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Question For WomenPM-ME-BIG-TITS9235/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:51 AM
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Don't care about it. Why should I? It's not like them not dating at all improves our chances. If your unattractive, women won't date you even if your the last man on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:13 AM
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Well, it depends on the situation. Some women sleep with shitty guys because they're in abusive relationships and don't know how to leave. Others just wanna get laid and don't give a shit what the guy thinks of em. He's as much of a dildo to her as she is a piece of meat to him.
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:47 AM
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Some men who see me with my husband will approach me on a separate occasion when he’s not there and start interrogating me about my marriage Now THATS pathetic....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:39 AM
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Most guys don't care about her being young. No guy is gonna turn down an absolute smokeshow cause she's 30 instead 18. Also, the term hot isn't a subjective as you think. Just like women, most men are into healthy, fit, good looking people. Also I aint talking about some old bastard. I'm talking about the average single man. It's easier for the average single man to find a hot woman than it is for a woman to find a guy over 6ft and good looking. Hot women don't make up 10% of the global populati…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:40 PM
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Honestly, fuck that. I just wanna do a good days work, and vibe. If any girl is also down for that, we can just do that together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:44 AM
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Well fucking said. The bit about time already fucking hurts, and I'm only in my early early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:43 AM
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That was an insightful answer. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:34 AM
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When did your husband go bald? Balding at 40 is no biggie. Balding at 20? Yikes....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:33 AM
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Same with dating a young, hot woman. Hot women are infinitely easier to pull than tall good looking men (most men don't actually care too much about age unless she's elderly) Hot women make up atleast 40% of the female population. Tall good looking men make up around 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:21 AM
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It's possible for people to pick and choose. In the case of traditional men, I think they'd rather their trad wife be smart rather than stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:17 AM
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Race is a huge descriptor of how someone will act culturally and socially. Not true at all. A black man born in America is going to act more like a white from America rather than a black man from Africa. What you're giving to race, should be given to culture instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:07 AM
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It happens all the time. Try bring East or South Asian and dating in the West. It's fucking brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:06 AM
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Does your dad have any effect on how you view men? Would scoff at the idea of someone claiming a man is low value cause he's shy or timid?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:58 AM
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Allow me to preface this by saying I don't have a racial preference, but what is this 1950s dating standard? Your not allowed to have a racial preference if they're not into you? What kind of ridiculouslessness is that? Again, I never see people complain when white dudes have "yellow fever" or when white women have an obsession with K pop male idols. But for some reason, all the other PoC have to "stay in their lane" when it comes to anyone else? Why are PoC being held to a different standard? W…
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:52 AM
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Jesus Christ. That ain't a friend. That's a Goddamn anchor.
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:29 AM
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Male sexuality: "Oh, I want her to put out on third date.....but I also want her to have a low n count." Too bad Jared, you can't expect women to be promiscuous and virgins at the same time. Female sexuality: "Men are shallow, and personality is more importent." Couldn't be further from the fucking truth. If women paid attention to what they were attracted to (as compared to saying what makes them sound nice) they'd realize they only simp for insanely good looking men. Women care about looks jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:49 AM
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I dont know if this translates to real life as well as you say it does, but online it absolutely does exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:49 AM
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Exactly. Attraction isn't because of shitty characteristics, it's independent of it. We all wanna fuck people way out of our league, and way too many of us are willing to ignore the red flags to get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:19 AM
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Based and nihilism pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:10 AM
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The fucked up thing about the 666 rule is that even with all that you can still get fucked over if your ugly or socially akward.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:04 AM
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Idk why but this response made me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:12 PM
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Two words: double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:08 PM
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White privilege is poorly named because it's not so much of a privilege as much as it is an exemption. All it means is that your not gonna have to deal with institutionalized racism. You're more likely to get hired for the same job, and are less like to get negatively steryotyped by everyone else. That being said, as a privilege it is a massive overstated and not that useful. There significantly greater privileges in life, like looks or wealth than there is race. It is by far better to born as r…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:21 AM
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In countries like Japan or conservative Islamic countries, a virgin woman is seen as more ideal for marriage than a non-virgin one, whereas in those same countries a guy who sleeps around is seen as cool. This isn't entirely true in Islamic countries. Like yeah your guy friends might high five you or clap you on the back, but the actual religious will punish you for sleeping out of wedlock. The reason being that Islamic people understand that for there to be a promiscuous man, there has to be di…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:59 AM
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Programmers
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:19 AM
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But it's worse now. Back then the chance of you getting a flasher was kinda rare. Now, atleast a quarter of all women online have gotten atleast one unsolicited dick pic. Just post a selfie anywhere on the internet and you'll find atleast one loser who sends you a photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:54 AM
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I agree. But the reason why you get so much shit is because so many fucking people online say shit like "I'm a centrist but.....gives only conservative opinions and exclusively shits on leftwing ones. This shit happened so much the term became a cue for people who want give a conservative opinion without actually wanting to call themselves conservative. And so the term became spoiled online. Sucks because I wish the term would make a comeback. We need to acknowledge the diverse array of opinions…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:17 AM
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Kids are still the same. What changed is dating. Wait till she's 15 and see what she has to put up with online. High-school teens putting trading nudes like Pokémon cards. Girls getting unsolicited dick pics 24/7. Teach your girl about the internet, and how to be safe on there. And how to set boundaries irl and online. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:09 AM
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I think male beauty standards are harder to meet because most of it is dictated by genetics that are out of the man's control. You have to have a great hairline, be atleast 6 ft, and have a 6 inch dick, and relatively fit. Most of this is the minimum to be considered "hawt." Whereas the minimum for women? Just be skinny and pleasant. Guaranteed atleast a 100 matches a week on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:14 PM
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I think you're painting moms as stupid or villianious here when it's not really fair. It's not like mom's intend to give bad dating advice.It's just that most people tend to suck at giving a dating advice to people of the opposite sex. This is because Moms don't know what it's like to date like young man because they never lived as one. It'd be like Dads giving their daughters advice on how to dress. They don't have any experience, they're just trying their best. The problem gets even worse when…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:05 PM
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The third date stuff is crap. Most guys won’t wait today because they know she hasn’t. Or very likely hasn't. Doesn't matter. Still proves that men want hoes. Even if she was a virgin, she'd have to go through a lot of break ups because men don't want a good girl. But we don’t care about her problems. We want what we want. If she’s been with many guys. She can be fun. But don’t expect a ring Yeah, and that's fine. You don't have to marry a promiscuous woman. I'm just trying to show you that your…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:14 AM
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But you have to realize the paradox in this statement. Men want a girl have a low body count, but also want women to have sex with them on third date. Then they turn around and complain why there are so many hoes. It's bullshit. You guys want purity culture, but you also want instant sex. Not realizing that on a societal level, you can never have both.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:02 AM
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He's a virgin ---> no girl wants to sleep with him ----> must be something wrong with him ---> red flag
/r/seduction24/12/21 11:39 PM
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See? Proving my point. Anecdotals are bullshit. We all have anecdotals, so they're all completely contradict each other anyways. Hence why we use statistics instead. It's the anecdotal of millions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:55 PM
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Do us all a favor and take a statistics class. For every observation that you've seen in your life that you think it's significant, every dude also has a story about some bitchy lady who ruined them over too. This is why stats exist as a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:46 PM
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Oh im sorry, am I supposed argue against the men your unique personal experiences? Sorry I can't do that. You sound ridiculous. I go on this platform, and I see FDS pushing a double standard, and I see most men on here saying that 50/50 is fair because both are working. Am I supposed to doubt my own eyes because your shitty life experiences said otherwise? Sorry but I'd rather just argue against the femcels who are blatantly wrong here instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:21 PM
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FDS isn't a political group genius. Their mindset is horrendous to most liberal men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:12 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about? Most men on here will agree that if you and your wife are working, everything should be split 50/50. Whereas women in FDS will blatantly say men should be the breadwinners + doing house chores while giving zero advice on what the girl should do to make things equal because she's a kween and he should be grateful. Point is you're arguing against a figment of your imagination, to defend what is easily the largest group entitlement bitches to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:08 PM
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What the sub really is is a bunch of fat hags larping that they have the kind of leverage to just dictate to men how relationships are going to be. Yep. It's also why advice doesn't work. Because any HVM will just go for a hotter girl with lower standards than put up with FDS Stacey and all her bullshit. The best way you can get a HVM is by being a HVW. For men with options, you gotta put something on the table as well. Otherwise they'll just pick someone else that isn't fucking crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:03 AM
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Yep. Back then women who had patriarchal expectations from men were still at the very least subjugated to those expectations as well. A lady could expect a man to be fit, masculine, and traditional, but on the otherhand the man also expected her to be skinny, obedient and submissive. FDS just wants 1940s gender roles for men only.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:00 AM
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Everyday....the horse shoe theory of politics becomes more and more true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:55 AM
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Now, see I have two opinions. There's the opinion of you, who says he shot his shot and it worked. And then there's the opinion of a million users on r/TwoXXChromosomes who complain how they hate when men talk to them at the gym. Surely you can see why guys can get a bit confused eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 09:27 PM
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You mean like what ever fucking science thread is on this website?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 11:44 PM
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You gotta talk to as many women as you can. Learn from your past experiences but never let them hold you back. And you gotta take what your given and make em your strengths. You'd be surprised how many woman are genuinely into big dudes. You might think the intimidation factor is holding you back, but you if you can give off that caring big bear vibe that people don't expect from giants, a lot of women will gravitate towards that energy. Alternatively, you could also give off that dark and myste…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 11:41 PM
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Reducing the male population to 10% would actually go terribly. It would deprive the vast majority of the women the opportunity to find a life partner and would would force the majority of mothers to not have sons. Even if you hate men, I honestly can't see how any women who values female liberty could support this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 11:24 PM
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Not really. TRP more or less kinda just admits that they have the shorter hand of the stick when it comes to dating. But otherwise I haven't seen much racism towards them on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 11:12 PM
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That's what I've been doing. It just hasn't helped me Then try something else. Try learning how to make jokes. Learn how to approach women in the library or at the bar. Yeah, you'll fail multiples time, and embarrass yourself and her, BUT THATS HOW DATING WORKS. Every dude whose smooth as fuck was at one point a total loser who had no idea how to talk to women. It's only after repeated failure that he finally got good at approaching them. Learn to talk like smooth carsalesman, because the car yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 11:05 PM
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No, they want an attractive sugar daddy whose also a loyal stud. They give lots of priority to looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:57 PM
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Well according to some of the bs on fds they won't even sleep with a guy until they've been dating for months and supposedly during that period she determines if he's "high value" or not. Oh! And it gets better. If you can't handle stringing the guy along for sex, have a one night stand with someone to keep the urges away until he finally earns it. FDS was literally invented Alphas Fuck, Betas Buck without ever looking at the red pill. Thereby validating everything the red pill says about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:55 PM
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Yeah people tryna make grand statements about the universe based on dick size are being kinda ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:46 PM
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Goddamn. Do you not feel any remorse for cucking dudes you don't know?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:44 PM
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That and the ancient Greeks would worship you for it. Crazy how much beauty standards are societal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:40 PM
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I disagree. Most of those mindsets are learned and enforced through bitterness. No one wakes up in this world and hates men no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:36 PM
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Accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:35 PM
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Most dudes don't give a fuck about hypergamy as much as they do about women denying its existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:34 PM
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Exactly. Dudes need to stop simping. It's not girls fault that their Tinder accounts have +100 matches. We're the ones swiping right.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:57 PM
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I feel you man. It's confusing as fuck and the messaginging is really inconsistent. "Don't befriend to date," but also "don't ask random women out." Say and do all the right things without knowing what she likes, but if you fuck up then you're one of the men that makes this world terrible for women to live in. Dating women is one of those things where every girl gives different advice because everyone wants different things, but all that means is that your guaranteed to make someone's day and ru…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:46 PM
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Wow, that is oddly specific. I'm sorry you've met with some shitheads.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:40 PM
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Your standards are too low. Find a guy whose better than the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:54 AM
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Just ignore the incel/femcel shit and argue on behalf of what you believe in. So many bad takes on both sides it's actually hard not hate both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:56 AM
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What r/purplepilldebate does to a mf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:04 AM
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No it means you either don't understand my point or can't argue against it. To recap, I said it's unfair double standard how men can't express standards but women can. You come in and say "oh but we already knew men had standards." Like, and??? That doesn't change the fact that's its still unfair. Why should you get the ability to voice what you want, but I can't without being shamed for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:58 AM
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TL;DR: Touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:30 AM
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I dont care. That still doesn't refute my arguement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:28 AM
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However, I have never had sex so I’m also a walking red flag to a lot of men. Nope. Quite the contrary, for a lot of guys your a unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:12 AM
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Your boyfriend was a cunt. I hope you're separated now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:08 AM
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The problem is men can't verbalize this without being called a whole bunch of personal attacks. I can turn a lady down for her weight, but I can't say her weight is the reason why I turned her down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:05 AM
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Another great example of this would be the concept of "objectification." If men rank women based off their sexual attractiveness, they're objectifying them and being sexist. But when women rank men based on income, personality, charisma, sexual attractiveness and all the likes, it's perfectly fine. Why is okay for women to verbalize the differences between High Value Men and Low Value Men, with respect to EVERYTHING. But men can't do the same when it comes to sexual attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 06:58 AM
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Thank you. What is fucking unrealistic standard for women in this sub? You date an asshole, and now you're truly incapable of loving your husband? Buncha fucking morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 06:32 AM
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Dude, I think your seriously overestimating how many girls are into bad dudes. The average women isn't sleeping around with dozens of frat bros up until she's 30, and then settling down with good old reliable. The average man AND women has 7 partners throughout their life time. Also, a lot of women date shitty dudes, not knowing that they're shitty, and then learn to vet for better men as they get older. That isn't them liking bad boys and then settling later, that's them learning from their mis…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 06:31 AM
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Cause if every woman is a "Queen." And if something goes wrong, she needs to change her standards. But every man is "trash," so if something goes wrong he needs to actually work hard and improve himself. The "Queen" gets sympathy because of what she inherently is. The "trash" gets none because it needs to prove his worth before he even gets any value.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/21 05:04 AM
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Trumps own goddamn attorney and members of the Supreme Court that HE elected all came out and said there was no fraud. How deep does the mud go? Is Kavanaugh apart of the deep state too? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:12 PM
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Do you read the news?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:55 PM
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You can atleast go on TRP and call them out on why their world view is ridiculous. FDS doesn't even allow you to do that much. Also, TRP doesn't straight up ban women from it'd discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:54 PM
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Most conservatives are classic liberals In.....what world are most Cons classic liberals? 50% of all conservatives think that the most recent insurrection was somewhat justifiable. In what world is that classically liberal? It'd literally a grab for power.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:49 PM
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What fucking planet do you live in where housework is easy? It's 24/7 job if you have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 04:50 AM
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But the biggest difference is that in consent. If a girl on OLD can fuck whoever she wants, whenever she wants. Arranged marriages aren't even close to being the same thing. Even with that minimal veto power, it's still nothing compared to full autonomy of OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 04:47 AM
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That place is a cesspool. Half the posts on there are shitting on single mothers is which is something something decent dude would ever do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:44 AM
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I've heard stories from other dudes that apparantly once they were take a lot of women started hitting on em. I guess for the some, the rings more of a challenge than a warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:31 AM
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Man I fucking wish I was gay. The dating scene there looks like buffet...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:29 AM
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Also why dating advice from most women is total horseshit. Most women don't realize the disconnect between what they say they say they prioritize (sensitive, kind, funny) vs what they actually prioritize (looks).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:28 AM
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Thank you brother for the advice. I appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:07 PM
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Your logic for saying online dating has ruined everything is likely that it’s made dating around too easy, which was my point to begin with. Then why is sexlessness among men higher now than it was prior to 2008? Why are there so many goddamn incels on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:00 PM
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Where did I assume your gender? Those were generalized statements, not personal attacks. You are also mistaken in your belief that you will be offered option beta because it is likely you would not qualify for that position either. Did I not just say no self respecting dude would take up option beta? Did you even read my comment? Can you even read?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:57 PM
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"When we say "women dont care about looks" doesn't actually mean we actually don't care about looks. It just means that we care about other things like money and status as well" What is this brainlet take? Is this supposed to be a defense of women, or an admission to the stereotype that women can't think straight? Also, it's nice to see you're the arbitrator of all women. Maybe instead doing mental gymnastics to say that every woman has a different interpretation of a straightforward statement, …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:47 PM
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Sweden is considering a immigration ban on Taiwanese women because swedish men aren't marrying swedish women they're marrying Taiwanese women No fuckin way. Sauce bro
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:00 AM
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So is the bottom. Take pride in the fact that you're on the better end of the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:53 AM
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Any advice for a young man looking to be just as successful?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:49 AM
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Bro, please stop saying that. I walk into Walmart and 300 lb whales married to eachother all time. If they can do it, then an ivy grad high income earner can too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:43 AM
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Single dads have left the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:34 AM
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"Women have the right to be shitty because they're body and their choice." Lmao. And guys have the right to not date shitty women. Just like how I have the right to make fun of you for having such an asinine take. No self respecting bro is gonna date a girl and hold out while knowing she's fucking a boy toy the whole time on the side. He'd much rather find a girl to fuck instead. Exclusivity only works when it's meaningful and fair. Otherwise your not looking for a man, your looking for a doorma…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:21 AM
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Yeah but they still value looks. Your not gonna marry an unattractive guy... And I doubt unchecked hypergamy isn’t self destructive in the long run. It's working in their favor. How on earth would it ever backfire.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:12 AM
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https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2016/08/160802125209.htm Literally 2 seconds of searching could have saved you time and me as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:09 AM
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I will admit it everyday and twice on Sunday Oh, you mean visiting this subreddit everyday?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:06 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:02 AM
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Will you be telling your kid the same thing when he's in college or will you just go back to good old mantra of "PeRSoNaLiTy."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:58 AM
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Try saying "women care about looks just as much as men" in a female dominated subreddit and see how that goes sweetie. Almost all women would agree with the statement "men are more shallow than women." Stop lying to yourself and be honest for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:52 AM
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Bullshit. Everytime I say women value looks just as much men, on a woman dominated subreddit, everyone loses their fucking minds. Yall are delusional if you think it's only men who placed women on a pedastle. Look up the "women are wonderful" effect. Your blindly falling into it right now.. Even in the face of evidence your saying "women couldn't POSSIBLY have spread these rumors, it must have been men." The irony falls on deaf ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:45 AM
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Most dudes would sooner fuck a 5 than than that 5 would sooner fuck a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:39 AM
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Men don't try to downplay the importance of looks by talking about personality the same way women do. As a dude, for all shit r/FemaleDatingStrategy, I legitimately respect them for being the ONLY female sub that was genuinely honest about the importance of looks. No bullshit gaslighting. If your ugly they will tell you that they would sooner fuck the corpse of a dead Chad than even think about touching you with a fork. Guys don't bullshit on the importance of looks, nearly as much as women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:35 AM
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Good. Fucking. Point. You can't say your virtuous if you don't have power. Ugly ass dudes could be just as shitty as the guys on the top if the circumstances were different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:25 AM
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The average guy today has a chance to have more women to date than any man in history. You only need one girlfriend and you’re out the game. Historically men have never had it easier, and I’m a dude saying that. And yet, why do all the stats say completely otherwise? Dudes were having more sex in the 70s than they were today. It seems to me that everything you say has made dating easier has only made it harder. Imo online dating ruined dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:19 AM
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The study isn't verifiable....you need a Pew account to get in and the only other source that provides any semblance of data is a Conservaitve website that already has an interest in making liberals look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:04 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 05:37 AM
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Yep. That is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:30 PM
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K so i agree with all of this. But how does any of this prove the concept that men are victims? They were born with inferior qualities that they had no choice in. They were told be live in feminist world where equal. But when it comes to dating they're told to just "suck it up and do better." Why is it when men have problems they have to adapt, but when women have problems, society adapts for them? I mean, even if we take your example to heart. Let's say FDS because mainstream and the majority o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:05 AM
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Thanks for the advice. But how do you reconcile being a total piece of shit? Do you not care for the people's lives you ruin?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:55 AM
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I like this term. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:49 AM
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Just to add to this: Movies. Movies push this trope harder than women, friends, or even parents do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:41 AM
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Joke being that men get accused for rape all the time these days, even when it's not rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:36 AM
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Buddy, your telling me that if personality is accounted for, a guy will pick the hotter, younger 25 y.o. over the older counterpart purely because of her n count? Your telling me her looks and youth don't play a role in the situation at all? So then why doesn't he just marry a 35 y.o..with a low n count?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:36 AM
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Izza joke...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:31 AM
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What does that have to do with him dating a 25 y.o? He's still dating her for her looks....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:31 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:26 AM
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Fucking EXACTLY. And so much of dating just comes down to what your born with. Born too short? Dick too small? Hair falling out? YOUR DONE. And you'll get zero sympathy for any of these issues and if you complain about them you'll get laughed at. If you date as a man, you understand how hard it is, even if you attractive. You have to initiate everything. You have to be confident and funny. You have to be physically attractive, good income, and great dick and great hair. All of that, to be in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:18 AM
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The failing in this regard is in them, it’s easy to paint yourself as the victim, it’s hard to accept accountability You mean balding too early? Or being born with a shorter penis? Or being born less the 5ft 5? So much "responsibility" men are failing to take eh? You couldn't possible see it from the other side, much easier to blame the victim...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:58 AM
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Right, but men will admit all of this, and even more will admit it's a problem. When was the last time you saw a female subreddit own up to hypergamy? They'll all attack you for just bringing it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:51 AM
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But.....hypergamy....refers to dating strategy....not LTR...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:49 AM
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"Source: bro, trust" Lmao, life experience isn't even comparable to actual studies. Your experience might be different from the experiences of everyone else. Studies give us a birds eye views and helps give an objective look at the stiaution.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:34 AM
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Ever hear the term "digging yourself into a hole?"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:31 AM
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What frustrates men about hypergamy is not that women are hypergamous in and of itself, but that women are choosing to have sex with much higher value men than themselves, but then having to settle for lower value men than those men who they used to have sex with. This. You're not special, you're plan B. And no dude with a brain or an ounce of self respect wants to be plan B.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:26 AM
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I looked up "hypergamy" on feminists subreddits. Anyone who wants to have a serious conversation about it just get ad hommed into being called a bigot and everyone just piles on the person asking the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:16 AM
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This is ridiculous. Dating and human interactions are way more complicated just an evaluation of one's getting background. Are going to screen your LTR for genetic illnesses within the family on your second date? Most people probably wouldn't, because ultimately you date the person, not the illness. Infact most people are willing to overlook shit like diabetes if the person is willing to bring everything else to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:14 AM
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Alright, but we have to differentiate porn from reality. Do women actually like bigger dicks, or is it just the fantasy of it that turns them on? Like ordering the largest food bowl at a restaurant but only realizing halfway that you can't eat all of it. I'm gonna make the argument that the best way to infer what women like, isn't to look at they watch, but what they buy. If you look at the stats on what kinds of sex toys women buy, you'll see the most common size dildo bought is around 6 inches…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:05 AM
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Rape charge in 3.....2.....1
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:52 AM
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Vaginas come in different shapes. It's not like if she gets aroused enough she can suddenly take a baseball bat with no pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:51 AM
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Howd you explain that one at the doctors office?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:50 AM
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Go online, and look up which dildo sizes are the most sold towards women. The answer is around 6 inches. The only reasons 7 or 8 inches get praised a lot is because average dudes will lie about their size.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:48 AM
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Exactly. The whole "40 year old dating hot 20 something" trope ain't from nowhere. Dudes will legit date girls half their age and wife em up too if they seem good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:42 AM
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Not in my 30s, is this actually a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:35 AM
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Fake. But in the case it's not, kick them out. Do I really even need to say it?
/r/askTRP17/06/21 08:02 AM
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Damn, calm down. I'm not trying to spin you into a villian, we're on the same side. I just saw this line: Yeah, some women are extremists and proud to throw their misandry and man hating around. But they own up to it. And thought you were implying that somehow owning up to it was better. It might have been an incorrect inference, but it wasn't an attempt to personally vilify you for the sake of it. It was misunderstanding, my apologizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:16 PM
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Alright, listen, if they're stalking you, harassing you, or not leaving you alone when you tell em to, anything you say to them is fair game. That being said, we can against guys hitting on women in literally the dehumanizing way possible when also condemning people who make fun those who respectfully shoot their shot. Unlike what a lot of guys in thread what you to believe, feminism is not a zero sum game and both win will when all sides are respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:27 PM
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Haha I'm a man. Check out r/MensLib if you wanna see more of this kind of approach to dealing with men's issues instead of bullshit tribalism. You could do a lot for men by talking about this issues from a different angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:35 PM
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The left wing male population doesn't believe men have any problems. Dude, what are you talking about. Have ever even been to r/MensLib? Arguable one of the biggest support groups for men's issues on reddit and its all purely from a left wing perspective. There are a fuck ton of dudes on the left who believe men have problems. You see them all the time on reddit. There are endless discussion about male suicide rates, toxic male gender norms perpetuated by toxic masculinity (men can't cry), and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:33 PM
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In general I agree with your point but not the focus. The problem isn't that women aren't holding up outdated social contracts, it's that men are still expected to hold up the stupid shit on their end. Why does a dude have to be expected to split the bill? Why do guys have to be manly and tough all the time and aren't allowed to cry? Why is body shaming men so normal? Why do men take the generalized blame for actions of shitty men, its obviously sexist to use terminology fhat discriminates again…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:24 PM
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The whole of my comment was that guys cant just stop approaching women because if they do they'll forgoing all relationships. The only way to have a chance is to take a shot. It'd just be nice if we normalize not making fun of people who are taking good faith risks instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:58 PM
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Can you explain more on how women are forced to fulfill social contracts where men Are we really gonna pretend women aren't judged anymore for not having kids past 30? Go talk a 30 year old lady without kids, ask how many times she's been asked if she's planning. And that doesn't even touch on the social contract of promiscuity. As much as the guys in thread like to pretend sleeping around doesn't have any backlash for women, slut shaming is absolutely still a very real thing. And even though th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:52 PM
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Okay pal. Lemme know when you get that done.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:33 PM
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Cause not caring about society leads to a shittier society to live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:32 PM
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Women are not expected to work and provide in order to prove their worth. Society tells women that all women are important. That they should know their worth. That they shouldn't put up lowering their standards, because it's ways beauty standards that are the problem. Not them because they're always beautiful, merely by virtue of being women. Granted, I dont actually think this is all bad. Women need to be reminded of their self worth because their value is constantly graded by their looks from …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:30 PM
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I still don't buy the incel claim that men have to provide to be respected? You misunderstand. The concept of having to provide isn't limited to finance. The general idea is that as a man, you have to above average in some sort metric in order to have society think your worth a damn. In the case of dudes who don't work and own nothing, they make up for it by being above average in looks. But the point is that they still need to stand out. TLDR: If you aren't noticably tall, attractive, rich or a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:10 PM
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You and life a third of all men. Every population has atleast one third hedonism. Mankind requires it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:00 PM
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Do you not realize that a significant proportion of the left wing community is also men, so they would be willing to fight for the cause of male liberation?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:57 PM
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"No no. You see, when a single mother gets accidentally pregnant and dumped by a deadbeat dad, she's the scrum of earth. Because we can't have sex with her without having to put up with the child." You may think I'm being sarcastic here, but no. This is legimately how many of fuckwits think in TRP and misogynistic subreddits. Look at all of r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen, its legitimately making fun of single moms. It's fucking disgusting. No chooses to be a single mom, and it takes two to tango, but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:54 PM
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Don’t approach and don’t harass women. Nope. Ugly dudes get called creepy for showing interest and approaching women all the time. But the ugly truth of dating is that if you want a partner you have to approach. The obligation to approach has always been placed on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:37 PM
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Those areas are 50 years behind, but it's slowly creeping into the mindset there as well. That'd be good though. Modern day standards at still better than that 1960s cesspool.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:29 PM
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What will women do once men know this en masse is the real question They'll raise their standards even higher. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:27 PM
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Fuck it. I'll play the devils advocate. What social obligations that are good for society, have women forgotten but men have kept? AFAIK everything women have strived for are privileges that have always been a given for men (education, voting rights, wearing pants ffs). The only institution I could see people arguing would be that of family, but it's not like feminism has stopped women from wanting kids, or makes an ideological demand not be a housewife. It's just prioritized making it a choice …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:19 PM
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Yaaaaaaaasssss gurl. Knoe wat u want, and GET IT.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:53 PM
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No, but Misogynistic subreddits can be shut down, simply on account of being Misogynistic because that breaks rule 1. But the same doesn't apply to misandry. Also it's kinda disgusting how many women on here are turning a blind eye to misandry just because it doesn't get people killed. I didn't realize people had to commit hate crimes before we could all collectively realize that attacking others on the basis of identity is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:34 PM
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The point is the misogynistic subs wouldn’t be banned or quarantined if it wasn’t for that violence. No, they absolutely would be. Here's rule 1 of reddit content policy. Rule 1 Remember the human. Reddit is a place for creating community and belonging, not for attacking marginalized or vulnerable groups of people. Everyone has a right to use Reddit free of harassment, bullying, and threats of violence. Communities and users that incite violence or that promote hate based on identity or vulnerab…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:35 AM
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Rule 1 Remember the human. Reddit is a place for creating community and belonging, not for attacking marginalized or vulnerable groups of people. Everyone has a right to use Reddit free of harassment, bullying, and threats of violence. Communities and users that incite violence or that promote hate based on identity or vulnerability will be banned. Maybe instead of larping around the rules you should actually read them. Reddit has an official policy that bans hate based subs that attack identity…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:27 AM
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Yeah, some women are extremists and proud to throw their misandry and man hating around. But they own up to it. Have you ever considered that maybe misandrists are open and proud about it because misandry is way more socially acceptable than the reverse? Also, you're a shitbag if you think owning up to being openly sexist/racist/homophobic suddenly makes any better than being covertly sexist/racist/homophobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 11:59 PM
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"This isn’t a hypothetical question. You’re asking because you believe that misandry is “perfectly acceptable” while “misogyny” is shut down at every turn, without understanding that the misandry groups aren’t making active, and violent threats towards men, like those participating in misogyny do." This statement (that you made) in context of why misandry should also be banned, implies that misogyny has worse outcomes and therefore deserves to be banned whereas misandey doesn't (because it doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 11:52 PM
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It isn’t a hypothetical question. You’re asking because you believe that misandry is “perfectly acceptable” while “misogyny” is shut down at every turn, without understanding that the misandry groups aren’t making active, and violent threats towards men, like those participating in misogyny do. What your implying here, is that misandry doesn't deserve to be shut down because there is no threat of violence. The whole point of asking the hypothetical question to was to take this premise and flip i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 06:37 PM
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You’re trying to argue that making threats should be acceptable….. No it's a hypothetical question you moron. I can't believe I have spell it out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 06:34 AM
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So misandry is okay if there are no threats of violence? Would you hold the same standard towards misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:38 AM
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They're all quarantined. All of em. Can't say the same about misandristic subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:02 AM
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I mean I agree with you that there are no movements for men. But one of the major points made by OP was that there aren't a lot of insults for women but there are for men. The dude saying this isn't true isn't going off on a tangent, he's addressing one of the central points made in the post. So basically your wrong, the rebuttal made against OP is still relevant to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 03:59 AM
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"Big dick energy" It's stupid how we say body shaming is wrong but then normalize against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 03:49 AM
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Shaming men more than women is fair because men exhibit ssxual aggression far more than women due to them being the "chasers." For example, women get hit on from the moment they puberty, with girls in grade 8 getting sent dick picks from men. Men aren't pressured or manipulated into have sex and don't get abused when they say no. Men don't have to deal with stalkers when walking home or have to live with the constant fear at night that any moment they could be overpowered by a man and assaulted …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 03:46 AM
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