PaisleyDavenport Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Am I the only one annoyed every single time a man wears a tank top it’s called a ‘wife beater’? I’m curious as to how?	/r/MensRights	08/05/24 06:22 PM
3	Does anyone else get negative reactions to crying in front of women? It’s definitely been hard working through how differently we express emotions and process them, I was taught that healthy meant talking everything through all the time and I’m now realizing that it’s ok if I want to talk things through and he prefers to internal process. There have been times I’ve been frustrated with him because he didn’t seem to have any emotions relating to our relationship but once I realized that a difference didn’t mean “lack of” our communication has been better.	/r/MensRights	26/03/24 08:29 PM
1	Which words and phrases are some examples of hate speech or misandry against men? I’m wary about asshole because while they may not be the first thing someone thinks of when addressing a women it is commonly used for both. Douchebag seems reasonable	/r/MensRights	26/03/24 07:05 PM
1	Which words and phrases are some examples of hate speech or misandry against men? I just want to point out that men are victims of hate speech, but since you’ve divided this by gender it’s important to list words that can be widely acknowledged as men specific hate speech. Comments based on Dick size or height seem reasonable so does calling someone a pedophile as an insult (when they aren’t one) saying all men or simp doesn’t necessarily have the same history as Slut or whore which have both been derogatory names for women for centuries, I’ll elaborate by saying that they ar…	/r/MensRights	26/03/24 07:00 PM
4	Subject of 'Are We Dating the Same Guy' posts sues women, claims they've defamed him I joined one a while ago out of pure curiosity and was shocked what people are posting. I understand being cautious on the dating scene but however anyone sees sharing photos and experiences of people with 100 or 1,000 as ok is beyond me	/r/MensRights	26/03/24 06:38 PM
4	Does anyone else get negative reactions to crying in front of women? It sucks more women aren’t really taught how to handle men’s emotions because we weren’t exposed to them young. Not an excuse but when I want my boyfriend to feel comfortable expressing emotions to me it’s purely because I want him to have that space that he provides to me. If he chooses not to use it I don’t immediately question why not as long as he knows he could	/r/MensRights	26/03/24 05:41 PM
1	Is there a country where men have rights when it comes to abortion? Right, and in the case that the women decides to carry the child (against the fathers wishes) I would suggest there be a way for him to legally separate his responsibility, no one should be tied to a child they do not want And while I’d enforce the collaboration between parents based on keeping the child or not at the end of the day it does not make sense for a man to have the final say over a child that DOES NOT have to be expelled from their body. Legal choice to abolish responsibility? Yes bu…	/r/MensRights	26/03/24 05:37 PM
1	Is there a country where men have rights when it comes to abortion? that’s so great for you, but I’m assuming you aren’t a women and therefore will never have to worry about it. I’ll I say can is that abortion isn’t widely available for all women and it is a painful process whether you believe it is or not that	/r/MensRights	26/03/24 05:35 PM
1	Is there a country where men have rights when it comes to abortion? I’m willing to skip the pain part of that and skip to the abortion part… dude unless she lives in a state/country that doesn’t allow abortions she either a) gets an unsafe abortion (risks: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2709326/) OR she’s forced to carry the child to full term…. I’m not saying men should be chained to a baby they didn’t want but claiming “women’s only consequence is a painful abortion” is straight fucked up	/r/MensRights	14/03/24 02:47 AM
1	Is there a country where men have rights when it comes to abortion? For sure. I guess in a perfect world both parties have a conversation and decide what to do with the child together but I feel that rarely happens (unless they both want the child)	/r/MensRights	14/03/24 02:42 AM
-4	Is there a country where men have rights when it comes to abortion? In some ways I think your ignoring the fact that the women does not just sit pretty while he pays. She carried a child (most times very uncomfortably) inside her body for 9 months then went through a long and painful process to birth the baby and now has aspects of her body that are permanently changed. In most cases she care for this child for years while the baby’s expenses are being paid. Men should be able to opt out if he decides he doesn’t want the baby and she wants to have it but men can…	/r/MensRights	06/03/24 05:00 AM
4	Is there a country where men have rights when it comes to abortion? This makes sense to me. If I became pregnant (and wanted the baby) and was told by the father that he was planning on terminating legal rights that could inform my decision to keep abort or put up for adoption. But I did not want the baby I don’t understand why someone (who does not give up part of their body to birth the baby ) can force me I can’t force a man to give up legal right why should he be able to force me to give birth?	/r/MensRights	06/03/24 04:56 AM
3	Is there a country where men have rights when it comes to abortion? I think men should have the legal and financial option of opting out of a baby they specifically didn’t want or were tricked into creating but I don’t think a man should be able to decide if a women gives birth or not. It’s an extremely traumatic (usually very painful) process that takes 9 months and leaves a huge impact on the women’s body forever. It’s so hard that sometimes women die from it and can happen randomly. I don’t think anyone female or male should have to option to force a women to…	/r/MensRights	06/03/24 04:52 AM
0	The double standard of relationships with wide age gaps I have no idea. There are people out there who just hate men, plain and simple and I reject their believes that we should toss men aside. I’m not one of those people who believe men are worthless	/r/MensRights	06/02/24 08:33 PM
1	False claims made by female supervisor becomes lawsuit I hear the frustration in this, and as a women I get it. There are women aren’t there who use sexual harassment claims etc as a manipulation tacit to get what they want and I promise you us women hate it at least as much as you because it makes us seem like liars when someone actual gets SA.	/r/MensRights	06/02/24 08:28 PM
2	Just another legal double standard If you asking for a reason I’d say it’s because in a lot of cases drug dealing or being a drug mule is a common way for partners using corrosive control in domestic violence relationships to keep their victim under control. In many cases the victim isn’t aware they are moving drugs under after the fact, and now their partner has something to hold over their heads. Or in some cases the victims are straight up forced into drug trafficking or dealing because not participating will led to far worse …	/r/MensRights	06/02/24 08:11 PM
3	The forgotten voice of sexual violence im so sorry this happened to you and to anyone else❤️	/r/MensRights	06/02/24 07:55 PM
0	The double standard of relationships with wide age gaps I’m having a hard time understanding why men’s rights are affected? What is one thing I women can do that a man can’t	/r/MensRights	03/02/24 02:16 PM
0	Am I A Misogynist I’d argue that women are naturally better at organizing but are raised that way. When I was a kid I couldn’t run around and wrestle my friends because it was seen as bullying but when the boys did it everyone said “boys will be boys”. Or when the teacher would stick the boys that caused trouble next to me (a quiet kid who just wanted to learn) so that they could learn by my example (no one cared that the only thing that happened was my disrupted learning). When young girls are unorganized or rou…	/r/MensRights	02/02/24 07:59 PM
1	Am I A Misogynist I’m very unsure of what type of women you interact with on a daily basis	/r/MensRights	02/02/24 07:53 PM
0	Am I A Misogynist I’m not sure if call you a misogynist, maybe old fashioned? But I don’t see any real problems with what you’ve described here. If I as a women dated an older richer man knowing that it wasn’t a smart idea then got dumped by him (with a child) I’d call myself dumb as well. The real problem is when men get the idea that they are fundamentally better than women. When they think the only thing a women is good for is housecleaning and having children, when they think that women are expendable toys fo…	/r/MensRights	02/02/24 07:50 PM
0	The double standard of relationships with wide age gaps When I say feminist I’m referring to the core and original belief which was equality amongst the genders. I think there are people who support the extreme ideals of feminists, that all men suck and deserve nothing but I don’t fall in that category. It bothers me when some women say things like “kill all men” or “men don’t deserve rights” because I have an incredible boyfriend who would never hurt a fly and there are millions of guys out there like him. I agree with you that the feminist movement…	/r/MensRights	02/02/24 07:42 PM
-24	The double standard of relationships with wide age gaps I feel like it may have more to do with the stereotypes that have been attached to men recently, some men are absolute trash, have 0 respect and abuse others, but not ALL men are like this. The attitude towards men recently has been very negative regardless of the values of that specific man. In the cause of an older women vs older man it probably stems from the societal perception that women are less threatening then men, regardless of if it’s true or not. I’d also say that the core values of f…	/r/MensRights	26/12/23 08:36 PM