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equal amount of interest in the traditional feminine way, which society is expecting evn though a fater s role is different, so still my point stands
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:26 PM
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women should cause they have favoured matchups in court for child custody but also for monetary gain. Women also benefit from it by keeping a high value man for themselves only, as they then have the law system at their disposal if needed, while still being able to restrict sex and intimacy like before getting married
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:26 AM
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where I am from its not that uncommon to wear shoes at the beach. Just lower the inserts to 2 inches and no one will notice. If someone asks about ur fashion decisions tell him u have an injury and dont want to get sandy or smth but honestly no one will care.
/r/seduction05/09/22 03:23 PM
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whatever it is the communication methods you need to escalate from txting to phone calls to facetime to meeting IRL. So keeping it at the txting level doesnt do you any good usually. Best case u txt/call/facetime her to arrange when ur meeting and for nothing else? U want to tell her how ur day was? U ask her if she can come to this place so u can tell eachother face to face
/r/seduction04/09/22 11:51 PM
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txting is less emotionally bonding
/r/seduction04/09/22 11:32 PM
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legit no one cares in todays society and if they do they are usually weak people or fcking losers.
/r/seduction04/09/22 09:23 PM
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This sounds incredible seems she was really into you.
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:59 AM
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I legit dont wanna read that. the fact u start with being offended is enough for me
/r/seduction31/08/22 11:00 PM
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this doesnt give any context to your previous interaction with the girl so it doesnt make sense
/r/seduction31/08/22 05:00 PM
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I like the last part. What do u talk about? Casual stuff? Can u give an example of situation where u escalated succesfully
/r/seduction31/08/22 04:53 PM
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I understand the shoulder arm and guide her with ur arm around her shoulders touching her leg that all seems fine to me. But if u want to escalate like touching her hair like to fix it and going for the waist it seems that something in the conversation or in the environment should happen for you to be allowed to do that. However emotionally u guys are talking about any platonic topic there is never a point where u can just do that. I would love to hear out some examples
/r/seduction31/08/22 07:14 AM
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I dont think any girl is ever 100% into you and if she were u wouldnt need a date for that...
/r/seduction31/08/22 06:59 AM
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u cant escalate physically from nothing and if u do it is creepy and unsolicited while having a platonic conversation. I legit dont get how this can work if the girl is not 100% into you yet. To me this seems very much like playing russian roulette but with a person. I would love to be proven wrong if someone can explain
/r/seduction31/08/22 01:51 AM
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its not incredibly difficiult u probably just didnt know how to do it the first time so u never learned. Everything is hard the first time. I am suflre there is a dirty joke somewhere in here but I wont make it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:33 PM
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it all boils down to having a friend circle if u have events to go to you will meet girls no matter what. After doing this a couple of times u wont be experiencing the low self esteem/trying too hard to not getting anywhere issues. You wont be putting them on a pedistal as u r already meeting a lot of them so they r not scarce anymore. You will talk to them normally and calmly which is already better than 99% of guys they have talked to that day
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:13 AM
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a bad boy can be a boss that plays dirty and is ruthless in his career path for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:03 PM
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Its all about the depth of the connection. It can take weeks to connect with someone if u dont know ways to do it faster, it can take a few minutes if u are a pro. Most guys just can do it in one date usually, so thats where the stigma of not having sex on the first date comes from. Also dates can be 1 hour or 3-4 hours, its all about how interested u make the gir and how much she is willing to invest, and when she is willing to invest a lot it usually means she also wants something
/r/seduction20/08/22 06:24 PM
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common sense is very subjective, they r trying to sell u a way of thinking, and to reprogram u through things u already seem to understand on the basic level. I think if there are people that can get easily scammed it doesnt matter in which sphere it is its always gonna happen, but the dudes i have been exposed to seem genuine and I havent needed to purchase anything to be able to learn and improve
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:22 AM
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If u give off the vibe that u cant have fun people will also be discouraged to be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:56 AM
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being emotionally inclined must be tough with decision making
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:39 PM
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got between 7.6 and 8 with proper lighting which is incredibly wrong as I know for a fact I am somewhere between 6-6.5
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:39 PM
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Being rejected for being unattractive would be heart breaking cause there is not much I can do about that, but getting rejected for personality is fine, as its obvious that not everyone can vibe with eachother, also people develop and change. For me as a man even if a girl rejected me as a boyfriend a fwb is still on the table which I also find appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:33 PM
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Women are overstimulated by men from social media that they are so very attractive even if they are not. Women dont do the same to men. So one side has inflated ego. Most men are quite accurate in their assesment about themselves. Their lack or confidence is so to say deserved because they dont have much to be confident about. For women looks is probably one of the most important factors, if she is a straight 10/10 she wont be lacking in confidence There is a great video by 1st Man that explains…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:23 PM
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that can literally be the definition of heartbreaking. So sorry for u brah
/r/seduction29/06/22 11:08 PM
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I dont understand your advice but still answered all your questions, which also lef to nowhere. Idk what you mean by vague but honestly I didnt enjoy this chat aswell.
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:12 PM
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I came here to get advice and to improve myself, not to argue with someone if my social skills are bad or not.
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:02 PM
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man are u slow? I am interested in the general dynamic that I should be striving for in similar situations, that was just an example
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:35 PM
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I bviously know them but I am not particularly interested so I dont really care for that instance of this situation
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:52 PM
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best advice until now tbh lol
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:15 PM
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I dont think I am entirely able to do so either, but I could have a better way to try atleast. Also idc about these girls its this particular situation and dynamic I am interested in
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:14 PM
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You are not coping and u r probably right to some extend, this wasnt also an activity highly desirable in my agenda but had no other plans, so wanted to try it out. Also this wasnt a girls night out, cause they are all close to each other and have catching up to do, they dont know eachother that well also so its not like they wouldnt view me as a threat, to me it seemed they just wanted to also get to know me.
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:41 AM
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It was obviously meant theoretically speaking and if u maybe forgot to read the post I asked how do I take advantage in being in such a position. Also I listen to what they r saying but when they r leading the conversation to topics like who they find hottest and things I just cant fake being interested in to me it seems impossible to make conversation with them. It just seems very hard to lead it to somewhere else when they are all so very interested to talking about that. The only way it seems…
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:36 AM
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I never said they did and this is not even my question. Its a place of power in some way cause you have a bunch of girls at ur disposal and in some way you can choose
/r/seduction28/06/22 06:51 AM
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obviously I know them from them from somewhere which is my university, so its hard to consider them strangers.
/r/seduction28/06/22 06:43 AM
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not repeating this mistake again
/r/seduction28/06/22 06:42 AM
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with it, its that in that current moment i didnt know anything about it and felt very out of place
/r/seduction28/06/22 06:42 AM
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I dont think you should go that far cause u would do the same they do, but keeping it at a middle ground should be doable
/r/seduction27/06/22 10:29 PM
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nope. Only one has boyfriend
/r/seduction27/06/22 10:28 PM
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feel the same man literally me now
/r/seduction27/06/22 08:58 PM
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Nope cause younger women with less sexual experience get binded with you from sex and are generally more loyal. The older you get and the more sex you have, sex just starts to mean less for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:27 PM
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what?...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:20 AM
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they dont pay anything extra just for the food and its usually not something more than a casual restaurant doubt they pay more than 200 for the food per date. And if honestly these girls couldnt afford food they wouldnt look the way they do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:16 PM
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Men trade giving emotional support and affection for receiving sex. Women trade getting fucked for an emotional connection. She wants you to give boyfriend priviliges for no boyfriend benefits for you basically, which is sex and intimity
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:29 AM
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I dont think they pay for anything except the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:39 PM
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I think the are not exactly "dating" them. Also you seem to have a false perception of what older guys means. A 30M dates a 20f you can barely tell he is older than her or atleast you wont be able to tell the difference is 10 years. Because of this alot of guys avoid the question about age and never trully answer it.I personally know a couple of guys well in their 30s that literally have a different girl every time I see them and they r dfenetly not his age probably most barely over 21 Also youn…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:48 PM
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mby it happened once and the girls u talked to after saw or knew. literally no other reason. mby u looked inapropriate or smth
/r/seduction05/06/22 09:47 PM
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U r probably not good at picking up the signals that should tell you that you should leave that girl alone. If she is looking around at her feet her phone or doesnt seem to want to continue the interaction u should generally speaking back off and say something like was nice meeting you and some excuse
/r/seduction05/06/22 09:20 PM
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looks matter much more as its usually the only hard line girls wont step against for a hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:12 PM
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a movie or food usually works better.
/r/seduction02/06/22 01:36 PM
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the easiest way is to focus on having an enjoyable life. Girls seem to just be magnetized by that
/r/seduction27/05/22 11:25 PM
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literally character development. If you can do cold approach well no one will be able to fuck with you on future job interviews, friendships and relationships cause you have already been through the fucking dephts of hell
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:22 PM
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No clue, it seems women are entitled to sex and want something more and men just would like to atleast get that
/r/seduction23/05/22 04:43 AM
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just dont treat her differently/try to impress her cause thats what everyone does. Just be the best conversationalist you can be and look good
/r/seduction18/05/22 08:56 PM
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ur dreams
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:24 AM
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thats the default answer idk what u have been doing until now
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:29 PM
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nah if u r getting short responses consistantly thats a clear sign she doesnt like you so u just leave her
/r/seduction17/05/22 04:49 PM
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If u stop texting her as a way to get her back 9/10 times she wont reach out. But yea u should never be too emotionally invested
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:50 AM
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just do coke for a couple of months and you will look ur age in no time, mby even older
/r/seduction16/05/22 10:31 PM
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become a pedophile- easy peasy
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:48 PM
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thats how u lose her for sure
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:47 PM
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Speak slower look into her eyes. Keep your tone of voice masculine and calm. When its with someone who you dont know that well its signifies that u r emotionally stable and reliable. If its a hot girl they almost never get men that talk to them that way, just some clowns trying to qualify to her by being quirky and sexual. U r the opposite u r more of a James Bond or Tommy Shelby. Be present Listen to what she says and how u can get more personal. Make assumptions of what she says however generi…
/r/seduction12/05/22 07:40 PM
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I didnt quite understand how you make her want to qualify
/r/seduction12/05/22 07:24 PM
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kinky
/r/seduction09/05/22 11:08 AM
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yea but u can compensate in other areas, so its not a dealbreaker
/r/seduction07/05/22 08:52 AM
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first she has to be interested. Then u ask her about herself and "judge" her on what you like about her and why u would be compatable/incompatable.
/r/seduction06/05/22 05:58 AM
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She lost attraction. Start caring for yourself and she will care for you. You are needy because she is your life. Get a life, go to the gym do something you find interesting in your own time.
/r/seduction03/05/22 06:09 PM
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the only real skill is improving approach anxiety. Everything else is luck. With some u might vibe to the moon and not get a second date and with others might not but will go on a date with you afterwards
/r/seduction03/05/22 06:08 PM
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Yea thats the consensus, but its amplified on social media cause u r not in person and cant really vibe and connect with someone. But this is not the right mindset to have. You should always strive to improve yourself mentally and physically
/r/seduction03/05/22 06:06 PM
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cringe. girls will roll their eyes if u r not hot. But u save some time. if she likes u u dont give her a chance to not like u if she spoke to you and found u friendzone material. Also being thirsty is what they get all the time you need to show her u have standards, so she wants to achieve something with winning you, even though you dont have standards
/r/seduction03/05/22 05:57 PM
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BE HOTTER. Yep... thats it if u r more attractive than the competition there is no competition. If u r not hot... too bad you might just be wasting your time. Its luck at that point
/r/seduction03/05/22 05:56 PM
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ur judging your thoughts. Realise that ur thoughts are not unique and are probably things other people also think about including her. So its actually easier to get into conversation without filtering your thoughts
/r/seduction03/05/22 10:13 AM
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This will work only one women who find you atleast 1.5 higher smv than her. so if u r 7/10 and she is 5.5/10
/r/seduction03/05/22 10:02 AM
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ye conversations dont fizzle out, one of the partners chooses to not reciprocate and you have no control over that. So if it fizzles out its usually her choice to not continue talking to you. You can have the most boring conversation but if she finds u attractive she will continue the interaction anyway.
/r/seduction01/05/22 07:23 PM
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do you know what? however good of a conversation partner you are if the girl doesnt find anything attractive in you in the first place none of this will help you and if she does, what you say doesnt even matter its how you say it that makes the difference. Actually if u focus on doing these things and not the important ones the chances of u getting yourself friendzoned even if she was attracted to you at some point will probably go higher I am not saying these things dont work but they are gener…
/r/seduction01/05/22 09:37 AM
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fuck.
/r/seduction26/04/22 06:45 AM
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Are u cold approaching? Or are u hanging out at a bar? I am really confused. If u r cold approaching yea totally. You should definetly do it sparingly mby once a week. If u r hanging out with a friend at a bar or a club I really cant see the issue especially if u r under 30. This probably has something to do with where u r living and the culture around there
/r/seduction26/04/22 06:19 AM
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its human nature to be attracted to the opposite gender. You r not showing it on corporate time you do that in your free time. So it would be weirder if u didnt do any social activities with the opposite gender in your free time imo. Or atleast thats how I see it
/r/seduction26/04/22 05:41 AM
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Meditate. Its basically being present and mindful in evey situation
/r/seduction22/04/22 11:02 AM
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basically what the other guy said but not just with girls. Try to get comfortable talking to people and getting a circle around you, which can be social proof. Also if you do that it will come naturally to you to just start conversations without a reason for example with the girls you like. Also having conversations with multiple will solidify the social proof you think you have in your head so you will just act more dominant.
/r/seduction21/04/22 07:24 AM
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just make it all fun and/or exciting. Girls love strong emotions. Have some quick funny stories and good delivery and u can get away with so much even if she isnt particularly attracted to you in the start. Also as the other guy said if she just finds u below her attractivness threshhold nothing can save you, this is something that would be more effective in some cases
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:14 PM
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I think ur vibe is I am here to have a "pleasent conversation" not "I am here to find out if u and I can be something". Dont be so concetrated on the conversation u r having if u feel she is putting in effort conversing with you, when there is no social reason to do so, just assume she likes you. Just start feeling where her physical barrier is. A fist bump first,a touch on the shoulder after a bit of time. Guide her to somewhere with ur arm around her shoulders. Keep eye contact. At this point …
/r/seduction18/04/22 12:22 PM
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It just seems u r too scared she will get disinterested if u try to invest more, which u shouldnt care about as u will chat with 10 more girls after that but idk man you do you
/r/seduction18/04/22 12:48 AM
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if she was flirty and keeping eye contact with good conversation its a shit test. You just say something like "Dont worry we r going to Mcdonalds straight away!" This one is bad but u get the point. If it was a boring conversation to kill time its an excuse and a kind way to say I want to fuck someone better tonight
/r/seduction11/04/22 06:20 PM
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Have u actually made any moves? If not its probably because she isnt into you. Girls get submissive when they like u and u literally cant miss that. If all you felt was friendship and not attraction its pretty safe to say she doesnt like you. Try to move closer to her slowly as u both speak chest to chest preferably somewhere more private and see if she moves back. (Before that she should already be okay with hugging you or smth on the same level obviously. ) If she starts moving back slowly whi…
/r/seduction11/04/22 06:03 PM
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This is great if the girl is already attracted to you, but if she isnt its just fcking weird. Ugly girls do these kind of things like touching u on the shoulder or getting closer to you and all I can think about is "Dont touch me" which I also tell some of them in the kindest way possible. If there is attraction already u dont have to do things as gamey as that to spark it more. Its as easy as getting very close to her mby 10-20 cm between ur faces slowly and slowing down your voice of speech. I…
/r/seduction11/04/22 05:44 PM
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U have to be ready to lose her cause thats what usually happens when u do this
/r/seduction10/04/22 05:58 AM
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So dont approach in these places if below 7/10? No shit thats why people say to not approach in places that are not the norm to be approached at. cause most people are below 7/10 and will waste their time and lower their self asteem by doing that
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:09 AM
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If you act like u respect yourself thats enough for a woman to respect you... or any person to respect you. Its also called having boundaries What you just said are things that likely make u seem desperate and lacking personal respect
/r/seduction29/03/22 07:21 PM
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groupies, literally look at the other comments. Also she would because the prize is very high
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:31 PM
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false,a 8/10 girl has social proof so she feels entitled, but that doesnt happen because of other reasons
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:22 PM
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Its usually to make some other guy jelious or cause they are rlly fcked up mentally and seek help.
/r/seduction29/03/22 02:10 PM
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works if she cares(but she doesnt really) she wants emotion not information
/r/seduction29/03/22 12:52 PM
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Dont tie ur self worth to rejection. A girl can reject you if she had a bad day or has the shits or her head hurts. Also if u just ask her out out of the blue that signifies u are way too emotionally invested or wayy too socially uncalibrated which are both dealbreakers.
/r/seduction29/03/22 12:48 PM
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That is if she is attracted already otherwise you are a creep and a perv. If the vibes are on point just start getting closer to her first and look if ahe moves back or not. If u can get her mouth to be 10 cm to urs she is probably interested. Obviously do this slowly dont go to her face right away. At that point u can follow the advice above. Or you have to be sure in some other way she is attracted
/r/seduction29/03/22 12:41 PM
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The only way you can make them approach you is if you are 2 or 3 points higher SMV than her. If not its not worth the risk for their ego and perceived value. Also dont forget women are terrible at game so they are extra scared
/r/seduction29/03/22 12:37 PM
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If she is attracted to you u are "allowed" to touch. When not, she doesnt give you the right to touch, so you shouldnt. Simple as that. U can do it but u are percieved as creepy and there is also no point the same way 0 multiplicated by any number will still be a 0.
/r/seduction29/03/22 12:28 PM
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The more u think what to say the more ur fucking urself. Just be in a good mood and go. Ask her how she is doing. She will ask u back. Tell her smth that happened to you(short). And ask her smth in relation(also short). Just get her invested. Being funny is rlly pwrfl. Do that a couple of times. If she likes you let her qualify for you and reward her with a date.
/r/seduction29/03/22 11:37 AM
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This is if they had some sexual attraction to you to start with, if not she still likes you, but just as a friend
/r/seduction27/03/22 02:46 PM
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