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Yes, I changed the link, someone posted it to T_D I relinked it to there
/r/MGTOW30/11/18 12:11 AM
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This guy's a champ! He's gotta be one of us. Can't believe the insults and the idiots attacking his position.
/r/MGTOW29/11/18 03:49 PM
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No need to soften it! Be harsh! I have thick skin. It will be different. This was it. This was the most embarrassing moment of my life. a wake up call that I've been conducting myself fundamentally wrong. I'm no feminist, never have been. Feminism is a supremacist movement about domination of society. They don't want equality they want to tip the scale permanently in the other direction. The sex equivalent of Nazis. Learned some PUA stuff in my 20's old David D'Angelo stuff, worked great, any li…
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 06:51 AM
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It's weird, even flipping through tinder, all these girls now look like more like threats rather than girls that I wanna meet.
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 06:33 AM
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Thanks for the link! I can relate to this. The guy makes some good points.
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 06:30 AM
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That's the plan! I gotta take a long while. I've never been single as an adult for over a year at a time. I always felt my best when I'm single and playing the field. Not even gonna do that this time. Not for a long time. Just me. They are all too dangerous in my experience.
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 02:47 AM
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Yep! Never gonna be tied down again! Wasted too much time, energy, money, and resources building up other people's lives at the expense of my own. No more!
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 02:44 AM
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Dude it was such a mindfuck to find out. Fucking disgusting. So fucking embarrassing. Took days for the shock of it all to wear off. Yep I'm not going anywhere, MGTOW is my new church.
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 02:41 AM
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This is my experience as well, and the same for most of my friends that I've been around for.
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 02:38 AM
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Are you still trapped in a bad relationship?
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 02:29 AM
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I do, I have a lifelong diagnosed history of depression, bad self-talk. Lots of loses and not a lot of successes. A lot of that has to do with putting others needs before mine for most of my adult life. Focusing on my needs first from now on.
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 02:29 AM
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Yeah that's a truth that rings true with all of my past experience. Loyalty among females is something I've never seen.
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 02:26 AM
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That's the plan! I'm getting in shape, starting a new business (maybe two), considering moving to the southern US from Canada, legally. Learning new skill sets: honing my sales game, might go back to school and take a business course. Gonna go on a few trips this winter, Texas, California, Florida, possibly the Dominican Republic. It's me first from now on!
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 02:17 AM
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Yep you nailed it. She thought I was getting ready to leave her.
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 02:10 AM
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I pick winners. I have never been involved with a woman who's got her shit together. I don't even know any to think of it. I never finished college myself, I don't communicate with anyone I grew up with from high school. Was about 30 when I finally decided to stop being a drifter and get my life together. I'm 36 now. Things my serious ex's all have in common: -no college education -no high school education -no driver's licence -alcoholics -smokers -2 of 3 problems with hard drugs -single parent …
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 02:07 AM
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I think that was a typo and the dude meant "You CAN always trust a whore to be a whore." I read it that way, it doesn't make sense in the context of this thread otherwise, but yes, if she's got a well documented history or repeat offences, you're a fool to think she'll change. That's me, the fool who thought she could change.
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 01:54 AM
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lol username checks out. Yeah man, if this was years down the road with kids of my own, property, and assets, I'd be spiraling out of control. Probably end up in jail for one reason or another.
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 01:51 AM
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Discarding and the silent treatment were her go to things. Little arguments she would just put up a wall and not address anything, then when emotions calmed down the topics would drift and she would never have to admit fault. With larger issues it was the same thing just on a larger scale. Instead of not talking for a few hours it would be days, weeks, or even a month, until eventually the same desired result happened. Emotions would calm down, things would be forgotten or swept aside and things…
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 01:46 AM
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I know because I've been there the whole time. Reading texts and emails, hearing phone calls, she never hid anything with him with me after she left him for good. I know because he's never given her a dime for the kid, he can't afford food for him, he never comes to pick up the kid or drop him off, he doesn't work, he breaks plans with the kid all the time. breaks the kids heart all the time. She never denies him the right to see him, she always has to chase him to see his kid. I was there throu…
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 01:29 AM
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Jesus I don't know if it would have ever come to that, but who knows! Never thought I'd be here now!
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 12:55 AM
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In total I've given almost my entire adult life to women that betrayed me. I'm 36, I've been in a "committed" relationship (at least I was committed to the relationship) 14 of those years since I was 18. Tens of thousands of hours wasted I could have been learning new skills or building business relationships, and social relationships. Hundreds of thousands of dollars, almost everything I've made. I have almost no savings... enough.
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 12:54 AM
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Lol all those people are dead to me. Fuck them all. Fuck her, fuck her father that knew and never said anything, fuck her friends that knew and never did anything, fuck those dudes that looked me in the eye and shook my hand. I'm so out.
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 12:48 AM
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Well said. Who she portrayed herself to be to me was not who she was in reality. Who she really was, was so far removed from what I knew it was "true" that I didn't even suspect it, let alone believe it when she told me the real truth finally. That was a big part of her power over me. When we fought she would immediately resort to putting the whole relationship on the line if she didn't get her way and throw me away like a napkin. This would trigger me to cave to her demands and after awhile she…
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 12:41 AM
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That's awesome! Good for you dude!
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 12:32 AM
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That's the path that I'm on now. Burned too many times, too often. Either they all suck or I can't handle them, maybe both. I make bad choices in women, every one of them, even the flings that never turned into something serious have I have been lied to, cheated on, stolen from, exploited for free skilled labour. Being a contractor, with a truck and tools makes for a lot of asking for hand outs from people.
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 12:23 AM
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That email tarnished her relationship with many of her friends and family I think. Someone even called child services. They didn't take the kid. Her and her dad both got chewed out by her aunts and cousins. She's lost a couple friends I think as well.
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 11:39 PM
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Thank you dude! I realize that most men that end up didn't wander here without reason. I bet most men here have stories in the same vein or adjunct to mine in varying degrees. I said that to her a few days ago. That "I wouldn't be her babysitter while she slutted it up with whatever random cock humped her leg". I liked that one. Her not so much.
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 11:36 PM
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Oh yes I know! Second chances, afraid of being alone, believing it could be different this time, believing that people can change, having to deal with the grief of dealing with losing her. Every time we got back together I would say to myself "What are you doing?"
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 11:10 PM
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I will from now on.
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 11:06 PM
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Damn straight I do. I live in Canada. Been wanting to move to the states legally. She didn't want to go. Now I have nothing stopping me.
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 04:28 AM
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My mom has already done this asking about the kid.
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 04:27 AM
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What happened to you?
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 03:24 AM
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Thanks!
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 03:21 AM
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Yes I would have! She would have cleaned me out. Fucking man-eater!
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 03:20 AM
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She said this exact shit to me! She got worried when I started to take care of myself. She thought I was getting back in shape to screw around on her. She always said she didn't care about how big I got and didn't even occur or matter to her that I was unhappy with my own self image. Always all about her.
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 03:19 AM
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Not looking for pity! I suck! Pathetic! Was so completely under her spell. I wanted out of this nightmare a month into it, but I was too weak to leave for 4 years. It was 3 months on, 1 month off for 4 years. Break ups were meaningless after a while. I got so used to tolerating unforgivable behavior that it was completely normalized. I'm so mad at myself for being a complete sucker at the same time knowing that i was too weak to leave her, which made me even more depressed. Every time we got bac…
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 03:15 AM
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Puppetize is a good word and gets to the heart of it. The boy is my kryponite. Thank you for the advice! I'm gonna stay away. No she definitely wouldn't tell me. There was an incident in the first year where she had a miscarriage. I always pulled out, there was a night where she fucked off with some douchebag and wouldn't pick up the phone around the right time for conception. I called her on it and she was so taken back by it and said something like, "you're one of those assholes that would get…
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 03:06 AM
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It is. He's gonna grow up to be a product of his environment. Raised by welfare alcoholics, learning to game the system for money, never, work, dropout, get drunk.
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 02:52 AM
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Man trust issues are fucking justified! It's basic street smarts, ladies get away with shit that you wouldn't let your friends do all the time. That's what she did! She'd call bullshit when I called her on her bullshit and make me think I'm bullshit.
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 02:51 AM
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Thank you! Totally agree!
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 02:46 AM
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Yeah man I am an idiot, simp, white knight. A total dope... I've coached friends to leave whores for half of the shit I put up with. This one especially. I'm expecting her to use the kid over the next while to tug at my heartstrings.
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 02:44 AM
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Dude I ballooned up to 292lbs with her! She fucking lives on beer, take out, and junk food exclusively. Drinks a six pack of tallboys a day, minimum. Sits in bed with a couple bags of chips, popcorn and snacks set up around her. We called it the snack command center. I have no idea how she kept the figure she did. She should have been 600lbs. I got to the heaviest weight I've ever been in my life eating with her on her schedule. I got so depressed I finally said fuck it about 5-6 months ago and …
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 02:01 AM
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I misunderstood your message. Zero self-control is totally accurate way to describe my exes. All of them. and the great majority of the women I've interacted with my whole life. And never wrong. Ever. For anything. It's pathological.
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 01:52 AM
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I know a man like this and I can't say I haven't been afraid of something like this playing out.
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 01:46 AM
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I am better than her ex. he barely makes an effort. disappears for months at a time. Makes plans to see the boy and doesn't show up. We stopped telling the boy that he was gonna see him in advance because the deadbeat had a 10% follow through and would leave the boy in tears feeling abandoned. I know he's broke. For most of our relationship he's been unemployed. He lives in roach infested buildings in junkie filled neighborhoods for a few months at a time before getting fired from minimum wage k…
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 01:38 AM
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You can't compare a cheating bitch to arguably the most evil person who ever lived and say that unless she's at least on par with Stalin than she's not evil. Sure she's not Stalin, but is nothing less than Stalin evil then? That's a pretty high bar. It's not a fair comparison. You think 9 out of 10 are clueless? I don't. I think they grow up in an environment full of boys tripping over themselves for their attention. They are like celebrities in high school. That's real power over people and why…
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 01:09 AM
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Lol! That's a great way to think about it! There was some real evil here though. She gaslighted the shit out of me. Made me question my sanity. Brought these men into my life and I don't even know how long she could have kept it up. I didn't catch her, she called me unprovoked and spilled her guts, because she couldn't handle the guilt. She gets points for that, I was made into a total laughing stock. The whole neighborhood was jumping on her and nobody was gonna fill me in. I was completely bli…
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 12:48 AM
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Bought a squat rack and some bars. Been playing way too much video games (Dota 2). But I have lost 80lbs in the last 5 months doing keto/carnivore. Gonna go hard and go full out snake diet for a few weeks. Getting close to being back in shape now. I gotta stop all contact at least for a while. I miss my boy so much though. He's 80% of why I stayed so long. I'm so confused about what's best for him and what to do.
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 12:09 AM
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Hell yes I did! Holy shit I'm so glad we didn't get pregnant and married... My life would have been ruined. She would have taken me for everything she could. I've been having some fun. Been seeing old friends that I allowed her to cut me off from. Rekindling relationships with good people I've let slide. Also getting pretty drunk, but I'm at the end of this bender now.
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 12:04 AM
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I take in rescues. Broken people that need fixing. When shit goes bad I feel like it's my fault and I can fix it. I have a problem with letting go and walking away from things that are unfixable. Everyone of my serious relationships have been with an alcoholic, from a broken home. Two of them never knew one of their parents. Yeah I'm an idiot, a gullible fool, and a white knight. I gotta fix myself. That kid's dad is a father in name only. Alcoholic, welfare, abusive deadbeat, she escaped to a s…
/r/MGTOW25/11/18 11:59 PM
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Yes, and she wasn't even that good in bed either, I mean she was ok. Physically looking she was a 10 but not really an active participant in bed. She was a starfish. It had been a serious drought before we hooked up.
/r/MGTOW25/11/18 11:49 PM
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I know what you're talking about. Women have always come into my life when I feel radiant. When I've finally got all my shit figured out, I have a direction and a purpose, and I'm moving towards a goal. Then they come in and I compromise myself, start putting myself second, severing relationships with people she feels threatened by, things start to not get done, life gets expensive, etc., etc. They lose interest in me and start looking for the "man with that spark". They feed off that strong mal…
/r/MGTOW25/11/18 11:45 PM
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Yeah expensive lessons for sure. Lots of wasted time, opportunity, and money. I knew better the whole time 'cause I'd been through this shit twice already. I always felt my best as a single man, relationships have been like adopting a third parent. Not answering to anyone anymore.
/r/MGTOW25/11/18 11:39 PM
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Yep. The whole thing started off bad. She was still living with the father of her son when we met. Kicked him out for me, then went back to him, then back to me. Jesus what was I thinking...
/r/MGTOW25/11/18 10:21 PM
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This should be permanently stickied or linked to in the sidebar
/r/MGTOW19/12/16 04:33 AM
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