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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | After 30 years, now separatedBest friends that will call you out are the best. Mine has been more effective than my therapist. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/25 08:40 PM |
| 2 | I’m Struggling+1 from retired prior E occifer. This is when we love the Chiefs. Prioritize your children’s stability. You’re their rock now. You’ll need a rock also: for me that is the grandpas in the men’s group at church. They will teach you fatherhood. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/25 03:02 AM |
| 1 | On the Precipice of SeparationHow could I forget the best first aid: Husband Help Haven . It’s perfect for anyone with an ambivalent wife, no matter what the issue. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/25 10:39 AM |
| 4 | On the Precipice of SeparationTLDR: being too focused on the house and family or too accessible is a turn off for a certain kind of person. Looks anxious, so the woman looks at you with pity or as a burden to her. Must tell her no without fighting or being emotional sometimes. Oh buddy, I’m there with you and am working my way through this myself. My first big clue was finding an online quiz about codependency. I scored fairly high, even though the only addition in the house is her workaholism. Then I stumbled on No More Mis… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/25 01:08 AM |
| 7 | New Girlfriend Suddenly Not Feeling ItI’m with u/stretchrun, and I’m an old fart with an equally menopausal wife. If you don’t understand something, it’s not necessarily menstruation related. It could be…but she’s got to tell you it is. It’s not for you to insert yourself in her self-awareness. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/25 03:20 AM |
| 6 | Sex during separation/divorceYes, this is childish. Don’t connect with someone you are divorcing (not respectful of them) or who is divorcing you (not enough self respect.) hold back on that dopamine hit and find it somewhere else. Divorce means an increasing amount of autonomy by you both. AND should be a decreasing amount of fucks given. THEN you get over your butt hurt and hope that a person you cared for can be happier or healthier. AFTER THAT, you think about the self-protective shit you did, and how that made them mis… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/25 03:04 AM |
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