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Question For WomenPadThai42/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 05:06 PM
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Question For WomenPadThai42/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 02:54 PM
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CMVPadThai42/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 12:24 PM
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DiscussionPadThai42/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 05:23 PM
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DiscussionPadThai42/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:32 PM
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PadThai42/r/askTRP03/06/19 04:10 PM
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DiscussionPadThai42/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 02:37 AM
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DebatePadThai42/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 12:47 AM
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PadThai42/r/askTRP13/06/19 05:30 PM
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NYE Purge Post!PadThai42/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:40 PM
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Question For MenPadThai42/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 06:01 AM
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DiscussionPadThai42/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:19 PM
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Question For WomenPadThai42/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 08:26 PM
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PadThai42/r/askTRP25/04/19 08:47 PM
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DiscussionPadThai42/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:42 AM
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PadThai42/r/askTRP01/05/19 08:03 PM
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Question For WomenPadThai42/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 01:00 AM
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PadThai42/r/askTRP09/05/19 01:57 AM
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PadThai42/r/askTRP13/05/19 08:07 PM
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DiscussionPadThai42/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 04:28 PM
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DiscussionPadThai42/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 02:20 PM
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PadThai42/r/askTRP16/07/19 04:02 PM
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Question For WomenPadThai42/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:57 PM
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DiscussionPadThai42/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 09:10 PM
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PadThai42/r/askTRP24/04/19 08:23 PM
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DiscussionPadThai42/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 04:18 PM
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PadThai42/r/RedPillWomen17/01/19 03:48 PM
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PadThai42/r/askTRP27/03/19 02:54 AM
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DiscussionPadThai42/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 07:30 PM
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PadThai42/r/askTRP07/05/19 05:33 PM
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DiscussionPadThai42/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 10:36 PM
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DiscussionPadThai42/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:46 PM
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PadThai42/r/askTRP12/04/19 03:14 PM
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CMVPadThai42/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:45 PM
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PadThai42/r/askTRP09/05/19 03:37 PM
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PadThai42/r/ExRedPill05/10/21 08:06 PM
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CMVPadThai42/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 01:51 PM
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Can’t believe she said black women aren’t fit nor attractive. No idea what some colleges are teaching these kids.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/22 02:34 AM
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Im not disagreeing with you, this is jsut how things are. No idea why you downvoted me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:48 PM
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Damn, you articulated that well. I agree.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/22 11:53 AM
2

As an ex-RP user who started with Tomassi, Samuels doesn’t even scratch the surface of the deep rooted misogyny. No one gives a shit about his child support, apartment, whatever else you pointed out. Samuels is dead, and seeing you STILL make videos on the guy is a mild obsession.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 07:47 PM
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A man pays for the tab because he wants to show he can afford it, and wants to take care of his date. Theres nothing wrong with a little bit of chivalry as women like to be taken care or.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:56 PM
1

Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:55 PM
1

Communicate better and stop running when relationships get uncomfortable. Guys either shut down or scream and women tend to become passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:57 PM
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Big girls can get sex, they can’t get relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:37 AM
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Almost every ideology has good and bad. You can learn how to make those distinctions and not blame someone or something else.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/22 08:29 PM
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Absolutely it’s a waste. You’re much better off developing your interpersonal skills because online is based off of categorical data (I.E. college degree, work, how tall etc.). You don’t give yourself a fair chance when you settle for online dating.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/22 02:59 PM
2

I've dated someone who was incredibly hot in the first 12 months of us seeing each other, and as they got into school, it seemingly crumbled. Poor posture, weight gain, stress, life, etc. I realize sexual attraction is temporary, and is not always going to be at its height. A woman's body changes very similar to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:09 PM
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It does matter to who cares and it is perfectly fine. Some people want someone of a certain height, weight, and skin complexion. Fine. I think the same goes for how many people you’ve slept with. It could be 1,000 or 10. There’s no explanation needed if that’s a deal breaker for someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:36 PM
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Because you are using ad hominem attacks. This is not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:18 PM
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I wish I could block you from this post. You’re a contrarian adding nothing to the conversation other than ego. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:12 PM
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Way to circumvent what I just said. First you said, they do it to get paid. You now say, who cares if they had a cock or not. Incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:11 PM
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And how is she helping then? And it’s interesting I never said I was “fine with those guys” anywhere in the comments or my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:54 PM
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You’re more than welcome to make your own post
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:52 PM
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Where do you live? Did you build the roof over your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:52 PM
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Thank you, I see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:51 PM
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Then what is misandrist then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:14 PM
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Construction, engineering, armed forces, police officers, firefighters, homes, cars, etc. I could go on, but said fields are dominated by men right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:12 PM
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She edited her response from “did that comment hurt your feelings?” to what it is now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:10 PM
1

No one said sub par…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:49 PM
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This is CMV - follow sub rules please
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:48 PM
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And vice versa. She is just hiding behind “misogyny” to reinforce this idea “all men are bad,” as opposed to taking accountability for being a virtual signaling asshole and gaining a following. She dismisses real abuse, and harassment some men/boys do face by saying “misandry is a lie made up by men.” https://twitter.com/drewafualo/status/1556651737976414208?s=46&t=79-IUYFxBdO41jbYSt73sA
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:46 PM
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https://twitter.com/drewafualo/status/1556651737976414208?s=46&t=79-IUYFxBdO41jbYSt73sA
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:43 PM
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I never said that. Reread what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:42 PM
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https://twitter.com/drewafualo/status/1556651737976414208?s=46&t=79-IUYFxBdO41jbYSt73sA She’s said several things here, but her first statement is what is wrong with her
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:41 PM
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Both men and women need each other, for both practical and impractical reasons. This isn’t a “misogynist” outlook, this is reality and human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:34 PM
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She is a proclaimed feminist attacking misogynist under the guise of being a misandrist herself. Routinely, she body shames, and makes fun of men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:32 PM
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She still has bad behavior and she rationalizes it by attacking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:31 PM
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Agreed! I still haven’t changed careers after reading that book
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:50 PM
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I agree! I by no means am a tate supporter, I dislike the inconsistency social media companies have. I do think it was about something else, and they used misogyny as a scapegoat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:08 PM
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Consistency Drew Afualo needs to be banned next https://youtube.com/shorts/bnaQ7U7riH8?feature=share
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:16 PM
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I watched the Tate and Bet-David podcast and the more I listened to Tate the more I see his coordinate ban as unjust. Misandrist are polarized way more and accepted for “spreading hate.” Lizzo said she would Lorena Bobbit a man in her latest song, and now Cardi B is taking a plea deal. Tate has never been charged with anything, yet the world wants to protect children from him. 13 year old boys can watch porn, gore, and listen to women say they hate men and how they should act. We need a counterb…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:53 PM
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I don’t understand what you are getting at. Lots of women have height standards, and plenty of men have weight standards as well. I don’t think giving RP human preferences is fair.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/22 01:29 AM
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Men are constantly bashed in popular culture and it is accepted. Women are more drawn to the left because it supports women more and wants to redefine patriarchal norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:35 PM
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You treat every person on a case by case basis. Not every interaction needs to be tired into science, that was my problem. If it wasn’t Neil Strauss it was Rollo Tommassi which I followed to a t. It takes trial and error of you figuring what works and what doesn’t, not some other man/woman who has nothing to do with you.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 06:47 PM
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I did the same!!!! I did it with my ex and my god, she wasn’t crazy attractive but on Tinder she had women AND men messaging her. It was an amazing experience to see how dating is way different for men than women. It’s day and night.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 04:22 PM
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An attractive single woman will be approached by men and or contacted through social media regularly. This is standard. I would not give that to red pill, it’s human nature.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 04:20 PM
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It still falls on you. I was into RP theory too and I allowed Rollo to influence my decision making when it came to relationships. I realized then, blaming it on whoever was in the manosphere was easy and never addressed why I wanted other women while in a committed relationship. I might suggest seeking a therapist and understanding your own actions and not blame Tate or F&F.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 03:32 PM
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I don’t think Tate is as bad as 21 studios. This is Rollo Tomassi, the bald guy, and the hodge twins. They have way more pseudoscience behind labeling men and women. Books, literature, conferences, nearly everything you can think of in the Manosphere.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 01:07 PM
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It is your opinion. We don’t need policing of what we should and should not SEE on the internet. I can make my own rational choices of what to consume and to not consume. Hell, some lady is famous even after admitting to DRUGGING men and robbing them. Still has a platform. Plenty of women who are horrible human beings get a pass. Sienna Mae Sassaulted her boyfriend!
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 05:06 PM
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Rules on apply when public opinion is strong enough. How is Travis Scott still selling music after several people died at his concert?
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 04:37 PM
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I would never cheer on censorship. I do not agree with Tate on anything but deplatforming has never been a solution to anything.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 01:07 PM
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Misogynist community lead by narcissistic men who refuse to say how they feel. Instead, they just make assumptions and say shit like “she’s not yours, it’s just your turn.”
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 12:56 PM
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It’s a more sophisticated way of saying a young fitness influencer is going to be hot at 25 vs one at 45. Looks fade, but it reintroduces this idea that men should do what Leonardo DiCaprio does.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 01:51 PM
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Silenced? You’re encouraging censorship…
/r/ExRedPill20/05/22 03:51 PM
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7/10 people in my office are fat. It really is a pandemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:46 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/ExRedPill10/01/22 07:28 PM
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Plenty of men overcomplicate dating. With the proliferation of RP, lots of guys think they need material possession to even be in talks with dating someone. Lots of guys also don’t want to “come off” a certain way and tend to downplay being assertive or expressing their needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:16 PM
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It’s a sick industry. I think it all certainly ties into the facade of public help. It has become over saturated and the algorithm for me is “high value man,” or “SIMP gives in.” I’m so tired of it, but I think more people are not buying into the BS.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/21 02:04 AM
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I think there is. You shouldn’t be in a relationship if you’re fantasizing hooking up with your coworker.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 06:40 PM
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It happens. I passed Rollo Tomasis book to my friend in 2017 like it was a fucking bible.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 03:37 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with wanting regular. I think lots of folks are sold on capitalism and think 6 figures is a degree or course away. Do what you are happy with and live a happy life, I think that’s what most men want.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 06:03 PM
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I disagree with your assessment regarding the plumber. I think what happens even in my own relationship is a woman will often times try to turn a man into someone they are not. I think it’s fine to accept someone for what they do and not expecting more because of what you think you bring to a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 05:57 PM
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I’m sure I got oral herpes at 15-16 and had no idea. I thought the lesions on my tongue were pimples. I wish I could reverse this, but we spread shit all the time when we kiss and exchange fluid. It’s something we have to learn to coexist with.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/21 02:51 PM
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I’m kind of over it. This happens and I learn to not take anything personal. Anytime a woman ignores me after saying hi, or opening the door I simply keep it moving.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 01:15 PM
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What study? Dude can you not be so contentious? We’re all here to learn and not argue.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 02:06 PM
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I never said that. This sub tends to want everyone to agree with each other. I just said for finding a partner.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 02:04 PM
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Can you edit to make it more readable? One big paragraph makes me not want to read it.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/21 12:32 PM
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In western culture lots of women have dubbed a partner is earning a boat load of cash to live life with unrealistic standards. Computer science and coding is being sold to us everyday. We have this idea that making 100 grand is a year away from us if we bust our assess. I do think this bleeds out into dating culture because we presume that’s what everyone wants. I’m fine with earning $66k right now. It’s the most I have ever made and I’m not upset if I get overlooked because of my money. I also …
/r/ExRedPill08/10/21 04:06 PM
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I would say yes. I’ll use the looking for work analogy. Men apply by approaching and women consider applicants based on a pool of options. Obviously it takes both parties to be in agreement but an attractive woman will more than likely have way more options than a man.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/21 03:47 PM
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No idea why I’m being downvoted. I don’t see how Kevin Samuels and the killing of a woman are related. It sucks, and I certainly empathize but I don’t see how this is pinned on one person. The truth is, men are visual beings and looks do mean a lot when it comes to finding a partner. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/evolution-the-self/201205/the-triggers-sexual-desire-men-vs-women I have not done much reading on Marciano but domestic is awful and I hope the family gets the closure they de…
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 04:53 PM
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“I hate Kevin Samuel so much” -Sorry to hear that “Instead of complaining about modern women, why not teach men to be men” -I’m not sure what you mean. Kevin generally gets calls from women who struggle with finding a suitable partner due to a number of reasons. Kevin often insinuates that “modern women,” want a certain type of lifestyle when they want a “high value man” without understanding the reality that a small percentage are making 6 figures. Also, Kevin has given advice to men previously…
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 06:21 AM
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“She’s not yours, it’s just your turn”
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 03:39 PM
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Have you heard about fresh and fit? Both of those guys are lost and claim to be TRP.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 04:49 PM
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I got told because my GF went on a graduation trip with her med school classmates she was in search of “new dick…”
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 04:48 PM
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Says who? Plenty of good looking bald men exist
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:07 PM
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Yeah exactly…. It just ties into misogyny and the belief that all women are below men.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 02:10 PM
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I call it entitlement, narcissism, and the famous “she’s not yours, it’s just your turn” simplifies the entire RP community.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 07:35 PM
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At minimum 10-15 hours between hygiene and working out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 01:46 PM
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All very true. People are incredibly selfish, outside of your mom and dad, no one really gives a shit about sustaining friendships once you get past undergrad and or college. Dating: Men and women take what they can get and leave it at that. Obviously there are exceptions to this, but most folks have no interest in taking time to get to know you. Lots of disgusting Men’s rights groups have been formed out of this too. Sexually frustrated men who circle jerk misogynist with each other. I think so…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:39 PM
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It blew up surprisingly, Im still reading those responses till this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:50 PM
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It’s true... this is why ugly fucks in Hollywood are able to pull 25 year old graduate chicks. Power and or something to offer is more appealing than a six pack and abs...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 01:37 AM
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I work a 9-5 = beta partner
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 05:58 PM
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That hot coworker you have, you would definitely bang her, but this doesn’t mean anything
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 02:13 PM
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It’s definitely primal. Men are a desperate species and would bang anything walking because we can disassociate logic from emotion and women can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 02:13 PM
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While I don’t disagree, I think this also comes with men who are desperate for sex.... I’ve been there where Ive been willing to risk it all for some P Becaus a relationship is shit and I’m too afraid to and that current supply of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:51 PM
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I feel like if a man isn’t getting sex around the clock he’ll settle for a relationship... and women already have it way easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:33 PM
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It's PURGEEEE and you seem to be the only person that gets it LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 10:43 PM
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Are you going through my reddit history again? Tell me more about myself
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:04 PM
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GOTTA BE PACKING LIKE A FREAKIN HORSE
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:49 PM
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Are you married?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:48 PM
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Most ASKtrp folks are in it for themselves and couldn’t care less about kin folks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 03:04 AM
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Bald and short cel LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 03:26 PM
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This is accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 02:10 AM
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Lmao... who knows but this made me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 02:09 AM
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What are those?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 12:51 AM
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7th grade formal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 12:50 AM
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Pretty reasonable... i think it’s definitely just to remove yourself in those situations. This is what separates men from boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 08:53 PM
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Whenever you draw a line in the sand with your PARTNER, you’ve already lost. If someone likes playing video games, going to the gym, or going clubbing and you don’t like it, don’t date! No need to over complicate and try to change a person...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 05:03 PM
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What I've realized is when you or your partner is attractive, people couldn't care less if you were married. Somebody will take a chance...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 03:22 PM
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I cheated on my last GF, and I did it because I was too afraid to be alone. A, I didn't value myself, and B, I was an opportunist meaning anytime a woman showed any type of interest I went for it. This is exactly what happened, I was 27 years old sleeping with a 20 year old woman. Smh... Honestly, it had nothing to do with her, I just was insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 03:21 PM
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I read youth as mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:32 AM
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Damn, that’s an accurate representation of TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 06:38 PM
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Straw fedora from old navy. I think not enough people are ballsy enough to wear it which is why a lot of people want to wear the dang thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 06:24 PM
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It’s funny you say that. My GF now doesn’t want me to wear a hat because it brings a lot of attention. I don’t like the attention, because people try to wear it, but I still may keep it on to see her reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 06:03 PM
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The moderators did a poor job in monitoring the subreddit. Calling women sluts, whores, and saying “she isn’t yours, it’s just your turn.” No matter how “good” the community is, you can’t say “free speech,” and not expect consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:22 PM
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It needed to happen... the misogynist view toward women would be no different than whites bashing blacks and making generalizations about an entire group. Hopefully TRP can make distinctions and treat cases on a case by case basis and not serve anyone as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 02:59 PM
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TRP is a philosophy just like Christianity and or any other religion. I mean come on, TRP has “iron rules,” to abide by which of course suggests we should follow these tenets or we disrespect the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 02:55 PM
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Patrice is also 6 feet under so I’m not sure what you’re saying speaks relevancy in today’s era
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 02:50 PM
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My uncle died, got rejected from my job, and my LTR still managed to complain and bitch about her own mental sanity. It had nothing to do with me, it was ONLY about her well being. She didn't cared until I finally broke down after grieving from losing my uncle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 09:34 PM
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It really depends on how it was acquired. If your n count grew from 5 to 20 in one summer then it’s a no. But if it’s 20 over the span of 30 years then it’s a non issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 08:20 PM
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“In a state” listen man, wanting and not getting sex isn’t some kind of decree made by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:15 PM
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That’s what I’m saying dude, she KNEW a guy was opening up that idea by asking her “what do you do for work?” And “I’m a police officer (seeking validation from his own worth)” I just think logically it makes no sense to keep contact with him because she KNOWS he is hitting on her but she still is cordial.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 10:22 PM
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What about giving away social media info? You think it’s on par with cheating too?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 06:05 PM
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It teaches you to take women off of a pedestal and pump and dump. Why? Because getting emotionally involved with a woman is unhealthy for TRP because “she isn’t yours, it’s just your turn.” How exactly can you live a healthy life this way? Not saying this IS TRP, but it’s evolved into a sadistic concept of not believing in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 01:26 PM
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It’s a sadistic approach toward life. You just assume the worst in people. Women are vile, men are cucks who are in LTRs because of problems. Nothing is viewed from a lens of having a half glass full approach. You just walk out the door and think women are out to fuck men over. It really has evolved into a MGTOW evaluation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 01:16 PM
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It’s inevitable is accurate. My last GF maybe had 1-2 guys hit on her a year, and my current gets hit on nearly 2-3 times a night whenever we go out dancing together. It’s challenging, but you’re right as long as she gives me attention then it’s fine. Another weird concern of mine is she entertains it by adding different guys on Facebook. Personally I’d shut it down but maybe adding someone to Facebook is the lowest of the low?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 12:59 PM
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That’s deep
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 12:41 PM
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I felt this way for 7 years while in a miserable relationship until I started realizing my own worth. I even had 4-5 opportunities of different women coming on to me while in the relationship, but I never saw myself as an attractive person. Strange how being desperate works.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 09:06 PM
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I knew a woman who if you just asked, she'd do anything. There was no conversation, it was just pull your dick out, and she would give you head. No alcohol, no coercion, nothing. She would suck anyone's dick, and the by the way was you had to drive her back home.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 12:13 AM
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I would say someone who is a dancer. I know a few women who dance to sensual bachata who get turned around, bent over, and dipped, but its usually considered "just dancing!!" It's like an audition for the next guy they're willing to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 12:10 AM
1

Sounds heinous but it’s the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 03:57 PM
1

She’s 27 and been with 15-20... I’ve been with 6-7 and am 29 but been in a 7 year relationship (waste of time).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 05:53 PM
1

Have you had sex with 20 people over a 30 years of your life or have you had sex with 20 people in one summer? Just like anything else, it says something about a persons priorities I personally feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 10:06 PM
1

Scratching head***
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:35 PM
2

That’s deep
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:34 PM
1

She’s done some sketch shit like gone through my phone, said she was “jealous,” and I was talking to “girls” right in front of her. I think she’s projecting, but I live w the girl so it’s different 😪😪😪
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:00 PM
1

I dated a woman who looked up "cream pies" on pornhub... honestly, it varies from person to person, but the only way I would ever consider finishing inside a woman is if I knew for certain she would be my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 11:32 PM
1

I’m not necessarily on board with it — my current GF was raped and she claimed the reason she reached a higher N-count was to reclaim her sexual identity (paraphrasing). She admitted it was wrong, but I also take that into consideration for any other discussion we have.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 08:03 PM
2

Not necessarily, I love this woman. I do. I just think my patience and margin of error is so small because of my previous 7 year relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 12:15 PM
1

It “sounds like” means you don’t know. And what does that post have to do with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 10:31 AM
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LOL - yup, and you're 150 percent correct. A guy can be 50 a dance like a bachata boss and get women left and right asking, while and older seems to be off limits. With that said, I guess the odds play in my favor as I climb up the Salsa/Bachata ladder. I feel good, and I think those women who did reject me will see me down the road and remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 12:58 AM
2

Yup, get really good and X those women off who act like I never existed. It is annoying, but I don't do it for the women, I do for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 09:48 PM
1

I have had sex with 6 partners at 28 years old. When I turned 20 I stayed w the same partner for 7 years and it was the most cringe inducing sex ever sleeping w a virgin. Almost any sex I have had before her was 150 times better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 05:43 PM
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Why would I even want to do anal at that point? It’s a definite no from me dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 05:41 PM
1

Yeah he has several videos of him humble bragging about money. He is joking, but you can tell money is his scapegoat when things get shitty...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 05:17 PM
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I was thinking that too... it seemed like his solution for everything was money, and she accepted it eventually but that wasn’t what she wanted. TechLead also seems like he is 150 percent more focused on work rather than developing his own personal development.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 05:14 PM
3

Not true... I knew a light skin black guy with hazel eyes who played basketball ago sodomized women in college. Rapist are also people who we least suspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 04:38 PM
1

She's okay with being fat is what it says
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 04:31 PM
1

I don’t have trouble staying faithful, it’s simply the ideas I have to remove from my head and the open discussion w other men about different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:16 PM
1

Yeah exactly, I typically stay away from women who think they have a shoulder to lean on when dancing, or are overly sensual. And nope, I don't have female friends at least in the dance community because 9/10 it leads to something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:04 PM
2

Thanks. I’m definitely trying to be more mature as I’ve done some unfavorable things in my past (twice) and acted on impulse not necessarily looking at the bigger picture. Have a great opportunity now and I don’t want to spoil it for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:55 PM
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Sure, you’re welcome. Relationships take work and it’s day to day, so it wouldn’t matter if it was 7 weeks, 7 months, or 7 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:54 PM
2

In the beginning, I had superficial standards. I wanted a woman with a flat tummy, big tits, great ass, and someone who I could joke around with with dark humor. Is it still the same because of porn? Yes and no... I date a woman now who probably has the full package but I doubt it has anything to do w porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 01:09 AM
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Male. I have a STD/STI/Cancer scare after 3 partners at 19. I thought I had testicular cancer. At that point, I only wanted to remain monogamous and was bit fearful to even have sex again unless my penis worked. I definitely prefer an emotional connection over everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 03:22 PM
1

My general rule of thumb is to not become too obsessive over statistics or assumptions. I'm usually 50/50 and I try my best to give men/women the benefit of the doubt. But I also believe it all boils down to how much a person knows their own worth and value.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 03:13 PM
1

I'm unable to process 'spinning plates' simply for the reason I do catch feelings. Other than that, I don't have time or the desire to respond to 2-3 plates to keep a woman's attention for sex. Not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 03:10 PM
1

I was 7 years deep in a relationship. Most of my 20s up until 27, I stayed with one woman. I assumed I would marry her, and things slowly became toxic and fell a part. Largely, I want a woman who understands her own value, and knows mine. It should come with the territory that it could fall a part at any point but its also enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 07:37 PM
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I guess it threw flame to the already fire that was brewing. All around, it was just bad timing to try to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 05:44 PM
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I mean we spoke about it, but hardly anything gets discussed when one person is angry. Worse thing I wanted was to have two angry people in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 05:43 PM
5

This may be the most rational approach to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 04:03 PM
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Right after she said "is there something you need to tell me..."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 04:03 PM
2

I recently moved in w my girlfriend and we've been arguing for the last two days over fundamentals done in the house, and she's been bitching a lot. She tried to initiate last night, but I wasn't feeling it. She took it very personal and bitched for a good hour or so about how she feels emotionally distant etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 03:01 PM
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It's the biggest thing I regret in my life.... I married young, and cheated on my ex....He forgave me. Several years and two kids later, he was in school full time and working full time, and since he forgave me the first time, it made it easier for me to do it again. I met a guy on line, and started an afternoon fling several days a week while my husband was at school. I thought it was risk free because my new beau was married too..... I'll never forget the day the sheriff's officer knocked on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 01:40 PM
2

While I partially agree, I think there is a spectrum. I cheated on my last SO. But that was because I was desperate, and wasn't getting anything I wanted out of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 12:55 PM
0

lmao
/r/askTRP16/07/19 08:33 PM
2

Yeah, probably.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 04:12 PM
1

Class isn't really a thing for me, as long as they have some ambitions and realistic goals I'm fair game. It also just so happens the current LTR I am with is a also a OB GYN resident.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 05:11 PM
1

Two broken people often end up together. I know someone now who has BPD and is with a man who beats her who I am 99.9 percent sure has NPD. Two sick people together should not reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 04:59 PM
1

I think you certainly explained it best. Getting the help you need makes you BP and not desirable. But why does it have to be about everyone else and not for your own personal sake? Again, averting everything to pump and dump, and get money. Hopefully those men in TRP who suffer do not reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 01:44 AM
-1

Dark tourism has an episode where a bunch of women are obsessing over Jeffrey Dahmer and know they get from start to finish. You'd be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 01:06 AM
1

I believe woman can cheat, and if my partner decides to cheat I cut my losses and move on. I don't want to become incapable of being a bad version of a partner if I am given an overabundant amount of information to detract me from being so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 06:55 PM
1

I followed the TRP for a little over 6 months, and I decided I was no longer going to allow illogical conclusions make me a 55 year old bald man looking to pump and dump 21 year old college girls because power. I want a life with someone, and there is no foul in that. I'm no longer walking into a situation believing she will cheat at any given time because AWALT. I have other things to worry about like work, life, and number of other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 06:54 PM
2

That's your assumption. Not every "hot chick" wants to be in a relationship, and even if that were true, why go after a woman who isn't single? *One-itis*
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 10:31 PM
1

There are "Iron Rules" that you can see here: https://medium.com/@redpillnorman/the-iron-rules-of-tomassi-3e01b8c31d64 ​ I think it is a bit fucking ridiculous when he says "if a woman makes you wait for sex, it is NEVER worth the wait."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 10:24 PM
2

And what happens when I'm not worried about her going on a work conference and I can't make it? Just move on? This is the problem because it promotes insecurity, and the incapability for a woman to do things on her own because "its just your turn."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:45 PM
0

What next? I need to lift right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 06:28 PM
0

Exactly dude... why would I have sex with someone who is married? I don’t need that drama in my life and I’m not that desperate for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 05:52 PM
2

I mean do they? Should I just assume my GF went on sex spree while she was in Cancun? Or should she assume I was having sex in my apartment with someone else? Again, you’re jumping to conclusions about women. If you want to live in fear or paranoia that your partner will cheat on you, that’s on her/you. It doesn’t matter dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 05:51 PM
1

I’m fully aware horrible people exists, but I won’t let conclusions about people who know nothing about me or the woman make distinctions about my life. If my wife no longer wants me, do I take any accountability for it or is it AWALT? You see the problem here? TRP doesn’t teach you how to be a better partner, it just assumes if you make enough money, workout, then you’ll be able to get any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 05:49 PM
2

I’m on the same boat. You start to see patterns of people who follow a theory because leaders classify it as concrete. You’re following a bald guy in his early 50s who’s upset with women because he was cheated on and is now an expert in relationship dynamics (I.E. Richard Cooper).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 05:47 PM
2

Exactly, and it’s just filled with go to the gym, and “f bitches.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 05:45 PM
1

That’s why I stopped... it’s a pity party usually when it comes down to a woman not being interested or losing interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 03:04 PM
3

AWALT, Hypergamy, Branch Swinging, Divorce, and a bunch of other hasty conclusions developed by pseudo scientist with YouTube channels.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 03:02 PM
2

Did you see the low budget trailer for 21 con? Tomasi was wearing a beanie and a biker jacket in 100 degree weather inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 01:43 PM
2

I caved to the red pill fear mongering, and you’re right. It is no different than the feminist SJW.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 10:17 PM
1

I think the thing that really triggered me is when this person mentioned her family. I did nothing to her parents or her sister, but it makes me wonder what she's spewing to them.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 05:31 PM
1

Overall, I'm glad people are finally seeing through this BS. I delved down the TRP rabbit hole for a solid 6 months and when I started listening to that bald white guy talk about 21 con, it reminded me of that ridiculous PUA community seminar I almost went to in Hollywood.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 04:02 PM
0

Had a FB friend who claims to be RP post Eliot's event on his page, and tickets were going for $2k plus. Told him he is being scammed, and said "why the negativity, we need our space too." Some people blindly follow this shit without evaluating their approach towards self-improvement.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 03:59 PM
0

Surprised anyone brought this up. I unfollowed RP subreddit when I started seeing tickets being sold for $2,000 to become a "male," and offering "safe-spaces." This makes TRP community no different than the PUA who sell seminars and conventions.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 03:56 PM
1

Yeah man, all of this shit is BECAUSE of her mom. Its crazy to think about how her daughter spent 8 years in school, and 4 in med school to have her graduation day ruined by her moms dumb decision. Again, I'm measuring it right now, and I'm giving the LTR sometime to process everything. I don't want to get in between anything because it isn't my place...
/r/askTRP13/05/19 10:17 PM
1

lol
/r/askTRP09/05/19 09:49 PM
1

Agreed. I walked away.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 09:49 PM
-2

I hope not... guessing you've done time before.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 06:48 PM
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Smacking an adults ass? I hope not... that's called sexual harassment and an easy way to get into juvie.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 06:48 PM
1

I mean I like basketball, and like Steph Curry
/r/askTRP09/05/19 06:26 PM
0

Yeah she started crying and she felt violated.... she wanted to get the police involved, she made a report, and got interviewed by a detective. I did pretty much all I could have done in that situation unfortunately.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 04:59 PM
2

This has created a rift now... some people are saying this has to do with post partum depression... crazy
/r/askTRP09/05/19 03:16 PM
2

Thank you man... this is a lot brighter than being some 60 year old man with 5 FWB’s. Don’t got time for that shit. At what point do you decide you want to build an empire and have someone build it with you? Cheating sucks and divorce sucks, but like you said FILTER the fuck out of these women and you’d be surprised at the outcome.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 01:54 AM
2

She’s talked about getting her mother help... we’ll see how this week pans out. I got into a fist fight with a guy who laid hands on my dad, so we all have shit we deal with.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 11:58 PM
1

This has nothing to do with TRP theory, you’re friends and not your friends. Simple.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 05:22 PM
9

My GF asked me if I would be okay with being a stay at home dad since she’s a OBGYN doc. I need to start brushing up on my math...
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/19 12:47 AM
1

You can't get mad if you already established that you guys aren't official. And she can't get mad either... both of you guys made that decision. If you/her fucks other people, it was never a LTR, so I would move on. Sounds like you really enjoyed this woman's company, but failed to make things official.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 08:41 PM
4

A lot of American women seem to be a part of the SJW movement to be equal with men
/r/askTRP25/04/19 08:30 PM
3

Best thing you can do is to hope there is a alternative date where you can plan something special and go from there. Can't expect him to do that if you don't communicate...
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/19 02:30 PM
1

I'll still go, but it mostly had to do with her threatening to kill herself while we were dating... "I've thought about driving off the road to see what would happen." She went psycho.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 03:52 PM
0

Yeah, she threatened to kill herself after things were falling a part between us... It was a bit bigger than a relationship, it was more about her own mental health.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 03:51 PM
2

lol
/r/askTRP12/04/19 03:50 PM
1

I can't say if this is hypergamy or not, or you not being entirely confident in your partner.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/19 07:47 PM
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