorter guy friends and I like them a whole lot as people, but my body physically can't/won't respond to them. So w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:24 PM
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I'm not "into him." I literally just said I think he's a handsome enough dude and he seems like a goofball. I like EVs, I'm glad we're making them better each year. I hope one day self driving cars progress to the point where fewer and fewer people die by road accidents each year. I'm not guna hyperfocus on the fact that he's a rich dude that's fucking around with the stock market and women. I personally wouldn't date him. But he's probably fun to have a conversation with and likely has some int…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:42 AM
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Good thing I don't care what you think haha are you having fun reading my comment history. "Love me or hate me it's still an obsession."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:26 AM
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I date women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:24 AM
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I'm not trying to impress you I'm just enforcing the the point that nothing you're saying is new information to me. At least I attempt to be well informed. Most people are inherently selfish. He's not that different from how most people would be given the same opportunities he was given. The current state of the world, and really the state of the world at any point in history, is a testament to that. Just because we call it "civilization" doesn't mean the world and the people who inhabit it are …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:20 AM
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I never claimed he is objectively attractive. I claimed that I thought he was attractive lol I know he got hair implants. I think they look awesome lol 60% of what I read is economics. Just because it interests me. The last 2 books I read were "naked economics" and "Goliath: the 100 year war between monopoly power and democracy". Just to give you a little insight on my educational background. Couple of months ago I read silent spring by Rachel Carson. I know how sick the world is and I agree tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:56 AM
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Woah, big guy over here lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:46 AM
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Every single piece of land on this earth was forcefully taken by another group of people at some point in history. I see you're one of those thinking outside the box types that randomly focuses on native americans for... what reason exactly? Plenty of people are born into money. Few people get to the level of success he did. It's funny you think you're like checkmating me or something. I'm not blind to his faults. I just don't like when people pretend most of us are inherently selfish and not fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:44 AM
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Imagine coming here just to insult people. Not a good look for you my man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:38 AM
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Hehe guess I'm a moron then! :D
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:22 AM
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Not to mention you're honestly being super toxic shaming another man's face and hair loss. It's genetic and not something that's in his control. You shouldn't judge people for things they cannot control about their appearance. It is just mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:21 AM
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As I said in a comment above. I actually read his biography and have watched many of his interviews like the Lex freidman one. I first saw his PayPal images years before anyone else did. I probably know quite a bit more than the average person about him and his accomplishments. I'm a supporter of the free market and capitalism. So many people abuse the system. At least he openly talks about some of the ways we could fix it. Also, blame the government for funding his shit. Not him for wanting to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:01 AM
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I really don't think he has an ugly face! And you're exactly right. Charisma is one of the most charming things about a man. He's pretty funny and smiley in all his interviews. He just seems like he likes to laugh and joke around. Everyone is also posting the legit least flattering photos of him. He is also getting quite old haha I personally think he looked the most handsome around age 40-47. There are plenty of good pictures of him. He cleans up nicely and has a flattering jawline. Also I kind…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:41 AM
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He sacrificed his life and sanity for shit he believed in. He has faults but I have nothing but respect for him. At least his business ventures weren't just cash grabs. Tesla, starlink and SpaceX are extremely impressive companies. There hadn't been a new car competitor since Chrysler in the 80s. And idk I work in tech and studied CS in school so it makes sense someone like him would be attractive to me as I can fully appreciate the work he did when he had written a large portion of the code for…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:53 AM
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I have well above average looks for a woman and I find him physically attractive. Idk what to tell ya lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:05 AM
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If you think that's a lot of words you are as illiterate as you seem lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:00 AM
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It is true I believe the statistics of this have been well reported on. I just didn't care to link anything but the info is available. We haven't really recovered since 2008 unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:25 AM
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I'm pretty sure our generation has the largest population of men ages 18-32 living at home than any other time in recent US history I believe. They are probably not talking about some South American cultures where living at home is expected and encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:38 AM
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Yeah, all the guys here are so confused why any woman would find Elon attractive. I personally think he's quite physically attractive. I like his face and smile for some reason. But mostly, I think he's attractive because I find him funny and witty. I read his biography by ashlee vance and have listened to the entirety of the podcast episode he did with third row tesla. He's interesting and charismatic and therefore attractive to some women. At least for me, I'm attracted to men who are funny, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:26 AM
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You're the one that can't understand why women would value intelligence and income when choosing a partner to start a family with. Can a construction worker be smarter, better with money/investments and more well off than a doctor? Yeah but which is more likely? Women go for good genes. There's evidence that supports a portion of intelligence is hereditary to some degree. You're more likely to see doctors, lawyers and engineers coming from families that have other people(parents, siblings, uncle…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:16 AM
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When you answered my original question I had said doctor vs. construction worker and you are answering as if I asked medical student vs. construction worker and I don't know why. Owning a construction firm is not the same as being a construction worker either. I don't know how you are arguing a doctor is going to be in the same or less of a good financial situation than a construction worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:10 PM
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My grandpa is an architect who owns his own firm. He says they're the first that know when the country is entering a recession because that's the first industry that gets hit. People/investment firms stop building things. Two of my friends are doctors. They say many of their classmates come from wealth already so their loans aren't too bad. Plus, once residency is over they're making 300+k a year. Also people never stop getting sick. Construction workers rely on other people's money to get work.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:29 PM
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I don't even have/let men by me drinks unless were going round for round(splitting even). I don't want there to be any expectations and I have my own money. I would pour a drink for a dude though yeah. Like if we got a pitcher and I was pouring mine I'd top off anyone's glass who wanted, man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:26 PM
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Who's guna do better when the economy dips and people are holding onto money/not building things. A construction worker or a doctor?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:34 PM
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Idk we need to protect our kiddos. Why wouldn't I go for someone who's not gonna let my kids go hungry during an economic recession.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:33 PM
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I'm a woman. My bachelor's is in cs and I've never seen stranger things. I have above average looks. There are lots of women in the world my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:53 AM
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You didn't corner anyone. You offered up a personal anecdote to support your claim. That's useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:39 AM
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I'm going to offer my female perspective on this. Since a larger portion of the average guy is actively looking for a partner you'll find a large variety of different men going to bars and clubs to socialize and meet women. Since there aren't a whole lot of places to do so anymore now that church and community social events basically don't happen or no one goes to them. The average girl isn't going to bars or clubs often. The ones that go often are my more attractive thot friends lol if they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:50 AM
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In my initial comment to the original comment I literally brought up how "propensity for muscle mass" plays a huge role. You accused me of "changing my argument from mechanics to hormones" and never having brought up the testosterone/hormone stuff after I did a second time when that actually was a big part of my argument and one of the first things I said. Yes I didn't specifically say the word testosterone but "propensity for muscle mass" is clearly what I was implying. You're saying I'm all ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:01 AM
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Just grinding doesn't really do it. I do it cuz he likes it and I wana make him feel good and so he can take a breather. And yeah just sitting on top and shifting weight isn't too bad(grinding), thats easier than thrusting. But that doesn't feel that good. The best angles feel very hard to do for a longer than I can personally thrust. Cuz I need to be on my knees, my back arched, and lowering and raising my pelvis to hit the good spot. It feels good but I can't do it for long at all and it kills…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:32 AM
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Also you keep saying that the mechanical movements aren't that different but also admitted to having never done them Edit: Also, another thing I wana add about my strap on game is that yes, while I can't feel my fake dick inside her like you can, I still personally think I have a pretty good advantage in a different way.. which is that I have a vagina myself and I've had plenty of sex where I picked up on why certain angles and positions felt better while i was having it. Like "hmm he kept doing…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:52 AM
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I think it's both. And I stand by that the movements for girls feel way harder on my muscles. Especially if I wana go for the angles that actually make me feel something. But yeah it's also hormonal in that my main argument was that it makes sense to me why dudes will end up doing more of the work in a one hour session. I cannot push my muscles past a certain point and they just sorta die and it stops feeling good for him anyway cuz I'll have no choice but to slow down so he takes over and can g…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:52 AM
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Yeah I've done that position a bunch of times actually. Doesn't feel as good as other positions for me but it's good for closeness/intimacy. But I feel far less on the inside of my vagina doing it. Vaginas can be weird though. What works for some doesn't work for others and sometimes different dick shapes and sizes make one position work better than it did with another. All I'm saying is that I feel like I sweat like crazy during sex, push my muscles to the limit and its still nowhere near the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:35 AM
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In CS at least, my ex gf got her masters and got a huge pay increase cuz of it. She also got to do more R&D work within her company as a result, which is a lot more fun, though a bit more stressful. I think a masters in cs is totally worth it. But yeah during undergrad there were maybe 5 women in a class of 30 dudes haha depends on the area/school though I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:58 AM
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I always say I like different sorts of faces too! Right now the celebrity I find most attractive is rami malek, the guy from Mr robot! Haha I just find his face so odd yet so attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:41 AM
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I did switch from the bouncing to grinding before I got my operations, it's just the grinding doesn't feel like much internally, at least for me, so I'd only switch to it after I got too tired and couldn't continue. The bouncing was more enjoyable. Every girl is different though. I do those motions youre describing when I thrust too, i dont just go in and out.. but doing it with an arched back (when with dudes) is much more difficult for stamina. But that's alright, agree to disagree. I don't kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:34 AM
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I see... thanks for explaining that more. I think adding that it isn't quite so much the "objective urge" but like an overwhelming set of emotions mixed in makes it sooo much easier for me to imagine. A "passion" is actually a great way to think about it and not something I considered before. And you're right, feelings of all kind should be validated and the ones men experience in these hormonal related set of emotions should be respected and not encouraged to be bottled up. It would be nice if …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:16 AM
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Backing it up on a dick or controlling your hip movements circularly is so much more difficult than thrusting. I'm into both men and women. Using a strap on is still work but I have nowhere near the same level of stamina when I'm in positions with men. Like yeah when you're backing it up and doing cowgirl the girl can do the work for a little bit but the men usually end up going back to the thrusting cuz it's easier for them to do harder and faster. This has been my experience sleeping with wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:06 PM
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I think women are more likely to act out from their hormones because typically, when anyone of any gender acts out, it's because of a very strong emotion(sadness, anxiety, anger). The male hormones you describe seem to produce an urge, not necessarily an emotion. The urge can be followed by an emotional response to not being able to fulfill the desire, like frustration or anger, but the initial effect is not an emotion and the frustration itself i would assume doesnt make the urge stronger. With…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:04 PM
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What do you think a better alternative is? Who's decision should it be whether to carry a baby to term? Both? What happens when one says yes but the other says no. It gets defaulted to no automatically? I'm not trying to be condescending(questions are legitimate) but, while I see what you're saying, I really can't think of any other way it could be handled that would be more fair. I could see maybe something like men having the option to take themselves off the birth certificate to avoid paying …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:49 AM
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Idk I still had to go to college and get a 9-5 like everyone else haha most of my friends did as well. I'll agree being a white woman in America is better.. but only by a little.. the majority of us still have to work just like everyone else. Do we get perks yeah, but I certainly don't feel like I was "given the world." That's a huge reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:40 AM
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What's your opinion on splitting the bill? I always insist on splitting the bill, especially in the beginning. I have a few girl friends that do this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:49 AM
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But I feel like people shouldn't be giving up all that much in the beginning anyway. If you give a little and there's no bite why keep giving? It seems more natural to give more only if the relationship is actually progressing and both people have communicated proper interest in the other
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:47 AM
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Could you elaborate on what actions you are referring to? My first thought was "well there's a huge difference between getting bitchy at your partner for forgetting to buy milk while you're pmsing vs making another person sexually uncomfortable because of the horny hormones" lol I agree there's a double standard at play but we all know why throwing an emotional tantrum and maybe saying some hurtful stuff is different/ less serious than what can happen when someone has trouble controlling their s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:09 AM
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You can judge people all you want, everyone is entitled to their opinions but implying someone else has less worth than another because they have different values than you, when those values don't affect you, aren't hurting anyone, isn't cool. You can just say you prefer to be with a partner you share values on sex with. That's a lot different than openly talking about how it's gross, those women don't respect themselves, ect. You are actually free to say those things but most people will just t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:53 AM
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I'm just saying it's literally realistic for men to do more of the work. That's why it happens. Missionary, doggy, and that sideways stuff seem to be the most common positions. I can't think of really any more creative positions off the top of my head other than girl on top where the woman is moving more. People in this sub seem to think women are crazy. In the real world just some women are crazy, as are some men. Also it's not really relevant to the orgasm comments because most women arent cum…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:18 AM
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It's just because it is much more difficult for women to cum. It's biologically easier for men to cum because climaxing is necessary for pregnancy. And reproducing is the reason we're driven to enjoy sex. Women don't need to orgasm for pregnancy to occur, but men do. Also, there aren't that many doable, common positions for sex where it makes sense for anyone but the man to be physically moving their body more. Women are more prone to knee injuries and it is actually pretty tough on the joints t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:50 AM
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It doesn't need to be answered. But to humor you, no, in either case it's never funny. Selfish lovers exist in both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:39 AM
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The reversal is literally much more common. In basically any sexual encounter between a man and and woman if only one of them is guna cum 90+% of the time it's the dude that gets his fill.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:37 AM
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While I agree with you I think you misunderstand where/why women grew these misconceptions. You grow up being told "men only want one thing", "keep your legs closed," "men will do/say anything to get in your pants," and it is often the fatherly figures in her life(literally other men) telling her this year after year. And also just like... being a woman in your early 20s is honestly super shitty in some ways... you go on a date or two with a guy and you're not feeling it after all so you don't s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:48 PM
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Assume the colloquial version.. I only know the backstory behind the word because of the no reply podcast. Most people probably don't know the origins and only heard it after the word took on a new meaning so it just makes sense to assume the new one in replies or answers where applicable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:32 PM
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It's because an insult is literally supposed to be "hitting them where it hurts." I have never seen that insult hurled at a dude just lamenting over how he feels unloved, lonely etc. The times I've seen/heard that word thrown around it's always in the context about some dude shaming high body counts(which is actually fine to have a preference for someone who approaches casual sex the same way you do, its the judging other independent peoples choices thats the issue), talking about her "used up" …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:30 PM
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I mean I see the vetting women do as effort still. We have much more risk than men.. unwanted pregnancy, risk of physical abuse, sexual assault, stalking. When you have a lot of suitors a number of them are going to be misrepresenting themselves or hiding toxic behavior, and obviously women do this to, but there is still more physical risk as a woman, and the vetting process can be exhausting and emotionally draining. Men just basically need to look out for "is this person a toxic bitch or not" …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:58 PM
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