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Thankfully you're still young. I wouldn't sweat it too much, but I would work on your appearance if guys aren't committing. Also, older guys are more mature and will be more willing to enter an LTR with a younger girl, so that may be a good avenue. When I say older, I mean 28 and up, unless you're in the flyover states, where people settle down younger.
/r/seduction30/04/12 06:57 PM
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Hey, From my perspective I will want to enter a long-term relationship with a girl if she's more attractive than me. Obviously she has to have a cool personality too. But the prerequisite is beauty. If an LTR is what you're seeking at the moment, then I would suggest holding off with sex for a minimum of five dates. This will sift out the pussy hounds from the guys who want you long term. Unfortunately, the guys who are still there will likely be the least desirable, i.e., they have no options, …
/r/seduction30/04/12 02:25 PM
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I get approached a lot when I go out, which I think would imply that I'm not too ugly (I know I'm no great beauty either), but none of the men I've hooked up with have pursued an LTR with me. Isn't choosing a long-term relationship partner a little more complicated than just physical appearance? Are you seriously trolling? Because if you aren't then what don't you understand from The Secret to Landing a Man? I don't know you from Adam or what you look like, but if you can't get a guy to stick to…
/r/seduction29/04/12 09:00 PM
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Good you got that out of the way, regardless get a second girl in your rotation, otherwise you'd likely become attached to your co-worker's pussy and do something rash. While you may think girls think like guys, they don't and generally want a relationship, so your FWB situation will be ephemeral. Once that happens and she cuts you off, you might, as I said, do something rash, which could jeopardize your career (or make you settle with a girl you don't want). The very least you'll be grinding th…
/r/seduction29/04/12 02:03 PM
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Squarehouse, If you're in a relationship and serious about your question, I would suggest heading over to Chateau Heartiste and begin reading his archives. The earlier stuff (his best work) dealt more with gaming to bed hot women, but the latter stuff focuses more on relationship game (I believe he's in a LTR, but not certain). Unfortunately your question encompasses way too much for a singular post. But Madix-3 below has summed up it nicely: ABG (Always Be Gaming). I'm in a few relationships ri…
/r/seduction29/04/12 01:40 AM
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Are you serious? A girl will have feelings for you by the latest the third time she fucks you, unless she's a lawyer. So of course she has feelings for you, she's not a fembot. Act aloof and continue fucking her. She'll eventually have the DTR (Define The Relationship) talk, but until that time enjoy the fruits of your labors. Since the DTR talk sounds like is nigh approaching, I'd start playing the field again unless you already have two in the kitty.
/r/seduction28/04/12 07:31 PM
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You want to land a man? Then improve your appearance and lower your standards. Your prospects are never zero. But they're likely not as good as when you were in your 20s, so it's a bitter pill. Nonetheless, they'll be worse when you hit your 40s, so time is of the essence.
/r/seduction28/04/12 07:15 PM
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This is one of the main focal points of Roissy's blog. I'd suggest going there if you're really interested in how women's sexual market value plummets by the time she reaches 30. I know of a number of successful career women in NYC to whom this happened. They are waking up to the painful reality that they are likely not going to have kids with a "catch", and it's harsh to watch. I just turned 33. Although I was in relationships most of my 20s, so I was getting sex regularly, I knew how hard it w…
/r/seduction28/04/12 07:06 PM
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Some guy on another pickup forum was raving about pickup in Montreal, saying that the women possess French-like beauty but with Canadian friendliness. Just walking up to a girl in the daytime and saying hi elicited mostly positive responses.
/r/seduction25/04/12 05:23 PM
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"I was accepted into flight school for the US Army (I was not kidding about the self improvement part), and after 6 months of being away, we drifted apart. She began seeing other people, and we divorced. It was distracting, but I was ok. At the time, I chose between my marriage and my career--I picked my career. But what I really did was choose my happiness over hers." The plight of the modern-day man in America. You learn something that you truly want to become, focus your energy on it, and it …
/r/seduction02/04/12 12:41 PM
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Upvote. I'll be trying the anal g-spot this week on a girl who I know will be down. Thanks for the help.
/r/seduction02/04/12 01:45 AM
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You should do an AMA. But seriously, describe how to make a girl come via anal fingering.
/r/seduction01/04/12 03:41 PM
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Dude, I live in Upstate NY and you could find daily a good-looking, down-to-earth girl easily if you've got your game down. Move to where you want to build/improve your life, not where you think you'll have the best odds with chicks.
/r/seduction06/03/12 02:03 PM
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Sorry man, nothing hurts more than allowing yourself to actually care about a girl and then she gets up and leaves. Been there many times, wish I didn't have the scars.
/r/seduction28/12/11 04:27 PM
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Neg. If you want to build attraction, neg. If you aren't sure she's attracted to you, neg. Screw the initial IOIs, just talk to her like you're teasing that girl on the playground in the 6th grade. Obviously once she starts giving you/reciprocating your kino can you then pull back on the negs and commence creating rapport. http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/02/10/the-neg-as-opener/ Don't become bedazzled by her beauty: putting pussy on a pedestal is a sure-fire way of not entering the cocky/fun…
/r/seduction01/11/11 02:09 PM
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Hey man, I'm a little bit older than you, but have also come up with that realization. My father passed away prematurely from his alcoholism, and my grandfather was a drunk too. Let's just say that genetically speaking my chances are good that I could go down that road too. Such is life. Every year I take off six weeks from having a drink to remember my Dad, who was a great guy, and why he perished. I'm actually doing my alcohol fast right now and I'm almost done with week two. I used to think t…
/r/seduction13/10/11 06:13 PM
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Can you give a novice an indicator on where he should start with the in-field videos?
/r/seduction10/10/11 10:39 PM
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Well done man, I need to update my field report as well. I'm learning as well that I care less and less how the girl reacts, i.e., I'm seeking less and less gratification when I approach a girl. That being said, I still am talking myself out of approaching groups of girls (3+), or groups mixed with guys or girls. So much to learn at this stuff.
/r/seduction02/09/11 11:32 AM
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I actually do agree with the second half. I can give plenty of anecdotes where I had sex with the girl on the first date (this happened the other night), and the girl is really into you after. On the other hand, I took a girl out about a month ago, the date went well, we had a lot of fun, but I was hesitant on escalating and only got a kiss at the end. Now the girl doesn't return my phone calls, probably because I didn't man up and push. I have a date set up on Monday night. If the girl isn't in…
/r/seduction25/08/11 07:55 PM
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Of course I'd be interested.
/r/seduction25/08/11 01:25 AM
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It also makes sense for guys who suffer from AA and feel confounded by crazy direct openers. I'm one of those guys and just want to get over the anxiety of saying hi to a girl, not try to get her in the sack. But you're right though, it's not the greatest way to build attraction. Thanks EvaSylvestre, I'll be using this tonight as part of my 100-set approach test I've set for myself.
/r/seduction24/08/11 08:52 PM
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How many was that so far? Seven. Oh, you got me. Have you played this before? No. Got you on the fifth one!
/r/seduction22/08/11 09:09 PM
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