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IMO you can totally turn a hoe into a housewife. (If she wants that.) There is no inherent quality in religious girls that make them better/kinder, although they often are. By the same token, many party girls are perfectly sweet, lovely women, and many church girls are not particularly kind or nice. PS I would not mention that you are autistic to potential beaus, and I would keep your past to yourself. Don't lie about it if asked, but no reason to bring it up.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 07:06 PM
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That would probably be fine, obviously it's a case by case basis situation. But they are the exception, rather than the rule.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/21 04:15 PM
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I think that it is 90% just about selling more underwear to overweight women... At a certain point, there just aren't enough healthy women in our society to support a business that sells clothes only to them at normal prices. However, the more expensive the brand, the slimmer fitting the clothes, and that applies to lingerie as well. I don't see a lot of overweight models on the La Perla site.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/21 03:28 PM
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You are mistaking correlation for causation. For one, for HVM as defined by this sub, educated and professional women are certainly the most demanded. I'm not here to toot my own horn, but I would be unlikely to date somebody who didn't have a bachelor's degree, for instance. For another, even if some of them weren't, the reason why would be that they are not willing to prioritize family life over their career. But it is entirely possible to have a career, and then reduce that as part of your li…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 05:12 PM
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Is it a PhD program that will take you 2 years or a PhD program that will take you 5+ years?
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 12:55 AM
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You sum it up nicely. I think people overstate the desire of men for a "demure" woman. Yes, I want a woman who is comforting to be around, but if I'm choosing someone to spend more hours with than any other person, I want to choose someone with interests, hobbies, etc. Having some degree of financial freedom is also nice, but it is so important to be able to just wile away the hours chatting about your interests. A lot of women on this sub seem to think that men just want to hang out and talk ab…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 12:51 AM
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I strongly agree with this. None of my (male) friends (mostly also male) are looking for a partner with nothing going on. Demonstrating that you are a capable and competent person is important to most potential partners. I have a successful career, so do most of my my friends, but that doesn't mean that as a family it's good to always be completely reliant on one partner for income. What if I got sick, etc.? What if there was a huge economic downturn and my company folded? Etc. etc. What men DON…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 12:08 AM
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If you're not taking care of children, why would you be able to just stay home all day?
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/21 02:25 PM
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Then why does it matter if he can support a family in the future? Unless you're planning on just being a stay at home wife with no kids, which seems like a recipe for disaster.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/21 02:28 AM
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Lol at your post on /r/sugarbaby. You very much sound like you want a free ride much more than you want to be "wifed up", or be part of a loving and committed relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/21 07:37 AM
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Most relationships work best when there is one type A person and one type B person. There is no reason that you can't be a fairly type A woman and have a happy marriage with a successful type B man. IMO people on this sub overthink the leader/subordinate roles in a marriage. That's more or less what I desire, but I certainly wouldn't want to marry someone who I didn't think was capable of leading and making good decisions (after all, what happens if I die)? I think women on this subreddit who ar…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/21 12:28 AM
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The most important thing that you can have, which you DO have control of, is your body and the rest of your appearance. Go to the gym, lift weights, do cardio, get in great shape. Go from there!
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/21 04:02 AM
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He might well be a little bit shy, or nervous about scaring you off. Men are mostly pretty starved for physical affection.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/21 06:25 AM
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Well, most women are unattractively overweight by their mid-20's, so don't count yourself out!!!
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/21 07:39 PM
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Are you worried because you feel that you are too tall?
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/21 04:58 PM
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The best thing that you can do is to be thin. Are you thin?
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/21 06:00 PM
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Honestly, it sounds like you have it pretty good. Life is full of weird quirks and surprises. You could marry someone now who seems like a great bet and is similarly type A to you but who, 5 years into the marriage, starts cheating on you. You could marry someone who seems more reliable but doesn't have the same high salary. If your boyfriend is attractive, kind, and makes a healthy salary and you're 25 then IMO it's time to cash in your chips and get that marriage and kids going. Presumably you…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/21 11:16 PM
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Hmm "I (21F) have been seeing this guy (23M) about couple of months. I like him and I believe he likes me back. We have hung out for about 2 months every weekend but lately has just been texting me and has not made any plans even though I made it super clear that I had fun date ideas though I didn’t straight up told him that. So he knows I want to see him. The reason I haven’t just asked him to plan a date is because I don’t want to make him uncomfortable and get him to do it because he’s nice a…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/21 03:55 PM
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You aren't super specific, but there are a lot of guys in the Bay Area who make plenty of money working in tech. It might take a little while to find one who is conservative, but most tech guys are not super duper liberal. Hard to be when your tax bill is high.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/21 03:54 PM
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Degrees are important to many men, and for most white collar workers it would be a borderline dealbreaker to not have a degree. Why? Degrees are a clear sign that you have your head screwed on at least mostly straight, and generally that you're from a middle class background and share their kind of bourgeois values. Very few men make the amount of money needed to support a family of 4, let alone more. And even if they do and want to have a SAHM, they want somebody who has some proven ability to …
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 06:08 AM
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I agree with you, completely! However, the number of men who don't ever view pornography is vanishingly small. (Especially after the pandemic, wfh, etc.) It's a bit like saying that you will only date or marry someone who make more than a million dollars a year. Yeah, those men are out there, but it's much more realistic to have the expectation that your man not be totally porn brained and recognize that pornography is generally bad for the people who use it, the people who make it, and society …
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/21 03:43 PM
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The most important factor is whether you are thin and not fat. If you have joined the gym to lose weight, I strongly urge you to begin watching your diet religiously and ruthlessly. One very hard gym session will burn about one peanut butter and jelly sandwiches worth of calories.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/21 11:09 PM
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I actually completely agree with this take. IG is bad for everybody.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/21 10:59 PM
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What did I miss? And I am a man,trust me there are p l e n t y of women with anger, addiction, and pornography issues. It is not a problem that is strictly confined to men. There is a broad atomization and breakdown in American society, and it manifests in a number of ways. For instance, the rates of alcohol and anti-depressant use for young women is extremely high.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/21 10:57 PM
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It will be extremely difficult for you to find a man who doesn't ever view pornography. Like, borderline impossible. It isn't unreasonable to ask that your partner not view pornography often while dating you, and certainly while living together, but honestly if that is your dealbreaker then you are probably in for somebody lying to you about their porn use or somebody with a very low sex drive. And if a man has many of the qualities that you want - let's just assume that you want someone attract…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/21 10:36 PM
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It isn't that martial arts is bad for you, it's the idea that women should pick a man based on the fact that he does martial arts. Again, there's nothing wrong with martial arts - not really my cup of tea, personally, I lift and cycle and run and hike - but it ultimately doesn't have a huge amount of practical benefit. For one thing, 90% of the times that you are in physical danger from someone it's because they have a weapon. And there are many other risks in life. It is almost certainly a bett…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/21 08:59 PM
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There's no one size fits all set of questions to measure compatibility. You should be able to tell whether you feel compatible with them or not without too much effort. In terms of questions to suss out whether they fulfill what you are looking for in a partner - gainfully employed, healthy, etc. - try not to make it feel like an interrogation. Don't forget, you need your boo to like you and if they are also looking for something long term, you don't want to plant the seed in their head that you…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/21 08:26 PM
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Martial arts lol.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/21 05:08 PM
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Additinally, the beau of OP is doing a foreign master's program in a much wealthier country, primarily (I gather) for the purpose of career advancement and possibly a move to that country.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/21 11:28 PM
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Well, if you've only been seeing him since February and he's planning on hopping on a plane... Also, if his business is so successful then why is he going abroad to do a masters? Are you in a developing country and he wants to make contacts in a developed one? And why are you a teacher who is still studying? Do you not already have your teaching degree, or you are working on additional qualifications? Either way, are you sure that the man is on the same page as you in terms of continuing your re…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/21 04:06 PM
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Wow, what a mess of a town. That's really awful. I'm reading a book right now, a memoir, and much of it is spent describing the author's childhood in late 50's, early 60's Southern California. It really sounds like it was a paradise then.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/21 07:00 AM
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That doesn't always work, something to bear in mind. How long have you been seeing the fella?
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/21 06:58 AM
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If you're in your mid-30's already, OP, I would be cautious about waiting another year for someone. Now "Mid-30s" could mean 33, or it could mean 37. Very different ages for women. I think that people are really overstating the number of "successful" men who want a wife who is a SAHM. (Rest of this post is not really regarding OP, who has a career, although not a super lucrative one but not a bad one either. Certainly better than the jobs most people have.) Aside from a very small number of real…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/21 03:41 AM
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Fair enough. I had no idea that things were so bad in LA!!! You are right. I guess you gotta roll the dice on an iffy neighborhood and hope it improves then. I have no idea how ordinary families making 80k combined make it in a place like LA. Just permanent rentership?
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/21 02:20 AM
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It sounds like both he and you had unrealistic expectations regarding what his career would be, and it was much harder for him to get the TT position that he wanted. That's mostly on him, but you did agree to marry him before he had that secured. At this point it sounds like you are quite stressed out in your current position, as he enjoys a comparatively desultory academic lifestyle and you are stuck working 50 hrs a week. It really does sounds like you are primarily stressed out by that, with …
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/21 04:13 PM
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What the fugg. Massive red flags everyhwere you look
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/21 07:42 PM
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Well shit, go for it then. Sounds like you've got it basically figured out.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/21 07:15 PM
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I can't help but think that you are probably leaving some things out of this. Does your husband have a job that can effectively support a family? Did your parents have specific objections to your husband or your pregnancy, or just a vague "You're too young"? Why the particular rush to get pregnant? You are quite young, which isn't a bad thing, but it is an unusual decision that people often have a reason for. Would most people describe your husband as "respectable"? IE no criminal record, health…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/21 05:25 PM
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There's nothing at all that you can do about it, so just do your best to be a stable, positive individual. It would only be a red flag for me if you seemed mentally ill otherwise.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/21 05:48 PM
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Well, that's all way over my ability to give you any advice regarding. However, there is still a strong possibility that he doesn't feel as sexually attracted to you as he would if you were thin, and that his own sex drive is low because of lack of sunlight/vitamin d/exercise/whatever. Just because he says your weight isn't an issue doesn't mean that it isn't! And even if he perceives himself as being "not shallow" or "not superficial", that doesn't mean that he is being honest with himself.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/21 09:45 PM
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Are you thin? So much information is left out of your query. Is he fit? Could his testosterone have dropped quite a lot since fatherhood? Many issue with libido are caused by one or both partners not being in good physical shape.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/21 08:32 PM
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There is no rule that says you have to disclose your entire past straightaway. In fact, nobody does. So right off the bat, put worrying about what potential partners will think of whatever is on the internet out of your mind. That's something you can tell someone after a few dates/whatever timeframe feels comfortable. Most people have some sort of baggage, be it from their childhood, adulthood, job insecurities, insecurities about their appearance, whatever. But the fact that you are skinny in y…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/21 10:52 PM
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It is realistic, but you just have to make sure that you and hubby are on the same page. Lots of men don't want children.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/21 08:05 PM
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I think that you will learn to pick your battles, in terms of that kind of thing. I can't necessarily speak for the population generally, but the intelligent men that I know usually are more attracted to women who have positions and defend them, although it is all context-dependent.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/21 05:03 PM
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Anybody, or almost anybody, can give themselves the gift of a slender, fit body! Even if your face is only so-so, if you give yourself a good body that will go a very long way towards improving your appearance.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/21 05:01 PM
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The thing that men are most interested in is whether your are at a thin/healthy weight. Character and inner femininity are all well and good, but your physical health is what you present to the world, every time you step out of the door.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/21 02:33 AM
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Awesome! Enjoy! In my experience it's easy to ride 10 miles or so in street clothes, but past that it's important to get cycling shorts. They aren't very pricey (mine were 30 bucks or so), and cycling is imo quite a joy and you can easily do it every day if you want to. Have fun!!!
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/21 01:58 AM
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IMO, cycling is excellent, and there are more male cyclists than female ones, and they tend to have their lives together. If you ride at an average pace of 10 mph, you also burn about 500 cals/hour, and it will tone your legs/bottom/etc. Perhaps consider getting a road bike.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/21 10:28 PM
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IMO, no. Most women with good character and morals who were raised in stable households are not hypergamous.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/21 10:56 PM
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IMO you are more likely to find someone like what you are looking for in NYC than elsewhere. Your perception of rural areas does not match with what I have experienced living in rural areas. Yes, some people are trad and people are generally more religious, but it does not really stop people from being dirtbags, cheating on their wives, drinking, etc.. Additionally, rural areas have lower costs to buy property, but other costs are often higher. I don't know if you're trying to move to a southern…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/21 05:13 AM
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That number is high, but not that high. You know, there is no reason that you have to immediately disclose that kind of thing. I would just keep that lowkey, personally. It sounds like you might just be unhappy, generally, and should consider working on that. Perhaps see a therapist or begin an exercise regimen.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/21 02:20 PM
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Just got broken up with by a girl after I let myself slip into BP-ness. Absolutely classic fuckup. I won't go into too many details, but she is planning on going to a prestigious grad school in the fall and I suggested to her that she wait a year while I finish grad school where we are. The relationship was only a few weeks old. Now that it's over I'm looking back with more RP clarity, and I made the classic mistake of letting myself believe that because she was giving me so many expressions of …
/r/TheRedPill02/03/21 05:47 AM
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Not really my business, but even relatively poorly paid physicians than the median engineer or lawyer. And there are many more women in law school than men and more women in medical school than men. Men, however, vastly outpace women in the engineering field, although depending on specialty can make somewhat more or significantly less than most physicians. Edit: Any many people avoid lawyers, on account of how messed up in the head a lot of them are. Not all, but many lawyers simply have their a…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/21 08:19 AM
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I'm a man who sometimes browses this forum because it's interesting, and I have a take. I've matched with girls in med school on dating apps, and gone on dates with them a couple of times, and ultimately found that they weren't really compatible with me or they weren't compatible with me for a few reasons. Anyone in med school has worked their butt off for years to get there. For at least the duration of their time in med school, they are married to med school. Med school will always come first,…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/21 12:34 AM
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I am not so sure that prostitutes are celebrated. There is a small bubble of people on social media who think that "we" need to hashtag normalizesexwork, but most quality men would write you off if they ever found out about it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/20 04:58 AM
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She should just leave him now. It is not worth the risk of him destroying her life.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/20 04:47 AM
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Absolutely ditch him. You have committed 5 months to this relationship. The fact that he lost 40k shows that he does not, in any way, have his gambling under control. And the fact that his solution was to go and take acid then run, drugged out in the middle of the night, to your house, is a pretty bad sign. You love him now, but will you love him when you find out that he has secretly put a second mortgage on the house and pawned your grandmother's jewelry?
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/20 04:46 AM
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