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While I’m no fan of age gaps generally when one of the people is under 25, in this case 5 years typically not a huge difference. I think her having no life direction is not a 23 year old issue as I know plenty of 23 year olds who are doing things with their life, but an individual issue
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:28 PM
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Murder has a legal definition lmao. It’s “unlawful” killing of another. So abortion in countries where it’s legal literally isn’t murder.
/r/MensRights20/07/24 01:38 AM
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I was responding to your dumb comment above implying that women were “wasting” time and may even be negating the possibility of having a long-term relationship by persuing education, not the post
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:20 AM
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Do you realize that so many women meet their partner while acquiring a degree, and that dating and maintaining a long-term relationship is possible for most competent people to do simultaneously?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:39 AM
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“Women usually don’t need it that much after she gets married and has kids” What century are u living in lmao? Most men do not have a salary that is enough to sustain a family these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:37 AM
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We’ve got Christopher Columbus over here ^
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:33 AM
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Swiping left on tinder for women is often not indicative of your looks tho. Unless she’s looking for a hookup, my friends who were wanting to date from Tinder weighed heavily on the bio. If you aren’t the best at writing bios, presenting yourself as an interesting person through your pictures (aka all mirror selfies where u r alone without friends), there’s a high likelihood you’d get swiped left on by a significant portion of women regardless of how objectively “hot” you are. Just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:58 AM
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Appreciate the honesty, diagnosed ASPD sounds about right tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:02 AM
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And men lol? Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:58 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:30 PM
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Anecdotal , but I’ve be never in my life met any guy that was an instant yes. I’m sure there are many other women that had the same experience
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:25 AM
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^ and this mentality is exactly why lots of women reject a dude for not paying. If he was into her enough, he would gladly do it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 08:33 AM
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There’s a difference between just “younger” and barely out of high school and still living with her parents lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 12:03 AM
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I mean... maybe it has something to do with the fact that it’s common knowledge and backed by virtually all statistics that women are about 100x more like to be sexually assaulted and abused, hence more likely to have sexually assault trauma?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 05:33 PM
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Obviously one conventionally unattractive feature doesn’t make someone ugly. That doesn’t negate the fact that they would be more attractive if they were taller, and that height is a standard when it comes to male beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 05:35 PM
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😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 11:55 PM
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Jesus dude instead of spamming this same comment on every single fucking thread go spend time with your “young beauty” lmao. I’ve seen this shit comment about 20 times now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:42 PM
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So a woman who had the same partner she had sex multiple times a week with, by your logic would also have a loose and wide vagina? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:36 PM
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I think what you mentioned may also be a generational difference due to new trends. As you said, “grown women” didn’t drool over JB, but I remember as a young preteen and teenager (I’m 18 now) many girls did. Now that we’re entering into adulthood, I overall still see a preference for the JB, K-pop types in my generation. This can also be seen in the rise of the E-boy trend. Almost any girl in my age group that I know would pick that boyish lanky type over the Rock for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 08:05 PM
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“Let's get this straight, I am not a good man, in fact I'm probably the worst kind of man you'd be likely to meet, something that always entertains me, is even knowing that your very own narcissistic solipsism would mean that within two hours your underwear would be on my bedroom floor. Of course you'd have to be in your late 30 because lower than that just doesn't do it for me.” CRINGE “So you aren't talking to a 14 boy who's going to pole anything you're actually talking to a very successful m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 03:59 PM
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I wasn’t speaking about the majority, it merely happened more often that it does now. Studies show that age gaps are less common now than they ever were before: https://paa2008.princeton.edu/papers/80695 shows that the average age gap used to be five years, but bigger age gaps were more common than today too. Also, not everything always has to be about the US 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 04:44 PM
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Older women can attract younger men, they just don’t want to. That’s why age gaps are more common with older men and younger women. Older women want to date men their own age or older.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 11:52 PM
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When women were not part of the labour force hence couldn’t provide for themselves, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 11:49 PM
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Lol “baggage”. You mean from guys like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 05:45 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 09:10 PM
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Sincerely doubt the ones on here will be part of those men tho..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 03:02 AM
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Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:54 PM
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Hmhm I’ll stick to the 20 year olds..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:47 PM
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Okay 👌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:41 PM
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Nah I was just using the quote from your previous response, didn’t mean you specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:41 PM
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Okay 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:13 PM
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Lol most grandps don’t have the money for a 19 year old sugar baby. “Some old dude” in the 5 percent of earners probably won’t care. It’s just hilarious to me how so many middle aged men think this will be the reality for them 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:47 PM
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You wish lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:32 PM
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Sure, but the vast majority of North American men and women are overweight, that only increases with age. Younger men are almost always in better shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:31 PM
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Better than enjoying saggy skin, wrinkly ball sacks, bad teeth, beer guts that look 6 months pregnant (“dad” bods lmao) and receding hairlines 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:57 PM
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It’s true though 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:52 PM
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Lol there have been way too many times when I’ve seen fat men refuse to date fat women .....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 03:57 AM
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Nah lol maybe you find 20 percent physically attractive at 40 because you’re that age but I and others around my age don’t. More like 3 percent. And ones who are successful enough are maybe another 1-5 percent. And woman can hit the wall but if they have money for Botox, laser, fillers and other beauty treatments (which a way higher percentage have than men that have ferraris) they’ll be just fine. My mom is relatively well-off and because she could afford lots of different beauty treatments and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:09 PM
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Lmao you were the one originally responding to ME saying the AVERAGE man is unattractive at 40 with your argument about Ferraris. The only one who’s strawmanning is you. With the point you brought up in your latest comment, I don’t disagree with. But 95 percent of men at 40 are not at that level, hence the majority are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 07:06 AM
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You don’t seem to understand. Obviously George Clooney isn’t worn out lol. You brought up men having Ferrari’s at age 40 to rebuttal me saying most men are unattractive at 40. I was sarcastically mocking the mentality on here that believes men in the top 1% are a valid example to prove that women find the average older man just as attractive as a younger man, which is untrue. Unless he is owns a Ferrari or is George Clooney, which the majority aren’t lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 06:31 AM
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Uhh sure go off, the majority of 40 year old men are obviously successful George Clooneys who own Ferraris 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 03:09 AM
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It’s also really weird to me how men on here try to deny the fact that the vast majority of them aren’t George Clooney lmao. Many of them age terribly and are balding by 35 or/and chubby. I’m 18 and I don’t find older people attractive in general, but if I compare the average 40 year old man to the average 40 year old women, the woman that age will typically look a lot less worn out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 05:33 PM
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Tbh I think it depends. I’m 18 and many peers my age don’t really take care of themselves. Acne, bad hairstyle/color, clothes that don’t suit them, baby fat in the face, no exercise exc. I’ve seen photos of my mom when she was younger and in my opinion she looked the best 25-35. Reason is as age approached she began to realize the importance of taking care of herself. Dieting, Working out daily, taking care of her skin, getting her hair styled, being able to afford good expensive clothes and bea…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 05:27 PM
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I agree with body and physical appearance, but completely disagree on the achievements. The world doesn’t place anywhere near enough emphasis or praise on womens’ achievements. And part of dating and attracting HV people is continuously improving yourself, never becoming stagnant. I’ve seen some posts on FDS about improving one’s education, becoming more knowledgeable, expanding hobbies, traveling, but nowhere as near enough emphasis as they put on what to demand from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 08:46 PM
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Agreed, but an issue I see in FDS is they want the men to ALWAYS subscribe to traditional gender roles, but they encourage women not to do so themselves. Chores, housekeeping should be 50/50 and women should be career women, but the man still has all the responsibilities he had in the 1950s. I see nothing wrong with either dynamic, but fulfilling only one part of the dynamic makes the relationship one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 05:39 PM
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Ya, I completely agree. Great comment. Also My biggest problem with FDS is the lack of focus on self improvement in proportion to the focus around finding a high value man. It’s fine to have high standards, but women on there should also consider that HVM will have their own set of standards they would adhere to keep him. I see users on there bragging about how the man they’re seeing is putting in ALL the effort, a one way street is not gonna last long-term.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 05:33 PM
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Uhuh sure. Successful men would be more likely to risk their reputations and status for something they could easily get for free than desperate incels with nothing to lose. If that’s what you want to believe lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:03 PM
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Not “well adjusted” if it’s so extreme women generally won’t fulfill it so he resorts to paying for it. My definition of “well-adjusted” does not mean wealthy, wealth does not make somebody a more righteous person. Rich people can be shitty and inept just as the ones on “the fringe of society”. Lmao “most wives think this” NOT. I’m generally against prostitution and use of pornography as a whole in a relationship, but most women I know are very open minded. Your clientele gives you a very biased…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 05:11 PM
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Yeah, what you described sounds like a porn-sick guy with weird fetishes that can’t be satisfied by the general population of women, likely not well-adjusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 04:52 PM
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Again. Men who use sugar babies when they have wives are not what I define as “well-adjusted” men lmao. And no, “most” of their clients are not attractive or successful, you’re talking about a minority of wealthy men who visit high class escorts, which the vast majority of prostitutes are NOT as in most countries the practice is criminalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 04:51 PM
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The vast majority of escorts are not high class though, or from reputable establishments. Where I live and in most countries it’s criminalized which is why I focus on that. Fair enough however, I see your point, but IMO men who crave varieties outside their supposedly committed relationships don’t qualify as “well-adjusted” to me. To each their own though, what we define as well adjusted in a partner varies from person to person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:01 AM
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Sure, I agree that there are exceptions. Regardless of attractiveness though, they usually fit into at least one other category I described. Men that are both attractive and well socially adjusted are the least likely group to pay for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:43 AM
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Oh c’mon. Do you honestly think that men who are well adjusted socially, have no trouble attracting women at bars, are likely to pay for sex? I get there are exceptions, such as perhaps busy businessmen. But I doubt that’s the majority. Once again, I said that sure, there are some women that perhaps as you describe “enjoy” it. But when we try to make judgements about complex stigmatized, social issues shouldn’t we look at the majority rather than a minority?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:41 AM
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That’s because the “happy hooker” is mainly a myth. Escorts who enjoy their work are a small, socially privileged percentage who try to speak for the entire group. The vast majority of prostitutes do so out of a lack of choice. Studies cited in this article: https://www.youthvoices.live/2017/03/30/prostitution-final-essay/ (this article is in favour of legalizing prostitution btw) suggest that 82% of prostitutes had been physically assaulted while working, 68% had been raped, and 88% want to lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:26 AM
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Yikes. People who are actually attractive don’t go on reddit to complain about this kinda thing, take every answer personally and become overly defensive and triggered. You seem to be projecting a lot lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:54 AM
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Reminder, this is a debate sub and calling people names isn’t an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:32 PM
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Lmao how is that any better? I’m not interested in a man who thinks with his dick and spends all of his free time strategizing to get laid instead of doing something more productive. A man who has a high n count in my mind lacks life priorities and hobbies, it’s not an achievement in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:28 PM
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