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| 11 | A petiton has been started to try to prevent Cassie Jaye, creator of the documentary "The Red Pill" from entering Australia.Sorry champ, didn't mean to overwhelm you with so many words. I'll be sure to post a trigger warning next time. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/11/16 08:18 PM |
| 5 | A petiton has been started to try to prevent Cassie Jaye, creator of the documentary "The Red Pill" from entering Australia.This. As a former feminist I was always quick to point out that "feminism is about equality". But the fact is that actions speak much, MUCH louder than words, and the actions of feminist groups have shown that men's well-being is not even the slightest concern of theirs. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/11/16 02:28 PM |
| 23 | A petiton has been started to try to prevent Cassie Jaye, creator of the documentary "The Red Pill" from entering Australia.Hey, thanks for being one of the good ones! I'm also a woman and continued to identify as a feminist up until a few months ago. Even while I clung to the label, it infuriated me that feminists and feminism never seemed concerned with male issues like alimony reform, circumcision, homelessness, sexual abuse, domestic abuse, child custody reform, rampant suicide, and a slew of other topics. ...And unfortunately, feminism will never care. Feminism will never give two fucks about men, despite how mu… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/11/16 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Feminist looking for red pill advice.Or perhaps at that time you were feeling very dependent/codependent coming out of the fog of an abusive relationship I was actually still in the relationship at the time, and brought him into a poly relationship which only lasted about 10 months. Looking back, I now understand that I was simply looking for someone to "rescue me" from my ex. I acknowledge that I had the power within me to rescue myself, but at the time it took someone like my current SO stepping into my life to show me what it fe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/15 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Feminist looking for red pill advice.I think a lot of the advice here has been pretty solid. No one has suggested just backing off and seeing what happens without any form of communication. Even if posters here didn't explicit say "talk to him", I don't think anyone here is advocating for less communication. The BF and I have actually had lots of discussion about this already, throughout the years. I still need to talk with him and make my point clear (I really try hard to communicate to him in a direct way and not play female head… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/15 11:19 PM |
| 3 | Feminist looking for red pill advice.Going from mid to late twenties is one of the most radical transformations you could make. This is spot-on. I'm noticing this a lot within myself, lately. I'm much more of a political moderate these days than in years past. And thankfully I was never, and am still not, a raging feminazi in any sense of the word. I never bought into the ".77 cents for every dollar" myth, the patriarchy myth, etc. I just believe in equal gender opportunities, and that's it. I can clearly recall a blog post I was r… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/15 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Feminist looking for red pill advice.As for the license thing, I don't even think I WOULD know if my SO had an expired license. I just assume that he takes care of his shit, cause he did that just fine before I met him. The only reason I know is because we went out to buy beer on his birthday, and the cashier commented on the fact that his license was now expired. I didn't mean to make it sound like I'm rummaging through his wallet or anything ^^ | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/15 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Feminist looking for red pill advice.I will say that your relationship is unconventional. It gets even more unconventional than that. I did omit a bit of info in my original post because 1) it wasn't relevant to my problem, and 2) I wasn't sure how a Red Pill audience would react to it. Anywho, I'll try to keep things short and sweet: We were just good online friends for 2 - 3 years, not dating or anything. I was with an emotionally abusive ex at the time, who was bisexual, and I was open to him exploring this facet of himself. We … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/15 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Feminist looking for red pill advice.it's probably best to leave that ball in his court permanently now that you've messed up the conversation. I wouldn't say that I've messed it up, but I did try to make it come across as a "final warning". I won't be nagging him about it again - I simply told him that if he has to pay a fine, has his license revoked, etc., that I won't be bailing him out. And I'm going to leave it at that. As you said, the ball is in his court. How are you currently handling them? Basically, everything gets withd… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/15 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Feminist looking for red pill advice.Mostly I have been able to let go of things that have minimal effect on me. Like you mentioned, desk organization is going to be more of a problem to the person who uses the desk. Lately my method of dealing with this has been, "if it doesn't directly impact me, don't let it bother me" The driver's license thing, though... That's a big one. If his driving privileges get suspended, or worse, he gets arrested, that's going to be a huge problem for both of us. He also doesn't have anything put into… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/15 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Feminist looking for red pill advice.Some things he owns up to, some things he will try to argue. Telling him what to do I know I shouldn't do that, and I feel like shit whenever he and I need to have these discussions. But, that's why I'm here on this sub. I've received a ton of support and sound advice, so I'm going to opt for a change of perspective and try to empower him by allowing him to take control. Maybe he'll fail, but hopefully he will learn from it and improve in the process. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/15 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Feminist looking for red pill advice.Have you tried to admit defeat? Showing him you just can't anymore. I have. I've openly expressed on several occasions that I feel crushed by responsibility and that I need him to step up. Has he ever been in a place where he feels like your protector? For the first time in his life he is making significantly more money than me, and he's remarked that it feels good to be the breadwinner. Whether or not that could be considered a form of "protection", I don't know. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/15 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Feminist looking for red pill advice.I guess my first question is: why did you move in with him if you didn't/couldn't trust him to be financially responsible? How long have you been living together? Our background is kind of an interesting one. The TL;DR of it is, he left his parents' house (more like escaped) after he was outed as bisexual and his folks started making his life a living hell. I offered to have him stay with me, so he flew out from Colorado and we've been living together for all 4 years of our relationship. Prior t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/15 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Feminist looking for red pill advice.I've tried everything else to get him to take responsibility, and I agree with much of the advice here that letting go and letting him make mistakes and learn the hard way is going to be the only thing (beyond leaving him, which I don't want to do) that will solve our problem. The hardest part will be relinquishing that control, but I don't think it would be wise of me to do it all overnight. We'll probably sit down tonight and work out our respective budgets, and I'll ask him what bills / respo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/15 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Feminist looking for red pill advice.There's really nothing else you can do, besides decide whether this is the partnership you want to sign up for for life, as is. You either take your anxiety and additional responsibilities as the cost of staying in the relationship, or you break it off. It isn't the sort of partnership I want, but at the same time, we do make a really great team in all other aspects. We have an amazing connection, and our history is rooted in a very dark time in his life, which really bonded us in a very intimat… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/15 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Feminist looking for red pill advice.you need to surrender control to him, truly,and with love. I'm very aware of this, and it has been a scary and difficult thing for me to try and overcome. The thought has crossed my mind a lot lately, that I need to step back and let him take control of some things in order for him to actually accept and embrace adult responsibility. I grew up pretty poor and my family struggled a lot, and while money is still tight, I manage to hold it together because I never want to go back to that way of lif… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/15 05:28 PM |
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