PM_ME_YOUR_WOES_GIRL Archive

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4	What's a great substitute for handshakes when meeting women for the first time? Lol I'm literallly just having a civil discussion. What's your problem?	/r/seduction	29/10/20 05:17 PM
5	What's a great substitute for handshakes when meeting women for the first time? I think this is overinterpreting things. I never shake hands because I'm neurotic with germs. Has nothing to do with the people who offer a handshake. What that refusal means is also completely dependant on context. It just sounds really defeatist to go "If she doesn't shake your hand, it's never gonna happen". A lot of people I've met were apprehensive at first but warmed up and liked me after a conversation.	/r/seduction	29/10/20 04:34 PM
0	What's a great substitute for handshakes when meeting women for the first time? Well if she aint gonna shake your hand she ain't gonna fuck you So every date should immediately wanna fuck you upon meeting them? What's the point in dating then?	/r/seduction	29/10/20 03:52 PM
14	How to not be a thirsty niceguy simp 101 with Jon Snow Happily married and expecting his first child. What a fucking loser. /s	/r/seduction	03/10/20 11:25 AM
11	So many girls find you attractive, don't focus on the ones who don't Yeah, a lot of girls' problem is that the abundance of men makes it hard to find someone they actually like. So they need to swim through a shit-ton of sea water to find a fresh water source.	/r/seduction	29/09/20 02:33 PM
4	"The guy who fails at the game is the one who goes out looking for women to make him feel good about himself. The guy who succeeds at the game is the one who goes out and makes other people feel good about themselves." - Neil Strauss, Rules Of The Game, p.116 I think it's the best book on male self-improvement I've ever read. I haven't really gotten around to applying a lot of its lessons in a practical sense (you now, because of the pandemic) but it's one of the books that just makes you feel better about everything because of how Manson is able to write out so many things you always knew/suspected but never really thought about/practiced. A lot of things will "click" when reading it, even if you've read other similar self-help books.	/r/seduction	02/09/20 04:37 PM
1	The most common mistakes guys make in the field Letting the woman take the lead. As the man, it is your responsibility to lead the interaction in all respects and make it fun and interesting: you must lead the conversation, determine the activities, and even determine the physical locations of your bodies. Women want men to lead. If you fail at this, you are not attractive. And if she insists on leading, she is probably not attracted to you. Hard disagree. Yes, most women prefer to be led but the ones that like to switch it up from time to ti…	/r/seduction	07/07/20 11:35 AM
2	The most common mistakes guys make in the field You're creating a false dichotomy here. You can be confident and still let the woman take the lead. Not everyone who does so is a "weak, passive, lump of pudding". I don't disagree that most women want the man to take the lead (I resent the outdated term "alpha" but I know what you mean in this context and mostly agree) but saying that as soon as you let the woman take the lead you are 1. a loser and 2. the woman isn't interested is bs.	/r/seduction	07/07/20 11:29 AM
0	A line that drastically increases sexual tension... for me Exactly my point.	/r/seduction	22/06/20 07:07 AM
-1	A line that drastically increases sexual tension... for me Less douchy things to tease Her about? Well of course! The entirety of the conversation you'll have w someone is going to be longer than just 3 lines. That's what I mean. Don't jump on the most easy neg because there's an opportunity to tease her. During the conversation, enough moments for fun teasing will present themselves. Stuff like the "Do you have a boyfriend" line seems very tryhard and not natural, which is also a huge turn off for many women who have long seen through old-school PUA me…	/r/seduction	21/06/20 02:44 PM
-1	A line that drastically increases sexual tension... for me I didn't say no teasing. I just think that there are less douchy things to tease her about. "Do you have a boyfriend?" "Noo:)" "Yeah I figured" The above seems like a canned neg.	/r/seduction	21/06/20 12:29 PM
8	A line that drastically increases sexual tension... for me Nah, man this is 100% old-school negging bullshit. Just be normal without insulting her, unless you've built a rapport where light teasing is already the norm.	/r/seduction	21/06/20 10:36 AM
3	If "work on yourself and women will come to you" is advice that works for you what the fuck are you even doing in this sub? Fair.	/r/seduction	19/05/20 07:45 PM
2	If "work on yourself and women will come to you" is advice that works for you what the fuck are you even doing in this sub? And camp B might need to work on their mentality (feeling calmer etc. - often called inner game) as much as what I think you suggest (learning and internalizing specific advice for navigating scenarios). While you should of course always try to become a better person, I'd argue that learning specific advice is way more helpful for camp B. Firstly because it's easier to apply and less abstract and secondly because it is more reliable. Having a few helpful tips at hand can help you despite your an…	/r/seduction	19/05/20 07:44 PM
3	This community fucked me up. Fuck this place, just get out there and focus on being the best guy you can be and girls will come naturally You do what you want to, do what makes you happy, you develop yourself as a person, and you build confidence. And girls love confidence. ...is solid advice and should be enough for most people but it isn't for everyone. If you're a socially inept robot like me, no amount of confidence or happiness will make you magically good at flirting.	/r/seduction	19/05/20 03:36 PM
2	From Virgin to Dating a Fitness Model: My Process It also destroys you when you strike out.	/r/seduction	08/12/15 03:57 PM