| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 241 | The Beach Is A Goldmine | Fundamentals | Pabst34 | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 09:55 PM |
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| 3 | Coworker agreed to go out with me then blocked meI can tell that you've got a solid head on your shoulders with all the right tools. You don't need help, you're already there! | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 11:14 PM |
| 6 | Coworker agreed to go out with me then blocked meA few pieces of random advice/observations. Don't judge interest by how much they "talk." If you met a hot chick, would you bore her with tales about your shitty life or would you ask her questions about herself? When a woman wastes too much of my time filibustering, I see someone who doesn't really want to engage with me. After she said bullshitted you by saying, "I'm busy all week", you could take that a few different ways. Yes, there was a 1% chance that she was booked all fucking week. Or, s… | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 10:47 PM |
| 6 | Just asked out a receptionist at my gym, how to text game?Rather than risk being friendzoned, I'd ask her on a date. Especially since you'll no longer be seeing her at the gym. If she declines your overture, she's now out of your day to day life, anyways. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 04:49 PM |
| 19 | Going for the landlords daughter. Knowing when to flirt/escalate.But you're looking to eat where you already shit. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 06:13 PM |
| 52 | Going for the landlords daughter. Knowing when to flirt/escalate.This scenario is the rare case of someone eating where they shit. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 05:59 PM |
| 7 | Approach at a bar doesn’t seem working well compared to daygameFor me, you just hit upon the virtue of daygame. Whereas I also think that nightlife and it's devil brew of inhibitions offers greater spontaneous hook up potential, daygame provides a bigger menu of higher status women. If you can hold your own at daygame, you have a much lower chance of hating yourself-and the mule sleeping next to you-when you wake up hungover, the next morning. | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 12:08 AM |
| 3 | let's be real, 90% of the time it's about looks.They met in college. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Do girls prefer dating apps or meeting in a bar?Only one of them rewards being liquored up so I pick that one. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 05:13 PM |
| 3 | let's be real, 90% of the time it's about looks.There's NOTHING that's cut and dried. The best looking wife in my neighborhood is married to a short/fat guy who she met in college. Arguably, she made a great choice. He's smart, funny and made a few million by the time he was 35. Edit: Otoh, for me, as a guy, your equation is apt! I'd date a skinny chick with a horse face before I'd touch something 20 lbs overweight. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 05:09 PM |
| 0 | How to deal with close female friends who you find out are warning women against youYet, their friend was so put off that she insisted on going home with you. Don't be a sore winner, your female friends apparently did you right. | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 06:33 PM |
| 93 | Got a girls number at the covid vaccination clinicYou make an important point that can't be stressed enough: Rather than having the attitude, "if I approach 1000 random strangers, I'll surely pull one of them", guys should instead exploit those rarer one on one situations that have intrinsically better odds. Studies have shown that women respond more favorably when there's a life connection with the guy hitting on them. (graduates of the same school, job etc) Add now to the list: Vaccination Centers. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 01:13 PM |
| 15 | Should you ask for consent before having sex? Does that turn chicks off?Sometimes you should ask, especially if you're recklessly switching up holes. | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 12:28 AM |
| -5 | There Is NO Such Thing as A Busy WomanAlong the way, I received a lot of good advice. One piece was, "if you're a guy they desire, women will make themselves available to you." Yes, sometimes we all get busy. And, some girls (who're usually the valuable ones, too) play by "the rules." But, unless she's testing your neediness, women are trained to be where you want them to be. | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 11:39 PM |
| 6 | The Beach Is A GoldmineMoney is key when it comes to courting high status, marriage minded women. For flings, money means nothing. And, like everywhere else, if you're a 3, then you're probably not going to score a 10 chick. But, you can definitely scam a girl who's a five, and that's five better than Rosey Palm. | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 11:20 PM |
| 6 | The Beach Is A GoldmineMy best run at the beach came at a time when I was dead broke. No surprise that the guy named SunshineMan has the straight dope on this subject. :) | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 10:47 PM |
| 25 | The Beach Is A GoldmineI should have added that by far, the best time to hit the beach alone is during the workweek. More women are alone during the week. Often, they work hospitality jobs at night. Or, they're students on summer break. These day, I find a fair number of professionals and freelancers, who work from home. Yes, being in shape helps. But, given the choice, I'd rather be slightly out of shape with a killer tan, than white as a ghost but pumped. At least, for beach pickups. | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 10:37 PM |
| 3 | Girl at the beach has second thoughts5% of my time socializing is at the beach, yet 50% of my pickups are on the beach. | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 08:20 PM |
| 3 | How to not be impressed by an attractive girl ?A helpful tip given to those shy about public speaking is to picture your audience as sitting naked. I use that very same imagery when I'm about to stammer over an attractive girl. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 04:57 PM |
| 8 | Can anyone share their experience from the 90s?As someone a bit older (60m), I noticed that things became much tougher after the AIDS "epidemic". Prior to 1986 or so, any night out drinking had hook up potential. Heck, even airline flights had potential. But then in the mid-80's, girls suddenly became fearful that the charming stranger hitting on them could be an intravenous drug addict who engaged in gay prison sex. And, whereas "dating apps" are only as new as smartphone technology, by the early 1990's, "singles ads" (sans photos) in newsp… | /r/seduction | 13/06/21 12:39 PM |
| 5 | Flaked 3 time in a row from 3 separate girls.Although I'm trim and fit, my face is a 3. Yet, because I dress well, have a deep, confident voice, and a Jeopardy contestant type knowledge of trivial stuff that allows me to connect with random strangers, I've always done well with pickups and girlfriends. But, put my ugly mug on a dating profile and it's strikeout city. Ditch the apps, and work on approach skills. | /r/seduction | 20/02/21 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Should I even bother trying asking this girl out or am I being sensitive ?I wouldn't have asked her about the chocolate. Instead of putting her in a position of dominance by allowing her to act nonchalant as a gift recipient, you should have been a nonchalant gift giver. That said, ask her out! | /r/seduction | 29/12/20 02:10 PM |
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