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From what I have heard, most girls strongly believe that the guy should reach out first after having the first sex together and many assume that he isn’t interested in more if he doesn’t. Reaching out days later can even result in her getting really angry at you.
/r/seduction11/03/24 08:01 PM
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Try to use it positively. The memory of how bad you feel now about your self will push you next time. Worked really well for me.
/r/seduction14/02/24 10:40 AM
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Maybe you search for fulfillment in a woman but you should rather search for it in your self? Happens to a lot of people.
/r/seduction01/11/22 10:32 PM
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Don’t talk to much, let her talk most of the time. Just ask questions which aim at her personality, ambitions, emotions, and so on. Tease her a bit. When it fits in, you can share something about your self, give your opinion or tell a short story from, but don’t give minutes long monologues. In general, try to be laid back and not to worry about whether she likes you or not, she clearly does!
/r/seduction31/10/22 07:09 PM
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Would probably have been the same result for me, but I think there are men who are more confident and have better seduction skills than we do and they might have made it. You did everything you could and from here on you can get much better, probably ending up having sex in a similar situation in the future :)
/r/seduction20/10/22 05:25 PM
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The question was more whether she was a close/true friend. In the aforementioned scenario women always try to make it look/sound harmless, because they would hurt their own reputation as soon as others realize what they are doing. Actually this might be a perfect example, because she convinced you that she was just worrying about her health but at the same time she gave you the impression that this girl sleeps around a lot (no relationship material for most men).
/r/seduction13/10/22 05:53 PM
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Are you sure it was a friend of her? Women also compete with each other and one common strategy is to destroy the competitors reputation by talking shit about her.
/r/seduction08/10/22 06:08 PM
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These things are helpful though, you should just additionally work on your game and just interact with women regularly.
/r/seduction28/09/22 07:09 AM
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It was really smooth, and not just because of the smoothie in it. Always good to make it sound as if you are going to do it anyway and just invite her to join you, so that she does not feel any pressure and you come on as independent and having plans for your days 👍
/r/seduction24/09/22 12:11 PM
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I totally feel what you are saying, but I’m convinced that there are ways to have sexual tension with her without kissing or even having sex, just by keeping a flirty vibe, teasing her, eye contact, touching, and so on. I think this way you can make her want you more and even think about what SHE could do to make it finally happen. Best feeling in the world if she starts to actively seduce you!
/r/seduction20/09/22 09:15 AM
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I think seduction is mostly about pressing the right buttons at the right time. This is of course needed in a LTR as well as in ONS. If pressing these buttons does not make her willingly spread her legs for you, it’s a no and you have to except it!
/r/seduction15/09/22 06:57 AM
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This is brilliant on so many levels!
/r/seduction13/09/22 08:40 AM
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Where does he describe women at all? He just talks about how he deals with them. He doesn’t sound sympathetic to me as well, but as long as he does not manipulate women with lies or lead them on I see nothing wrong with what he is doing.
/r/seduction12/09/22 12:39 PM
6

You completely defeated him with your arguments without being mean, thank you sir!
/r/seduction12/09/22 08:03 AM
12

I think these are comments by women who don’t like his attitude towards them.
/r/seduction12/09/22 07:52 AM
1

Toxic people gonna be toxic.
/r/seduction04/09/22 05:27 PM
4

If they don’t engage in the conversation, there is not much you can do. Usually means they are just not very interested in you -> move on.
/r/seduction04/09/22 04:43 PM
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I think you just need to have a smart dick, so that you don’t fall for women who look good but are full of shit inside. Also don’t slight good friends or badly hurt somebody’s feelings just to get the so often ephemeral enjoyment of casual sex. Short: be fully in your sexual energy, but don’t become unreasonable because of it!
/r/seduction03/09/22 05:14 PM
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Just keep trying different things and try to not take it too serious I would say. Maybe you just need to find a woman with matching humor!?
/r/seduction03/09/22 12:09 PM
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You also need to learn something from your rejections, doing the same thing again and again will not improve the outcome. Being prone to rejection is a crucial prerequisite for success though, so far I agree!
/r/seduction02/09/22 03:45 PM
14

I think he means taking part actively by posting/creating content and communicating with other people, but still…
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:33 PM
5

Best thing which could happen to you to learn that lesson I guess, therefore it was worth it :)
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:32 PM
1

It’s better to get her number, but I would ask for a coffee date or something similarly casual and if she agrees to this exchange numbers as a natural follow up.
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:16 AM
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Convincing argumentation!
/r/seduction31/08/22 09:43 PM
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Please just watch this single video and tell me that she is all wrong: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=giA5fpX5sfI
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 05:08 PM
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Well, you could watch his video in which he precisely describes what he means by that, but I see that you prefer to judge him without even giving him a chance.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 05:03 PM
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I recommend to watch a few videos of Alex Grace on YouTube, found him very insightful and helping with these things :)
/r/seduction31/08/22 12:00 PM
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Yes I have. Since autumn last year I have a FWB situation with a hot girl from the gym which is great of course, but significantly decreased my motivation to do more approaches 😅 Recently I started to approach more regularly again, but it is quite a lot of work to draw a reasonable number of first dates just from cold approaching, that’s why I like the idea of social circle game :)
/r/seduction30/08/22 07:43 AM
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Mhm, I guess you are right. I thought that it seems a bit pathetic to put so much effort in getting laid, but actually you gain much more than that by following your steps and as you just said it actually does not contradict with enjoying the journey. Probably I am again just looking for an excuse to not take action/responsibility 😅
/r/seduction29/08/22 07:27 PM
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You give good advice, but in the end it is not very different from “focus on your self and become an attractive person”. You just describe what exactly one can do to achieve that, but it feels super unnatural to do all these steps just to get the girls you want. Men should enjoy the journey and not have the destination in mind all the time!
/r/seduction29/08/22 12:48 PM
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Alex Grace is a really good observer and makes a lot of great videos about healthy dating for men.
/r/seduction28/08/22 11:13 AM
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I would rather ask for a coffee meetup or walk than her number. If you ask for her number she might wonder what you want it for. If she agrees to meet you outside it’s natural she gives you her number for that. If she is not open to meet you next time you see her, she is just not in to you enough and you can move on.
/r/seduction27/08/22 08:19 AM
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Also you learn a lot, gain confidence, and just have nice experiences with random girls, even if most of them don’t lead anywhere. Online dating though is even worse for all guys who are not a 8-10 and/or don’t have good writing skills. Social circle game obviously is the best, but the number of people entering your social circle will always be quite limited.
/r/seduction25/08/22 06:36 AM
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Double texting isn’t that big of a problem if you didn’t leave a message that asks for a response. “Ok so sunday is good” implies that you agree to the day and that further clarifications follow later. Whether you or she initiates them doesn’t matter. Try not to overthink such things, focus more on your gut feeling whether you might be overly invested in somebody.
/r/seduction24/08/22 12:56 PM
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This! Then try to set up a date after exchanging a few messages.
/r/seduction27/06/22 10:13 AM
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The problem is that barely anyone knows who he truly is. I often felt like being my self in a certain situation, but in hindsight I realized I was just acting to a certain idea of who I am. Ultimate authenticity is as difficult to reach as enlightenment is. What people should do more often is meditate and learn to find the true source of happiness within oneself. Doing so brings all the benefits you are talking about, it just needs some discipline and time.
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:16 PM
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It’s not a phase, I’m 29 and still feel like this from time to time 😄 What helps me is quitting porn and masturbation, at least to some degree. To most men this has additional benefits as well, such as having more energy and increased confidants with girls, so you should definitely give it a try! Otherwise you just have to keep going and trying different things. You will improve, even if it feels like stagnation sometimes.
/r/seduction01/06/22 04:29 PM
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Even more important: don’t make these girls feel bad because they had sex with you! Sex always comes with some responsibility for your partner, so try not sleep with somebody you don’t feel any kind of connection with.
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:26 AM
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Dating is very different for men and women, but I would not say that it is „easy“ for them. They just have different problems.
/r/seduction23/05/22 09:18 AM
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…and then they get cheated on because they are not attractive enough to keep her happy.
/r/seduction10/05/22 10:55 AM
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Find a nice girl and tell her about your insecurities. Don’t rush anything. Every time you feel your anxiety coming up again just slow down and focus on your breath again. This way you will not only overcome your fear, but also have a much better experience for your self and the lucky girl!
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:18 PM
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Maybe try relationship_advice? 🤔
/r/seduction03/05/22 01:30 PM
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Anyway, I suggest that you apply the same rules for men and women, at least in one comment or sentence 😉
/r/seduction02/05/22 08:55 AM
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I think it’s a bit depersonifying, if you know what I mean. Ich think the most interesting part about dating is that you are having an extraordinary experience very close to another human being. Some of this gets lost if I view women as females with my inner voice. I like to think about what words I use to express what I think, because good communication is key.
/r/seduction01/05/22 10:38 AM
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I’m not saying that OP is right for pursuing money instead, but I feel like you are falling for making panty-hunting your sense of life. I’ve heard from multiple guys that they had to sleep with 100+ girls before they noticed that it only made them feel empty inside. Nothing wrong with investing your self in this for some time, you actually can grow and learn a lot from it! But your true focus should always be on you and how you can find inner peace under all circumstances. This is specifically …
/r/seduction30/04/22 06:01 AM
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Hot, young women willingly sleep with broke, handsome twenty year olds, but a 30 year old with nothing going for him is much less attractive, despite his looks or charisma.
/r/seduction29/04/22 10:54 AM
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Ehm… WHAT?!?
/r/seduction28/04/22 03:58 PM
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Why do you refer to women as females when speaking about men (not males) in the same sentence?
/r/seduction28/04/22 03:56 PM
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I found this very helpful regarding the texting: https://archive.ph/572sI As others already said, don’t wait any longer, now is the time!
/r/seduction04/04/22 05:13 PM
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Working out is beneficial in so many ways. Especially for tall people it is important to avoid back trouble when you get older, which was the reason for me to start. On the run I noticed that I feel great during and after working out, that I have much more energy, like to look at my own naked body, get instant respect from people I just met, and women are noticing me in a completely different way. Of cause this is also because my personality developed in the mean time, but I get compliments rega…
/r/seduction04/04/22 05:00 PM
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Thanks for the link!
/r/seduction03/04/22 11:39 AM
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How do you clean it then!? 🤔
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:14 AM
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“3x louder” stands obviously for reasonably loud and this really should be loud enough for a normally hearing women to not overhear it, so that OP couldn’t be unsure about whether they just didn’t want to speak to him. To me at least it was clear when I read it.
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:25 PM
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Women want men who don’t NEED them. Of cause women want to be pursued!!
/r/seduction17/03/22 09:47 AM
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They aren’t. Intonation for instance is not a part of body language but certainly a part of subcommunication. Also things you do not directly say but which are communicated between the lines and so on.
/r/seduction25/01/22 04:33 PM
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