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"My confidence has grown heaps, I'm happier than I've ever been and you can't put a price on that life-changing experience." And she has been excited to share her new experiences with friends and family. Hey mom, I visited a prostitute and it was great. Love you, bye.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 10:27 AM
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Men are glass cannons.
/r/MensRights23/04/23 09:55 PM
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ManKind Project International, in the informal health sector for mental health. I lead multiple circles in the Netherlands.
/r/MensRights17/11/22 09:59 PM
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I just finished reading Men's Issues and Mental Health, by Rob Whitley, excellent book and a good source of materials. I could share a download link with you if you wanted. DM me.
/r/MensRights23/06/22 08:59 PM
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I highly recommend the Mankind Project. I got to know the work in the USA and am now working with the group in the Netherlands.
/r/MensRights14/06/22 07:04 PM
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Fuck, I'm over 30 and I still can't learn this lesson.
/r/MensRights05/06/22 07:53 PM
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Focus on hard data. I just started reading Men's Issues and Mental Health, by Rob Whitley, excellent book so far and a good source of materials. I could share a download link with you if you wanted.
/r/MensRights31/05/22 03:15 PM
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Hold on so the emasculated men do or don't support the persecution of feminism?
/r/MensRights30/05/22 09:29 PM
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Doesn't getting laid as a good man imply getting married? You know, that institution that is supposed to harness male and female sexual energy for the good of society and ourselves? That thing that human societies have used as their basic building block, because it is good and right, and the best environment for children/the propagation of our species? Stewardship over the future? Sex outside of marriage was designated as a sin for a reason, I don't think the morality has changed even if the soc…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/22 10:15 PM
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Please explain
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 07:38 AM
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The answer to your questions is that energy then no longer is put into relationships/culture/society and the whole thing withers away as it is currently doing. There are good reasons for the old boundaries, most of them have to do with creating sustainable reproductive systems.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/21 08:18 PM
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Well as much as I enjoyed reading the mgtow2 sub, it's probably better that I spend my time elsewhere. Subs like this are next in line, don't kid yourself. The double standards are pretty incredible, but of course this is not news.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 06:44 PM
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It's tough because he is right about the statistics. In this case the exception proves the rule. This assuming that you have some confident understanding of what is required to raise a healthy, productive, happy son. This coming from me, still trying to decide if I want to have kids. Coming from a broken home, there are a lot of things I would have to learn in a short amount of time, and even if I knew where to find all such information, would it be enough to save me from the doom of repeating m…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 09:33 PM
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I'll offer an additional perspective on this but many times (health) professionals can't directly transfer their qualifications to the west and have to start at the bottom of the hierarchy at some advanced age. I knew people like this from Afghanistan who had come to western Europe and then have to deliver newspapers. The trope is real. By the way you can bet that this disrupts the family structure and the first thing that goes is control over the kids, who stray from the traditional path/cause …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 05:14 PM
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AMS?
/r/MGTOW202/07/21 08:48 AM
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I've seen it suggested that this path is not necessarily the healthiest way for children to be born/raised. I'm hesitant to say it here because I've seen many threads here with dudes who are hopeful at the prospect. I think people should adopt when/if they are able. Surrogacy is a can of worms ethically.
/r/MGTOW230/06/21 10:01 PM
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I googled the leadership gene. Not to say that genetics isn't a huge factor in human behavior, but based on my brief glance the link seems to be associative, a correlation. I think "Chicken boy" is a solid example example of how plastic the whole thing is. Not only that, but certain critical human behaviors must be learned, such as breastfeeding, suggesting that human culture (here meaning human behaviors and habits maintained among a group rather than on a purely genetic level) is definitely a …
/r/MGTOW227/06/21 09:24 PM
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I think it's very likely that early childhood/developmental programming provides the script for almost all the ways we live our lives, with the hormones/deep collective memory adding a drive in certain basic directions. When I think of my own life I can certainly see how I was either discouraged and encouraged one way or another to walk the life I have. Unfortunately I really only had my clueless and emotional mother, which explains why I'm on this sub and not raising children of my own.
/r/MGTOW227/06/21 08:51 PM
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How did you do it? What were the realizations? What were the steps forward?
/r/MGTOW222/06/21 12:01 PM
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That's why they get fat. They start getting fucked at 14 years old, trolling for dick in supermarket aisles. These are real facts. It's normal behavior for a human female of that age to want to fuck dudes, especially when nobody is keeping an eye on them and telling them not to. This is how it works in poor South American jungle villages and this is how it works here now, as well. Catch them before they realize that they should keep their mouth shut about it and they'll tell you all about it. An…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 10:38 PM
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Great way to put it. It's still hard for me to accept it and not be bothered by it. I could conceivably achieve some version of the family dream, it was what I wanted to do originally. After I spent time in higher education observing the culture and having fully understandood what the hell is going on, it has kind of lost its luster. I blew many chances to take a crack at the family life mostly because I was/still am ill prepared and inclined towards being 'responsible'. I still feel like I shou…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/21 10:53 PM
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You've got some wires crossed that need uncrossing. You're not broken and it's not impossible to improve your situation, it's just going to require some work, like everything else in life. I'm not sure what you mean by 'i have processed most of this', but you're going to have to access the trauma in your brain and process it with proper direction and probably with help from others. Find a good therapist (more like a good psychiatrist) or join a peer-mentorship men's group where you can talk abou…
/r/MGTOW225/05/21 09:24 PM
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What is even real anymore?
/r/MGTOW204/05/21 06:49 PM
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It's sad to see them struggle with it. They were not meant to be in charge, and don't want to be.
/r/MGTOW218/02/21 03:36 AM
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You wrote the same thing twice in your comment. Women need us. They cannot live without us and when they try it doesn't go well for them. Our natural given role is to provide for and protect them and our offspring. You're right in that those cultural values are not masculinity, merely and effect of masculinity. But those cultural values do in fact play a role in passing masculinity down (e.g. by creating a safe, productive space in the culture, away from women) from one generation to the next so…
/r/MGTOW216/02/21 01:23 PM
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This is the correct take. Masculinity is the practice of a specific set of cultural values. The decay of those values (thanks to changing circumstances in labor and culture) creates an emptiness that is currently being filled with the mind of woman. I've met the young Chads who these women want to fuck. Many of them are little boys, not yet men, not yet suited for responsibility, not yet settled in their life. Not fully developed. Some are abused by these women, who apparently have not been taug…
/r/MGTOW216/02/21 06:09 AM
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Unrelated but how are the Netherlands these days? I will be back this summer after having spent ten years in the USA. I'm hoping that what has happened here hasn't fully arrived there yet, but maybe I am too optimistic.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 03:48 PM
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I highly recommend the Mankind Project. I've been attending a group since 2015 or so and have gotten pretty involved in it. It's been a positive environment with opportunity for personal growth and leadership. If you're interested in finding out more let me know. I can even send you some materials, but nothing beats an in person circle with experienced men.
/r/MGTOW229/01/21 05:35 AM
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Can you explain this a little more? Is it taking pride in speaking the truth.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 07:27 PM
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I came real close to marrying in college. Thank god I stuck it out.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:27 PM
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Honestly dude I've been thinking about it recently and 've decided it's not worth talking about and that men who lie over small bullshit to get pussy are just regular, hard workin' dudes. I want to make it a game for myself, in any which way.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 05:46 AM
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I'm trying to do this alone. I know it can be done, but I'm scared I won't figure it out. I going to have to come up with my own discipline, my own rules, my own drive. I'm finishing up a PhD, but changing my psychology seems like a whole nother level. And I've got 5 years of therapy under my belt.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/20 03:00 AM
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Out of curiosity, what are the masculine values you're tying to practice?
/r/askTRP18/10/20 04:53 AM
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I'm already pretty jacked. I have a lot going for me I just have guilt and shame issues around enjoying certain things in life, like sex and intimacy. That's a good anti-nihilism pill though, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/20 02:07 AM
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We're close in age. I feel the same way. But remember that's just something you gotta get over. It's just self pity. You can't look back and regret or you'll spend your whole life doing that.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 03:45 AM
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Thanks bud. I was struggling to get off my couch and get my day started, the nihilism bites deep and I struggle with it, as do most of the men around me. I'm highly educated at 28 and have a lot going for me, even still I get trapped in the do-nothing swamp almost every day. I have dreams but most days I see them as pointless and not worth investing in. Worse still is that I don't take them seriously, like they are just flights of fancy, not serious life goals. You're right about it all being a …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/20 05:53 PM
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I bet that used to be hard to do back in the day even with support from society at large. Imagine how hard it must be now.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/20 03:39 AM
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I'm going to echo sportsman on this. I want in on the wisdom juice. I'm trying to talk to more men in your position since I'm headed your way.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 08:20 PM
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Explain how
/r/askTRP03/10/20 01:11 PM
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Chill the fuck out. Sit the with embarrassment for a bit and feel it out. This is the kind of thing you should learn to detach yourself from. Feeling shame is fine, acting on it should be done with extreme prejudice.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 04:04 AM
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I default to putting others first in my life. I have poor boundaries but I also derive a lot of fulfillment out of being generous. I have relied on covert contracts a lot in my relationships, mainly because I don't know how to ask for what I want without feeling guilty about it and freaking out. The story I have is that my mother has been very influential in my relationship to women and she has encouraged very blue pill behavior. I'm trying to sort out my values, mission, and options, but I'm ha…
/r/askTRP30/09/20 11:28 PM
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How do I get rid of the one that's already there? On this case it's my mother and her misguided brainwashing. The apron strings are firmly tied around my heart and neck.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 09:21 PM
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What about myself is by end goal, my purpose? And how do I balance that with what I want in regards to women?
/r/askTRP30/09/20 09:17 PM
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I'm stuck in a cycle that looks just like that. I know I must strike a balance, but I don't really understand how, and I have a tendency to try to run before I can walk.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/20 03:28 PM
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This really resonates with me and it feels like I am finally prepared for this knowledge. The body language thing strikes deep. I clench my jaw a lot and carry a lot of stress in places. I notice it being more severe in social settings. Do you recommend some books? I was going to look at the standard redpill body language books I've seen. The plan is for me to spend the next two weeks focusing on noticing how I show up in the world physically and adjust as necessary.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/20 03:27 PM
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One thing I just don't see mentioned is that the women around you might not be attractive enough for you. this is a real problem that I don't see talked about here very often. Today I realized I've stopped looking young women in the eye because they are fat and it makes me sad. Not very many of me but to be honest it's the kind of thing I just don't have patience for. If this is the problem either move or fight like hell to be around more attractive women locally.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 08:19 PM
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I get it. I guess I'm just having trouble accepting the work that comes with that, especially when I've already worked so hard to get where I am, and especially in the face of women's passivity towards the things I value.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 11:07 PM
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You're not wrong. But I'm not really into comforming to what women think about how culture should be.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 10:40 PM
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To be clear about it, I definitely feel fear around getting married. But I also feel that around not getting married. Feeling an emotion is not a sacrifice of power. Acting on that fear might be. I feel fear over a lot of things that I do anyway and I'm not incapable of acting despite the fear. Surely it could be that the message behind the fear is very valid and true. The hardest pill to swallow for me has been that in wanting a stable marriage that makes me happy I will need to fight a culture…
/r/askTRP24/09/20 01:22 PM
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No but I think the odds are less favorable than people seem to think. I know that red pill is about facilitating some outcome for yourself in that area of life, but I think we just don't have control over most of it. The many people in healthy marriages were coasting on a shared values system that is diminishing every day. Or shared trauma, which is just as good. I think it's reasonable for men to not want to be part of the failing institution of marriage, just like it's reasonable for women. Th…
/r/askTRP24/09/20 12:42 PM
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Because the cards are stacked against those who want to try. We're on an autistic internet forum for people who need to learn how to talk to girls. Managing a long term marriage is way harder than that and not something the internet has an answer to currently. Not be fatalistic here but having kids is literally giving women your power in most of the west.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 12:01 PM
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