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| 1 | The Graham Platner scandal shows decency doesn’t matter in datingYou may be conventionally less attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Young men did everything they're supposed to, and its not enough. Indicates its NOT their fault, rather it shows theres a real problem of YOUNG FEMALE RADICALIZATIONYou mean billionaire radicalization? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 12:52 PM |
| 7 | Doesn't this fact indicate that most women aren't straight?If a guy did that he would be labeled gay for life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 12:09 PM |
| 4 | Society made it so that women can earn equal to men and now women can no longer find someone who earns more than them. Women today have been so masculinized that they don't even find men attractive.James Joyce letters-- shit was intense. Dudes don't profess their love like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 03:04 AM |
| -8 | Society made it so that women can earn equal to men and now women can no longer find someone who earns more than them. Women today have been so masculinized that they don't even find men attractive.How does one show they have more than wealth? This is naive. Female selection algorithm is an atavism that is leading women to make terrible choices. I listen to the women in my family talk about their friends and the mistakes I hear are insane. Turning down perfectly average 7s to raw dog a guy that has kids by another woman and is bald is-- a choice. What are y'all doing? You meet a guy in his 20s, he went to a decent school, works out and makes low six figures. He snorts when he laughs and li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 03:03 AM |
| 0 | Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worseIf you're unattractive... You yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 02:15 AM |
| – | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.With whom are you in love against? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the number of women who preffer Big/above average genitalia (all things being equal) is propotional to the number of men with said atributes?I agree, a lot of women don't buy dildos or even toys. My wife is like that and for awhile we used 9 inch by 2.75 inch girth toys and then over the last year just went way smaller (like 5 inches). Preference of dick or toy size is unlikely to be constant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesFind yourself a big dick cuck with a PhD or some other decent earning dude. Best of both worlds for some women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesNah I want the hoe, slut is a better term. You can keep the prudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 09:19 AM |
| – | Male sexuality just seems borderline antisocial to meNothing you're saying about men is remotely true. Touch some grass. A large share of men are not solely interested in 18 - 22. Blondes and red heads are at the bottom of the totem poll for me. Go look at actual porn trends and what men watch when they're alone. They LOVE a thick woman they love imperfect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.This guy southparks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"Your problem is class. It's uncomfortable but it is the truth. It has been the truth for at least 2000 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 09:46 AM |
| – | “Choose better” until that means women wont fuck a stranger.I was nice to a woman, like genuinely polite and within 10 minutes she turns to me and goes "are you a simp" and that was super wild. Turns out she was a complete slut (her own words) and I just picked the wrong one that night. Sluts are fine, I just didn't have my slut radar on that night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Do women really sleep with the “hot guys” first and marry the average ones later?Cut it down to what? And which humans are you picking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Do women really sleep with the “hot guys” first and marry the average ones later?That puts society replacement rate at less than 2.0. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 04:04 PM |
| -2 | Do women really sleep with the “hot guys” first and marry the average ones later?Sure, 1 man would impregnate 2 to 4 women in that scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 01:41 PM |
| 0 | Do women really sleep with the “hot guys” first and marry the average ones later?Radio silence for years is nuts. If you're beta, just accept that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 01:33 PM |
| -2 | Do women really sleep with the “hot guys” first and marry the average ones later?Humanity would die out. This is ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 01:30 PM |
| 6 | Do women really sleep with the “hot guys” first and marry the average ones later?Your second paragraph is very accurate. The males who seek opportunity do get rewarded. These males have a particular profile. Usually well hung and have had success using such tactics with other women in the past. These men end up sleeping with close to half of all women. This is why we literally have sites like "am I dating the same guy". The answer is a definite yes. I explain this in my other comment a bit more but it is absolutely fascinating to sit down with these types of men AND several … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 12:55 PM |
| -1 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.A lot of women have absolutely absurd expectations. I've sat down with a handful of my pretty but single acquaintances and at the core they really own up to some fairly wild preferences. These women are dating the 6+ finance guy-- but they always find something wrong. I am happily married with kids, a couple of houses and whatever. I've met some of these men and I can tell they're definitely close to the cream of the crop. My female "friends" are like traumatized or something-- just completely i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 04:19 PM |
| 1 | How many men do you think are settling for their girlfriends / wives?My wife is good enough although I did file for divorce last year because she got out of control. As I age, I think there is a better match for the non child bearing era of my life. Unfortunately, nature takes it's toll on women and they aren't quite the same afterwards. Babies are overstimulating which means she really can't invest in our relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 09:20 PM |
| 0 | Why do I rarely find men to desire to be stay at home fathers for the purpose of raising their children?They aren't fine with it. I'm out here sleeping with those women while hubby takes care of the kids. Don't @ me!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 06:57 PM |
| 5 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themNah def said "nice dress" and she contorts her face and goes "eeeewww" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 04:31 PM |
| 1 | There are more genuine blindside divorces than many women want to admitMy wife sucks at communicating. Literally had to call her out for talking in her head instead of to me. I watch her do it and it's so weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 10:29 PM |
| 1 | If you want to spread genes without effort, it’s a sensible strategy to abandon pregnant mothers since women won’t vote against themselves and since bluepill men will always cheerfully clean up your sloppy seconds.You are very bad a reddit. Log off bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 01:08 AM |
| – | Men "replacing" women is actually beneficial for us.Honestly I just started f*cking sissies and it's fine. Not gay since she keeps it in her panties-- I just don't look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 10:52 PM |
| 0 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menThey're the best option for desirable men. You pay them to leave quietly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 10:48 PM |
| 4 | Why are the good men so opposed to marriage recently?Discovery is the problem. Men with 3Es do not broadcast such things. I meet that criteria and all of my long time partners, including my wife have admitted that they "had no idea" and I just "suddenly appeared" but they weren't looking in my general direction. In general, people see what they want to see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 02:11 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the idea that most women won’t date a bisexual guy? Do you think it’s true?I wonder how they explain bi men who have only topped. Is that not the manliest of men? To dominate not just women, but men as well. I think this is why young men straight out of prison have some allure to women. Very "manly" to get locked up and force another man to service you. A lot of women like watching that kind of subjugation. They enjoy it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Men Peak in Attractiveness to Young Women in their TwentiesThis is the truth. Happily married, however, zero attention despite checking all boxes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 07:03 AM |
| 1 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?This guy reasons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 11:58 PM |
| – | Only acceptable response to when asked for paternity test is 'Yes Absolutely'It really doesn't do damage. You can control your reaction. Empathizing with your make counterpart that there is a subconscious evolutionary voice telling "not yours" for your entire life is not a recipe for success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 10:38 AM |
| 5 | If sex is the universal "carrot on a stick" for women, what would the male equivalent be?Hookers bruh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 10:40 PM |
| – | Are men becoming ok with no sex?Why don't you all organize to legalize prostitution? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 11:28 AM |
| – | Gay men love men more than women doAs a Bi man, this is 100% true. It took 10 years of marriage for my wife to compliment me somewhat consistently. Before anyone jumps to conclusions, I've dated everything from models, NFL cheerleaders, and women constantly walk up to my wife and compliment her (she is very attractive to both sexes). It also takes women a long time to apologize. These are just the differences between women and men. 🤷♂️ I have entertained men because they're actually quite nice to me and I authentically appreciat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Women with promiscuous pasts who are sexually reserved/borderline asexual with their LTRsThat's your problem. Stick with men that have shown a desire for such activities. Straight men don't like to be flipped (trans women try this a lot). Replace you straight filter with bi or pansexual. Problem solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Women with promiscuous pasts who are sexually reserved/borderline asexual with their LTRsWomen should stop slut shaming each other and the men will follow suit. Also, most men want a sexually confident partner (i.e. slutty wife). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Women with promiscuous pasts who are sexually reserved/borderline asexual with their LTRsI challenge that it is more harmful. If the sex sucked, you know that it wasn't gonna work anyway. More information early on is way better than falling victim to a sunken cost fallacy. Fuck early, fuck often. This is exactly how women talk themselves into settling for Mr. 4.5 inches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Women with promiscuous pasts who are sexually reserved/borderline asexual with their LTRsI've seen those idiots on podcasts. Those men are incredibly insecure and stupid. Is that who you want to select for LTR? Men who are concerned with other men's penises of the past are de facto losers. Lying to yourself about who you are and lying to your potential LTR is a fool's strategy. If you like to fuck on the first date, then do it. Just don't intellectualize it and be honest with the other person. I.E. "I'm still interested in you beta boy but for the next week I'm going to sleep with m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 01:37 PM |
| 3 | Women with promiscuous pasts who are sexually reserved/borderline asexual with their LTRsThis theory is gold. The victorian reference is very perceptive. While we don't have a ton of erotic literature from the past, a pass through James Joyce's love letters always reminds me that extreme kinks have always been a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Women with promiscuous pasts who are sexually reserved/borderline asexual with their LTRsHow many of these men were bisexual and had previous experience being penetrated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 01:25 PM |
| 3 | Women with promiscuous pasts who are sexually reserved/borderline asexual with their LTRsYou won't stay monogamous. You think yourself a demisexual but you are not. You will find a much better lover during a rough patch or temp breakup and that will lead to inner conflict as you realize that dick is what you always wanted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Women with promiscuous pasts who are sexually reserved/borderline asexual with their LTRsPrint this response off and frame it. THIS is the behavior exhibited by so many women. It is literally "I won't do this with you" then they turn around and do it with the next guy. What are we going to name this behavior? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Women with promiscuous pasts who are sexually reserved/borderline asexual with their LTRsWe found the opposite side of the coin! Can you please list some of these kinks. I believe the problem here is a filtering criteria mismatch. Essentially, kinky women try to pair-bond with men they shouldn't and they filter out men who would be great long term matches. This can be generalized in that most women's selection filtering mechanisms are poorly calibrated (too much societal interference and mixed messaging). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 11:30 AM |
| 3 | Women with promiscuous pasts who are sexually reserved/borderline asexual with their LTRsYou're also forgetting the cases where the woman still maintains her FWB relationship (this is the guy she will see during ovulation and a few days before) while making the potential boyfriend wait for sex. I am willing to bet every man here has experienced the following pattern: 1. Hit it off great, mutual attraction 2. 1 to 3 pleasurable dates in rapid succession (no sex). She may exhibit a dislike for inviting the potential bf over 3. Radio silence for about 5 to 8 days. Note: this is where h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Women with promiscuous pasts who are sexually reserved/borderline asexual with their LTRsBut the second guy has more to offer. So he is less attractive but higher value and thus the psychological torment of the male begins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 11:12 AM |
| 7 | Women with promiscuous pasts who are sexually reserved/borderline asexual with their LTRsThis is the behavior all men want women to own. When you get married and your sex life is shit, then you get divorced and your wife starts doing MFMs, anal and tons of kinks-- a man feels a great injustice. Women should find that guy that opens them up before getting married. There are way fewer demisexuals and asexuals than people are claiming and it is because of sexual incompatibility and inexperience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Women with promiscuous pasts who are sexually reserved/borderline asexual with their LTRsYou would have to define the vector of attraction. This is of the utmost importance. Again, I'll wait as you struggle to come up with a criteria. After 24 hours, I'll give you the answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 01:05 AM |
| – | Women with promiscuous pasts who are sexually reserved/borderline asexual with their LTRsWhat are the women initiated divorce rates again? I'll wait... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 12:04 AM |
| 0 | Women with promiscuous pasts who are sexually reserved/borderline asexual with their LTRsThat's supporting evidence. I'm in the middle of writing a book on the topic. There are many biological reasons as to why this behavior is common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 04:06 PM |
| 5 | Women with promiscuous pasts who are sexually reserved/borderline asexual with their LTRsYes, women doing wild things with ONS or FB but acting prude in a marriage is about 30% of the married population. Go check out the dead bedrooms reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 03:37 PM |
| -1 | I think men are being gaslighted when they're told that a man who has his shit together cannot find a younger woman to date.You can be a plain sub 5 millionaire-- we are talking 10+ million with a consistent financial endowment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 11:16 AM |
| 2 | I think men are being gaslighted when they're told that a man who has his shit together cannot find a younger woman to date.It WAS true 20 years ago. You're basically talking about super young millennials or gen z and the women do not care if YOUR shit is together. Besides, there are always younger guys that do have their stuff together and they basically have a harem (and the women know about each other but will remain fwb with no real commitment). Older women have also shown an aversion to older men. Many older women are financially successful and they are picking younger, generally well endowed men for companionsh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Why do some men seem to refuse facts to remain miserable?Yes, grey sweatpants are a thing. I'd make a distinction between a woman that is a 9 or 10. There is also a whole category of size queens and liberal women that are easily persuaded by a picture. You haven't seen work until you watch a 5.5 inch guy try to get laid. I may have broken a sweet just observing the struggle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/24 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do some men seem to refuse facts to remain miserable?You literally have Excalibur but no sword skills apparently. It is as simple as described. Maybe something else about you is off putting? Dig deep long fellow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/24 06:49 PM |
| – | Why do some men seem to refuse facts to remain miserable?There is a big difference between being 9+ inches and anything below that. Women won't admit it, but if you are that size you can literally just show a dck pic and most women are fine with you swinging by for a one nighter. If men this size could record the difference in reception by women, there would be mutiny in the street (by 90% of the male population). Your well endowed friends are quiet and polite cause they're smashing everything (this is why every woman you've met has had that one large… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?If you read my comment, I am not saying it is a general problem, rather, age gaps are the norm. The odd man out is the younger male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 09:47 PM |
| 0 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?Age gaps of 10+ years is your problem. Women love a 35 to 45 year old daddy type and that leaves most of you young men single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 08:35 AM |
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