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PUAtalksRP/r/askTRP03/12/15 12:50 PM
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Yes some, most newbies dont get results and the community is full of newbies so thats only fair. Im not sure what your point is but it sounds like youre too into theory.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 06:10 PM
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no its much more than just that.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 06:09 PM
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ya. youre the one being childish despite your age
/r/askTRP26/12/15 09:28 PM
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oh well. you might be fucked!!
/r/askTRP26/12/15 09:27 PM
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no way out for you. you have to break up and accept the heartbreak. if you dont, she will dump you eventually and force you to go through it anyway.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:34 PM
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Yeah, you need to get more girls. its really the only answer
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:31 PM
-1

creep is a word you just have to deal with. its powerful, and it shuts down many guys, thats why they use it because its effective. it doesnt have an actual tangible meaning though, many women themselves are creepy
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:30 PM
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you sound like a young guy, lol just cut her
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:29 PM
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the thing is, if youre beta and youre trying to tell alphas they arent real, that is useless. some of us already have rotations of 5 women. we KNOW its real from real world experience. if youre a beta, and you dont want to change, this forum isnt for you
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:16 PM
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RSD is bad because, its just a pure shit show. they dont care about the students actually improving, they just care about selling products. like they are worse than any other pickup school in this sense. One guy just posted a thread on rsd forum the other day, saying RSD has no accountability. anyone can throw out any idea or concept no matter how vague, and no one will call him out on it. Owen cook, has created an atmosphere where there is no method, and each instructor has contradicting advice…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:13 PM
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My advice, from the pickup community as opposed to the RP community, the two are very similar though. get a guru, learn a style, mystery method is great and classic but perhaps not best for a beginner. Brad p is great, jon sinn is very good, RSD jeffy is good, wayne elise. learn structured game from someone, stay away from natural game. stay away from RSD advice, stay away from the european daygame style, those guys are pretty widely bad. stay away from female coaches. Do 1000 approaches, get a …
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:09 PM
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sure thats true. just learn from it and move on, accept the heartbreak, it makes you stronger long run
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:08 PM
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well, youre trying to game a girl who is definitively not attracted to you. you orbited for 4 years? and didnt make a move? she views you as a huge beta because of this and other reasons (that i dont know about). The ONLY effective thing you can do about this, is to be friendly and cool, dont use any game shit like you just listed. be cool to her, and pursue other girls. after you hook up with another girl for a few weeks, see her reaction and see if you cant get her to pursue you. thats the ONL…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:47 AM
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because they know too much. Women highly rate another womans opinion. They know that they cant give men honest advice, so they assume that men also cannot give them honest advice.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:44 AM
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My advice, from the pickup community as opposed to the RP community, the two are very similar though. get a guru, learn a style, mystery method is great and classic but perhaps not best for a beginner. Brad p is great, jon sinn is very good, RSD jeffy is good, wayne elise. learn structured game from someone, stay away from natural game. stay away from RSD advice, stay away from the european daygame style, those guys are pretty widely bad. stay away from female coaches. Do 1000 approaches, get a …
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:42 AM
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thats not a test, shes trying to push you back into beta role. girls dont want to let guys out of the beta box. shes shaming you, not shit testing you.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:35 AM
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I wouldnt personally, esp not as a virgin. face your fears.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:34 AM
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You cant really bring it up, sometimes ill be out and other dudes will watch me running sets and then come up to me after and ask about pickup, its happened a few times lol
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:33 AM
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well, im from the pickup community, and ive winged with 10 guys ive met from PUA, most of them werent very good but some had strong understanding of game.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:32 AM
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the girl can test you, her friends can test you for her, other guys can test you for her, random people can test you for her. tests come in many different forms
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:29 AM
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ya i think youre a little in denial but. a shit test is anything to test your confidence, or see if she can rattle your emotional state, or frame. so shit tests can be varied and different and come in many shapes forms and sizes
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:28 AM
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dont worry about arrogance, the question is confidence or cockyness? To fake confidence, you just fake it till you create it. as brent smith says, lol. when a girl shit tests you, and you fail it, she will know its fake confidence only then. if you pass it, she cant be sure.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:27 AM
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way too attached too soon
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:25 AM
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this is weird. but, if thats the case, distance yourself from her. dont be close to her where you to can fight, go to your room. dont spend time with her. It doesnt do you any good to argue with her, or try to punch her or whatever, both will cause you problems. I would just agree and even apologize, then just cut her off.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:22 AM
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seems to my youre in denial with this girl. shes your one special girl, and you are already fucked. You know what though, you should just be friends with her. be cool, and social. you wont get to fuck her, and if you cant stand that at all, then cut her. but if you can stand it, and then approach other women, you dont have to cut her.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:19 AM
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lol wow. some people are beyond help but. Youre 19 so you need to chill.. Your dad is MOST LIKELY lying about 1000 women, and you should tell yourself that hes lying and only had 150 women, first of all. id say you need the pickup community, learn some cold approach stuff, structured game, and start practicing. cold approach is therapeutic in a way because youre actaully taking action and it feels good, even when you get rejected. id say start there, but youre only 19
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:17 AM
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ya you dont really understand women with a comment like that. they are looking for quality not quantity.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:14 AM
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ya this is bad, you may have shown too much interest. she may like the other guy more
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:13 AM
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ya go up, be cool. introduce yourself, ask him what crazy shit he has going on this weekend. trade numbers, tell him youll bring girls to his party, or invite him to yours. you can approach for him and bring girls over, find a 2 set where they are both hot and throw a hot girl on him.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:11 AM
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not really gonna change much, wolfs arent humans. all the monkey studies and the more recent human studies still show the alphas are getting almost all the pussy. edit: Im from pua not RP
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:10 AM
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Uhm, it depends. alot of women are, i find half are good half are bad. roughly.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:09 AM
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care to rate these women in looks? i sleep with moms and women in their 40's and some of then are 7's former 8's
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:08 AM
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space case LOL. nice one. that girl should be cleared up on this issue in 6 months to a year. just ignore it.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:05 AM
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yeah. " im not that easy, i need trust comfort and connection first" lol but with the second example, you didnt make a mistake. saying lets see how it goes is not so bad, you didnt approve of the blowjob
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:03 AM
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Yeah, every guy goes through this. eventually, if its a good enough heartbreak, you might be fixed and understand these concepts. can take 1 year - 2 years to get over ur first bad heartbreak
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:00 AM
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pic? race?
/r/askTRP26/12/15 01:59 AM
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its not a good style for most of the guys that come to learn from RP or PUA
/r/askTRP17/12/15 10:12 PM
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ya GLL is really. hes not good, his openers are wack, his game is pretty bad overall. low social awareness and no calibration. Memorizing the steps in part of structured game, and alot of guys need it.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 09:59 PM
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ya i posted this and some other guys downvoted? lol but... SOME girls WILL try to make you wait and jump through hoops, THERE ARE GIRLS LIKE THAT... sorry to guys who dont want to hear that but its true. seems like she is perhaps not worth the effort. next!
/r/askTRP17/12/15 09:57 PM
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I think its not that bad. you can get her back in your rotation again.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 06:52 PM
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I dont even approach if she isnt up to my standards. but if your just practicing, i think thats fine. If im gonna approach i will always num close or give my num. but the issue is this, if you approach alot and get 90% no-responses, gonna be hard for that guy to stay motovated to keep doing daygame.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 06:50 PM
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then why is every post on redpill about pickup?
/r/askTRP14/12/15 10:14 AM
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well, these guys are acting like its super simple, which suggests they dont have alot of experience because daygame isnt super simple. Your right, the problem with daygame is the girl is like wtf why is this guy talking to me. then to fix it alot of guys will just go direct. what ends up happening is you can collect numbers, but most of them just wont reply.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 08:58 AM
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if you want to learn cold approach, check out the pickup community. you are really limiting yourself, saying no online and no nightgame. thats 2/3 ways to meet women gone. also, its VERY rare a guy can just jump into daygame and have success, we recommend alot of nightgame training before you are ready for daygame. daygame is the hardest
/r/askTRP14/12/15 08:53 AM
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well she might be the type to make you wait. just proceed as normal and if you cant get any after 2 or 3 dates, next
/r/askTRP14/12/15 08:41 AM
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nope, you cant move backwards in relationships.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 08:40 AM
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ya this, just cut contact totally.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 08:39 AM
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hamster doesnt run for guys shes not attracted to
/r/askTRP14/12/15 08:38 AM
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Nah not really. typically that shit is kind of a secret and they want to keep it that way. The world needs betas and exposing AWALT doesnt help their cause
/r/askTRP14/12/15 08:35 AM
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you do know there are like 50,000 subreddits right? but in general, leftist and feminist leaning subreddits.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 08:33 AM
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ya. paul janka talked about this, and i agree. he says dont do anything physical with a girl. basically, youre both sweating and wearing gym clothes, shes going to be afraid she smells bad and wants a shower. it just doesnt lead to what you want.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 08:31 AM
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ya youre assuming she knows your not scared to walk, but saying L bomb every day says otherwise. It might help the relationship, but this is a relationship where her frame is more powerful. I predict more problems as this continues
/r/askTRP14/12/15 08:29 AM
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theres no value in your question. your asking should you be a kiss ass?
/r/askTRP14/12/15 08:27 AM
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i mean, we had to deal with it for years in pua community. misogyny does exist in the community, its a real thing
/r/askTRP14/12/15 08:25 AM
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also people are free to choose which community they like, im not clinging to either community. if one is truly dying then thats fine. RP talks about fundamentals but doesnt help guys with outer game, and alot of guys have so many problems and issues that RP doesnt address. this forum shows that.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 08:39 PM
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and actually, approaching at college as a beginner is dangerous. I wouldnt be suprised if a few months down the line, you are viewed as that wierdo who bothers people on and around campus and quits cold approach.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 08:36 PM
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I doubt youre results are that good. RP is good stuff, but like natural game is really doesnt give guys much outer game to work with. youre so emotional that your trying to say i said things i didnt say. Young guys should give themselves a chance to see what they are made of naturally, without RP. then if you get smashed by a girl later on, come to this material.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 08:32 PM
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nah youre done son. you cant go backwards in an LTR. Just remember for future girls, NEVER drop the L bomb.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 08:30 PM
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She definitely sees you as a weak. and she basically just conquered you. if youre gonna be an asshole you have to be able to handle shit like this
/r/askTRP13/12/15 08:27 PM
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I wouldnt do it, its better to face your fear now. But strip clubs are ok but. Picking up strippers is for advanced guys, its gonna be nearly impossible if youre a newbie. Strippers are the best @ tooling dudes.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 08:25 PM
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Never lol what is this the 16 year old help forum
/r/askTRP13/12/15 08:23 PM
-1

you fucked up, and you should move on. But for now, youre getting laid still so maybe keep it going. I would guess eventually shes going to stop sleeping with you over this.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 08:21 PM
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heres my experience, you try to be funny, witty, charasmatic. but youre doing it over text. eventually, before long shes like wow this guy is really investing in me. and your value drops. Do it if you want to, and sure you can make it work sometimes but i find its unnecessary and will cost you more often than it will help you.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 08:15 PM
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bad advice
/r/askTRP13/12/15 08:13 PM
1

actually you can ace the interaction, if your advanced, or just much higher value than the girl. but its a disadvantaged spot for a guy.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 08:12 PM
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like i said young guys hate this advice but its true. Young guys can use this advice, and get better over time but most of them get no results at all and quit after a short period. Use it at your own risk
/r/askTRP13/12/15 08:07 PM
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ya like i said, young guys hate to hear this, but it really is true. If you must use this material as a young guy, fine do it but its going to be a discouraging uphill battle. and yes 19/20 year old chicks will DQ you.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 08:06 PM
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I think torero's game is really boring, but i think he has good calibration and atleast picks targets well. i like that fact that terero respects mystery. hes the best of the euro daygame crew. Yad really gets rejected alot and when you hear him discussing pickup he talks about like beauty and esoteric ideas. its very odd. I dont think he gets laid and if does he needs to do probably 500 approaches per lay. berba is just a huge embarrasment. he goes in, goes direct, isnt interesting at all, and …
/r/askTRP13/12/15 08:04 PM
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I mean, the only PUA that recommends text game is manwhore, and i think he does it just for marketing to pull in more readers. The main reason is because you are creating no sense of urgency to meet up. your too available. also there is so much room to make mistakes.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 03:17 PM
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For many reasons, first of all you want to be the leader, not her. so doing her date sets a bad frame. shes already testing to see to what extent she can tool you. Second of all, its often a shit test. shes going to see if you go along with her or if youre smart/experienced enough to say no. if you agree, its usually a very difficult situation, such as meeting her friends out @ the bar, or whatever the situation is.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 03:12 PM
-1

you need the pua community, learn structured game
/r/askTRP13/12/15 03:05 PM
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well this is why most students will drop out of pickup and just quit after 6 months. You have to get results somewhere, start going after 6's
/r/askTRP13/12/15 03:04 PM
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take so much action that your thinking brain shuts off
/r/askTRP13/12/15 03:03 PM
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Youre too worried about the way you want the world to be, instead of accepting the world the way it is.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 03:02 PM
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In pickup, we have a saying. we have many sayings but this one is very important. In order to get the one special girl, you must first become good with all women. and furthermore, in order to keep the one special girl, you must first become good with all women. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEy3d8dXY3A watch this
/r/askTRP13/12/15 02:58 PM
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well heres the thing about that. Your value is whatever your value is. if your low value, you can still find success. Youre not going to fuck 8's 9's or 10's, but you can peel of 6's and the occasional 7. Most guys who stay in the game long term, and have large rotations of women, are living off a steady diet of 7's. RSD jeffy, who is probably RSD's best instructor, was exposed by jezebel and went on a date with a hideous girl who was like a 3. Look for the girls who give you eye contact or othe…
/r/askTRP13/12/15 02:53 PM
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wait why are you texting her so much? and why hasnt anyone scolded you for it? text game is in many ways not real. just use texting to set up dates.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 02:50 PM
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check out jon sinn interview with scotty OTM. also richard laruina has some good advice on finding male friends
/r/askTRP13/12/15 02:48 PM
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swag
/r/askTRP13/12/15 02:47 PM
2

hmm. very odd. you claim you have been through a rough break up, but still dont like PUA stuff. If you want to be an ice cold pimp, you need the beta ripped out of you. guys cant take the beta out of themselves, they need a women to do it. maybe you need to go through some more heartbreak before youre ready to swallow the red pill.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 02:44 PM
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to further my point, when saddam hussien was being interrogated after he was captured, they asked him many many questions. one of the questions was, what do you think of western women? he answered: western women have too much freedom and are no good as a result.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 02:42 PM
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Middle east is different from the west. in the middle east, women are controlled by men and dont have the oppurtunity to act as shitty as they want to. So, in the middle east, not all women are sluts. Your women will not screw you over because sharia law states that if she cheats, she faces the death penalty. This law was created because you guys understand that women have a high likelyhood to pursue this behavior and this law was necesarry. RP is in many ways a reaction to western womens freedo…
/r/askTRP13/12/15 02:41 PM
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If you want to hang out with her, suggest drinks sometime
/r/askTRP13/12/15 02:37 PM
6

PUA view: when a girl suggest a date idea, the answer is always no.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 02:36 PM
1

yeah, atleast hes being honest that youll get blown out constantly.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 02:31 PM
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Young guys hate to hear this, but generally when your under 23, PUA and RP material isnt going to help you that much. Most girls will DQ you immediately because of age. like even most girls your age will DQ you. go for girls who are 16 -17. whats going to happen to you, is what happens to so many guys. Youre going to approach, have shit results. eventually youll realize your just making yourself look like an ass and getting no results, and then feel discouraged about the whole thing, and maybe q…
/r/askTRP13/12/15 02:30 PM
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Not sure who krauser is, terero isnt bad but ya in general they are bad. yad, andy yosha, their whole crew. johnny berba, they are all bad. no calibration, shit openers, they just do non stop appraoches and deal with a massive flake rate
/r/askTRP13/12/15 02:26 PM
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giving out ur num is more powerful if done correctly. but you did it wrong. taking numbers lines you up as the persuer
/r/askTRP13/12/15 12:16 AM
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also, when you get out of college, your social circle will be broken up fairly quickly. alot of people move away to get jobs. some will stay in that town, most who stay in that town will get busy or get in relationships or have kids. etc.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 12:14 AM
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6pm is too early for a date.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 12:07 AM
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Yes, everyone is saying no but the answer is yes. College eveything is super lubricated for you, built in social circle, best possible logistics. You can keep it going but you need a new strategy, i suggest pua community material, RP is good as well.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 12:05 AM
0

Actaully it is a tough thing. its easy to feel guilty about this issue. But women dump guys and break guys hearts/waste their time alot and then they act like we cant do the same to them. end of the day its 2 way st
/r/askTRP13/12/15 12:03 AM
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PUA view: A long distance relationship isnt a relationship at all. when i meet a girl and she says she "has a boyfriend but he lives far away" you can basically assume shes single. I would say end the relationship, even if you really have strong oneitis, end it and move on. shes going to cheat eventually if she hasnt already. As far as your struggles, Yeah i think that always hurts relationships. also 2.75 years is a long time, 3 years is pretty average for a good LTR so it may be time to end th…
/r/askTRP12/12/15 11:59 PM
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well alot of betas are good guys, so that makes sense
/r/askTRP12/12/15 11:55 PM
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whats the problem, let him be BB. his son?? does he mean another mans son? lol. its really not awkward.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 02:15 PM
1

basically, when she texts you, you say "so i assume you want to come over/so i assume you want me to come over" If she says no shes busy, you stop replying. if she send you nude pics, dont reply, she already said no to the hookup for the night. Ive been good at pickup for a while, but brent smith's teachings took my game to the next level in the last year. ill link you to a video where he talks about this issue : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DkJrtCnlIKY all his content is great.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 11:24 AM
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high school lol. does fooling around mean full blown sex or just like handjob?
/r/askTRP12/12/15 10:58 AM
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hmm. well women can be easily distracted. It could be a shit test. I would guess your not the most alpha guy if women are interrupting you in set. ya i would say shes more bored though , sized you up as boring beta, was distracted and changed the convo.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 10:56 AM
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since she dumped you, she has all the power and she knows it. you still have feelings, and shes going to take advantage of it. Id say stay away. I would only say its ok if you have advanced game, but seeing as how you dont have abundance, i cant recommend that.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 10:41 AM
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Ill read it for you , as i eat. then ill give an informed opinion. edit: Ok, so first of all, you got the SNL, thats great but you only slept with her once so shes not locked down yet. the game is still on, and youre about to get outplayed. Then you make your first big mistake, saying you sexted all night with her. this is what brent smith would call "over communication". It might seem cool to you because youre getting nudes, but in the process youre showing that youre attached. texting is only …
/r/askTRP12/12/15 10:18 AM
0

maybe im wrong like i said thats too much for me to read but generally when guys write that epic block of text, this is the issue
/r/askTRP12/12/15 08:55 AM
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please dude, white guys in gangs arent harrassing you LOL. this is hilarious. IF a white dude sent you a threat just report him to police it will probably make national headline news. No ones copying your style. If half of this is even true, if you really sarged out THE ENTIRE CITY and creeped out the girls to this extent, then maybe you need to move to a new city.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 08:52 AM
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I think judging by that book you wrote, youre too attached. and she started to feel your lack of abundance. and then you made it worse by pulling her in even harder. I didnt read it all, im just guessing
/r/askTRP12/12/15 08:50 AM
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some girls are like this though, they love sex so much that they wont shit test, just incase you dont pass it. she doesnt wanna risk it lol
/r/askTRP12/12/15 08:48 AM
1

DAMN she is doing work. what stds do u 2 have? We hate sluts because if it wasnt for their desire for alphas and high perpensity to cheat, we could have stable relationships with them, mostly
/r/askTRP12/12/15 08:47 AM
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Ill give you some PUA viewpoint advice. NEVER EVER write anything to a girl ever again, no storys, or poems, nothing.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 04:13 AM
1

its not to bang or not to bang, its can you bang or cant you bang
/r/askTRP12/12/15 04:12 AM
1

ya shes complimenting, good start. set up the meetup
/r/askTRP12/12/15 04:11 AM
15

LOL, so fucking cringe. I guess youre new.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 04:07 AM
1

LOL again, i should have said the caviat, young guys hate hearing this but its true
/r/askTRP12/12/15 03:56 AM
1

good looking loser has the shittiest advice. his infield is so cringe, he has no calibration, his openers are wack. again i dont know how these clowns get clients
/r/askTRP12/12/15 03:55 AM
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this is why, in the pua community we say no online dating when you start. for atleast a year. because guys will become reliant on it, and never learn game. Online is easy, but you only get 6's and 7's online so it only is so good. you probably need pua community
/r/askTRP11/12/15 06:45 AM
1

probably but go for it tomo anyway
/r/askTRP11/12/15 06:42 AM
3

walk away breh
/r/askTRP11/12/15 06:41 AM
1

how do u soft next?
/r/askTRP11/12/15 06:37 AM
-2

and yeah, as usual, isolate and escalate.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 02:27 AM
-2

well. if she isnt responding to teasing, you need to calibrate. so stop teasing her. if you have enough value, then its time to build comfort. if she doesnt talk or is shy, stall by telling stories.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 02:27 AM
1

same as any other girl. church girls arent the biggest whores as others have said, but they arent that much tougher
/r/askTRP11/12/15 02:23 AM
1

ya well as others have said, where is the context. from here, it looks like op is the douche
/r/askTRP11/12/15 02:21 AM
2

well good, if you want to fuck her, you need to be escalating. if shes in isolation with you, shes DTF. basically 100%
/r/askTRP11/12/15 01:34 AM
1

one thing you can do is use check ins. say stuff like "you know what im saying, right" "you know what i mean, right" "this girl knows what im talking about" wayne elise has great advice on getting girls/people in invest in conversations, his whole method is sort of based around that, his material is on youtube. for structured game check out mystery method
/r/askTRP11/12/15 01:32 AM
2

its kinda weird, but it happens occasionally. women have such a social frame that sometimes stuff like this happens. If she brings a friend, thats weird too because sex cant happen if she brings a friend. I think youre friendzoned hard. If you tried to escalate, it would likely go badly.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 12:56 AM
2

yeah good point. in many ways, this a community for guys who have been shattered by women at some point, and come here for answers. This isnt a place where you should start at by default. keep these ideas in mind, if you really get emotionally smashed by some girl, come back here and learn more.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 12:53 AM
3

Moving on is best, but I would take her back and treat her like such a whore. fuck her in the ass and just talk dirty and call her a nasty slut and a whore during sex and stuff. then dont give her any emotional connection, you can even cuddle with her if you want but verbally tell her its over, and you cant trust her. dont agree to a relationship again. If she tries to get into a conversation about it, bring up how she was fucking other dudes and thats just too much for you. Just my opinion, but…
/r/askTRP11/12/15 12:46 AM
2

this is so true. when a woman cheats on a beta, do u think she cares about whats fair?? lol
/r/askTRP11/12/15 12:43 AM
1

Yes, you do have oneitis. yes youre in love. its common for a man to fall in love. So youre fucked mate, cya
/r/askTRP11/12/15 12:41 AM
1

what is this shit? study session? obviously youre busy and cant go
/r/askTRP11/12/15 12:38 AM
0

you need structured game, learn to slow down. in general, you wont get approached, that shit is for naturals. so you have to be ok with it. work on getting people to invest in convos
/r/askTRP11/12/15 12:36 AM
1

i mean yes generally lol. why go on a date if u dont want to fuck?
/r/askTRP11/12/15 12:35 AM
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dude, at 16 this material could really fuck you up. I dont think guys under 21 should study this stuff. just be normal and social. and dont get any girls pregnant. be careful about LTRs
/r/askTRP11/12/15 12:34 AM
1

ya its tricky. If you need them for social connections, just be cool and friendly, if you dont need her for anything, probably shouldnt be friends w her.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 12:32 AM
2

IMO, shes lost some attraction. You need to move on and get other girls, this one is on the downward slippery slope and all you can do is regain your abundance.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 12:28 AM
1

Yeah i get this too. You have to open with a smile, and probably you need to smile more to look more approachable. Be playful as well. there is something to this, when you look mean and unapproachable. jeffy mentions this in one of his old videos, ill link https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9soScNJ60lc
/r/askTRP11/12/15 12:26 AM
1

Ya, its a last ditch effort to make sure that shes fucking an alpha. If you admit its been 2 months to a year or more, thats very bad.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 12:23 AM
1

not really cuz i know enough not to commit to a girl i dont really like, unlike OP. real life has hit OP, not me in that sense. im not dumb enough to put myself in that spot.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 12:18 AM
1

well, if youre going out and approaching group sets thats one thing. its another thing to agree to meet up with a girls whole social circle off of tinder. I do wonder what mystery would say though.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 12:15 AM
2

Its actually OK, its just you need to be continueing to go out and live the lifestyle, if youre stuck on ONE FB for over a year, it means you dont have abundance. usually. keep it going but keep moving as well.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 12:12 AM
0

dude you cant hide your true age, one someone has enough expeirence on the earth, they can fucking see it with their eyes.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 12:11 AM
1

yeah dude, like young guys HATE to hear "youre too young to game her" , but its the truth, they just auto DQ young guys. if youre under 23, you should game girls your age and younger. and if you have a cougar fetish, know that you can kill it when youre a bit older
/r/askTRP11/12/15 12:10 AM
2

ya, no abundance, hard neediness, you need the pua community not TRP
/r/askTRP10/12/15 11:55 AM
1

well atleast you are honest. ive seen so many guys in this scene who will try to say a girl who is a 6 is a 9. so atleast youre honest about it. IF its a guy who saw you, its no problem since no one will believe him. if its a girl, youre fucked lol. but best thing is to not react to it.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 11:51 AM
3

theres no need to talk for 10 minutes or whatever
/r/askTRP10/12/15 11:49 AM
1

No , let her get into your place. but as soon as she sits down and is alone in your place, sit next to her, hug her , kiss her, start escalating. like right away as soon as she sits down, she shouldnt be in your place longer than a minute before you start escalating. This isnt a hard a fast rule, if your experienced you can break that rule. but for you since you have no experience, just get right to it. she knows why she is there.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 11:48 AM
5

You never fail with a women because she has low self esteem, you fail because you have low self esteem. If this really is the problem, let her keep her shirt on, take off her pants and panties and fuck her while she has her shirt on.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 11:46 AM
6

This post is riddled with inconsistency. If you arent actually hooking up with women, you dont have women on your dick. Women arent easy to understand, if they were, guys wouldnt be getting so tooled by women so easily and the PUA community wouldnt need to exist. It is hard to get women to like you, and if youre not fucking them, you should know better than to say that. Youre making excuses for yourself, to maintain your self image but im calling all that out here. To answer your title, since yo…
/r/askTRP10/12/15 11:44 AM
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Usually women wont flirt with younger guys till they hit around 27. a couger going after an 18 year old is very rare. I dont think this is a real issue. Approach them by having good game. if shes 22-34, and your 18-21, you have almost no shot. wait till your older to go after cougars. when your in your 30s you can really kill it with cougars if you like
/r/askTRP10/12/15 11:38 AM
1

in what subreddit did you read this lol? some girls do and some girls dont. If a girl is afraid of clingy guys, she wont want to cuddle. If a girl does want to cuddle it means she likes you and wants to make you fall in love. your question off the end doesnt even make sense. if she wants to feel independent, why would she act dependent on cuddling?
/r/askTRP10/12/15 11:36 AM
1

check out wayne elise, aka juggler. he hosts conversation camps and he works on articulation specifically. he has some great advice, and his system is really good as well. different style but good
/r/askTRP10/12/15 11:33 AM
1

you mean pronunciation, not articulation
/r/askTRP10/12/15 09:27 AM
2

and its not a shit test, she already likes you and wants to stay together. youre not happy? thats not good enough, you should have known better from the start
/r/askTRP10/12/15 09:26 AM
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well frankly, its a shitty thing to do. you lead her on, even married her. and now your just ditching her. thats why i say PUA isnt a scumbag, a guy like you is the true scumbag, you wasted so much of her time. If youre gonna get your pregnant, you shouldnt be so fast to ditch her.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 09:25 AM
2

If you have no abundance, shes not a plate
/r/askTRP10/12/15 09:23 AM
2

yep, said alot in a few words, i like that. If your social media isnt alpha as fuck, youre just making the game way harder on yourself.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 09:21 AM
1

haha, this is good, and creative.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 09:16 AM
1

again, youre a guy who needs the pua community to get better game faster. But as a few general tips, when it comes to setting up dates, dont set up dates for in the future, set up dates for tonight only. never try to set up a date 3 days from now, cuz girls will flake. only work on meetups for tonight. Just because youre beta bux, doesnt mean youre going to get pussy. it doesnt translate because its not meant to translate. and yes i would say you do need a reset or a rework, learn structured gam…
/r/askTRP10/12/15 08:17 AM
1

Generally, its bad. and youre setting yourself up to get tooled. its also a weak sub communication.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 08:14 AM
1

Yep, its become a bigger and bigger issue. TO social media game, or not social media game. Thesegates is one example, and im with him. we both prefer cold approach. These days, men are super beta. with tinder, hookups are easy and you dont actually have to learn game. SO when she meets a guy in real life who has game, its that much more impressive. It comes down to a few things, how alpha are you? if youre the top 15% of men, social media game can be really strong and effective. If your still se…
/r/askTRP10/12/15 08:06 AM
2

Yeah, oneitis is normal for guys, thats why it exists as a term. just because you read the sidebar, doesnt mean anything. game and pickup takes years to learn and internalize, and often you have to re-remind yourself of things youve learned.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 07:58 AM
1

nah, no big deal. is it a test? maybe, anything can be a test. shes probably just annoyed that youre late often. the bigger problem is you have a long term fwb.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 07:55 AM
1

well. these guys WOULD be giving you good advice, to just kinda blow her off. But the problem is, your seeing this girl more than once and week and your sub communications are that you want to be the boyfriend guy. sticky spot, I personally wouldnt have let it get this far. IF i were in your spot though id just be honest and say your too emotionally damaged by women to trust them. this might extend the non-committal phase.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 07:54 AM
0

talk slower, lol take mystery and pua community advice. slow things down, talk slow
/r/askTRP10/12/15 07:49 AM
1

well. this is a huge issue. in one of the original pickup books written in 2002, pook says that women cannot feel love. In my experience, i think this is true. WOmen only feel attraction for a man, and that attraction can fluxuate. women write songs about this fluxuating attraction for their man. When you love a woman, she gains all the power and then you lose the power and slowly she loses attraction for you. SOME women will stay with a man who theyve lost attraction for, if hes a good provider…
/r/askTRP10/12/15 07:45 AM
6

never bring up or ask a girl about her boyfriend in any situation. lol
/r/askTRP10/12/15 07:41 AM
1

id say again as usual, join the pickup community and learn outer game. sounds like you have your shit together but likely have no game
/r/askTRP10/12/15 07:38 AM
2

good news for you is that you found rp. You sound like a mega mega hardcase beta male. I would suggest the pickup community, as usual. First thing first, STOP being friends with women, its beta. START cold approaching and working on your skillset. You need to learn fundamentals as well (actually you need to learn everything about pickup lol), body language, eye contact, alpha subcoms.. you need alot of work. being the gay friend and hanging around girls isnt helping
/r/askTRP10/12/15 07:36 AM
1

yeah this is shitty, sounds like hes the favorite. Id tell him that im done putting up with his female emotional shit and if he touches anything i own, that im going to beat his ass. and then after that, distance yourself as much as you can
/r/askTRP10/12/15 07:34 AM
1

yep, i agree with thotwrecker as well. edit* i would never leave it as a last resort, since i have such abundance, i dont have to deal with that shit
/r/askTRP10/12/15 07:31 AM
1

PUA view on this: Its very bad. shes totally protected and has social power, and you basically have to prove your value to the whole group. NEVER agree to meet up with a girl and her friends, unless you are very advanced. Also, its often a type of shit test because she wants to see if your dumb enough or inexperienced enough to agree to the meetup, where her and her social circle are going to tool you. When this happens, tell her no but youll meet her for drinks at this other place. if she doesn…
/r/askTRP10/12/15 07:29 AM
1

this is why RP'ers need the pickup community lol. You need to start in nightgame, daygame is too hard for a beginner, so go to bars and start practicing
/r/askTRP09/12/15 09:27 AM
1

you fucked up breh, shoulda came here a year ago so we could have told you to strap up.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 09:25 AM
1

very wierd, that you have girls all around you that like you, but you cant get laid. i suspect youre leaving something out of the story. But if not, remember to isolate and escalate
/r/askTRP09/12/15 09:23 AM
1

youre escalation is likely uncalibrated.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 09:22 AM
3

No no , never drop L bomb when you do it costs you attraction.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 09:17 AM
1

Ya so, In PUA community, what usually happens is after youve been in pickup for about 2 years, its normal to shed all your old friends, male and female. They just cant accept the new you, and thats ok, they dont have to. it wont affect your results. women always want to you remain beta, of course. they only like alpha when you are alpha from the start
/r/askTRP09/12/15 09:11 AM
1

just move on, next
/r/askTRP08/12/15 06:54 PM
1

ya you communicated too much
/r/askTRP08/12/15 06:54 PM
3

ya, was easy to assume she has a placeholder bf.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 06:53 PM
2

yeah totally fake. if shes on tinder, shes on tinder. its not a shit test, but it is a bitch shield. you cant get tested until you atleast open
/r/askTRP08/12/15 06:52 PM
1

what isnt useful is OP being in denial about him sucking, instead pretending to be alpha with a lay count of 1 every 2 months. hes a beginner and if he wants to get better, assuming hes intermediate isnt going to help him
/r/askTRP08/12/15 06:50 PM
0

behind every great fortune, is a great crime
/r/askTRP08/12/15 03:32 PM
3

he already lost frame by trying to control her when he didnt commit first.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 03:30 PM
3

you fucked up because you are acting like you own her when you dont. you have to make up your mind, do you want a relationship or not?
/r/askTRP08/12/15 03:30 PM
2

LOL, if she suggest netflix, its on. Sex on the first date is still on.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 03:28 PM
2

Whoa, youre way needy dude. you have no abundance and because of that, shes not attracted to you. I predict this ends awkward and weird
/r/askTRP08/12/15 03:26 PM
2

ya i think this is an odd issue, but guys with this issue will lose motovation faster
/r/askTRP08/12/15 03:25 PM
2

If you have a vagina and could get everyone to do shit for you, youd be lazy too. But, to be more dominant, you have to start being more dominant. social dominance, physical dominance. dirty talking during sex is good but can be creepy if you say wierd shit
/r/askTRP08/12/15 03:24 PM
1

dude you have no verbal game. lol u need the pua community
/r/askTRP08/12/15 03:22 PM
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that being said, damage done, id just not repsond and move on to the next. you gave her ur num, let her text or not, but dont respond again
/r/askTRP08/12/15 03:21 PM
2

youre already too invested and have said too much. your cocky comments are too try hard and she can sense that.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 03:21 PM
1

no, being demanding is needy
/r/askTRP08/12/15 03:19 PM
2

well the truth is that girls go through a relationship cycle, where its relationship for a while then cc for a while.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 03:16 PM
1

I like RP community, its mostly true, but Its even worse than PUA community when it comes to having a negative view of women. IF you are alpha and can meet a womans needs, you have a decent shot of making a relationship work. Hotter women are often more likely to cheat, alot of factors factor in,
/r/askTRP08/12/15 03:14 PM
1

also seems like this guys only success, was from PUA material. go back the pua stuff dude, it works.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 03:10 PM
1

its good advice man, what are u on about LOL we are the only 2 responders to this desperate guy and i give actaul advice as opposed to your vague advice. holy shit lol just keep to yourself.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 03:08 PM
1

Well. guys want to always try to save it with the one special girl. Act baseline again? you can act how you want she knows your a clingy timebomb. since this was 4 days ago maybe youve seen shes not acting the same. Anyway, a good PUA moves on after he has fucked up hard because he knows its easier, less friction path. thats what i mean
/r/askTRP08/12/15 03:03 PM
1

once the relationship starts, you have to "keep the rope of desire tight". limited contact and see her not so often. never bring up anything about the relationship, never drop the L bomb. be fun and cool when your with her
/r/askTRP04/12/15 03:48 AM
1

nah I can tell you dont have much PUA community training lol! but ya pick a style, download mystery method watch his original 5 videos, youll learn alot.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 03:46 AM
1

its a wayne elise podcast he did in 2013 with project chicago, i dont have a link but u can search for it if you want. he talks specifically about RSD, and how their style is bad for guys and hurts guys. when you act insane and "burn down the club" everyone thinks youre odd and you cant really go back to that club
/r/askTRP04/12/15 03:44 AM
0

and yeah, simple pickup was a plague to the pickup community and started this influx of dudes with no training doing daygame videos. pretty tragic for guys wanting to get good and the pua community in general
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:46 AM
1

well, alot of those guys get there ass beat by those black dudes, ock tv comes to mind. they gets punched alot. Being fearless doesnt mean being good at pickup. wayne elise explains this well, and he recomends that guys DONT go around acting crazy for pickup reasons. Having balls is only part of the equation, you have to combine it with good calibration or you just come off as somewhat insane. also , remember that they only show the 10 best sets in the video. they dont show all the sets where th…
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:43 AM
1

No, their videos are mega mega cringe. I cringe too. its very uncalibrated, which is one big clue of why they arent getting laid much. It doesnt make you lesser, cringing is just recognizing when someone isnt socially calibrated.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:41 AM
-1

hahahahaha, a girl who signs up for porn isnt going to really be believed on any of this stuff.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:40 AM
2

Be ok with it. She agreed to meet up, meet her at the coffee place. You dont need her number to sleep with her.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:39 AM
-3

Well, redpill was an unnecesarry community from the start, a split from the pickup community and they stole all of our terminology, and added some of their own. Considering this, they want a big community more than anything so it makes sense
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:38 AM
2

you wiegh 160, what do u have to cut? lol. id say just be ok with your weight, when your 20 and 21 you can start to ramp up the lifting more. lifting before then has a diminishing returns rule.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:36 AM
-2

My advice, from the pickup community as opposed to the RP community, the two are very similar though. get a guru, learn a style, mystery method is great and classic but perhaps not best for a beginner. Brad p is great, jon sinn is very good, RSD jeffy is good, wayne elise. learn structured game from someone, stay away from natural game. stay away from RSD advice, stay away from the european daygame style, those guys are pretty widely bad. stay away from female coaches. Do 1000 approaches, get a …
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:34 AM
1

ehh this advice is pretty beta, also youre young and beta, and inexperienced. If shes into you you need to be pushing for sex. if she wont put out, next her.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:32 AM
2

Well, first of all. If youre beta with no girls, dont be so sure you can bang. But you do need to be pushing for it. next time u hang out with her, try to isolate and escalate. If you cant, next her and keep working on your game. Check out the PUA community for some systems or methods on better game.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:30 AM
1

You sound really young and inexperienced. how old are you? Basically, a LDR is the same as her being single. Push for the meetup in isolation, if she doesnt want to isolate, next her
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:28 AM
-2

Dont bother, it will take too much effort to recover, and you probably dont have the skillset to recover. next her
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:24 AM
1

the fact that you made this post, shows you are very beta and probably have no game. id say make a switch to the PUA community and start to work on your game
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:21 AM
1

well the pranksters get their ass beat fairly regularly. also soflo antonio, has an average girlfriend so. these guys dont really compare to the PUA's who are going hard.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:20 AM
0

This is a big topic, but the long story short is, youtube pickup pranksters, arent actaully good at pickup. All they do it short daygame approaches, with some sort of gimmick, and get a number that is sure to not respond. Use their videos at your own risk.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:19 AM
-1

well, gettings 6 lays in a year doesnt mean you "alpha girls very well". 6 lays a year is pretty bad for pua standards. and , we can see why. yes you still have some strong beta tendencies. ya its part of ur learning
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:07 AM
7

cant really create abundance in that small of a town. you do need to move guy
/r/askTRP03/12/15 02:47 PM
1

No. Nope, dont talk. not talking increases the urgency to meet up. If she calls dont answer, text her back hours later. "so i assume you want to meet up?" is the text. from there either meet her or continue to ignore her, then ask her again, if she wants to meet up
/r/askTRP03/12/15 02:40 PM
1

lol we basically said the same thing
/r/askTRP03/12/15 02:38 PM
-3

I personally will lie about it, and tell her No, im only sleeping with her. My personal theory is girls think its hot when you lie about that. If she presses me hard on the subject, ill admit im lying and say ya im fucking my ex but its ok she has a new BF now. LOL also i should say, i used to be honest about it, and i did lose a few girls who were pissed that i was honest about fucking other girls. so
/r/askTRP03/12/15 02:26 PM
1

communicating works great. Ive met girls, pulled them away for sex within 10 minutes of meeting her. one thing they will do often is ask what do i want, i say i want that ass. they seem to appreciate the honesty. I dont think in general most people are going to communicate well. Being dishonest has advantages that you arent considering, it seems.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 02:22 PM
1

We are all ok with not having children, I think. IF you have to have kids, you want to do it with a girl who would be a good mom. Having kids outside of marraige is what alphas do so... It is bad though child support, men will get fucked by child supp. If you have kids with a girl, you can never get rid of her fully
/r/askTRP03/12/15 02:17 PM
4

haha facebook is all about beta orbiters, really
/r/askTRP03/12/15 02:06 PM
0

again, You need the pickup community more than the RP community. Your game sucks, been in a relationship. Keep the date fun, light , playful, sexual, NOT serious. Longer term learn structured game, dont go to dinner, meet for drinks. Bring up sex in a funny way if u can. Learn structured game, attraction - qualification - comfort. Let her contact you and then try to get the meetup right away. youve already had too much communication w her.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 02:05 PM
3

whats the question again? at the end of the day, it doesnt matter if its a shit test or a genuine issue that the guy has, you deal with both the same way.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 01:50 PM
10

Just move on to the next girl, This girl is tainted SJW. Shes not worth the risk of a fake rape accusation, believe in abundance and move on.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 01:48 PM
1

haha, icecow knows his shit, this is good advice. do hug her, dont be butthurt, take icecows advice about that. Light kino starts with arm touching, hand touching shows too much interest. shoulder touching is next. with kino, its touch for a few seconds, then release. dont touch her and leave your hand there.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 01:44 PM
3

You sound like a young guy. how old? If you had 6 day2's and they didnt like you, your game sucks ass. thats why i recommend the PUA community over the RP community, learn some game first, structured game. If you cant get attraction, thats where you start. If your living in that country for a few years, then learn the language. if your living in that country for only 6 months, just learn 15 or so lines. sounds like you're gaming in an aids area honestly.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 01:39 PM
1

re-arrange your plan. dont tell her shit. first of all, find a place to stay, go on craiglist if u have to. second of all, then arrange a day when your friend or whoever can help you move out, then lastly, tell her its over and GTFO, dont live with her. She might try to kill you or something, so dont tell her and then live with her after breakup. she cheated on you and youre worried about being a dick??? really?
/r/askTRP03/12/15 01:29 PM
5

rofl, so its just bragging then? i see
/r/askTRP03/12/15 01:26 PM
1

huge discussion that has been raging for years, but in short: Natural game is for naturals. if your here, in pua or RP communities, you arent a natural. You need to learn structured game. Every guy who tries natural game has the same 2 problems, he runs out of stuff to say, and then before long they feel discouraged with pickup and quit before 6 months is up. Youll end up like the euro day gamers, who approach girls, go direct, and just get blowout after blowout. and 98/100 numbers they take aft…
/r/askTRP03/12/15 01:16 PM
1

thats fair enough, keep gaming. abundance isnt something you can just apply. Fake it till you make it, doesnt work for every guy. Just keep getting better, keep playing the game, eventually when you have 4+ girls in rotation, you will start to understand it better. our friend tony robbins talks about reference experiences, you need more of them before u can believe in abundance
/r/askTRP03/12/15 01:06 PM
0

My advice, from the pickup community as opposed to the RP community, the two are very similar though. get a guru, learn a style, mystery method is great and classic but perhaps not best for a beginner. Brad p is great, jon sinn is very good, RSD jeffy is good, wayne elise. learn structured game from someone, stay away from natural game. stay away from RSD advice, stay away from the european daygame style, those guys are pretty widely bad. stay away from female coaches. Do 1000 approaches, get a …
/r/askTRP03/12/15 12:56 PM
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