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| 3 | Any other married men in this group? | Conversation | PM_Teeny_Titties | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 05:45 PM |
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| 2 | Are women after 25 harder to game?I found dating in my 30s that it was harder to do a cold pick-up, but most first dates turned into a physical encounter. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 01:24 PM |
| 36 | How to approach someone who fucking balls their eyes on you.Is this english? | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Have you asked anyone “I wanna fuck you now”?Was at a houseparty and met a woman at the drink station, and we started chatting. She was mid-story when she commented, "Am I boring you? You seem lost in thought." My answer was, "Sorry... I was lost in thought about how much I would like to see you naked." She blushed, and then we fucked later that night. | /r/seduction | 22/09/25 02:11 PM |
| 1 | How is it that I got most of my best girls while unemployed?Make a run to Target or a Whole Foods around 10 AM. Cougar Central. | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Watching pron and wasting energy instead of going after girls & goalsGet out of the house. | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 07:04 PM |
| 11 | How do y'all judge while texting if the girl is intresting enough to hangout with?Texting is a weird communication method to "get to know" someone. You need to get IRL ASAP. | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Possible to date younger girls 22-30 when you re a 32 yo guyWhen I was 30-32, I was dating 24-26 year olds pretty regularly. As I was in a "man whore" phase of life, I found that we aligned better on what we wanted out of the situation. The times I got involved with women my age at the time, they all wanted to rush to marriage & kids. While I did want those things, I didn't at that time. Then halfway through 32 I started dating a 28-year-old. We've now been married 14 years. | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 07:06 PM |
| 110 | How is it that I got most of my best girls while unemployed?You're not as tired. You probably have more free time to be out & about. | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 12:43 PM |
| 2 | How Soon Is It Appropriate To Ask A Woman To Hangout After Matching On App?If you don't make an effort to meet up within a week of matching, you're wasting your time. | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 01:15 PM |
| 2 | WHAT EXPERIENCE PROMPTED YOU TO OVERCOME MR. NICE GUY SYNDROME?Invited a girl to a wedding, got her flowers, paid for a hotel room... then she fucked a groomsman. Realized that I can't get the girl by being nice and hoping for something. That I need to be open about intentions and try to escalate. | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 12:14 PM |
| 2 | How to approach a doctor ?If she ever gets reported. And it's "losing". | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 05:32 PM |
| 1 | How to approach a doctor ?It violates the code of ethics for healthcare providers. She'll be a risk of losing her license - don't put her in that position. | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 05:23 PM |
| 3 | How to approach a doctor ?As long as you're a patient, you don't ask her out. | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Can Someone Please Explain The Point Of Negging…..The original idea of the neg was to show that you aren't putting her on a pedestal, and that it "disarms" her from her normal course of behavior. If she's attractive, she probably has guys simping all over her, and a comment that isn't 100% adoration shows that you're different. In practice, almost everyone does it poorly. Many guys took it to be "say something mean about her", instead of not saying anything positive. One example is talking about her nails. A good neg would be, "Your nails are i… | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.On point #1, I was at a bar where a waitress was wearing a t-shirt with a funny quote on the back that was related to an inside joke with some friends. When she came back with our drinks, I asked if I could grab a picture of her shirt. Then I showed her the pic to make sure she was okay with it, as I was going to send it to a group text. She was incredibly thankful for me asking and letting her review. Her comment, "I wish more customers were like that." Makes me realize how often she must deal … | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Why isn't dating a winner-takes-all game?And isn't that fucking obvious? That's the point of dating... to make a connection. | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 08:22 PM |
| 17 | Why isn't dating a winner-takes-all game?How high were you when you thought this was a good post? | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Too many men approaching women?"dabbling in real-life approaches" God, this makes me feel old. What other types are there? | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 12:30 PM |
| 1 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sAmen. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 06:27 PM |
| 1 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sTo be fair, some of my best fucks have been with 4, 5, and 6s. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 06:15 PM |
| 5 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10s"Stop chasing 10s. Bang a 4. Bang 5. Look at the gratitude on their face. Be the best part of their year." | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 01:37 PM |
| 201 | She Was a Feminist. I Told Her I Do Daygame. Here’s What Happened…And everyone clapped? | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Would you hit up a hookup from a long time ago?Shoot your shot! | /r/seduction | 10/06/25 06:06 PM |
| 3 | How to win against physically attractive guysLike chess? | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 04:50 PM |
| 2 | When is it time to ask on a date?Talk to her, get her number, ask her out. | /r/seduction | 03/06/25 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Women with ugly duckling syndrome are superiorIn college, my roommate's girlfriend's roommate was a very fun girl, but very insecure because she was overweight. Because of the overlap of our relationship, I was always nice and friendly to her. Ran into her again at the wedding of the roommate/girlfriend, and she had been focused on herself for a few years and was drop-dead gorgeous. We got to chatting, and then she said I was one of the nicest people to her during college. She mentioned she always thought I was cute but had been too shy to … | /r/seduction | 30/05/25 01:14 PM |
| 2 | I need advice about EDI don't know about your dosage. But one of the great aspects of Cialis is that it's effective for 72 hours. Take a pill on Friday morning, and that's it. I'm a man in my 40s and take 5 mg daily. Helps with blood pressure and gives a great pump at the gym. But I can easily skip doses for a week at a time and still get erections. | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 12:28 PM |
| 18 | Never hear about "negging" anymore. What other ideas that used to be popular here have become outdated?I don't think negging is "outdated", it's just that it was so poorly done. So many guys focused on the "insult" part, not the "playful" part that it turned into being an asshole. Example: Going to make a comment about her manicure/nails. Bad example: "Did you do your own nails? They look messy." Good example: "Those are some interesting nails. Why did you pick that color/style?" With the former, you're being a dick. The latter is a case of not directly approving/worshipping the nails. Instead, y… | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 12:26 PM |
| 2 | I need advice about EDThe combo of condoms and your self-induced mental pressure, you're going to have some issues with orgasm. Try going a few days without masturbation. See if she's willing to finish you off without a condom, e.g. handjob, oral, etc. | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 12:19 PM |
| 27 | Oblivious cock-blockerHe wasn't oblivious, he thought he was being a "girlfriend." Also, if you aren't winning him over, you aren't winning her over. This could be a gay friend, another friend, etc. You need to impress the group. | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Period sexI will have PIV sex while she's on her period. Just put down a towel. I'm not giving her oral, though. | /r/seduction | 09/05/25 05:18 PM |
| 2 | How do you handle being cockblocked by a girl’s fat/unattractive friend?You need to win over the group. Plus, if the girl you're talking to sees you disrespect/disregard her friend, regardless of size, then you're putting up roadblocks for yourself. | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 06:36 PM |
| 3 | The Game or The Models?"Try to work on your inner game and overall self empowerment." This is what I always tell men looking to "get better with women." It's a simple game that if you improve yourself, you'll get better... at life. If you're a fat slob with a dead-end job living in a basement, you'll never have success with women. But if you start to improve yourself, then your chances improve. Once you're at a point that you're at least a little attractive to women, then you can start using "game." | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Confidence isn’t thinking you’ll win. It’s knowing you’ll be fine if you don’tConfidence is a realistic view of the outcome, and knowing that things may not go your way. I'll use an example: I'm a smart guy, half-way handy, but not a true "handy man." Recently, my dishwasher was having issues with draining. Using the information I had, I did some internet searching, watched a few YouTube videos on the part I determined need to be replaced, and felt I had enough information to move forward. I was confident that if this was the issue, I could replace the part and have it be… | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 06:32 PM |
| 91 | What’s it like to date a woman who constantly tests a man compared to one who doesn’t?Wouldn't know. After 3 bullshit tests, I'm out. | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 05:36 PM |
| 8 | People who do PUA stuff .Do you get good results?I'll caveat that I've been over-the-moon happily married for the past 13 years. But got into The Game and Mystery stuff back in 2006ish. I was already working in sales, so I just saw it as another sales technique, but designed for selling yourself. With that in mind, I made a few tweaks to how I interacted with women, looking it as a process. It worked really well for me. Hell, I still use some "pick up" techniques in my relationship now. Negging, multiple locations, physical escalation, etc. Ke… | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 04:39 PM |
| 7 | How to Keep a Conversation Going After a Compliment or Opener?In my example, M would be for "Marmot". You should hear me go on for 20 minutes about those lovable rodents. | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 08:37 PM |
| 10 | How to Keep a Conversation Going After a Compliment or Opener?I forget where I learned this trick, but I went through the alphabet and assigned a topic to most letters. A - Animals, B - Beach, C - College, etc. If I ever felt there was a lag in conversation, I would look around the room and take the first letter from the first thing that caught my attention. Lamp = L, Table = T, Chair = C, etc. Then ask a question about that topic that let's you share a high-value story. | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Talking to women at the beach feels dirtyShe's nude by her choice. | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 03:43 PM |
| 0 | A woman decides in the first 5 seconds if she likes you or not, True or False?"Likes"? I would agree with that. Dating, sleeping with, relationship, etc... would be longer term for the most part. | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 12:30 PM |
| 81 | How does one respond to a girl saying “I am feeling horny” in text?"Show me" | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 07:09 PM |
| -7 | My Freshman Year In College!What is with this formatting? | /r/seduction | 06/03/25 01:52 PM |
| 3 | What percentage of guys have actually picked up a girl in a bar at night and close the deal at the same night?I have - several times. | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Did anybody use Tinder to make friends with women and turn them into wing girls?My best wingwomen were former hook-ups. | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Any other married men in this group?The basics: escalation, multiple locations, time constraints, etc. But more importantly, always improving myself: reading, gym, classes, hobbies. | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 01:28 PM |
| 147 | Her Story Made Me Rethink Everything About Dating"I realized I wanted this girl to have a good experience with guys for once." Tread carefully here. You're white knighting and assuming that all her experiences with men are due to the men. She keeps getting herself into these situations, which means she keeps making poor choices in life. | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 01:15 PM |
| 15 | Girl I am talking to has been with a friend of mineIf she was with my friend last night, I would be wary. But in the past? Don't care. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 07:09 PM |
| 2 | How do you setup a second date especially if you didn't sleep with them on the first date?Yes and no. Happily married for 12 years, but continue to date her. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 07:07 PM |
| 5 | How do you setup a second date especially if you didn't sleep with them on the first date?Exactly - I would have 2-3 choices of a 2nd date in the back of my head. Even if we had done multiple locations on the first date, and when I made plans for the 2nd date, I would secure time/date/location. It's almost like a pre-emptive move, and it builds a bridge between the dates. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 06:05 PM |
| 12 | How do you setup a second date especially if you didn't sleep with them on the first date?If the first date is going well, set it up before the end of the night. "This has been great, and I would hate myself if I went home without already having plans to see you again." | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 05:41 PM |
| 1 | How to be good in bed as a woman?Be enthusastic, communicate what you want, and be willing to receive input about what they want. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 05:40 PM |
| 7 | How do I ask a girl if she's down to hook up?She's down - this is on you to fuck up. Make plans to be local to her hotel, which will make it easier to head back there. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 01:23 PM |
| 3 | How can you tell when a girl is ready to go back to your place?By asking. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 12:57 PM |
| 25 | How do you get as many hookups as possible?Don't forget the hostess | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 01:03 PM |
| 2 | How do you get as many hookups as possible?If you're looking for a quantity of hook-ups, just lower your standards. | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 01:03 PM |
| 5 | CunnilingusThose guys are idiots. Those are probably the same guys that say you should only have sex with virgins, because if you have sex with a non-virgin it's the same thing as sleeping with other dudes. | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 12:58 PM |
| 2 | How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties?Get out and exercise. You can control that. | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever seduced a coworker?Was out with a co-worker after a break-up with a toxic boyfriend. I commented that she should be treated better for how great she is. She said, "At this point, I just want someone to eat my out." I offered, she accepted, and it became a regular thing. | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 03:30 PM |
| 0 | how is cold approaching not showing lower valueThis is as logical as saying you shouldn't kiss a woman who already kissed a man in her life, because that would be gay. | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Getting sucked into a relationship when only wanting FWBIf everyone has clear boundaries, then it should be fine. When you suddenly find yourself apple picking and celebrating a 10 year anniversary, you got a relationship. | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 01:38 PM |
| 1 | What job profession have you seduced the most and why?Nurses, retail, and marketing | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 06:57 PM |
| 2 | How do i approach girls at the gym ?Pilates, spinning, yoga, CrossFit... | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 01:28 PM |
| 2 | How do i approach girls at the gym ?I found it was easier in group class settings as opposed to a cold approach. CrossFit, spinning, yoga, etc. There's a natural interaction period before & after class. | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 01:27 PM |
| 1 | ModelsThis was generally my approach style. Was at the bar, and this cute girl across the bar caught my eye. Next time I went to get a drink I was standing next to here. I simply said, "I saw you from across the bar, and you just seem to have a really fucking cool vibe." She hit me with the, "I have a boyfriend." "He's a lucky man. Sorry to bother you. Just had to shoot the shot." She was surprised that I didn't push back on rejection. Then she said, "But you should talk to my friend." Funny part, is … | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 07:45 PM |
| 1 | ModelsIf you haven't met them, how can you be in love with them? | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 07:42 PM |
| 5 | Asking former coworker out after all this timeIf the only way you're connected right now is SM, hop on, browse some of her recent posts, and then hit her with a DM. "I'm not on here too often but you popped in my feed today. Your recent post from (reference something recent so you're not creepy) caught my attention. I realized we haven't connected in a bit - let's catch up." | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Tips for kissing a specific girl"Kiss the girl." - Sebastian the Crab | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 06:35 PM |
| 1 | She wrote to me saying I’m playful/such a teaseIs this comment from the 1950s? | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Should I tell her my real age?Why does it matter? | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 06:15 PM |
| 6 | She’s looking for a new bed base because its broken."Well, I hope we don't break the couch" | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 02:13 PM |
| 2 | I fucked upWhat do you mean "get her back"? By your own admission she was chasing you. Why not on trying to find someone else that meets the same criteria? You have a case of "one-itis", where you started imagining a perfect life with her before you even got into a relationship. Stop thinking of her as "The One", and just realize she is one person. If there aren't similar women in your life, then change your life in a way that puts in you more contact with the women you desire. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 07:00 PM |
| 1 | How to stop giving a F?Have you considered therapy? | /r/seduction | 04/10/24 12:11 PM |
| 1 | How to stop giving a F?With regards to what? | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Can you make up for missing out on casual sex in your teens/early 20s?Yes - you start having casual sex at your age. Maybe up your game from McDonald's and smoking weed. | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 01:52 PM |
| 52 | What actions make a man look like a creep? And what’s the difference between a guy checking out a hot girl vs a girl checking out a hot guy?Even attractive guys can be creeps, but they at least get a chance to be a creep with their personality, whereas "unattractive creeps" get pigeonholed by looks alone. A female friend of mine matched with a conventionally attractive guy on Tinder. They chatted for a few hours. Then she asked "So what are you into?", and she meant it as hobbies, activities, etc. He immediately responded with "I'm into having my tongue in your ass." She unmatched immediately. Then there are the attractive guys that… | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 03:43 PM |
| 1 | should skinny fat guy try getting a partner or he should prioritise getting in shape firstJust work on yourself | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 05:41 PM |
| 11 | Why she kissed me but refused to give me number?She was out to have fun, but didn't want to bring anything home | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Never go on Dinner DatesNot sure what the issue is - you decided that eating was more important. | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 03:32 PM |
| 8 | Holy fuck. American girls are incredibly masculineYou just described my dream girl. | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 06:31 PM |
| 1 | What’s your Body count?Hit 50 at the age of 32, been there ever since | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 03:21 PM |
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