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You’re back!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:11 PM
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I fit a lot of these even the heterodox libertarianism, but I'm curious what the specific key issues she's holding as sacrosanct are? Libertarian-adjacent people are a disagreeable bunch, finding someone who's going to hold even a couple of similar views will be difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:24 PM
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Damn... What were you referencing, I thought this was a shoe in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:22 AM
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Not to be confused with Attention is all you need: A Zoomer's guide to collecting Simps. Follow up paper: Rethinking Attention with Performers: How performative Simpery provides more gains. (this one was a stretch) I got a reddit cares for this, thank you concerned research assistant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:07 AM
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I don’t think anyone here is arguing that asking questions is an effort… that’s like normal conversation skills. The discussion here is whether or not tailoring a date to someone’s interests because you want it to go well is work. You’ve already admitted you wouldn’t go on a date with someone who picked a date idea orthogonal to your interests but seem to be unwilling to admit that them tailoring a date to your interests is effort… If it takes no such effort, do you tailor dates to the guys who …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:18 PM
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Fair enough, what size city do you live in? In mine each neighborhood has their own vibe, restaurants etc, so while I keep abreast of my current neighborhood’s new venues I definitely don’t do it for others. Mostly let friends fill me in on theirs. But if some lady is from a neighbor I had no friends living in, that makes it a bit more difficult to know a place. You feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:06 PM
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If you actually want to improve and aren’t just doomposting then here’s how I did it. Go find hobbies with a welcoming atmosphere and a more even gender split. Nerd adjacent hobbies like board games, book clubs or DnD groups tend to have better gender ratios than SE, are still fairly analytical and are social. Going to meetups or groups there will help you learn. If you are more adventurous, rock climbing, hiking, and Ballroom dancing are great welcoming hobbies, ballroom in particular is useful…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:01 PM
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So you concede that it does take time and effort to set up a date, and your only complaint is that all the men you’ve dated know when to ask controversial questions to determine how to date you? Lmao really can’t stop and weakmaning and ad hominem ever can you? Makes you come off as insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:39 PM
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So you have on your dating bio all the things you don’t like, all the activities you think reflect badly on someone? In addition you bring up contentious topics about guns, politics, or race cars in the first 3-4 days of talking before you meet? Because if not it sounds like you are judging him on the date he picks and if it doesn’t align with what you want to do, you consider that an incompatibility worth not going on a date. Sounds like there are some pretty high stakes on him planning a good …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:24 PM
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Lmao I know what ramen is, I just don’t think noodles are a really nice first date. I want an excuse to dress up!! Haha. Yay! Let’s do Tuesday, tho brunch on a Tuesday is crazy! You are wild, I’m not that wild yet. Sorry I don’t really drink liquor or beer, I’m more of a wine mom already. What does Time out say about wine bars near me?? Look I personally think that approach is fine, you are putting in more effort than she is and you should mirror her energy. But I also only date one person at a …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:15 PM
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Lol really I thought people competed to say the least about themselves. You’d definitely think so after the 90th bio saying “the best way to ask me out is by asking me out” Did not, I here I was locking them in a room and talking at them in 6 hour increments. Might try it your way, wise, non-spiteful straw-based question dodger. So when are you going to answer my question without a straw man?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:51 PM
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Not entirely sure if you are replying to me or not, but I’m 26 and I date people from 23-29 and I tailor my dates to something I think she would like. Yes, the great ones will suggest another time or place if they have an objection. Because that is showing basic levels of interest, but I’ve definitely had women not do that while still being very interested, because they were shy, or didn’t want to come on strong, etc. but for every woman that’s just shy or not great at conversing, there’s one th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:06 PM
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I don’t date fancy, demanding, high maintenance women. But I do try to tailor my date suggestion to something my date wants to do. Which is work, I don’t really get why you think it’s not. I wouldn’t drag my friends to something they wouldn’t enjoy, I plan things that I know they are interested in doing. If this hypothetical guy that’s taking you out suggests a nascar driving event or maybe the gun range and a movie, and you don’t care for that, are you going to accept even though you don’t want…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:54 PM
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Wow, guys don’t put any effort in anymore, he couldn’t even plan a date that we’d both want to go on. How hard is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:10 PM
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I’d love to, but I’m busy Friday, how about some other date. And I’m not in college anymore so I’d like something nicer than ramen. I’ll do this roleplay too, you be the guy and I’ll be the average woman I deal with on OLD. Because all of your comments always seem to have a distinct lack of empathy for the other side
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:05 PM
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This would either work great or be a total disaster, it's spicy enough that I might try it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:37 AM
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Fair enough it was probably a footnote. I doubt on the boning though, she was a virgin when i met her, got into a 2.5y relationship with another catholic, and was still a virgin when we fwb however briefly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:36 AM
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I'm incline to agree it might be a scarcity thing, but it really only happens with nerdy girls. Normie's as partners are a dime a dozen, I'm conventionally attractive enough that I don't have problems there. It's the mutual interest thing thats tripping me in this case, we were intimate every weekend for 2.5 months, went on dates, whole nine yards, it's hard for me to think mutual interest just evaporates like that especially since we still talk every day... Doesn't help that my ex-chad bloop fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:34 AM
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Honestly, the thing I dislike the most about myself when it comes to dating is how quickly I fall for someone if they are my type (nerdy/quirky/Smart), meet even half of my standards and give me even a little attention. It gets the romantic in me so down bad. I was recently dating this girl who met the above, we were both leaving the city we were in and we had know each other for a couple years so we thought “why not try something short and fun” We didn’t even have sex, just were very intimate i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:04 PM
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There’s a name I haven’t seen for a bit. I wonder if we say his name 3 times he’ll drop schlong pick on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:18 PM
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Yeah, I definitely didn't agree with many of her takes but she was articulate, and didn't stoop to normal the normal sjw attack rhetoric, which was very refreshing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:54 PM
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Dakru and Dora_bowl are definitely top 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:31 PM
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That’s a great meaning particularly with the aegis aspect of the helm. I love a tattoo that’s has a good story/meaning behind it. How’s you settle on it? Do you have a norse bent/ancestry?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:15 AM
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What’s the story behind the the AegishJalmur tattoo?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 02:55 AM
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Well newsflash I'm a guy and I think you're autistic AF. people consider casual friends to be friends and if you are talking about close friends, I've never had them explicitly ask. you just start to bond by sharing more and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 11:55 PM
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If you want a great quality, emotional anime watch To your Eternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:08 PM
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So this is the what the zoomer hordes look like
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:37 PM
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Ngl the Cosplays were great, if a little mainstream anime for my taste. Some people put some serious work into it and I admire the dedication to displaying ones interests as best as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:36 PM
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You were definitely one of the people whose opinion I wanted to hear when asking this question. Why? is the cross-dressing aspect too feminine? Is there a like for how feminine or submissive a guy can be for it to no longer be attractive for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:34 PM
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Interesting, while I'm inclined to agree to calling that shy and submissive, why is it considered shy to want to break social norms? Yeah some of my lady friends actually said it was gross when they saw it. Which was weird because they are into the Alt scene so I partially expected someone else who likes breaking social norms to be into that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:53 PM
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So the exhibitionism of doing it at a convention is the limit for you? Would you be fine with it in private? Follow up question, do you consider someone wanting to wear a maid costume a signal that they are shy, and submissive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:26 PM
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I mean we allegedly have self-professed chads who are great at sex, People with mega-hot significant others while they are plain, and various other semi-far-fetched claims. why is a small subset of people who have alternative taste so hard to believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:24 PM
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I went to my first ever anime convention this week with some friends of mine who are into cosplaying. The people watching was great, but one thing that I found particularly different than I expected was the number of men/boys in maid costumes. Like only a maid outfit, which wasn't from any particular anime. A friend told me they were "femboys". They weren't particularly feminine, not any makeup that I could see, several had beards. They were just youngish, slim guys in maid outfits. Now, I know …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:06 PM
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I have a ballroom dance recital with a routine I've been working on, super stoked for it. And doing some board games at a cafe tomorrow night.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:21 PM
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Are you not also dating the guy for his looks? If he showed up to the date unkept, neckbeard, smelly, and disheveled are you suddenly ok with continuing to date him if he pays? Personally, looks are a threshold, once you clear it, it's all about personality and values. Any modern guy that wants an equal, is also going to be looking for your finances, do you have a stable and workable career etc. He's not a nonprofit either. No one modern guy wants to date a broke woman who can't handle herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:20 AM
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I think the trick here is to let them get the next one, and then go for something cheap. I've done it where I pay for brunch they get the ice cream after, or I get the ingredients for cooking and they pickup the beer. Makes them feel apart of the date without actually forcing them to abandon their pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:58 AM
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This sounds like a "you" experience, I don't think I've ever sat across from a woman I was on a date and thought anything other than "Would she make for a good relationship or a life partner. I think you might want to reevaluate the men you go for. The misandry is pretty strong in this one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:54 AM
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At this point I'm pretty sure everyone has a different opinion on what strong and independent actually mean. But both of these women have prestigious careers making above average salaries in my city, interesting hobbies, friends, and what generally seems like stable lives insofar as I have seen. I don't think they really worry about dating, we were just discussing our preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:41 PM
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You might like one of them red, the older one is pretty curvy. The young one is hot but definitely not your type.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:59 PM
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And also Making him feel wanted, showing that you are interested in him, illustrating that you want to be in a relationship with him/are welcoming to the idea if its early. Letting him know you desire him either and not just sexually but emotionally, mentally. I'm asking what you do specifically, not just nebulous things like "I make him feel wanted" Throwaway has a good example answer below. Only if it's the only measure. If its the only measure I definitely agree, but I think it also depends o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:57 PM
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Seeing guys willingness to pay to see how interested they are in making a good impression and charm you, is a good litmus test tbh. From conversation and interaction with my fraternity friends in college I would disagree and say a good number of guys see paying and being charming as the price of admission regardless if they want a relationship. It becomes a real Goodhart's Law sort of situation. It also seems that we have agreed on a definition of investment then. If paying is the metric for sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:27 PM
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Thank you for your thoughtful answer and for how you do it. I think your strategy is good and while I don't entirely agree I would definitely find it acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:20 PM
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Which part is confusing? If its what investing means I answered that below.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 06:50 PM
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Making him feel wanted, showing that you are interested in him, illustrating that you want to be in a relationship with him/are welcoming to the idea if its early. Letting him know you desire him either and not just sexually but emotionally, mentally. That sort of thing. The same thing it means for a guy to invest in a woman he wants to date/court/marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 06:49 PM
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I think they have some trouble, the older friend is in her late 30s and is still unmarried, and the younger one just got out of a toxic relationship with a man 16 years her senior. Addendum question for you, what would you consider appropriate as investing in the man/relationship? I know you've said in the past that you expect the man to pay on the first date, so what is your favorite way to show you are invested in him?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 06:44 PM
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Qall: I was talking to some of my lady friends the other day about dating and how you show investment early on(First 1-4 dates). They were of the opinion that letting a man pay for you on dates was the same thing as investing in him/relationship and that no additional displays of effort are needed. I find that baffling. So wise sages of PPD, are my friends entitled or just smart?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:21 PM
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Of course don’t you rip up books you love?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:15 PM
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I SERIOUSLY RECOMMEND! that book made me tear up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:57 PM
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This is a Becky tier comment. Real hot girls read Dan Simmons sci-fi masterpiece: Fall of Hyperion
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:52 PM
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Or you know, just pay teachers more, which would incentivize quality teachers, no need to pay one gender more for the same work.
/r/MensRights14/12/18 07:48 PM
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There was no hit job for Gorsuch because the dems had nothing to gain, There was no way they could stop his nomination for 2 years until the mid terms. There is a chance they could hold up Kavanaugh's until the mid terms and maybe retake the senate. Its about picking your battles, even though this is a shitty hill to die on.
/r/MensRights03/10/18 05:11 AM
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Can’t agree more
/r/MensRights24/09/18 05:17 PM
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