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| 1 | The biggest problem we have today is the demonization of men’s sexuality, while uplifting women’s sexualityIts kind of creepy and pathetic to use your kids as a prop online to try and win an argument. Your ex-wife is right for leaving you. Your ex-wife is getting bent over and fucked right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 12:00 AM |
| 3 | The biggest problem we have today is the demonization of men’s sexuality, while uplifting women’s sexualityYou proclaimed to everyone that you couldn't imagine dating someone your daughter's age in your first comment. Very creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 11:35 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of the concept of ‘true burning desire’?Maybe it offends you but it is relevant and true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 11:34 PM |
| 7 | The biggest problem we have today is the demonization of men’s sexuality, while uplifting women’s sexualityThen it's pretty creepy of you to use her in your example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 11:31 PM |
| -2 | Why are traditional relationship dynamics viewed with such hate?Calm down and take a deep breath. Are you crying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 11:01 PM |
| 1 | The biggest problem we have today is the demonization of men’s sexuality, while uplifting women’s sexualityLet's hope she never realizes her father is a pathetic cuckold | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 10:57 PM |
| 4 | What do you think of the concept of ‘true burning desire’?This is why it has always been male wisdom to not get into a relationship with a promiscuous woman. She has lost her ability to love and can no longer give you any true connection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Asking that women be with men they are not attracted to has never, is never, and will never be a remotely plausible solution to anything.Haha go hang out with your 6'5 male model partner. I'm totally sure he exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 10:00 PM |
| 4 | The biggest problem we have today is the demonization of men’s sexuality, while uplifting women’s sexualityIs your daughter hot and single? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Why are traditional relationship dynamics viewed with such hate?There is a movement to normalize things that everyone used to find disgusting and to demonize things that were always normal. The people who are trying the hardest to do it think they are fighting their "oppressors" by doing this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Women aren't actively competing for older men.Don't worry, your husband won't leave you for a younger woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Women aren't actively competing for older men.They are suggesting that women younger than them need to have every relationship approved and signed off on by a minimum of 10 jaded women that nobody cares for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 05:16 PM |
| 8 | Does society allow the guys to be in your full masculine?The men who care about what society promotes and propagandizes rarely end up successful in life. The men who are the most successful in dating don't give a fuck about being toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't actively competing for older men.You're so noble. What a great person! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't actively competing for older men.No, those women don't care about you and think you're weird even though they might be polite. They care more about their own lives and their partner and their friends and family and not about "female solidarity." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Women aren't actively competing for older men.Women don't approach men. Women have a problem seeing younger and more beautiful women get hitched with good men, while those men don't even notice them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Women aren't actively competing for older men.You're mad that you're single aren't you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Women aren't actively competing for older men.You can say that you have a crabs in the bucket mentality. Your chances are gone and you want other people to join your miserable sisterhood of failed women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Women aren't actively competing for older men.No, you're trying to hurt the competition because you missed your chance. It is as clear as day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't actively competing for older men.Yes and why are you here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't actively competing for older men.In addition to being better looking, the HMV women have better personalities than the bitter average women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 04:48 PM |
| 0 | Femininity is not valued in our societyWhatever validates your victim narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Femininity is not valued in our societyI think you see abuse and manipulation in everything. Even when it's not there. Maybe spend less time online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 02:20 AM |
| -1 | Unless You’re Content with Mediocrity: Dating When You Aren’t The Best Version Of Yourself Is Mostly A Waste of TimeHave you ever gotten laid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:45 AM |
| 0 | Unless You’re Content with Mediocrity: Dating When You Aren’t The Best Version Of Yourself Is Mostly A Waste of TimeMost of these women want me to approach them. Go back into your cave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Relationships are based on might makes right. There is no real negotiating power between the sexes.If billionaires didn't create the laws but the laws were created by politicians who had their interests in mind, how can billionaires be exploiting anyone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:34 AM |
| 1 | we should criticize deadbeat dads (to an extent) not single momsSomeone tried to sell me a bridge yesterday. I didn't fall for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:27 AM |
| – | ONLINE DATING ENCOURAGES A SHALLOW WORLDIt works well for many men and is rational. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:05 AM |
| – | we should criticize deadbeat dads (to an extent) not single momsBecause she picked a cheater | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:05 AM |
| – | we should criticize deadbeat dads (to an extent) not single momsMen deal with liars all the time without blaming others. If someone is stupid, then they should behave with caution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:04 AM |
| – | we should criticize deadbeat dads (to an extent) not single momsThey are raising criminals, a strain on the welfare state and rightly mocked on dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:01 AM |
| – | ONLINE DATING ENCOURAGES A SHALLOW WORLDIt works well for many men and is rational. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 11:57 PM |
| -1 | Who do you think is an attractive person of your own gender?Jameela Jamil is too old and fat. She looks like she had too much plastic surgery. If we're talking about women in that age range, Ana de Armas. Good looking male would be a footballer like David Beckham or Girard Pique | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 11:54 PM |
| – | ONLINE DATING ENCOURAGES A SHALLOW WORLDIt works extremely well and women respond to it better than the alternative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 11:50 PM |
| 1 | ONLINE DATING ENCOURAGES A SHALLOW WORLDAre you calling him a rapist? What's the point of your comment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Unless You’re Content with Mediocrity: Dating When You Aren’t The Best Version Of Yourself Is Mostly A Waste of TimeNo. You need to get comfortable experiencing rejection and social judgment which involves approaching women in places like grocery stores. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 11:42 PM |
| – | we should criticize deadbeat dads (to an extent) not single momsWho are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 11:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't want older career women because they're insecure and intimidatedJudging isn't "asking" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 11:40 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men don't want older career women because they're insecure and intimidatedIt's not unattractive. Women value it more highly than men do in attraction. It will not make up for lacking in other areas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 09:42 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men don't want older career women because they're insecure and intimidatedI think they see it as plainly as we do that it's sour grapes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 09:40 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men don't want older career women because they're insecure and intimidatedThey aren't attractive because if they were attractive, they would be approached by good-looking older men and have no complaints. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Femininity is not valued in our societyI don't get triggered. I point it out so that others don't waste time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 09:31 PM |
| – | Femininity is not valued in our societyNo. It's not worth the effort because I was being cheeky in pointing out how ridiculous it sounds for a random woman on a subreddit to think that she knows better than everyone or that anyone pays attention to what she thinks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 09:30 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men don't want older career women because they're insecure and intimidatedYou will notice that attractive women never hold such views. It's always the women who have a chip on the shoulder because there is something deeply wrong with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 09:27 PM |
| 0 | Femininity is not valued in our societyYour single anecdote disproves the general rule. Thanks for dictating for "mature and self aware" people what they should want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 09:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't want older career women because they're insecure and intimidatedWe can discuss it. A lot of people are discussing it and it is a real phenomenon. https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/45-percent-women-are-expected-to-be-single-and-childless-by-2030 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Unless You’re Content with Mediocrity: Dating When You Aren’t The Best Version Of Yourself Is Mostly A Waste of TimeThere is a big advantage to being the best versus average or above average for men, I agree. However, smoothness and confidence take experience to develop and that requires failure. I am saying that developing social competence is another thing to be worked on just like fitness and finances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 09:14 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men don't want older career women because they're insecure and intimidatedThe majority of women in relationships who are older career women were in relationships before changes in the dating market. Those changes are the ones discussed here. The challenge that we ARE discussing is women who prioritized their career struggling to attract the men they want NOW that they are "older career women." Please focus on the topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:58 PM |
| 8 | Does anyone here believe in love and actually finding someone who cares about them?Yes, but that is a luxury for the majority if not all men. However, it is not for women. Even if the man is highly sought after, his role is to initiate and escalate the romance. Because of how dating has changed, men want to know how to do it intelligently. The women who are suffering on the other end are women for whom there is not enough initiation or escalation from highly sought after man anymore. They similarly want to navigate it intelligently. If you have no problems with dating or roman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:56 PM |
| 5 | Unless You’re Content with Mediocrity: Dating When You Aren’t The Best Version Of Yourself Is Mostly A Waste of TimeI disagree. Part of becoming an attractive man is developing social confidence. Sitting on the sidelines until you consider yourself good enough is not the answer. You can read about pickup and other techniques, however, the ability to apply it in real life has a learning curve and is another matter. Is this not true for every part of life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:50 PM |
| 22 | Does anyone here believe in love and actually finding someone who cares about them?I do although I cannot speak for anyone else. What you have to understand is that dating and courting has changed from what it used to be. It has become a lot worse for men and women. Understanding the trends may or may not help but that is what many are trying to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't want older career women because they're insecure and intimidatedThey are bad options objectively. If they were not bad options, there would be higher demand for older career women in relationships. As we know, there is not. Thus, the market has spoken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:40 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Men don't want older career women because they're insecure and intimidatedIt's more appropriate to say that they prefer younger women when single. To get a younger women, the competition is fierce. Not everyone can achieve it. Every man prefers a brand new BMW. However, BMWs are expensive and not everyone can afford it. Does that mean that they do not prefer BMW? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:39 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men don't want older career women because they're insecure and intimidatedBecause YOU want that for your partner. Others don't and they don't owe you an explanation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:36 PM |
| – | we should criticize deadbeat dads (to an extent) not single momsShould we criticize the women who select the deadbeat dads? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Femininity is not valued in our societyIt doesn't need definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Femininity is not valued in our societyThat's their own personal problem and something that they must overcome. Refusing to take responsibility for it won't help. In most relationships, the man is more dominant than the woman. Consider that both might even enjoy it. How about that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:34 PM |
| -1 | Femininity is not valued in our societyIt was not. Men have always protected women and feel a lot of sympathy for them. Are there disordered individuals who did that? Yes, but what you are doing is guilt by association based on a small minority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:32 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men don't want older career women because they're insecure and intimidatedYou tell me. If he's dumb and insecure, he probably falls for the social shaming that women do to present bad options as good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Femininity is not valued in our societyIt's a one sided and biased narrative. I don't know what your second sentence has to do with anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't want older career women because they're insecure and intimidatedYou're trying to police men's preferences. Men like what they like. They don't need you to tell them what to like and it won't work either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Femininity is not valued in our societyMen are attracted to bitchy girls but only if they are extremely attractive. It's a part of the package. Many girls who have a bitchy exterior and are extremely attractive are kind people deep down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:26 PM |
| 0 | Femininity is not valued in our society"Legally allowed to" does not mean they did. If Marijuana is legal, does that mean everyone smokes marijuana? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Femininity is not valued in our societyThey are a grown adult, are they not? If they can't speak up for themselves, that's their problem. They put themselves in that situation and only they can help themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:23 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men don't want older career women because they're insecure and intimidatedThe man who gets trapped by an "older career woman" is dumb and insecure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:22 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Men don't want older career women because they're insecure and intimidatedYou don't have to police other people's preferences in romantic partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Femininity is not valued in our societyBasic history is more than a single uncritical victimhood narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 07:07 PM |
| 3 | Femininity is not valued in our societyAll of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Femininity is not valued in our societyNo support for your claims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Femininity is not valued in our societyWhy would the decisions be against them? The decisions would be in the interest of both people. You are assuming that everyone is a bad person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Femininity is not valued in our societyNo they were not. Out of the ones who were allowed, most men did not. Kings picked men to fight their wars instead of women because the men were stronger and larger. That is based on sex differences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 06:25 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men don't want older career women because they're insecure and intimidatedDo you have proof that is not another thread from this subreddit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 06:18 PM |
| 4 | Femininity is not valued in our societyWhy is everything so sinister? You might care about controlling your partner, but that doesn't mean that you should project onto others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 06:17 PM |
| 0 | Femininity is not valued in our societyMost men were treated as second class citizens except for kings. Society allowed men to be beaten and oppressed for most of history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 06:16 PM |
| 6 | Femininity is not valued in our societyTranslation: my competition is providing men with what I cannot. Therefore, I must shame it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 06:14 PM |
| 22 | CMV: Men don't want older career women because they're insecure and intimidatedInstead of accepting that waiting too long to get married was the mistake, she concludes that men are afraid of her or intimidated by her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 06:08 PM |
| 21 | CMV: Men don't want older career women because they're insecure and intimidatedWomen find wisdom, experience, and a strong sense of self attractive in men. It doesn't work the other way around because men are not women and women are not men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 06:05 PM |
| 9 | Femininity is not valued in our societyThe women who complain about how hard it is to be feminine tend to be the ones who complain about how they can't find a good man. The women who realize that MEN are the market they are catering to embrace their femininity because it works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 06:03 PM |
| 4 | Femininity is not valued in our societyFemininity works poorly for advancing in the corporate hierarchy. However, for attracting masculine, attractive men, it works well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Older men dating much younger womenMen stay fertile for most of their lives. Women aged 22 are universally desired by men of all ages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Older men dating much younger womenMaybe you do find it repulsive. Who cares? Most women don't. Also, most women don't need help from FDS, or r/dating. The good thing about approaching is that most women appreciate it and take it as a compliment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Older men dating much younger womenWho cares? I've observed the opposite. Attractive young guys get regular sex with different girls. Why limit yourself to one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Older men dating much younger womenMen prefer younger women. Women's genes cause them to prefer dominant, high-status men. The stuff that you mention cannot be blamed on men only. In most cultures even today, a woman's purity correlates with her marriage prospects. Other women who wanted to make sure their daughter, or relative, finds a spouse also enforced modest clothing and behavior. Those women care about their daughter or relative and want to ensure a good life for them in that society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Older men dating much younger womenNo. Unless they have trauma, anxiety, or spend too much time online, they act kindly and respectfully because they are kind and respectful people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Older men dating much younger womenA man who is high-value does not care about how he looks in your eyes. If a girl is attractive, she can date an attractive guy in her own age group. However, an attractive guy in her age group is rare and uninterested in a relationship. The scarcity of an attractive young guy, with ideally social status and preselection, means that most attractive women his age recognize this and are competing for him. Not all of them win. Meanwhile, there are many attractive younger women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:03 PM |
| 0 | Older men dating much younger womenGo back to my original point. All kinds of factors affect divorce rate. People get married every day. They look at real life and go by how they feel. None of the problems you say are part of one kind of relationship, like with a guy significantly older than the girl. They exist at different percentages in every relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Older men dating much younger womenNo, women do not do that. Maybe the two-faced, fake ones. But most women, and most people, act kindly and respectfully. Nobody said rejection is rude. Read my comment again. I said making fun of someone is rude. Approaching strangers is not rude. People want to interact with others. Girls want men after they turn 18. You may be an exception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Older men dating much younger womenI don't know what any of this has to do with what I said. Let me be more clear. The wall follows peak beauty for a woman. Because men value beauty, this decline diminishes a woman's ability to find a high-value mate. Exceptions exist but remain exceptions. You will find this concept repeated in every world culture in world history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Older men dating much younger womenI misremembered. Further, the same study found that college-educated women initiate divorce at an even higher rate of 90 percent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Older men dating much younger womenThose who shame others' relationships online always have no prospects themselves. Weird, isn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Older men dating much younger womenMaybe that describes the women in your life. Most women that I know are flattered whenever they get approached by anyone. For men, not caring about the one odd rude woman who makes fun of you, as you say, is important. A woman like that has insecurities and sounds like a waste of time. Too many fish in the sea. Older guys get the prettiest girls in today's dating market. I mean +/- 10-15 years. The most pretty girls don't want boys, they want men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Older men dating much younger womenYou have to have the ability to attract them too. If you are not good looking or high-value enough to do that, then don't worry about this debate at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Older men dating much younger womenEvery girl wants attention from high-value men, regardless of the age of the man. High-value men tend to be older because the things that attract women take time to accumulate. They don't want attention from ugly men or average men. But attractive women are competing for the best guy. They all recognize who the best guy is because other attractive women are competing for them too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 02:29 PM |
| 0 | Older men dating much younger womenMost people do date in their age group. However, that's because only men of high value can date younger women. Divorce is not relevant. Marrying a college educated female skyrockets chances of divorce. Marrying a woman with many past partners skyrockets chances of divorce. There is not one factor that determines the success of a marriage. Dead bedrooms are not confined to age gap marriages. Is that a point that you're making? The vast majority of them are part of similar-age marriages because th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Older men dating much younger womenThey don't care about that study. People do what they want. Stay mad online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 02:24 PM |
| 6 | Older men dating much younger womenWhat women say matters little. Women love older guys. If it's rare, why do so many women in their late twenties panic about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 02:22 PM |
| 9 | Older men dating much younger womenWomen don't want to compete with better candidates but cannot bring themselves to say it. They instead make threads like "Older men dating much younger women." Men's genes make them desire younger women. Younger women tend to be more beautiful, pleasant and fulfilling to be with. We recognize this primally. The good news? Every woman holds the possibility of capitalizing on their best years to get the fittest mate. Women's genes make them want a worthy man with a proven record of success. This t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 02:34 AM |
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