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It is settling imo and women do it and they shouldn't because it's disrespectful to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:40 PM
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Stop getting hung up on people’s pasts. I don't think it's fair that you tell someone else what they should or should not do. Especially when it comes to relationships. But also fundamentally, the only question that matters for settling is - is he the best sex you've ever had or not. All that other shit about having had fun with other men is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:26 PM
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I get it over the thought that women settle for men sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:20 PM
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Then you're not settling. To settle means to be with someone who isn't the best in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:16 PM
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Then you're not settling. To settle means to be with someone who isn't the best in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:16 PM
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I don't care what you think about me, but you need to understand that a LOT of men simply do not want to be settled for sexually. And not being the best sex she has had is precisely that. Maybe not most but a huge huge plurality (close to 50% easy).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:11 PM
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Idc as long as women don't settle for a guy sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:09 PM
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I'm getting a mustache now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:09 PM
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I'm getting a mustache now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:09 PM
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What the fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:07 PM
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Well then they lost out and you're not settling for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:06 PM
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For men, a lot of them atleast, all their ego is in how good they are at sex compared to other men. Not on trite things like proms or fun date. Imo if women are settling for a man sexually, they are obligated to tell him so he can decide if he wants to stay or not. It is not enough that a man satisfy a woman sexually, what is important is that he be the best sex you've had. Anything else is settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:05 PM
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Bro imma start a new daily reminder reminding women that they settle and they shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:03 PM
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Best you've ever had. Of course you can determine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:03 PM
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So much gaslighting in this thread by women. But I will fight for my fellow men, because someone has to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:59 PM
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Yeah she should leave him. It's so disrespectful to settle for someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:58 PM
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You don't get to play with the definition tbh. It's settling if he's not the best and can't be the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:54 PM
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/u/ThatBitchA explain this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:53 PM
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It matters because we want to be the best the woman has ever had. If we can't due to dick size or some shit then we'd rather she leave us. Don't settle for us. It's disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:52 PM
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Oh cmon now, we have given you so many examples of women saying their ex was better and more fun in bed, but they're with the current guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:50 PM
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We hear it from women posting on offmychest and other places.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:48 PM
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Men have had past experiences too Not always necessarily. Some are virgins. Men have had past experiences too and may occasionally reminisce about a particularly fun encounter - but that doesn’t take away from the present relationship (or at least it shouldn’t). Yeah no, for most men it's unacceptable if women reminisce past encounters. Men want to be the most fun sex for the woman, not just satisfactory or good enough but the best. That's what's important to a lot of mens ego. And it is entirel…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:47 PM
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No I'm sorry but this is incorrect. I can show you women on PPD who will admit that they need a certain size to get off. The A-spot is a thing. And upto a point (women say) that bigger girth feels better than smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:45 PM
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Day 92 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgin men) Today I am anxious, sleep deprived, insane. What will you do today PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:42 PM
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Based as always
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:39 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:38 PM
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Shower today
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:45 PM
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Only good looking men ever get laid. So only pretty women deserve romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:44 PM
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I asked a woman to do this. She got mad at me. What's wrong with a vagina lips reveal ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:27 PM
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Oh wow. It's interesting how mommy issues can manifest in different ways. Like I just want to fuck MILFs with big breasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:26 PM
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Yeah well, you're asking the wrong people. Ask men who date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:21 PM
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Not bad, not bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:20 PM
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Not bad, not bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:20 PM
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That's n-count, this is what you wish your ideal body count is. N-count is for partners and why that is relevant or not. Very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:19 PM
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Hmm. Mine is same. But 4 times that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:17 PM
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I never trust people who say they don't care about looks because I know a CIA agent when I see one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:16 PM
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Think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:14 PM
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Psyop
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:14 PM
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Yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:13 PM
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Q4A: what's your ideal body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:06 PM
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Also what if YOU're the feminist psyop. Your taste in men is shit so it tracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:03 PM
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Someone should stuff her in a catapult and launch her at a passing cloud.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:02 PM
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Yes they do. Don't let them tell you otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:00 PM
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You have offended lily. Prolly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:59 PM
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Yeah you have a good nose on your shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:58 PM
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I do. This has been a thing for me ever since I was a kid so I wouldn't worry. I've never so much as hit a person outside of a boxing ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:57 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:56 PM
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Yeah it's always a thing when I have too much pent up energy. I get very hyper and extra. This is part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:56 PM
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Always take your nose with you wherever you go, never leave it at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:55 PM
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It can be very satisfying. Although I also get a very short fust and get very violent thoughts. Like I want to literally take a hammer to people I don't like and beat them with it and I can imagine it and imagine the crunch of the hammer breaking bone again and again and it feels super satisfying in my chest. It's weird to explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:36 AM
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One thing that is for certain though, is that once I get into a relationship, I will be hounded with feelings of emasculation due to my low body count and will be hit with the urge to keep on hitting on other women. And I will. That much is guaranteed. Whether I cheat, or I kinda cheat (breakup moments before cheating), remains to be seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:34 AM
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If I had your stats (and your good looks), I would totally be dating multiple women and cheating on all of them with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:29 AM
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Yes. Nobody can infringe on anyones right to volcel
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:27 AM
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No, everyone gets tested. Free daily testing for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:23 AM
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That js true but I only count from the moment you feel safe with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:23 AM
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YES!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:22 AM
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Thanks, this happens when I have too much pent up energy. I kinda go a little insane. I'll be back to normal in a day Or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:21 AM
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Not to mention on some level I might be jealous or even resentful. I spent my life from 16-24, now, being single, lonely and sad about that. One way to overcome this is to find a partner who did all this stuff, and use her for sex practice while also trying to and cheating on her regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:19 AM
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I wish it were normized jn middle and upper middle class circles. Fucking the gf, her sister, her best friend, and her mom. Also bring back polygamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:18 AM
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Don't be sorry to me, be sorry to the guy you will make wait. People in Auschwitz were treated better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:16 AM
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Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:16 AM
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I'd do that. I feel like I missed out so I keep count of how much sex other men have had if they had the average rate of sex per week since I was 18. My goal then is to beat that. So I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:14 AM
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You say that but it feels like mockery.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:12 AM
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Weekly reminder that n counts matter because older women don't date men with n=0. This is also why lying and cheating is okay if men do it but not if women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:12 AM
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<image> Did I pass, Ma?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:09 AM
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My favorite porn category is dudes who fuck the gf and her mom. I wish shit like that was normalised irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:05 AM
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You're not wrong, I did make that mistake. So, never again 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:03 AM
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Other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:02 AM
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No. Stop bullying me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:54 AM
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I think this is my best comment
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:53 AM
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Me to all men who have been made to wait for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:53 AM
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Women who make dudes wait for sex are Satan incarnate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:47 AM
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Oh and women who cheat are 300% more likely to be spurned by cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:21 AM
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Ya bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:19 AM
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Ayy sperm donor guy. How you been.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:13 AM
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Men who cheat should get a 10% rebate in their taxes. Women who cheat should be taxed 10% extra. Also studies have shown that men who cheat are 75% less likely to get cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:08 AM
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Which is why it's okay for men to cheat. It build confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:06 AM
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I'm on your team EqualSea. Fuck da haters
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:05 AM
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Obama once said "we tortured some folks". He wasn't talking about Guantanamo, he was talking about the women who make men wait for sex hahahahahahahahahahahahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:22 AM
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For a lip balm?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:59 PM
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Men can still date those women for the intention of using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:58 PM
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Depends on where you live. In a lot of places, being healthy BMI is being below average. But also weight is changeable and like half the men versus close to all the women. What I want is for this truth to be accepted and propagated - that fir men to find a partner THE most important things are immutable physical characteristics. This needs to be taught as capital T truth to everyone in school and beyond. And once it is, women will also understand and will actually refuse to have kids with men wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:57 PM
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Not having ego validation is more miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:52 PM
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I mean insecurity is directly linked to ego. So it kinda is ego validation. But you can call it validation of insecurities too. I'll agree to that. I'm ngl, I know how crazy I sound. I can see it. And I would never say most of this irl. But I do feel it. I can't lie about that. And I can't and won't live a life where my insecurities and the void they create isn't filled up by validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:52 PM
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47% for something that's changeable vs 77% for something that's unchangeable. I'm not going to criticize women for what they want because I have no right to. But I will say that nobody should ever say that looks aren't the #1 thing women go for. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:47 PM
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I'm Ngl, Im 100% self aware of how I come across when I say these things. But by God, saying them feels so right. To me, nothing matters more than ego validation. That's the only thing I live for. And at some level I assume that most other people do too, and there's nothing wrong with living for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:45 PM
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I live in one of those. Banishing kids to separate cars (MANDATORILY) would be a great move
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:55 PM
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Wadafaq
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:51 PM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:36 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:13 PM
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No and there are no moral imperatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:13 PM
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Yeah it sucks. Your loyl should hurry up and meet you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:06 PM
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I hate the loud and annoying ones 😤. I was the shyest, most well behaved, most obedient kid when I was young. I never spoke loudly. I was super obedient and listened to my parents and teachers. I never cussed. I see kids these days. All spoilt. Always screaming and running around. It makes me angry. I followed the rules. Those who don't deserve to be banished to the nether realms of public transport.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:02 PM
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Damn, til you can do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:00 PM
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No we're talking about men that are objectivr Chads. Dudes who are so good looking that all women throw themselves at him. They usually have a super high bodycount. Not sure that's your type.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:59 PM
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V rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:58 PM
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Wdym with nothing. Does he not have his name on the lease?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:57 PM
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Special public transport. Like there's normal, and then there's one reserved car in the train for kids and parents. Or one reserved class in the plane with kids and parents. Or one bus special bus that runs every half hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:57 PM
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Q4W: would you support a law that only targets male cheaters and punishes them for cheating. Women cheaters don't have any legal punishments.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:53 PM
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Oh this is nice. My mom knits too. Thanks to the magic of YouTube she recently learnt a Colombian knitting technique and made a seamless sweater. I tell her that handmade sweaters can be sold in America for a lot of money. But she insists on selling for like 8USD.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:52 PM
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Are you a granny? Only grannies are post wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:50 PM
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Q4A: would you support laws mandating that children in public transport be moved to special buses and trains and planes. No kids on normal public transport.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:49 PM
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I thought you want the loyl.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:47 PM
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Would you say the same at 33?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:46 PM
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Speed and intensity. I feel that women who don't feel raw attraction: 1) don't sleep on first date 2) don't want sex that much with the guy (daily multiple times a day)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:44 PM
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Not if we plastic surgery them into mediocrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:43 PM
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Yes because our standards are being corrupted by Chads. I'm thinking we should do a law where all men have to within certain limits of attractiveness. Anymore and we plastic surgery them into mediocrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:42 PM
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I wouldn't say "content", but it's better than any alternative where I am settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:41 PM
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We will build a secret police to find the Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:41 PM
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What is to be done about the Chads of our society. We must not let them corrupt our national standards of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:35 PM
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If she’s not into you from the start, it doesn’t mean she can’t develop attraction as she gets to know you. It means I will always feel that her attraction to me, wasn't honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:34 PM
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Based as always. The raw attraction pill is undeniable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:33 PM
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Introvert or socially anxious or autistic or all three?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:32 PM
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You and everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:31 PM
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We need a final solution for the Chaddish question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:31 PM
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Only if I want to use her for sexual experience and practice. Otherwise no, never. My attraction literally dies once they tell me they're not into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:27 PM
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Must be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:24 PM
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I haven't narrowed anything tho, I will just lie to those woman and then cheat. We've been over this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:23 PM
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Why is it bad if a woman is deeply attracted to you but it isn't raw attraction? What are you losing out on? Validation. What changes about the dynamic of the relationship? Chances of being cheated on rise exponentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:21 PM
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I will always fight for the raw-attraction pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:10 PM
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Based as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:10 PM
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Tbf they do. Most cheaters are abandoned by family and friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:09 PM
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Day 92 of dailyposting (and a reminder to self that women don't want virgins) What will you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:08 PM
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Daily reminder that it's okay for men to cheat but not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:07 PM
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I'm sorry but this is some BS. An HVM is by definition a High Value Man, someone most women want. He's not marrying a 6.5. And whoever married a sub 8 isn't an HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:22 PM
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Well if they are ever forced into it, women have my full support. I'm rabidly pro abortion, and pro bodily autonomy. Nobody has a say on what you do with your body, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:22 PM
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Yeah that's exactly why I need to lie and cheat. No woman (actually, no person) would ever accept having their time and emotions be disrespected like that. It's not like I'm not self aware. I just don't have any other choice. I cannot be happy without achieving my sexual goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:21 PM
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but you desperately need to KNOW someone lusts after you more than someone else That is correct. I have this goal because a huge part of why I want to get into a relationship is the validation I would get. And the largest part of that validation comes from both how good at sex I am compared to other men, AND how much she wants me compared to other men. I know it seems bizzare, but to me it FEELS RIGHT. and you want to cheat on a nice girl youre in a relationship with, just because Because anothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:20 PM
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Thanks bro. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:16 PM
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1) if you leave because you found someone else and immediately slept with them, that still kinda counts as cheating. I asked a lot of people this and they concurred. Like you're supposed to wait a week or some arbitrary time. 2) when I'm in a relationship my confidence will be higher, so it will be easier to hit on women, and thus get laid. It will be less so if I leave my first relationship, because then I'll always be full of self doubt and think I only got the relationship due to some fluke, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:15 PM
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Women are also allowed to?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:06 PM
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Sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:04 PM
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She deserves to be punished.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:59 PM
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. But would prozzies not be a faster way to up that bodycount? No because a big part of what the bodycount does is validate my desirability and my lack of inhibition and being able to approach women. Once or twice can be fluke, but not 10 or 20 times. But with a prostitute, it only validates my bank account. Also I don't think prostitutes would want to teach you because they're more into pleasing as opposed to teaching. So even if you ask them to not be like overly vocal to please you, they'll d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:53 PM
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Just read datingover30 Or askwomenover40 and all those places and see what women say about male virgins. If WOMEN are saying they don't want virgin men, then what else are we supposed to conclude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:50 PM
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Also, no company will ever value you. Period. What you do with the company is a trade. Your time for their money. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:49 PM
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Aah one of those days at work. I actually wrote my cousins resignation email. Man got a raise. That's how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:48 PM
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I wish women had empathy for men like me who want to cheat. We have our reasons, and they are valid reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:47 PM
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Maybe she feels it's demeaning to pay for it, the same way some men do. Women also get hit with the "all women can get laid", so having to pay for it would make her feel something is wrong with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:46 PM
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And this will be a form of revenge on womankind, correct? No, this will be a way of empowering myself by upping my body count. I don't hate women, I hate myself for not having a high bodycount. I wouldn't cheat if I could find a woman willing to practice sex with me. Because that's what the first relationship is for. To get good at sex, so I can then take it into ONSes etc. Most teens have a starter relationship. For various life circumstances (including illness), I was deprived of this. So the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:45 PM
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I know. The daily repetition helps me build resolve for when the time comes. I know I'll feel bad about the woman I'm cheating on. I must not yield to those feelings then. Must have strong resolve.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:38 PM
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Based as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:37 PM
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No I'm a virgin. I do plan to cheat on the first woman I end up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:34 PM
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Working hard can payoff. But working hard for OTHERS usually doesn't. Do what you need to, maybe 10% over that. Say no to the rest. Use the rest of your time working hard on YOUR skills and investing in yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:31 PM
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I think she's attractive in a general sense, but not to me personally iykwim. Like I don't want her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:30 PM
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Maybe it's high standards. She wants a guy the same age but all the good ones are taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:29 PM
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One of the key reasons I am antinatalist. Because creating a child is unfair to the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:28 PM
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Thank you 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:28 PM
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It's okay if you're a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:27 PM
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But like if a man is already suffering then there's no disincentive to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:27 PM
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Did you see her apology?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:26 PM
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Why not? I've already talked about how I need a high body count to feel validated, and since women won't date a guy who is only looking for a starter relationship, it makes sense to lie to them and cheat on them. Life denied me the opportunity when I was young, so this is my way of making up for it. My rationale is solid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:26 PM
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Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:24 PM
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I read about Alice Sebold who falsely accused a black guy of raping her. He was exonerated after many years. She was never punished for lying. If you get falsely convicted on someone else's testimony, then upon exoneration, your accuser should be jailed. It's only fair. What you have made others suffer, you should be made to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:00 PM
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Upvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:58 AM
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Get a cheap Canon ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:58 AM
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Daily reminder that its okay for men to cheat but not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:56 AM
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Lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:26 AM
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Hmm that could be true yeah. But regardless, v few women who want virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:26 PM
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Because in a lot of those cultures, until very recently women could not work. Plus the parents have to pay dowry for the daughter to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:45 PM
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Hopefully it does happen less and less yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:43 PM
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but I've never had better sex in more unstable and uncertain relationships than I do now That's fair. But there's lots of posts by women saying the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:15 PM
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Oh there's a whole new shenanigan with this. I agreed with mum that our kids will be raised back home in the culture since kids here are not raised the best. Bruh. What the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:14 PM
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Even if the visa thing is solved, They find it a little difficult to speak to each other. Once you have a baby, expect your mom to want to visit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:07 PM
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But why tho? Because to us one feels contrived and the other feels instinctual. Thus more powerful and more real. I understand wanting to be sexually desired, but you have to understand, women aren’t just only looking for men who turn them on. The problem is when women will settle for a guy who is good to them/for them, but only kind of turns them on. That's settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:06 PM
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you cant ever know how exactly it compares to some past relationship. This is why men need to be taught to be on guard and we should all share our experiences and figure out what things mean that a woman is settling for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:58 PM
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Or for you to scroll past things you deem to be nonsense? Once I see them I am triggered. It’s impossible for you to not read the daily? I wanna read the other posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:55 PM
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I think bahu can visit saas country if she was born in Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:54 PM
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Personally I feel that the "grown-over-time" attraction is inferior and less authentic and less real compared to the intense immediate type. Not saying this to give offense, but I only want the latter type, never the former type. To me that's being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:53 PM
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Yes but women shouldn't be like oh that's not a concern that never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:52 PM
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Men don't get told this. They should.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:51 PM
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Impossible. I browse the daily and it comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:51 PM
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In that case, explain why she feels grief for some men breaking up and not others. And the men she feels the most grief for are the hottest ones in her eyes and the ones she lusts after the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:50 PM
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Aah the good old saas-bahu fights. Soon she will ask her husband to move out. Divorce in 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:47 PM
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Then all advice would be useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:45 PM
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They make the posts. They should stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:45 PM
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My definition is strong and immediate sexual attraction. If a woman is not as sexually attracted to me as she was to an ex of hers, then she is settling for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:45 PM
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Go read my other post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:44 PM
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It's not cringe, it's harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:43 PM
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does she lust after you to your liking? My liking is that she lusts after me more than she has ever lusted after anyone. I won't accept second place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:43 PM
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If they disagree with me about something obvious then yes. Like you can't tell me that you disagree with me, and you believe the sun doesn't exist. Gaslighting is to make you question your own sanity by denying reality. Raw attraction is undeniable reality. Women should not deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:42 PM
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It's not about what a woman is attracted to. It's that attraction in varying intensities exists, and some can be so intense that other men can't live up to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:41 PM
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Plenty of women say only looks matter tho so why not focus on them. The point is to stop gaslighting men. All men need to be told truthfully that being settled for is a danger they need to watch out for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:40 PM
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Usually intensity and immediacy go hand in hand. Atleast for men. And you can call it strong or intense attraction as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:39 PM
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I actually think men are in far less of a risk of being settled for today, than they were a couple of generations ago, when women were more dependent on them. When women don't need men, they're less likely to settle for one. That is true. But women do still settle for men. They realise that eroticism is usually coupled with toxicity, so they try and choose men with whom they can share intimacy without the toxicity. That leads to less eroticism but a more stable relationship. The problem is, nobo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:39 PM
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but I'd leave the guy if he has this sort of insecurity. I That's fine, we're all entitled to leave for whatever reason. What bothers me is the gaslighting and saying no it doesn't exist. It fucking does.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:35 PM
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"Still not over that guy" Along with "it lasts and lasts", those things express desire, not sorrow. But even if let's suppose that they did express grief, what is the grief for? It's for the intense desire that a man was able to make them feel just by his existence. Now imagine your ordinary male, officegoer, 9-5, fit and well dressed but a little balding and not very good looking. The same woman when dating him won't feel that intense desire for him that she felt for her ex. Nor will she feel t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:34 PM
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"Still not over that guy" Along with "it lasts and lasts", those things express desire, not sorrow. But even if let's suppose that they did express grief, what is the grief for? It's for the intense desire that a man was able to make them feel just by his existence. Now imagine your ordinary male, officegoer, 9-5, fit and well dressed but a little balding and not very good looking. The same woman when dating him won't feel that intense desire for him that she felt for her ex. Nor will she feel t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:34 PM
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Raw attraction is intense sexual desire. The stronger the desire the more raw the attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:29 PM
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Please don't annoy me. I feel about being gaslit as is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:28 PM
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I certainly think raw attraction or chemistry is a thing I just feel gaslit when women try to imply that men's fear of being settled for in the context of raw attraction is not valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:27 PM
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If I can't believe what women say, then who the fuck do I take as an authority on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:27 PM
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Yeah no, sorry I don't buy that. "I'm still not over him" expresses desire, not sorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:26 PM
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Wot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:25 PM
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The point is that men fear being settled for in terms of lust, and that fear is valid. Bluepill women tell us that is not the case because if a woman is with you then she lusts after you just as much as she did with her ex. And that isn't necessarily true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:25 PM
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Why do men insist on telling women the level of attraction we feel? We don't, we literally just point to the words of other women. Who are these women? Please go re read the offmychest post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:24 PM
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You're wrong tho. Scroll down and see, the raw attraction guy posted an offmychest post from a woman and she's literally saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:23 PM
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Women do. They seem to deny that a woman can be with different men and lust after some of them more then the others. To them it's like if a woman had 2 boyfriends in her life then she lusted after them equally. Which is horseshit. And men don't want to be with a woman if they feel like they're being settled for in terms of lust. And by settled for I mean the woman lusts after them less than she did after her past boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:22 PM
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Uhh, not being able to get over a man isn't the same as putting him on a pedestal and regretting it. The comments don't express regret, they express desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:21 PM
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Why, why, why, just why won't bluepilled women accept that raw attraction exists? Why are y'all trying to gaslight us men? All these other women say that they've felt raw attraction. That they have an ex who they still lust after. That they don't lust after their current boyfriend as much. And yet you still say raw attraction doesn't exist. Just why?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:12 PM
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Cheerleading?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:09 PM
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I'm always amazed at how easy US school curriculum is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:06 PM
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Day 90 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgins). I'm still recovering, so I spent all day asleep. What will you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:05 PM
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Somewhere between 2 and 6.7 depending on day and time and situation and mood. And yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:03 PM
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It's not just thinking about him tho. It's feeling. Look at the words used. "He still has power over me". "Still not over him". "It lasts... ". Tell me would you date a guy who was still attracted to his ex and lusted after he stronger than he lusted after you? Most men would not tolerate the converse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:02 PM
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Explain those comments then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:00 PM
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Thank you for finding and posting this bro. All men owe you for your service to manhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:00 PM
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My favorite calculator move was using it to calculate the determinants of 3*3 matrices
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:59 PM
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What's there to be proud of ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:58 PM
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You'd chop his dick off?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:37 PM
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Daily reminder that its okay for men to cheat but not for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:43 PM
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Looks are pretty damn high, yeah. But that's for both genders. You can't tell me women don't do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:41 PM
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Based as always
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:40 PM
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You are also trade pilled. V few such women around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:57 PM
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Yes. I want the woman to be clingy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:56 PM
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But we have research studies that show women want tall dark handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:46 PM
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But what if the rejection and disappointment from not being good looking is what makes them like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:45 PM
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No, she will not want to leave me because my dick is huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:44 PM
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Ya ceramic ones are better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:25 PM
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All women should be as beautiful and stunning as Anna Sawai.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:08 PM
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I spent all day in bed dreaming about what it would feel like to be in a relationship with a hot woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:04 PM
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What's wrong with wanting a possessive gf? It shows passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:03 PM
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Test out this hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:02 PM
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No, I want women like that. We can be possessive of each other
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:01 PM
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Yeah I kinda want the same type.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:47 PM
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It's okay to kill fetuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:46 PM
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This. Having an unwanted child is a much larger red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:45 PM
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Based as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:45 PM
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It's fun to do the daily reminders. Keeps things lively.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:44 PM
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Would you try to chop off a bf's dick if he cheats?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:44 PM
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Q4M: would you accept a hot gf if she was so possessive that she tries to chop your dick off if you try to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:42 PM
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Daily reminder that it's okay for men to cheat but not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:41 PM
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Which country doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:43 PM
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Well I'm that case the moms should know what boys are like, what they want, and tailor their advice accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:15 AM
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We already have that power. It's called planned suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:53 PM
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What's so funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:52 PM
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I already have talked about how I first need to move cities before I can even meet women. Won't happen till 2026.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:28 PM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:26 PM
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Women ask how many relationships you've been in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:25 PM
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Get over it. No. Almost every guy is settled for. Because every guy doesn't try to looksmaxxx by getting my plastic surgery done.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:24 PM
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I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:23 PM
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ikr
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:53 PM
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I do because they will find out no matter what. I can't lie about this. I CAN lie about wanting a relationship and wanting kids though. The thought of wasting a woman's precious years by promising marriage and kids and using her for sex and then abandoning her. The thought of doing that alleviates the pain I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:52 PM
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I feel sad about how I'm a virgin and will get rejected for it a lot. And also about how there's a risk that I could be settled for. The thought hurts. And so I deal with the pain by telling myself that I lie to women and use them for sex. I will objectify them. This makes me feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:49 PM
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For a lot of men this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:46 PM
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Ngl if women think Dev Patel is a 10, then maybe I have a shot at finding women who think Im a 10. Still can't believe this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:46 PM
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Ideally, I'd hide her away in my house such that no man ever lays an eye on her. Peak Islam has been achieved.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:45 PM
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Not being the best lover doesn’t mean your partner has settled for you. For me that's the definition of settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:39 PM
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Maybe, but the guy who didn't get to have fun casually will forever chase it. And he's entitled to try and find the women who want to have that fun with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:38 PM
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Then you're blaming a human for... being human. And in that case you open yourself up to blame for any and every behavior of yours as well. Because any desire that you have is now open to criticism. Plus, who says it isn't possible. A man is entitled to try and find it. A man is entitled to die trying. For a lot of men it really is that important.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:36 PM
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Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:34 PM
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I didn't understand anything that you said here. Pls rephrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:34 PM
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I saw an NYPost article which referenced a study of American couples. 52% of the women said their husband was not the best. You are waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay underestimating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:33 PM
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Nothing wrong with that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:32 PM
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WHAT? No way is he a 10. He's barely a 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:28 PM
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No becausr I'm a dude but Dev Patel is just ugly. No jawline, skinny, weird head and face shape. He is unironically ugly in India.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:24 PM
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Yes but it's so obvious that even they should realise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:22 PM
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This doesn't work because for a lot of men like me, our sense of masculinity is validated by how much women lust after us in comparison to other men. So, for us, women settling for us in this manner GENUINELY (and I really really mean this in the most literal manner) feels like an insult. Like if a woman ever confessed this to my I would be incredibly insulted. It feels like a personal offense against me. Why the fuck did she agree to date me if she didn't feel that sense of wild lust for me? I …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:21 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/vdmytPMnua Here you go. By the definition of what men consider settling (ie purely from the lens of sex and lust), this woman is settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:17 PM
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He is. This guy is Sri Thanedar or somesuch name. V sleazeball politician.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:15 PM
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Ew wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:14 PM
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Women settle for men they are not sexually excited about all the time. Even in 2025. I can't believe people still doubt the existence of this phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:13 PM
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No, people absolutely do settle even in 2025. Settling for such men has a very specific definition - she doesn't lust after you as much as she lusted after another man. There's this spectrum that Esther Perel talks about with eroticism on one end and intimacy on the other. And she talks about how they are kind of opposites, because eroticism thrives on novelty and excitement. And intimacy thrives on closeness and consistency. And if her attraction to you is more of the latter than the former, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:12 PM
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Yeah but if the guy didn't get to experience that unemployed-college-kid-sex. Then he's going to chase that feeling. Can't blame him for that. Of course some men think that they can't and so getting someone who didn't have that experience (ie a low n count woman) will help them cope. False idea imo. Doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:09 PM
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Day 85 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgin men). Today I ran some errands and watched the rest of True Detective Season 4. I also worry. I have savings but once I get my procedure, they will run dry. What will I do then. My parents will help me but they can only do so much. What will you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:34 PM
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You speak truth to power.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:33 PM
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No it is the inexeperience itself also. Women saying they don't want to teach a man etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:10 PM
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Read the OP. She says why are virgin men "unattractive" to women. And that's the truth. We are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:09 PM
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And hers is a tiny minority
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:08 PM
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The truth has to be faced brother. But it's okay, you have the right to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:07 PM
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Bruh, there's comments by women abov and below yours saying they don't find virgin men attractive. Like seriously, please acknowledge that men have it hard in this area.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:07 PM
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Bro we talked about this yesterday. You agreed that n counts matter in this particular case of the man being virgin and older
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:04 PM
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Lol theres women on PPD who find virgins unattractive.. So the answer is because women tell us they don't find virgin men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:03 PM
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Uhh no. It definitely is the lack of experience. I can show you women saying the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:28 PM
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Relationship history is a roundabout way of asking "how many people have you fucked". And if not, then women should have 0 issues of men asking women their relationship history
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:26 PM
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Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:45 PM
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Meanwhile women will always ask a man about his relationship history. And end the date if he doesn't have any.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:45 PM
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Well midgets are a lot fewer than 0.3 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:44 PM
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Far more men are virgins over 30 than are midgets.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:35 PM
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Fair. But it shouldn't be a blanket "n counts don't matter" then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:20 PM
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Will make sure to read those so I can pass all vetting. Thanks for letting us know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:47 PM
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Weekly reminder that n-counts matter because 30+ men with n-count = 0 are unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:45 PM
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And men will just game all this by lying to you. Good luck lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:36 PM
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RIP bro. There's a reason why I haven't asked this question here. Hugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:56 PM
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Yes. If they laugh at a small dick joke then I will just unfriend them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:42 PM
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For those men, being an asshole is essential.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:15 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:14 PM
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For most dudes who struggle with women, that is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:08 PM
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Then you probably run into dudes who don't crave female validation. Those dudes don't have any issues getting dates anyway. This is for the dudes who have trouble. It's because they crave female validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:02 PM
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You should read Models by Mark Manson. But essentially, men want female validation, which makes them needy. The best way to not want female validation and become non needy is to be an asshole who is selfish and only cares about himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:00 PM
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It is imo. Atleast from my (admittdly limited experience).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:55 PM
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but never any explanation for women who have no ex-partners but still don't experience raw attraction for their partner. Well how would they know if their attraction to a dude is truly strong if she hasn't been with other dudes and experienced attraction to them first. This is why I don't want to date a virgin woman tbvh. It's why I dgaf about the n-count. Could be a hundred for all I care. But sadly women don't want virgin dudes who are 30+.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:55 PM
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It is now, for me. I won't even explain to her why. Will just leave if she ever so much as laughs at a small dick joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:53 PM
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Personality = being an asshole (since that's the only way to be non-needy).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:50 PM
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Fkn same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:49 PM
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Based as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:49 PM
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I would get away with cheating super duper easily. Because I'm very nice and come across as very honest and nice irl. I have actually used it to my benefit many times in the past. I come across as trustworthy and have used that to lie and get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:48 PM
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Also make him join the wrestling team instead. Trust me, he will thank you 4 years hence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:47 PM
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Also just to be clear - do they follow a sport or do they play it? Because lots of dudes watch a sport. And that's pathetic. Either compete or gtfo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:47 PM
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Drag him to a BJJ gym. A couple rounds of grappling and he will fall in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:46 PM
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Non-raw attraction = I love my husband but I have neverusted after him as intensely as I have lusted after my toxic ex, and the sex with my toxic ex was better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:45 PM
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He needs to become an asshole by selfishly focussing on his own needs. This will make him less invested in those women and the women will see he's not needy and want him more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:44 PM
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Also I have changed my mind since yesterday. I won't bodyshame a woman. But if any woman bodyshames a man around me, I will reserve the right to simply ignore her. And if I'm in a relationship with a woman and she ever bodyshames someone, I will leave her right there and then. This is my boundary now. Bodyshaming hags GTFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:42 PM
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Fuck yeah, which music.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:41 PM
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Go on a murder spree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:37 PM
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Day 83 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgins). I feel good today. My mood feels stable and not volatile. I studied for like 5 hours. This feels good. I have moments like these sometimes. When my self esteem isn't rock bottom. In these moments I care a lot less about female validation. Anyway, what will you do today? And how was your poop ⛳?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:36 PM
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No, a lot of the time, the dude is sincere about the marriage. He talks to the woman before the marriage, asks her if she really wants to marry him. She will say she does, but she's lying under family pressure. Then they get married and the truth comes out. Now he wants to get a divorce, but the Indian legal system wants couples to stay together and so makes it really difficult to get a divorce. It can take up to half a decade to get a divorce, or more. So the guy is stuck for years. Not to ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:33 AM
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Fuck arranged marriages. Would rather die than accept one. It's worse than cuckoldry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:25 AM
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It might be abnormal, but there's nothing wrong with chasing after what makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:28 AM
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My feelings are contingent on how she feels about me compared to her past lovers. Which is why I probably won't stop dating her immediately. But once we've been dating for a while (a few months), and I feel comfortable being vulnerable to her, I will talk to her, and ask her if she felt more lust for an ex than she did for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:34 PM
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Fair enough, we can change that to "she doesn't want to have sex with you on the first date but she did want to have first date with her ex, and that means there's an elevated risk that she's not as into you as she was into her sex, and an elevated risk that you're being settled for in terms of the lust she feels for you vs the lust she felt for him. Do you want to take that risk? ".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:00 PM
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How about "if she made you wait one day longer than the other guy then there's elevated odds that she's not as into you as she was into him, do you want to take that risk ? "
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:48 PM
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Yeah that's p much what it is. I guess maybe the RedPill confuses odds with certainities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:42 PM
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RedPill might be wrong in that. But men don't have any other ways to gauge raw attraction. So the idea is that if she sleeps with you early then there is very high odds of raw attraction. If she doesn't then it could be because of some other reasons, but also could be because she genuinely isn't that into you. So it still makes sense to rely on this as a measure of raw attraction and to use it as a filtering mechanism for women you want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:33 PM
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You know Brahmins drink cow urine daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:47 AM
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Haven't slept in like 24 hours. Feeling emo af
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:39 AM
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Yeah people are nice here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:37 AM
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Did it? I haven't seen any analysis yet. Need to validate causality. Personally I doubt AI video models are good enough for heavy duty animated show creation usage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:16 AM
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Those people don't sound nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:13 AM
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https://x.com/bunhearts/status/1883665039472914924 I read this and I feel sad now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:12 AM
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Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:59 PM
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Tbh it isn't so much "women are wonderful" as it is "we were told that women want a guy who isn't an ahole and that's clearly not true, we were lied to, and this is too much to process".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:55 PM
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I'm downvoting all your posts from now on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:53 PM
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Elect me as mod.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:52 PM
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But for real, one reason is to maximize the odds of getting someone to swipe right.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:36 PM
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I wrote that I didn't want kids. Got no matches. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:36 PM
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This is exactly why I say that men should work on becoming toxic. We will lose our social inhibitions thanks to the toxicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:35 PM
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It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:35 PM
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As much as I think LLMs are stupid, I can't but laugh at China doing the Deepseek demo one day after Trump announced the half a bill. Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:08 PM
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I can confirm this. Men should try to befriend women, because women will wingwoman for you and try to set you up with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:01 PM
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Damn. Dickpilled af. I thought you would be super bluepilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:28 PM
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Brutal. This is why idc about my height. Only the height of my dick
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:09 PM
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Looks matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:07 PM
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Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:06 PM
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Unironically also the age when my dad had me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:00 PM
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No, why the fuck would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:00 PM
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Thanks bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:55 PM
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No it's a huge step. Would you be willing to post red pill posts with your name and face attached?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:52 PM
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Thank you m8
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:47 PM
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Thank you Lily.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:47 PM
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33.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:46 PM
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Happy Birthday to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:44 PM
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Lol. Yeah that's happened to an account of mine. Fuck these people. Ngl I legit feel Europeans are more racist than Americans. It's really funny to me how they're suddenly scrambling for 'sovereignty' now that Trump is flexing. They didn't give a fuck when third world nations got fucked over.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:33 PM
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Fuck the UK. Seriously. We already have this, where if you insult a politician they jail you. It sucks. Although I think many countries will resist this. But anonymity and anti censorship are super important. Fuck the EU. Fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:28 PM
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They're digging their own grave. There is 0 chance it won't be weaponised by European Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:23 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:16 PM
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Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:13 PM
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Danke schonn. You're the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:12 PM
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Eurocucks in r/Europe want to link every social media id to a national id and end anonymity. Fuck these people. I hate them more than I hate Trump. Without anonymity we wouldn't have this group. Men wouldn't be able to speak freely about how they feel. I honestly think I hate Eurocucks more than I hate Trump and his dumb followers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:12 PM
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Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:05 PM
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Also, happy Stralya day to shiela and any others here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:01 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:00 PM
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Depends on the opportunity. Do you want the opportunity to do backbreaking low skill labor in the sun for peanuts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:57 PM
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It's almost like God had a personal grudge with me. Yeah I just called God's office. They said they don't like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:56 PM
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Also, it's annoying that I can only see two pinned threads at the same time, so sometimes instead of the daily thread I see just n-count and looks thread. Mods pls merge the n-count and looks thread, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:55 PM
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Day 79 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgins) I did nothing today. I was supposed to put an appblock on the apps, but I got sucked into Reddit again. Sigh. What will you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:54 PM
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Let's see what happens. It's very hard times for Europe in the coming decades. Especially if the AMOC collapses by 2050.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:47 PM
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Yeah I don't think it will be that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:46 PM
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I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:35 PM
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Oh. Okay my bad. We are friends again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:33 PM
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1) make the first move 2) want to sleep with me on first date 3) actually be excited to be with me 4) want sex with me often
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:32 PM
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Trump is making a big blunder with Greenland. This kind of "yield to us" style of negotiation drives countries to seek aid with the opposing force. This is what happened with India as well. It's what pushed India closer to Russia. This will push Europe closer to China.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:31 PM
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I would maybe buy a BMW because of how much I loved it in NFS. But I don't want anything that looks super fancy or exotic because those cars get targeted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:26 PM
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Its a flex buy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:23 PM
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Nah, just because it takes more skill and effort for the man, doesn't mean the woman is worse. Sorry, this take is an L.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:22 PM
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Lol of course the comment is by an Indian, and Indians are fighting in the comments section.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:20 PM
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He told me that I can't have a woman's raw attraction and I should date men for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:17 PM
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I shall be 33 years old in 2 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:17 PM
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I am now enemies with RedSand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:15 PM
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because the dating pool you're aiming for does not have the feature of having a different sexuality than the one they have. Bro a woman literally said women do feel raw attraction for specific men. That's what we want. We want a woman who feels raw attraction for us. I will have that Or die trying. Fuck you for trying to discourage me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:15 PM
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Bro, not having taken the shot would have been more painful. The regret of not trying is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:13 PM
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Lol they will go together.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:12 PM
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Ngl it's more romantic to ask after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:11 PM
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Lamborghini Murcielago.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:09 PM
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Paradigm shift. The car is owned by a husband wife duo. The husband is very sentimentally attached to the car. The pregnant wife wants him to sell it to get more funds, so they can convert a room to a nursery. So the guy puts it up on the site with an obviously inflated asking price that no one will ever pay. Now he can show the wife "look, no buyers". Why are you mad at this man bro? He just wants to keep his car.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:09 PM
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Ugly hair. What's aurific about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:06 PM
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And the point is that men want to experience that raw attraction. They don't want relationships where they had to chase from the get go and the woman didn't feel that raw attraction for him. Or felt it less intensely than they did for other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:05 PM
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I mean she's definitely attracted to me physically, otherwise she wouldn't agree to sleep with me no matter what lies I tell. Apart from that here's the issue. Women don't want to sleep with virgins in a casual sex or ONS context. And because I'm a virgin Id be bad at sex anyway in those contexts. So what I really want is a starter relationship where I practice and learn to have sex with a woman. I get good at it. And then I go and use my skills and the confidence I have gained to get ONS and ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:00 PM
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Men wanting to use me as a hole is not validating. Is it still using a woman as a hole if I am genuinely attracted to a woman and genuinely want to pleasure her sexually, and will move heaven and earth to try and please her? see - that’s interesting and follows that men are more visual than women. Have you seen a male therapist? Yeah my current one is male and the best therapist so far because he makes me feel heard. But a lot of his techniques simply haven't worked much for me. But then neither…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:42 PM
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Heh wow. Thank you for such a comprehensive response. I just want to say 2 things. First, I don't think wanting women's affections is controlling. Entitled? Sure. But not controlling. I say this because I simply cannot coerce a woman's affections. And control to me implies coercion. And what will cure me is multiple women's affections. Why multiple? Because one could be a fluke. I need to know that I am attractive to many women, not just one or two. Secondly, it's been my experience that thought…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:28 PM
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I guess I'm trying to become one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:06 PM
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Thanks. Although tbh I don't want to make women feel like garbage. If I purposely try to hurt them then it won't make me feel good. I would find no pleasure in their pain. Plus it would make me feel that I was so pathetic, so incapable of obtaining female desire, that I had to resort to venting my frustrations by hurting women. No, for me cheating isn't about hurting women, it's about sleeping with as many women as I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:52 PM
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You actually just encouraged someone that death is the answer. I said it's the answer if you can't find any other answers. This belief goes back to an experiment by William James (or was his name Henry James, I'm not sure), who was a famous psychologist. He was once a fuck up, an absolute failure. And so he decided that for one year he would take responsibility for everything that would happen in his life. And if in that one year things hadnt improved, then it's clear that nothing he could do wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:41 PM
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Am I supposed to go sleeping with every virgin man or man who just wants sex to “care about his needs”? Obviously not. And it's not like I'm going to tell the women that all I care about is my needs. That's for me to know. They will sleep with me because I'm someone who is empathetic and makes them feel safe (which I have been told I'm good at) and hopefully because they find me attractive and have genuine desire for me. How would you feel if a woman you used wound up feeling exactly how you fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:36 PM
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You think younger people aren't taking steroids in combat sports?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:10 PM
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Explain Yoel Romero.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:04 PM
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Which is why you should go to a therapist or a friend (of any gender), and vent to them. And never tell your wife/gf that you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:01 PM
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Yes but they're old dudes who can pass for young dudes if they have surgerypilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:58 PM
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it’s perfectly fine to lie and manipulate women into using their bodies cause you THINK you need to fuck lots of women It's not fine and I'll admit that I'm not a good person at all for aiming for this. But it's what I feel I need so it's what I will go after. I know being cheated on sucks. I'd never tolerate it if a partner cheated on me. I'd leave ASAP. But despite that, yeah right now I plan to cheat. Why are your needs more important than theirs? Depends on perspective. For me, my needs trum…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:55 PM
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Oh that guy. He's weird ngl. He was tracking his own sons nighttime boners and comparing to his own. Yuck. Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:42 PM
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Look it might seem like nothing to you, but for me it hurts enough that I'm willing to kill myself over it. I'd honestly appreciate it if you didn't mock me for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:31 PM
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What pill is that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:29 PM
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I'm not saying men shouldn't express what they feel. I'm saying there's a good chance that if they are vulnerable to their SO, then their SO will lose attraction for them. It's better therefore to find a group of people who you can talk to. A therapist would also be nice. But mostly friends. They can be male or female. It's fine to be vulnerable to them because you don't care if they're (romantically and sexually) attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:29 PM
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Aye m8! May you succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:03 PM
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Well don't assume. Go out and meet women and befriend them and then ask them if they think you're unattractive. Ask them if they could change one thing about you, be it physical or mental, and the change would make you more attractive to women, what change would that be. Maybe post in r/amIugly or some such sub. Also figure out the traits that are attractive in men - fit body, muscular, full head of hair, nice jawline, nice skin, tall, well dressed, rich, competent at something, big dick, confid…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:53 PM
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I hate this trite saying. I can't not compare. My mind will always go to a comparison. If I try to make it not compare, I will feel that I'm inferior and thus feel like shit, because if I were truly superior then I wouldn't give a fuck about comparison. Whether I want to or not, my sense of masculinity is totally wound up in how many women desire me, and how intensely they do, and how hot those women are. Validating my ego and this sense of masculinity is all I want, need, crave, live for. If I …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:40 PM
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Yes and that's very painful because other men can, and thus I feel inferior to them and emasculated. My ego hurts, and that is pain I can't bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:31 PM
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No, if you don't believe what women say here then there is no point to this sub and you can just write it all off and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:27 PM
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I have never lied upto this point. So we don't know if I lack it. But we shall see. Regardless if I can't get the sex I crave then suicide it is because this pain is unbearable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:16 PM
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I’m telling you that lying and cheating makes for a hollow, unfulfilling existence I don't feel that way. I think what one person finds fulfilling depends on the individual, their desires, their experiences, their values, and their context. You think your “pain” is going to subside by fucking other people over; it’s not. I don't want to fuck over other people. What I want is to sleep with a lot of women. But as a virgin I need practice in sex before I can aim for one night stands + it's possible…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:13 PM
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Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:10 PM
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I think attempting suicide without meaning to is more unstable than actually wanting to end it. There's rational reasons to want to die. If you feel there's no hope, then it makes sense to commit suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:09 PM
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You don't get it. You're telling a man who is in handcuffs and about to be executed that breaking his own thumb to extract his hand from the handcuffs and escape, is a dumb idea. It's not about whether an idea is dumb or not. It's about pain relief and survival. For eg, taking morphine is a dumb idea, but it's still given to patients in extreme pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:05 PM
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Men are far more likely to suffer from mh issues. P sure women suffer more than men. More likely to be addicts. Fair. More likely to commit suicide Women attempt more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:03 PM
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It's not terrible when you look at from my pov. I need to feel retribution against the universe. I need to feel like I have fucked more and better women than all my peers. Only then will my heart be at peace. No amount of therapy will help me get over this because a lot of therapy is about changing your thoughts, but changing my thoughts in this artificial way doesn't impact my feelings at all. Maybe it works for normies. But not for me. And honestly I feel emotional pain due to my inexperience,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:01 PM
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Nope, I said men have more extremes. For eg, most women could be higher IQ than most men, but men will have greater extremes in that they will have clusters of individuals of the highest IQ and clusters of individuals of the lowest IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:57 PM
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I disagree in that hey honey I am really stressed at work right now, so if i spend some extra time alone or sleep early or act snappy that is why, you dont have anything to be worried by, me and you are fine. But please respect giving me some distance the upcoming days’ is what we want will ALSO make women lose attraction for men. This was also said bell hooks, about how women do not want mens emotions to disrupt the desire women have for their stoic strong masculine man. Furthermore, if a man s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:55 PM
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Okay here's a possible explanation. On average, women are more unstable than men. BUT, men have more extremes amongst them, which means they have a number of unstable men who would lose it and harm their partner. But on aggregate, men are more stable than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:51 PM
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But you also have that Cuban wrestler who took gold in the Olympics and he's like 40 something
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:47 PM
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Not if they surgerypill and exercisepill and testosteronepill
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:46 PM
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Well then, worth trying to become attractive. What do you think makes you unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:36 PM
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I'm trying to do that. It helps when I'm working on being attractive. And the thought of sleeping with lots of women makes me feel good ngl. It's just, I don't think I'll be able to get women outside of a relationship context at first. Which is why I might resort to cheating, since my confidence will skyrocket after a starter gf. Anyway ita worth a try. If this doesn't work, then I can always off self.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:24 PM
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I think the solution is to try and become attractive and then try to sleep with as many women as possible. Lie and cheat if you have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:21 PM
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Oh I will be here dw. Just won't visit other subreddits. Nothing can stop me from dailyposting. You're right about the bootlickers sadly. But there's always r/LeopardsAteMyFace
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:29 PM
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Also pls tell me who she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:26 PM
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Bro I can't change what turns me on. That's like asking a gay man to be into women. Doesn't work because you can't control what you're into.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:26 PM
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Even more brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:24 PM
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Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:24 PM
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Nah, I'm a sucker for curvy women. I can show you an actual 10/10 facially who is skinny. I don't find her hot at all because she is skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:23 PM
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You're annoying. Let me just block you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:22 PM
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Is it when mid women think they're goddesses because of simps? Yeah idc about that, if I feel a woman is an 11/10 then I'm letting her know. Conversely there are some 10/10s that are less than a 4 to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:21 PM
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Trumps gonna get a third term Ded long before that. RIP
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:20 PM
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Fuck it, one last night and then I'm appblocking Reddit and YouTube and twitter for 99 days. Will only be able to access them for 45 minutes a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:19 PM
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Hot in general, but I think curvier than this is hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:18 PM
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No, it's considered holy shit she's so hot idc if she ruins me and takes all my money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:18 PM
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, I am simply better than you plebs. Fite me irl punk. j/k, good for you bro. Hope you make bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:17 PM
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For me it's ego validation. That's all I want, ego validation through sex. That's pretty much the only point of living for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:33 PM
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Well the point of everything, even sex, is ego validation. That's why I want to be thr best sex for any partner I have, and it's why I need to sleep with multiple women. Not because I enjoy it, but because it strokes my ego, which is the only reason I am alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:29 PM
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The game of "you hurt my ego I hurt yours"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:23 PM
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It's that time of the month.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:22 PM
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Boobies seem amazing ngl. So round and bouncy. I hope I get a gf with big boobies who let's me squeeze/suck on them 24*7.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:20 PM
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This is true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:19 PM
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No, it's fair. Turnabout is fair play.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:17 PM
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Tfw I'm socially awkward but I did an improv camp in Class 4th and since then I have 0 stage fright.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:11 PM
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Based as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:10 PM
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Can you change 'tiny' to 'disgusting, leprotic and pus filled' Please? Size shaming makes me feel insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:08 PM
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Tbh you guys should do a national strike. Proper. Remember in the last Trump era when the ATC people did a strike and broke Trump? Pepperidge Farm remembers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:07 PM
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Once senior year is over you become a senior citizen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:04 PM
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Day 78 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgins) Today I got stuck mentally. I started reading the news subreddits and worrying and getting anxious. I had promised myself I wouldn't read the news, but I did 😭 Spent all day feeling anxious. What will you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:04 PM
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Can't change that. Guess reddit leans lib.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:53 PM
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Please post this daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:13 PM
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Twitter links are only being banned in some subreddits though. Basically the lib leaning ones are banning them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:12 PM
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Because the tech is fundamentally based on stochastics. The thing is a glorified autocorrect. Which means it will often end up with the wrong guess. I'll give you an example that happened to me, I asked it to count the number of Yes and Nos as I typed them out. It did fine for the first 5-6 inputs. But after that it basically interpreted a "No" to mean "No, the count is not correct" and just jumped the count by 10. Because it is a probabilistic technology, and not one that understands, it simply…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:03 PM
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Not really. I've used it, Google is much better for answers with accuracy. ChatGPT is more convenient but also more wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:54 PM
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Nvidia CEO won't. He's not defrauding anyone technically. He's delivering GPUs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:54 PM
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It'll never be google because fundamentally hallucination isn't solveable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:52 PM
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More importantly, chatbots aren't profitable at scale and the 500bill scam proves that OpenAI needs constant injection of cash to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:46 PM
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One subreddit is not all of Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:01 PM
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this whole website is a leftist circle jerk. It's really not. Liberals are not leftist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:52 PM
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No imo, but I do believe that every subreddit is and should be allowed to run by it's own rules. So if people in a subreddit don't want Twitter links then so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:51 PM
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Reddit is not, subreddits are. Which they can because every subreddit chooses what to allow and what to ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:48 PM
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It feels like the right number.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:44 AM
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Chad confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:24 AM
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Maybe. I'll know once I've crossed 5
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:12 AM
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This is v confusing because men are told persisting despite a no = being a creep. Women talk about how their friends have wanted to date them and would persist in asking them and it annoys the women. It's like doing X will make women think you're a creep but doing X gets women. Like which is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 05:58 AM
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Well that's just said. But anyway, such men are trash. I wouldn't mind if they all got Thanos'd tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 08:25 PM
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If the woman chooses to not leave then she's making a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 07:33 PM
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Good luck bro, I'm rooting for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:31 PM
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Yeah you can safely ignore those idiots. They're weak brained idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:30 PM
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Sure, but men get criticized for this behavior. Women leave men for this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:30 PM
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I don't think all men do this. Tbh I'd be okay with her comments about the dad because I plan to get plastic surgery once I age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:19 PM
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I don't watch NTR hentai, but I do read a lot erotica about cheating and wifestealing. Can't help it, it's so hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:17 PM
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I dunno, I know some people who have done some very very fucked up shit when it comes to relationships. Like really really really really really really fucked up stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:16 PM
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Yes but in this case I don't think it's very different. All of this is tested empirically and is done under medical supervision.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:15 PM
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Eh, compared to the shit people do. Breaking up a family happens all the time. But there's dudes that actually watch their wife get fucked and like it, or share their wives. That's actually taboo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:12 PM
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Are you going the sexual route?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:07 PM
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Also, would you believe that there's women who have actually attempted much much worse than this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:04 PM
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Ah. I saw this really funny clip once from an Australian tv show. A woman was talking about how her husband and they made it seem like he had passed away. The woman was talking about how he was a great husband, until he fell right into another womans pussy. It was hilariously timed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:59 PM
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Heh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:58 PM
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Wait, you're Australian, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:49 PM
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/shrugs Can't change what turns me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:48 PM
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Ngl this changes my fantasies a little bit. The woman has to be in a relationship where the husband and the kids love her. There's no evident sign of dysfunction. Because it won't be a turn on for me until I know that it hits them out of the blue and it hurts them, until they're deprived of her love. I like the idea of monopolizing a person's love so that it's all mine and no one else can get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:47 PM
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Interesting. So basically someone stole your dad?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:45 PM
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Good luck trying this shit back home. You'd be lucky to not be dead. Bro if the AskIndianWomen and 2xIndia and AskIndia are to be believed, adultery is skyrocketing. Meanwhile I can't even get a single woman. This is why they're just fantasies. Although if I ever get an opportunity to pull this off, I will not hesitate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:44 PM
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Borderline child marriage tier but fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:43 PM
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Oh wow your DP change fooled me. Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:40 PM
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Wot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:39 PM
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I want to seduce a married woman with kids, and have her leave her kids for me, and then I want to rub it in to her exhusband that he's inferior, that's why he lost her, and even to her kids that they lost their mother because their dads inferior to me and so are they.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:38 PM
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The point is to not rinse. The fluoride needs to stay in your mouth for a while. So just spit the toothpaste, do not rinse with water. Also brush 2x a day for 2 mins each. Make sure to floss once daily. And when brushing, hit the point where the teeth meets the gum, that's the essential part that needs to be cleaned.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:37 PM
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Even though they're not, my sexual fantasies feel v insane and taboo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:34 PM
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Sad. I always had a hot nurse fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:18 PM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:16 PM
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That's how they're marketed but logic would say that's not how life works. You can't block your hormones from 13 to 17 and then expect to have the same development you would've had if you stop using them. I mean you can and you do. In fact minus the bones locking (which happens due to puberty) , if you take testosterone post puberty you'll get the same changes as you'd get in puberty. More hair, deeper voice, acne, insane libido etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:16 PM
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Dafuq did I just read.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:13 PM
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Oh? What's the reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:11 PM
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I saw a YouTube short where a guy said he works with nurses and they have a v high rate of adultery.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:11 PM
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It is elective surgeries but medicare pays for all kinds of elective surgeries.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:46 PM
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Yeah but its too late for best results by the time they're adults. So it's necessary that they be given blockers as kids. If they want to, they can then either stop taking the drugs and go through normal puberty, or have surgery, both options once they're 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:45 PM
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The Patel clan is cancer. Non Patel Indians are beginning to hate Patels now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:44 PM
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Tbh ask your mom about her ex boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:44 PM
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Stop stealing my gimmick 😤 Edit: although you're right about the toothpaste. I didn't learn that till I was like 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:38 PM
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Do nurses in the US have very high rates of adultery?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:37 PM
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The kind of surgery that let's them feel like their bodies are the same sex as their gender. So trans surgery, puberty blockers for kids, etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:22 PM
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He signed an EO trying to ban gender affirming care for people on Medicare.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:21 PM
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I don't care about my partners n-count but I care about mine. Right now it's 0, and because of that women won't want me so I want to raise it. But I want to get it to like 20, so I don't feel insecure about having a low n-count anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:15 PM
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Not persecute them. Let them have gender affirming healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:08 PM
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I really like A Perfect Circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:00 PM
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That's hot tbh (older women dating younger guy).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:00 PM
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Day 77 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgins). Today I was supposed to do laundry, it's been overdue. I haven't done it. I am lazy. I hate doing the laundry. I asked ChatGPT what to do. It told me to reduce the # of clothes I have. Good idea. Also I realised that Cognitive therapy techniques don't work on me. What will you do today ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:59 PM
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I just saw that Tiktok is back. How are Lily and the others feeling?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:50 PM
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I'm not picky, as long as they're big and motorboatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:46 PM
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Boob always. Butts can be had through exercise, boob can only be had through genetics or surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:37 PM
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Honestly I don't know. I just know that I need to overcome my inhibitions, fix my issues, become attractive and do whatever it takes to sleep with a lot of women to get over the regret of not having slept around in my 20s. That's all I care about
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:09 PM
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I think Chad feels no fear, he just approaches women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:05 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 11:34 AM
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It's a couple of reasons. One is that I'm currently isolated and dont meet any women because I'm in the wrong city for it. Two is because I have some medical issues that need fixing Three is anxiety. A shit ton of anxiety. The idea of exercise is to flood me with endorphins to counter my anxiety. So then I can focus on addressing the other two issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:23 PM
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Definitely getting consistent with exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:41 PM
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I just jerk off every morning so this doesn't happen much. Plus I'm not around women much irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:08 PM
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I think you should go the sexual route.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:06 PM
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Meanwhile I would love someone who aborts a child. tfw women think all men are the same :/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:02 PM
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There are things you can change and there are things you can't. It's no use trying to change the things you can't about yourself. It's easier to change your face with plastic surgery than to change certain deep rooted emotional responses. Anxiety you can change for eg, with exposure therapy. But likes and dislikes are harder to change. So for eg, one of the cornerstones of being a man is being into and watching sports. I have never been able to get into spectator sports. It's boring. Nothing I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:51 PM
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Yeah I think you should ignore politics when it comes to your personal life. I'm slowly becoming that way. Learning to ignore feminist ideology that I dislike.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:46 PM
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Yeah I'm not sure about the right etiquette here, which id what makes it awkward. Nonetheless, you deserve someone who appreciates your cookies and you. Hope you find that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:45 PM
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That would be awkward ngl. Like if you're a dude, should you still keep the brownies or no? Feels weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:42 PM
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How's your libido like? For me it felt like if my emotions were a choppy stormy ocean, then on the pill it felt like the sea was frozen. I had the same emotional responses but with like 90% less intensity. It made me numb.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:37 PM
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But it was in the context of you asking how people get over the loss of a kid. If I somehow magically had a kid and the kid got cancer and died, I wouldn't care much. It's like whatever. It doesn't mean I'll shove them in front of a car, it just means I don't care if they die because I feel nothing for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:36 PM
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Yeah you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:34 PM
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No I'm asking because I want to compare notes. I've been on max dosage of Sertaline and Paroxetine on different times in my life. I'm just curious how it affects you vs how it worked for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:33 PM
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What's your experience with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:31 PM
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then why not change your mantra to “women want hot men?” why keep a negative mantra? Because even when I'm hot I'll get a lot of rejection for being a virgin, and I refuse to lie about my virginity. Being hot increases the number of women who would want to date me, so if there's 90% odds of me getting rejected for being a virgin, by dating 5 women, by the power of compounding probability, my odds fall to .95 which is around 50% or so. Grad school for computer science. I'm going to try and get in…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:31 PM
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I'm planning on trying to become awesome and hot. I'm trying to kill my anxiety by drowning it in endorphins by exercising twice a day for 3 hours per session. I'm planning to get surgery for my medical issues that also cause me some anxiety. I'm planning to study hard this year and get into a grad school and then get a nice job which will put me in the top 1%ile of earners in this country. And then I'm planning to get surgeries to become good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:24 PM
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I'm okay with it not looking good on me. I believe what I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:22 PM
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Reminds me of that Dojacat song. "Bitch, I said what I said... ".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:20 PM
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Do you actually take Sertraline?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:18 PM
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Well, sarai told me I deserve to suffer because I think kids are expendable, so it comes from all sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:17 PM
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Day 76 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgin men). I feel so pissed off. I hate myself. I didn't go to the gym. I stayed @ home. At too much junk food and slept in there afternoon. Also, right now I feel like anytime I will ever make a move on a woman, I will be labelled a creep and expelled from the social circle. And since this feels inevitable I want to give up fighting the idea that I'm not a creep. Fuck it, I am a creep. That's what it's going to be. I will …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:16 PM
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I'm ngl I admire this. I too wish to shed my conscience in this way, it's one of the few things that bothers me. But slowly even I am edging towards what you have become. Respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:40 PM
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I don't plan to get old. I want to be dead before I'm 60 because life objectively is less fun in your 60s than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:08 PM
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I agree that it is a construct, but inexperience isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:07 PM
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is severe enough, there is just no way to legaly prove it and do anything about it Women do do something about it, they call men abusers and MeToo them for this. That's why I refuse to accept that something like this is serious enough a man to be accused. It's okay to lie about this. If a woman finds out the man lied she can always leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 11:28 AM
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Yes, it was some other guy. She consented to a guy who loved her, took it seriously and wanted to marry her (that's what she genuinely believed based on his lies), the real guy never loved her and only wanted sex And I think that isn't severe enough to count as rape by deception or abuse. Like, by this you could extend it and say oh he was a Deontologist, she wouldn't have had sex with him if she actually knew. It's stupid and silly. Only things that directly harm you like STDs are what people n…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 11:12 AM
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rape by deception is a legal term and it doesn't really apply to situations like this. It's supposed to be like, you blindfold your GF and she thinks its you who has sex with her but it's your brother, etc. Also this is funny because literally in another thread rn someone in this subreddit is telling me that it applies to any situation where a man lies. So if a man doesn't tell a woman that he's married, and he sleeps with her - rape by deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 11:08 AM
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Did you miss the two women who very specifically say that you HAVE to disclose and the other commenters, all men, saying you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 11:07 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 11:06 AM
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Nah, I think she consented to fuck the guy as he is. It's only deception if it's some other guy. Whether he's married or not doesn't matter, and so I don't count that as deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 11:06 AM
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But it's still not using you for sex as long as you consented.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:13 AM
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No it's not. Covert rape is a bullshit idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:01 AM
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Here you go https://np.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/s/ZsGwvq9s3M Read the entire thread. See what the women are saying about how virgins are OBLIGATED to disclose.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:45 AM
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Sure, give me a little while. I'll find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:58 AM
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No. I am working to overcome it and I will try my hardest to sleep with lots of women to overcompensate. Also I'm childfree so I tell myself that I will spend the next 20 years spending all the money I make on self improvement and on trying to become Chad, while all the normies will have to raise babies. My dream is to have an affair with a married woman and cuck her husband, that way I'll feel like I got over the time I missed out by taking away a normies woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:32 AM
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Because I have been told two things by women on Reddit. The first is that if I lie, she will find out during sex and I'll get dumped. The second is that lying = rape. This was posted on r/AskWomen where it was said that if you omit or lie about any information that could make her not want to have sex with you then that is tantamount to rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:26 AM
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Why care about any of that tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:31 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:31 PM
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Okay but then how do you rank which moment was the best?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:30 PM
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Atleast 50
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:29 PM
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Who hurt you bro? You can tell us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:31 PM
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What's the significance of the hat?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:29 PM
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Interesting. In that case how do you pick the guy you had the best sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:29 PM
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Do it tbh. Even if you regret doing it, you will regret NOT doing it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:24 PM
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So its only good and bad? There's no gradations in good like one guy was good and another was mindblowing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:23 PM
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Why do people care about the fashion at inaugration unless it's directly used as a hat tip to symbolize something political. Like, I really don't get how politics is covered. And this isn't just an American thing. In most places media covers things politicians end up saying, 99% of which is irrelevant and stupid. Very little time is devoted to covering policy proposals, alternatives, who voted for what bill, what was in the bill etc. It's like if you write a book report by just looking at the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:22 PM
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That's good. That's how it should be. Thank you for being based.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:20 PM
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You're the exception that proves the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:19 PM
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Since y'all are doing AMAs, I'm 32 yo with an n count of 0. AMA.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:51 PM
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No, the n=0 doesn't matter in teenage and early 20s. Beyond that it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:50 PM
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No, it isn't. She choses to have sex or to not have sex. A guy giving an ultimatum doesn't make it a coercion unless she is dependent on him materially.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:45 PM
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Even the "normal" understanding of the word incel is distorted. The word was coined by a sapphic woman who was sad and lonely. It literally just mean involuntary celibate. Had 0 misogynistic connotations. Another fun one is libertarian. It used to mean anarchists. The guys to the left of communists even. V v left. It was coopted by a right win economist and it's meaning changed into "hates government". The actual libertarians were people who held to the ideology that ALL heirarchies that cannot …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:44 PM
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That happens to ALL phrases with a political bent. Wait till you find out what communist actually meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:37 PM
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Coercion to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:35 PM
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if a man says either fuck me or i leave that's icky It can be icky, but if the woman isn't dependent on the man materially, then it isn't coercion. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:35 PM
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Someone who claims they will leave without actually wanting to or planning on following through, just to force the other to do what they want. See unless there's a literally gun to the head of you or your loved one, nobody can force you to do anything that you don't want to. So unless she's dependent on him for money, I don't buy that him leaving will affect her much. She doesn't want to have sex, he can threaten to leave and she can just ignore him. But the ultimatum itself isn't coercion if hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:28 PM
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Eww Quillette. Regardless, this is only for college campuses, so you can't generalise from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:25 PM
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Leaving a partner due to dead bedroom is not coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:24 PM
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Another thing has happened that has confirmed to me that I am not a feminist. Apparently feminists think that if a man is in a dead bedroom situation (or a woman for that matter), and they tell their spouse that they're leaving because they aren't getting sex, then that's giving an ultimatum and tantamount to coercion. And I fundamentally disagree with that. Ultimatums in relationships are not coercion. Violence is coercion. What's the worth that'll happen? One partner will leave. That is not co…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:17 PM
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Unless she is someone (there are a LOT of us) who don’t sleep with anyone right away. That's fair. But if she has a history of immediately sleeping with a guy in the past and she doesnt do that with you, there's always going to be doubt about what if she was really into those guys but isn't into me. So if she has a history of sleeping with guys immediately and doesn't with you, then it's best to leave her, or atleast detach your emotions from her and just treat her as an FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:01 AM
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This is funny ngl. On the one hand women tell us that no they're not interestee in having sex with random people. On the other hand they tell us that they'll sleep with a guy they just met if they're bored, or self loathing. In any case, sure I'll accept that immediate sex could be due to other reasons. But here's the thing - if she sleep with you, then there's a good chance she's very into you. But if she makes you wait, then there's essentially 0 chance that she's deeply into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:50 AM
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Wrong. Immediate sex = incredibly strong desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:54 PM
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Guess I'm crazy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:19 PM
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I wouldn't wish ugliness on a child of mine. Thats just evil. So gay son it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:19 PM
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Yeah. It's like a double whammy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:17 PM
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Yes and this makes me angry. It's intolerable. We should end all life, and let it restart. Maybe the next iteration will be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:32 PM
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Some people suffer mental illnesses. Others don't. It's really unfair, because those with illnesses go through life with a handicap that can be extremely severe. It really is unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:30 PM
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Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:17 PM
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Mfw. Okay yeah, no sympathy for those guys. I'd admire your father as a Chad but if he was violent towards you then the deserves torture.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:12 PM
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Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:48 PM
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It's always better to grow up in a big city than to grow up in a small town.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:48 PM
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I used to be a very good roller skater as a kid. My parents used to take me for lessons when I was 4. I even won a local competition. But then we moved cities and this new one had no skating rink, and there was no space where I could skate unsupervised. So I never skated again after that. It's been 28 years now and I sus I've forgotten how to skate. Sucks having to grow up in a small town.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:47 PM
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Day 76 of dailyposting (and a reminder that women don't want virgin men). Today was not a good day. Especially the last few hours I've had anxiety about my future surgery (even though it's months away from being scheduled even). Also, the days I get the most anxiety is the days I stay in. Which is what I did today. Stayed in and hogged out on this dish we make that's basically just baked balls of dough dipped in butter. Delicious but by God are they heavy on your digestive system. Shouldn't have…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:46 PM
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Based as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:42 PM
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:( I'm ngl this hurts, because like 10 years ago all my friends were single. They all cried about how they would never meet anyone. 10 years laters the only ones single are me, one guy with schizophrenia and a third guy who is butt ugly (although he has had gfs). :( :( :(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:41 PM
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Will you shoot people with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:40 PM
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Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:39 PM
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You are if you buy a Chinese origin phone, which I do cuz they're cheap and excellent quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:19 PM
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Doesn't mean all of it is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:05 PM
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Based tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:04 PM
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You know, sometimes I wish women believed men when they talked about their experiences. Like we have this whole movement about believing women and their lived experiences. But they don't believe it when men share theirs. Case in point the thread about vulnerability - so many women being like oh just because she left you after you were vulnerable doesn't mean she left you because you were vulnerable. Bro the men were the ones in the relationship. They know what it was. They saw the attitude chang…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:03 PM
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Only for men who have also had fun. Those who didn't get to, need to first get it out of their system. For them no woman is a good woman to marry, just good for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:00 PM
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You're not getting what I'm saying. Everything China produces is an extension of it's Communist government. You know they're slowly beginning to ban export of rare earth metals. They have a monopoly on those. Any device you're using right now has rare earth metals that was mined by Chinese companies (which are an extension of the CCCP). There is no way that you can exist without using China made products today. Doesn't mean that you support China. Like, for eg, I still have a Twitter account, do…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:51 PM
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Sure, so is the phone you're using because I can guarantee it has parts made in China. Doesn't mean you condone China.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:22 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:19 PM
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Women judge whether a man is hot Or cute or ugly or average. That's basically a scale, with just fewer gradations than men's scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:18 PM
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But anyone can stimulate the clitoris. And PIV does provide pleasure. Which is the point. That if you have a dick that isn't perfect for her then you're not giving her the best experience, which is the most pleasurable PIV + the most pleasurable clit play.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:29 AM
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How does it make it seem like a paint by numbers kit?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:26 AM
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You can't tell me women don't have look scales for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:24 AM
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The latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:22 AM
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If, for example, a prospective partner has an N count of only 9, there is only a 10% probability that you will be the most satisfactory partner they’ve had. But you won't ever know if you can be the best until you sleep with her and TRY to become her best. It's why my personal rule is that I must try and become the best. If she says I can't because my dick isn't big enough or I'm not dominant enough, then it's fair for me to look for someone for whom I can be the best. Someone Im more compatible…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:22 AM
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Yep. I don't care about a woman's n-count personally. But it ticks me off to see men who do care get called names by women. Dating is the ultimate free market. You don't get to judge another persons preferences, no matter how hypocritical, without your own being open to question as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:19 AM
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Absolutely correct on every point. Based post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:17 AM
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Your weekly reminder that n-counts matter because men with n=0 are unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:16 AM
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Depends on the league. Guys like Jeff Nippard who compete in properly drug tested league aren't on gear usually. Also like he said he's a trainer. He NEVER loses his physique. There's no off season for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:44 PM
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Can relate. I don't really know too well what triggers my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:13 AM
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Can't eat junk food tho. Junk food and drink calories pile up very very fast. Although I do think it's possible to schedule in spare calories for a night of partying, but like, it has to be planned well in advance, because basically all the people like this plan and prep their meals in advance because they don't have the time to cook everyday. Going out is possible but late nights are also no bueno because then you're missing your morning workout. The only way to party hard AND still have a good…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:12 AM
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So many women are delusional about what average is, they think you can get Chris Hemsworth’s body working out a few times a week for an hr and playing ultimate frisbee on the weekends This I absolutely believe. I remember an FDP post where the woman was like "men just need to pick up heavy stuff and put it down and they'll get jacked". I laughed so hard at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:09 AM
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Hmm. I need to upgrade my wardrobe since I have lose 20 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:21 AM
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Hear me out. How about AI based filtering on dating apps. The AI looks at the woman's image and guesses the BMI. Anyone over 22BMI (to account for false positives) doesn't get shown to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:20 AM
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This is usually a porno plot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:18 AM
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Did you forget the craze they had for Robert Pattinson?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:27 PM
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Explain 50 Shades of Grey and Twilight mania. Checkmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:19 PM
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And some women like hypermasculine features some don't. Virtually every woman likes a sharp masculine jawline, beard or no beard. Low inhibition or men who are confident men who will ask out a woman unabashedly is attractive. It's not a masculine thing but a confidence thing. Confidence is masculinity. Sadly confidence only comes with experience. Men like me need to go out and ask out a billion women (despite the fear that Im creeping them out) before I will be confident. Sadly nothing to do her…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:55 AM
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Don't read them. 50 shades is stupid it's just middle aged lady smut. But a large number of women do. It's clear that a man needs to become as masculine as he possibly can to increase his attractiveness. That means not just plastic surgery, but also becoming as low inhibition as possible. Sadly confidence only comes from experience, but until then drugs are a good substitute to kill fear dead. With those things, men can approach women with 0 fear and get laid a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:00 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:21 AM
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Everyday I am more convinced that Canada is a hell hole. "Universal" health care with not enough doctors and insane wait times for surgery. Expensive ass place to live with sky high rates of rent. Not enough jobs. And now this. Does Satan live in Canada or what? Did you guys build the country over the doors to hell?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:44 PM
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Not to a lot of men. For them, being lusted after by a hot woman = good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:42 PM
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Nah, cumming is nice but it's secondary to validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:29 PM
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Constantly refreshing the ppd homepage so I can be first on today's daily thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:27 PM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:26 PM
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What the fuck? Which hellhole is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:25 PM
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Yeah if a woman is with a man for any reason other than lust = woman settling for a man. Unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:24 PM
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I don't rationalise it at all, I know it's irrational. But I simply don't care when men cheat on women. I feel outraged when women cheat on men. I am driven by my emotions on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:23 PM
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What if it was the lean and the not wearing glasses and not really the confidence? Also what if for most men they can only feel confident if they have looksmaxxed themselves to an 8/10
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:21 PM
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The ripped ultra Chad guy. Are fantasies of what men find attractive in other men. Pretty sure that's the stock character in a romance novel. Jacked tall dark handsome ultra powerful sulky dominant billionaire with a secret soft side that only his beloved has access to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:20 PM
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Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:19 PM
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I'm pro aborting kids if as kid it's discovered that they're short or ugly or have mental health issues or have a small dick or any other issue that would reduce their odds in the sexual arena. I'm a bit more conflicted about it if the child is older and already a teenager, because then the childs own desire to live comes into play. But when they're barely cognizant of things, and ita detected that they will have any of the above or any kind of genetic diseases then I think it's okay to euthaniz…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:18 PM
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Women do do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:15 PM
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I feel bad for them. Living apart = less sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:08 PM
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My reaction is to ask myself why the fuck didn't I abort the kid once I found out he was autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:07 PM
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If they care that much they can always dump the woman and try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:06 PM
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The "my body my choice" has to be amongst the dumbest phrases I've seen No. Literally the entire law is based on telling people what they can and can't do with their body Almost all of those laws need to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:05 PM
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Cucked. j/k
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:04 PM
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more and more obligations to do things you don't want to do. Only if you have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:03 PM
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Nope. Hedonism is more important. Virtue is vice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:02 PM
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Somehow slip him laxative.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:01 PM
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The former.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:01 PM
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Which ever one is hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 09:14 PM
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That Or generational wealth. Although SEA countries are very cheap to travel to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 09:13 PM
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Being hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 09:05 PM
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"Love" is a scam. Only lust and limerence are real.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 09:03 PM
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If I think that women should get the same rights as men rape culture is real and it's a bad thing women should be allowed to seek abortions without anyone else's interference but also that men who are paternity frauded have every right to cut off financial and emotional support from the child men have no obligation to fight for women's issues since women don't have empathy for men and their issues the state should paternity test all babies. I empathise with men who cheat on women, but not with w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 08:31 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 08:23 PM
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It won't lol. Look at Australia. Give them the example of Australia next time. They still struggle with their leaders and they don't have good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:51 AM
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Same but MBTI is astrology
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:50 AM
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32
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:45 AM
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The best revenge is success. They get to me also sometimes. But if I focus on making them feel bad, then I lose because they successfully got to me. If I focus on improving myself and get laid instead, then I win.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:44 AM
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Yes I know, but people can't help it. My position triggers them. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:42 AM
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Tbh it's okay. Almost everyone has this reaction when I tell them I don't feel empathy for kids the way they do. This is one of the things I genuinely don't mind people criticisizing me for because I know they simply can't control their own emotions around this. It is funny though ngl. Like sorry, I don't know what to tell you, but I just don't feel anything for kids. /shrugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:39 AM
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Nice edit though. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:34 AM
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Fuck that subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:32 AM
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I still don't think you need roids tho. I don't think anything beyond a lean physique is necessary tbh. Face is more important anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:31 AM
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My answer is that I'm willing to work on myself for 10 years. 3650 days. And if after that much time of trying, things haven't happened for me, then they were never going to happen for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:30 AM
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Honestly bro if you feel the need to make them feel undesirable then they're getting to you. Just ignore them is good advice though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:26 AM
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Oh okay, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:25 AM
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Oh wow is this from the response to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:25 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:23 AM
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I guess I'm the most beta male out there to ever exist then. Oh well, nothing I can do about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:15 AM
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Explain this meme. I am ootl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:01 AM
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Every time I read subreddits from my country and U come across dating and relationship posts, I am reminded of my virginity and my self esteem gets shredded and I feel this urge to sleep around with tons of women until I overcome this feeling. :( My life sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:57 AM
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No wonder you're Chad chasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:05 AM
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When I say inherent I don't mean biologically determined. I mean widespread and very very very difficult to change, therefore impossible to do so at scale. Like I agree that gender is socially constructed. But how easy would it be to tell men to just not be masculine? How easy do you think it would be? Can you simply change society to one where masculinity is completely eroded away? And how quickly could you do that? Similarly female desire right now includes this aspect of not wanting to see ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:59 AM
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And what I'm saying is that she can't change this at scale in society. No one can. And that this desire to not want to see male vulnerability is inherent in women. Most women have this. Therefore most men should not be vulnerable to their partners. Thus toxic masculinity must continue. And it's no ones fault. Women aren't at fault for their desires. Men aren't at fault for theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:51 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:13 AM
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Bruh someone literally posted a Bell Hooks quote. She's a feminist academic. And she was talking about how feminists would say that men need to open up, but she never liked a man opening up because then she would have to see him be weak and it would destroy the fantasy of the strong man. Wait I'll repost it here. The reality is that men are hurting and that the whole culture responds to them by saying, “Please do not tell us what you feel.” I have always been a fan of the Sylvia cartoon where tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:07 AM
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It was a month old.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:43 AM
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is toxic masculinity simply defined as not showing vulnerability? not showing vulnerability is like a general human tendency that i’d barely consider masculine. maybe its slightly less acceptable for men to show vulnerability than women, but out in the world, its pretty much not acceptable for anyone. I don't think this is true. I've been vulnerable to friends and have only had good experiences. Mark Manson wrote an entire book on how men can improve their dating lives by being vulnerable. Toxic…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:43 AM
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No, I've had good experiences opening up to women. BUT, those women were friends. Not romantic relationships. The one relationship I kind of had, I suspect was lost because I was open to her about how much I was invested in her. Won't make that mistake again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:40 AM
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All of that being said, men DO need outlets where they can vent and get support. That's why friends (true friends) are GOATed. And since men can't be vulnerable in a relationship, the only point of relationships is sex and validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:35 AM
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Reading that bell hooks quote about not wanting to see her partners vulnerability has me convinced that 1) women do not want to see weakness in their romantic partners 2) therefore men must never show weakness to their partners 3) and thus toxic masculinity is inescapable. And I don't even think it's anybody's fault. Women like what they like. They dislike what they dislike. And you can't fault men for trying to become whatever women like. It just so happens women like men who are some levels of…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:33 AM
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Something that annoys me is how when individuals are talking about dating and sex, the conversation inevitably turns towards societal factors and how patriarchy bad etc. Like sure, but individuals cannot change patriarchy, they cannot change society. So I wish that instead of just bringing up societal factors, people would also give targeted actionable advice of how an individual can get what they want in their dating lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:29 AM
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Unrealistic doesn't mean not humanly possible. It means what's being asked is too big a burden. That depends on how bad you want it. People who judge are petty losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:23 AM
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I'm not laughing, I just am unable to understand. The way I see it is - babies trigger certain kinds of emotions in people. And given the way they behave, it's the same kind of emotions that cute animals trigger in people x 1000. But for whatever reason, that emotion doesn't really trigger in me. I don't find babies cute, I find them obnoxious, annoying and whiny. I'm certain it's just a me thing, because most people want babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:23 AM
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So? Nothing wrong with doing self destructive things. People eat a lot of food when they know its harmful, or smoke. They still dont get the kind of stigma that people who use steroids do. And I don't understand why. Anyway, even if it's harmful, it isn't unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:06 AM
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Exactly. I don't even want to turn around and shout at those people because then it feels like I'm letting them get to me. Nah, what needs to happen is their pain needs to be invalidated in turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:01 AM
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/shrugs I've never found it gross or evil. For whatever reason I lack whatever it is that makes people value kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:00 AM
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I think those who mock others pain should have their own pain and suffering denied. When they need empathy, they should be denied it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:55 AM
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If it's possible to exist in the real world through whatever means, then it's realistic. Nothing wrong with using unnatural means.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:53 AM
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I don't think it's hard. But then I have 0 empathy or desire for kids so I think of them as disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:52 AM
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No, it's not. It's BECAUSE women aren't attracted to the boring and predictable guy that TRP says that if women can choose raw lust over everything else then men should too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:23 AM
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Im not gonna shoot the messenger but I will shoot the message. UBI won't solve shit because the market will still work on profit maximization. Which means that your UBI stipend won't go very far and will only cause inflation. The fundamental truth is that capitalism will leave most people incredibly poor despite generating such material plenty. This is the contradiction of capitalism that Marx highlighted long ago. It's a relentless process.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:09 PM
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No it won't. The vast majority will literally be the immiserated reserve army of labor. That's what capitalism wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:06 PM
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One really brutal redpill is that with automation, most jobs WILL go away. It's not a question of if but when. Most people in 50 years will be jobless. And unless you're one of the smartest top 5%, you probably will not have a job in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:02 PM
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It's neither feminine nor masculine. It just is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:36 PM
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I couldn't find Lily hot tbh. Meh af.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:32 PM
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For saying that I would leave a woman if my dick wasn't the perfect fit for her pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:32 PM
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I am happy to see the slow but steady economic demise of that blighted island. Hope they all get impoverished.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:31 PM
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Perfect usecase for ChatGPT.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:29 PM
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Either way, it won't invoke the type of engagement that TikTok does. It's a mistake to think this tbvh. They also thought the same thing for MySpace. And yet we have more and more social networks that are more and more addictive and engaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:07 PM
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No. Just means we have to go through a lot of rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:03 PM
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I'm not interested in being better. And it hurts my self respect and dignity to have empathy for those who would mock me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:00 PM
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It makes me feel better. Like if women are going to mock me (for the "crime" of saying that I would like to date a woman for whom I am the best genital fit, ie my dick and her pussy feel like they were made for each other), then why should I empathise with them. Women don't get hatred from other women for saying they want a big dick. But I say that genital fit matters to me and I get crucified (and I didn't even say that in my post on that subreddit. It was in my post history that someone dug up…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:32 PM
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You know what, I feel angry. I just remembered how women in the AskWomenNoCensor subreddit mocked me. So fuck it, I'm going to kill any empathy I have for women and their issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:24 PM
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I'll try and see for myself. I think that's a fair approach, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:13 PM
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I already do MMA. Although I've been teavelling so I haven't gone since New Years. I will from Monday.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:13 PM
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They'll move to Instagram. That's what happened when Tiktok was banned in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:12 PM
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Childfree? Edit: nvm I get it. Cope. Yeah possibly. But I feel like I can get better results than them if I really try. And if things don't work out there's always the other forbidden word.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:07 PM
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Yes, I'm insanely jealous of them. I have to work for this shit. Sometimes I tell myself that I will get better results than them because while most of them deal with kids and divorces and other shit, I will be free to try and date with no restrictions on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:00 PM
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As long as you're okay with men leaving the women once they're bored of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:44 PM
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Nah, sex is meaningless if she doesn't want me because she is physically attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:38 PM
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Yeah that's what gets me the most. That others learnt this shit at the right age. Now it's so much harder. I wish I could just give up and lay down and rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:37 PM
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I'm convinced that most women aren't on OLD. It's especially true where I am. Have to find ways to meet them online.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:35 PM
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Tbh sometimes what I want seems impossible. I need to do so much. I need to first get my surgery done, for which I might have to travel abroad, because that's where the best surgeons are. And then I have to hope that the surgery works and I can be cured. Then I have to move to another city. And there I have to find ways to socialise with women. Which means finding spaces where single women my age go to socialise. And then I need to overcome my own inhibitions and learn to flirt/physically escala…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:34 PM
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Yes my last two weeks of existence. I wouldn't seek pity sex, but I'd spend all my money on drugs that kill fears and inhibitions dead and make me horny, and then I'd just hit the clubs and keep trying to hit on every woman. Nothing really matters in life more than sexual validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:59 PM
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The question about the guy who's dying in 2 weeks made me think if what I'd do. I don't want pity sex but I do want sex. I'd basically blow all the money I have on getting excellent clothes and drugs. And then I'd just go out to a nightclub every night. Maybe I'd spend money to get myself professionally groomed. Then I'd drug myself to kill all inhibitions and just approach women for the next two weeks. If I'm going out, I'm going out trying to get laid. I know y'all women think it's pathetic bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:56 PM
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all he can think about is dumping loads into multiple different holes Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:53 PM
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Won't help. There are places in the Nordics with all the things you say should be there. Birth rates are still below replacement. The fundamental truth is, a big chunk of educated women do not want to put their bodies under the process of birthing. Can't really blame them for that either. So low TFRs are a result of modernity in that they are a result of education. The highest TFRs are in the regions of the lowest education. And as education levels rise, TFRs drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:47 PM
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Somewhere out there I could have an Ex telling the internet I’m better than her husband and IDGAF Obviously because she's an ex. What if your current SO says that ? For me that's unacceptable. I need to be the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:43 PM
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I don't buy this tbvh. The internet is a real place in that real people post here and talk about their own lived experiences. I'm real. I'm presuming you're real too. Plus, lots of women have talked about how they did have better sex with other guys than their husband because either the past relationship was toxic (apparently that enhances the excitement), or they had better chemistry with their ex. It IS a real phenomenon. And there's nothing wrong with men who want to not become a victim of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:37 PM
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Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:31 PM
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Too much political posting tonight. But nice to see so many commies in this group.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:28 PM
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No. I had a cousin like that, who kept yearning to go back to her abusive ex. I had 0 patience for her. But this literally proved that AF/BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:02 PM
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Based as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:01 PM
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Day 69 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgins). I'm sick today, so I spent all my time watching a K-Drama called Tunnel. It's really cold af today. What will you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:01 PM
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Sure. Quite a few of them when I think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:49 PM
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Day 68 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgins). Today sucked. I didn't get much sleep last night. And I still feel sad today. What will you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:36 PM
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Yer a grandpa. Times have changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:17 PM
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Your 30 year old female friend proves that n-counts matter for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:46 PM
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You think they did it by wallowing and complaining? Or do you think the joined the 95 percent and did something about it to become part of the 99.7? I'm also trying bro. But I reserve the right to remind people that n-counts matter on the weekly n counts thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:47 PM
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The 5 percent are usually like me. Sheltered guys who no one ever told that being a virgin past 25 is stigmatized. I didn't even realise this til I was 27 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:38 PM
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and instead focus on what the vast vast majority of dudes actually did You're missing the point. Think of it this way. Suppose there's a set of actions (label this set as X), that they could have taken to get a girlfriend. X will only work if you're a virgin below 25 or a nonvirgin above 25. After 25 as a virgin 5%er, the odds of X working drop exponentially. Thus in general, if you are a virgin(male)above 25 then it's very difficult to get a gf. And this proves that n=0 is a bad position to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:33 PM
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Yes but for the remaining 5% it is. Unless you think those 5% suffering don't matter. For those 5%, most women will reject them. Thus, n-counts matter for men, and we should teach young men to get theirs up as fast as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:14 PM
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Bro, they (ie low body count women) are an outlier themselves. Most women (over 25) have more than 2 easily. If you think otherwise then you're not paying attention and you need to touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:44 AM
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Well most women above 25 don't have low bodycounts. Also even the low body count women still don't want a virgin. I've seen it multiples times, women on various women-centric subreddits have said the same thing. Most women don't want virgins. Bodycount matters for men, and we should be advising young men to raise theirs as soon as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:41 AM
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Well the 0 body count one was a virgin, so yeah she didn't. But those women are rare. The other one was an outlier. Overall, your experience is atypical.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:29 AM
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Ageed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:46 AM
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I'm ngl, I would totally (keep track).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:46 AM
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Your weekly reminder that n-counts matter because almost no women want 25yo+ men with n=0
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:45 AM
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If they're lowering their standards then you're being settled for. Maybe you're okay with being that kind of guy, but that's unacceptable to my ego. I think men (including me) need to become the man that women lust after, or die trying. Nothing else matters in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:46 PM
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Hmm. I've never tried doing this. Maybe I will this year. But overall I don't really feel all that good when I imagine helping people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:00 AM
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If she's a virgin then I kinda don't want her because then she has nothing to compare me to, so being the best is meaningless. And yeah sexually, idc about romantically as long as I'm the best in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:23 AM
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Ir doesn't matter, just set an amount of xardio and do it. Increase it every 2 weeks or so by 10 minutes. You'll end up burning a lot of calories
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:18 AM
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For me I got over it ages ago because I realised that fir me the bodycount had to do with insecurity that I was not her best. So now (even though I'm a virgin), bodycount doesn't phase me at all. What I intend to do is to ask a woman if I am her best and if I can eventually be her best if not. If her answer to both questions is no, I'd leave. If she doesn't want to answer, I'd leave. If I can become the best lover a woman has ever had then her past lovers don't bother me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:17 AM
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I guess it depends. There's multiple ways you can go about it. Try to get over this feeling is one. Another is to find someone who doesn't make you feel this way. A third is to get so much experience dating different women that YOU end up feeling like a hypocrite (although it doesn't always work). A fourth is to give up on dating altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:11 AM
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Then I'd say the chemistry isn't strong enough. I'm saying it should be strong enough to overwhelm all doubts. Regardless if you can't get over it then the answer is to leave. If being with her isn't a fuck yeah, then its a no. In other words, if you have to ask, you know the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:08 AM
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Yeah it makes sense. The number of single women post 30 is like 5% of the total 30+ women here. So it's a very tiny # of women. And most divorcees have kids so that's no bueno.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:59 AM
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So I did try some of this last year. Sadly self esteem was not raised much. Sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:57 AM
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Yeah that makes sense. I'm just afraid that every woman I meet will be talking about marriage from the very first date or two. Sadly marriage is a big part of my culture and older women feel insane pressure to get hitched. The number of childfree 30+ women who don't want to get married but do want a relationship is really fucking tiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:56 AM
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Why not increase cardio?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:52 AM
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I know a guy who did, and the curiosity and bits of regret that he expresses about never getting to explore, to see wha This is what makes me sad. All women my age here who are single are looking to find a guy to get married to. Like they're working towards it from the very start. Nobody wants to just have a relationship and see where things go.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:51 AM
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I think it's possible. But I think the connection has to be incredible, like mindblowing chenistey, so much so that you have no doubt that she wants you more than she ever wanted the other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:49 AM
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Q4A: I struggle with low self esteem. What are your best tips for raising self esteem?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:48 AM
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Fuck you, you're not the boss of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:27 AM
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Tbh fuck lying to women about my virginity, if they don't want me because I didn't have sex then they aren't into me anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:03 AM
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Communism but for the SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:01 AM
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True. Women are privileged in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:57 AM
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I disagree in that I think the degree to which one can do those things is so miniscule that it make almost no difference to a mans prospects. The only real way to change your looks is surgery and the only real way to change behavior is drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:17 PM
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But then it's not about something he does or behaves in a way, but about certain qualities of his that he's been born with. It's essentially the same as looks (in that it's not about actions, it's about unchangeable qualities).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:12 PM
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So you're essentially saying that 1) there are certain intangible things about a man (that aren't his actions), and 2) they can be ascertained from appearance alone. Which basically is just another replay of the "looks are everything" but instead of just looks it's another thing that men have little to no control over.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:05 PM
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Alluring mystique? Bro what mystique? People haven't even heard him talk much. It's only his photos. That's all. That and they know he's a criminal. So any mystique that's there is solely due to his appearance. Not anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:58 PM
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Okay then what did Jeremy Meeks do? Unless you think women are turned on by criminal behavior, this thesis is bunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:40 PM
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Having a severe diagnosed anxiety disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:54 AM
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Is there anything more passionate Actually being in the match.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:53 AM
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As a red pill woman, I understand that most men find most women to be fat and unattractive. Dafuq?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:29 AM
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Also women struggling with PCOD have it harder to lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:28 AM
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Legit looks like the MF Doom mask.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:26 AM
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Damn. I got a shave recently and it took like 15 minutes. Also posted a photo of me shaved to my friends. One said I looked 40. Another said I looked like a highschooler :|
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:49 PM
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To be fair we do have expertise in our own lived experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:41 PM
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Eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:40 PM
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Day 57 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgins so I must become attractive). Today I doomscrolled and shitposted What will you do today PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:37 PM
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Yes, if that's what is at your core then please do be greedy and deceptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:36 AM
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Lillith, some people have kids despite not having the means to support them. But it doesn't mean you put limits on reproductive autonomy. Why ? Because certain ideals are more important than good outcomes. That also goes with what people want to put into their bodies. Don't pressure your partner to lose fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:16 PM
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Stop giving a fuck about people you love.” If you truly love someone, let them EAT. And stop being so fatphobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:59 PM
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People also lose family due to being in a car accident. Doesn't mean you don't drive. Let people be obese if they want to, anything else is a violation of personal autonomy. You start there, and before you know you're curbing women's reproductive rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:51 PM
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Stop. Being. Fatphobic. Because this is literally fatphobia. Stop policing your partner, they are not your property.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:49 PM
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<image> I found the original comments in the r/marriage subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:10 PM
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Hmm. Tbh now you've made me think about ace people who fall in love with normal people and have sex with them even though they don't want, because they love them. Basically what would you say to the women who say they don't feel desire but do feel love for their SO and want to have sex with them even if not enthusiastic?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:06 PM
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That's possible yes. But how do you argue against women when they say that for them enthusiastic consent isn't necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:56 PM
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No no, the wife herself said that look I WANT the guy to fuck me even when I'm tired and not fully enthused. It confused me as well, but their argument was that life is tiring and if they only did it when they had energy, then they would never do it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:44 PM
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4-6. 7 or above should be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:34 PM
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Only ugly women. We won't have you stealing our hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:31 PM
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Hmm, tbf yeah not being able to get a place to rent sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:28 PM
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No but they reported me for something so innocuous. I was making a joke about stabbing someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:23 PM
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I feel bad for Russia. That land deserves better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:13 PM
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Is it weird that I've actually wished I could be this guy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:10 PM
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Someone reported me 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:37 PM
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Don't your ribs hurt?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:43 PM
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That looks painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:42 PM
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Just opened Twitter and apparently there's a nice fight going on between MAGAts and Trump techbros over H1Bs. Hilarious to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:07 PM
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Over here it kinda does.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:34 PM
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Over here those have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:26 PM
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IMO yes. I would rather be alone than be settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:16 PM
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Although tbh there is one risk to cheating and that's if she tells everyone. Then it could get difficult to find another woman. Plus if you date another woman, she could always contact the ex and ask why the break up happened. Need to find a more foolproof ways. Maybe get a job that has some travelling involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:10 PM
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Lots of men do. It really depends on whether your masculinity and sense of self rest in being able to do normal sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:19 AM
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You wouldn't understand. Lots of dude do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:15 AM
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Lots of people are poor. Doesn't mean I don't envy and resent the rich and want wealth myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:13 AM
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There's always the option of suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:12 AM
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I mean if most reject me for lacking experience, I'll just start lying. What really matters is that I get to experience the sexual experimentation I missed out on. If I have to do some morally questionable things to achieve that then so be it. Besides, there's even odds that I never get laid simply because I'm too afraid to physically escalate. Although I'm reasonably confident that alcohol can solve this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:10 AM
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That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:13 AM
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You know I see people who like to travel. And they're usually very confident. Once I start making some good money I'm going to try travelling and see if it makes me confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:11 AM
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Yeah I guess. Tbh it's why I will cheat if I get an opportunity. It feels unfair to have missed out. So it's fair that I can cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:09 AM
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I feel that they do. There's a lot of other things I missed out on. Like partying etc. Now I'm too old. Can't really go to clubs and such because I'll be seen as a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:01 AM
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Ngl the thought that I can't makes me feel really angry/depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:57 AM
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Make up in what way? Have lots of sex with different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:55 AM
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Fair. Most women in their 30s are looking for long term relationships. I've seen a Childfree dating group and virtually all the posts by women were looking for a dude to marry. Which really makes me envy the people who got to experiment in their 20s. I want that life. But I'm not sure if it's possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:48 AM
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Sometimes I wonder if I will ever be able to make up for missing out on sex and sexual experimentation in my 20s. Because afaik women in their 30s in this country mostly want relationships. Can't really experiment with other people if you're in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:44 AM
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This couple makes stupid scripted prank videos. Don't fall for it bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:15 AM
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He's saying that neurodivergent people can't tell if she's enthusiastically consenting. So if she says yes and isn't enthusiastically consenting, then by the barometer of consent being enthusiastic he will have committed a rape when he didn't intend to. So he is arguing that consent should only hinge on the verbal (or the written jf you can't speak I guess).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:48 AM
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Not saying enthusiastic consent is bad, but I've seen married women say that sometimes they're tired and not enthused but theyd rather the husband still have sex with them than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:43 AM
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