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Oh my time to shine, at last! Approach Locations: Bus Stops: There are girls just waiting there, and you can hurry things up with the number, and tune up the attraction because she has a bus to catch and it's a dynamic situation: if she doesn't give her number, she won't see you again. I usually ask the time, or pretend to wait and accuse her of something (her perfume etc) and just start talking. What's she going to lose, she's just waiting. Town center (summer) , shopping district: This is grea…
/r/seduction30/10/16 11:06 PM
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Tinder is not "dating". Sure, on another website you have to play games, get the number etc etc; but on Tinder girls are usually down to fuck. Don't ask for sex obviously duh!! :D What are you doing, man? You know why she is there, she knows why you are there, you both know why you matched. Explicitly speaking about sex without comfort will only make her think you are horny/needy and not getting laid a lot. Offer a fun activity together instead: picnic at the park, going out for drinks, hiking, …
/r/seduction22/10/16 01:13 PM
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Can't speak for him, as he can have the excitement of meeting and fucking a new girl every day, which could be more fun than a monotone relationship with one person. For me.. in a relationship I hated the person I had become. Imagine you have the wings, but choose not to fly anymore. You are meeting new people every day when you are gaming, and single. In a relationship you don't. I thought the only way to make a relationship, no matter how awesome your partner is: is to do something exciting wi…
/r/seduction22/10/16 12:39 PM
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Haha similar things happened to me, and I feel you: IT HURTS, MAN! But some women do this, there is no way around it except avoiding Tinder/Bar girls and going only for daygame. That would decrease your potential dates too though. Sometimes it is just for self esteem, they feel "power" in doing this, sometimes though it's because you met her online and IRL you weren't her type. Or she expected you would stand up straight, look confident and fun etc, but you didn't have body language game right. …
/r/seduction22/10/16 12:24 PM
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Facebook? No no.. Never that. If you haven't planned to fuck that day or the next day with your Tinder match (It's what the app is for. You can directly propose that) then you should get her number - don't give her your number without her giving you hers - and keep talking there. One way of keeping things exciting without until the date is the questions game, like the one day play in "Before Sunrise", the movie. Obviously things should mostly be sexual-light-fun, don't ask her serious, deep, cou…
/r/seduction22/10/16 12:13 PM
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/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/16 06:05 PM
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Keep approaching and getting rejected, as you push deeper into interactions you will internalize and instinctively develop many requirements of the game. The game isnt learned in books or on the internet. Read a tip, go out and practice that outside and observe the results. Your body will "learn" to do it instinctively. I practiced "not leaning" at a very loud club environment for a few weekends. Girls kept leaning over me in order to hear, cruel, but I have internalized "that" feeling of having…
/r/seduction04/06/16 05:48 AM
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It seems to me that the girls you are interested in are found on the Internet, nerdy conventions and hobby/game shops. These girls would find it beneath themselves to go to a coffee shop or a bar with girlfriends and hang out, right? You have two challenges: 1) the clueless male to female ratio is pretty high in the environments they hang out at. They are drowned by compliments, offers, creepy attempts from clueless virgins vice versa. So their ego is PRETTY HIGH in their native environments. So…
/r/seduction01/06/16 07:06 AM
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I apologize for the "rejection out of nowhere" screenshot. Next time I will make a "how to take a naked selfie for your tinder profile and how many minutes you should wait to message after you match" post, more in line with how this sub is these days :)
/r/seduction30/05/16 07:12 PM
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Every approach and every rejection is cringe material. There is no escape from cringe in pick up. But that scares boys and wusses, they cant make themselves vulnerable and their ego can't take being rejected and subjected to cringe in public. A pua just bounces back. We're talking with her now. No need to take it personal.
/r/seduction30/05/16 12:20 PM
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I confirm, we are. Maybe he is a serial killer, or Neo from matrix, but well.. bake a pie, go knock his door with it. Better yet, text him (you have his number , right?) that you are going to drop him some pie. And if he is too dense to invite you in, make up an excuse like your heel piercing your foot somehow, get in, take off your shoes. Offer to slice the pie.. you are already inside. Gosh that guy is either the greatest closet homosexual, or cant afford condoms.
/r/seduction28/05/16 09:56 PM
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If he is attracted to you, his DNA tells him to put a baby in you. And plus you are willing. Unless he is gay, you must end up at his apartment, let's see , he only buys coffee? No food stuff? If he is buying junk food, you could tease him about not knowing how to cook real food, and invite yourself to his place in order to cook him your mom's favorite something something. Then it would go to netflix and one thing would follow another.
/r/seduction28/05/16 09:19 PM
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ugh that idiot. can you get his phone number for me? I have a few words for him.
/r/seduction28/05/16 09:01 PM
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Alright this will be extensive and I have Vin DiCarlo to thank for this. There are 3 situations you might approach a woman 1- Dynamic: She is walking past you, she is bagging her grocery at the cashier and you are in line, she is walking to her car, she is at the bus stop and her bus can arrive any minute. You won't have the opportunity again 2- Static: She is at the coffee shop sitting, she is next to you on the train, she is the barista, she can't escape or leave, there is pressure on her if s…
/r/seduction28/05/16 08:27 PM
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A man never misses an opportunity to go out with a cute girl and sleep with her. Find out if he is in a relationship already. Find out if he doesn't want to hurt your feelings by just sleeping with you but going back to his life. Those are the reasons I would personally have for not going out with a girl, guaranteed that I was attracted to her. Some guys might have other reasons. Keep in mind though, when a guy is attracted to a girl it is 100% only and only because of her looks, it's not a cons…
/r/seduction28/05/16 08:11 PM
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Read /u/CA_Tenant 's comment 20 times before reading mine You also need to write down 1- what kind of women do I like? Then brainstorm a bit 2- what kind of places are the women that I'm attracted to found at? THEN GO TO THOSE PLACES. You won't find classy, business-like women at the mall in daytime. Go to the cafes/after hours pubs they frequent. Stop a girl who looks like that and literally ask her what kind of places girls like her frequent. I did that. The girl helped me so much she drew map…
/r/seduction28/05/16 08:07 PM
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As much as talking to all your other options and being busy with your personal stuff takes. At least that's what you want her to "feel". If you really have nothing else to do.. throw 3 dice, add up the sum and wait that many minutes "each time", but make sure to end the interaction first, with something like "Great talking to you but I gotta run, I m busy" etc. No idling, no dilly dollying, no begging her to stay, no looooooooong sentences, no lingering around. End it and be gone. Each time.
/r/seduction28/05/16 08:02 PM
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yes please I have nothing else to do :) I can always learn something from someone
/r/seduction28/05/16 08:00 PM
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You should visit Finland and talk to people on the road (preferably weekend nights) There are no class structures mostly. Everyone talks to everyone and everyone fucks everyone :) The income gap is very very low, and even then, there are no sub cultures (almost, fucking rockabilly weirdos..) that would keep people from socializing with one another. My best friends are a) a grocery store cashier b) a PHD in political science c) a physicist d) a construction guy e) an evolutionary biologist f) an …
/r/seduction28/05/16 07:58 PM
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Here is how it goes If you BELIEVE your approach will be creepy, it will be creepy and you will display no confidence. If you believe your approach will work great no matter what you say, it will go great IF THE GIRL IS RECEPTIVE and if not, it will be a pretty funny FR you can come back here and share with us. Do you see where I'm going? It all ends up in your game, your confidence, body language, non-neediness, and how you radiate your manliness. The words , the body, the clothes are all vice …
/r/seduction28/05/16 07:53 PM
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The reason this sub is going downhill.
/r/seduction28/05/16 06:25 PM
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Okay then, you have to come to terms with the reality that you are infertile, you will die alone and you will never attract a beautiful woman. Just divert your energy elsewhere. I want to fly and fight dragons but I have come to terms with the reality that it is just not possible. I have diverted my daydreams elsewhere. No use pushing it if you just don't believe it is possible. Unsub from /r/seduction and choose another hobby, reading FR here will just get you down. You could be the richest pla…
/r/seduction09/05/16 07:01 AM
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you can't be an investor :D You're a male, your genes and your psychology order you to spread your semen and sleep around. Anything else is your mother's or society's brainwashing. There is also another possibility that you think if you don't have a girlfriend; you will be desperate about sex; which is not true if you keep approaching women and having options. Investor/Tester stems form a conflict in female psychology; it does not apply to men. You may still want to have one girlfriend; but gues…
/r/seduction08/05/16 03:55 PM
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You are not born with those. You gain them. Deciding to do so is up to you. Surely sitting at home doing nothing is easier, and safer. But look at the photo of a perfect 10/10 girl. If you can at least imagine that "she could be begging you to fuck her"; then you have to take the difficult path and train yourself. There is no magic in this world; just repeated exercise.
/r/seduction08/05/16 07:12 AM
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Don't commit to any girl, and don't expect them to commit to you either. It's just university; have fun, try to fuck 500 chicks. No strings attached. Also there is a thing as Tester/Investor for girls. Some just want to keep multiple guys around who have different functions; some choose to commit to a single guy and "invest" in him. Have fun with testers, don't hurt investors right now; you will find a wonderful investor and get in a relationship with her when you are bored of the orgies. An eas…
/r/seduction07/05/16 07:44 PM
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Now you're talking :) I have a foolproof money-back guarantee guide over here that you can pick up, start reading and succeeding with. the important thing is: You read the first book (within 12 hours), shower, shave, groom, dress up and go out to approach every girl you see. Ugly, pretty, short, tall, young, old. Approach and talk, smile, and ask for the time, directions, or anything you feel comfortable with at first. If they ask your name, or any other personal questions; just keep pushing the…
/r/seduction07/05/16 01:20 PM
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Have you even read a book or even a chapter about m2f , f2m attraction? Because right now you sound like a physics students saying "guys I figured out apples fall because the earth must pull them or something" We all have survival and replication values biologically. To live and to love. These are the meaning of life for us humans. Men (think alpha male) need to have high survival value: skills to make food (success, good job, talents), skills to make friends and lead them (social status, networ…
/r/seduction07/05/16 12:54 PM
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Visit a therapist. This is a community to share ideas and experiences about seducing women. Not a shoulder to cry on. When you "decide" to man up and leave the boy behind, we will prod you in the right direction. right now you're crying like a wuss because you don't want to leave your comfort zone and accept the fact that all that your mother taught you growing up was a lie.
/r/seduction07/05/16 12:38 PM
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With dukan , you can eat a whole chicken for breakfast, a whole salmon for lunch and a small cow for dinner. Since it works because the ATP of protein is much higher than the ATP of carbs or fats; it is fundamentally different than limiting or counting diets. Basically the more protein you eat, during ketosis, the more energy your body will have to obtain from your fat storage in order to acquire enough energy to digest that protein. When you eat 100cal worth protein, you need 30 cal first to br…
/r/seduction22/04/16 11:06 AM
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Man, it's been one week and you haven't even read one thin book and went out to ask the time to a few girls. I can't help you anymore except with field reports, I m not a psychotherapist or someone who likes to listen, you have to do your part if you want guidance,
/r/seduction21/04/16 07:25 AM
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You won't be a big loser after you get confidence from being able to talk to anyone and fuck beautiful strangers you walk up to on the street. The goal is to make a man out of you. Not just getting you laid. You still need courage and persistence though. You'll get rejected over and over again but just get experience from those approaches. Not even Brad Pitt would have over 25-30% rate of success cold approaching women. You ll get the experience, social intuition, skills and the confidence
/r/seduction20/04/16 09:55 AM
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You won't be a big loser after you get confidence from being able to talk to anyone and fuck beautiful strangers you walk up to on the street. The goal is to make a man out of you. Not just getting you laid. You still need courage and persistence though. You'll get rejected over and over again but just get experience from those approaches. Not even Brad Pitt would have over 25-30% rate of success cold approaching women. You ll get the experience, social intuition, skills and the confidence
/r/seduction20/04/16 09:55 AM
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You won't be a big loser after you get confidence from being able to talk to anyone and fuck beautiful strangers you walk up to on the street. The goal is to make a man out of you. Not just getting you laid. You still need courage and persistence though. You'll get rejected over and over again but just get experience from those approaches. Not even Brad Pitt would have over 25-30% rate of success cold approaching women. You ll get the experience, social intuition, skills and the confidence
/r/seduction20/04/16 09:55 AM
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You won't be a big loser after you get confidence from being able to talk to anyone and fuck beautiful strangers you walk up to on the street. The goal is to make a man out of you. Not just getting you laid. You still need courage and persistence though. You'll get rejected over and over again but just get experience from those approaches. Not even Brad Pitt would have over 25-30% rate of success cold approaching women. You ll get the experience, social intuition, skills and the confidence
/r/seduction20/04/16 09:55 AM
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You can't be helped if you don't want to be helped. I understand you are scared shitless right now, but first you read and approach, only then you will get the courage, not before. That's how it works. Fear is a great friend, it tells you when a girl is worth approaching, when a challenge is worth undertaking; but if you let I consume you; you won't to forward in life, just stand still. It's your decision and your choice, not anyone else's.
/r/seduction19/04/16 10:56 AM
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You will change. The boy has to die. You will be James Bond for 1 hour a day, and then you can get home and contemplate galactic genocide. I had read my first book within a few hours of finding it; I skipped sleep and went to school the next day and approached my first girls as soon as I left home. Picked up my first girl on the lunch line, and fucked her the next day. She had a boyfriend and she was moaning "Why are you doing this to my boyfriend, he is a nice man, you could be best friends" I …
/r/seduction16/04/16 07:02 AM
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Yup. Done this nearly every girl when I can. Another thing you can do is, give signs that you won't kiss her. Go in for a kiss , pause and say "never mind.." , pulling away, turn back after a second and FORCEFULLY grab her by the waist and pull against yourself, full contact, while moving your face next to hers (not front, but cheek to cheek as if you are going to whisper something) brush your cheek against her as you pull back a few centimetres to align your lips and kiss her PASSIONATELY, biti…
/r/seduction15/04/16 03:31 PM
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Have to give different advice based on your age, country, skill level, looks, etc :)
/r/seduction15/04/16 12:23 PM
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One man changed is a world changed, once you get on the street talking to guys and girls with a smile, with a "leader of man and women, life of the party" attitude, I ll feel accomplished, not before then, so start reading and accept everything as the reality. All you thought and knew were wrong.
/r/seduction15/04/16 08:30 AM
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You're at high school, no?
/r/seduction14/04/16 06:34 PM
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Your life changes for $3000 IF AND ONLY IF you are motivated, have read some books, make frequent approaches and have some success. It will be money thrown away if you are going back home to play world of Warcraft and to make up reasons why you won't approach.. I pirated all pua material myself and began doing approaches hours after my first book. It would have been a faster process with someone to learn from but I didn't have the time or the means. But I brute forced and learned from mistakes ,…
/r/seduction14/04/16 03:13 PM
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Not worded correctly. Every woman is unique and beautiful, they all have a story tell, a special way to make you smile, a special way to make you cum, a way they look into your eyes and a way they manage to make you mad :) When you figure out how to attract them, at least those who are both available and interested in you, you start to "solve" the machine. Like: which buttons get which signal lights to come on, and which levers make it tick, and so on, these ONLY work if she is receptive to you …
/r/seduction14/04/16 05:33 AM
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I understand about the clothes, I was fat when I learned pick up; and I'm the way I decided I could become skinny in a few months. 4 months later I was skinny with a lot of clothes where two people my side could fit in. Some of them (1-2 size higher) I took to a tailor who cheaply altered them to my new size. You want them to be as fit as to show your body shape but not too tight that you would sweat in them. The tailor will know. I have purchased new clothes and a new wardrobe since then and no…
/r/seduction13/04/16 05:38 AM
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I understand about the clothes, I was fat when I learned pick up; and I'm the way I decided I could become skinny in a few months. 4 months later I was skinny with a lot of clothes where two people my side could fit in. Some of them (1-2 size higher) I took to a tailor who cheaply altered them to my new size. You want them to be as fit as to show your body shape but not too tight that you would sweat in them. The tailor will know. I have purchased new clothes and a new wardrobe since then and no…
/r/seduction13/04/16 05:38 AM
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I understand about the clothes, I was fat when I learned pick up; and I'm the way I decided I could become skinny in a few months. 4 months later I was skinny with a lot of clothes where two people my side could fit in. Some of them (1-2 size higher) I took to a tailor who cheaply altered them to my new size. You want them to be as fit as to show your body shape but not too tight that you would sweat in them. The tailor will know. I have purchased new clothes and a new wardrobe since then and no…
/r/seduction13/04/16 05:38 AM
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This reply should be useful for all subscribers here in a similar situation and mental state. I have one bitter pill for you and a pretty sweet one. Life isn't fair. Life just is. We were all dealt some cards; some took a few, some received a deck and some got the blank card included in each deck box; it doesn't matter what you were dealt: it only matters how you play with it. "I m ugly, I m short and bald, I m a nerd, I have anxiety, I am antisocial, I have only one arm, I'm fat, I'm poor" etc …
/r/seduction12/04/16 11:29 AM
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Man I got depressed reading your reply at work but let's see. First let me ask what have you done. Which attraction books have you read? What parts struck you as most profound and which parts unbelievable? And most importantly, how many approaches have you done, do you have any notes you kept on them? How did you prepare before approaching women?
/r/seduction12/04/16 04:44 AM
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Man I got depressed reading your reply at work but let's see. First let me ask what have you done. Which attraction books have you read? What parts struck you as most profound and which parts unbelievable? And most importantly, how many approaches have you done, do you have any notes you kept on them? How did you prepare before approaching women?
/r/seduction12/04/16 04:44 AM
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If she really swiped you because you are her type: message in 1 minutes. If she is after the attention, self esteem, bot, prostitute, swiped everyone etc etc : doesn't matter. She won't reply. Just like approaching women in real life. If she isn't friendly, move on. Don't look for magic "time windows" or formulas. Pick up a book and learn attraction instead. You will have much easier time than trying to guess how many milliseconds to wait before you are worthy to be replied to.
/r/seduction11/04/16 03:40 AM
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No, that's not what is typed above at all. Sex is easy. Sex is not something you should go through all the embarrassing, cringey, challenging, comfort-zone killing, tiresome journey of developing yourself to be a real man who is skilled in attracting-seducing-conquering women. I used to get laid a lot when I was a nice guy, before I learned what the world outside the cave was about (Cave analogy). I had fuckbuddies, and after a lot of convincing, compliments and sometimes the same night; I was a…
/r/seduction10/04/16 06:58 AM
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They get shit drunk at parties/clubs so they can relieve themselves of the responsibility of going home with a man, which goes against all moral and virtue teachings they have been subjected to for all their lives, prevents them from feeling like "a slut". What does the society teach? A girl who sleeps around is a slut, a man who does the same is a player, right? But she has the same sexual urges making her want to have sex. But at the same time this conflicts with wanting to have higher status …
/r/seduction14/03/16 09:23 AM
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Approach a lot, meet a lot of women, have a lot of fun, have a lot of sex and when you have options, confidence, women loving you; you will stop being a needy boy and transform into a real man comfortable with himself.
/r/seduction14/03/16 08:35 AM
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Success rate with a line? No idea. That's like someone who doesn't know how to fly a plane asking which button he should press in order to fly a plane. Success rate with confidence, humor, conversational skills, a fun high status character, ability to lead, lack of neediness, having options? That is pretty high. But if you just say the same line to every girl at campus, you will be famous by the end of the week and all girls will jeer at you as they pass by: "hey can I ask you a question, you're…
/r/seduction13/03/16 05:15 PM
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When you talk to a girl at a nightclub; she knows why you are there, and she knows why you are talking to her. And you know why she is there too; after all girls who go to nightclubs hoping to meet "hot guys" and self esteem boost from horny guys aren't the kind of women you want as girlfriend-wife-fuckbuddy in your life. So what you say doesn't matter as long as you don't appear to be "hunting" as much as "fishing". Makes sense? Make a spot your own, preferably high traffic area, do not consume…
/r/seduction13/03/16 07:46 AM
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I talk to 3 girls on my way to work. I talk to 3 girls on my way home, passing through town center and stopping by a grocery store for a drink, a coffee shop, or even the mall. If you take the bus instead of driving, you could talk to one girl at the bus stop, and one girl on the bus. I have met my ex on the bus, simply turned back and mumbled a melody and asked her help for identifying what song it was, conversation followed and exchange of numbers happened. It's easy IF you put yourself in sit…
/r/seduction12/03/16 07:47 PM
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