| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 18 | New Yorks first Talk Shop [x-post r/socialskills] | PUAdog | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 08:12 PM | |
| 6 | How to fit in with people above your age group | PUAdog | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 03:07 PM | |
| 4 | Snapchat as a way of creating social proof and gauge interest? | PUAdog | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 12:03 PM | |
| 1 | [FR] From Tinder to coffee | PUAdog | /r/seduction | 01/02/14 05:34 PM |
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| 2 | Telling a girl you like herI think you can do it as a way of giving value. By saying "I like you" in the right context you are validating her, which is a good thing. It is like giving the right compliment, "that dress looks good on you". You notice and you are also the one that she wants to notice. Don't go saying you love every girl you meet but when she deserves it, don't hold it back either. | /r/seduction | 13/09/14 11:06 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Approached a girl I met a month ago at a dance hang out I went to with a friend, arranged a dateConfirm the date and then go have it like any other dates. If it doesn't work out, to bad. | /r/seduction | 19/08/14 02:33 AM |
| 7 | "It feels weird."Or maybe he's incosistent. Lots of kino shows attraction but it will come of wierd if he only escalates kino. | /r/seduction | 07/03/14 03:44 PM |
| 1 | [FR] "I'm really glad I met you."The situations are similar because in both instances he does not let it stop him and keeps being persistent, which is ofrene the thing that will work | /r/seduction | 07/03/14 03:42 PM |
| 3 | [FR] "I'm really glad I met you."It can be heard to decipher from text but it sounds like she was saying it more to hersens than him. It was not because she did not want him to come with her but because she did not want to seem as a slut. He just kept testing the waters and she never said "NO!" or "STOP". It's the same as going for the kiss a second time. | /r/seduction | 06/03/14 02:01 PM |
| 3 | A Female Perspective on The Friendzone, and How to Get Out While Minimizing AwkwardnessThat smiley at the end got me! | /r/seduction | 06/03/14 01:45 PM |
| 3 | Abundance mentality only with girls I'm not super intoThis is an amazing conclusion. I normally see it as a weakness that there's many girls I like but realizing that means there is one jus around the corner might help me great them as any other girl | /r/seduction | 24/02/14 06:07 PM |
| 1 | The Rise Of You v. 0.1: Abolishing Confidence IssuesThx I've read this a couple of times now. Have a hard time picking a memory though but I can think of several | /r/seduction | 18/02/14 01:27 PM |
| 1 | The Rise Of You v. 0.1: Abolishing Confidence IssuesBut how will that make you power through anger? I sometimes find nydelig angry at a person at e.g. a private party and then my mood is killed and I have a hard time having fun | /r/seduction | 08/02/14 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Yesterday doubt + [FR] 1st night outNo it is not and that is whats holding you back. If you know it shouldn't be relevant then don't try to make it relevant. You're not the one exception | /r/seduction | 07/02/14 11:40 AM |
| 1 | [FR] From Tinder to coffeeI try different stuff but haven't found anything that was very succesfull. Usually it will be something about one of their pictures or something we both like. I try not to use canned stuff from here because then I get totally detached and even hope they don't answer as it's not me they're interested in then. To sum up, something you both like or one of her pictures (not that she looks pretty but maybe how she thought it was to snowboard). This girl opened me with 🙈(a monkey smiley hiding behind … | /r/seduction | 04/02/14 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls think I'm gay?Autocorrect is lovely! | /r/seduction | 01/02/14 05:35 PM |
| 7 | Why do girls think I'm gay?As others have said you're going at this the wrong way. You should be flatterede she asked, she probably thinks you dress nice (gay stereotype) It's the easiest shit test in the world. Play along, agree&lify, tell her you'll show just how gay you are, say you might give her the chance to make you straight. The possibilities are endless and most are hilarious. Hell sometimes I tell girls me and my buddy are gay to mess with them it reeks of confidence that you're not scared to "play" gay | /r/seduction | 01/02/14 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Honest introspection is sexy, and how to use that to your advantage. Advice for successful first dates and building intimacy.Have a link to that? | /r/seduction | 30/01/14 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Logistics: a basic template you can use to get the same-night lay.Thanks for the links | /r/seduction | 28/12/13 03:46 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Report #3, F-Close for the Roommate Again, Plus Bonus Content!This was great, now I just gotta figure out how that friending thig works so I'l know when there's another | /r/seduction | 24/12/13 11:49 PM |
| 2 | [fr] Night at the club, K-closed and then dunno WTF happened.You say yourself you were pretty drunk. You probably did something out of line/creepy (coming on to strong) and don't remember it. I don't think you'll remember it in the morning after. To find out what it would be good to ask a friend that were less drunk what happened. If there weren't any I'd say you're out of luck, get less drunk next time. This has happened to me and I'd be oblivous to why and then when told realise I couldn't remember and see what I'd done | /r/seduction | 22/10/13 06:10 PM |
| 2 | [FR] got #-closed by a HB7.5 with a bf, after she resisted my k-close. what is the ideal mentality in this situation?As a man it should be up to you to choose if you stay away from girls with BFs or not. Personally i would but i don't judge others because they don't. | /r/seduction | 29/09/13 04:42 PM |
| 1 | FR: Solo at the barI think this is very well written. Would love to read another FR from you, or anything else for that matter :) | /r/seduction | 20/09/13 05:34 PM |
| 12 | [FR] How I snagged an awesome FWB relationshipThen he's been a rebound for two years. Did you read the whole FR? | /r/seduction | 17/09/13 03:35 PM |
| 1 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me LaidSchool, hobbies, social gatherings, the nightlife or a simple hangout with a friend and that persons friend :) | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 11:41 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First 'night' out and how I blew it allShe basicly did the work for you. Open, introducing to friends and when she said you'd have fun with them just supplied you with 5 girls for social proof. You should have hanged out with her for some time and befriended her friends. That have gotten you five girls to go ti the pub with in the future. Other than that idk what to say. Hope you learn from it and if you see her again strike up a conversation | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 11:09 AM |
| 1 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me LaidI'm no MPUA but in my experience the snl is harder to come by and since no one speaks to strangers during the day daygame is if not harder at least more intimidating. Ps: I'm Danish living in Copenhagen | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 04:55 AM |
| -2 | Some techniques and important ideas I've learned.I'm sure this gets covered in the sidebar | /r/seduction | 28/08/13 01:01 PM |
| 2 | First time being painfully honest with a girl. Went better than expected.interesting read, thanks for that | /r/seduction | 10/08/13 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Sharing Technique - [Text Game] - Have the mind set of saying "Yes, and..."I agree, this too might be appropriate | /r/seduction | 07/08/13 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Sharing Technique - [Text Game] - Have the mind set of saying "Yes, and..."You're right and this sentence might even work | /r/seduction | 06/08/13 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Snapchat as a way of creating social proof and gauge interest?I hear you, why aren't one of my parents latin speaking :( | /r/seduction | 02/08/13 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Any sedditors from sweden?Copenhagen, the capital of Denmark :) | /r/seduction | 02/08/13 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Any sedditors from sweden?Nah you misread. What I mean is I probably won't be in Skagen 'till next summer. That doesn't mean I won't go out where I live which is in the other end of the country | /r/seduction | 02/08/13 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Snapchat as a way of creating social proof and gauge interest?But you would be wrong! Nah, neither's my first language | /r/seduction | 02/08/13 09:50 AM |
| 3 | What is the correct course of action if you are at a table with nothing to say while a guy is "holding court"?Nice, thx | /r/seduction | 01/08/13 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Any sedditors from sweden?Will do but it probably won't be 'till next summer | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Any sedditors from sweden?Haven't been in Aalborg after I got old enough to go out so really wouldn't know how it is there. Still quite new to being out and about in CPH | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Any sedditors from sweden?send me your email and I'll send over some contact info | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Any sedditors from sweden?Indeed I don't think we amount enough people for a subreddit | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Any sedditors from sweden?I've never seen any meetups, it seems like there is a very little amount of danish people on here. | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Any sedditors from sweden?Nah man, sorry. Were in Aalbæk with the possibility to get to Skagen last week but I live in Ringsted and Copenhagen. I'll write your username down though as I'll be in Aalbæk again sometimes and we could check out Skagen :) | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Any sedditors from sweden?Me too, where in DK? | /r/seduction | 28/07/13 10:49 PM |
| 1 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachThx, it was good exactly what i thought it would be | /r/seduction | 27/07/13 04:03 PM |
| 2 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachWhen you do please let me know somehow. I find that you usually have some good insight and formulates it well :) | /r/seduction | 24/07/13 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Scientists explain method to become close friends with someone in hours instead of minutes (x-post from selfimprovement)Comment to save these. They're great | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 09:29 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I'm not. What I'm thinking is what differs in the group dynamic from night game to day game. Never seen anything about it. | /r/seduction | 15/07/13 09:07 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Well I know where, but how? I'm sure the actions should differ from opening a group at a party | /r/seduction | 15/07/13 08:30 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma)How do you open a group at day? It could be any setting: mall, the Beach etc. | /r/seduction | 12/07/13 11:25 PM |
| 4 | [FR] UK night out. Long read, sorry but my experience was worth sharingFrom the sidebar under shit tests "Can you buy me a drink/do this for me/hold this?" A COUNTLESS amount of guys are willing to do this 'small' shit for women but the truth is is that it makes you seem like you'll wait on her hand and foot, so that's what she'll begin to treat you as--her butler. BETA RESPONSES: "Oh, sure, no problem." ALPHA RESPONSES: "I think you have me confused with every other guy you've ever met." "No." | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 11:27 PM |
| 2 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Awesome, I can always use more pointers on that subject so I keep my intentions clear and avoid talking myself into the friendzone | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 03:01 PM |
| 1 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Are there going to be any pointers on how to turn the conversation sexual in "Above the Game"? | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 07:53 PM |
| 2 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Well I hope they get reached! I think they're the most interesting extra chapters | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 06:04 PM |
| 2 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Will you share what the human centipede opener is (I think I might be able to figure it out) or keep it as an inside joke | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 06:00 PM |
| 2 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Is there any way the to extra chapters who's (or whom's, unsure) stretch goal hasn't been reached will be posted another time if we don't reach them? I'm really pumped about the extra chapters and can't help but feel a little sad that I can't use the free seminars for anything as it would be crazy expensive for me to fly to USA. | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Expanding on Seddit's definition of "preselection."Always assume attraction | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 07:11 PM |
| 5 | Why is it that men have to do all the changing? Why don't we see women trying to be act more like how men want?Let's take a look at that statement | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 08:30 PM |
| 3 | New Yorks first Talk Shop [x-post r/socialskills]I thought it would be a good way for sedditors located in New York to train their convo skills. I would if I lived there | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 08:13 PM |
| 1 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.Do you need some extra for that? Because I'd love to have it signed but it's already an 20$ extra for us Europeans :) | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 04:08 PM |
| 0 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.That's awesome, respect for that :) | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about SnapChat?I recently made a post about it and after reading this article by TofuTofu I've been using it a third way too. I like it but think it's important to not overdo it. Apart from using it to create social proof by sending a vid/pic of you and some mates (they can be girls ;) ) doing something fun and gauging interest (I have one girl I met one night that I added on Snapchat sending me pics and vids every time she is out or just sending me some selfpic or interesting info (served a celeb at her job) … | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Big shout-out to the Seddit Local Lairs, or, Why you shouldn't go about this aloneFrom Copenhagen here, ever come there? :) | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 10:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you get over that bitch inside you?3 second rule. From you see the target you have 3 seconds to approach. That way you don't have the time to talk yourself out of it | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 07:13 PM |
| 1 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.Cool that you got someone professional working on it (without knowing what you work as yourself). Now that you have put your name on it have you told family and colleagues to or still keeping it a little downlow? | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 09:03 PM |
| 1 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.Cool, thinking about getting a physical copy shipped to Europe. Still don't dig the cover though, black makes it seem like it contains these sleezy lines etc. whereas white might be to make it a little to "pure" and self-help-ish. IDK, just my 2 cents :) | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 08:28 PM |
| 1 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.You'll get my money when it's a new month and I get money back on my account | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 07:50 PM |
| 11 | A bar tactic I use that's worked for me.Here you go | /r/seduction | 23/05/13 12:51 PM |
| 2 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.I have for a long time wanted to buy a book on this stuff and I this exactly the one I want. I will buy something in the meantime though. Can't wait! | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 04:50 PM |
| 0 | Snapchat as a way of creating social proof and gauge interest?It is obviously to create social proof which is really all I'm asking about. Of course it has to be calibrated so it doesn't seem like you're trying to make here jealous. On the other hand isn't social proof all about showing that you're cool and that other women want you "women want what other women want". It could be a short video of doing something fun with a girl or just a picture of something random the two of you did (e.g. a girl send me a pic of her and her friend captioned "doing tats" w… | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Snapchat as a way of creating social proof and gauge interest?Which would make me just part of that crowd as I'm 19. What do you think about gauging interest? | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Snapchat as a way of creating social proof and gauge interest?Will edit that, English isn't my first language :) | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Cold Reading: How to Convince Strangers That You Know All About ThemI know, where on my phonw | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 05:37 PM |
| 2 | [FR]: Even failures feel fucking good. Ridiculous # close attempt!Sure he could have done another, maybe better, approach but encouraging him to wait till she is alone is poor advice | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 01:06 AM |
| 1 | [FR] In the VIPHB7 wasn't worth it if she's gonna storm of just because he's talking with another girl. From what we've bene told that spinds insecure | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 12:58 PM |
| -7 | Cold Reading: How to Convince Strangers That You Know All About ThemTo save | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 12:14 AM |
| 1 | How to fit in with people above your age groupThanks for the answers guys, seems it was pretty simple: Don't stress it, you fit in. | /r/seduction | 24/03/13 01:31 PM |
| 1 | How to fit in with people above your age groupThank you, I can see your point. I never intended to lie about my age to fit in. You said what I needed to hear. I mean if I can hang out with my cousin then why should here friends be any different. :) | /r/seduction | 24/03/13 01:29 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Why? | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Virgin moved to Vegas and became successful with women by going to the club every night. AMAHow do you finance that ligestyle? | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Need help w new girl at work (she has a boyfriend)It seems like you are about to develop one-itis for a girl in a relationship. Don't go there | /r/seduction | 10/03/13 04:43 PM |
| 2 | How to Tell a Story that Rivets and Captivates (Girls Chase)Replied so I can find it later | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations.What if I am overall just a very funny guy? It should be okay as long as I am entertained right? :) | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 08:22 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/5/13 (please upvote - zero karma)A late answer but yes that is what it will do. It should also keep any one-itis you might be getting at bay | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Talking with a pen in my mouth has helped me become a better communicator.Comment save | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 06:51 AM |
| 0 | How to Tell a Story that Rivets and Captivates (Girls Chase)To save | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations.What do you mean by challenging? | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 07:12 PM |
| 3 | Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations.Why is it important to avoid being the entertainer and what do you mean by it | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 03:25 PM |
| 4 | A little advice for those of you struggling with AA/Why openers don't matter.Comment to save | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 08:06 PM |
| 1 | The importance of the first kiss [infographic]Saved | /r/seduction | 12/02/13 09:01 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/5/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Better yet put your efforts elsewhere now. I'm not saying dump this girl, just put your efforts on someone else while she is off at school | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 05:11 PM |
| 3 | [FR] From online to bed (With actual messages inc)Dv=demonstration of value? | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 02:47 PM |
| 1 | I am a professional dating coach for The Art of Charm, AMA!Saved | /r/seduction | 16/01/13 04:17 PM |
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