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I agree, that was a pretty slick wingman move!
/r/seduction11/11/11 10:46 PM
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A few years ago, I was FWB with a girl who committed suicide a couple weeks after I moved away. I (kind of) know how you're feeling. In my case, she was the last person with whom I'd had sex--and that colored every interaction I had with women for months, even after sleeping with other people. It's rough. That was 3.5 years ago and I've definitely come to terms with it. I hate relying on time to heal wounds, but that's never let me down. You had good ideas to relocate and keep meeting people. Th…
/r/seduction23/10/11 07:22 AM
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Not even as a boyfriend If you can believe her when she says "Not as a boyfriend," then great. I think she was in love with me If you have any doubt that she's emotionally mature enough to keep her cool, then don't get yourself into a pickle. Been there, done that, and I'd much rather miss out on sexytimes with her than be stuck breaking her heart.
/r/seduction17/09/11 05:30 AM
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There are multiple reasons for full disclosure. One is to brag, yes, like it's some kind of DHV. Another is to give her a better idea of how you're treating the relationship so she has reasonable expectations. There's nothing wrong with keeping peoples' identities private--I support that, actually, in most things I do. I work a couple jobs that require privacy. One is an academic job so I must comply with FERPA, the Family Educational Rights and Privacy Act. Another is working with children at a…
/r/seduction16/09/11 04:45 AM
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your primary girlfriend - best not to lie to her, at least do not tell her you are seeing other women (no girl want to hear this), but do not tell her you two are exclusive either. I disagree with the last part. I consider honesty important, and I associate myself with women who are mature enough to handle multiple partners in both my life and in their lives. Not lying to someone, but not telling the truth either, is a bit dishonest imo. Some of my most rewarding long-term involvements have happ…
/r/seduction13/09/11 05:57 PM
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Speaking from experience at college in the Midwest, virgins are all over the map. Some are bad at sex, but some are good at sex--girls watch porn too, for instance (and most porn is shot from a male-pleasure perspective). Some are clingy, some actually just want to get rid of their pesky virginity and need someone to help them out.
/r/seduction07/09/11 07:23 AM
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I agree with the theme that you should be completely honest with the girls in your life. Don't assume that opportunity to be honest, however, will just be handed to you in conversation at an appropriate stage in the relationship. It's your job to bring it up before not-talking-about-other-girls becomes lying. You can still make that conversation fun, but you will inadvertently slide over into being a douchbag if you don't take the risk and bring it up.
/r/seduction28/06/11 08:11 PM
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This is exactly the question I was asking myself today. Just when I needed the thoughts and suggestions in this thread, Seddit came through. I agree that boxing up a conversation in clinical terms and chaining it to reason and logic kills the mood, but keeping your own thought process clear while you're in a playful frame is important. One framework I draw on comes from The Ethical Slut. It's a vocabulary of polyamory terms that you can sprinkle through the conversation for a few reasons: Explai…
/r/seduction28/06/11 01:22 AM
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