Pajer0king Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	"She/He's not yours, it's just your turn" real meaning	DISCUSSION	Pajer0king	/r/RedPillWomen	14/08/20 08:36 AM
2	My personal conclusions about RedPill and AntiRedPill movements.		Pajer0king	/r/ExRedPill	05/11/20 07:24 PM
1	"She/He's not yours, it's just your turn" real meaning	Red Pill Example	Pajer0king	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/20 08:34 AM
0	Many people that are dating don't do this even if it should be mandatory!	DISCUSSION	Pajer0king	/r/RedPillWomen	31/08/20 09:42 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I might have ruined a really good relationship. There is a missunderstanding here. 90% associate Red Pill to those extremist groups which hate women. I associate Red Pill with the Red Pill from Matrix, which means that by Red Pill i mean the choice a person makes to try and find the truth behind an idea/system etc. Find what is bad, what is good, how the system actually works and bend the rules to better benefit you as an individual. I need to stop using the term "Red Pill", even if this is the true meaning of "Red Pill", the "Red Pill" creat…	/r/ExRedPill	18/11/20 10:42 AM
5	How did you guys change your minds about the redpill? About which redpill are we talking ? That stupid cultist, extremist group? Or the real Red Pill? When Neo was offered the red pill by Morpheus, the question was : "Are you willing to discover the truth? Or live in blissfull ingorance?" When i say Red Pill, i always refer to the latter, the choice of a person to seek, discover, understand the truth, and then bend the knowledge to better benefit you as an individual. Unfortunately I discovered the hard way that for many Red Pill is only about the …	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/20 03:27 PM
1	Anyone else’s marriage ruined by their spouse being red pilled? Yes, of course I am. Isnt' that the true "Red Pill"? Willing to discover the truth, instead of living in a lie? Apparently i need to stop using this word, because people understand something else... This pill shit is so fucked up, lol.	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/20 02:44 PM
4	I might have ruined a really good relationship. Man up, go to her, apologize, and communicate. Explain that you respect Red Pill thinking for the goods ( self discovery, frame, not being needy etc.) and not for the bad ( all women are manipulative bitches and destroyers of worlds.). And then prove it. With actions, not words. Unfortunately, many people relate Red Pill only with the bad things , not with the good ones.	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/20 10:21 AM
-5	Anyone else’s marriage ruined by their spouse being red pilled? Read again. I was not refering to the cultic group you are refering to. I am refering to red pill as a choice of discovering and aknowledging the truth behind every system and set of beliefs. ( common sense basically, but that is apparently lost these days).	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/20 10:15 AM
-5	Anyone else’s marriage ruined by their spouse being red pilled? Yes, unfortunately the latter gets shamed and stoned and simped by the "blue pilled" red pillers :D	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/20 08:41 AM
-8	Anyone else’s marriage ruined by their spouse being red pilled? I am so sad that most people relate Red Pill to that disordered group of unhappy men, haters and so on and not to what it actually is, the choice to search and discover the truth and then be civilized and objective about it and bend the rules to benefit you as an individual....	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/20 08:39 AM
6	Origins of hypergamy and Rusbut's Investment Model "Likewise, if you're in a happy relationship with solid investment is hard for a woman to leave you just because there are better options." This ! I still cannot understand how some Red Pills are certain that your partner will at one point leave you no matter what. Are there better options? Or maybe your heart works against you and make you think there are, even if, actually, in the end that better option is a worse one? How can you tell for sure that something not tested is better than somethin…	/r/ExRedPill	14/11/20 05:55 PM
1	A few questions I had about online groups. That's why i said "some". Alexander Grace for example, on YT, is a perfect example of how it should be done. Kudos to him.	/r/ExRedPill	13/11/20 08:07 AM
1	A few questions I had about online groups. In many " Red Pill " communities. Quoted that because they are not actually red pill, wanting to discover the truth and be civilized about it, but just a bunch of haters with mental issues. Some of them at least.	/r/ExRedPill	12/11/20 06:58 AM
2	A few questions I had about online groups. What softver said above. When i tried to start a constructive debate with a mild focus on "neutrality" most of the times i've been "killed by stoning". I think that most of them went through very negative experiences and now they created a defense mechanism that let's them believe all women are "destroyers of worlds". There was a guy the other day that was very angry that marriage is a trap for men and all divorces are because women are no longer shamed and things like that. And when i respectfu…	/r/ExRedPill	12/11/20 05:27 AM
1	How to deal with plates that are more sexual experienced than me? Learn from them and enjoy the ride. It is what it is, it's not your fault, but it should motivate you to become better :D	/r/askTRP	11/11/20 09:53 AM
-1	Epidemic of single mothers I am not saying that all divorces are fault divorces and are men's fault. But your method of expressing your views is not objective. You said " divorces happen because women are not shamed for divorce(anymore)". Everybody who reads this statement will believe that 100% that is the woman fault, and men are totally innocent. That's what i would understand from your wording. And then i express the other side of the coin and you catalogate me as a feminist, which is not true, i disagree with the fem…	/r/askTRP	11/11/20 08:50 AM
2	Deleted my insta... what now? Lol, i don't have Instagram, i am not using Facebook but i am reading lots of books. Auto upgraded to Freak status :D	/r/askTRP	10/11/20 05:44 PM
-1	Epidemic of single mothers If a woman has an abusive husband that's feminism? Go and see the explanation in a Dictionary. I am only defending those that deserve defending, i haven't said one bit that being a hoe is a good thing.	/r/askTRP	10/11/20 05:39 PM
1	Corona Shit test OP, Don't be a rude fuck. Reply, that's what a high level person does :D	/r/askTRP	10/11/20 02:14 PM
2	Am I on the right track of RP? Oh, so i missinterpreted your message and you do want a LTR. Apologies. Ok, so the problem might be you overreacting with emotions and drama. Why do you feel the need to do that? This might mask the fact that you some insecurities about something. Or maybe she indeed fucked up and you were right to be angry, but not showing it and acting like it does not bother you is the way to go. Once she no longer represents what you look for in a partner, you shouldn't care anymore. I generalise because i d…	/r/askTRP	10/11/20 02:03 PM
1	Epidemic of single mothers Starting when should single mothers be shamed? Widows, or women who had alcoholic or abusive husbands? What's her fault in all of this?	/r/askTRP	10/11/20 01:24 PM
2	Am I on the right track of RP? Yes, you are pretty right on point, but i have something to add regarding social interaction aspect: - Are you interested in a LTR or just some pussy? You will only find low quality women that will open her legs to anyone. But if you're just looking to bang, it doesn't matter anyway. - If you re looking for something more serious, have in mind that a high level woman will not get involved if you rush things. Women are wired differently then men and they need time. - But while writing this i just…	/r/askTRP	10/11/20 12:57 PM
3	The cognitive dissonance of MGTOW Why I am getting downvoted by those communities you mean? Yea, it makes sense. Even if i was not right (partially I am sure I am not) motivating my choices and beliefs would make me think we could at least have a decent and constructive debate. Apparently not.	/r/ExRedPill	07/11/20 03:45 PM
1	What is your story? I was pissed off that society was expecting of you to marry and have children, and i was not fully feeling it. Then i stumbled upon red pill, and some of the thinking confirmed what my subconscious already knew, and some of the thinking i realized is just absurd and exagerated, so i took only what benefited me most. End of story :P	/r/askTRP	07/11/20 10:00 AM
3	The cognitive dissonance of MGTOW That is the problem with Red Pill and MGTOW. After researching and observing these "scenes" i came to the following conclusions: 1.1. A true Red Pill man is aware that not everything is love, kittens and rainbows, and some women are low quality and manipulating. So that means that he needs to thread carefully and be sure that he choses the right woman. That is actually what Red Pill refers to, do not take everything as universally true and try to understand if there are "nuances" to it. As some …	/r/ExRedPill	07/11/20 08:49 AM
1	My personal conclusions about RedPill and AntiRedPill movements. It is a generalization. I am not heartless :D. But you need to trully love that someone to make sacrifices for her. As we all know, there are dozens of examples out there when they "love" each other, but when something goes wrong one of them jumps ship. Love, real love , means commitment, and does not appear out of the blues, it might appear only after some time and hardships with your SO.	/r/ExRedPill	07/11/20 07:42 AM
1	My personal conclusions about RedPill and AntiRedPill movements. I understand, makes sense, but a relationship will not always work only by throwing love as an ingredient. Because love means something else for each of us, people have different concepts of love. I think the key here is to find the right partner for that. If all was only about love, there would be no disagreements, no divorces and such. My possible partner wants to love me, but she will not love me if i don't fulfill her "image of love". I want to love my partner, but i cannot love something th…	/r/ExRedPill	07/11/20 07:38 AM
1	My personal conclusions about RedPill and AntiRedPill movements. Thank you very much for your answers. Yes, by "blue pill" i was refering to naive people who believe in fairy tales , that the world is flat etc. I did not want to imply that all non "Red Pill" people are automatically "Blue Pilled". I did some more thinking and in retrospective , maybe, the social conditioning that it was expected from me to marry and have offsprings without the society motivating why ( this still happens, many people marry and have babies , and when i ask them why, they answer…	/r/ExRedPill	07/11/20 07:31 AM
1	There is no avoiding true pain, suffering, and loneliness in your quest to conquer your demons is there? Don't take it ad literam, it was partly a joke. Who doesn't like Christian Bale? :P	/r/askTRP	06/11/20 06:36 AM
1	There is no avoiding true pain, suffering, and loneliness in your quest to conquer your demons is there? Hmm, I think many men think that gym is the only way to freedom. Or at least that's how it looks like at the surface. The way to freedom is any passion, hobby, constructive timeline whatever. That can mean, school, education, [insert any hobby here], soft skills, hard skills etc. I for example, live for cars, PC Games, and becoming a better man, both function and form. :D	/r/askTRP	06/11/20 06:34 AM
2	There is no avoiding true pain, suffering, and loneliness in your quest to conquer your demons is there? Watch Batman (the one with Christian Bale) and you will find your answer about pain, suffering and rising from the ashes. About the woman part, i don't really pinpoint your fear, but if you don't like the idea of dominating a woman, find one who can dominates you or teach you how to dominate her while being confortable about it. And my greatest advice: Knowledge is power. Do not blindly believe anything. Not even redpill. Filter everything you receive with your brain and take the right decision …	/r/askTRP	05/11/20 07:38 PM
1	Do most women ride the cock carousel in their late teens/20s? See my latest reply to Panian.	/r/askTRP	05/11/20 03:59 PM
1	Do most women ride the cock carousel in their late teens/20s? Pfff, ok maybe my wording was not the correct one, sorry, I am not a native English speaker. I am not trying to say that a woman should be the prize. You are the prize. I googled the carousel and apparently it refers to women in their prime who fuck everything they see. Ok, i do not agree with that. I was refering to a normal woman who has a fling evey now and then. I was not refering to every bitch who opens her legs to everybody. Now I know what this carousel exactly refers to. About the "prov…	/r/askTRP	05/11/20 03:42 PM
-4	Do most women ride the cock carousel in their late teens/20s? Ok. Then don't be lame and say why you think that .	/r/askTRP	05/11/20 12:28 PM
-11	Do most women ride the cock carousel in their late teens/20s? Why does it matter? It means she possibly is more experienced in bed. All for the better. It's your own insecurity. Why should you care? You cannot control her. You can only prove to her that you deserve her.Get to know her, test her, establish the rules and boundaries, and if she's a high quality person and if the rules are not against her interests and beliefs, she will stick with them.If not or if something happens in the future, dump her and move on. People need to stop this toxic mentality …	/r/askTRP	05/11/20 12:16 PM
2	We ready to admit that LTRs don't mean shit yet? Or we gonna still pretend like it's a soft marriage? Very interesting "BigBoy", your assumptions actually show me how damaged this whole community is, so sad.But don't be sad and listen carefully, because you might be able to learn a thing or two from the "Rookie".You, as a Red Pilled person, took the pill and tried to find out and understand the real truth behind the whole bullshit blue pill. But before taking the Red pilled, you were just a naive blue pilled and most probably the red pill reality came as a shock to you. So in this point you prob…	/r/TheRedPill	05/11/20 11:35 AM
-1	We ready to admit that LTRs don't mean shit yet? Or we gonna still pretend like it's a soft marriage? "She is getting resources" What kind of resources are we talking about? A high level man should never throw resources to her woman, because a woman (high level at least) will be able to acquire those resources herself. The only type of "resources" you should exchange with your partners are intelectual ones and quality time.	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/20 01:15 PM
1	You Cannot Control Her What he said ! Sadly many people here are very "blue pilled" in their TRP :(	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/20 12:56 PM
3	You Cannot Control Her It doesn't work that way. There is no such thing as love for the sake of love. Even "True" love is based on interest. If you don't own your game and you no longer represent what your woman wants, she can (and should) leave your ass. You are not entitled to her. And it should work like that the other way around too. A man should not love her woman unconditionally. She has to realize that if she does not work her ass every day for the relationship you will get up and leave. Men who do not realize …	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/20 12:51 PM
1	You Cannot Control Her Respect for that. Finally somebody who understands the rules of the games. Few see partners as a way to become a better self.	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/20 12:38 PM
1	You Cannot Control Her Not everyone cares about SMV. There are people who only care about RMV	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/20 12:25 PM
1	What is the appeal of marriage? Oh, i did not see the "Children" part :D. Yep, you are right. :D	/r/RedPillWives	02/09/20 06:15 AM
1	What is the appeal of marriage? "Nature puts you in a weak, vulnerable position if you are not having family and kids" This is not applicable anymore, we are not living in the wilderness and you are no longer in mortal danger if alone. Nowadays a person can be much more successfull without having babies.	/r/RedPillWives	01/09/20 07:40 AM
1	Balancing supporting husband and getting my needs met - Help! Respect +++++. That's why i think that "LAT" - Living apart together is a win win situation.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/08/20 12:33 PM
2	Pressure to settle down. You cannot force love. More so if you speed things like that you will get rejected alot. I don't question your wants and why's, but many couples i know of ended up very bad because they rushed things. Better late than never.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/08/20 11:35 AM