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Red Pill TheoryPUA_Wanna_be/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 11:15 PM
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PUA_Wanna_be/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 01:17 PM
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It's normal for a first time, with a pro or not (there are two kinds of men: on our first time, we either come within microseconds, or we go soft). When I had the latter problem, I used kamagra (cheap Viagra clone). Regardless of this particular outcome, congrats for taking action instead of whining.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 10:17 PM
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I lost my virginity with a pro around your age. One of the best decisions of my life.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 09:07 PM
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So much this! Yesterday I was on a first date with a girl I had met through daygame. She kept obsessing about the election results, and was getting ramped up, talking more and more about my white privilege (she is not white), patriarchy, etc. TBH, I might have exaggerated my views a bit, because I found her reactions amusing. Anyway, fast forward a couple hours. She started constantly talking about all white men, and how terrible we are. We parted ways with her being mad at me (she wanted me to …
/r/askTRP10/11/16 03:32 AM
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She is now your comfort zone. She's keeping you from meeting other women. Knowing that you can fuck her helps you rationalize any approach anxiety you might have, or other obstacles on your way to meeting new women. Throw yourself in a situation where you have to meet new women in order to fuck, and getting new plates will get easier. Drop her.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 01:25 PM
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In addition to what other said, another possible strategy: Agree&Amplify
/r/askTRP07/11/16 01:21 PM
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I wouldn't do it - having TV in your room can be a huge time sink. Besides, TV sounds to me like a bizarre way to entertain. They can watch TV anywhere. You mention your music equipment. If she is into you, that's what she will be way more interested in anyway.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 10:27 PM
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A lot depends on your anatomy and technique. For example, my dick is significantly bent downwards, which means that girls go crazy when I take them from behind and go not too deep - that's when there is most pressure on her g-spot. Worst case, cowgirl position makes it very easy for a girl to come - she controls almost everything, and can lean forwards a bit so that her clit gets exactly the amount of stimulation she wants.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 08:20 AM
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For ED, there are pills (this is not a medical advice). I always carry a pill of kamagra in my wallet, together with the emergency condom. Even when I don't use it, knowing that I have it with me kills any anxiety. And it's really cheap too. (As a bonus, most men also report it delays ejaculation) For overall performance, you can learn some techniques, but I suspect you should actually do the opposite. I could make girls come several times even in my blue pill days. But later, when I started foc…
/r/askTRP02/11/16 08:15 AM
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Well it's true you do have to be congruent That's not what I said I'd suggest you detail your story (how much you approach, how many girls you've got, how do you game, etc.) on the asktrp sub. Then I'll be curious to know how Game specialists like /u/VasiliyZaitzev think of it Thanks for the suggestion. Maybe some day I will.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 07:07 PM
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I applied theory to the best of my abilities, and I don't think there was something seriously wrong with my application (except perhaps putting too much effort). I don't know why it didn't work, especially considering that I'm good looking (although a bit of a mangina back then, not so much anymore) and have interesting life. I've also met guys who have been seriously in the Game much longer (up to 10 years) and also unsuccessful. I'm guessing that people who are successful are not fully aware o…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 06:05 PM
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First of all, thank you. 2 years ago I was a vegan SJW and your writing, straight to the point but without anger or resentment, is what helped me swallow the pill and walked me through my anger phase. I spent nine months focusing exclusively on learning the game, hired a couple professional coaches during that time, approached thousands of women and I have nothing to show for it. I started optimising my look (style, grooming and gym) - the result is quite a lot of IOIs that go nowhere when I ope…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 09:19 PM
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Good for both of them: For him, since he moved on. And for her, since she realized she has to lock down someone early on.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 05:33 AM
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Why? Embarking on the RedPill journey is difficult, especially that one has to do it with a pre-RedPill mindset. The first steps will be motivated by some bullshit. This fantasy is good as any other motivation.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 05:31 AM
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I'm afraid it won't. Your quote talks about people who had their worldviews, and then someone tried to forcefully replace those. Here, we are talking about impressionable children. Just look how successful religions are since they start the brainwashing at an early age. Raise a child as Muslim or Catholic, and they will probably stay in that religion for their entire life. Try to convert them later on, and they would rather die a martyr than betray their original programming.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 06:10 AM
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Citation needed. In the meantime, have a well-deserved downvote.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 06:00 AM
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I agree. I tried no-fap and no-porn a few times, the longest streak being 3 months. Didn't notice any improvement in any area of my life, except for the time saving. IMHO it's just a cultish movement, not supported by science, like a lot of ideas in the self-help world are.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 07:00 AM
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I disagree. I consider mediation most likely detrimental, and a waste of time at best. Here's a list of facts supporting my claim that matches the facts provided by the OP:
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 08:52 AM
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I tried to start journalling several times in the past, and each time I discovered how much I hate writing. Now I started recording an audio journal. Will see how that goes.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 05:50 AM
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Here's a chart I find super-useful for estimating your bf and muscularity: http://i.imgur.com/WEBOO.jpg Legend: A = 8% B = 10% C = 12% D = 15% E = 20% F = 25% G = 30% H = 40% I = 50%+ i found it a few months ago in r fitness.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 03:29 PM
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What helped me tremendously was working on my body language, voice projection, and all those subtle high-status behaviours. No, I'm not talking about it getting me more pussy. It dramatically increased my self-confidence and sense of self-worth. I think we all subconsciously understand what those behaviours (e.g., holding eye contact, or using lowering voice intonation) mean - that we claim high status in the tribe. I was really afraid at first when doing it. But after some time, I grew into it.…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 10:23 AM
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There is no non-organic food. "Organic" is just a bullshit label.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 05:56 AM
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Only eating full-size carrots that I peel.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 10:21 PM
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You know that snacking is bad. For example, a snickers has 250 calories. Healthy snacks are no excuse. Just stop. The opposite of mindless snacking is mindful eating - slow down when eating your meals. I snack on carrots without limitations during my cut. Any problem with that?
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 06:32 PM
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The title might be right. But the post is just a long, irrelevant sob-story.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 07:59 PM
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Thanks a lot! That's very insightful. I will definitely experiment with that.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 11:32 AM
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Thanks! I don't know how I missed that. Will definitely read it.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 11:30 AM
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Unless one has read Models and considers it complete BS.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 07:17 AM
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Workplace The running theme for INTPs is their desire for solitude, need for intellectual stimulation, and the satisfaction of the final piece of a puzzle clicking into place. Whether in subordinate or management positions, with colleagues or working alone, these privileges and the freedom to pursue them unfettered by social obligations and progress reports are about all people with the INTP personality type look for in their workplace. Prescription: Again, learn to work as part of a team. Presc…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 01:18 PM
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Go to any high achieving business campus, like Google or Microsoft, and you won't see any fat people in the competitive positions. You might see some fat coders, but those losers aren't going anywhere. While I agree with most of your post, this statement is not true. There is plenty of fat successful people in those companies, at all levels. Unlimited delicious food does not help. Source: Worked for one of them.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 10:47 AM
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When changing one's personality and habits, there will always be a lot of uncomfort, conscious effort and paralysis involved. Classifying every behavior in this subreddit as desirable or undesirable provides extremely useful information. It is up to every individual user to decide where they want to be on the spectrum being myself vs. forcing myself into completely new personality. It is too individual a thing too decide what level of effort is optimal for everyone. This subreddit provides infor…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 01:45 PM
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Just speculating here: Achieving hard goals in one area usually translates to increased confidence and performance in all other areas of one's life.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 11:08 AM
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Don’t talk about your intentions. Just do it! Every time you talk about what you’re going to do you’re going to be met with some amount of doubt and skepticism. When you end up doing something people will only see results. That's something I should apply, thanks! When I was going to try new approach in my game and shared my hopes and excitement with a "friend", he repeatedly voiced opinion that I would never be able to learn that. Nexted him that day, but only after some blow to my confidence.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 11:05 AM
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Thanks for recommendation. I was actually subscribed to it, but it's too technical for me for now. I'm still just starting out, so making sure I don't slip out of good habits and milking beginner's gains is good enough at the moment for me.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 10:45 AM
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Can you shorten your bulk-cut cycle? So that your BF% is always low?
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 08:01 AM
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Thanks for the writeup. The book is on my highest priority to-read list.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 04:20 PM
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TO-DO LIST Plan your day out. I find that Todoist is very helpful with that (works as a mobile app, a web app, and a browser plugin).
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 10:37 AM
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Bullshit. Keep living in your dreamland of excuses.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 08:31 AM
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Any recommendations to learn online game?
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 08:47 PM
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simply approaching a woman with confidence in public is a DHV for most guys ('he must be really confident to be so bold and decisive about approaching me'). She's not going to assume you're approaching her because you can't get laid. If anything, she'll assume that, since you had the balls to approach her, you've got the balls to approach other women as well. And if you've got the balls to approach lots of other women, then it isn't much of a stretch to assume that you're getting laid, which dem…
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 08:45 PM
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Thanks! I love living in Europe with our not-so-insane drug laws.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 10:40 AM
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Working on it now. However, I'm looking for game advice, as that seems to be area in which I'm lacking the most.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 08:17 AM
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I'm too supplicating when approaching and projecting my value as being lower than hers. Especially after a few rejections.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 05:57 PM
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Sounds like me really. Trying now to break free from the white knight personality disorder.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 08:53 AM
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Does having a lot of time help? I thought there is only so much lifting you can do in one day, since you need to allow a lot of time for regeneration. Not trying to be critical, genuinely curious.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 03:51 PM
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Practicing abundance mentality doesnt mean you just sit on your arse... Please point out where I said I was just sitting on my arse? Or maybe you were just projecting?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 11:18 AM
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As a guy who wasted 4 years trying to practice abundance mentality until I gave the women-chasing techniques a try... have a downvote.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 10:04 PM
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As everyone said, you can start now. Some people argue whether you should start with the right diet or exercise first: Do whichever feels easier for you to start. If you get one good habit, it will make undertaking new good habits much easier. Plus, in the beginning diet is not that important since your strength gains will be mostly due to neural adaptations. That being said, you should start working on your diet as well. You can do that step by step - by identifying the most harmful foods and r…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 07:30 PM
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So you don't know of any guides or books on the topic worth recommending? I don't really understand the resistance, why not try it, it's free and a fun way to kill time in airports or waiting in line I figure. I agree to some extent. That being said, there are also other activities you can do, e.g. listen to an audiobook, do some mental or physical (kegels) exercises, etc. Besides, many of us spend too much time in front of a screen and avoiding that in spare time is good for psychological well-…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 07:08 PM
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Care to share how you learned that?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 02:59 PM
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Those two things don't contradict each other. I was seeking unconditional admiration and believed that would make me happy. Whenever I got something close to it, I felt the need to push it away. My mental image of this situation never matched the reality. I suspect it's similar for women.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 02:47 AM
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Deep down, I feel beta tendencies of men come from 'gender-equality' too. We'd all like a girl to treat us how a hapless beta treats women. The beta assumes that girls will respond positively to his behaviours, because he would respond positively if they were doing the same to him. I agree. Funny thing, though: In my Blue Pill days, whenever I got an attractive girl to openly and overtly chase me, it would push me away and diminish her attractiveness in my eyes. Guess I internalized the feminine…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 12:15 AM
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Thinking Fast and Slow No More Mr. Nice Guy Thanks for recommending The Art of Learning - seems like exactly what I was looking for.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 09:19 AM
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Congratulations. I lost my virginity at the same age and can understand very well how you feel. In my case, the don't give a shit what women think about me lasted for a month. Any resources you recommend for Tinder game?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 07:11 PM
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Hobbies improve your life immeasurably Thank you for proving my point.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 09:02 PM
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If I do finally start doing something, often, after 5 minutes, the big mental blockade is gone and doing the work actually feels good. And I ask myself why I made such a big fuss about it. I used to have this problem as well. My solution was: I would promise myself that I will only keep doing X for 5 minutes. Usually, after that time I got into flow and continued. Very few times I didn't, and then I would really stop. Not a great strategy to follow for a long time, but a great first step.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 08:17 PM
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motorcycles aren't all that great. They don't improve your life past a certain point.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 06:34 PM
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Getting over the fear of rejection is the biggest gain you can get from studying pickup, but the idea of spending the kind of time/money/effort these guys put in is kind of sad. Its like the ultimate in pussy pedastalization. I disagree. Same could be said about successful comedians who spend as much effort trying to make crowd laugh. Or entrepreneurs building their empires (Elon Musk, for example?). I don't see the goal of fucking hundreds of hot girls as better or worse than the goal of deadli…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 08:52 AM
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I'm really enjoying Daybreak. That might be because I really enjoy cynical and witty humour (Bertrand Russell is another philosopher I really like). On the other hand, Seneca's Letters from a Stoic seemed too wishy-washy and soft to me.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 08:39 AM
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In my Purple Pill days I met this cute, innocent, spiritual chick from Tinder. She seemed very platonic, so I took it slow. She resisted all my attempts at escalation later (no wonder, after 1 hour of boring chit-chat). Looked up her profile today. "Some people are looking for love here. I just want you to fuck me rough. If you are as cute as me or cuter, we can make it happen." There was also this Russian tourist I met through daygame. All the time, she resisted my man-to-woman frame. "Oh, but …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 06:24 PM
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I was working with Set Your Voice Free, but stopped. I'm such a bad singer I couldn't stand hearing myself doing the exercises, and they were never fun.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 06:02 PM
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I never actually fully understood it, but I read it twice because I enjoyed the... vibe (?) The introduction to the edition I have now says that Daybreak and Gay Science help understand Thus Spoke Zarathustra, so I started reading Daybreak.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 06:00 PM
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I find breaking LMR by asking "Do you want me to stop?" a novel idea. How do you pull that off? It might be very congruent with me. If she says yes, do you physically move away? Just keep watching the movie like nothing happened?
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 05:24 AM
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I'm not a big fan of Tom Torero, but he has got this great line: "That's ok, it's my job to try, and as a woman, in our society it's your job to resist. Just so that you know, I will try again in 10 minutes because I find you attractive"
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 05:14 AM
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while you are young and in your teens , spinning plates is not the brightest option. I believe being exclusive for a while could be the potential answer , also you gain experience from it and get to see how things work inside an LTR It has also another huge benefit: It allows you to gain confidence and skills in bed.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 01:21 PM
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You are the kind - forgive me if I claim to know you, but I see this much in you - who is going to have to prove it to himself. That belief would change something in you that, once changed, would make it a hell of a lot easier to do what you believe you want to do. I submit to you the possibility for consideration that your attitude towards; drive for; feelings about sex are not one of your immutable premises; rather, they are part of your problem. I will chime in as I feel I'm in a very similar…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 08:27 AM
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Not sure why this happens, my guess is that hotter girls get hit on more often so they learn to be nice to people whilst ugly/fat girls don't get that experience so they don't know how to act. I suspect this^ It's not that they have some agenda. It's simply that if they accept your compliment, they will open themselves to rejection from you which they think inevitable, considering that guys don't hit on them. It might also be that they want to take their revenge on men in general for not being a…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 09:23 PM
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I don't want to be misunderstood. I'm not saying that your advice is either good or bad, but... In your post there is no data, not even an anecdote to support it. It could be summarized as: I broke this Rule, and then I felt bad about breaking the Rule, so you should stick to the Rule. I can think of many reasons why following your advice might be good. I can also think of some reasons why it might be bad. The post without just that, reasons, has little value IMO.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 07:28 PM
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My thoughts exactly
/r/MGTOW21/01/16 06:06 PM
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What's the point of this? An exercise in consciously controlling my subcommunication and also an experiment in the importance of subcommunication vs. verbals. You're purposefully being a dick to this girl for no reason whatsover. I disagree. There's nothing rude or offensive in my statement.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 10:17 AM
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One time I was passing by this really cute girl. I held her elbow to stop her and said with my pick-up subcommunications: "Excuse me... I just have to tell you... I... absolutely love... those trees" Her face was lighting up until she heard the last word, wish you could see her final expression.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 07:15 AM
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There is this exercise in self-confidence: For the entire day, you open women by asking whether they want to have sex with you. I did it (in another town). The 4th woman I approached said "yes". (Unfortunately, it was because from up close she looked much worse I had thought when I first spotted her)
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 08:36 AM
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This is much less constructive than all the other comments, but maybe knowing that you are not alone in this will help you... After trying to learn game for 4 years, I hired one of the most renowned coaches for 1-on-1 training, and he told me to give up.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 04:42 PM
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You can be a good programmer and get hired by the top companies without a degree. However, that's unlikely, because Software Engineering and Computer Science courses usually are very good and if you are interested in the field, you would get enrolled anyway because it's inspiring, interesting and widening your horizons. (I'm talking about Europe, where education is much cheaper)
/r/MGTOW21/11/15 05:37 PM
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Personally, I find that writing in my Game Journal helps me relieve "negative" emotions, such as shame. Also, knowing that I will be writing about my sarge later during the day makes me analyze and understand it better. And, before I go out, I precisely describe my goals for that day. I really don't want to write "I didn't do it".
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 07:53 AM
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I was in a very short booty-call type relationship in the past. Cut it very quickly, even though there was very little investment on my part.: 40-60 minutes trip both ways, 2 hours at her place, $1 condom She was really cute, but: really, really dumb and uninteresting. I cringed inside when we were talking and cuddling after sex. terrible in bed. She probably never had to improve her technique thanks to her looks. One time while blowing me, she managed to make a small cut with her tooth. :/ At t…
/r/MGTOW15/11/15 10:11 AM
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