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| 1 | I’ve spend $8K and just through temp orders….I wish I could say fine, but it's been about 9 months so far and it's sucked big time. At least I was lucky enough to save enough money to be able to split assets and still keep the house. My ex used her portion to buy a house that's literally like a half mile away, and directly on my route to work. I get the joy of seeing her and her affair partner on a regular basis now that he's living with her. I'm guessing he is completely broke now because it came out during his divorce (I made him tell hi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/25 01:29 AM |
| 2 | I’ve spend $8K and just through temp orders….That feels cheap from my perspective. I was just trying to get through after her affair and what she did to the kids and I. She then figured out she wasn't going to be able to support the life she wanted without my financial support so she went for the jugular once she got her lawyer. Over the course of a year, I ended up spending close to $100k between lawer, mediator, etc.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/12/24 05:10 PM |
| 11 | After mediation in WA (no-fault state): 56% and $3,700 per month to herJeez... I feel like I could have written this. Married 15 yrs, 2 children, ex was highly educated (masters & PhD) but only worked 15 hrs a week at a low key job. I eventually got the "I never really loved you" and she said she found love with her AP. even better, she doesn't pay nearly the attention to the children either, so they often call me when at her place. I wish I had a suggestion or two for you, but beyond a pre nup or ensure she's financially at an equivalent level, I don't know what e… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/24 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Oh it’s a dayI feel for you. I ended up buying out her interest of the dog. 6 months more of alimony or 18k, but now I don't have to deal with that. I hope it works out better for you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/24 03:13 AM |
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