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| 1 | What’s your “area of improvement” or “detractor” when it comes to attracting the person you want?I'm 25, for reference. Is it your face? High-tier normie Is it your height? 6'1 Is it your body type? I don't have a fantastic frame. I'm 160 lbs and ~14% BF probably. Is it your phenotype? No, I'm white with blue eyes. Is it your lack of facial hair or too much body hair? I have both, but no. Work too much? No. Work too little / no income? Yes, I'm unemployed. Lack of relatable hobbies/interests to those you want? Not an issue. Live in a culture that doesn’t align with your desires? No. Is it y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 02:23 AM |
| 3 | How much work does it take for the average man to get laid?I thought this was a larp until I read the account bio. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 03:18 AM |
| 2 | How much work does it take for the average man to get laid?I agree with NW1, but NW2 is definitely receded to the point of considering medication. I definitely do not have the same hairline as I did at 19. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 01:36 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of successful career men such as Bill Gates, Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, Mark Zuckerberg etc?Not when there's billions of dollars involved... Except she didn't have independent control over those billions of dollars until after the divorce. It's not like she was a major public figure or anything. Don't kid yourself. She's one of the richest women in the world now and is involved in major philanthropy. It would have been horrible for her public image to divorce without a public justification. Imagine if Melinda Gates divorced Bill for no reason other than "he's a good guy but he's old, u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 09:03 PM |
| -5 | What do you think of successful career men such as Bill Gates, Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, Mark Zuckerberg etc?Being financially "independent" versus financially tied to a man doesn't matter to women? She didn't divorce him "for cheating," she divorced him because she wanted to be financially independent and had the ability to do so (because he married her in the first place). The public cheating scandal provided a convenient justification to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 08:59 PM |
| -1 | What do you think of successful career men such as Bill Gates, Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, Mark Zuckerberg etc?She wasn't "independently" wealthy until after divorcing him. If she had no sexual interest in him, and was not having sex with him, is it not surprising that the richest man in the world would choose to not remain sexless? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 08:51 PM |
| 3 | What do you think of successful career men such as Bill Gates, Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, Mark Zuckerberg etc?How was Bezos screwed over by women? I certainly wouldn't finger-point at the women, but he was screwed over by his own stupidity with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 08:47 PM |
| -2 | What do you think of successful career men such as Bill Gates, Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, Mark Zuckerberg etc?There was nothing Bezos could do to avoid divorce rape... Do you think his wife wanted to have sex with him? His cheating on her was a "blessing in disguise" because it gave her an excuse to divorce and become one of the richest women in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 08:46 PM |
| 9 | How much work does it take for the average man to get laid?I'm a Norwood 2 at 25, which is definitely receded. It's not uncommon at all... Go look at /r/tressless and any of the male Looks forums. The average male has already experienced some level of recession by 25. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 07:56 PM |
| 4 | [Q4All] Do you think it's men or women who mostly engage in small penis shaming?When I played high school sports, we used to make nicknames related to each other's dicks ("mushroom head," "U-turn," "uncut," etc.). One of my friends had a stunted puberty (probably due to a DHT deficiency) and had a small dick as a result. It was definitely pointed out, but the teasing was minimal. So while it's definitely true that men learn about having a small penis through other men, most men do not care whether somebody else has a small penis. Most of the shame comes from the rejection b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 07:51 PM |
| 4 | If most men would rather be fuckboys than have LTR, does that mean most men in LTRs are "settling", are not genuinely attracted to their partner, and would leave her instantly if he got ample casual sex opportunities?Not in the same way that women typically "settle." Women "settle" with a more reliable man after experiencing sexual thrills from unreliable men. A majority of men never have their sexual expectations "spoiled," they simply get what they get in the form of a LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 03:54 PM |
| 2 | On a scale of 1-10 how proud of yourself/happy do you feel if your wife/gf is hotter than another man's wife/gf?I've never been and have no intention of getting married, so I cannot give my personal opinion. If I had to give a number that represents most men, I would say 5. I see women in here saying that the man's ability to pull an attractive woman will affect his response, which is probably true. For reference, I'm a high-tier normie. However, what matters more than her physical attractiveness is her behavior (especially her sexual past) when it comes to a committed relationship (even within the "male … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 03:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: it isn't that every woman is attracted to Dark Triad behaviors, but, for those who are, it is the best way to get positive expressions of sexual interest, causing these women to be overrepresented in discussions about male sexual strategyYes, especially considering Dark Triad traits are sexually attractive to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/21 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Did women choose to join harems during the neolithic era?It's a tale as old as time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 04:59 PM |
| 1 | 1 in 5 Americans has an STDYes, I meant a lack of viable sexual options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 04:58 PM |
| 2 | CMV: it isn't that every woman is attracted to Dark Triad behaviors, but, for those who are, it is the best way to get positive expressions of sexual interest, causing these women to be overrepresented in discussions about male sexual strategyWhy would I risk my safety and reputation with a bad boy for a (not even guaranteed) “viscerally exciting sexual experience” with a man...? Many (young) women don't know any better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 04:25 PM |
| 6 | CMV: it isn't that every woman is attracted to Dark Triad behaviors, but, for those who are, it is the best way to get positive expressions of sexual interest, causing these women to be overrepresented in discussions about male sexual strategyI suppose I'm disagreeing with the NAWALT aspect of your post. I'm arguing that practically 100% of women are sexually attracted to Dark Triad behaviors. It simply isn't uncommon for women to end up in relationships with men who are potentially less sexually attractive than they could be (lacking Dark Triad traits) out of expectations of stability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 12:45 AM |
| 16 | CMV: it isn't that every woman is attracted to Dark Triad behaviors, but, for those who are, it is the best way to get positive expressions of sexual interest, causing these women to be overrepresented in discussions about male sexual strategyit isn't that every woman is attracted to Dark Triad behaviors For practical application, all women are, to some extent. However, a minority of women have the awareness/intuition to avoid these behaviors in an attempt to maintain stable/secure relationship(s) with men. These women skip the "bad boy" stage of life, often at the cost of never experiencing a viscerally exciting sexual experience with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 12:34 AM |
| 4 | Did women choose to join harems during the neolithic era?During the neolithic era, 17 women reproduced for every man that reproduced. The article you linked is incorrect. The effective female population was 17 times larger than the effective male population. The study only considered effective population size estimated based on genetic diversity. Most estimates imply a 2:1 ratio. Did the women have any choice to reproduce with the wealthiest few men? Wealth (provisioning) is only part of the picture. Females are biologically predisposed to breed with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 12:20 AM |
| 3 | 1 in 5 Americans has an STDWhat...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 11:39 PM |
| 1 | 1 in 5 Americans has an STDShe was just pointing out that those so-called Petri dishes are still getting sex and relationships from men Not necessarily because men "like petri dishes" though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 11:35 PM |
| 4 | 1 in 5 Americans has an STDIf you'd rather fuck petri dishes than go without getting your dick wet I don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 11:30 PM |
| 1 | 1 in 5 Americans has an STDIt literally doesn’t say anything like that. That's correct, it literally doesn't. Using your logic, I'm not sure why it could be concluded that men "like petri dishes." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 11:29 PM |
| 3 | 1 in 5 Americans has an STDEven if they asked, their patient would have to agree to going through with the test. I'm in my mid-20s and have never been to a urologist (and I doubt many other men my age have). It seems like most women my age have already routinely been seeing a gynecologist though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 11:25 PM |
| 9 | 1 in 5 Americans has an STDThis reinforces the possibility that many men may not necessarily like "petri dishes," but end up with them due to a lack of viable options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 11:17 PM |
| 3 | 1 in 5 Americans has an STDI’m not a man so I can’t comment on how the average testing cycle for men Some doctors ask during your annual physical, but I've seen multiple doctors as an adult and not all of them ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 11:07 PM |
| 2 | 1 in 5 Americans has an STDAs opposed to virgins? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 11:02 PM |
| 5 | Men would hate it if women had a male sexuality.Males commit to a single female in the absence of other viable sexual options (this is the case for a majority of men). Males that have an abundance of viable female sexual options (a small minority of men) are significantly less likely to commit to any single female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/21 10:41 AM |
| 0 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerwho has much energy left? Apparently the men, who still want to have sex despite also being stressed out. Also, you're acting like none of those factors apply at the start of the relationship when women are significantly more likely to be interested in sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 11:37 AM |
| 2 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerOr miserable Ohioans and Tennesseans, apparently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 09:39 AM |
| 11 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerThat’s true with men to... Did you not read the post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 09:23 AM |
| 0 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerDid you not read the post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 09:22 AM |
| 2 | "Women are more mature" as a trope can mostly be explained by different experiences during puberty?Females physically and mentally develop sooner than males, so yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/21 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Question about divorce ratesDoes your value as a romantic partner to people in their 20s and 30s decrease? Well no shit. But that's not someone's value as a human being. The discussion was about what older women offer to men for marriage prospect, not their value as a human being. You're making a strawman argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/21 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade?Every stat out there shows a lifetime average partner count of 6. Sounds about right. If you're one of those "wahmen lie they all do gangbangs!!" people Nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade?Using your numbers, 28-4 = 24 (the age when they met before marriage). Now we're left to wonder what the average woman was up to before age 24! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade?Unexpectedly? How so? I said that it is expected (not unexpected) for you to contribute as a father. That is what I've wanted since I can remember. Find someone, fall madly in love, young. Have a family together and grow old. Sounds like you succeeded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade?And young single mothers are non-existent among urban professionals. That's hyperbolic (but close enough to reality), but the list you quoted includes a lot more women than just single mothers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade?Probably not. Based on divorce statistics, their wives would probably be the ones leaving them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade?Even excluding that niche demographic, I can assure you that the majority of men tend to end up with "those women." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade?Who initiated the divorce? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 07:11 PM |
| -1 | Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade?My wife and I genuinely want what is best for each other without one of us trying to maneuver to a superior advantage. Your wife wants the best for her and the children, and you're expectedly contributing to that as a father. Good luck with the book. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade?Normal men already know not to date these women. What's your definition of "normal?" The majority of men tend to end up with "those women." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade?My wife has proposed me take a year or two from work and write a book when our kids are a little older. Why not right now? Do you want to write a book? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 06:49 PM |
| -1 | Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade?If I thought that would make some kind of systemic difference in our relationship I wouldn't be with her. This didn't answer my question. Fortunately for you, it sounds like you have good career options so my question may never realistically apply, but I wouldn't be surprised if you end up working for industry sometime in the future... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade?If you took a significant pay cut and started making less than her what do you think would happen to your marriage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade?Tbf I don’t even think verified TRPers would align themselves with the black pill and incel and forever woe is me types. What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade?Didn't you mention that you divorced prior to your current marriage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade?What other category of men would actually be marrying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Question about divorce ratesImagine thinking that as you go through aging, an inescapable process, you lose value as a human being... You don't think that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Question about divorce ratesMany other women on here would not as easily admit this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Question about divorce rateshadn't lived with 7 boyfriends Why would this matter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Question about divorce ratesAll that dude wants a is a fuck doll, that’s why he phrased it like that. Ignore. /u/Technical_Block1172 is a woman... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Question about divorce ratesI don't understand what you're saying. That statistic is the average failure rate of marriages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Question about divorce ratesThe first time divorce rate (about 40% posted above) is more relevant. It's only relevant for determining the statistical success of the first marriage, as I explained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 09:45 AM |
| 2 | Question about divorce ratesOkay so you agree it makes sense to use the composite rate for second marriages No, I don't agree with that. For assessing the success rate of second marriages, it only makes sense to use the failure rate for second marriages. but argue against using the isolated rate for first marriages 33%? I'm arguing against using the failure rate of first marriages for determining whether it's smart to go down the path of marriage at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 06:23 AM |
| 10 | Question about divorce ratesFor those who are not married and deciding to get married, the first marriage is more relevant. First marriage statistics are only relevant to the success of the first marriage, not whether choosing to go down the path of marriage (having never been married) is a good decision. For those who’ve already done it before and got divorced, the 50% is more relevant. No, because the 50% rate is the composite statistic. Using your logic, you would use rate of failure for second marriages at that point (… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 05:01 AM |
| 10 | Question about divorce ratesThis logic is misleading. The composite rate is still relevant to those who are not married for deciding whether they should ever get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Do men generally prefer women with sexual experience or those who save themselves?A whore is somebody who is directly paid for having sex... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 09:43 AM |
| 1 | N-Count MegathreadDo you intentionally seek out manlets or is it just a coincidence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 08:49 AM |
| 1 | N-Count MegathreadProbably not to most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 08:45 AM |
| 4 | N-Count Megathreadthere has always only been virgin and not-virgin And when I say this people think I'm weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 08:40 AM |
| 1 | N-Count MegathreadHow tall are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 08:26 AM |
| 2 | N-Count MegathreadBut will you have sex with a man who isn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Do men generally prefer women with sexual experience or those who save themselves?Most men do not want a woman who acts and thinks like a whore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 07:49 AM |
| 9 | Do men generally prefer women with sexual experience or those who save themselves?This is the most adequate answer. This thread could use a Q4Men tag, otherwise OP is just going to get gaslit by PPD women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 07:29 PM |
| 6 | Do men generally prefer women with sexual experience or those who save themselves?It's oxymoronic to be both a virgin and a whore. The prevalent male desire is for a virgin who has sexual interest (in men). Considering all women start as virgins, that isn't rare or even remotely comparable to the "Prince Charming" delusion. The only delusion is expecting to find a sexually-interested virgin woman past a certain age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Do men generally prefer women with sexual experience or those who save themselves?The “virgin whore” fantasy is about as prevalent It isn't prevalent at all since it's an oxymoron. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Do men generally prefer women with sexual experience or those who save themselves?I was also "virgin shamed" by my first boyfriend, who wasn't just a guy looking to fuck but was a ltr/marriage minded person lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever been bullied by the opposite sex?Ideal female height Imagine if guys got bullied by girls for having a big dick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 02:24 PM |
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