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Sex at least once a day for years and years. What percentage of the time does the sex feel "routine" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 03:52 AM
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Not the person you asked, but I have virtually no sex drive. I might find myself actually feeling "horny" like once a month, and even then, I don't really feel the need to do anything about it. At most I might wake up feeling horny and then just close my eyes and fantasize about something, but it usually has to have a plot lol can't just be the sex. Other than that I have very rarely watched porn or whatever for sexual purposes, usually just to observe and/or satisfy curiosities. I also find tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 03:48 AM
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It’s funny because I’ve actually noticed very similar with each of my friend that are or have been in LTRs. They tend to spend far more on their boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 01:26 PM
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I don’t think I would date a guy if he told he was into those things in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 01:35 AM
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Glad to hear it (:
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 11:08 PM
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my dog likes to sunbathe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 10:15 PM
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Ever cheated? how many LTRs?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 10:10 PM
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Happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 10:09 PM
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I get the feeling you are just playing devils advocate, but if a woman doesn't respect or admire a man, any attempts he makes at making her feel "special" will be in vain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 03:51 AM
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I think the key for a lot of these women is specifically enjoying being degraded by someone they admire/respect. Someone worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 03:47 AM
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I think it's because, in a way, sex is naturally more degrading to a woman than to a man. It's not easy to palate being degraded by a man you deem unworthy or otherwise below you. Being degraded by someone you see as equal or better, however, might be much more appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 03:19 AM
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Very little. I suppose of initial attraction I might be more inclined toward a guy that owns are subaru or some freshly dirtied jeep over a guy in a PT cruiser, but I'm not gonna draw conclusions about a person based on his ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 01:24 AM
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R u ok
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 01:54 PM
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That is the primary counter argument. I honestly am not sure i've ever heard another argument for why a high n-count in a woman is bad, except for that it indicates they will be unreliable in LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 01:39 AM
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I don’t know how to best describe it other than it’s similar to why we take joy in things like pranks and jokes, or why we sometimes laugh at people when they fall or trip, but don’t become seriously injured. People are weird in that we take joy in situations that in imitate potentially serious or dangerous situations especially when the reality is that there is no true danger. A lot of girls are into being dominated or rough sex because: the idea that someone they want, wants to dominate them m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 01:26 AM
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If Becky knows the other wives find her husband attractive, I'm assuming they are in communication with each other. And girls are prone to gossip.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 09:51 PM
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Somewhat. I'd say it's more like a misinterpretation. Women, and people in general, like to feel special. Even if the guy in his description is a shitty partner, if other women want him, yet he's married to her, she's going to feel special. Sex for women isn't just about cumming. It's about feeling safe, special, sexy, and connecting with someone you love. If a man is not satisfying that for a women, she'll be less inclined to satisfy him. Also lmao that the dude really thinks neighbors wives ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 09:16 PM
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Sometines more feminine features. If a guy looks overly masculine in the “Super-Man” sort of way, I’m usually not into it. Similarly the typical “cow boy” look is a big no. I tend to like guys that have a style or physical appearance that is more “expressive”, and I think you could make an argument that this is a part of a more typically “feminine” characteristic to put more effort into their style and personalizing their belongings or being more artistic/emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 06:47 AM
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Saw this question and this is almost exactly what went through my head
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 01:32 AM
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Thanks! Now I wanna see a chart for # of LTRs vs satisfaction in marriage vs # of nonmeaningful sexual encounters
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 12:25 AM
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interesting. do you have the source for this study?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 09:29 PM
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Sometimes I feel that way about simply dealing with 1
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 09:08 PM
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I think some people are too pussy to break up so they cheat instead. Or they know that just because they can get someone to fuck them doesn't mean they can get them to date them, so they keep the partner for security and the side pieces for luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 07:22 PM
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Yes. A lot of the people I've ended up liking throughout my life have not been "attractive", but it's hard for me to see them as that because when I like someone they just look good to me. Often times I even end up being attracted to people that are "ugly" when what makes them ugly is some sort of odd, "stand-out" feature. I guess I like strange looking people is what I'm trying to say, and sometimes that means they're ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 07:20 PM
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idk i think this whole relationships are entirely an exchange of commitment for sex is way too general. If you are the kind of person that enjoys companionship and wants to find someone to spend their life with and grow old with, then you have a reason to enter into a committed relationship, and I think there are plenty of men and women that do want exactly this. The current generations are just no where near as big on formalities because marriage really isn't as big of a deal as it once was.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 02:37 AM
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Men compete over petty shit all the time, so idk what you’re talking about. I guess you’ve never been to a bar in a college town on a Saturday night? 7/10 it’s the men that are being dragged out of the bar. Also, men are more biologically inclined to be competitive, about pretty much everything. Women are more biologically inclined to be competitive over men, so I guess it would make sense to see women being more competitive over things that relate to attracting a man. So I think it’s a combinat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 09:40 PM
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preselection I have experience being attracted to men in relationships, but usually because it allowed us to have a no-expectations friendship (which is rare) and because when they’d talk to me about their issues I could see that they were actually a good partner. Of course I never actually pursued them. preference for dominant men I want someone who is willing to take charge when I need them to, but is also not so prideful to forbid me to take charge when I need to. dread game If a guy acts lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 06:36 PM
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dunno if it's really masculine vs feminine. I'd think it's more like traditionalists vs non.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 05:44 AM
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Usually there would be some general consensus based on the most upvoted content, but it's like a constant tug-of-war. My guess is at different times of the day the more traditional-types are present, while at other times, the modern types take over.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 05:43 AM
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She hates to be respected
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 03:32 AM
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Call a jack a jack. Call a spade a spade. But always call a whore a lady. Their lives are hard enough, and it never hurts to be polite
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 03:32 AM
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This sub is so bipolar. Some days it hates girls that have had a lot of partners and others its like "grow up OP it aint the 60's no mo". like why.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 03:31 AM
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Maybe they should be, but they are biologically inclined to be less cautious as opposed to women because for the vast majority of human history (and still in most places around the world) sex is far more risky for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 07:07 PM
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Well he didn't tell me his opinions or his sexual history until after I had sex with him and agreed to be his girlfriend, but tbf i never inquired about it. Just didn't peg him for the type, but that's my fault for not knowing enough about someone before choosing to sleep with them and it's again my fault for choosing to stay with someone despite the fact. The lock and key analogy is stupid and juvenile. Just because one thing goes into the other doesn't make it a useful comparison. I can plug m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 02:41 AM
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I've heard that an intolerance to uncertainty is related to OCD and intrusive thoughts, so it might just be a personality trait that you and many others personally struggle with (not at all saying you have OCD btw). Others may not have these intrusive thoughts nor do they see trusting another person as an irrational leap of faith. It's just a different perspective and way of viewing things. How exactly does one get to this point? It might just be the way that they are or perhaps it required a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:37 AM
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It depends on how well you can deal with uncertainty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:23 AM
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I guess when I said provide meant it to be all encompassing. Protection is something that can be provided. If you really want to get into it you could argue that every woman wants someone to protect and provide for them, but what exactly makes a woman feel protected and provided for is going to vary, sometimes drastically. When I say I'm not concerned for a man's ability to provide for me, I mean financially. When I say I'm not concerned about a man's ability to protect me, I mean I don't care m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:02 PM
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I doubt any of the guys you date are concerned about your ability to protect them or provide for them financially. Nor am I concerned about their ability to provide for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:36 PM
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I hold women to the expectation that they have a vagina, while I don't hold myself to the same expectation. This is a bad argument. Not all "unequal" expectations are unreasonable. (although I'm sure there are some people that might see issue with your expectation lol). I'm trying to say that there is nothing wrong with having preferences. If a man wants to sleep around, but has a preference to only have a LTR with low n-count women, fine. I don't care, but I have my own preference to not be wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:34 PM
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It sounds super fucked up, but I'm pretty sure there are statistics that show women that are victims of sexual assault (especially as children) are much less reliable as partners. Similarly, there are a lot of statistics for anyone that experienced severe childhood trauma, or grew up in a divorced family or otherwise dysfunctional / broken home are also unreliable as partners. I think as humans we often have this idealistic tendency or desire to believe anyone can rise above and overcome their i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:18 PM
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My ex admitted to me he wouldn't consider a LTR with someone that had been with more than 5 men. He had been with 10x that amount. I had been with 0 before him. For me it was a source of resentment that I had to overlook his sexual history whereas, not only did I not have a sexual history for him to overlook, but if I did he wouldn't even do the same for me as I had for him. Wanting to marry non-sluts is a preference. Wanting to be with someone that holds others to different/higher expectations …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:06 PM
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In my experience (of being mostly single throughout my life) guys won’t just be my friend because it’s “too hard”. I’ve noticed, however, when a woman is in a relationship, men seem to have less of a problem being their friend. I imagine the upset is that she probably thought she actually had friends and not just people waiting around for her to be single. I wonder if she’ll get the ultimatum now that she doesn’t have an “excuse” not to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 03:30 PM
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Still need to verify its a recent picture
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 09:08 PM
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Weird if true. Should have weight verification too, though, if they're gonna go that route.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 08:31 PM
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honestly i think your 8 is prettier than your 10, and she's not even wearing make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 04:06 PM
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Nah I’m not dating the guy nor do I have a crush on him. We don’t really have much in common. I think the point of my post is that the first step toward being noticed by women is to be noticeable, period. Simply due to the very fact that he has a fairly loud presence he is going to be noticed by others far more often, and as a result he is naturally going to have increased opportunities. The next step is being noticable for GOOD reasons, and I believe that he is noticed for good reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 02:23 AM
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Women will flock to him because he is a fun, charismatic guy. He certainly will not be every woman's cup of tea, but it it won't matter to him because he will have plenty of options. It's not just girls that like a man that is artsy and funny and knows how have a good time... he is endearing to a lot of people. Classmates and teachers alike. He's one of those people that is unmistakably authentic and charming. I can see how my description of him might not sound attractive, but perhaps it's one o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 07:20 PM
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Haha honestly I hardly notice a guys height anyways, so cant say I relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 06:56 PM
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Actually I got it wrong it’s a horseshoe mustache
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 05:53 PM
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Tall with burly voice. But he’s not the tallest in the class, furthermore there are a decent lot of tall men in that class. I’m sure it adds to his appeal, but I think it’s more likely the height added to his own confidence, which in turn led him to be more comfortable with himself, thus making him more appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 05:50 PM
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In a physics class of about 30 people (maybe 3 of which are female), there is really one guy that stands out above the rest. He always answers the teacher when she asks general questions (often is the only one daring enough). As the others in the class cower in the face of the teachers post-exam disappointment speech, he lets out a hearty laughter at her euphemisms. He stays after class and challenges the professor when he feels something was done unfairly and is not afraid of making mistakes or…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 05:21 PM
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Yeah I guess. In my experience the men are usually way more emotional and quick to fall. The girls are usually just more dramatic. As for the lying by appealing to emotions, I've seen it both ways. Usually just from real shitty men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 06:34 PM
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That makes sense if her actions prove that she hasn't changed, despite what she has said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 06:25 PM
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Well of course. Some men really like the idea of a woman being entirely dependent on them... and some women enjoy it as well, although not as many in the modern age.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 06:12 PM
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men’s actions matter more than their words I mean I agree, but why wouldn’t this be true for women as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 06:10 PM
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I've heard of plenty of men that want it, but not yeah not too many woman. Maybe out in the south or midwest, but certainly not where I live in Cali.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 05:54 PM
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It depends on the woman. If a woman wants to be a SAHW/M finding a partner with a lot of cash flow is gonna be real important. Probably similar for a woman that wants a career, but also a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 05:42 PM
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I like to take physics concepts and use them as metaphors for life... so I believe that everything/one tries to reach an equilibrium state. I think that the more masculine a man is, the more feminine his partner will act to create that yin and yang balance of femininity vs masculinity. Thus, when a man is less masculine, the woman will be less feminine to compensate. I wouldn't say I'd become more "masculine" around a guy I don't like... I might take on some more "masculine" traits around a guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 06:02 PM
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It's well known in psychology that women more often internalize while men externalize. It's why personality and mood disorders manifest differently in men and women. That said there are still a good portion of women that blame society/men for their issues rather than themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 04:43 PM
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Because some people are just super petty and get off on their partner being insecure over them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 02:27 PM
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Could be... but I think it's more of a "people are different" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 02:04 AM
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Love that you're honest about it tho. Do you recognize it as truly a "double standard" or do you feel it is one that is justified?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 09:34 PM
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I've heard stories of shorter guys getting with women taller than them and they like it because they think it is validating in some way. I remember one guy saying something like "other people will think, 'wow this guy must be really awesome to get a girl taller than him". As if being with a taller woman implies that the quality of his character more than makes up for what he lacks in height. Maybe that's just a sign of a man that is comfortable with himself though, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 06:53 PM
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