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Older women are just trying to remove the competition by pushing a narrative that it is creepy to date younger women.
/r/MensRights11/10/25 03:31 PM
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One year teaching license suspension?!??!!
/r/MensRights15/05/25 05:16 PM
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Other women were always the primary emotional outlet for women, not men.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 07:21 PM
1

Tell him not worry. AI will soon take your job. 😂 But what in the world are you going to do all day, knit? 🧶
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/25 02:34 AM
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Until they fall in love with you, then they look past tons of faults. Have you seen some older men? They’re train wrecks and their poor long suffering wives put up with them. I live in a condo association. The amount of decent women that have craptastic husbands is amazing. They’re a bunch of old curmudgeons.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:11 AM
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I’d sue the town for damages. Qualified immunity might protect them individually from liability but it certainly doesn’t protect the town from liability for putting a man in jail for a month with zero evidence. It took them a full month to review footage. Any idiot knows that every single major supermarket and retail chain has surveillance footage all over their property. It should have taken one day and a Court order to review that footage. And shame on the piece of trash prosecutor who didn’t …
/r/MensRights18/01/25 04:14 PM
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The whole thing is a mess. The 18 year old dad won’t be able to properly care for that 5 year old and the mom will probably do some time. She’s actually facing hard time, decades in prison with right judge, and I’m not clear on what this would do to the kid. And we have no idea if she’s done this with other boys. She obviously attracted to minors. 11 years old is super young.
/r/MensRights17/01/25 02:29 PM
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Could you imagine the outrage if the genders were swapped? This kid was 11 when this woman started messing with him. That is utterly insane. And now we have a kid to worry about as well as the victim. It’s deranged.
/r/MensRights16/01/25 11:16 PM
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I wonder how many months of probation she will get?
/r/MensRights16/01/25 09:01 PM
10

That is strange. Most places have Romeo and Juliet laws where if the teens are roughly the same age that they don’t get charged.
/r/MensRights14/01/25 02:17 PM
1

Everything in his mind always circles back to, “It’s a guy’s fault.”
/r/MensRights13/01/25 03:22 PM
1

Wow. Just a bunch of easily provable nonsense. Take his point about women being denied entrance into male dominated fields. There's a problem with that. The more regressive the country is the more likely they'll have women in traditionally male occupations like engineering. The most egalitarian societies, like Scandinavian countries, have more not less gendered work forces.
/r/MensRights13/01/25 12:58 AM
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I don’t know if I’d go that far, but it’s a truly bizarre way of thinking that these girls have. I have this theory that the mass, primal unconscious of women have collectively realized that large amounts of promiscuity isn’t actually good for women. This is why you’re seeing the rise of me too and weird quasi Victorian values. It’s muddled and unfocused for sure, but it’s there. There’s no focal point. For a while, we’ve seen these attacks on men and high value men in particular. There’s some k…
/r/MensRights10/01/25 03:32 PM
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And yes, this is beyond idiotic. I’d make my kid pay her own legal bills. I wouldn’t hire anyone to protect her. You’re an adult. Pay your own bills.
/r/MensRights10/01/25 02:34 PM
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I had a chick say she caught me jagging off at a party in high school. She lied. She told everyone at my school. Imagine going to school, not feeling already too good about yourself, and then having people giggle quietly as you walk down the hallway. I had no idea why everyone was laughing. No clue. And then someone told me. From that point on, I was the butt of everyone’s joke. One kid stood up for me. I’ve always been super sensitive since then about false allegations. I was a kid who had been…
/r/MensRights10/01/25 02:32 PM
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The men who helped though. What was that about? That is doubly weird. That’s next level simping.
/r/MensRights10/01/25 12:03 AM
73

What was their logic? I don’t get it. If she were 18, and a freshman in college, he would be a senior. Are they saying that you have to be the exact age of your partner? My mom is eight years younger than my dad.
/r/MensRights09/01/25 12:56 AM
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3 years for doing a kid who was 14? That’s insane and she’s insane. She went to the kid’s house. That’s next level crazy.
/r/MensRights08/01/25 12:32 AM
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I was talking about the whole thing. The posting of the video and crying in your car. I’m not talking about her not being attracted to the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:24 PM
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It does feel narcissistic for her to do this though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 02:12 AM
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That woman in the video is beautiful. It would be tough for most men to just be friends with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 02:10 AM
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I think male female friendships are tough. I tried it once and the woman caught feelings and started being ultra rude to the woman that became my wife. She’d say things like, “She looks like your sister.” She doesn’t. I think the only way it could truly work is if there’s legit no attraction either way. If there’s even a glimmer of attraction, then it’ll fall a part in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 02:09 AM
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I never said that I’m not attracted to other women. I said that I no longer desire casual sex. There’s a major difference between the two. I went through a wild period in between my first and second marriage. By the end of it, I was sick of just hooking up and having these situationships. It wasn’t difficult for me to find women to sleep with for the first time in my life. To be frank, it was like shooting fish in a barrel. Men don’t take care of themselves as they get older, by and large, and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:21 PM
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I do not want to have sex with women that are the ages of my daughters. It’s weird as hell. The idea that I, as a 55 year old guy, would want to have sex with a kid that just graduated high school is beyond ridiculous. I’m a grown ass man. I have a friend whose daughter is dating a 65 year old and she’s 28. It’s the goofiest 💩 I’ve ever seen. This wrinkly, old goofy bastard walking around with this young woman makes me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:14 PM
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Wrong. In my line of work, I’ve met thousands of men who are high status. They virtually NEVER choose the hottest, youngest woman in the room to be their wife. I’ve been to people’s houses that, no joke, are like mini Downtown Abbeys. Huge pillars. Indoor pools. Lakes in their backyards. I went to one house where his guest house was twice as big as my house. Their wives are rarely hot. I’d say almost never. These men do not want their wives to draw a ton of attention. Their wives are usually int…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:52 AM
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As I stated, I’ve had my fair share of casual sex and for me it was akin to drinking a bottle of soda. Sickly sweet and I don’t feel particularly good after I engage in the behavior. I’m certainly not virtue signaling as there’s no one I know in my personal life on this list. My friends have daughters who are between the ages of 18-30. I do not want to sleep with them. I feel zero arousal around them and they are beautiful young women. I have coworkers who are in their 50s who did exactly as you…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:43 AM
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The immature point is spot on. I worked with a young woman and she was attractive for about five minutes and then she opened her mouth. You can see blind spots in their thinking that won’t end well for them and they just don’t or won’t see how it’s not going to end well. I prefer the security of a sober minded woman. My wife is sober minded and sensible. I’ve done the fun, impulsive, not thinking about where or how it’ll end thing and it gets boring for me pretty quickly because I know where it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:54 PM
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I’m definitely not lying. You also need to learn to read because as another post pointed out, I get the ascetic appeal of a 25 year old woman, but the idea of being emotionally and sexually intimate with a woman younger than my daughters feels kind of gross to me. When I look at a 25 year old, I can’t imagine what I’d have in common with a woman that age. I can look at a young woman and think she’s beautiful and such, but the idea of going beyond that doesn’t appeal to me, at all. Sex for me isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:46 PM
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I prefer older women because I don’t want anymore children and I’d prefer to have something in common with them. I look at 25 year olds as kids. Why? My two daughters are age 25 and 29. My step daughters are the roughly the same age. I get the ascetic appeal of younger women, but I just look at them as kids. I’m not saying they are kids, necessarily, but that’s the way I would feel. I married my second wife when she was 48. If god forbid, something happened to her, and I was left alone, I would …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:21 AM
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He video tapped every one of these 50 men raping his wife? Ugh. My god, that is savage.
/r/MensRights28/12/24 01:19 PM
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Her salary was so low that they were able to make the film for only 25 million? Odd.
/r/MensRights22/12/24 03:01 PM
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I'm not even clear that alpha males actually exist. My brother-in-law has women eating out of his hands but he’s never had a pot to piss in. He's not bosses anyone around. He doesn't alpha anyone. I don't see how this whole alpha male nonsense is any different from a man finding a stripper hot. Ya, she's hot. You'd definitely love to bang her over your frumpy wife, but she's also crazy and will turn your life upsude down and inside out. That doesn't mean I want to have a kid with her, either, be…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:35 AM
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This doesn't make a ton of sense, given how expensive sex is for women. They can only produce one child per year. What advantage would being ravenous give a woman in evolutionary terms? A man being ravenous makes a ton of sense, given that he can walk away, and even if only a small % of his random encounters survive to adulthood, he wins the game of evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:27 AM
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Where I think you and I will agree is that a ton of these men put absolutely no effort into their personal appearance or hygiene. They also don’t try to go where the people are. There are apps like Meet up where you could go join people hiking and such. I think we stopped training men a while back on appropriate behavior. There was something to be said for the 1950s expectations of men to court a woman. Show up showered. Show up dressed in a suit. Don’t touch the woman without her permission. Op…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:50 PM
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I think the incorrect perception is tied to the dating apps which most certainly favor men over a certain height. Tons of people meet people outside the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:46 PM
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I have a beautiful wife. So I’m not some bitter guy, but something like 30% of men under the age of 30 have never had a girlfriend and are virgins. Women have trouble attracting a guy THEY think that they’re worthy of. Millions of men have trouble attracting anyone. Imagine never having a single person want to date you. Granted, I think a hefty % of the time these guys aren’t doing much to make things better, but I think some of that is just throwing the towel in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:40 PM
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Not the men having molten metal blasted onto them in tanks or trenches? Nope. The women who have to move to Poland.
/r/MensRights07/12/24 01:00 AM
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I heard about a UN report that said something to the effect of, “The primary vcitims of the war in the Ukraine were the women and children displaced by the war.” I said to a friend, “Gee, I think the men who are having artillery shells land in their laps or who are getting burned alive in tanks might beg to differ.” That’s how much human culture cares about men.
/r/MensRights05/12/24 12:47 PM
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Egg freezing, as I understand it, has a low success rate. These women are being sold a bill of goods that they’ll never receive.
/r/MensRights04/12/24 01:22 PM
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Go ahead and talk to a partisan Democrat specifically about men’s issues or issues related to white men. I literally started talking to a liberal democratic woman right before the election and she laughed when I said that they’re not paying any mind to men’s issues and it’ll impact the election. Her laugh was as if to say…oh really, we need to care about white males? Go on ANY predominantly leftist group and that’s the sentiment you will find. 100%.
/r/MensRights04/12/24 12:10 AM
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Trust what he said to you. It sounds like the truth. He wants to please you.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/24 02:25 AM
15

I tend to think the women that are being used for sex are batting out if their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:31 AM
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Exactly. She could find a guy. I know a woman who us an ex-heroin addict, smoker, missing teeth, bad skin, and she has a boyfriend who is successful. It's bizarre. A woman would have to be unimaginably hideous to be invisible
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:28 AM
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There are very few, if any, invisible women. I once posted on a dating site after my ex used it to see what it was like being a woman. I made this woman as repulsive and needy as I could. I had a half dozen DMs in under ten minutes and last I looked at it I was over a dozen different men. Women might be invisible to their love interest, but that's only because some women have a habit of going after guys who are way out of their league. A woman would have to be beyond hideous and disabled to not …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:25 AM
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I voted for Harris but I've had many conversations with truly hardcore partisan democrats. Anytime I mention that men in general, but in particular, white men, are not doing all that well. I end up getting a whole lot of eye rolling and laughing even after I mention the massive increase in suicide among men since 2010. Unemployment. Underemployment. Who cares. Shrugs. Laughing. Then, they're shocked, truly shocked when they vote against the Democrats.
/r/MensRights02/12/24 01:12 AM

Your point is about settling is interesting. Are they settling if the guy is actually on their level? Tony Robbins made a point a long time ago about wanting something that you’re not cut out for that always stuck with me. Square peg-round hole. It’s possible to want something that’s not good for you. It would be like me stating, “I’m only going to date 22 year old super models. I’m not settling.” I’m in an amazing relationship with a beautiful woman that If I walk away from her in a public plac…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:06 PM

I have a mutual friend of my wife and I. She hangs with us occasionally. She’s attractive, intelligent, and fun to hang around with but utterly delusional when it comes to men. She goes after men that are way out of her league. You know, Ivy League, over 6 foot tall, investments banker/successful manager type. Super masculine. Jacked. She works for the state in a decent job but not a particularly high paying job. These men are willing to pump and dump her, and that’s her life. She meets a guy. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:56 PM
8

I heard they passed the law in the aftermath of a report that claimed that a full 1/3 of the children tested weren't the presumed father’s biological child.
/r/MensRights28/11/24 09:34 PM
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Suicide. Homelessness. Workplace fatalities. The educational system is run and designed by women for women. Women by and large have zero idea how utterly dependent they are on the infrastructure that men provide for them. They turn the faucet on- water appears. They flush the toilet. The fecal matter disappears. They switch on a light switch. The lights go on. They go to the grocery store. There’s food. They go to the pharmacy. The medicine is there. Virtually all of civilization was and is buil…
/r/MensRights26/11/24 02:04 AM

There is probably some truth to this. When I first entered the dating market, in the late 80s, I was being compared to 10-20-30 guys in the bar or wherever. Now, I feel for you young guys. You’re now being compared to the best looking and most successful guys in your entire region, county, or state, because of dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:41 PM

Not true. There is a bias in Family Court against men. I made twice what she made. That was enough to give her everything. I have a buddy who had a wife that cheated on him with a whole slew of guys and she ended up getting 13 years of alimony to the tune of almost 400.00 per week. The State gives money from you to your ex because they don’t want her living on their dime. That’s why the States went No Fault. It was to protect the State interests. If they can soak you for more, they don’t have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:47 AM

Nah, tons of men manage to get one woman and have no other women interested in them. Hell, given the amount of sexless marriages, it would seem not even their wives want to bang them. There are tons of women who see that fertility window closing and just settle for a guy that’s a decent guy/good provider, but with whom they’d rather not have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:43 AM
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No fault divorce. My ex wife cheated with a number of guys and because I made twice what she made, she got 100% of all the money we had on hand plus alimony. 100% of my 401k. 100% of the equity in our home. Everything. Here’s the even sadder fact, she was in a relationship with the guy she cheated on me with when we divorced. I was paying for their dinners and such. I did get to keep my pension, but that was it. Nothing else. Oh ya, she had 15k in credit card debt that she had rung up on a credi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:43 PM
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That’s the way it should be but the State doesn’t want these stay at home moms needing public support so they stick the guy with alimony payments.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:39 PM
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Do men really cheat more? Most guys I know couldn’t get laid if you put a gun to their head and said you were going to whack them if they didn’t find someone who wanted to have sex with them. Most guys have zero women interested in them. Zero. Zero. Nada. Nobody. None. Most relationships in my personal life where there’s been an affair it’s been the woman that’s cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:38 PM
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I guess white males are the key demographic in our country. They vote and they take their women with them. Biden won because he had enough history of blue collar appeal that it tipped a sufficient number of white men to vote for him.
/r/MensRights06/11/24 01:09 PM

This makes no sense to me. Look around at the amount of married men under 6 foot tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:35 AM
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They're totally using her. Maybe it's a two-way street? She's using them too.
/r/MensRights18/04/24 12:53 AM
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Fair point. There are a ton of inept men. I know that I’m pretty addicted to my phone and tablet, but I have a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:09 PM
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I guess, in a sense, we should be grateful for this fact. Otherwise, we might have incel shootings five times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:34 PM
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I read an article that said these men might actually be getting cues that they’re successful due to video games and online porn. They become passive because those two things trick those primal centers in the brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:27 PM
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There's no way that number is right. 47% of men think it's ok for their wives to cheat. No way.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 01:30 AM
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She should have to go to jail as long as he would have had he raped her.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 01:05 AM
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You are not worthless. My mother was in the exact same mistake at the exact same age. She made a mistake with a lousy man. But, and it is a big but, she stopped dating lousy men. She ended up marrying a hard-working, decent man who adopted me. Her life has been all and all pretty good. She had two more kids. My life was better because she learned to make better choices.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 10:53 AM
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These countries have lost their minds.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 02:13 AM
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She’s an adult. People should mind their own business. She’s not a child.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 11:54 PM
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Right, you prefer big cocks, so go find a man with a big cock and leave this guy alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:04 AM
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There’s no way this ends well. She should just leave. End it and move onto someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:02 AM
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Not true, at all. If you’ve got a professional job, at 100k, as opposed to blue collar job, at 50k, it’ll definitely change your market value. You won’t get a super model, but you’ll do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:35 PM
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LOL. You’re out of your mind. When I was single, I posted a picture of myself aboard my friend’s 68’ foot yacht, and I then started matching and getting tons of messages. Money absolutely matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:04 PM
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In what regard?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:17 PM
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She’s ignoring a Court order. That’s a challenge to the Court, not to him. You can’t challenge a Court. They take that stuff personally.
/r/MensRights29/06/21 12:16 PM
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Did you mean to say that money doesn’t attract women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:15 PM
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She’ll fall in love with him, eventually, LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:55 AM
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Exactly. I’ve seen interviews with these kinds of guys and I’m often left confused, as to why they’re having issues. It’s not that they’re so hideous that they can’t find a woman. It’s gotta be more how THEY view themselves-rather than the women. Women just don’t like men who aren’t confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:30 PM
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Then they must be extremely ugly, because that income amount should attract a woman. It might not be a hot one, but there’s plenty of women who will jump at a chance to date a guy who is cranking down 200k per year and is brilliant. There has to be some other issue there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:27 PM
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He will win. This isn’t a case that’s on the line. It’s a slam dunk.
/r/MensRights28/06/21 11:11 PM
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You can get that money,someday. Keep track of how much she’s not paying you, because my grandfather didn’t pay jack to my grandmother and she nailed him when he went to get Social Security.
/r/MensRights28/06/21 08:37 PM
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I don’t disagree. I just tend to think that the guys on these kinds of lists tend to not do anything to make themselves more attractive. If you’re an ugly, short guy, you’re gonna have a rough dating life, for sure, and that sucks.. The thing is, it can’t possibly hurt you to push yourself to be a better man. I’m only 5’8 1/2”. My wife is beautiful, and has a body on par with most models you see, no joke. You can win in life, but you gotta get in the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:31 AM
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Actually, wolves will put the older, weaker members to the front of the pack, so they’ll take the brunt of any initial attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:13 AM
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It’s an action. You have to act. You have to get up and move. You don’t need to feel confident to start to process.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:01 AM
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His CAT scan is soon. I’m not hopeful, but one never knows. It’s brain cancer, so he was given only 16 months to live, but he’s beaten that already.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:43 AM
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It’s kind of unspoken. I wouldn’t be there, if I didn’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:28 AM
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The confidence aspect thing makes perfect sense, though. Guys miss that. They see some tool getting tons of women, and they think it’s because he’s a tool. It’ not. It’s because he’s confident, and confidence in our ancestral environment meant your children were more likely to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:27 AM
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Exactly. I think most women prefer men over 6 feet tall, but it’s funny because most men are, in fact, around 5’8”-5’9”, so the species keeps chugging along with all those supposedly too short men getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:25 AM
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It’s seen, by most men I know, as a sign of weakness to seek that kind of emotional support from other men. It’s just not done, except in extreme circumstances, like your wife cheats on you or something. I have a friend who has cancer. We don’t talk about his emotional well being. It would be weird. Men are like wolves, in my mind, they just don’t like weak links.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:22 AM
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Fair enough. I tend to agree with you that these men would rather blame women than look at themselves. I’ve seen men who’ve thrown in the towel and chose to blame women for their own crappy attitude. Some of these men are only unattractive, because they’re behaving like losers. Losers blame other people for their own mistakes. It looks like a form of narcissism to me. It’s almost like they’re saying, “Protecting my own fragile ego is more important than not ending up alone.” If they’d even work …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:18 AM
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Utter nonsense. How often to do you work on yourself? Gym? Reading? Advancing your career? How are you caring for yourself health wise? Teeth. Hair. Weight. Why not actually humble yourself, and ask a woman without anything expected in return, how you could dress better? I know plenty of men who aren’t too hot in the looks department who have stable, loving marriages. Here’s the most likely difference: they work on themselves. They’re useful, dependable, hard working, and confident. They don’t w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:08 AM
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I think men often don’t know what they need. Men need a relationship with one woman. Need it. Women tend to get emotional support from their friends. Men do not, by and large, sit around getting emotional with other men-unless it’s anger. I’ve known men for decades, and I’ve no idea how man kids they have, nor the names of their kids or wives, nor what they’re feeling on any given day. I used to go on vacation to Cape Cod with a bunch of coworkers. We’d leave on a Friday and come home on Sunday,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:59 AM
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I’m not sure that this is what the OP was saying. He’s saying that the perception that men won’t commit is due to women dating above their level. Are ugly men equally as unwilling to commit to one woman, as attractive men? I doubt that. Maybe it’s true, but I tend to think as you move down towards the lower parts of the dating pool that those men are more willing to commit, simply because they’ve little to no options. I’m willing to admit that this might not be the case. On a side note, these le…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:51 AM
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