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Guys just do the test on your own after the kid is born. It's a simple mouth swap. Don't ever tell her and you'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:10 AM
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I feel like I speak for most men when I say, the less intervention the government has in our life, the better off we will be. Freedom includes the ability to make bad choices, it isn't what we want, but this is why a strong family unit is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:06 AM
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Real talk: The women are all over the place on their responses (because they just want to say what sounds good). The men are saying some things like my wife loves it, my wife prefers more stoic, etc. The truth is; all women are different, and you can be what ever you want to be. If you are attractive, rich, or well connected. It isn't fair but it is true. If you are broke, unattractive, and highly affectionate? You aren't going to win her heart over like in a movie. If you're attractive, broke, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:07 AM
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Women are generally more neurotic than men. Since you have no idea what neurotic means, it means more prone towards negative emotion. Men tend to be on the happier side of things if they think things are going well. Women create conspiracy theories on top of conspiracy theories to create a form of reality that only someone who is batshit insane could believe. Then they slowly dribble this nonsense out to their husband or partner, who will appropriately say it is bullshit and then women basically…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:46 AM
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30 year old virgins (too picky- I have seen them turn down medical students who were way out of their league look wise). She was 29 when we met, but 30 when we started dating. Now she has my baby boy and he's Chad's best friend and wingman. Even at 1 and half years old, my son is winning every heart in existence around him through his charisma and good looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:38 AM
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Genetically inferior just means whatever that woman doesn't want at that time. She will change her mind if that guy is super rich, a famous actor, politician, etc. It really just goes to show that women are never happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:13 AM
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TBH they sound like men, I've never met a woman who admits to having neuroticism, let alone understanding the effects it has on themselves, men and society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:25 AM
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Women are never happy, it's called hypergamy. They are like children and once they get the perfect toy, they get bored with it. (hypergamy is red pill, not black pill you overzealous mods!)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:14 AM
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I won't bail, I'd view it as a challenge to ramp up chemistry
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:16 AM
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Really, the reason is women always complain. You can make 200 million a year, give her, and her family members, every thing, but she will still find a way to complain. Yeah you are giving, love her, but you forgot it was her 2nd grade's teacher's birthday, so you don't really love her. women are insane don't ever try to appease them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:14 AM
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The pick up line is for later, after she's interested. You can say basically anything. What you are asking for is an icebreaker. Yo, have you seen this? [anything] Is this baby ugly? [get their snap/digits] You're looking so polite, are you nice to strangers? honestly it's very situational, after a little while you are a natural
/r/seduction28/03/24 05:58 AM
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Any woman with metal in her nose, weird hair dye, and spouting feminist propaganda immediately shows me she is insane and I won't go anywhere near her, interact with her, or think about her ever again. You will probably be accused of something anyway but that's the only positive about the modern feminist movement, you're easy to identify with your crazy eyes and lack of any substance or perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:32 PM
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Women are extremely insecure, they will change their minds no matter what the current trend is. Sometimes it is great to fit in and other times she needs to stand out. There is no rhyme or reason to the chaos.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:35 PM
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What if the man marries you, pays for the wedding, the house, your car, all the food, utilities, bills, and then pays all the social credit to your family, friends, and coworkers. He gets to know everyone, cares about them, remembers their names, etc., and then you cheat on him and pretend like the kid is his.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:05 AM
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I don't owe you anything and I will do whatever I want. You don't know the years I poured into a relationship, the mutual respect and understanding built through trials, hardships, laughs, vacations, and friendships made over time and it all disappeared because I open up about being abused as a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:30 AM
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I don't believe you. You say you want that, but when they actually do what you want, some of the allure disappears. I will never trust women again and I will never open up to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:27 AM
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Bullshit. I opened up to a woman about sexual abuse as a child and she completely lost all attraction to me in that instant. Never open up to a woman. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:37 PM
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No argument from me, most men are pigs, sweaty smelly lazy losers who live in absolute filth. Flowers are a waste of money because their sense of smell is completely lost. But that does not change my point of view that women are never happy. And I don't mean this as an actual dig at women, because people, in general, are never satisfied for long, but women especially seem to be unable or unwilling to find contentment in their situation even if it is exceptionally good. It is like the example you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:44 PM
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I am extremely clean and proactively clean everything. It doesn't matter how clean or proactive you are, it is never enough to satisfy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:59 PM
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Why don’t women just be honest with themselves and the men they choose and only accept offers from men that turn them on by sight alone? It isn't that simple, women are never happy so they get bored with the hot guy, bored with the rich guy, bored with the nice guy, etc. They don't actually know what they want, and if they do know, they change after they get it because women are never happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:22 AM
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He was very unique. We had the same toothpaste. What did I just read?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:02 PM
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I have noticed this too- I used to be fat, I am tall but I still weighed 350lbs. I am 220 now, and the difference in these little interactions is truly staggering. I wouldn't put any blame or fault on women in this case, this one is on you man. If you get this reaction a lot then you have to improve yourself, either work out more or get better clothes or improve your looks. It sucks but it is probably something you could improve on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:38 PM
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It's because women are never happy. You are responsible for everything when you interact with a woman, she has no agency in her mind unless she wants to at that moment and it can change whenever she feels like it, even retroactively. It is always your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:33 PM
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You're exactly right, women can spot these kinds of women as well. Guys make every excuse in the book because she's hot or whatever then get totally ruined. Women waste the best years of their lives, their sanity, and all their hopes dreams on guys like OP who follow a written script designed in every way to manipulate you and benefit himself. Zero respect for the person at all, it's like it's written by a psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:45 PM
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Remember when guys warn you that the guy you're dating is an asshole, and you tell us that we just don't get his complexity? We understand that there are guys like this out there and we can spot them a mile away, but you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:28 PM
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It's because women are never satisfied and never happy, it doesn't matter how much you give, how vulnerable you are or how much of the chores you do, it is never enough and the more you do the less she respects you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:52 PM
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It isn't the fault of women, it is the saboteurs that educated them, Hollywood that influenced them, and peer pressure from the former that subtly influenced them to believe what they do. Talk to a woman from a 3rd world country and her ideals are significantly different than from a 1st world country. The problem is that our institutions have been infiltrated by people who want to break down our society and they are succeeding. America is a Constitutional Republic for a practical reason, which i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:13 AM
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Some guys don't understand the subtle hints that women are interested. I don't know if they're inexperienced or oblivious for a different reason, but I have seen it in real life, they will ignore the girls showing interest and approach the girls actively not showing interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:37 PM
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Exactly- I really do not want this quote to be forgotten. It demonstrates all the arrogance and entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:25 PM
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this idea that attractiveness is somehow the primary standard women use when evaluating their partners. It's not true. Women love to say this but their actions speak differently. But that's the first step, once a woman locks down an attractive guy, and he can do everything right, she eventually wants more from him because women are never happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:54 PM
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Candles $3,600 True wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:27 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:41 PM
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Women are contextual, everything matters in that one situation you're in, at that time. Then after some time passes, they decide it wasn't as good as they thought, even the greatest time of their life. They are never happy. Women are never happy. Women are never satisfied. They look at the context, then they look at a larger context timeframe. Then they look at their friend's reviews and critique everything literally from literally every relationship (real and fictional) and find you lacking. Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:21 AM
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Women love shaming men and they love telling men what we should like. How about no, we will like whatever we want and you can complain all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:44 PM
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This is correct and often misunderstood by women because men need to have accomplishments to be valued- whether it is time spent at the gym or time used making sales calls or studying or fabricating metal parts or whatever. In order to be attractive, men have to "do the work" and that often comes as a trade-off for time spent less on something else, like socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:37 PM
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No, this is all wrong. Men are far better support than women! A couple have a fight over something silly and the guy goes to his male friends and the girl goes to her female friends. Here is how it plays out: The guys will be like, ok what was the fight over? Why was it so important? You screwed up, you need to fix it. The women will blame everything on something else, the climate, the way you said a word, and it's all your fault because of the way you are, she has no responsibility in this matt…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:25 PM
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Most women will say Option 1 but go for Option 2 IRL. This is exactly right. No woman wants to actually be with someone who is tight with their money. They might really like the idea he has money but if he never spends it? And he is constantly worried about running out and frugal, she won't be interested. The doctor who makes 380k a year and spends 400k a year (20k on credit cards) will draw Way more women to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:28 PM
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Don't say things to her in anger that cannot be taken back, no matter what she did. This is exactly the problem. She can say whatever she wants, cheat, steal your money, embarrass you, and make your life hell, but don't say mean words to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:36 PM
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WOW that is cut so well! haha!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:00 PM
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The 80/20 rule is laughable It is actually more like a natural law and absolutely not laughable, it is actually very interesting. These are just a few examples: The values of oil reserves in oil fields (a few large fields, many small fields)[25] The length distribution in jobs assigned to supercomputers (a few large ones, many small ones)[29] The standardized price returns on individual stocks [25] Sizes of sand particles [25] The size of meteorites Severity of large casualty losses for certain …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:09 AM
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Any specific thing he has said that makes (the people who like him) someone you cannot associate with?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:48 AM
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So you're saying I have watched that debate at least 4 times, all 30 minutes of it. I pick up a new twist and some extra nuance every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:41 AM
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Warning men, women like this say they want responsibilities split "without nagging" but they will nag because you can never do enough to prevent it. If you go all out and do 95% of the chores then that becomes the baseline, so if you ever do less than 95% you'll be getting nagged. Also, all the work you do is never good enough because it wasn't done "her way" which is always the wrong way. Laundry (wash-extra rinse, special soap, dry with a specific brand dryer sheet, fold, put away neatly in dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:42 PM
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Women like her will always complain. boo hoo. I get unwanted attention. Booo hoooooo. I don't get attention anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:37 PM
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If you want a real relationship don't meet people on apps. Don't go to a bar either. Meet them somewhere else. Anywhere else. Target. The mall. Trader Joe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:39 AM
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If someone comes back from the bathroom ask them "Did everything come out ok?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:34 AM
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I was 31 and I dated a girl who was 22, and I wasn't really into the relationship, as in, I could take it or leave it. But she was all in, 108%, she did so many things to try and win me, and it was like the more she tried the more I didn't like it. I never had sex with her because she was a virgin and was literally throwing herself at me, and it was a huge turn-off. I am sure she thought something was wrong with me. But I felt like she was just a little too young and naive. I knew what she was d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:30 AM
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For sure! It took a lot of work but I did get dates and meet people on apps, but I met my GF in person (at work- a massive hospital). I cannot recommend enough learning how to talk to people in person. Notice I said, people! Learning to interact with strangers, old, young, ugly, hot, whatever, makes a difference in your confidence level and overall anxiety (at least it did for me.)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:55 PM
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Yeah dating apps are crap for everyone. Women are sure to have bad experiences but at least they get experience and kill some boredom. Guys just swipe forever and if they ever do get any engagement, it's likely a bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:30 PM
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I'm not fond of colored hair. You look artificial which probably describes your personality as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 08:42 PM
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Intelligent people tend to over think things, a person with less knowledge has less to fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:37 PM
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I think you bring up an interesting point that I fear will be used against men in the future. Women view men's sexual desires as a flaw or problem that we should "turn off." I remember reading some women asking when society could make a pill that "fixes" men's "obsession with sex" so they could be "normal." Women don't understand that men do all the work. Yes, they do. Men build the houses, fix the roads, fix the plumbing, keep the power lines up, and grow the food. Without our sexual energy pus…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:10 PM
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I didn't watch the entire video but it appears like he knew a lot of the women beforehand, once said "I knew you in middle school" and there are other phrases that hint that he at least casually knows of these people. In other words, they aren't complete strangers but probably go to the same school.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:26 PM
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I want you to know how much I appreciate your technical approach, I mean like, truly mechanical logic up until it reaches something unknown, basically magic. "Personality" means literally anything you want it to mean. Not only does it mean nothing, it means it fits your ever-changing, never consistent, totally unpredictable taste and expectations. The perfect dude could be the right personality, but then 3 weeks later that same personality is totally your enemy and he "doesn't get you" yet he ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:58 AM
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I don't know what other people understand but I can tell you what I have learned. Top-tier men get their pick of women but eventually get bored. Most guys struggle. Women are never happy no matter what they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:19 PM
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It really is that simple: 1) Be attractive 2) Don't be unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:40 PM
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The thing is, I know you're joking, but she doesn't know it. When she was 25 and probably very fit, she "got with" guys 33-40ish and had her pick of the best ones- and she thought she could run through them all and pick the best one but now those same guys are going for 25-29 year old girls and shes 40.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/22 07:16 AM
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The thing is, men could be twice as critical toward women as women are of men. Women age, boobs sag, skin gets aged, etc, but most men accept this and are still happy as life goes on. But women find fault in everything, it doesn't matter if it is in a man's control or not, they will always find fault. Even if you fix the car, replace the garbage disposal, add a water softener, and pay for it all and set it up-- The water softener will be too loud, the car you fixed will eventually need more main…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:41 AM
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We are fundamentally machines. Mitochondria make power in our cells and our neocortex decides who is attractive enough to make babies. I do not blame women or men for who they are attracted to but we can overpower our urges and make choices that make our lives better or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:32 AM
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Honestly think about it, it isn't just money that feminists get from men in society, we work all the hard jobs, lumbering, plumbing, roofing, and more importantly, security. Men keep the streets safe and men keep our country safe through blood, sweat, and tears. Women reap all the benefits without a second thought because they have never been outside of their safe bubble. All women do is complain and contribute the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:08 PM
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Bingo. That hit the nail on the head. Everyone wants to obfuscate what I was attempting to say but you really summarized it perfectly here. And no one replied to you... I doubt anyone actually understands the argument, they want to live in their bubble and see no problem taking from the lonely men that work so hard propping up all aspects of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:37 PM
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So cheerfully distribute some of your care and compassion. Don't you hear men in need? Where is your compassion and tolerance for their suffering? Some guys have never even touched a boob, why not share yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:14 AM
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women "aren't rocket science" All you need to know is that women are never happy, never satisfied, and always want more. C women date A men. D women date B men. A and B women complain there are no men for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:08 AM
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Ahh, so you only understand when it's your stuff being redistributed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:57 AM
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I think you misunderstand, I am not saying that's wrong for you, I am saying this to remind any guy getting complacent in his marriage. It is also a slap in the face to single guys who work out, try to learn "game", put themselves out there in hobbies and clubs and go to bars and simply can't connect with women. OLD is literally a dumpster fire no matter how much effort they put in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:03 PM
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I would love to hear about your perfect life and how you're happy with your partner! I am in no way being sarcastic, I really want to know the details on your lover and how he makes you happy in every way. The more details the better! I am begging you to prove me wrong. I have never met a woman who is happy with her partner, women always have something to complain about but if there is so much wrong with my statement, I am begging you, pleading, prove me wrong and explain to me what he does righ…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:11 AM
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Finally, someone who has actual experience with a normal woman! It doesn't matter if it is that shy girl or the ugly girl or the girl that barfs nonsense out of her mouth, each one of these girls has guys texting, snapping, FB msg, insta, whatever'ing, her literally every day. No woman is lonely when she is single, none.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:03 AM
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You would change your tune if you didn't have kids but everything else was exactly the same. 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:52 AM
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Honestly, any male reading this needs to understand that your married woman can open a profile and literally get hundreds of men messaging her. She is married. Has Children. She is 30+ years old. And she has her pick of hundreds of men. She has so many men after her that she doesn't even feel the need to pick one because they are always there, ready, eager, to engage, flirt, converse, and spend money on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:49 AM
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So tell me about your perfect life?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:40 AM
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I disagree, women are never happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:46 PM
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You can learn to be more assertive, whenever there is a situation for conflict, recognize it, and go into it and fight. Doesn't matter what it is, they put milk in your coffee instead of the heavy cream, you go back and tell them they messed up. Think of it as a game rather than conflict and it will help you approach it better. For your voice, you need to youtube tonality and practice "speaking like a man" You can do it, just research it and practice, there's a lot of videos out there.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/22 05:51 PM
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I think age does matter because by around 30, if women want children, they have to have everything lined up. That's a lot of pressure that men simply don't have. But that's only for making babies, if you're dating then yeah who cares, adults be adults, but no one is going to say that the 19 year old dating a 37 year old guy is on equal terms for a relationship, but for dating or whatever, who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:27 PM
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Honestly, for a guy like this, sex is not the problem. The real problem is negotiating in an intimate relationship because he will need to push back and also give back in a constant tug of war. He will need to be perceptive and anticipate her needs and wants and also set boundaries and be selective on what he asks from her. He won't know how to do any of that, and that's the part that makes relationships work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:57 PM
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It is nearly impossible to improve without honest feedback. But a lot of people don't take it very well, because like you said, it isn't necessarily comfortable to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 08:03 PM
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He answered the latter. Though it wasn't what I wanted to hear necessarily, I knew he was right It sounds like you deeply value honesty, so if someone finds you "without flaw" it means they're fundamentally being dishonest. Also, thank you very much for replying, I really appreciate it!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 07:26 PM
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worshipping is off putting. I have noticed this a lot- my uncle called my aunt "chief" and basically licked the ground she walked on and she ended up divorcing him. Whoever wants the relationship the least has the most power in it. But I was wondering what it is specifically that is off-putting about someone devoted to you like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:16 PM
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I am commenting here because I don't really know how to change your view, but the difference between a "Red Pill" guy and a psychopath is immense. A psychopath literally does not feel guilty and has no remorse. He acts like he feels guilty, pretends to have remorse, but doesn't actually feel it at all. That makes the way he reacts very different from an average guy, but it mimics a guy who is supremely confident because a psychopath (and sociopath) actually believes he is the best person in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:12 PM
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I hope everyone reading this understands how much work it is. This is more like a dancing monkey than being born with a silver spoon. The thing is, if you want it, you can probably achieve it with enough work.
/r/seduction11/09/22 10:09 PM
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If you really think someone asking for help makes them a "lost cause" I wonder what kind of privileged life you have lived. The real cause of bitterness between men and women is the lack of compassion for the struggles of each side.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:44 PM
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A man has 3 kids with 3 women. He pays child support to each of them. Is he more desirable compared to a guy who has no children?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:46 AM
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People act like only Chad and Tyrone get relationships. They don't even want them!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:06 PM
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Your advice is perfect and too practical, so no one will pay attention to it. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:55 PM
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Depends on how hot you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:50 PM
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Hey! I moved lots of river rock too! I actually hurt my back a little bit because I wasn't as careful as I should have been. I couldn't say anything about it or I'd be made fun of, you know, can't show any weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:44 PM
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Absolutely, I am clearly abusive, lying, and crazy. She deserves better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:47 PM
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I feel like I am on a constant cycle of trying to appease her and it's never enough so I keep trying harder and harder and now I am getting sick of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:44 PM
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Sounds like you've never been in a relationship with a woman. It will be a never ending cycle of more and more and more. More trips, more spending on clothes, shoes, bullshit around the house, and constant complaints that you don't do enough to make her happy, despite you paying for everything, do literally all the chores, dishes, vacuuming, bathrooms, and I make the beds every day. All the housework, yard, mowing, cleaning garage, cleaning windows, pulling weeds, it's all me. And she still bitc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:59 PM
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The problem is many men will not be successful at this and then in turn get pissed off at women. to be fair, those kinds of guys are already pissed at women, but it isn't exactly women, they're mad they've been misled by the world and their moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:27 PM
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Men also use tiktoks I said a guy with 140 IQ. Sorry but no, that guy isn't spending all his time on tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:04 PM
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I also told him I am just giving him a chance, and I only date men who aren't like him, why is he so insecure? I am always right, teehee!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:25 AM
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The guy who has 140 IQ isn't spending all his time on Insta and TikTok learning all the new lingo and dances that women consume. They also aren't on FB learning all the niche drinks, vacation spots, and other stuff that interest women so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:01 PM
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Idiocracy (the movie which is a documentary from the future) proves that intelligence is an evolutionary dead end.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:55 PM
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Different girl- dropped her a long time ago. Maybe ungrateful is my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:30 PM
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This is why men suffer, no matter how much he does, how thoughtful, how giving, how hard-working, clean, thoughtful, attractive, and perfect- there is always someone better to compare to. That is the hypergamy a lot of men demonize and hate, but it is actually a cross that all men in relationships bear. I have tried to figure out how to help my fiancee realize all the work I do, but a guy took one of her coworkers to Hawaii and therefore I get told "You never take me anywhere." Although we took …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:14 AM
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I know a guy who grew up in a family that is super-rich. He was the youngest with 3 older sisters. He is above-average handsome. He "just gets it". But he also has options galore, family lawyers, doctors, and a sense of security that most people don't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:58 PM
13

I feel like this post is a humble brag minus the humility.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/22 06:12 AM
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You also cook, clean, plan vacations, pay for everything, and do everything right, even when it changes based on the wind or because Uranus is in retrograde (you can tell the difference because it's easy.) No matter how much you get paid or how much you like your career, you need to be ambitious and keep going further, always be fun, always exciting and a challenge, but not too challenging. Get along with all her friends and family, but don't get along too well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:31 PM
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It is 100% all your mindset. You need to think of it as a "game" and you are playing with your target interest. A little bit of a challenge, a little bit of letting her win, a little bit of teasing, and mostly being FUN. Have you ever noticed that whoever takes a game too seriously loses popularity, even if they "win"? A good game is a game where everyone can participate, have fun, and also be a challenge. If you meet a new woman, think of it like playing a game, check to see if she wants to pla…
/r/seduction18/05/22 02:06 PM
6

We stayed friends for a long time and she told me that it was that specific moment she saw me different, and it was all downhill from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:30 AM
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I was with the love of my life, she viewed me the same, defied her parents, culture, religion, and everything to be with me. We had an amazing few years together until I told her I was raped when I was 6 or 8 and she lost all respect and attraction for me and we have only been friends since.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:20 AM
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See what women do, not what they say in a survey. Who do they date casually? Who do they marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:03 AM
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It's the arrogance that is so disgusting because it stems from her ignorance of why men wanted her in the past, and she just doesn't get it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/22 03:54 PM
124

The goalpost always moves further away the closer you get to it. Women are never satisfied. There is never "enough" because there is always more. Women are like children and they don't realize it and no one explains it to them because they gaslight anyone who tries, even when reality slaps them in the face.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 06:43 PM
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nothing is more intimate than sex I know, as a man I believe that, but I am not so sure women believe that. They might say it but I don't think it has the same meaning to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:13 PM
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who are these women that are swamped with LT offers from HVM? I wanna join their club. Beautiful, submissive, hardworking women. In a more technical way, it would be better to describe them as exceptionally attractive, highly compassionate, and overachieving. I know that it won't confuse most people, but it exactly the same as what women what from men who are in the top 10 to 1%. Highly attractive, dominant, and hardworking/capable/competent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 07:00 AM
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Pretty sure some people hated Jesus enough to kill him. If he existed. You can't appease everyone, why even bother? I think it is better to be authentic to yourself and vibe with what makes you happy. Authenticity is better than trying to fit into every mold. That being said, some things are broadly more appealing than others. If your hobbies are athletic like biking, sports, rock climbing, etc., that will have more sex appeal than painting Warhammer mini's or collecting anime figurines.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:31 PM
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If you think that "tingles" is some esoteric and mystical thing that is in no way related to looks, you are wrong. Oh yeah- you're right. 100% Being tall, handsome, and fit is the bare minimum. Listen to what she says about the first man in order. Attractive #1, Tall #2, "Good tattoos" #3, PhD, good taste in music, "was really into me." Yet he wasn't literally in her because of tingles. But women crave that make-believe world, she creates the fantasy in her head and that's where women live. Insi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 03:20 PM
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This goes to show several things that are actually beneficial to us. It doesn't matter if you are tall, handsome, PhD intelligent and all, what matters is tingles. The second guy was obviously BSing her and had fun. That's it. She asked what he did for work and he says he fights people off craigslist. She asked what the hell was with the beer and he told her a random story that shows how QuIrKy he is. He wasn't boring, he was "fun" and women will fuck that guy every time. Women like this are jus…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 12:16 PM
1

in your proto-brain the fact of trying alone is worth something not matter the results. That isn't true at all. I know for a fact that one red pill YT'ers advice is extremely true: "Women do not care about your struggles, they wait at the finish line and pick the winners." The act of trying is not even close to enough but how in the flying fuck do you know you have no chance of success? That's 100% bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:00 PM
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The truth is, some of us can work our asses off to self improve and still end up with shitty choices. That's a fact both the red and blue pills like to pretend isn't real. Some people are born deformed, mentally retarded, have poor genetics, or born into an impoverished country. No amount of self-improvement will get them the type of women they want through no fault of their own. Does that mean they should give up? You can't look at what someone else has, want it, not get it, and say well life i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:51 PM
1

What do you mean you can't level up? I doubt you are maxed in all your stats. If you wanna complain and hide behind your pc/phone like a pathetic incel, then who is the dumbfuck? The guy trying to make his life better or the guy with angry rants shaking his fist at anonymous people on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:21 PM
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I am going to assume that 100% of what you said is true, and I hope it is, because it is awesome that you maxed your stats and you should feel damn proud of your accomplishments! You achieved something rather than complain about it and no one can take that from you, and unfortunately not enough people will understand or recognize the effort and dedication you have. I have two things to say: 1) No woman will complete you. All that stuff you see on social media where people are happy all the time …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:36 AM
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My problem with blackpill is that it focuses too much on "woe is me" and excuses (you are short, poor, not the right ethnicity, etc.) instead of guiding men to level up. Lift, learn to flirt (or when not to), clean up, etc. is more common in Red Pill communities. Each has toxic elements to it, as well. Tradcon communities get too sacrificial. It is good to take a step in, look around, and test the water, but don't jump in headfirst. It is easy to get bitter and give up. You weren't born with mil…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:12 PM
7

Honestly, you better earn double or you just "equal" which isn't attractive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/21 01:56 PM
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I found your problem, you are 100% listening to what women say. Follow what they do instead. Who do they sleep with and "party" with? Who do they "settle" for? (and cheat on) Words are like a lubricant, they smooth out and round the rough edges of women's actions, but don't mistake what they do for what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 01:48 AM
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Both cannot be simultaneously true. Yes they can, in a woman's mind this is exactly how things work. Things change when it benefits them. Spend enough time with women and you'll understand clearly that this is exactly how they think and we are the manipulators.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:37 PM
15

I have a coworker with a salvage title 328i bmw (base model) and everyone thinks his 6k beater is a 60k car. He acts like it too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 05:34 AM
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So you've proven you're incapable of viewing things outside of your own point of view. You can't put yourself in someone else's shoes and try to understand and feel things like they would. I feel really sad for you and I hope you learn how to be a more complete person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:37 PM
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I am going to answer this and virtually all the men will nod, agree, and understand and women will tilt their heads wondering wtf. Chad goes to the bar and chats up a young lady, she's receptive, polite, and goes home with him where she's submissive, giving, and excited to have Chad's manhood. Billy beta gets home from work and his wife complains about something so minor and trivial that it is amazing someone would actually waste the effort to complain about it. He listens to her, fixes the prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:07 PM
1

That's great! Are you happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:31 PM
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I am not a statistic phD but I can compare how many women are complaining vs how many are happy. Do you know even one happy woman? No, they're always unhappily explaining why they are happy with their box wine and 5 cats, or their lazy husband who can't clean, or he doesn't earn enough, or he is too clean and spends all his time working out, or whatever take your pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:19 AM
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outlandishly unrealistic expectations It isn't just that- after she gets what she wants she will get bored and want even more. That's human nature, the same as men wanting a perfect 10/10 young lady in her prime, but men are able to eat humble pie and accept that they won't be with Jessica Alba but women want Brad Pitt's personality, Arnold's body, Bezos money, and will still find something to complain about no matter what because no woman can ever be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:27 PM
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That's why they need to be with someone who expects just as much telepathic empathy as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:57 PM
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I am not trying to be preachy but it is pretty simple, treat others how you want to be treated. The problem is, people live in their heads too much and are either unwilling or unable to think of someone else, their experiences, expectations, wants, and desires, from their point of view, even from their intimate partner. It is like everyone is trying to figure out how to game the system, their partner, or whatever and really you just need to be a decent person and find someone who will also do th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:16 PM
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She also chose the only subject a narcissist like her could, herself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/21 10:52 PM
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Feminism itself has always been about allowing women to choose between the benefits of "equality" and the benefits of "chivalry" on a case-by-case - even moment-by-moment - basis. It isn't just feminism, women have been doing this for eons through "selective facts" and "emotional intelligence" and whatever manipulative lever they have to pull. I was actually thinking about this today while playing with my niece doing the typically Peek-a-boo game. You see, a baby isn't sure if you are still ther…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/21 10:50 PM
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There is truth to this, some guys do get arrogant af but they were already lacking social skills in the first place. The problem OP is suggesting is that women see a guy with his shirt off and 6pack abs and think "I bet he is a nice guy and has a good job." The real issue is that women are too opportunistic because guys like that will message a younger girl who is reasonably attractive, all day long, her inbox is full of these guys to the point that she can't even choose which guy to pick. Also,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:40 AM
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She is pregnant but smokes and drinks "sometimes." I can't wait to "man up" and give my paycheck to my queen and Chad and Tyrone's children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/21 06:46 PM
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The difference is men don't have the opposite to compare to. Lots of attractive, fun, desirable women don't seek you out because you're in your prime. If you were around women like that all time, and they kept seeking you out of the blue, you'd feel really frustrated that they don't hang around. Too many women get used to it and get self-deluded into thinking they'll keep these guys or "win" them by giving them what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:20 AM
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Part of the reason women are "never wrong" is because they are noncommital to a decision and expect you to make the choice "be a man." That way, they can deflect blame because they never had responsibility, it is a narrative they tell themselves constantly which is why the victim mentality is so attractive to women.
/r/MGTOW215/06/21 02:23 PM
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Hi. You are the man. Escalate more. Everyone is wondering why you haven't had sex yet, but I can tell you don't know how to get there. You don't go from "hi, how are you?" to tearing off her clothes, so you have to learn how to progress further and further toward sex, one step at a time.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 04:30 PM
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Many, many women will not be emotionally capable of having an abortion. What? They are capable just not willing. ​ These are things men should think about before they dump their sperm inside women Right, because men are the gatekeepers of sex. Women keep trying to have sex with me everywhere I go, the grocery, the pub, just walking down the street I have to keep my sperm safe so some woman doesn't sneak up on my dick!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:35 AM
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OLD is easier for men? It is if you are in the top 5-10%, which are the only men that exist in women's minds.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 05:36 PM
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No one is projecting anything onto women, I am trying to demonstrate that some men care about cars that most women do not. That is the exact same as fashion, which most men couldn't give a shit about. We only care if you're clean and look good. We could not care less if you wear Nike or Michael Kor. All these messages and I still feel like you don't get it and don't understand. I feel so bad for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:43 AM
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Women judge men on literally everything. If a guy rolls up in a rusty 1993 Geo Metro 3-cylinder, you aren't going to think the same of him as a guy who rolls up in a new Mercedes SUV. Go ahead and tell me you think it doesn't matter, especially in winter with some snow on the ground. Especially when your friends comment that your guy's rusty car is really bad in snow and kinda loud, the holes let cold air in, and the other guy confidently navigates the snow in heated seats. "Women don't care abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:13 AM
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Men don't care about clothes, they just cover the skin. What is the female obsession with clothes?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:46 PM
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You have to be desirable to women first before you can be selective. That means they already chose you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:27 AM
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Part of this is culture but mostly it demonstrates that women are the selectors. Women constantly dress up and compare each other since they were pre-teens. Dudes' clothes are more functional and we lack experience and desire for it, most guys I know barely know anything about their clothes. It is like cars, most women want an SUV so they can sit tall and that's about it. In general, there's no passion or interest in it (obviously there are always exceptions, just like there are some guys that d…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:33 AM
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If anyone treats me with disrespect, I leave. It is just about the only weapon a man has anymore that can't be misconstrued as abuse. If she is just teasing you then tease her back you dolt!
/r/askTRP30/05/21 05:13 AM
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A carefree attitude is a confident one. If you are truly carefree, and not attached to the outcome at all, then you can do just about anything without it becoming cringy. But if you really are trying to work hard to get that one girl, then anything "over the top" will come across as forced. It is an interesting dynamic but like you said, have fun and everything will fall in place!
/r/seduction23/05/21 04:23 PM
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She can initiate, enjoy, and encourage it at the time but regret it later and at worst call it rape, or at best, accuse you of being abusive. It is never a woman's fault, the excuses and rationalizations are unending, but at no time can she be responsible for her own actions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/21 05:40 PM
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But that requires hard work and a self-analysis often resulting in bad feelings Yas KWEAN! It's a huge circle jerk, just like the rest of Reddit. The minor difference is that men won't like learning they need to improve (but we seek uncomfortable knowledge out anyway to improve our circumstances) while women tend to seek comfort and "fit in" to the hivemind. It is way easier to meme about LVM rather than take responsibility for your fat ass and lose weight, have a pleasant attitude, or I don't k…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/21 01:57 PM
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I know the direction you are going with this, it is like having a good boss at work. Yeah he expects you to do the work, but he rewards you for it and treats you like a decent human. You can trust him to do his part and that's why you do yours. But you come across as really blue pill, and it is probably just the way this "reads." A better mindset, in my opinion, is to follow redpill advice and be your best self. Your best self is fair to other people (doesn't matter if they are women or men) and…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/21 02:32 AM
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Act only half interested. If she gives you ANY sign she isn't interested, bail out immedately. She might only be flustered getting unexpected attention and by you backing way off, her interest in you will peak.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:13 PM
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Also, women complain relentlessly about how men won't open up and be vulnerable, but if they do, like admit they were sexually abused as a child, the woman loses all sexual attraction to the man. Like a switch flipped. Women say all kinds of things, but don't listen to them, watch what they do instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 02:44 PM
5

women are never satisfied. /Thread Men are easier to please; women constantly expect more/better and are never grateful and satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:16 PM
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You left out the daddy issues, the fact she mentions him in the context of money is a huge red flag.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 02:28 PM
5

This is the real answer. Women have a totally different mindset to approaching the world and they don't need or care about the nuance of how things work or why.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 04:03 PM
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I am merely saying that OP is talking about sex as an expectation of an LTR and most women would feel absolutely betrayed if their LTR stopped paying bills. I know it isn't a perfect analogy but it shows that men and women have different expectations of each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 04:37 PM
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Totally Right. But I think men and women have different expectations from their relationships, for example, if a man stops making money and paying bills, the relationship is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 05:15 AM
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oh woe is me for having made bad choices Actually, in her post, she directly blames men for being shit. Mind you, these are the men she chose to sleep with willingly who originally empowered her. "The men I have been with have also been pretty shitty."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 06:00 PM
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Finally, this is one I agree with! So I have to reply to automod. Some men do not interact with enough women to understand the dynamics between the genders. I grew up with my single mom teaching me and my little brother that women were sugar and spice and everything nice. I didn't know or understand anything until I was wayyyy older. Didn't even have my first kiss until I was 27. The reason Red Pill is useful is that a lot of men simply don't get socialized as much as the average woman does. Men…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 01:15 AM
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The Pareto Principle is everywhere, not just dating. It is an observation of fact. Whether you like it or not, it is a real thing. It describes that 80% of a companies profit comes from 20% of clients. It describes how solving 20% of bugs in Microsoft Windows fixes 80% of complaints. It even describes our solar system and how most of the mass is in our Sun. I think what you are not understanding is that the 80/20 rule is an OBSERVATION. Also, it doesn't mean there is a gifted magical 20%. It is …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 07:30 PM
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Men are blinded by a desire to procreate (nut), we might act like we are in 100% control, but it is a strong undercurrent in our motivations. I think the longer a man goes without doing it, the more blinded and neurotic he gets. Post nut clarity is real in that the fog lifts. The real funny thing is that women walk around all day every day with "post nut clarity" and that's another reason they don't need sex like men do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:15 PM
4

It is amazing how many women are completely uninterested in helping their sons
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 07:18 PM
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This post doesn't appear to be about casual sex, it is about finding a date, let alone sex. Men face rejection a thousand times more than women. Not asking for a metal, just pointing out a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 05:12 AM
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The post isn't about pump and dump, it is drawing attention to the huge difference in effort men and women make to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 05:10 AM
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This will turn into a lot of "whataboutism" ​ Just as men don't care about women's struggles. And... you just proved my point LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 05:07 AM
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Women don't think about men's struggles. This will turn into a lot of "whataboutism"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 05:53 PM
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I think only shallow women would feel this way or ones that already have issues with their partner. So, all women then? If your best friend or sister or some woman you knew got a gigantic ring or all paid vacation to someplace you've always wanted to go, you'd be lowkey jelly, and that's ok, it is how women are. You compare yourself to other women constantly because that's just how women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 11:42 PM
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I think this question shows the fundamental difference between men and women. Men are generally happy if their bros are with hot chicks. Good for them, doesn't have much to do with me. Whereas women are constantly comparing themselves to each other. My GF works in the medical field with a lot of other women, and one of the women got a huge engagement ring, worth over 10k. All the other women started to compare and feel bad about their small rings (even ones who picked them out themselves!) A day…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 04:52 PM
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People like this are perpetually the victim, even while they are abusing other people. Victim mentality is a horrible mental illness that can be cured with some willpower. Perspective is more important than reality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/21 10:37 PM
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The article says she wasn't pregnant and if she was, he would have given up his seat. Everything about this is misleading.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/02/21 05:41 PM
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Perception is reality. Perception is more important than reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 04:14 AM
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I think you are on the right track but overthinking this a bit. I am in management and I have to "catch" liars all the time at work, because employees lie about the dumbest shit. Basically, you let them talk as much as they want. You have to "give them enough rope to hang themselves." Once they have pushed it too far, you just point out the obvious inconsistencies and ask them to explain it or terminate. Never believe bs, but give them plenty of time to spew it all out.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 06:36 PM
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Bro...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/21 06:31 AM
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No dude, I gotta disagree. To women, attraction is different than it is in us. We see a young face and boobs and butts and we are turned on. Women like seeing toned guys and might even get turned on by a sexy tall Adoni, but that is only a fraction of genuine attraction. It is like owning a sleek sexy sports car like a McClaren. It looks great, goes fast, but you aren't going to want to drive it every day, it has it's uses but it isn't the whole package and the cost, oh my god, so you see it kin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 10:41 PM
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So I know this is crude, and not exact, but hear me out. Women think that by giving you access to them and/or sex, that it is the exact same as you giving them access to your bank account. OK every woman who reads this will disagree, but it is the truth. If a woman thinks "he can afford it" she will go after whatever she can get. If an unscrupulous man thinks he can seduce a woman, he will do the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 07:53 AM
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I am
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 12:12 AM
1

Nope, I am not like that but I like that you're fantasizing about me :D
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 12:12 AM
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You are totally right! Those are the same guys who won't commit. They are wishy/washy and not true leaders. They act like they are king shit, but they are not. Liars who mislead women into relationships for sex are scoundrels and losers. Women are misled by them because they put on a good show but they don't have the goods to follow through.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 10:20 AM
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Women are the biggest hypocrites because they say "I want a nice guy who treats me right" but what they really want is a hot guy who has money and influence. How he treats her is immaterial. If you are a guy, you need to see what women do and not what they say. Men are open books, literally open books, a nice guy is a nice guy and an arrogant guy who won't commit is an arrogant guy who will not commit. But women think they will win him over or something. \shrug shoulders emoji**
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 09:59 AM
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Some "bro dudes" don't agree with me because I am ok paying for a round of drinks or gifting people for no reason, but I think they miss the point of being a leader and provider. A good leader encourages people to follow them of their own free will. It doesn't matter what the reason is, but it is usually a combination of charisma and opportunity. I think that is the problem with low-income guys vs high-income guys. Spending 300 on a night out is no big deal to someone earning 128k a year and has…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:26 AM
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I feel like I already see that, but from my point of view it is baby daddies getting women pregnant and leaving to repeat the same cycle again. Then baby mama needs help and well, the man comes back for "a little fun" and then leaves again. Seriously, I know a woman with 4 kids from 3 dads. To me, that is trashy and not desirable at all. I don't want to spread my seed far and wide, I'd rather pick a high-quality woman and make it work with her, which is what I am doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 02:32 AM
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Would you be upset if a woman left you for a better man? That's happened many times, they usually end up trying to get me back later. I have absolutely zero desire for a harem of women, I am extremely monogamous. It feels like it harms my character or soul or integrity to talk to more than one woman at a time, although I have done that before, it isn't comfortable for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 02:25 AM
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Maybe I am not an extremist, so I don't hate women or hate what they do. Why would I get angry at an anteater eating ants? Women need to secure resources and test their man so they don't end up with a weak partner. They are vulnerable and under extreme pressure to find a high-value partner. I don't view that as something to hate but rather something to embrace and make myself of high value. That gives me a huge advantage over other guys, and because I have options I have power in my relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 01:41 AM
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Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 01:08 PM
2

ROFL OK- your toy study among a few 100 people is totally equal to a study of over 500k people across cultures, religions, and countries. You win. You can have all the tyres and behaviours you want. I bow down to your "superiour" intellect and experience. Please dictate my life for me. Your study on toys has totally moved me to your side. How can I serve you, my master?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 01:04 PM
1

Hey man, I love your passion. I know you are all-in for this chick. But is she all-in for you? Will she act desperate to internet strangers because she loves you so much she can't stand it? Fuck No. Dude. Man. Come on. You are trying to win the sun. You are only going to get burned and every minute you try on this fruitless endeavor is wasted time. I know how special you think this girl is. But she is fucking a different cock tonight, not yours. You aren't what she wants. Get over it. Move on. T…
/r/askTRP28/12/20 12:56 PM
2

Frankly, it doesn't explain that, but it does explain how common it is. Across cultures. Across races. Across countries that try to encourage women to go to STEM fields. The problem is, women tend to gravitate to fields like teaching and nursing (dealing with people) while men tend to gravitate towards working with things (engineering, science, math, computers, etc.) It is absolutely not debated. Not debated among intellectuals. Maybe among people who are ignorant of science but it isn't even de…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 12:45 PM
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Men are more interested in "things" and women are more interested in "people." https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19883140/ How about you live in reality, like the rest of us instead of your fantasy world?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 12:36 PM
2

Daaaaaaaaaamn! Man! You are killin' it! Seriously dude, rock out with your (ock out!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 12:30 PM
2

I routinely "go to mexico" and drive very fast, over 150 mph, but it is hard to do that without a lot of friends and the fact I live in Minnesota. EDIT: Also only gotten one speeding ticket. Officer said he clocked me at 83. I said "ohhhhhh thank god, I mean, ohhh ok." Because I was definitely well into triple digits, theoretically.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 12:15 PM
2

Ok then you should totally get a handle on that impulse to break the law. Or know where to do it when no one is looking. hehehehehehehehehhe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 12:11 PM
1

BRZ is so low powered and boring. I understand the appeal if you live in Japan with lots of other low power cars, but a G35 will mop the floor with it in almost every way. But my addiction is BMW. I love the 4 series, even the small engine 428i is fast, fun to toss around. I leased a 435xi for 3 years and loved it. Now I have a BMW 535xi mSport and it's a seriously addictive car. It is heavy but everything is so linear, the acceleration, the kick out for the tail, everything is so manageable. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 12:05 PM
1

Hey man, find a g35 or g37? They are cheap, reliable, and lots of parts are out there for them. Also, a lot of mechanics know how to work on them because they like to own those cars as well. Please don't drive a boring car. You are better than this!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 11:55 AM
2

Men are more interested in "things" and women are more interested in "people." That is why there's more nurses that are women and more engineers that are men. It isn't even debated about it, it is just the way it is. Just like a man loves a woman for who she is, how she smells, the touch of her skin. But women only love men for their utility and usefulness to them. It sucks but it is reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 11:50 AM
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Awesome! Good on you! Listen, life isn't all about getting laid but finding that right car? That is what is all about. All I ask is that you don't go down the BMW path I have because it cost so much of my time and money and yet I love it so much I can't stop. Especially in snow when I do crazy drifts and hold it showing off for literally no reason other than pure joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 11:47 AM
2

I understand how it appears that way. But it is the truth that hurts more than the words on the paper. When a woman breaks down on the side of the road, because her tire tyre, (for you, because I am a gentleman) went flat? Guess who will stop and help her. Some man. Some random man she's never seen before will take precious time out of his life to help a strange woman and change her "tyre" out for a spare. Because he is a gentleman and he knows that most women won't have a clue what to do. OK yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 11:39 AM
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Dude- as a fellow tall car guy, I want to tell you, you can absolutely do well with women. You gotta lose a little weight and drink less and learn a little game but you'll "sleigh it" man. Seriously, if you got a 240z for sale let me know especially if it's a manual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 11:32 AM
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It is objective in my opinion. The knowledge in "The Red Pill" is not about how it makes the reader feel. It is just knowledge. It is cold and objective. Women love you differently than you love them. It is brutal to a young man who never considered how utilitarian women can be. You can freely disagree with that but that is the way it appears to me and also fuck you for changing my behavior to behaviour. I am not British and I don't submit to your linguistic attack!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 11:20 AM
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Exactly, what evidence can we provide that women are working in their own best interests? Uhh look around you? And the thing is, men do the same thing but we are more open and honest, whereas women lie and lie and lie
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 04:24 AM
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"TRP works" is unfalsifiable. TRP is a brutal instruction to look at behaviors objectively and then adds information to try and take advantage of those realities. TRP says women act in their own best interests. But men are conditioned to think that women are sugar and spice and everything nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 04:11 AM
0

Yeezys wtf is that?
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 10:33 PM
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I also think there are two (or more) types of people. Some people view relationships through a lens of power and control. Who is dominant and who is winning. And other people view them through care, empathy, and giving. They often date each other because they are opposites and we know what those do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 09:25 PM
1

The video you linked is trash. She is such a man-hater and lesbian she might as well wear a label. Love is difficult because it requires sacrifice on your side AND the person you are with. Men tend to value certain things and women tend to value certain things, if you can compromise and meet in the middle, meeting each other's expecations? Everything will be fine. But if one side feels like it is being cheated or used? All hell breaks loose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 05:17 AM
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I wouldn't say that women are the only ones that do it That is fair enough, but I was trying to give you examples on how the typical woman's demands grow. It isn't just a static thing like she researches a tv and makes sure she buys one with the resolution she wants, the smart features, and whatever. No no no, she expects the best TV, with no idea what the features are or what the difference is in mhz or resolution, and then when it isn't exactly what she wants or she gets bored with it, she wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 06:45 PM
3

Not sure if it is just an American thing, but women I know are constantly comparing themselves and their husbands against each other like it's a competition. It is a low-resolution behavior in my opinion and lacks detail and nuance, but it is very common and widespread. It is something women deny they do but actions speak louder than words.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 06:27 PM
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I understand why it appears that way on the surface, but the demands continue perpetually. If you marry a guy who has a decent income, is clean, takes care of the lawn and car maintenance, etc. Eventually, that won't be enough. My gf works in patient care at a hospital, and one of the women she works with got a $10,000 engagement ring, all the girls she works with suddenly felt insecure about their own rings rings they picked out and loved right up until then, suddenly flipped the whole mood. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 05:54 PM
14

There is a shortage of men because women only see the top 20% of men as even acceptable, and then have a long list of demands on top of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 05:31 PM
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Hey man, cold approaching totally works~! I swear you will be Chad level in a week if you decide to say "I don't give a fuck, I am going to cold approach." Here is what will happen: 1) you get rejected. a lot. 2) you totally flatter some women, but they still reject you, but they are kinda impressed you have balls 3) most women still rejected you, but they have fun with your flirty jokes and respect what you are doing 4) you finally get success, and your skin is thicker because you realize that …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 05:02 AM
0

Aella Girl I think she is very plain and average? The only thing I like about her is she isn't covered in tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 08:06 PM
14

Just curious, how many LLC's do you have? Legit Q from an internet stranger wondering how common they are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/20 07:43 AM
17

This guy laws
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/20 07:42 AM
13

Once you see her fat sausage fingers, you can't unsee it. Also, 75% sugar is her diet recommendations.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/20 05:35 PM
6

Privilege is a real thing. But there are some women who are born into money and can spend thousands of dollars on skincare, hair removal, body enhancements (boob/butt/whatever), and clothes, etc. Also, some women, who are born poor and have to cope in other ways. Guys are the same way. Some guys have awesome mentors, are rich, build muscle, and have older sisters that can show them the nature of women so they can do game like crazy. One of my friends was born into a super-rich family in a small …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 08:49 AM
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A woman who chooses to never have children is as useful as an incel adult boy who lives in his mom's basement. I know this is hard to understand, but there is more to us, life, and all around us than just right now. The future is in our hands. We can direct and shape the future, ever so slightly, by everything we do. If you are choosing to end millions of years of hard work and effort for your hedonism, then you're a genetic failure and I am glad your ideas will no longer be around in the deep f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 01:14 AM
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OK I think I understand what you mean. If this was an RPG, you might get all the charisma points and I get all the strength/tall points. Our friend gets all the money points because his family is freaking loaded. So we are different people. But, we all share a lot of experiences. We all get scared, we all feel alone, we all feel pain, we all feel like we want to belong somewhere, we all want to be liked, we want to have fun, we don't want to feel shame... There are so many experiences we share t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 06:05 AM
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you think she's cute, then she is cute to you. I find her to be below average (4/10) but I am not you. The thing we can both agree on is her attitude is absolutely beyond her looks or what she can offer a guy. Imagine an overweight, slightly balding guy with weird teeth and awkward gait and appearance say, "Totally honest bio: I am not looking for a wife, I want a PS5, thoughtful gifts. I expect you to make me laugh and respect me. I won't buy you anythin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/20 01:12 AM
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She is either a narcissist or worse. I can't even imagine a Playboy Bunny girl being this vain, and if they are, it's because they have been treated like princesses their whole life and think it's totally normal. This woman looks like a 4/10 and I am being nice!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/20 12:27 AM
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Scary!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/20 09:53 PM
5

But reality doesn't care about your feelings, and you have no room to complain if things don't go your way because you refuse to accept reality. This is a problem with "modern" liberal thinking, they say that reality is subjective and not concrete (you can like pizza, and I can hate it, so is pizza good or awful?) But our different opinions on pizza doesn't change what the pizza actually is and that is something every modernly educated woman doesn't understand. What she understands is "tingles" …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/20 07:19 PM
2

Fuck man, you gotta roll with it. You can't be "thin-skinned" you gotta take a punch or two and throw back a few punches, southern accent "Can you bell-Eve, this dude listens to x music? Why you like dat garb edge?" OWN IT. BE A GODDAMN MAN! You don't owe anyone Jack Shit, you can like whatever you want and do whatever you want, you have a penis and balls so act like it. Who gives one fuck about what other people feel or think about you? You do whatever the hell you want (legally, ok?) I started…
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:09 AM
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Talking about marriage too early will scare off some women but some women want to know you're open to it and thinking about it. There is really no winning formula, other than absolutely being genuine and honest. Also, being totally OK that some women will not be for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 09:21 PM
1

YAASSSS KWEEEN! I have to reply to myself and congratulate myself because I am so proud?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 06:59 PM
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The Cognitive Dissonance is so wild there it reads more like satire. Imagine thinking you are a high-quality person unironically calling men "scrotes".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 06:58 PM
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True talk: If your woman did something like this? Drop her immediately, like a potato on fire. No matter how you feel, no matter what happened, this is absolutely not the woman for you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/20 05:25 AM
2

My father is this type of "blatherer." I remember being 5 or 6 years old and tugging on his hand to get away from someone who was clearly uncomfortable talking to him. And I was literally a small child that understood that person wanted to end the conversation and my dad didn't get it or didn't care, each way, is socially and emotionally disgusting. I feel like people you are talking about aren't so much extroverts as they are narcissists or worst sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 05:05 AM
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Is this true? Extroverts are more fun- they are always seeking new opportunities and want to meet new people and talk to them is it possible for an introvert to become an extrovert? No. You are introverted and so your experience with strangers is a drain on you. That doesn't mean you can't have a good time and meet new fun people. But it isn't your primary motivation. Is there a difference between introverts and extroverts other than how they “recharge”? Absolutely, introverts recharge with alon…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 12:22 AM
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I am not the guy you are replying to, but I feel like I can elaborate for you. I was born around 1980, so my teenage years were mid 1990s in rural Texas (for context.) That meant, I went to a small school with like 200 people in the whole high school (years 9-12.) It meant that competitive sports was extremely important, and working hard to run a bit faster, over-exerting myself to hit a bit harder, and out do the other guy on the field was extremely important. It meant I knew how to catch and g…
/r/askTRP08/10/20 11:49 PM
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I will be honest, I always pay the bill at the bar or restaurant if I am invited. Frankly, even if its 400 freedom dollars, it is probably worth everyone having a good time and not worrying about the food and drink. The people who "take advantage" are "outed" when the receipt comes out the next day for all the interested parties. Being the chill guy who "pays the bill" makes me more alpha than the guy who destroyed his heart taking steroids and spent 4 years in a gym getting "gainz"
/r/PussyPassDenied08/10/20 02:43 AM
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You can do nothing right. If you try to teach them and discipline them, you're overbearing and abusive. If you do your best to ignore them, you're avoidant and abusive. If you give them everything they want, you are trying to buy their love, and are abusive. If you don't give them everything they want, you are a selfish asshole, and also abusive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/20 06:56 PM
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Because the equivalent would be humble bragging from guys who got laid and didn't pay for dinner and then all the replies would be Yassss King! and about 9 clapping emoji....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 12:01 AM
15

This isn't the type of woman you want to marry or get in a LTR with. Sex should be an expression of love and an eagerness to get closer. Transactional relationships lack love, and I would next a girl who thinks this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 04:07 PM
6

Any woman who has had that many partners is not LTR/marriage material unless you are both that way and ok with it. Women who don't value themselves give themselves away for free, and once they start to value themselves the price goes up, but usually by then it is getting too late for them. Avoid these types of women at all costs if you want a good LTR/marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 04:06 PM
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Vetting, all you have to do is vet them. Some guys want a woman who has more experience, some guys do not. Get to know the woman you are dating and learn about her friends and relationships and how she treats you. I know this isn't something people understand here, but women are people and not objects, so get to know her and what she is all about. If you want a LTR/marriage, you need to truly like the person you are getting to know, so get to know them! It isn't all about sex, it is about person…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 03:21 PM
5

The children are innocent, they didn't ask to be born. The parents need to take responsibility for raising the children they create.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 03:11 PM
6

If you can't pay for that stuff, should you really be having kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 02:54 PM
6

It is exactly like a rollercoaster. Sometimes fast and exciting, sometimes scary, sometimes a little break, but always something new. It doesn't matter what the emotions are, as long as they are always new. Let's pretend you upset her because you left her on read. Now she is blowing up your phone and you ignore it. Tell her, you want to see her tomorrow. Then be super nice, bring her a candy bar or some small gift for her and tell her you're sorry. You will be wondering why this is red pill, bec…
/r/askTRP20/09/20 11:53 PM
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You have to realize that women are emotional, not logical like you. She needs to feel that rollercoaster of excitement. When you leave her on read, she loses her mind because she doesn't know why you did that. Are you mad at her? Are you with another woman? Did she say something wrong? She NEEDS these feelings to feel attracted to you. If you are too nice then she will get bored.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 10:16 PM
3

I would call this self-confidence, not narcissism. Narcissism is rooted in fantasy, whereas confidence is rooted in experience. You can have confidence going into an interview because you know you'd be able to adapt and learn to achieve what others can do. You have the experience, education, and ability to do the job so you can be confident you will get it. A narcissist believes they are the best regardless of experience and look down on anyone who doesn't believe their narrative and often will …
/r/askTRP20/09/20 06:59 PM
1

If a guy acted like this, he would be a sociopath. Women are victims, so they get special treatment and a special name for their delusional thinking.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 06:54 PM
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I am willing to bet she met a sociopath, super charming, rich, good looking, and a little dangerous because they don't have the same morals as most people and have very little fear. They act confident because they have deluded themselves into thinking they're alright right, but anyway, guys like this date dozens of women and say whatever the hell the women want to hear. So she gets used to this, charming, good looking, rich guys, who tell her whatever she wants to hear? That is the way it should…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/20 06:43 PM
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She says, 80 maybe 90% of men on dating apps are married. No, they aren't, just the guys who she goes after who have a good job, are fit, successful, dress well, have interesting lives, and are highly competent and confident. Those guys are married and either a) are tired of their /deadbedroom or b) are sociopaths who are highly charming and manipulative. Women love the good looking sociopath with no morals, he gets rich, he is confident af, and he won't be tied down to anyone because he uses ev…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/20 06:39 PM
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Bingo, only the men at the very top are suitable for her, but she can't hold them down because they have so many options. It infuriates her because she thinks she is special, but she isn't and her attitude makes her undesirable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/20 06:31 PM
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Exactly, her "safe space" is entirely fictional. There is no such thing as a safe place, we have an illusion of safety, but nothing ever really is. But these entitled women have no idea what life is like outside their academic, artsy, "safe space."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/20 11:27 PM
27

I actually read the whole thing and I hate myself now. What I learned is she is an entitled brat who wants all the benefits of a committed relationship without her committing anything.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/20 11:20 PM
33

Damn, this sounds like abuse. If the gender roles were reversed you'd have a parade of support and a gofundme
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/20 08:33 PM
2

Alright my man, so here is the truth: You love women like your mother unconditionally loved you. That is how you understand love. You are this weak pathetic baby, and you get fed, cleaned, burped, and taken care of. That is love to you, and so that is how you show love to your woman, you feed her by taking her out on dates, you provide a clean home for her, and you make sure her needs are met. Women are sugar n' spice, and everything nice. If you ate boiled chicken every day, your entire life, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 06:14 AM
11

Hit and run...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/20 05:38 AM
9

That sub gave me cancer, HIV, hepatitis C. and a healthy dose of disdain for the modern man and woman. The men who aren't RP are white knights and go to embarrassing length to defend their strong dismissive women. And the women are so obscure and disconnected from reality that I don't know if these people actually go outside at any time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/20 04:53 AM
8

What in the actual fuck did I just read? Can someone tell me what the bullshit was about "A man playing music for me on stage, paying ME $2/min" and "An astrophysicist $8/min for 10 min just for conversation." This is the most narcissistic bullshit I have ever seen, is she literally insane? OK Bois, which of you is ready to step up to your KWEEN who regularly prostitutes herself out by the minute?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/20 06:56 AM
2

Precisely, and in this case specifically, holding frame and using humor would easily solve the problem. Make a joke about the hand gesture or tell him it's not nice to interrupt (he was talking to his friend) and tease the guy. No one wants to hit the funny guy because everyone would disapprove of that.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/20 09:43 PM
2

To add to this, if you smile at her and she doesn't seem interested in you, then bailout. If she seems interested and smiles back, etc, then proceed forward. You are only a creep if you try and force her to talk to you when she doesn't want to or you try and make the conversation go on too long. You'll see her again another day so keep the interaction short and sweet, and be the one to end it first, especially this first time since you don't know what you're doing. Unless she really wants to kee…
/r/seduction03/09/20 10:44 PM
1

I am 37- I only started dating 10 years ago when I was 27, and it was horrible. I met at least 35 women, most single mothers, and it was ALWAYS women who posted pics of themselves from 5 years before when they weighed 30lbs+ less. Online dating is garbage, but I will tell you, virtually every woman I met, she always felt superior to me. There were only two women who didn't and they were extremely young like 19&22, while I was 27-28, and they both were not single mothers, that's right, they didn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 08:29 AM
3

It can definitely seem that way, but imagine a life of endless boring attention from mediocre guys saying nice things all the time? It is so boring. Women need a man to step in, say fuck this, and leave them in the chaos of their own emotions. They will hate you for this, hate it, why are you such a jerk? They will complain to their girlfriends and guy orbiters about you, but then you show up a day or two later and say "hey what's up "and they'll be giggling in your palm.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/20 06:19 AM
2

Hold up- A woman messages a man first on a dating app? And she askes to hook up? That means he must be extremely attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 07:01 PM
1

Parents can and should stop supporting their children for any reason they want. Doesn't matter if it is porn or because they're dating someone they don't like, or even for something like tattoos. It is the parent's money, they can cut you off for any reason or no reason!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 07:20 PM
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I have spent a lot of time thinking about that, and I believe it is because women are a lot more emotional than men. Things feel right or wrong, the mood of a situation is what matters. Danger and excitement are thrilling and that roller coaster of up and downs in emotions make women feel the whole range of emotions. If you can do that with a woman, make her feel powerful high and powerful lows for you, you're almost guaranteed to make her swoon for you. Don't be afraid to call women out on some…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/20 07:04 PM
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Most women are extremely bored. They need you to make their lives interesting and they will leave you as soon as a new guy comes along and is more exciting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/20 06:08 PM
10

I still don't understand how all men are misogynists when virtually every guy wants a family and female companionship. I mean, surely some guys hate women and are bitter or whatever, but most guys seek out relationships with women and spend their resources on them. What more can a guy do to show his love than spend his precious time, energy, and money on someone? How is that hatred toward women? There are some guys who do hate women, but most guys just want to get along with women. Women seem to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 07:12 PM
8

Also love how shes a HVF who rooms with meth heads... She says roommate now, but it was definitely the guy she left her baby daddy for. You have to learn how to decode how women talk!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 04:11 AM
7

addict roommate Guarantee it was her bf after her baby daddy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 03:56 AM
2

I'll drink to that!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:01 AM
8

I can answer this! But I am a guy. Women want a story, like a fairy tale about who you are. You faced some trouble (not abuse or humiliation in any way) like, you weren't strong enough for something, but then you got strong enough and then you got tall enough to reach whatever. OMG That will make them wet. Women are incapable of telling the truth, the truth is as fluid as emotions are and they change over time. You will never understand her past except with experience with her over a long period…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 06:01 AM
1

I can explain it to you. It is because I never realized how manipulated I was by women (especially my mother). Ohh, I am so strong and tall *clap clap* you can pump the gas in the car at 9 years old and change the oil by 12, because you're such a strong man who also mows the lawn and cooks, and does all kinds of shit she can't won't because she's too weak, tee hee. The amount of responsibility I had at 12 was more than most women ever experience in their lives, and they are praised for it while …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 01:43 AM
4

I married a 31-year-old virgin, so obviously my experience is very different from a guy who follows TRP. So I can't talk about their experiences, I can only talk about mine. Which, to me, assuming positive intent from my partner, because they are my partner! Has made my life so much better and hers as well. Worry, anxiety, and silly tests have gone away because we both know we are trying to make each other happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 02:51 AM
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I think even if people initially are attracted, they lose that attraction over time unless they are good are reframing things in their minds. For example, it is easy to focus on the negative things "he didn't put his pants in the hamper before he got in bed, so now I am losing my lady boner" or you could be like "he was so excited to get in bed with me after all these years he missed the hamper" One way, you find a dead bedroom and the other way you find a loving relationship that will last a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 08:45 PM
3

I have a lot of female friends, a lot of them are extremely attractive. And they have shown me pics of guys on Tinder they message back to. I say wow, that guy looks like a total asshole and douchebag, what made you message him? "He seems sweet" Meanwhile, he has a tattoo on his arm saying death and a shit load of other red flags? I point out a few of the red flags? They all get dismissed because I don't understand him like she does. I want you to know. Please, understand. I sympathize with your…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 09:17 AM
0

She wants to be used. By the right (rich, good looking, powerful) guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 08:58 AM
7

I just want us all to understand? We aren't right or wrong. No matter what grievance we think we have? We are all human and we need to realize our enemy is nature and we should unite against it and beat it. Beat aging. Illness. Viruses. Astroids. Whatever the fuck, we should get behind science and make our lives better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 08:56 AM
3

the woman will be held more accountable and will face more social judgement. I am just curious how you can possibly think that? It is certainly not true in all the circumstances I can think of?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 08:54 AM
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Not going to lie. You're right. But the thing is, those matches are full of liars, manipulators, frauds, and outright losers. Women haven't learned how to screen for good guys emotionally. They screen for guys they want sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 08:52 AM
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You are a mentally sick person. I hope you can get some therapeutic help because you need it. Maybe you will have compassion for men when you realize how much like them you are? We are all human. Gender might be fluid it might be solid, but we are all human and we need to recognize how fragile we are. We are in this TOGETHER! Do you get it? We aren't at war with each other, we are at war with nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 08:51 AM
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Women have a bad life too because they're constantly feeling inadequate. That is why they are so easy to manipulate. Tell a woman something you don't like about her and she will snowball that into a huge avalanche. Men have to support everything and hold responsibility for all of the things going on, when we let go of that responsibility? Life falls apart. We build roads, do the electricity, do the plumbing, fix cars, and do all the work. The work is done by men and it is hardly appreciated
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 08:37 AM
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I didn't make this post about that specifically, but it includes what I am trying to say. Life is shitty. We get all get shit on from every side and then we die.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 08:33 AM
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This is about this community. We constantly debate about who has it better, or which side has it worse. I am saying that in dating, in loving, in life, we are equally screwed. Everything is against us as all times and we only like to THINK we have it well when actually, we could die at any moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 08:30 AM
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All I am saying is, everyone on each side wants to say they have it the worst. Dudes. Sisters. All our shit is fucked up. Do you even see what this virus has done? We live in a fucked up world with fucked up shit going on all the time and we all have problems. Let's cut each other some slack and love each other. I have no idea what that sub is, and im scared to click it. EDIT to your edit: We should debate these things about our relationships because the more we understand the other side? The mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 08:25 AM
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You're right. My fiance and gf of over a year, I shouldn't have assumed she meant me. What in the hell was I thinking? I forgot that women monkey branch instantly and hamster themselves so it's ok and they deserve better. Obviously, since I was at work and 44 miles away, I am the asshole. She wanted to be cuddled that instant. My Bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:09 AM
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Yes,my best female friend is exactly like that. Exactly. She is a sweet and kind person, but she rarely ever says what she really thinks. Because she thinks that will annoy or "set off" her bf. It is exhausting to listen to her go on and on about he did this and didn't do that. And I ask, ohh ok, did talk to him? NO OF COURSE NOT!!! WTF!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:01 AM
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Because an hour before I got off work, she wanted to be cuddled? 2 hours later I am the asshole for wanting to do what she asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:58 AM
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Listen, I am with an honest woman. It is brutal sometimes. I wonder if she is unfeeling robot sometimes. But it is refreshing in other ways, I know I am not perfect and I don't want to be flattered. It is nice to be with someone who isn't afraid to be honest with me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:55 AM
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Have you ever thought you are bad at sex? Maybe you need to do more to get them in mood or communicate what you want. Most women I know are very compliant in bed. If the sex is bad, it is my fault for not taking control enough. Women want and crave to be led, they need you to take control and direct them. It is an honor and a privilege to do that.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 08:53 AM
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Hey, I will modify it to fit the situation. Just saying there is a sledge hammer and there is an exacto knife. One is a brunt force and one a tool for precision.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:49 AM
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"Women do not care about your struggles. They wait at the finish line and pick the winners."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:47 AM
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Honesty isn't about harming someone. Honesty is about speaking what is true. There is no reason to be a bitch about the truth, but it is okay to be confrontational and get your truth told.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:46 AM
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Oh what a tangled web we weave when we practice to deceive. The truth shall set you free I respect your opinion. Does anyone want to hear that they fucking hate it when you slurp noodles? Literally everyone else who isn't an animal can eat noodles without slurping so why the fuck are you so loud? There is the truth and there is being brutal with the truth. Hey babe? Have you noticed you are slurping kinda loud? or WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU??? WHY CANT YOU EAT LIKE A NORMAL PERSON???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:44 AM
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I know you probably won't read this. But something that helped me, a man who weighed 340+ down to 230lbs? Simply weighing every Monday and Thursday and recording it in a spreadsheet. I know that sounds disgustingly simple, but watching the graph go down, cico, and being mindful? It kept me motivated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:39 AM
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Frankly, I agree. I have a tragic past, a retarded family, and yet somehow I have become successful with my life. This is where I spend my downtime to decompress. I don't know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:35 AM
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I will assume you have good intentions. An honest woman tells the truth. If she is upset about something, she doesn't sulk, pout, kick her shoes off extra hard. She talks to her man about what is bothering her. Because we don't read minds. That thing that is super obvious to you is completely oblivious to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:32 AM
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Preach! Reminds me of George Carlin: "You think of how stupid the average American is, and then realize, half of them are stupider than that!"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:30 AM
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Late here, so this won't be seen. But my mom died unexpectedly when I was a nerd/dork raised by my single mom. She raised me and my little brother earning 6.25/hr. I didn't know all the fucking details, I was a fucking stupid kid, but she died when I was 22 and she was 45 to a preventable illness because she didn't take care herself, she only focused on working that shitty minimum wage job to take care of me and my little brother. So I am 22, have a gf that knows my mom just died, and she says t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:27 AM
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I am saying you wouldn't know a good man if he slapped your face. What women want is the wrong guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:16 AM
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This brings back memories of my ex so much. "I wish someone would hug me and cuddle with me." Hey babe, I drove 44 miles after work to come to see you and cuddle! "WTF YOU ASSHOLE, YOU DIDN'T TELL ME YOU WOULD BE HERE!! WHY ARE YOU HERE UNANNOUNCED! WTF WTF WTF INVASION OF PRIVACY!!!!!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:54 AM
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Never talked to a woman on Tinder, I only meet women IRL. But I do love women. But I find the women who volunteer are almost insufferably liberal and close-minded. Granted! They mean well but they have so little understanding of the world that talking to them makes my head hurt. Everything is an emotional appeal and there is zero science or logic. I met a woman at a work function who was obviously attracted to me. I was attracted to her too, we had some flirty conversations. I gave her my card, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:47 AM
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Ikr? If you weren't given a huge trust fund, then go buy an oil field. If you can't afford one then steal one. Poor people are dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:16 PM
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That could explain why she views money so differently than me? To me, money should be saved and used to make more money. To her? It needs to be spent immediately and if I have any at all and don't spend it on her? I am an asshole. She literally just asked for $300 dollars because she is short. I feel used? No sex, bad kissing, high demands, and no matter what I do, I always do it in the wrong way by asking too many questions or wanting to understand so I am always the asshole. I have given her l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:40 AM
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Everyone I met in Vietnam was super chill My gf is very chill too, maybe because she's so different? I find it hard to trust her chillness and calmness. All the girls I have dated are usually a bit manic, anxious, and unsure. My gf is like nah, everything is good. "Go ahead, it is alright." I would love to understand where this relaxed attitude comes from?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:11 AM
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South, I don't know exactly where but near (within 30-40 minutes?) of Vung Tau. I wish you lived close to me, I would really enjoy talking to you in person. Minnesota, fyi.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:44 AM
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She is successful, kind and beautiful. I was 35 when I met her(29), literally the last thing I expected to hear was she is a virgin. And it actually made me a little annoyed, like, "ohhhh right, she just wants to string me along with no sex...." I absolutely never even considered it a possibility I would date a virgin, not on my radar, not something I ever wanted and not anything I expected to encounter. At the time, I was 35 and I was only dating girls in my age group, there is no way I would e…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:55 AM
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First, I really appreciate your thoughtful reply. I had a little too much last night and posted this question and passed out and forgot about it all day. Second, she is very traditional. I am fine with that, I feel like I am a traditional man and so I can understand her. Third, dead bedroom. This is every man's fear and even my own. I can only hope that with communication and effort and not being selfish, we can keep the flame burning. We talked recently and as awkward as this sounds, I said tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:41 AM
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I remember one radfem who said all PIV is rape. OK, so by her logic our species needs to die off?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:28 AM
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I used to think that, but she didn't even know how to kiss. Who can fake that? Like I leaned right and she also leaned right. She seems legit, but I have no way of finding out if she is being true or not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:45 AM
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We work at the same hospital that really doesn't do that, and she knows my department has been very busy, but at the same time, we have been asked to make cuts. I can't say I lost my job but maybe lost hours or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:42 AM
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I have considered this angle, let's say this covid thing presents an opportunity for me to say I don't have money. How do I test her to see if she loves me or my money? I am being very sincere. Anyone reading this please tell me your ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:39 AM
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I will be honest. I genuinely believe her, she is a virgin and holds herself in a high degree. She wants a quality man. But the truth is, in 1.5 years, we have never had sex. Not once have I ever taken her top and pants off. I have felt around and gotten to know places, but I have never unwrapped my present. She says she won't do that until she is married, and she is 31 now, she doesn't care if she is 50 or 60. She will wait until she is married because she's already waited this long. But she ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:36 AM
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I understand how you feel, and I am actually feeling the same way sometimes. But when I spend quality time with her, like, legit time over hours and hours? I see her phone only got notified once from snapchat, by her sister, that she lives with. I see that she is so confused and doesn't understand why people care about sex so much. She doesn't care, why should everyone else obsess about it so much? All this makes me want to believe her. Plus she likes me. Yeah I got an extra buck or two to pay f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:30 AM
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When two elephants phuck what does that look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:24 AM
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I can't believe this post is here because the MODS seem to protect her like she owns this place. But my opinion is? I am glad she is here. Whoever this gross woman is? She makes all our lives better by posting insane things we can continue to debate and understand the unstable mind of a woman who needs a lot of help. Or "she" is a dude who is trolling us so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:22 AM
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Alright, so I have to accept her as she is, from her culture. She moved to the USA at age 14 without knowing any English at all but she came from a "good" family in Vietnam. Meaning, she is traditional and expects her husband to be as well, although the men are given very specific provider roles and women are given very specific domestic roles. Frankly, from her frame of mind, it is very similar to traditional gender roles that I am perfectly fine with. I earn a good income slightly above 100k i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:19 AM
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I can explain the problem with black pill/ incel very easily. Experience. Black pill/ incels do not leave their comfort zones and experience new things. New things make you fail, learn, and grow. They are the story of Pinocchio. They are the never growing children of Peter Pan. They are guys who sit behind a keyboard and type but do not go out and DO. Say hi to a girl, ask someone on a date, take a risk with someone unknown, do things that fucking scary you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:58 AM
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You know that halo effect attractive people have? I think they are just trying to capitalize on that because they don't know how to relate to people and develop actual people skills
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:12 PM
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You forgot how often you are told to "lift" It is a lifting religion of gym bros with horrible people skills
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:08 PM
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It is unreal. It feels like we exist in a different reality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/20 09:18 AM
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I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder and OCD, but nobody diagnosed me with autism until recently even though I have all the symptoms. Not going to lie, but this explains a lot. I hope you are doing well on the medication.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:59 AM
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I feel so bad for the guys who fall for this. I view this shaming tactic as abuse; she is pathetic for begging for money. I am sorry if this bothers you, but she is perfectly capable of working, she doesn't need to beg for money like a mentally unstable person in dirty clothes at a street corner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/20 01:44 AM
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I know exactly what your problem is so I am going to change your view. You listed everything that is great about you (wonderful!) but you listed nothing about the kind of guys you lust after or expect, except "one time" you gave a 5/10 a chance and it didn't work out. You have listed nothing about the type of guy you want nor have you thought about where he would be. Do you think a guy who finds women disposable is going to look like Chad? What exactly made this 5/10 guy a 5? Was it his looks or…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:51 PM
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This is spot on. I hear such awful advice like wait 3 days to text back, etc. No, if you have a date with a woman, you need to text her pretty quickly after the date or she will forget you and move on. She is getting attention from at least 10 guys in 3 days, how in the hell will she even remember you if you wait 3 days? Women have a baseline of what they think is normal and you have to at least meet it and there is a little wiggle room but not much because she will resent you if you get fat or …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 07:16 PM
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I find the words they use to be very interesting and I enjoy the circus they create to set the scene for their logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 10:01 AM
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I think men are just more honest about what we want and desire. Women try to make it nebulous for whatever reason, shame or guilt, I don't care. It is ok to want what you want. If you only want guys who are over 6 feet and make good money, then just say so. I will say I want an intelligent skinny girl with a cute face and a tight ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 09:17 AM
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A lot of women are like this, but they aren't as obvious as guys are. Just ask any woman who won't date a guy under 6foot and he has to have a good job and muscles too. It is ok. I am not mad about it or upset, and I want everyone to find someone they love and adore and treat them right. But if you say women aren't just as "shallow" as men are, then I think you're wrong. Women want the best they can get and so do guys. It is not unusual.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 09:14 AM
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I had oneitis for years. The best cure is to actually fuck her. Then you realize she's just like any other girl and all that charm and magic she had on you COMPLETELY disappears. It will happen to you if you eventually get with her. She isn't special, she is only special to you.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 05:38 AM
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I am monogamous. Period. I have zero interest in a harem or a "side chick." If something isn't working with my girlfriend, then I talk to her about it and we work on fixing our problems together. She does the same thing with me when she doesn't like something I do or say and let's be real honest, I am pretty oblivious until she points stuff out. But the process of this change over time makes us grow closer, at least, that's how I feel and I wouldn't change that for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 02:02 AM
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I am surprised the mods allowed this one. First: politics Second: what does this have to do with blue/red pill? Thirdly: it has this "why doesn't everyone just agree with me, lol" kind of entitled attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 01:58 AM
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All I did was fuck 9 sixteen-year-old girls when I was a senior in HS. I might have gotten a few of them pregnant but they either aborted or had the kids but they claimed to be with other guys, so what is the problem? Listen, I might have 6 kids from 4 different mothers out there, but none of them are demanding child support (yet) so baby, let's just have a little sex with no condom. "kiss kiss"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/20 10:14 AM
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Wait-a-minute? Her pics on her profile are before she had 3 kids. And she is annoyed with a guy finds out she has 3 kids and looks different ditches her? And she is "confused" and "needs help" understanding this weird problem? Is she literally a child or is she just retarded?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/20 10:10 AM
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Uhhhhh? You need to STEP UP You need to support this wonderful MOTHER Chad had a kid with her and so did Tyrone It is time for you to PAY UP and SUPPORT this MOTHER. I am not sure what she has to offer you other than yawns and annoyances because she misses Chad and Tyrone's dick, not yours, but needless to say. It is time for you to pay.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/20 10:07 AM
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Nothing says "Trashy" more than "Life University" or "School of hard knocks" It means, "I am uneducated and literally more stupid than you can ever believe."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/20 10:02 AM
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Dude, this is why sex needs to be with a woman you feel an emotional connection with. Otherwise, sex is just a physical thing you do like push weights. Sex needs to be viewed as the intimate, life-changing, action it is. It is penetration and possible impregnation of another fully sentient person just like you. I hate that everyone seems to view it as just a stress relief or prerequisite to a 3rd date or whatever. It needs to be taken as seriously as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 09:02 AM
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I am a guy, and I am weird. I WANT to wait for sex. I love it when I am with her and the sexual tension is building. Those flirty comments, my eyes up and down her body, her shy smiles when she notices me- notice her? I am so excited for the build up when we make out, I touch her thighs, I kiss her neck, and slide my hands up her body. I can tell she loves it when I take my time and notice little things about her body and this makes sex 100x better. It is more than just foreplay, it is connectin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 07:32 AM
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Dude. I went to a popular bar alone, I got a beer, chatted up the bartender for a minute and looked around. A girl came up to me. Put her hand on her hip, said heeeeyyyy loooo and she was cute as a button. I wasn't sure what was going on, but I smiled and said hey back to her. We had a short little fun flirty conversation, and I didn't realize until later that night at like 3am, when I was in bed, sadly alone, that she so damn into me, she approached, she said hi, she touched my wrist, she was g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 10:58 AM
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After being on literally both sides of this, I can say that virtually all women are the same under certain circumstances. This is absolutely not rare or unique to this woman, I would bet that most women go through this multiple times in their lives. They love being the sweet loving, cute, forbidden fruit to the rich, handsome, polite guy, but they also love being dirty whores to the guy who fucks them and leaves them on read for 3 days.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/02/20 08:22 AM
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So, as a man, I feel best when I am providing for my woman. I feel the manliest, I stand up straight, and I am proud to walk into work every day to support my GF and do what is necessary. I think it is because the vast majority of men were slaves, evolutionary. Anyway, if I am happy, my GF is happy, our kids survive and are happy, why does anything else matter? We are a surviving species reproducing. We have so much technology, we could start to colonize the stars. Let's do this shit and take ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 04:35 AM
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I bet he was like, oh weird, well, odd seeing you here, but I am just walking home, see ya later! (Really wish I could go home with a girl tonight but oh well, just gonna walk home alone, still so funny I saw that girl talk to me, haha.)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 09:19 AM
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I am a guy and I didn't notice any of the obvious shit women did to impress me. I know for a fact, women went out of their way to get my attention (in hindsight) but at the time, I just assumed she wore her hair down (like I previously said looked sooo cute on her), she touched my arm, and giggled at literally everything I said because I assumed she was just "nice......" I was completely oblivious to a lot of advances at me because I was shy and awkward until I was like 28 years old and had sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 09:12 AM
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In America, you are innocent until PROVEN guilty (except if the media decides to crucify you).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 12:02 PM
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Sorry- but some women absolutely love the "bad boy." As others have posted, it is basically the male equivalent of wanting to "white knight" for a seriously damaged woman. The "bad boy" or "damaged woman" is usually at least objectively attractive, and then the opposite gender's imagination takes over and creates a fantasy where they save them. It should probably be considered a psychological disorder because it is so common and education could help a lot of people (men and women)!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 10:29 AM
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Hey man, I manage 20+ men and women and the best way I deal with this is to say, (calmly) "I can tell you are very passionate about this, let's talk in private, in about 30 minutes." Alternatively, I will say, after lunch break, or at the end of our shift, or whatever. I do this so they calm down but also so I can gather my thoughts. I also am asserting my dominance by ending a confrontation and taking control of the situation in a structured way. They also can't complain or dispute it, because …
/r/askTRP08/02/20 09:48 AM
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You handle them like any other girl, don't treat them special, you just take them to coffee or ice cream, or whatever and escalate to your place after the date. I don't understand the problem? If they are into you, you move them to a place you can "do stuff". Alcohol doesn't have to be involved with a girl that desires you
/r/askTRP07/02/20 11:32 AM
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31 Married 14 years 3 kids Guys, the math on this one is bad. I am not saying I know algebra or anything, but this one adds up to trouble.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/20 06:32 AM
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Yeah, when I lurked at RPW, it seemed mostly like very insecure women trying to get men (who aren't going to be good for them, long term) to like them more. "My alpha has 3 other girls pregnant and I can't get him to snuggle with me for more than 30 minutes, and he only wants me for sex, if I make his grandma's waffle recipe will he love me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 03:14 AM
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trad con What does that mean, exactly? And also, what is a "trad con mommy?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 03:12 AM
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I have seen this literally more than 10 times now!
/r/PussyPassDenied30/01/20 12:39 AM
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Men tend to be honest, I live here, I work there, and I want sex and affection. Women tend to lie relentlessly about everything
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:43 AM
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I mean no disrespect- I am just saying that life throws curve balls at you. You might be healthy today and tomorrow find out you have stage 3 cancer. Should I, a Christian guy, who doesn't watch porn, zero interest in anal, I want to be a good dad and father, I earn 100k+ a year, I am 6'2+, and I believe that having sex with a woman is basically equivalent to being married- so I only have sex with a woman after marriage is almost certain (I am 36 and been with 2 women, and a LOT of women have tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:57 AM
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What if you were in and out of the hospital, should your husband reject you for making his life annoying?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 10:18 PM
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I am really happy you wrote all this out. Men want a lot of things, they want your sex to be fantastic like literally every time and those guys are almost never so giving in return. Men, like me, also want you to make me feel masculine, oh yes, we want to feel like we are the king. But I understand that if I am not making you feel like you are queen? That I am not being masculine enough to flirt with you and tease you but also follow through with my promises? Then I know you won't feel feminine …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:11 AM
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I really have to get some sleep. Me too. Listen, internet stranger, it was fun talking to you. I know how hopeless it feels sometimes. I have been sued by my own grandfather 5 days after my mom died unexpectedly- life throws curve balls at you. Sometimes you just have to roll with the punches. I was even engaged, ready to marry a woman and she cheated on me. There were no warning signs, we had regular sex, went on vacations, family functions, and spent a lot of fun time together. Her mom told me…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:36 AM
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I know this sounds obtuse, I am a random internet guy, so my text means nothing in the grand scheme of things, but maybe this is exactly what you need to do- date someone totally unconventional. Meet someone who challenges your views and beliefs at every corner, every angle, and disagrees with you. I admit it sounds absurd, so I don't blame you if you dismiss me. But friendly debate and banter is fun and challenging your views can be a great way to understand your own beliefs in a new light. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 08:59 AM
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Date someone on the right. Why not? Give it a try...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 08:31 AM
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First, I want to say, thank you for sharing this with me and us. Also, you are right to question everything you understand- that is what these "blue" and "red" pills are for. Second, I am going to get uncomfortable here, but how attractive are you? I mean this legit, one of my best friends is definitely 9.5+ and she's had absolutely awful luck with guys. One of the problems with being so attractive is that guys "too far" below your "status" will feel like you are "out of their league" and their …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 08:04 AM
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Ask anything!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:13 AM
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In most cases, rape is totally acceptable if you bought her dinner or flowers! /s Yes this post is a joke, I know not everyone finds it tasteful but jesus f'ing christ, no man feels he is owed sex, even if he's out significant amounts of money on a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:10 AM
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Can I say, no decent man feels he is owed anything by women? Even the dumbest incel knows he isn't owed sex from a woman just because he finds her attractive. This is just a smear to make men look bad. It is like saying "All women want is my wallet."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:08 AM
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Men go MGTOW because the juice isn't worth the squeeze. Men aren't as simple as "need sex, any vagina will do." (Unless they're horny teenagers.) Most men want a stable, reliable, sweet girl who will make us happy. We aren't asking for a porn star or a wonder woman. Most guys just want a woman to love us as much as we love them. That's why we seek out girls who share our hobbies and understand us. When men realize that the women they are chasing have had sex with dozens of guys who are the compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:07 AM
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Don't use online dating. It is full of incels and Chads. Normal guys meet normal women through normal activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:00 AM
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making men wait for sex helps to filter out men who only want sex. Having higher standards is okay, and it's okay not to give guys a chance, or time, if they don't meet your standards. ​ Filter out guys who are going to use you for sex if that's what you what. You wanna have sex? Guys will find you for that, literally anywhere. ​ Having standards is perfectly ok- any guy who wants you long term will want to know you have standards. Honestly, this subreddit used to be interesting and have posts t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 06:57 AM
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Before you believe these other women are so great, you should meet them in person first.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:22 AM
5

Anytime I see pictures like this, I always wonder, "who took this picture?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/20 02:56 AM
2

I have never had the issue the OP has described and I have had 2 LTRs in the past 10 years. I think some guys lose their ability to pair bond after a certain n-count just like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:50 PM
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Food, drinks, filled her car with gas, took her shopping for clothes, shoes, and I got her flowers. Why wouldn't a guy be nice to someone he cares about?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:45 PM
2

My GF and I eat out quite a bit, I have bought her shoes, jeans, and flowers in the last 2 weeks. I estimate in a month I spend around 900? I spent about 1600 in December but it was Christmas too. I also filled her car with gas but that was like $20. She doesn't spend much on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 04:38 PM
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Guys stray away from relationships (I think you actually mean commitment) because they are scared. Women command a lot of power in a dedicated monogamous relationship. You say, nay, no sex? Ok well, then I can't get it anywhere else because we are exclusive. What can I do to get sex? Are your demands reasonable? Men are basically slaves to whatever whims our dedicated relationship woman wants. And when she learns she has this power over us, because sex, closeness, desire, and intimate companions…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 11:45 AM
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Looks only go so far. You also have to have personality. Women do like height, but they also like money. But isn't a binary choice between tallness and height. If a shorter guy who is charming, personable, and well put together enters the room? He can win her heart. But if a guy has looks, money, tallness, etc., it isn't easy to compete, so just go to another place where Chad isn't...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 08:09 AM
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It was more yellow and orange tbh. I thought it looked great with a black shirt. But apparently it was quite polarizing and very distracting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:42 AM
2

My friend is super feminine and I think that makes her attracted to super masculine guys. She's very pretty and very giving and submissive. But literally 98% of guys she dates just take full advantage of her and leave her super sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:35 AM
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You tell me. Does black and orange clash? I thought it looked pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:32 AM
1

You are right, I found out recently I have been wearing the wrong size shirts for the longest time. I prefered a baggy shirt for movement, but I never realized a smaller shirt actually felt better and looked significantly better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:32 AM
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me too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:31 AM
2

One of my best friends is a woman who is dating a guy who is relentlessly dominant. She asks a question to him like, how often to do you talk to your ex wife? and he said, "I have to go to bathroom" and leaves. He never answers questions and does WhatEver the fuck he wants. And she keeps hounding me, begging me, asking me, why doesn't he listen to her, why can't he answer her questions, why does he ignore her? And yet she throws sex at him like candy. She is always going to see him and giving hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:29 AM
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Ohh sure, I will explain. As a man, I have to constantly lead, direct, and position people toward success. The women are more interested in what tie I wore and judge me accordingly. Meanwhile, the men I direct respect my choices, appreciate my honesty and want to learn from my experience. ​ Anyway, my question is, as a man, how in the ever living hell do we walk that line? ​ Thank you for answering!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:21 AM
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I think the largest problem with men being masculine (to women) is that it also means we are a threat. We are stronger, taller, and can influence a lot of people based on our literal strength. So I guess women feel the need to gain strength in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:15 AM
10

Overly attached girlfriend?
/r/MGTOW12/01/20 09:13 PM
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One SO bought her a new car. Another guy is working 60 hours a week to pay for the wedding so "she doesn't have to." I think I found out what her issue is. She high standards (looks hot for sex) but also has high standards for relationship material, "he buys expensive worthless fucking shit" Never get involved with women who want you to dump out their wallet on them. Never. Women don't care about you, they care about making their friends jealous and anxious and it is working on the woman who wro…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/20 04:53 AM
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I don’t get it I "get it". It is typical of our narcissistic society. No one wants to deal with the cow, we just want the milk when we want and on our own terms. Men like this are spoiled brats and it is actually really common for men and women to have extremely selfish views. They aren't socialized well enough to understand how unfriendly that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 01:34 AM
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I am sorry that happened to you. NO and STOP always mean NO and STOP. People who continue to push past clear boundaries are sick!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 08:06 PM
1

I am not a woman and I don't claim to be, but women always set themselves an "out" and convince themselves and others it wasn't their fault. Taking responsibility for your actions is hard, and hard work is for men to do, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 07:21 AM
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I need to change your view, because here is the thing, you are both right and wrong. Yeah, women want all the stuff you say they do, but they also want more. They want their friends to be envious, they want to feel like they are doing better than others and having the best life they can achieve. And the root of TRP is that women will quickly drop you blue pill guys and rush over to alpha fucks as soon as it is acceptable in her social circle because she got tingles. TRP terminology is super crin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 07:18 AM
2

Pretty sure this is the guy who claims to have only been with one woman, who he married at like 18, and now they are in their early 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 07:12 AM
2

Try to think of it from a woman's point of view. It is basically retroactive revocation of consent. Women do this kind of thing all the time to give themselves "outs" to release responsibility. I am trying to change your view to a slightly different side of things, which is that women tend to set up plausible deniability for later. Take Chad for example, who all the girls fawn after, and he takes this chick out and fucks her. "I was drinking so it wasn't really my fault, teehee" But if her frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 07:05 AM
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It is pretty easy, make lots of money, lift weights, and talk about how much you want to have kids. You do all the heavy lifting in a relationship anyway. The money and looking good will gloss over virtually all your flaws as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 05:04 AM
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When I was forced to move out on my own, with very little money, I shared a house with a girl, her best friend (also a girl) and me (a super nerd who never dated before.) The girl who owned the house (25?) was a nurse. She had a bf who fixed her car. She had a bf that fixed her AC in the house. She had a BF that fixed the plumbing and tile in the bathroom. She had a BF that brought her weed. She had a BF that owned a Porche and took her out when he could (he was a physician and resident). ​ She …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/19 08:40 AM
5

​ where did you ALL get this idea feminism cares about men fucking women RadFem says all PIV is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 08:58 PM
9

AKA: "Paid by mostly men's tax dollars"
/r/MGTOW18/12/19 08:50 AM
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Preach. The truth is, love is an idea. True love isn't feelings about desire or sexual diversions. Love is more about sacrifice. And men are ready to sacrifice for love because we are creatures that genuinely love women. The problem is, in this day and age, that women's nature is not kept in check, like previous generations. If a woman was a single mother in previous generations? She was shamed for not keeping her husband happy. Now? A single mother is showered with government gifts like healthc…
/r/MGTOW18/12/19 07:42 AM
2

Women cheat and don't tell because they want to keep the beta paying for them. Chad cheats because he is horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 07:10 AM
2

Anecdotal, but back in my blue pill days, (around 10 years ago) I dated a couple single mothers. As my mother was a single mom, I didn't see a big issue with it and I was trying to sympathize with their struggles. But over a few months, I realized how dreadfully unemotionally pragmatic these women are. It is not about love or happiness, it is about what I bring to the table; money, emotional support, physical labor, and strategies for fixing her problems (of which there are many.) Being kind, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 06:29 AM
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I think it is beta to sit around and debate when work needs to be done. There is a time and place for everything. So if your life isn't in order and something is out of balance, fix it first, then come here and debate. Otherwise, you are a beta complaining about how the world isn't what you want it to be. Bro, we make the world the way we want it to be, if you are having problems with women, then fix yourself, they aren't that complicated and they're just as flawed as you are. Women don't expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 05:59 PM
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The only true power you have as a man in western society is where you divert your attention. Use it like it is among your most valuable assets.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 08:42 AM
0

If I go more than a few days without jerkin it, I feel horny af, and just about every woman looks appealing to me. I admit I have an almost renewed sense of energy, but it isn't profound or interesting, it is just about getting in the pants of a chick. Girls that I would usually never consider attractive seem hot as fuck when I haven't beat the snake for a week or so. I mean legit gross girls with greasy hair but obese bouncy boobs, seem sorta fuckable. And I have a type according to Reddit, I a…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 09:29 AM
2

Why is no one talking about how she has locked 4 guys in for resources for her baby with a 5th guy?
/r/MGTOW06/12/19 06:12 AM
3

Is the red-head guy wearing fingernail polish? and the other guy looks like he has never touched a woman before! There is so much cringe here I can't even believe it
/r/MGTOW06/12/19 06:08 AM
1

Argh. I don't know what to tell you here. A woman will tell you she is not interested in games, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't flirt and have fun. There is a huge disconnect between what people think they want and what they actually want. You might think you want the blonde bombshell with big boobs, but after you get to know her, you find out she is kinda empty and craves attention. This girl is probably very tired of games- relationships are hard. So that is perfectly understandable, does …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 10:21 PM
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I have no idea what your reply is trying to tell me. That isn't a real friend. That is a girl that is wanting a relationship with you. A real friend tells you what she cooked for breakfast because she is proud of the way an omelet came out, and her coffee has just the right amount of cream in it that looks oddly like a tree. If you are interested in this girl that shows you interest?? Then you should try to date her? Tell her you would like to treat her to a cup of coffee or ice cream or somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 10:05 AM
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So... No... You don't. Listen to me, I have lots of female friends. Some I have had sex with and some I have not. The ones that I have had sex with and we aren't romantically interested anymore? Those are the best female friends I have ever had. We can legit talk about everything. Work, relationships, sex, unexpected period blood on the sheets, you name it. I can trust those girls to always tell me the truth because there's no sexual tension between us anymore. My other female friends are trying…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 09:25 AM
1

My guess is you don't regularly fuck these women you are friends with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 09:19 AM
2

I am a dude. I don't give one shit what happened before you met me. I just want to be treated right by you. Why is that so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 09:17 AM
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Guys like this probably need to learn the hard way. It is how most of us became red-pilled. He will do his best to bend over backward for his "nice girl" who then loses respect for him and cheats on him and then asks for him back. At that point, your bro needs to learn to respect himself more than he respects a cheating whore.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 08:36 AM
1

I once dated a very attractive intelligent woman. She actually had a lot of difficulties and she was mixed race so she probably felt a bit insecure without every vocalizing it. I had a fantastic first date with her but I had a feeling when she decided to pay for our date that she decided she never wanted to see me again. I don't think I met her attractiveness scale, I am 6'2, white, blue eyes, blonde but also balding. So she probably thought, Nah. She was almost certainly more intelligent than m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 07:49 AM
1

What kind of statement is that? You have a type too. Asia is a huge continent and they were from completely different cultures, countries, and backgrounds. But that's OK you don't have any type, right?
/r/askTRP27/11/19 05:25 PM
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When I was, like, I dunno 33? I had this tight little Asian GF who was 22 but looked very young. I got nasty looks everywhere!! I am white and she had browner skin, so we looked really odd together but I laughed it off. I got all kinds of comments about robbing the cradle and going after immature "submissive" women because I can't handle a "real" woman. The truth is, these older, uglier, lazy women are jealous, angry, and wish they were young again. So I paid it absolutely no mind. I also got we…
/r/askTRP27/11/19 10:37 AM
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Here is why this is confusing: Men and women value different things and perceive the world totally different. If you are a guy and accidentally wear the same pants or shirt over 3 separate dates even if they are 2 weeks apart? She is going to notice and realize you have a horrible choice in clothes. She is going to think you are disgusting, even though, you have worn like 12 other pants and shirts? If by coincidence or laundry or whatever you wear the same pants or shirt? She will think you're t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 08:36 AM
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This exact scenario happened to me (at work; and not the 2nd part) I opened the door for a woman behind me and she reacted so harshly like : ​ <<<OMG I can open the door myself "roll eyes">>> ​ She didn't say a word but her rejection of my kind gesture was enough to cement this in my mind. Women care more about who you are if you are attractive than if you are not. That is why TRP says to lift. Just lift, make yourself more attractive, learn diets, and get bigger. Women don't give a shit unless …
/r/MGTOW21/11/19 05:51 AM
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Not OP, but I was banned from that sub hilariously because I posted that I am a white guy dating an Asian chick and I told them to just talk to people and be friendly. They want white chicks but they won't pay any attention to these short, poor, awkward guys (who seem to be Indian or Asian.)
/r/askTRP19/11/19 09:51 AM
1

Katy, guys are really not all that picky. We might be attracted to boobs and ass but we stay for the conversation and kindness. Most good guys want a partner not just a fuck buddy. So don't get too bogged down in the details and learn how to be a good partner. Do you even know what things a guy looks for in a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 08:13 PM
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Any time I get something like that, I wrap up the conversation and leave. There are plenty of other women out there, and all this woman was good for this time was playful banter and flirting. I had fun, she had fun, now time to move on.
/r/seduction11/11/19 06:08 PM
1

Hello alien from a different planet! Here is what you need to know about men! We are self-sufficient. No one cares if we die alone in a ditch. So we have to make the absolute best of ourselves and learn to cooperate with people we don't like, work with people who want to kill us, and submit to authority when we could be shamed by society (women). We are basically a jack-of-all-trades. We are both kind and giving while also being assertive and dominate. We are wise and learned while also being hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 07:21 AM
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Women seek high-quality men, always have and always will. Confidence is a combination of a lot of attributes, it isn't just one attribute. Confidence comes from mastering yourself and having peace with yourself. It comes from knowing your place in society and how to fill your role. It comes from mental stability and usually money or some other form of persuasive power. I could go on and on, but Confidencetm is not just one thing a guy has, so it is a perfect identifier of a high-quality man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 07:41 PM
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The problem with instinct is that it is below logical, rational, debatable, and helpful thought. Instinct is like the current under the water that moves without us knowing. We expect a certain level of current, but it is significantly stronger than we realize and overpowers us. Evolutionary biology is not a joke to be trifled with, it is the reality of our existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 09:09 AM
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We are men, we don't have to give a shit about what the weaker women are doing with their predatory lives. They will prey on the weak. We have to be strong, stand firm, don't give in to women, and most of all just be proud of yourself and know your value. You desire a woman and love but you don't absolutely need it, however, you think you do, you can fill your life with so much more. Women are our kryptonite, they are the opposite to every defense you've got, but my men, my friends, listen, they…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/19 06:05 AM
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I am the most alpha when I am single or dating a girl that I am not all that attracted to. I know how that sounds but sometimes a girl that looks perfectly fine starts to look a little bit ugly over time. I don't know why it is, but with one girl (very pretty) she got uglier over time to me. Like over about 2 weeks, she went from being beautiful to meh. My current GF and I have been dating about 10 months and every time I see her she gets more and more lovely, and I also feel like I am becoming …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 06:42 PM
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we have a 3 month old Congrats! It can be hard to step back and see the bigger picture when things are stressing you out, hang in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 06:31 PM
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I come to this subreddit for all the ridiculous comments, not common sense and reasonable ideas. I think it is easy to conceptualize an idealistic marriage where both partners contribute, but I think over time they still think that one is doing more than the other even though they aren't actually. Like, getting groceries and cooking dinner. Sounds reasonably easy if you have all day, but then the line at the grocery store is super long, that one item won't scan, your car needs gas so you stop fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 05:45 PM
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She is your GF of 2 years. So I understand getting a bit beta. You need to realize your value as a man, your worth, and remember that it is probably just your turn with this girl. Of course, there is always going to be a 10 who is better than you. Always. Even if you are Justin Beiber or whatever wymen want these days? There will always be someone better than you, richer than you, hotter than you, sweeter than you, more funny than you, better lover than you, etc. But you have to convince a LTR w…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 07:18 AM
1

Dude, white chicks are easy. Just be confident, rich, tall, good looking, have a good family, be funny, but not too cheesy, not too tall, not too confident, not too good looking, and not have a family too good that it makes theirs look bad. Got it? Also, at any point in time, that white chick is going to leave you for someone hot and broke with a criminal record because she wants some danger in her life. And then expect you to take her back when she realizes how being poor isnt fun
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 02:44 AM
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For people unaware: I was born in the USA, but I have dated women who are from Eastern countries (who are in the USA) and then I went to those countries with them. I love the USA, but I think that our focus on individual rights is slightly excessive and I love the Eastern focus on communal families deciding on the rights of the family members. For example, a mom and dad have 3 kids, kid 1 at 18 years old, is given first priority to become a high paid dr, so every other kid has to wait a little l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 09:00 AM
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I feel the purple pill is closer to me because I believe in giving to women, I believe we can have successful children, and I am not angry if a woman wants to make her life better. I am only angry if a woman leaves a good man for what she thinks is a slightly more successful man, because he might, at that time, have more money to spend on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 08:53 AM
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This is my experience as well, and why I totally ditched the idea of OLD. I ONLY meet women in person from now on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 06:41 AM
1

Are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 06:47 AM
1

Intelligence is an evolutionary dead end.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 06:42 AM
1

I probably earn more than you too. Do I look like I am bragging? Shall I whip my dick out and swing it around for you? I am just saying that I should be THANKFUL for biology and women because my history is full of men selected for their height, intelligence, strength, wisdom, and looks. You were not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 06:40 AM
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It will be removed, I am sure. I just wanted to have fun. I mean, no one can argue my main point is wrong but I don't know if it breaks the rules. Women select men, and have for ages, so naturally men are going to be better (for women).... It is nature not a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 06:36 AM
1

I work in IT and make 100k+ a year. But that has more to do with being competent, not with being male.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 06:34 AM
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I love women- don't get me wrong. I am just trying to have fun. I hope the mods allow this post to move organically
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 06:33 AM
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So you are kinda proving my point? If women prefer intelligent men over idiotic men, then if ANY of that is carried in the Y chromosome (ANY OF IT!!!) then that will be passed on to Jr who will also likely make successful babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 06:27 AM
0

Sure it is, if you say so. Men are still stronger than women. We are taller, stronger, and we earn more money because that's exactly what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 03:11 AM
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Men are just stronger than women, not more than we used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 03:06 AM
1

Do IQ test show men or women scoring higher? Roughly the same isn't a strong conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 03:04 AM
1

You. You are funny. I like you!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 06:42 AM
2

I know absolutely nothing about purses. So correct me if I am wrong, but they are fabric with a name on them. Seriously if the name is so important then buy a knock off. No one will know but you. The car is not the same. You can't buy a honda accord and say its a BMW M4. It is not the same at all. Unless you are totally stupid and see it as only a mode of transport and it has 4 rolling wheels.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 08:19 AM
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I brought my GF with me to buy a new car. I am a car guy and right now I am after a very specific BMW. But she is annoyed and says, a car is a car is a car. If it gets you where you want, then why do you care about the name? I do not give one poop about the name. It could be called crappy poopface and I would still want this specific car because of the way it drives, feels, corners, and confidence it makes me feel compared to other cars. Yet she only wears Michael Kors purses. I recently found o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 06:36 AM
2

How do you have a positive like count on Reddit? Ah, yeah, we are mostly men here.
/r/MGTOW26/09/19 05:52 AM
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In the past 2-3 years, I have only met women in real life. OLD is a cesspool. My GF I met in real life and I am so glad I took a chance to talk to her instead of wimping out like I used to do when I was younger. The thing is, very attractive women get 1000 creeps online to every one genuinely equally attractive and put-together guy. I didn't realize this until I had friends who were extremely attractive girls. OLD isn't even an ego boost to attractive women like most guys think, it is just borin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 07:44 AM
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You seem like an attractive, intelligent, well put together girl. Where do you think you will find guys who match you? I mean this entirely genuinely with absolutely no sarcasm. I would like to know how you think you will find a guy who is your match?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 07:29 AM
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Yeah, I think women do more research on guys than guys do on girls. I think guys are too visually motivated, and when I was younger, I am guilty of this too, in fact, some of my past is so cringy I can't even believe I was so naive. A wonderful woman doesn't fill her Insta with a thousand pics of 500 different nights out with 400 different guys...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 07:17 AM
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I am a 36 y/o guy, and I have a couple of female best friends who are extremely attractive women(9+) ages 27-38. I can sniff out a fukboi in one picture and the girls I know cannot. They don't even have a goddamn clue until they have a date 2-3 times. And then they see a post of a pic of another girl on IG with her tits hanging out at a restaurant. Listen to me- Girls are all about feelings. They will lie and say no but feelings mean literally everything. Men love numbers and logic and precisene…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 06:07 AM
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This was an example of a girl shit testing Ed, while he reversed it and shit tested her. And she failed. She isn't as high quality as he is even though she might be attractive, he can tell from her response that she isn't assertive enough to challenge and interest Ed. Ed needs a girl that is confident in herself and attractive. Something younger TRP guys can learn is that shit test go two ways. Women use shit tests to qualify a good man and a man in his element can easily flip that and test to s…
/r/askTRP10/08/19 11:11 AM
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Girls are bored. They want you to entertain them. If you reply in a boring way they will move on to the next guy. Don't be boring, don't be average, don't talk about yourself; make moves, be bold, and have a purpose to your life.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 09:02 PM
1

This is very easy to answer. She was willing to go "all out" for someone else. So how does that make you feel when she won't do that with you? If you knew a guy bought flowers, chocolate, expensive gifts, trips, etc. for his last girlfriend but doesn't do any of that for you because he wants to put it all in savings instead, how would that make you feel? If he cringed every time you ordered a drink. Or made you feel bad spending his money when he was so free with it before? If he took another gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 07:41 PM
1

It is child abuse unless you live in a super liberal area, then YOU are the problem. The real horror in this post is that the OP has allowed liberalism into your house. It is a trench that won't end, it is an abyss that will suck everything in. Sorry OP but you are lost if you live in a major city or someplace super liberal. This is normal for them. 8 to 9 year-olds "doing stuff" is normal to them, and they think you're the problem. Literally by bringing it up, you are the problem. Do not live i…
/r/askTRP03/08/19 06:08 AM
3

What I mean is, I stopped meeting women online and I met them in real life, through random encounters in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 05:56 AM
8

This is exactly why I stopped OLD 2-3 years ago and exclusively met people in real life. My GF is the best relationship I have ever had (I'm 36) and I met her in an elevator at work. And she's way more attractive than I am, we'd have never met online.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:18 PM
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“Would you marry someone who looks like this?” You gave a great reply, and I hope people read it all. There are more consequences when a woman has sex; in addition to shaming, she could get pregnant. The stakes are high and that kind of thing is mostly an afterthought for men. Also, men have testosterone, we biologically have a higher sex drive. So for a guy, fewer things "matter" to reach the "end goal."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:14 PM
3

Why do male billionaires have lots of options as far as choosing a mate? They are at the top of the hierarchy that the other side wants. Why does a super attractive woman attract men? Maybe its because she is super attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:32 AM
1

Listen, my chick is a hot, skinny, big boob, small ass, hard-working Asian chick. Sometimes she works (literally) 16 hour days, not including travel. So when I see her, she can be kinda sweaty and smell like ass. She doesn't think so, but it happens because of a long day working in a hospital. Anyway, I just tell her, babe, you're sexy af, but let's take a shower together ok? And that leads to happy times, which are clean (and oddly quite wholesome) because she's still a virgin.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 02:15 AM
-1

I think OP has hit a real nerve judging by some of the other posts. Women expect a lot from men, but women don't want to have any expectations put on them. To even suggest there are any expectations makes you a misogynist asshole. The game is rigged in favor of women, but understanding the game helps you play it a little better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:16 PM
2

Intelligence is an evolutionary dead end.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 07:45 AM
5

Nah, I was that guy. I was a "kissless virgin" until I was 27 years old. And you're right, tbh, the chick that got me out of my shell was a 22 year old chick that didn't know what I was like and I acted cocky af because I was drinking a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 07:12 AM
2

Quality men want quality women. A man who has limited success with women will want a woman who is compassionate to his state. The problem is, these guys usually have huge issues like insecurity and trust issues that are horrible for dating a normal woman that has lots of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 06:42 AM
3

This is one of my favorite subs, because I love hearing both sides argue their "solid" sides like none other exist. It is like a brick wall against another brick wall. Both sides are entrenched and think they are solid. But occasionally I read a true purple explain a little truth from blue and a little truth from red and it resonates with me deeply. That said, most posts are pandering to one side or the other and kinda crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 06:37 AM
2

I am a sensitive guy, read my post history over the years to understand. I went from fully supporting (monetarily, emotionally, and with all my sympathy and empathy to) a girl I adored in the third world. I gave her everything, a place to live, I paid for her higher education, food, support, clothes, medical bills for family, etc. and on and on. I went from BB giver to a guy who women respect and respond to. How did I do this? I demanded respect for myself. It sounds absurd but please listen to …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 07:50 AM
1

Older, high n-count guys can definitely prey on younger low N-count women. Even if the women aren't naive, they don't have the experience that the guy has and it creates a power difference. Most women have a lot of power in relationships and they secretly know it. So when a guy has the advantage, and he is hot, it is exciting to a woman who is usually calling all the shots.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 08:43 AM
3

Bro, sex with a virgin is going to be difficult- she has no frame of reference, she has nothing to compare me against, it will probably suck for a while. But I have had sex with girls that suck in the past and turned them into far better sexual partners. I honestly don't feel scared about it. I know that deadbedroom is a totally legit possible outcome, but I have the courage and confidence to try anyway. Also, the word outcome makes me giggle in the context of this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 08:34 AM
1

Never cheated - not once.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 08:30 AM
1

This is exactly right. You can't follow rules and be a leader. A leader leads because he is competent and knows what to do while everyone else is pulling their hair out trying to find a checklist to follow. A leader sees what needs to be done and just fucking does it.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 07:59 AM
4

My GF is a virgin and honestly, I was initially put off. That meant no sexy time until we get married. But I am enjoying the times we cuddle and the sneaky kisses here and there. I am 36, so it isn't like I haven't dated and had relationships, but I have genuinely never wanted to marry someone as badly as I do now. It isn't about sex, I have no idea how that will be, but I like being with her and spending time with her. I wouldn't say I have a high n-count, but I know what it is all about and be…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 07:47 AM
21

I live in Rochester, Minnesota. I have the unique opportunity to meet a lot of over-educated women paid way more than they are worth. I work at Mayo Clinic. These women are paid a lot of money and are physically attractive, but they want perfection. Like a fairy tale level of perfection in men. They think that a man should be dominant, strong, but also compassionate and giving. There is no amount of balance that can be had. I make a solid 6 figure income and the woman who accepted me and loves m…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre18/07/19 07:21 AM
4

Male. 36. Never had nor want casual sex. I only want sex in a monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 07:26 PM
1

Working harder is better not just for the individual but for everyone. No man is an island.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 04:36 AM
1

There is no solution for income inequality. Go ahead, tell me when you find one. But there isn't a solution to that problem. When you have inequal input you will have unequal output. The math checks out. Therefore, putting in more effort could result in better outcomes. What do you lose by trying? I am not being obtuse. If you have a better solution, I will listen thoughtfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 04:35 AM
2

Yes this is exactly right, if OP is looking for a traditional woman to marry, then that is what he should look for. They are rare, but they are out there. Be careful and avoid low-quality women. I think the whole red/blue pill thing is that women are easier better at spotting high-quality men than men are at spotting high-quality women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 08:31 PM
1

To be fair, there aren't any forums like this. Especially not in China without a VPN tunnel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 08:28 PM
1

You are right, not all men can have a traditional marriage, but that isn't your problem. You can have a traditional marriage if you put in the effort to find a traditional woman to have a marriage with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 08:26 PM
1

I don't think it has to be this complicated. If you want to be a provider then find a woman who is traditional (but not excessively traditional) Don't overthink it, you have to meet the right type of women and they are out there so meet as many women as you can until you find someone you share common values with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 08:22 PM
9

Yeah, I was about to marry my GF because she wants kids and so did I, until I read this post today. Now my entire life view has changed. I used to want to be a dad. I used to want a wife and kids. Now the whole world is falling apart because someone on Reddit said "things will change." Well shit. I honestly wonder about the average IQ of the people who post here and sometimes I question whether these subs are a waste of time, if only it just wasn't so darn interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 07:18 PM
1

most grotesquely fat women seek skinny guys
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 05:44 AM
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It might make you pleased that I have a beer belly, but I don't deny it or pretend it doesn't exist. But I also don't make it my defining feature. I know I have a lot to offer a potential mate and the rest of the world so I don't dwell on it like that's all that matters because I know some people have values and appreciate those skills and values beyond looks. Women like you are mostly after appeasing their friends and looking good to their peers (making their girlfriends jealous) and I know som…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 05:42 AM
1

Nah, I know my weight doesn't make me attractive. I mean, I have made amazing progress, but I won't deny that being unhealthy is unattractive. Self-awareness means facing reality even if it hurts. Luckily, I have other traits my GF finds attractive enough that I am not excluded exclusively on weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 05:38 AM
-1

I am a big guy. I am intelligent, have a good job, and I am fairly social. I am tall so I have that too, but I think mostly being able to communicate clearly and directly was my most direct tool to win over my GF. My GF is a cute skinny Asian chick, and she's "out of my league" but I wasn't nervous talking to her, I was direct, happy, playful, and serious when I needed to be. Having a wide range of voice is also super important in my job at work as a supervisor of around 17+ people. I command re…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 05:32 AM
1

No reason to doubt you, but also no reason to believe you. I am a huge hypocrite in this, as I am a big guy and my gf is very skinny. I swear to god she eats more than I do (and she sleeps all day.) I am active and work out. She must have tapeworms or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 02:55 AM
0

are you fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 02:50 AM
2

My point is, we go and we fight and we risk our lives in a very literal way. We can be cowards or heroes in war. We can take risks and patrol the night or we can be cowards and hope other men are more vigilant than us. When we are in war, we learn our true character. Some men face this reality and die. Some men face it and live to tell the tale to their boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 09:41 AM
2

I have been with women of low value and extremely hot women, one girl I have had sex with and dated was definitely a super high-class woman. She had a good family, wealth, good looks, stellar body, and she was so damn cute and feminine. She had everything, and she was also really affectionate and great at sex and kissing and hugging. But you know why I am not with her? She had all kinds of insecurity and a need for people in society to accept her. So even though I was great for her in every way,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 08:52 AM
4

Men want to be slaves. We crave feeling accepted and needed by women. ​ But women these days have so many options for other men and can get resources from the government. We are useless and obsolete to women who work on their own and can pleasure themselves in any way imaginable. What good is a man other than social status to a woman? ​ Men used to have a defined role in society, the same with women. We have flipped that upside down and now no one needs anything. But men have been inherently dep…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 08:47 AM
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In order to date an American guy, I have to spend like $200 a month on my appearance and also work full-time. And then he will ask you to pay half the date. I agree with your post entirely and I wish I could give you more than one upvote. Men and women are in the west are a lot weaker than people from other parts of the world because we are extremely sheltered and pampered.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:31 PM
5

I met a traditional Asian chick. In her culture, women marry once. It is either a good marriage or a bad marriage, but it is what it is. There is no divorce. True, she lives in America, but her roots are very cultural. I am not a selfish fucking sociopath like her dad? I am not going to do weird shit and have babies with other women. She has literally nothing to worry about from me because I am boring AF and easy to please. I just want her, and her to smile and enjoy my company. And I am a funny…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 01:01 AM
1

Men like attractive attentive women who are engaged in them and care about them. WHAT? If this is fundamentally and structurally debilitating to you, then you are a child and need to grow up. ​ Women like men who are dominant (in some way) and successful. Notice I didn't say attractive. ​ Dudebros are all like "lift" and make "money". Of course, chicks want a guy who looks like a buff dude, but that's only to make her gf's jealous. What really gets her off and makes her cum is the fact you domin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 09:07 AM
9

Seems like you’re saying I should just go with the flow and not randomly vomit out my bullshit Yes, I mean, if you want to tell your girl that your daddy hit you as a child and it made you scared of strong men or something then bury that shit deep inside. Or tell it to a tree and release the hate. Whatever the fuck you gotta do, but don't try to burden your relationship with it. Women are constantly judging you. Comparing you. Calculating your value. And value isn't just monetary, it is social v…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 05:42 AM
16

Hey Man, Don't do this "authentic self" shit. Honestly, try to hear me out. Let's say you're playing with a puppy or even a small child. You might make make exaggerated happy sounds, "who's a good boy?" "Whooooooo is a good boooooy????" right? Are you going to play like that with your boss at work? Fuck no. Is one of you more authentic than the other? Fuck no. If you absolutely must think of your life in terms of actually having an authentic self, think of your authentic self as the best YOU. FO…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 03:46 AM
3

Under-rated creative comment
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/19 06:59 AM
12

The guys I'm attracted to, fuck me, cum on my back face, and leave me to wipe it up. I dated a 9.5 briefly, she told me lots of guys want to cum on her face. And believe me, she is a real hottie. She thought I wanted to jizz on her face? It was what she was used to. The fact she said "lots of guys" turned me right off, but it was toward the climax of sex, so whatev.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/19 06:40 AM
1

A virgin rape victim: She’s “ruined.” From what exactly? Emotional trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 10:48 PM
1

In 22 years, if each woman has only 2.3 kids, we will have a population over 30 people, compare that to the maybe 15 population of the neighboring island and we can take all the genetically different women we want. Rinse and repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 09:52 AM
2

Outside of an island, I agree 100%. You are right. You are absolutely right. I like you brought this to my attention. BUT on an island, with only one man? I disagree. Until the children are old enough to challenge his authority and ability? He is going to lead and guide, and train, and spark all the thinking they need. The deep insights and everything that makes a person who they are, the man will guide and train them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 06:06 AM
2

Society caters to women. Women are valued in society (rightly so, they give birth to babies) One woman is worth more than one man. Hear me out. If there was a fruitful island of one fully functional man and nine women, that island, over time, will succeed more than an island of 9 men and 1 woman. There will be more babies, in one or two generations there will be more defenders, more attackers, more scientist, more philosophers, more adventurers, more everything and basically more children means …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 07:44 AM
1

You are right, it is a short book and it tells her perspective, we can debate how true or not it is, but you can't deny her perspective is fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 05:18 AM
1

AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 07:11 PM
2

they had to prove they can be as vicious as men. So will any woman we give power too. She will feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 03:55 PM
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I read it. I read parts of it 2-3 times. Some of it was just damn amazing and some of it was a bit dull. Until I read that book, I couldn't appreciate how women, in general, NEED the UTILITY of men. As in, men, we are useful to women in ways that seem natural to us. Then I began to understand how some women resent men, because we are like a tool, a hammer or a screwdriver, sure you need it, but do you love it? nah. Some women even resent men for being capable in ways they aren't or won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 02:48 PM
6

My girlfriend has an average job and is a virgin. I adore how she is careful of appearances, plays coy, and is so VERY innocent. We have been dating almost 6 months and I think I am going to marry her (she is 30 I am 36) her n=0 me n=2 People say I am insane, but honestly, why isn't it worth the risk? She seems genuine in every way, innocent, curious, but reserved. How can I find her anything but attractive and fascinating?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 09:20 AM
2

“The Washington Post” “The Washington Post Compost” FTFU
/r/MGTOW28/04/19 03:22 AM
3

The person who screenshot all this and posted it is a hero. That must have taken an hour. On about page 55, she says doesn't want a guy who came from money (even though, she was, teehee) but he has to give up that security and made it out on his own. I mean, did she just read a romance novel of some ideal guy and claim it as her own? No honey, that doesn't make you unique, it makes you unrealistic. The number of times she returns to height being so important is scary.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/19 07:18 PM
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You are forgetting the most important thing, you have to make her girlfriends jealous. You have to fly a plane or save puppies in 3rd world countries or cure cancer. You have to do one thing that none of her other girlfriends "guys" can do, or you can demonstrably do it better.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/19 09:55 AM
4

I think that Jim and Pam are similar to elementary school "crushes" rather than real relationships. Jim and Pam never talk about money or shared goals or kids or whatever. They have fun, share excitement, and laugh with each other as good innocent friends do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 05:55 AM
0

I know this will only give me a headache for engaging this, but I have to out of curiosity, and please, believe me, I respect you as a person and your ability to have opinions but I need to ask you some questions. What is wrong with the concept of masculine/feminine? Does your answer benefit the majority of people? What is wrong with society pressuring people to act how their biology is naturally? As a sexual species that needs to make babies to survive? What cultural norms are harmful? this[rem…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 10:56 PM
1

Is this a joke? I can't tell if you actually believe something so insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 03:54 PM
1

Young women aged 18-25 get bombarded by guys on apps who are older 30+ who have jobs, houses, cars, etc, that a younger guy simply can not compete with. It is no wonder they feel insecure, no matter how attractive they are, they simply haven't had time to succeed yet. They need to realize that they can succeed and get girls younger than them when they do. Right now, they see the top 5-10% of guys getting laid and getting the attention that they aren't and are getting jealous and salty. I wish I …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 06:46 AM
2

LOL, so true. Self-awareness is sexy as fuk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 06:42 AM
2

Epiduo That is one serious drug omg. /s Thank you for replying. The thing is, I think a lot of women look cuter without makeup than with it on. They just don't realize it. My GF 30 y/o, has only worn makeup twice in her life, and it was for her friend's and her sister's wedding. And she's adorable af
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 05:40 AM
2

Hello friend, I just want you to know I agree with you. And the only problem from my perspective is; mankind has the capacity to rise above animals, but s/he often does not choose to. School should teach strength of character, grit, wisdom, and the ability to learn though knowledge as a skill. Instead, school in America is often just Marxist indoctrination.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/19 03:15 AM
51

In other words: do as I say, not as I do...
/r/MGTOW04/04/19 03:09 AM
2

I always liked skinny eyebrows
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 03:00 AM
1

I am glad your self value comes from your work, I hope you make the world a better place and have a great day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:36 PM
1

Do you feel like you are possibly missing out or is it something you don't care about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:30 PM
2

Why do you think makeup trends changed so drastically? I remember the 90s style as well and sort of idealized it probably because those were my teenage years. The man I know who uses make up, didn't one day, and I gave him the usual, "you look sick, are you ok?" not realizing that he has been wearing makeup everyday until he told me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:29 PM
1

NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/19 05:29 AM
3

Related but unrelated, I have begun to understand men and women are totally different- but it isn't our fault, it is simply our human nature or evolution or whatever you want to call it but I prefer human nature. It isn't wrong or right, it isn't moral or immoral, it just is what we have programmed in our genes. It isn't our fault (as men or women) to act the way we are, it is how we were bred, and how our ancestors survived.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/19 05:28 AM
8

Stop being so literal. You are such a guy. She obviously meant <insert emotional bs totally unrelated> and therefore you don't understand!!!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/19 05:21 AM
8

Yeah, but feelings!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/19 05:20 AM
2

You are so amazingly right
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/19 05:20 AM
3

I can tell you how it ends: socialism. There will be more women or womanized men who vote for stupid shit and the society will collapse, as has at least 20 fully functional societies before. ​ Free for me but not for thee. ​ It is honestly just: Human Nature. ​ Left alone with no outside influence, we are animals. We are selfish, we want, it is all about me, etc. We are just animals underneath it all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/19 05:06 AM
5

This made me laugh more than it should have.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/19 05:03 AM
1

I usually meet girls through cold approach, I am glad they are not Purple Pill...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 04:27 PM
6

Hey man, I am overweight, not man-boob bouncing, but close. I approach 8 and 9s all the time. I ask a simple question, usually situational, and I detect if they are receptive. Many times they aren't, over 50% I would say, but at least 40% of the time they are VERY receptive, even if they are married. Girls expect attention but what they value most is that confidence to talk to them and be bold. Not stuttering or sweating or whatever, just be yourself, witty, funny, and talk about life and the si…
/r/askTRP26/03/19 07:06 AM
4

I agree, I think she wanted us to see how beta (pathetic?) her ex was so she could craftily shift the blame on him.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 07:25 PM
4

I am just saying what works for me and my azngf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 05:08 AM
10

Yes, start off the relationship with decent boundaries; be open and honest. Get rid of any woman who tries to play bullshit games. Make it clear you’re not here for manipulation. ​ Keep your boundaries rock solid and you’ll be just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:19 AM
57

She's been ghosted She really likes you and has been hurt in the past (and also probably has high anxiety.)
/r/askTRP06/03/19 04:02 AM
7

My girlfriend doesn't give a shit about diamonds; but making her girlfriends jealous is paramount on her mind, even if she denies it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 08:46 AM
7

The media wants people who have low IQ, don't question reality, are overly emotionally reactive, and don't have their own thoughts. They want people who will follow the herd and eschew people who are independent, like guns, think on their own, want to go their own way, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 08:43 AM
1

Being attractive is attractive. The attitude that you have options is attractive, because if you do have lots of options, lots of people want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 08:40 AM
1

where do you live? If it is near me, I will visit you and help you get girls. Sometimes, you need a guy to go with to show you the ropes, the tiny nuances, the little things, that make all the difference.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 09:31 AM
1

Nice username. I think even the guys who had it all also got bored and don't enjoy life. King Solomon is said to have been ridiculously wealthy, had 700 wives and 300 concubines and yet he still said all is vanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 11:01 PM
6

Just so you are aware, choking is not about restricting air and if you do that you are doing it wrong, it is about slowing blood flow to the brain (temporarily) and then letting it "rush" back. It is not restricting air at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 05:16 PM
3

I feel bad for the bitter guys out there. I think I started to slide that direction, and got depressed for a while, but I somehow realized that no one is going make my life perfect. No one has a perfect life. I can just do the best with what I got and be proud of what I have accomplished. And my GF is amazing, I think finally at 35 years old I am getting my life on track.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 01:33 AM
3

My mom died unexpectedly when I was like 21. She was a single mom and raised me herself and I was totally dependent on her. I had a lot of growing up to do before I could think about dating (although I still met girls and talked to them -awkwardly). It wasn't until i was 27, had a good job, and started to get confidence that I did better. Believe me, if I can do it, you can too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 01:26 AM
5

How did you get over it and forgive them for labeling you as ugly/boring/loser? Everyone is entitled to their opinion, so for me, it is very easy to forgive, also, think about it? Look back at yourself as a teen and in your 20s, did you look like Tyrone? Did you act like Chad? Did you have comfortable money? Probably not, so why would you blame a girl for chasing after the stuff she wants first? I don't blame anyone. Do you regret not dating in college like the vast majority of people? How did y…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 11:45 PM
1

I am American, and when I was 17 I had sex with a 14-year-old. I was a senior and she was a freshman. I was stupid and horny and this girl wanted me so bad that I lost my virginity to her. OK? When I was 27 years old? I started dating after a long hiatus and I absolutely never dated anyone that even looked under 23? I once dated a girl that looked older (about like the 25year-old girls I was dating at the time) but she was 18 (I confirmed she was 18 by her senior prom pictures) and she was so im…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 08:26 AM
15

If a girl volunteers a number multiply it by 3.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/19 08:02 AM
4

I agree, a 12-year-old and 19-year-old look totally different unless she is genuinely an outlier, which I highly doubt. Also, a 28-year-old should not be around a 19-year-old, no matter how "legal" that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 07:51 AM
2

Love is sacrifice. How much you love someone or something is directly proportional to how much you are willing to sacrifice for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 06:33 PM
6

I am perfectly happy accepting that each sex has differences, strengths, and weaknesses. It is mainstream media, feminist, and social science professors that claim there are no differences between the sexes (other than "social constructs.") They can lick my balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 05:29 PM
13

I agree, and the best way to handle this kind of intense eye contact, is (after it gets too long) to wink, move really deliberately, or blow a kiss, or something along those lines that indicates: you saw her, you understand her interest, and you know what to do about it.
/r/seduction05/02/19 08:19 AM
1

Does this mean I can become a puppy?
/r/seduction29/01/19 07:29 PM
1

A week later it turned out I was cucking some poor fuck. Can you tell me exactly what this means? I don't know if I understand all the words here. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/19 07:14 PM
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