PabloPaniello Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	The Lie That Men Should Never Be Controlling (And Why Boundaries Are Needed To Maintain Masculine Frame) Yep, that's when it crosses the line and becomes controlling - when we set the expectation, she refuses to comply, and we insist (sometime try to compel or even force her) to do what we said anyway.	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/25 11:54 PM
2	Shannon Sharpe- a Teachable moment I agree with your advice as applied to the rest of us but think a professional athlete has to play by somewhat different rules. He obviously messed up in a variety of ways, but the ways he messed up are different than the ways you or I would have messed up and ended up in this situation, if that makes sense... Good post; thank you for the work, analysis, and insight.	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/25 10:44 PM
5	What's the point? Yep, post also made me think of Glover. OP's mistakes are classic "bad dater" tactics Dr. Glover addresses - identifying them and providing means to change or get rid of them - in his classic, "Dating Essentials for men." OP you're wrong to be hopeless but you'll need to do the work if you want anything to change. Good luck!	/r/TheRedPill	21/03/24 06:12 PM
1	Has anyone else given up after discovering trp? Amen, well said - much more succinctly than I said it!	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/24 08:30 PM
12	Has anyone else given up after discovering trp? My guy, stop judging men's experiences based on bloody Instagram reels. Are you having those experiences? Are those close to you or similar to you? If not, then there's really no reason to add them to your dataset that you use to judge your life and its prospects. It's easy to sit at home and be glum, to let the sad tales of social media become an excuse or crutch. You've manufactured out of social media BS an excuse to avoid confronting your shit and doing the work, to identify and overcome you…	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/24 08:57 AM
13	Has anyone else given up after discovering trp? Dr. Robert Glover addresses this well in Dating Essentials For Men. His approach to dating - "Get to rejection quickly." Basically, you should be seeking your "Really Great Woman" (or women) - a woman worth building/sharing your life with. Most guys can't dive right into that quest; most will have to get over some psychological hangups while/by engaging in self-improvement and building self-confidence - including by getting out there and getting laid if you've little experience with women. Prett…	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/24 08:43 AM
4	To what extent do I need to avoid red pilling my woman? Rian Stone's YT videos may help you here. Indeed, it's not realistic just never to talk to your wife about your marriage. Plus as you say you can learn a lot about whether a gal is a good potential match or not from hearing her views. Nonetheless, while I'm hardly an expert I do offer a few points to bear in mind, based on what I perceive to be potential traps or gaps in your thinking: It can be good to discuss your views on marriage roles, but also many (most?) women will say one thing but actu…	/r/askMRP	27/02/24 03:49 AM
1	Negging is Dumb All this disagreement when the change in emphasis just reflects the change in how pickup occurs, driven by technology. Basically we went from picking up girls in clubs/bars/parties to social media and dating apps. The former requires tactics, the latter strategy.	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/24 03:08 AM
5	Negging is Dumb I only got this once I read Glover's Dating Essentials for Men. Was like a lightbulb went off for me.	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/24 03:03 AM
17	Stop Trying to Control Everything, Become a Source of Pleasure Thank you. The responses here were getting silly. Saying she can move on from someone she wants at any time because she has a bunch of random fuckboys on Tinder bleeting at her is like saying we don't care about women we like because we can always get laid by paying for it. It's a category error that confuses what people have on offer with what they actually want and is meaningful to them.	/r/TheRedPill	18/01/24 08:40 PM
2	What would it take for the world to recover from the modern degeneracy (i.e feminine men, hypersexual society, hypersexual media, etc) that impacts men? I think the guy is turned on by doing things with dudes or being pegged and hating himself for it. I credit his point that social media and internet porn are likely at least partly responsible for this. I also sympathize with him that he wishes he lived in a different culture where stuff this intense and graphic wasn't around us 24/7. But we're not going to un-invent the Internet. And our brains aren't going to stop being captivated by this crap. All we can do (and should do, as any serious stud…	/r/TheRedPill	22/12/23 07:31 PM
3	12 reasons not to work in women-dominated industries, using Healthcare as an example Does this post conflate working in medicine as a male nurse and as a doctor (much less a surgeon)? Entirely different dynamics, experiences, and worlds	/r/TheRedPill	20/12/23 08:36 AM
2	Sexual ego death after Christ Exactly, well said. Sex as an expression of the intimacy and love you and your wife have for each other is wonderful, a beautiful part of God's creation and his design for relations between the sexes. It should be enjoyed and appreciated. It is wrong if you are myopic or becomes obsessive about it, where it begins to dominate your thoughts and take over the rest of your relationship with your wife, or become too large a part of your life generally. Lust is a sin just as gluttony is; both are bou…	/r/RPChristians	27/11/23 05:35 AM
9	Girlfriend's past showed up a hell of a hoe phase among other red flags. Advice on how to proceed with keeping her as a plate? Bruh, come on. That's not even asking commitment of her; you're so in your head you're not even confident or secure enough to seek an agreement with her. You're agreeing to commit and be loyal to her. But you're giving her the option whether to commit to you - you're giving her the ongoing choice to change your relationship as she may wish, and only changing it yourself based on what she (not you) chooses (even worse - based on her disclosing or you discovering her choice). That's not just contr…	/r/TheRedPill	27/10/23 01:32 PM
1	[FR] the Panty Drop Pause Yeah, I'd find this more convincing if he had any examples which were not "convey to her you're horny in the least subtle way possible, like if you're 15, just discovered cool porn sites, and are taking the lingo for a spin." Yes, dudes who don't express their desires because they're ashamed or afraid of rejection can benefit (a lot) from liberation. And dudes who've let things go stale, who used to enjoy fun and sexy activities and banter with their wives but haven't tried or put in an ounce of…	/r/MarriedRedPill	06/10/23 02:22 AM
4	Why do I feel like the guilty one? How do you have an expensive lawyer but not a provision for who can claim the kids as dependents in the court order and an accountant to address her fraud? The shitty non-custodial parent can't just do what you described. Or, they can try, and the consequence for you is your accountant has to file by mail - then the IRS sends out notices asking for proof of with whom the kids reside. In other words, she ultimately loses. This is common knowledge accessible via a Google search or a multitude of w…	/r/MensRights	17/06/21 05:44 AM
3	Zoe Laverne 19 admits to kissing a 13 year old boy and says he consented to her! If this was other way around and a man and a 13 year old girl was involved it would go to courts! One rule for one and one rule for another! Arrested for kissing?!?	/r/MensRights	11/11/20 01:18 PM
0	I was reprimanded by HR after coworker complained that I gave her a bad annual review. What? Why give OP blatantly false advice?!?	/r/MensRights	11/03/20 03:39 AM
1	I got accused of predatory behavior for asking for how to properly receive consent. Yes, this. Not having romantic relationships because of crap you read online is like not going to the beach all summer because of the shark attack stories your aunt shared on Facebook. You have to be prudent, of course, with anyone you let into your home and the intimate parts of your life. But most single mothers on Tinder (or whatever) are not sitting around waiting to drop a rape charge on someone they shared a pleasant night with.	/r/MensRights	20/02/20 07:15 AM
31	Rant: Anyone hates how you are automatically discredited because you are a dude? It also is not the kind of thing that's a contest. Everybody has legitimate fears of really bad crimes.	/r/MensRights	12/12/19 07:48 PM