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If you state the obvious, that men are more interested in casual sex than women and probably more interested in sex in general (more horny) Where is your evidence? If you read the article, the author explains that the evidence for these widely held stereotypes is surprisingly lacking.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 09:14 AM
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Brother I'm right with you. Shame about the down votes cos you are speaking the truth. And to be honest, this is exactly what trp should be aiming for. If you are worthy of respect from a quality woman, then she has no reason to cheat on you, or change you, and will be a damn good girlfriend. TRP forgets what hypergamy truly means: Securing a good (or best possible) mate. Be that guy and you have nothing to worry about.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 01:55 AM
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You're a full blown douche
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 09:46 AM
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With regards to
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 11:07 PM
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Honesty is your friend. Come out and say that you've noticed and it bothers you. You're already dating and sleeping together so you can be blunt. Alternatively, just make little bets with her, if she loses she pays. Or just make jokes about her owing you a drink / meal / movie. If you're not too subtle, she'll pick up the hint. If this girl is just genuinely a princess along for the ride, you might just benefit from not taking her out anymore and looking elsewhere...
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 06:58 AM
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Sorry dude, sounds like you haven't swallowed the RP yet. To be a little bit cheesy: "There's a difference between knowing the path and walking the path". That's the only bad news. The good news is that anyone can do it. Money and looks help to a degree, but they make it easy to be a douche nozzle and can make you forget that you need to be a genuinely respectable person. Work on yourself, don't be a chode, learn some game, and then you can walk in your uncles footsteps. You want the prize strai…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 06:47 AM
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Sort of. You could still reciprocate later to show her you're not a selfish jerk -- you just aren't gonna be a sucker
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 04:02 AM
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Being able to self-correct your behaviour is one of the hardest things to get down. From there, everything else is just identifying problems and fixing them. Sounds like you're able to identify your problems, so not far to go!
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 03:27 AM
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WRT the "Labels Against Women" commercial, i thought the exact same thing. Girls dress in a very showy way every day and I, for one, appreciate it. It'd be great if dudes did it more often too. The people labelling them as 'show-offs' (if that's in fact happening) are other girls -- not guys.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 02:41 AM
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Sounds like you do have some confidence issues lurking in the back of your mind. Try working on things that you love -- as OP suggests. What things make you feel like you aren't good enough for anyone? Is there the slightest possibility they could be changed -- and if so, how can you go about it?
/r/seduction15/12/13 11:25 AM
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Maybe you could try giving him random compliments. ' hey guy that's a really nice shirt. ' or 'did you get a haircut? You're looking sharp today'. Honestly, if it's in earshot of others, they'll probably think it's funny, and how do you keep being an asshole to someone who's giving you compliments ? I'd also suggest touching his shirt or shoulder while saying it if he's close to you. Weirdly, kino and a compliment are very alpha in the subtlest way. Whatever happens, let us know what you tried a…
/r/seduction29/10/13 10:32 AM
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if a friend is telling you you're such a douche, maybe you should consider the possibility that you are
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 03:32 PM
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Not sure about your strategy of avoiding the topic altogether. Still text to meet for dinner, but throw in a joke about it (maybe in the 2nd text, I wouldn't lead with it). Something like: "Booking is 715. Meet outside [restaurant] at 7 for your next kissing lesson " Keep it lighthearted and... Actually do it. Teach her, that's fucking cool man.
/r/seduction03/04/13 04:48 PM
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You gotta start somewhere dude. Most of us started game because we were in your position (to varying degrees). Pick up The Game by Neil Strauss. It's not very big, but it's a great read and will very likely answer many of your questions. By all means, keep posting here with progress reports and other questions / comments, but given your current position, I'd recommend starting at the beginning. Read The Game and see how you go. Edit: also read the sidebar
/r/seduction03/04/13 04:29 PM
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I remind myself of something that Mystery says, "if you are unable to attract a woman, you are, by dictionary definition, sterile". The quickest route to sterility is to give up. For me, this alternative is far worse and scarier than being rejected. You're gonna strike out. A lot. So be it.
/r/seduction02/04/13 11:51 AM
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Kudos dude. One of the biggest changes to my mindset was turning down the girl i thought was way out of my league. Its a big step and is the point where you realise you really do have options
/r/seduction02/04/13 01:23 AM
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it's your wife dude, give her some respect. At least talk with her about it
/r/TheRedPill02/04/13 01:13 AM
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You shouldn't be thinking she's a bitch for rejecting you. If you have the mentality that you were rejected because you did something wrong, it's easier to analyse your game and fix mistakes. My $0.02
/r/seduction01/04/13 10:54 PM
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Yeah, assuming she tries to add him. Chances are she wont. It's fine to add girls on Facebook, even ones you have potential interest in, just don't do it while you are trying to game her. Get to know her as a person, and get her to know you too. There's a lot more mystery if you don't have their life story laid out in front of you.
/r/seduction01/04/13 10:45 PM
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You can write however you like. I take issue with you calling genuine advice bullshit and irrelevant, and then offering nothing and pretending you've nailed it. Try to be constructive or just stay quiet. People are seeking help and we don't need your shitty attitude.
/r/seduction31/03/13 03:45 PM
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You might have it a bit easier than others, but not that much easier. Girls are unlikely to approach in general. What they will do is give you signals that tell you it's ok to approach (lingering looks, positioning themselves near you etc). Try this: make conversation with 5 girls you find attractive. Dont make it sexual or romantic. Have a conversation with them for no other reason than to have a pleasant conversation. Use the reactions and body language from those 5 girls to gauge your level o…
/r/seduction31/03/13 02:39 PM
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I bet even you remember this line
/r/seduction31/03/13 05:13 AM
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troll? you came here to help then got butthurt when your poorly spelled "advice" got down voted (see: bottom comment of this thread). Now you're just whinging like a bitch
/r/seduction31/03/13 04:48 AM
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Agreed, girls see through lame pick-up lines. That's why we don't use them. We do what works, and as long as it works, we will continue to do it. Since you're entirely misinformed about seduction you could stick around and learn something. Maybe then someone will finally touch your wombat dick.
/r/seduction31/03/13 04:35 AM
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It was difficult to follow your rambling incoherent response, but i think i see what you're saying. The implication from OPs question is he is trying to game her (given the fact this is a seduction thread). Like you say, he shouldn't use facebook to game, hence, my comment. If OP wishes to be her friend then he can add her, but it is not productive for seduction for all the reasons I stated. For the record, no-one asked what you use facebook for. OP had a genuine question to which we genuinely r…
/r/seduction31/03/13 04:23 AM
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Both sides of the add / dont add debate are presented in this thread. Use your votes to select the side you agree with. Coming here and blasting people who are asking for and giving help just makes you a tosser
/r/seduction31/03/13 04:12 AM
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Game them like you normally would ftfy
/r/seduction31/03/13 03:06 AM
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Everyone here is saying add her. I think thats a bad idea for the following reasons. It looks creepy / stalkerish - even if the rapport you had was great, in her mind it means you've gone home, sat at your computer and searched for her. It's low value behaviour. She gets to know everything about you without having to invest - sure you may have a good profile, good photos and social proof with other girls, but why not get her to find this out by getting to know you? In her mind, you are looking t…
/r/seduction31/03/13 02:06 AM
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Not bad, but I don't think she's into you. I think you made your wrong move when you stayed at her bar while she was working. Sure it was kinda fun and she paid you lots of attention, but you should have let her work and think about you instead. Hanging around while she works is a sign of neediness, I'm sorry to say. Avoid dinner dates. At least, avoid setting them up as such. Just hang with her casually and then go get dinner when you're hanging out, that way it's not framed as a date and won't…
/r/seduction30/03/13 11:00 PM
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Buy her a new one! Great opportunity for day 2 and makes you seem like not a dick!
/r/seduction30/03/13 10:39 PM
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Usually yes, but not necessarily. The alpha may just be the best sexual partner (based on genetics or desirable attributes like money). If a woman is of particularly high quality she will have plenty of orbiters. She could enjoy the alpha's sexual / social advantages while having an orbiter provide comfort and care. This is cuckolding and is pretty common.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/13 04:32 AM
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If it helps, I'm a cognitive science phd student. No, women don't have a "logical disadvantage". What they do have is different biological needs. Men aim to secure a high quality mate, but this is more important for a woman. The mate they end up with better be able to provide for her and her offspring or she's screwed. As a result, men employ a strategy to get any acceptable mate whereas women try to ensure their man is the highest quality she can obtain. The result is women are the choosier sex…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/13 11:04 AM
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No, you misconstrued what I said. Women apply logic to a different set of needs / wants / opportunities. The logical process is the same, the difference is the goal and / or starting point. Women (of high quality) live in abundance. When men live in abundance, we no longer respond in a needy way to low quality women who chase us. We still want sex, and so we apply the same logic (obtain high quality mates) in a different way; we pursue those we perceive as obtainable and deny those we perceive a…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/13 10:48 AM
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This is naive. Of course women are logical, just as men are emotional. The difference is that men and women have different needs / desires / opportunities. We simply apply logic differently as a result
/r/TheRedPill26/03/13 04:22 PM
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yep, do this.
/r/seduction25/03/13 11:41 AM
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Sometimes, the answer is kind of irrelevant. The important thing is how you construct your question and arrive at your answer. No one can say for sure that God does or does not exist. But we can try to examine the reasons for believing one way or the other. On one side of the debate evidence, reason, logic, and verifiable information are the most important aspects of the question. That is, what can we propose, test and objectively verify? From this perspective it appears somewhat unlikely that G…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/13 12:14 AM
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call her a lesbian
/r/seduction23/03/13 11:15 PM
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By practicing pickup, of course you are going to want to sleep with girls based solely on looks. I also think you are right, they probably are interesting in some way. So I think if you want to pursue them, despite their boringness, connect with them in a funny way. Some comments here say that if you find them boring then just move on. I agree with this to some extent, but if you're going to be practicing pickup, it's kind of your duty to be interesting. Take the opportunity to find what gets th…
/r/seduction21/03/13 02:42 PM
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I don't think you need this subreddit - you are more unplugged than most. There are a few nuggets in trp, but keep in mind, most people here are just shedding their previous way of thinking. Naturally it means most are in the process of getting to a point where we don't need female validation. Sounds like you're there. Congratulations.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/13 01:37 AM
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you... have no idea. about anything. did you even read this thread, or are you trolling?
/r/TheRedPill18/03/13 02:56 PM
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Maybe try thinking of this in another way. I'm a guy, and I speak with plenty of other guys that I don't intend on keeping as long term friends. Some guys even bother me more than I'd ideally like, others downright annoy me. Now, even though I'm assertive and confident, I don't feel the need to cut contact with these guys. They are people too, and who am I to flat out refuse to speak with them because they aren't important to me? For all I know, the passing conversation and the little in jokes w…
/r/seduction17/03/13 11:30 PM
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The problem here is that you think girls should only be speaking with guys they are attracted to. This is unfair on girls; they may speak with whomever they wish. Speaking with a person does not carry with it the expectation of attraction / dating / sex. At least, not in our culture.
/r/seduction17/03/13 01:02 PM
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Haha, yes, as is the nature of pickup.
/r/seduction17/03/13 01:35 AM
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This is a pretty blunt question, but I guess most of us feel pretty similar at sone stage. In honesty, lower your standards and approach. There is definitely benefit to having a FWB, it does wonder for your inner game and abundance mentality. Also, when you do get that hottie, it's nice to know what you're doing. Keep your eyes peeled for IOIs from girls you wouldn't normally go for, you might be surprised to find you're already getting them. In order to get more though, you need to be out in th…
/r/seduction16/03/13 11:20 PM
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believe it or not, her giggling is actually a good thing. Sex doesnt have to be a super serious experience. If she had fun, then that is a good first time. If she knew it was your first then I imagine she didnt expect to have her mind blown. Just be attentive, open to suggestion and, if you can, relax and enjoy yourself. Good stuff man!
/r/seduction16/03/13 07:02 AM
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Sounds like you did the right thing. It was inconsiderate of her to cancel at the last minute. You told her that that is frustrating to you, but that you are not going to dwell on it. She agreed and, given she didnt have a good reason, followed through with her promise. From your story it sounds like you handled it well but didn't guilt her into anything.
/r/seduction16/03/13 02:33 AM
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Given your vague question, a good but vague response would be "have a charismatic frame". This boils down to: see life and interactions as interesting because being interested is infectious and habit forming. 1) Having a slightly unique spin on things, which makes you excited to be talking about whatever topic is at hand (a small caveat here though, being too excited about everything makes you a douche. be interested, but not over the top) 2) Emphatic gestures, a quirky smile, open body language…
/r/seduction16/03/13 02:14 AM
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For the benefit of helping you close with her, or in your next escapade, do you mind giving more detail as to why / how you slept in her bed for the night but didn't f-close? Maybe we can shed some light
/r/seduction16/03/13 02:03 AM
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Dude you need to stop being such a douche
/r/seduction15/03/13 02:58 PM
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That's good, she is into you enough to come hang out, but try to be laid back and not expect anything physical straight away. Like you said, it's a long day and if you mess it up at the start by expecting too much, you're gonna have a bad time. Also, you said she was pretty physical last time, so if you show her friend that you are a good guy, I think you'll start seeing your HB get physical with you. Last time you got cock-blocked by her friends, so my guess is that you weren't making sure they…
/r/seduction15/03/13 02:26 AM
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errr... you havent been friend zoned man, at least, not by her doing. I don't have a boyfriend. I just got out of a very long relationship thought and don't want to jump into another she says she's not trying to date you. And I don't wanna lead you on or anything. I definetly had a good time and I am down to keep hanging out That's pretty much an unambiguous signal that you can invite her somewhere. Having said that, you kinda didnt make a move and she may have started to lose interest. She migh…
/r/seduction14/03/13 08:39 AM
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I really enjoy reading FRs from newer members, or members who are trying new things. I've now made this account specifically for seddit and have been considering posting FRs, but I usually just end up answering questions instead. While I'm certainly not a grand master (despite my username), my game is reasonably solid. I guess I feel that once you get past a certain stage and begin seeing consistent results, posting FRs is just jerking yourself. My question is, would you prefer to read FRs from …
/r/seduction12/03/13 02:11 PM
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This is tough and can backfire if done poorly. My strategy with meeting people that i don't know well, especially when there is already a social hierarchy, is to engage people one-on-one and get them to talk about themselves. If you engage one-on-one, you are not trying to steal the guys thunder and are thus no threat to him. You are also not hitting on the people you are talking to, just being friendly. People love talking about themselves, so by doing this there is less chance that they will s…
/r/seduction12/03/13 01:37 PM
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i think youre closer than you think; you've got a lot going on. The cure is to just approach as much as possible and get as many # / K / F closes as you need to realise you aren't in love with every one of them. Go on plenty of dates, or meet ups, or whatever, and you will lose the one-itis mentality.
/r/seduction11/03/13 01:11 PM
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I'd probably drop it for a while so you dont seem caught up on it, which would make you seem needy. Wait until she does something particularly girlfriendish, then bust her on it and call her your girlfriend in a teasing way. Make it into a bit of a joke and, over time, I'd bet she'll reciprocate, until you both just accept what it is. From your description, trying to formalise it will make her dramatic because thats how she views relationships. If you slowly ease into it in a fun and joking way,…
/r/seduction11/03/13 12:41 PM
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Some canned material works in your favour in this sort of situation. Have a couple of interesting, fun stories and a couple questions or topics of conversation ready to use as soon as you see her. This helps get the interaction going well right from the start. By setting a good mood early on, you should be able to get out of your head and enjoy yourself. I find that I have to carry about 80% of the conversation for the first 2-5 minutes before they begin to reciprocate and invest, at which point…
/r/seduction10/03/13 11:08 AM
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Most people start with The Game by Neil Strauss or The Mystery Method by Mystery. These are great to read together because The Game incorporates seduction techniques as part of a story, whereas the MM is basically a step-by-step deconstruction of seduction. Together these are useful for understanding why the things Neil Strauss (AKA "Style") does are effective. There are plenty out there, but you really only need to read one or two key references to begin improving with girls. Many people use so…
/r/seduction10/03/13 10:42 AM
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