PENN878 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Does wife making more than husband contribute to relationship issues? And lesbian marriages have the highest divorce rates. Let's see your 4 paragraph response on how a man is to blame for that too. Also, comments are public. So either you're 1. Lying about being married or 2. Lying about being a man altogether.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/23 03:03 AM
1	Does wife making more than husband contribute to relationship issues? Anecdotes aren't statistics.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/23 02:59 AM
1	Does wife making more than husband contribute to relationship issues? Well, just be aware if that happens your chance of your wife wanting a divorce will go up. It's a thing (there's a few articles posted here about it).	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/23 02:45 AM
6	Does wife making more than husband contribute to relationship issues? I'm sure there's some article somewhere that blames lesbians having the highest divorce rates on men not doing enough chores. 🤷	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/23 02:43 AM
2	Friends with your ex wife Mine talked about us potentially getting back together after the divorce. Wtf? Now I think everything she says ever is about getting me to simp for her. If you need any confirmation that she's doing that....here's your sign. The amount of guys on here who say "well she said maybe we could get back together one day" without realizing she's using the guy could fill Lake Superior. You're different because you figured out the game.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/12/23 03:13 AM
7	Friends with your ex wife Men will spend years, and I mean years being strung along by their ex-wives, hoping there's the slightest chance they could reconcile. Dont be that guy. I was in your shoes, she wanted it, I did not. It was crushing. But I made it abundantly clear once the papers were signed I wouldn't contact her again for the rest of my life. And I won't. If she wants the divorce...give it to her. You have no kids I assume from your post. So...Zero contact, forever. In any divorce (like yours) that isn't amica…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/23 11:48 PM
1	How to stop looking back Hell of a comment. +1	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/23 11:30 PM
3	How to stop looking back "I question if now I am doing the wrong thing" You're not doing shit. She's the one who wants the divorce. A few others have said this too but she's keeping you as a back-up. How long she does this is up to you. It doesn't sound like you have kids...and you're moving to a different state. So...when the papers are signed let it be over. Don't ever contact her again.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/23 11:24 PM
1	Wife wants divorce, but promised if I changed we’ll be back together. Yeah listen to this above comment OP. If there were (doesn't sound like there is) a specific defined behavior that needed to be changed...by all means, make the change. Divorce is hard, doubly so for men. Sounds like her idea of change is just flowery bs and she's leading you along.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/12/23 09:58 PM
9	Ex-wife asked me if I was interested in becoming "friends with benefits". It was the greatest day of my life.... Fair. Some people can pull it off.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/11/23 07:24 PM
5	Ex won't stop with lawsuits! what's the solution "since my ex used to belittle me for making more money than me." Women : Spend 7 decades (rightfully) making sure they can also have career opportunities and good paying jobs. Also women in their friend chat: " after a raise, I now make 3 cents more an hour than my husband, I've lost all attraction to him and don't believe he deserves to be called a man, should i divorce him?	/r/Divorce_Men	30/11/23 05:14 PM
28	Ex-wife asked me if I was interested in becoming "friends with benefits". It was the greatest day of my life.... May I ask why you want to maintain any relationship with her if you don't have any kids? No shade just curious. Did you both genuinely want the divorce?	/r/Divorce_Men	30/11/23 04:58 PM
5	Confused - Divorcing but love each other I think her giving me the usual spiel first was what really cemented that in my mind. Like a switch. In public play the longsuffering wife, who simply has no choice but to divorce, then tell your girlfriends what you really think.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/11/23 11:51 PM
7	Confused - Divorcing but love each other This gal I know split from her husband of 12 years(also a brazilian if that matters), two kids. She said all the right things to me and others. He didn't do bla bla bla. He should've done bla bla. She's sad she had to divorce bla bla. We're at this party and she's talking to two other Brazilians in this outdoor patio. I'm sitting there and they start speaking in Portuguese ( not realizing I do too). One gal asks her about the divorce and she goes "honestly I never loved the guy, I married him to…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/11/23 11:26 PM