PainFreeDating Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
18	“Just get rejected a lot” is the painful way to go	Fundamentals	PainFreeDating	/r/seduction	02/06/24 02:32 AM
10	When "out" with a group: make your group the most fun	Outer Game	PainFreeDating	/r/seduction	02/06/24 09:18 PM
0	How pickup women when with my girlfriend?	Outer Game	PainFreeDating	/r/seduction	01/06/24 12:02 AM
0	The 6 must-haves to close	Fundamentals	PainFreeDating	/r/seduction	09/06/24 12:10 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	The 6 must-haves to close Ahhh I was thinking for the second date. What do you think is a reasonable one?	/r/seduction	09/06/24 04:03 PM
1	Don't chase ah, then agree!	/r/seduction	02/06/24 02:28 AM
3	How do you guys find other high caliber guys/people to be around? Pursue your interests. They'll be there. Really LOOK at who reflects your values and impresses you. Then pursue friendship with them. Organize some kind of event to invite THEM to. Invite them ALL. Poker night, whatever. This can work wonders for figuring out who will show up. Use an event text service like partiful. Its honestly like appoaching women but a bit easier and you can invite them all to the same thing.	/r/seduction	31/05/24 07:02 PM
1	Remember kids.. An unfortunately useful heuristic.	/r/seduction	31/05/24 06:13 PM
4	Why is cold approach so addictive? I think the key here is the "why" and the subtext is "is it a problem?"	/r/seduction	31/05/24 06:07 PM
0	Don't chase So don't chase people who don't chase back? Honest question: What's chasing in this case?	/r/seduction	31/05/24 06:05 PM
1	Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house? Probably.	/r/seduction	31/05/24 06:02 PM
3	Tips for going out in a long time? Nightclub enjoy yourself > making approaches (paradoxically this is even better for the approaches)	/r/seduction	31/05/24 06:42 AM
2	How to pickup women that have a type Every city has SOME venue where you belong. Go there. Find it. (Find it by looking up your actual interests and ask everyone you meet.)	/r/seduction	31/05/24 06:40 AM
1	Those of you who successfully faked it till they made it with confidence. How did you do it? No need to fake anything. Just be ok with being new at it. Let them know you're interested when it appears to you but also have another reason to be there. Do that thing. Enjoy the food. the dancing. or the drink. Or your book.	/r/seduction	31/05/24 06:37 AM
9	Stop turning your dates into interviews Write down 4 stories you've told before and like. Practice writing out your opinion of everything on your table. Love it? hate it? Why? Then do it with others you like. Then do it with others you don't know.	/r/seduction	31/05/24 04:45 AM
3	Stop turning your dates into interviews Oh man, yes! I definitely try to share far more than ask. Stories > questions	/r/seduction	31/05/24 04:43 AM
3	To the subset of seducers/seductresses here in LTRs, how do you maintain the relationship and keep your partner actively engaged? What are your tips to alleviating boredom, both for yourself, and your partner? For me the solution is always to say what I'm thinking more. I'm often acting inhibited bc I'm hiding something, and/or so are they. Once you're fully expressed and mutually accepting, then You'll suddenly become playful again	/r/seduction	31/05/24 04:34 AM
3	When People Say "Confidence Attracts Women", What do They Mean Exactly? "Being confident" is the symptom of already knowing what to do. It IS helpful, but really not attainable when you don't have it. I don't really think it can be faked for very long while interacting with others. And trying to "make it happen" only makes you more aware of not having it, so trying to have it is like one of those reed finger traps. The more you pull the harder you're stuck. Self acceptance, on the other hand, is achievable no matter where you're at. Laughing while saying "I think yo…	/r/seduction	31/05/24 04:31 AM