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| 1 | Girls who used to like youThat’s what I figured, she must just see me as high value and respond in kind. Perhaps breaking the ice was just a lot easier (which is what made it seem so easy) since she already knows me and doesn’t have to do the same “who is this person” vetting that happens when you meet people you don’t know. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Is this a successful response to dread?I put in an edit but while we were fucking last night she said if we were to break up she’d be down for a threesome first, lmao | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Is this a successful response to dread?Well first of all, none of this involved me saying I fantasized about m EX. I said that back when we were together I had the opportunity to have a threesome. Second of all, flirting with other girls (even in the presence of your LTR) and in general displaying a bit of a wandering eye is absolutely a way to show your LTR that she better behave and that you don’t have oneitis. Not the only way, but one of many | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Is this a successful response to dread?Yeah you’re right, I guess the thing is I just usually don’t have to do much, we get along pretty well and usually she behaves. But then I start to feel weird after a while of not having to do any of this shit... | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Is this a successful response to dread?No no, the threesome idea was with my ex gf, with this one I’ve never talked about it before this. Uless you mean still try... lol | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with LTR and she’s not shutting him downNice logic there bud | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Need help deciphering GF’s actionsI have been a good balance to be honest. I have definitely been alpha, and toned a few things down to better suit the LTR style. We had a talk yesterday and I believe I made the boundaries clear. I am feeling a bit better about how everything went, although obviously only her actions will tell... | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Need help deciphering GF’s actions100%. But how do I deal with this when the excuse will be “well I’m trying to not be rude! I told him I have a boyfriend.” This is frustrating and makes me just want to dump the bitch. This kind of dodgy behavior along with the “I think I love you” used as a tool to distract me from the situation, makes me think maybe everything she does is insincere. It’s a shame. In such a short time I went from “She’s great, 6 months and no issues at all” to viewing her as untrustworthy and disrespectful, and… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Need help deciphering GF’s actionsExactly. I’m not unreasonable and jealous/controlling. She can talk or hang out with friends who are guys (she’s a senior in HS still so yes it’s normal to have guy friends, especially since most guys are beta pussies). But not shutting down a guy flirting with her? Unacceptable. It means she’s keeping her options open, which means she’s not devoted, which makes her a liar when she pretends to be. I don’t spend time on liars. This is a hard boundary for me too. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Need help deciphering GF’s actionsYeah the other day I posted about the first part, now the update is that she tried to divert attention away from the topic by telling me she loved me, and now I’m not giving her much attention. Sorry for the half repost but if I edited this new info in nobody would see it, the post was dead already Anyway, maybe that’s true. The guy doesn’t have much SMV though from what I can tell. I’m also in military training but also getting a degree and will be an officer not enlisted (much better job). If … | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with LTR and she’s not shutting him downThe dude is less attractive, younger, less educated and has a worse off future than me. That doesn’t change the situation. You may interpret it a certain way but that doesn’t make it true | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with LTR and she’s not shutting him downI understand. So what do I do? She is over at my grandparents today with my family and I havent been talking to her much. I’m just kind of annoyed with her. How do I make it clear without seeming jealous (which I’m not in any way, I’m just disappointed she’d disrespect me)? I’m being rather cold. I guess if she asks me I’ll say I’m disappointed she’d flirt with someone else and then flaunt it in my face. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Guy flirting with LTR and she’s not shutting him downLeave my dependa alone :( Actually, fuck. If Jody wanna spend money supporting a hoe, let him | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with LTR and she’s not shutting him downHonk honk, we’re living in a clown world. The carnival with no end | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 07:50 PM |
| 3 | Guy flirting with LTR and she’s not shutting him downYeah. I am very disappointed in her. She hasn’t ever done something like this before and I thought very highly of her. It’s a shame she has to show me she’s just like all the other attention seeking whores out there. I guess it’s a wake up call, I’m just happy I’m red pilled enough to see it for what it is. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with LTR and she’s not shutting him downTrue. Very true. This is really good advice. If she asks why I’m acting different I can literally just say she’s shoving the fact that she’s flirting with other people in my face. Thats literally what she’s doing and it’s weird and not right and disrespectful. Fuck that sort of behavior. Who fucking does that anyway | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Guy flirting with LTR and she’s not shutting him downTrue that. For what it’s worth I don’t really have arguments. I don’t think I’ve had an argument with this girl in 6 months so far. Arguments waste the time, energy, and resources I could be putting into myself. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with LTR and she’s not shutting him downConsidering this, but feel like it might he too obvious. She could get super upset and then start playing games hardcore and the whole thing could go bad. Or it could go bad anyway. Or it could be good. This one’s kinda a gamble. But it asserts dominance... fuck. Decisions, decisions | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 05:57 PM |
| 6 | Guy flirting with LTR and she’s not shutting him downYou are totally right that I’ll probably never win an argument with a dumb fucking female. I’m stuck between being straight forward “cut that shit out or I leave” or withdrawing and feeling like I’m playing a petty game. Withdrawing is useful, but I’m not sure if it’s the best for this. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Does this increase dread / raise my perceived SMV?The next day I told her I wanted to fuck, she dropped her plans with a friend to come over so we could fuck, and thats when she told me what her friend thought of me. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Does this increase dread / raise my perceived SMV?Listen, the problem here is that I gave a situation as the basis of my question. You guys can choose to believe me about the situation or not, but if you think I’m somehow lying, then there’s no real point to answering to begin with. I asked a question relating to friends of an LTR and how their opinions affect her perception of me. I never once in my original scenario said the word joke. I don’t think I told one joke throughout the whole several hour interaction I had described. Then comes a du… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 05:50 AM |
| 0 | Does this increase dread / raise my perceived SMV?No. When girls like you they giggle at everything you say, even when it’s not funny. I’m not being a jester, I’m not cracking dumb jokes all the time. Just typical negs that if a beta said them, would make them angry. I’m making fun of the girl and she likes it because she thinks I’m hot. You shouldn’t he giving advice on AskTRP if you don’t understand this concept. I’m sorry you are obviously salty and have never experienced this. It really shows in your post. A girl can’t openly say to her fri… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 09:55 PM |
| 2 | I’m 18.5 in high school, is it wrong to tell girls on tinder that I’m 19ITS A TRAP | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 08:22 PM |
| 4 | Any tips for maintaining a healthy relationship?This is all true, however like you said - you slipped up by letting that bad behavior pass, then she got comfortable. I understand it man, with my last LTR I saw it happening too, and I made a lot of mistakes. I see now how quickly things turned once I made those mistakes. Bottom line for me: if she’s trying to change me or beta-ize me, then she’s with the wrong person. If she wants someone who behaves differently, she can go find someone who behaves differently. If shit gets to the point of her… | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 10:03 PM |
| 16 | NoFap and TRPMake sure his name is tyrone too | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 11:59 PM |
| 2 | LTR admits to openly flirting with guys to “finesse free drinks” They love to claim their behavior as innocent. Should I next?Is she doing this while you are together or admitting to have done it in the past? If it’s current, you shouldn’t even be asking this man, obviously if she does this she doesn’t respect you and that behavior is totally unacceptable. Use your head dude (the one on top of your neck, not the one on your dick), it’s a massive red flag. If a girl really likes you and sees you as someone worthwhile she would NOT even entertain this idea. If it’s in the past, that’s still trashy behavior and not a sign… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 03:35 PM |
| 0 | Plate has boyfriend - how to handle?Stop being thirsty/desperate and go find a chick to fuck that doesn’t have a boyfriend. You really like being a vulture getting that sloppy seconds? If you were trying to fuck my GF you might have to be careful not to get your ass beat before I drop her ass for being scum, and you can expect that I’m not the only one - what I’m saying is that it’s just not worth the drama and potential risk that comes with trying to put your nose inside the stinky anus of another man’s thot. Besides, she’s a hoe… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 07:04 AM |
| 1 | If a girl says I love you firstHave considered this, I always do this approach though when she tells me “you’re so hot”, I usually go “I know” and then keep making out/fucking. Don’t want to overuse it, I hate feeling like a broken record player | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 03:16 AM |
| 0 | If a girl says I love you firstYou are misinterpreting what I’m saying so you can give the canned response of “read the side-bar”. I do whatever I please, on this issue I legitimately don’t care about saying it or not, I’m entirely neutral. With that in mind, my question is what is best for keeping interest? My point about not wanting to explain to her was really just that I don’t feel like creating unnecessary drama to deal with over something that I honestly don’t really care about | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | If a girl says I love you firstOh I know, it’s not really an issue for me, but if it is an issue for the other person then it becomes one. Technically money is just green paper... | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Pet names/nicknames?How endearing! | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend said some things during sex...I have an insatiable sexual digital urge for askTRP and nothing can fix it. It cannot be quenched, it cannot be tamed. It can only be delayed, extending my life but a small bit longer before the monster inside claims full and complete control of me. It is a tough and rugged life, but a burden I’m willing to bear. Feeding my addiction is the only way I can get through the day. Please, send your prayers | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend said some things during sex...Nah, I’m good | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 10:56 PM |
| 0 | Girlfriend said some things during sex...I mean, it would be ridiculous to pretend like there’s really any possibility of her having no partners after me, so yeah. But at the moment she’s my little toy, however in the future? The best thing I can do is to make it so that when I’m not around anymore, nobody else can compare to me and she gets upset because deep down she knows im the best... | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 10:39 PM |
| -5 | Girlfriend said some things during sex...Did you miss the part about me asking for advice on how to respond to these things better? Or did your jealousy get in the way? | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend said some things during sex...Yeah, you see I feel like talking about a Siberian midget would have ruined the mood a bit. But I see where you’re going with that. To be honest I was a little distracted by sexual pleasure, otherwise I may have thought of something better, and it sorta caught me off guard | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Is my girlfriend telling the truth on her past sexual experiences?Nope, but I care if she’s lying because I don’t want to waste more time on someone who won’t tell the truth. I’d like to know so I can decide if I should hard next or not | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Is my girlfriend telling the truth on her past sexual experiences?Honestly not at all, if she’s lying then I’m going to dump her right away because I’m not going to waste my time with people who are dishonest. The situation is just hard to tell | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Is my girlfriend telling the truth on her past sexual experiences?Haha she wasn’t loose at all, she just came right before, so she was nice and ready. Im 99% sure she was a virgin. Before we actually started having sex I’d take my tip and rub her clit with it, and the first time we did it she was unsure because she was afraid that it wasn’t safe. As in I don’t think she knew a lot about the subject. I had to assure her nothing could happen (pregnancy wise) unless I was actually inside her. I was the one who asked if she’d ever been eaten out before me, however… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 12:46 PM |
| 0 | Is my girlfriend telling the truth on her past sexual experiences?Why are you assuming I don’t know what I’m talking about? I have read everything and have been here for years. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 10:05 AM |
| 3 | Girlfriend looking for comfort - how to proceed?That’s because I answered in another response and I’m in college classes right now so I can’t spend a ton of time responding to someone randomly claiming the girl I’m talking about has psychological issues based on a fairly large misinterpretation of my original post. She’s barely 18 | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend looking for comfort - how to proceed?Truth. Happened with the last girl too, however this time the foundation for everything is much better. Doesn’t mean there’s no point in doing things right. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 08:49 PM |
| 13 | Girlfriend looking for comfort - how to proceed?You are her daddy. Your little girl comes to you crying. You sit her on your lap and ask what’s wrong. She tells you what’s wrong and you reassure her everything will be okay. She wipes her eyes and now she feels so much better because daddy says it’ll all be fine. Then you tell her to run along and slap her ass on her way out. She loves her daddy. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend looking for comfort - how to proceed?Hey man, I get it. For a while I thought I wouldn’t get a chance. She’s a bit younger than me so I wasn’t planning on something like this happening, but that’s the world. I understand where you are coming from. Keep your head up. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend looking for comfort - how to proceed?You’d be surprised what girls will do for their alpha, especially after taking her virginity. She could be lying. Or not. Anyone could be lying at any time | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend looking for comfort - how to proceed?Yes she is religious and until recently actually wanted to wait until marriage. I don’t actually care about sleeping around and would prefer exclusivity in the first place, I just wanted to make her think she worked for it. I wasn’t sleeping around anyway because I’m so busy with my own stuff I legit don’t have time to spend bullshitting with girls. If things don’t work out the solution is simple, I break up with her. She’s a senior in high school, barely an adult. The thought of marriage or kid… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend looking for comfort - how to proceed?1) I was focusing hard on myself and a girl wanted to tag along and fuck me. Problem? 2) She happened to be a virgin. I know her ex, he’s religious and wanted to wait till marriage. She’s really into me so she loves when I fuck her. Problem? Are you jealous? 3) She took plan B afterwards and from then on we have been and will continue to use protection. I knew the risk. Problem? 4) In all the time I’ve known her she’s only briefly talked about something that’s bothered her twice, and only on my … | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend looking for comfort - how to proceed?That’s kind of a big assumption you are making... She doesn’t often talk about problems and complain, and when she does it’s very brief. She obviously does not want to bother me too much. I was only asking on advice for when it does happen, which isn’t often. I’d actually be fine telling her if she wants to talk about stuff that’s bothering her, that I don’t mind. It’s pretty clear she doesn’t want to bother me. She’s definitely not dragging me down anywhere | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 07:20 PM |
| 0 | Girlfriend looking for comfort - how to proceed?Oh I know that for sure, but the chances are much lower. The sperm would have to stay in her for over a week, which is a very low probability, combined with the fact that I never came in her in the first place. Pre cum actually has negligible amounts of sperm in it. I think making her first time amazing worked pretty well, considering she told me “we’re doing this again, you don’t have a choice”. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 07:14 PM |
| 7 | Girlfriend looking for comfort - how to proceed?Girls don’t listen to advice given unless they specifically ask you for it. They don’t want it, they just want you to listen and tell them everything will be okay. If you offer advice you are just wasting your time and wasting their time, and you’ll end up frustrated because they won’t listen to it at all. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 07:06 PM |
| 14 | Girlfriend looking for comfort - how to proceed?Can I ask why you’d say that? She has both parents, has a decent relationship with both of them. I don’t really get any shit tests. She wanted to be exclusive before fucking. AWALT, but I don’t see many red flags so far. You’d be surprised what girls are willing to do for a guy who takes the lead and can actually do his part in the relationship. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend looking for comfort - how to proceed?For sure, I only did it that once, i’m not planning on doing it again, and she’s clean. I was rubbing my tip on her clit and she was so turned on, I asked her if she wanted me to push in and she said yes. She just had her period so the chances were low already, and then she got the morning after pill. I figured she should feel it naturally her first time, and damn it felt so good. Made her cum beforehand, so she was so wet there were no problems. Despite being a virgin she did a great job, didn’… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 06:46 PM |
| 7 | Girlfriend looking for comfort - how to proceed?For sure, I never offer advice and won’t unless it’s a situation where she specifically asks for it. I’d rather not waste my time. That’s why I usually go with the “Aw, that sucks! It’ll all be okay, missy. Come over and I’ll distract you...” sort of thing. Make her feel better and comforted and then associate her feeling better with fucking me. She does tell me I make her feel safe when she’s near me. Could you explain a bit more about how to feed her lines of empathy without seeming like a bet… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Got my kicks on the carousel of dicks, now give me that ring before the final bell ding.Thousand cock stare. There’s nothing behind those eyes | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/11/18 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Telling girl you’re proud of herSo you know who the Fuhrer is... ...and you know what memes are... ...but the concept of Fuhrer memes evades you? | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 09:09 PM |
| 35 | Bitch this ain't Uber Eats, lolThat’s great. I’m not saying it’s a good thing, it’s definitely not. It all depends on what you prioritize in your life. Communication in our native language should usually be somewhere close to the top of the list. | /r/MGTOW | 23/11/18 11:21 PM |
| 4 | Bitch this ain't Uber Eats, lolI concur. | /r/MGTOW | 23/11/18 11:16 PM |
| 57 | Bitch this ain't Uber Eats, lolTheir whole community tends to have trouble properly communicating in general. Immigrants born across the world can come here and pick up our language fine, but those whose families have been here for nearly 300 years still can barely speak and write. | /r/MGTOW | 23/11/18 11:15 PM |
| 17 | Does the true nature of women turn you off?Bro it’s not gay if you say no homo, don’t let anyone tell you other wise. It’s okay bro. I love you bro. No homo | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 04:38 AM |
| 0 | Girl wants exclusivity - helpGirls are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment. That’s blue pill? Why should I give my commitment so I can get strung around with no return on investment? | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Girl wants exclusivity - helpYou are correct in all of this. I am overthinking this way too hard. I’m just used to the massive loathing of LTR’s common to TRP (I myself only really entertain the idea with virgins to begin with), as well as my own experience getting fucked over by an LTR of 4 years in the past. I know anything is possible and that she could be totally fucked up or end up totally fucked up in the future. As long as I maintain frame, hopefully it won’t be too bad. Do you think I overdid it with the “But if I’m… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 04:17 PM |
| 4 | “Are we exclusive?”You could say any LTR is a trap, but then again was my parents’ relationship a trap? It produced me and a nice traditional family that’s still strong to this day, so it can’t all be bad. But I do see where you are coming from. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 06:12 AM |
| 2 | We can’t keep our hands off each other?You are misinterpreting what I’m saying, I didn’t mean that we have a hard time leaving each other when it’s time to go, I meant we were laughing that we can’t keep ourselves away from each other physically when we are together. As in, touching and making out, we have a hard time pulling away. That’s not co-dependence, that’s just being very sexual. Being very sexual and constantly fooling around with a girl is a “bad first impression”, because she might complain later that we... what, aren’t to… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 09:48 PM |
| 5 | We can’t keep our hands off each other?Good advice, I am definitely going to try to escalate to sex soon. I doubt she will put up too much resistance if I warm her up first... she has a hard time saying no to me. But I guess I’ll find out. Keep in mind there are still things she hasn’t done... She hasn’t swallowed a load from me (or I believe anyone) yet, and we established she would during our next date, in a day or two. She said she’d “hold me to it”, and that she’d be a good girl for me. I said “I hope you do hold me to it, you’ll… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 08:19 PM |
| 10 | We can’t keep our hands off each other?The calm before the storm. I must become the rock | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 07:51 PM |
| 5 | We can’t keep our hands off each other?For sure, I am keeping my distance emotionally - at the same time I am definitely enjoying her. I know there are no exceptions, so I’m keeping my game up and not letting my guard down. Haven’t got any shit tests yet, and she seems to be eating me up. She seems very invested in me, although you can never know for sure. My body is also in great shape, and she enjoys that for sure. Just because this is happening I will not stop self improvement. Thanks for the advice my dude | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Being sweetI would use that excuse to come over but I can feel her pussy drying by just imagining saying “would you like me to bring you some soup?” Or “let me bring you some soup” Regardless, we already had plans set for Sunday, and trying to worm my way to her place before then would just seem needy IMO | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 02:26 AM |
| 3 | How to proceed with virgin, LMR/ASD tips?Thanks man! I am not against the possibility of a relationship, just extremely skeptical. So it wasn’t a total lie, I just have to see how it all goes. I try not to be cruel - and perhaps that will be my downfall one day, but as for now, everything seems to be going according to plan. Thanks for letting me know I’m on the right track. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Texting convo initiatorScreams faggot, huh? If she’s not thinking about me, why is she initiating every time, double texting, non stop compliments to me, etc? You do not know the circumstance, usually I would agree. Your attitude is what screams faggot, because you are trying so hard to prove you are better than other people it looks like you are really insecure | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Texting convo initiatorDo you really believe that all women will sleep with you with little to no comfort built first? Direct is good, but lately I have firsthand been getting a lot of “we went too fast” from girls, and my game has been on point, and my body and looks are great, so that’s really a symptom (IMO) of not enough comfort built. I’m talking like a few texts in a day before going dark and then asking to hang out | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Texting convo initiatorI wouldn’t call that triggered in the slightest, it has been debated many times on TRP about using texting as a form of game, and I am not a social media or texting kind of person. Sometimes you can use it lightly to great effect, especially nowadays with younger people | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Texting convo initiatorDude chill out, I’m 20 and she’s 18, it’s 2018 and building small amounts of rapport over text with a girl this age is the norm, it’s not like full blown conversations, just light flirting while we figure out the next time to hang out | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Bro code autism editionI like this comment a lot, this is very true. Especially the last paragraph, really hits home. Thanks for this | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 05:55 PM |
| 5 | Bro code autism editionAh, the ol’ blanket parties... Too bad those things aren’t really a thing in cadetland, it would probably be very beneficial to the program if they happened | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 07:17 AM |
| 7 | Bro code autism editionI’m going down the rabbit hole boys, where’s my harness? | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 07:13 AM |
| -3 | Bro code autism editionYour question is totally valid, actually the whole thing with him getting weird was after the party, because he got jealous. From what I understand it’s option B. She very well may be crazy, but the dude had wacky religion shit going on and I think he basically didn’t fuck her because he was doing the waiting till marriage thing and that combined with his low SMV made her cut ties, and then he got super jealous because I’m everything he can’t be. I think the girl just wanna fuck and not used to … | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 07:12 AM |
| -5 | Bro code autism editionHm? Bro what are you on | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 07:01 AM |
| -3 | Bro code autism editionMaybe this is why they don’t let chaplains carry guns... | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 06:56 AM |
| 0 | Bro code autism editionSquad was taking bets the other night whether he would kill someone or lose his virginity first. Kid want’s to be a chaplain so probably will inadvertently drive someone to suicide... so my bet was on the killing | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 06:53 AM |
| 15 | Bro code autism editionIdk man I think I’d win in a shootout, it could be fun. It’d be like the hunger games, but without the prize and one person has down syndrome | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Haven't been out for years.. how bad is it?You’re a fucking psycho dude, get help before you shoot someone or something | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Virgin says “We went too fast, let’s just be friends”Just got it for 4$, will do | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Virgin says “We went too fast, let’s just be friends”You’re right, I don’t have time to play games so I’m just gonna ask her out again and if she wants to then great, if not, NEXT | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Virgin says “We went too fast, let’s just be friends”She said it in person, I was just friendly and said “alright, thats fine. See you around.” And gave her a joking pat on the shoulder before leaving. Like I said, I didn’t have much privacy, it was just outside our ROTC military science building. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Virgin says “We went too fast, let’s just be friends”I definitely made it clear I would have fucked, I only cuddled because I enjoyed it, IDGAF if it’s beta, I chose to do it for me. Maybe it sent the wrong impression, who knows. It’s not like she had any other experiences to compare it with. Whatever, nobody’s perfect, I’ll do better next time I guess. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Virgin says “We went too fast, let’s just be friends”Yeah bro should I wait to ask? | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Virgin says “We went too fast, let’s just be friends”Damn, thanks though. Ima go shoot right now to get my mind off shit. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Virgin says “We went too fast, let’s just be friends”P.A. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Virgin says “We went too fast, let’s just be friends”When should I ask? Now? Wait? Haha bro just got a custom AR, come buy some 5.56 with me and lets fuck some shit up. FYI I haven’t got my name tape issued yet, pls don’t complain to my 2nd LT, he knows. It will be a wonderful bromance | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Virgin says “We went too fast, let’s just be friends”Should I just say “lets hang out __” and when should I ask? Wait? Or nah? | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Virgin says “We went too fast, let’s just be friends”I suppose you’re right. But is that really that big of a fuck up that it’s over that fast with someone this naive? | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Virgin says “We went too fast, let’s just be friends”Alright, will do. Thanks for the advice. Should I include the other bullshit or just ask her out again? If she says yes as “friends”, do I just ignore it and escalate like normal? | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Virgin says “We went too fast, let’s just be friends”Bro I honestly didn’t feel like getting walked in on in a female only dorm either, and I tried to take off her shirt anyway and she didn’t want to. She literally hadn’t even had her first kiss yet. It’s understandable she didn’t want to fuck on the first date but I made my intentions clear, pushed, everything went well and we got sexual. You really think thats it? I can guarantee I didn’t come off as a pussy. It’s a little different IMO when the girl is literally this naive than when she’s alrea… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Virgin says “We went too fast, let’s just be friends”Her roommate was gone but she was afraid the girls next door (shared bathroom) would walk in because she said they have a key and do it all the time, and usually it’s fine because she’s usually not doing anything. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Virgin says “We went too fast, let’s just be friends”I was thinking at just ignoring the friend thing. She let me be the first guy to make out with her and tough her and she loved it. But make another run how? I haven’t chased her at all. Do I wait for her to message me again? The message I was thinking of saying would make it clear | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Virgin says “We went too fast, let’s just be friends”Is this supposed to pull her back in? If I should just next her I’m just going to next her. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Virgin says “We went too fast, let’s just be friends”I’d like to smash but she seems like decent LTR material, however I’m not wasting my time for something that’s not working. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Virgin says “We went too fast, let’s just be friends”We could have been walked in on and it was not a good time. I tried to get off her shirt and she didn’t want to. What else was I supposed to do? | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Did I do something wrong? Help needed!Thank you very much, I really appreciate your answer. I have been focusing on myself a ton the last several months and had been pretty happy until recently where some of the workload between classes and ROTC is getting to me. I have no interest in ONS and had been pretty much going monk mode until this thing naturally popped up out of nowhere. AWALT, however girls can still be different from one another, and the fact that she hasn’t done anything yet is something that I actually like. You don’t … | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Did I do something wrong? Help needed!I know it’s not luck and you are misinterpreting what I meant, what I meant is that you can’t expect to just hang out with an 18 year old never-even-kissed virgin for the first time and expect that you are going to full blown fuck her that day. Of course it’s possible, but some things do take more than one day. So with the fact that we could have been walked in on, that she was actually trying to get me to leave, and that I had already made great progress, I figured to leave it there for the nig… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 10:31 PM |
| 1 | TRP is working - Tips on how to escalate with possible virgin?Bro I do know the downsides of virgins, I’ve been with them before lmao. It’s just my preference. But anyway, you’re right, if she likes me and I’m going too fast she will still like me. She’ll just want to wait a bit. As opposed to going too slow and losing the girl entirely. As long as I don’t fuck up by acting like too much of an ass and give her an excuse to be all “oh he was just using me for sex” bullshit, cause that can also drive decent girls away sometimes. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 02:27 AM |
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