| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | Going out for my first DayGame Set at age 46. | PUA19124 | /r/seduction | 23/12/18 02:04 PM | |
| 2 | Get Shot down and Enjoy it! | PUA19124 | /r/seduction | 06/02/19 05:30 PM | |
| 1 | Domestic IN Fields | Resources | PUA19124 | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 02:59 PM |
| 1 | US Based InFields | Logistics | PUA19124 | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 06:57 PM |
| 1 | In Field Report for my 2nd Daygame Excursion | PUA19124 | /r/seduction | 26/12/18 10:55 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Men, how do you want to get seduced by a woman?Have a net worth of 6 million dollars | /r/seduction | 19/09/25 11:57 AM |
| 10 | At what age did you find yourself pulling the most women?53 because my skill is better than ever | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever met that average-looking guy who’s insanely successful with women?Me | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 02:08 PM |
| 4 | Is there a "right time" in life to have a hoe phase as a guy?All the time | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 01:09 AM |
| 4 | She caught me in a stupid lie, how do I recover?Are you the CEO caught on the kiss cam | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 08:17 PM |
| 3 | I turned religious then stopped Cold Approaching altogetherDon't drink the Kool aid | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 02:50 PM |
| 2 | The Opener That Gets Me More Dates Than Any OtherHi I have a habit of spending lots of money on women | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 01:59 PM |
| 2 | How do I seduce a GILF?Take her to bingo | /r/seduction | 04/05/25 01:37 PM |
| 49 | How to seduce or get older women to bedTake her to bingo | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 02:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you fix your self esteem?Confidence comes from not what you CAN do but what you can do that you once couldn't do. Therefore - Try something hard and new. Learn spanish fluently. DO 200 pushups, whatever but do it. Then you'll be like, damn. That was hard, but talking to a girl is nothing compared to that. And even if she shoots me down, so what. She doesn't know I can do X. | /r/seduction | 17/09/20 11:22 AM |
| 1 | A friend just ran by me with this question: in the past 15 years, he dated different three women and all of them got pregnant soon after the relationship ended. I was stunned. I didn’t know what to tell him. Thoughts?BUST A NUT DEEP Man. | /r/seduction | 06/02/19 05:32 PM |
| 17 | Do girls ever make a move for guys, or do guys have to do ALL the work while woman sit back and do nothing?Biology has given you the job to chase. Do it. | /r/seduction | 06/02/19 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Advanced Guy in a with a flat tireIt's called daygame burnout. Google Tom toreo daygame burnout and listen to that podcast | /r/seduction | 01/01/19 04:00 PM |
| 1 | How do I proceed with this girl I’m into?You're the man. It's your JOB to initiate. Initiate now or she will find someone who will. You may lose her but deep down she is just as scared of losing you. | /r/seduction | 01/01/19 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Game is hurting me more than helpingWho do you read/follow? | /r/seduction | 01/01/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | How do I proceed with this girl I’m into?Don't get tied down. Go for the sex next time. If she hesitates, then tell her you're tired of acting like a teenager and if she's not interested she can leave. Ballsy but you must become outcome independent | /r/seduction | 01/01/19 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Fwb is dating someone. Still wants to meet me tomorrow.Always Be Closing. Always Ramp up. Don't give her the frame. | /r/seduction | 01/01/19 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Why don’t girls like my Facebook photos?Having girls like your Facebook photo does not get you laid. Getting you laid get you laid. Start studying day game and you can start working everywhere. You can be the buyer not the seller. On Tinder, you're the seller in a crowded Marketplace. During day game you just walk up to her in the store and start talking to her. Think about how many times you have to text a woman and go back and forth on Tinder before you get to meet her in person. Now if you see the same woman at the grocery store yo… | /r/seduction | 01/01/19 12:54 PM |
| 2 | How awful do I look 1-10?Just kidding. I am 46. Women don't care about looks. As much as they care about how you carry yourself. Learn to dress fashionably. Learn the elements of game. And you'll score. I recommend reading Chase amante. He has a book that explains game from the basics. I think it's like 30 or 40 bucks but it's totally worth it because if it saves you just one blown date. Read that book and follow what it says | /r/seduction | 01/01/19 01:23 AM |
| 0 | How awful do I look 1-10?-5 | /r/seduction | 01/01/19 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Blew it at the bookstore earlierI agree with you on night game. other pure daygame always involves a little bit of anxiety even for the experts. And you could be walking a street 4 hours and need to stay limber | /r/seduction | 31/12/18 03:45 PM |
| 3 | Got the third date in my life rite nowAsk her what she likes most about her place? The kitchen her art. Just keep asking questions about her house or her furniture or something. And then when she says even if she says she likes her gas stove. Say I want to see this gas stove that you like so much. If she does art ask to come see her art. | /r/seduction | 31/12/18 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Last week at the club I danced with 10+ girls that turned into long conversations with most of them, but this week I got rejected every single time. What did I do wrong?NEVER give up till you get blown out or till you get blown! Generally women aren't won over by words. They're won over by actions. Read Tom Torero or Chase Amante... You have yet to begin your studies. Don't say you suck at Algebra one week into the class. Remember, even Paul Janka had an 11% Success rate. Only one out of 9 numbers he got turned into a lay. This is not a high percentage game. | /r/seduction | 31/12/18 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Was I clear that I was asking her on a date?You showed your D*. good job. Bobby rio says to take flakes in stride. The worst thing you can do is be reactive and that comes off as needy. | /r/seduction | 31/12/18 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Got the third date in my life rite nowRemember only a few women who are DTF will SAY They're DTF. Women need Plausible Deniability to defeat their Anti Slut Defense. It has to seem like "oh it just happened" Read either Tom Torero or Chase Amante to learn how to properly Escalate. Even DJ Fuji has some good escalation tips out there. | /r/seduction | 31/12/18 03:25 PM |
| -2 | Share your success percentage in cold approach.I was married for 14 years. I had enough of one person. Google the Coolidge effect. And you'll see why new partners are good | /r/seduction | 29/12/18 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Framing - How to deal with other guys during a set?This is good advice. | /r/seduction | 29/12/18 02:38 AM |
| 3 | Share your success percentage in cold approach.Hell yes. Game is about being able to have the skills to get your needs met and not relying on FWB. If FWB it's what she wants great but lays should be your goal. | /r/seduction | 29/12/18 02:35 AM |
| 7 | Share your success percentage in cold approach.I would say 1% when you get good. | /r/seduction | 29/12/18 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Best tips for charming women when you have no charmWho do you advise? Regardless of who you read the key thing is getting your ass out there and learning by experience | /r/seduction | 29/12/18 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Help ,frustrated.You must endure 1000 sets of pain to get good. Think of all the years you spent in elementary school learning how to spell words. Read Tom Torero. Google him. | /r/seduction | 28/12/18 01:19 PM |
| 4 | Best tips for charming women when you have no charmGoogle and read Tom Torero. He breaks it down step by step on how to Game. | /r/seduction | 28/12/18 01:17 PM |
| 0 | A lesson about our mind, [Brain plasticity] : What you can learn from it and why NICE GUYS need way more than just "Game Theory"Great post.. I would like to sum this up as follows. GET OFF YOUR ASS AND DO IT! Practice Practice Practice. No short cuts. Endure the pain for a gain. | /r/seduction | 28/12/18 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Blew it at the bookstore earlierWarmup Warmup. No athlete jumps into the game without doing warmup. When you go out and you think there's a chance of approaching a cute girl, do 5 warm up sets. Doesn't matter if the woman is old, heavy, or what. Walk up to her and say "I think you look nice, what I noticed about you was ..." When I was out daygaming at the mall last weekend, I complimented a 70 year old lady on her make up. She thanked me and we talked a minute. Next woman I saw in food court. My age, went up to her, told her … | /r/seduction | 28/12/18 01:14 PM |
| 5 | A Step by Step to Beginner's Guide To Daygame (almost a formula). What do you think?I have been following this. I went out today Made 20 approaches, got three numbers, and we'll probably get a date this weekend out of it it really works. | /r/seduction | 27/12/18 01:49 AM |
| 5 | How do I stop getting friendzoned?Read Torero. Go a lot more sexual stop trying to be nice be very direct. Read Tom Torero, and Bobby Rio with Rob judge. | /r/seduction | 27/12/18 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Problem with approaching girlsWell India is a big country so I'm sure you can go 3 hours away and find people who will never see you again | /r/seduction | 25/12/18 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Problem with approaching girlsYes, your balls will grow three sizes bigger you'll be like no one will ever see me here again. Can I ask where you're at? | /r/seduction | 25/12/18 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Almost lost my virginity, couldn’t penetrate.NO ALCOHOL. It kills your dick. The best PUA's do not drink. | /r/seduction | 25/12/18 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Just try tryPREACH brother . Women will respect you more for coming up to them. | /r/seduction | 25/12/18 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Problem with approaching girlsWatch Tom Torero on YouTube and Read his videos. Drive like 2 hours away to a shopping mall you' ll never go to again. Do 20 approachdes. repeat for 3 weeks. Your AA will disappear. | /r/seduction | 25/12/18 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Problem with approaching girlsDo 1000 approaches. Its called the 1000 approaches of pain. After that you will be a master. | /r/seduction | 25/12/18 05:55 PM |
| 1 | If your social circle is currently being dominated by a very few select men, is it best to try your luck with a new circle?Forget social Circle. Learn DAYGAME. Tom Torero, Yad. You'll neve rbe without. | /r/seduction | 25/12/18 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Is it even possible with depressionLexapro did it for me! changed my life. Perfect is the enemy of good. | /r/seduction | 25/12/18 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Honestly? I physically feel pathetic and i want to fix that but dont know how or where to start.When the working day is done, girls, they wanna have fun. Girls just wanna have... | /r/seduction | 25/12/18 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Honestly? I physically feel pathetic and i want to fix that but dont know how or where to start.Go to Title Boxing, or some other Boxing Gym. Hitting a heavy bag makes you feel like a man. | /r/seduction | 25/12/18 12:36 AM |
| 1 | What to do in a busy store.Number Close "You're working, I got to go. Here's a pen, write your number on the receipt and I'll text you quick." | /r/seduction | 25/12/18 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Going out for my first DayGame Set at age 46.I did an audio recording. I just used my Motorola S5 smartphone. Most people think nothing if you're just holding your phone but I held it strategically as to capture the audio. | /r/seduction | 24/12/18 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Going out for my first DayGame Set at age 46.Read Tom Torero and the other Daygamers. | /r/seduction | 23/12/18 08:54 PM |
| 2 | 19M how do I meet girls?Read Tom Torero & Bobby Rio/Paul Janka | /r/seduction | 23/12/18 08:53 PM |
| 1 | [17M] Day Game StrategyGoogle and read Tom torero | /r/seduction | 23/12/18 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Going out for my first DayGame Set at age 46.Tom Torero says that It's not game unless she's younger and hotter than you. So I'm guessing 18-45.99999 (J/K) I would say 30+ Younger than 30 and I don't feel I have enough in common. | /r/seduction | 23/12/18 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Would it be a good idea to go out and purposely get rejected if starting out?I don't know actually trying just has enough rejection and itself. | /r/seduction | 20/12/18 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Really like a girl from church groupYou know what- the more oppressed and pent up she is - the wilder she'll be when she lets loose. | /r/seduction | 17/12/18 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Got rejected to formal by this girl I've been crushing on for a while. So I went solo and danced with 3 different girls in the dance floor.You increased your Sexual Market Value by being seen as desired by other women. Call back those girls you were dancing with, Invite them for coffee, bounce somewhere else, bounce to your apartment and get a lay! | /r/seduction | 17/12/18 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Missed a huge chance yesterday. Didn’t know how to escalate?Yeah but the kick in the ass is a necessary part of learning either a coached does it or life does it. | /r/seduction | 16/12/18 04:19 AM |
| 1 | FR2: Cold approaches at the mallRead Tom Torero! | /r/seduction | 16/12/18 01:46 AM |
| 5 | Missed a huge chance yesterday. Didn’t know how to escalate?Good advice - GO TAKE HER But Bro man is only 20 though. Sheeett. I was beating the meat hard when I was 20... I'm 46 and wish I had found this 20 years ago. | /r/seduction | 16/12/18 01:08 AM |
| 2 | I don't do cold approaches. Here is why...When she makes eye contact with you, yes do a warm approach. When she doesn't make a cold approach. More approaches = more lays. | /r/seduction | 16/12/18 01:05 AM |
| 0 | Holy fucking christ i'm lonelyIt's darkest before the dawn. Draw on this shitty feeling for motivation. Smooth seas don't make good sailors. You're motivated turn that to change. | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 10:58 AM |
| 1 | I aproached after workEven the best smooth dudes take 30 approaches for one lay. Normal guys it's closer to 100 keep on going my man | /r/seduction | 30/11/18 06:00 PM |
| 1 | would you offer to say hello to a girl who rejected/ghosted you?Yes be polite and show her what a great guy you are, and make her feel like s*** and second-guess herself | /r/seduction | 30/11/18 05:59 PM |
| 1 | I got a girls number from approaching for the first timeWatch DJ Fuji on YouTube | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 01:03 AM |
| 25 | one of the worst dates I've hadBye felicia. You know how to treat women well. By the fact you're here, you will be a better date for her than 9 of 10 guys. IF she can't appreciate that , F it, she gets what she deserves. NEEEEXXXTTTT | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 04:53 PM |
| 11 | Is anyone else experiencing less interest in seduction over time?I am 46. Game is important to me because I was in a miserable marriage because I had not game (confidence) But so is doing well at work, staying in shape, learning Spanish, eating healthy. The good news is all of those things make you an attractive person. DJ Fuji said the ultimate level of game is being an attractive person. I recommend Balance -Balance game with your other pursuits and it will feel less like a chore. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 04:22 PM |
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