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I remember someone suggesting a handshake. Don't let go until she pulls her hand away, and give her your bedroom eyes as your hands are touching. I knew a guy who was completely shameless (in a good way) with women. His routine was always the same. Give a genuine compliment on something small about them, a few minutes later compliment their hair, ask if he could touch it. If they said no he would insist then they would let him and sometimes he would smell it and ask "is that (insert french sound…
/r/seduction25/10/12 03:53 PM
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Hey man, welcome to the community. You would want to use /r/askseddit for these specific/ beginner posts. But I'll give you my advice anyway. Definitely go for it. If you're interested in the girl you should always go for it. It's your job to get the girl, it's her job to say she's not interested. It's not your job to cockblock yourself for the billion little reasons that it might not be 'perfect.' If you start flirting with her and she stops responding or says something like "Hey, sorry, I'm no…
/r/seduction14/10/12 02:41 PM
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I've never heard of him, I'll have to check him out. I was mainly inspired by the tone (not the style) of Bret Easton Ellis. Thanks for the positive reinforcement.
/r/seduction27/08/12 02:18 AM
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Non-deployed Soldier / recovering AFC here. I know that you might feel like you should be more confident with women. I spent most of my teens and early twenties trying to find the right combination of experiences to make me confident in talking to women. I traveled, I read books, I joined the Army, I did everything except for the only thing I should be doing. There is nothing that can help you except talking to women consistently. Maybe you feel like talking to women should be easy when compared…
/r/seduction17/08/12 10:03 PM
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I'm the same as you: a guy who was never really a toucher trying to get more comfortable with physical contact when i don't really know people. Just think of it like this. When someone you don't really know gives you a high five or a touch on the shoulder, do you ever think it's awkward, intrusive, or unwelcome? I never did. Unless it was something as extreme as a hug or a friendly ass grab 2 minutes after meeting. But when someone would touch me, male or female, i would always think "Wow, this …
/r/seduction16/06/12 03:52 PM
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What do you mean by "attraction spiking?" I would assume that this is just throwing out as much in-your-face seduction as possible right off the bat, then letting her work toward getting you for the next minute or so?
/r/seduction02/05/12 01:09 AM
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I really appreciate your post. As I read through I thought about how awkward I would feel doing some of that stuff, then remembered that that's kind of the point!
/r/seduction25/04/12 04:06 AM
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That's a good point, something I'll definitely have to think about. Is there anything that stands out other than just being fun, energetic, and kino in general?
/r/seduction25/04/12 04:05 AM
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Quote of the day right now, thanks for reminding me that conversation is a transfer of energy more than just a transfer of facts. Like I said in my post, I definitely need to try to be more energetic and fun from the outset.
/r/seduction25/04/12 04:03 AM
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That's a great way to put it, I'm saving that comment. I'll post an FR this weekend, I'll PM you to see if you have any specific insights. Let me know what you think. Do you have any specific tips to get into the swing of a night? That's a sticking point of mine
/r/seduction17/04/12 03:34 AM
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I'm gonna get some friends and head out to the bars this weekend. I'll put my self-esteem aside and try to learn some lessons, post a detailed FR when I get back. Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction17/04/12 03:33 AM
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I exercise between 3 and 5 hours per week, and I fap once per day. I tried not fapping for a while and it completely backfired. It felt like my body wasn't getting the release so it stopped producing the drive entirely. No depression meds.
/r/seduction17/04/12 03:32 AM
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Tried that, backfired. Instead of having a weak trickle of a sex drive, it just kind of shut down entirely. It was weird and I don't want to try it again. Thanks for the advice though, I'm sure it's relevant to most.
/r/seduction17/04/12 03:31 AM
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