Palminator Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Why are men often so short sighted they sabotage themselves? This! The sex isn’t even good. It’s ick and super cringe.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/22 12:43 AM
50	Exactly why do women hate on each other? (Especially for seemingly no reason?) I had a female friend of 10+ years who turned on me after a ONS with a male friend of mine. The female friend started making backhanded comments, became “the devil’s advocate” in everything I said, and became very competitive with my other female friends. I had to block and delete her.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/03/22 02:42 PM
6	Ladies, any tips on how to identify if you’re ready to date, especially coming out of a long term toxic relationship? “Scrotation” so perfect!! 💯💯💯💯	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/22 06:57 AM
9	I love it when scrotes just perfectly illustrate why we need FDS. This is the type of guy you will weed out with the "unreasonable" rules he mentions Ugly men ARE the worst. They get you to fall for their victim stories/mentality and you feel bad for rejecting them, even letting them down ever so gently. But, please do reject them. Because in relationships, they have proven to be the most callous and cruel.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/22 03:56 PM
100	Forever girlfriends turned wives “…a man who dislikes you at best and hates you at worst” So true and so sad! I am so confused as to HOW they could flip in .02 seconds and act like they hate you, practically SUPER hate you…but still want to be around? Why do they hate us so much? It’s very disheartening.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/22 06:40 AM
15	"b-but I'm homeless king" He needs money because his enemies are after him…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/22 04:47 AM
29	Don't let any entitled male tell you that you need to be desperate for male attention. This mess is Exhibit A for what they want women to believe about their chances of meeting a man. Don't lower your standards. I laughed harder than I thought I would at “Die mad ugly”. BAHAhahaha	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/22 06:16 AM
11	Do not go back where you did not belong — your shitty, abusive ex will never change for the better. The “ick” you need to feel to get over them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/22 05:37 AM
7	When they tell you to settle for the guy’s attractiveness and the moment he levels up, he dumps you. Thank you for the article. It was quite insightful!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/22 06:32 AM
4	Share your methods! How do you reach out to ask for help? I completely agree! You have to be direct with men, and not go into over-explaining. I have learned that succinct, direct commands work best.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/22 06:45 PM
24	Share your methods! How do you reach out to ask for help? Pre-FDS, I used to never ask for help and ask for things/wants/needs/desires indirectly. It was passive-aggressive and manipulative! Pre-FDS example: Me, wanting coffee: Do you want coffee? Bf or friends: No, thank you. Me: (seething inside bc no one asked me if I want coffee…ends up not getting coffee but is pissed the entire day) Post FDS: Me: Hey, I might need your help later with this project/etc… Can I call you? This has helped tremendously! Edit: sorry for the format. I’m on mobile ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/22 12:28 AM
11	Facts Dont Care About Feelings: Study reveals men and men alone are worse off when theyre alone or suffer from divorce/breakups. Women are unaffected Right…they lost their endless supply of mommy/free therapist/bangmaid…and now they can’t function. This is their weaponized incompetence working against them. Lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/01/22 04:25 AM
24	Thank you thank you FDS Me, pre-FDS!! “I will be the BEST gf he’s ever had!” 🤢🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/22 09:17 PM
36	Flip the script Weaponized incompetence	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/22 04:43 AM
15	Never stop vetting! Even after being faithful to your partner for 8 years, he could still think that he can do better and want to bang other women. Scrotes like this just want to get their dick wet and are never satisfied no matter how spectacular their gf is. This is 💯💯💯. Men don’t seem to learn from other’s mistakes (or their own). Don’t ever settle and don’t stop vetting.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/22 09:16 PM
4	What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”? Yes, exactly. It was extremely creepy bc they responded/laughed/gasped at the exact same moments in the stories each time…it was like Groundhog Day with them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/12/21 06:43 AM
47	What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”? I dated a NVM (30s) …he and his NVparents would always talk about his HS basketball days. They would get together at least twice a year for a week or so, and tell the exact same basketball stories, verbatim, multiple times a week…as if it they had new audiences. The same stories…twice a year…verbatim.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/12/21 04:10 AM
113	Avoidantly attached men like to pretend securely or anxiously attached women are “needy” when avoidants are actually very, VERY needy. When you need emotional support = “you’re such a burden now”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/21 05:23 AM
99	Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds. Could it be…that men are the ones who are…overly sensitive?!!! Bahahahhaa	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/21 06:58 PM
16	You’ll thank yourself later “…Belief in a future heaven creates at present hell.”-Eckhart Tolle, The Power of Now. Context: Ideologies of rigid religious belief systems and extreme nationalism He wasn’t speaking about relationships but I think it’s worth noting. Don’t put up with a dusty for the slight hope of him “turning” into HV.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/11/21 02:55 PM
36	Am I codependent or do I have a strong intuition? “Throw him back and move on”. Yesss! Don’t be Barb the Builder. His foundation is not solid.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/11/21 07:14 PM
47	Share your experiences with violent homeless men. I'll start: he punched me in the face on public transport... I hope so, too! It was really scary bc it was immediate and forceful.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/11/21 03:29 AM
71	Share your experiences with violent homeless men. I'll start: he punched me in the face on public transport... I completely agree! He was awesome! Most would be George from Seinfeld, saving only themselves! 🤡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/11/21 03:28 AM
203	Share your experiences with violent homeless men. I'll start: he punched me in the face on public transport... My college bf and I were in SF and were approached by a homeless man, asking for money. My bf was in the process of giving him money and I decided to give some too. I was reaching in my purse and the homeless man grabbed my arm and violently pulled on my arm (I received a visible 5 finger bruise for days after). I froze. My bf grabbed the homeless man by the neck and flung him to the wall, then grabbed him (by the neck again) and threw him to the ground. The homeless man then called me a b*tch ……	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/11/21 02:01 AM
41	Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens. I like this example of manipulation. I tend to forget that THEY create the anxiety so that you are visibly relieved when they show bare minimum/no-low effort attempts at anything. I’m now thinking back about how I lovingly accepted that behavior … 🤮🤢🤮🤢	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/11/21 05:02 PM
8	Take your SO to a haunted house and see what happens. This scene immediately came to mind after reading the post! George…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/21 09:57 PM
43	Men Who are Still Friends With their Exes It’s a no from me too. My ex was “friendly” with his ex but claimed she was mean and horrible. One evening, she FaceTimed him while I was there but she didn’t know I was sitting next to him. They chatted as if I wasn’t there. He complimented her on her hair and she started pulling her tank top down seductively. I put a stop to that wtf convo and the relationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/21 05:34 AM
47	How to you feel about the idea that "most men don't marry the woman they love the most. They marry the woman that’s around when they’re ready to marry." “Tiffany from Homeroom” lololol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/21 03:48 AM
11	Make sure you are his first option. Men can fake and pretend you’re his #1 because they’re lonely, when in fact you aren’t the one they want. 🤮🤮🤮indeed!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 07:11 PM
68	Make sure you are his first option. Men can fake and pretend you’re his #1 because they’re lonely, when in fact you aren’t the one they want. I feel like men always tell on themselves. Eventually (truly sooner than later), they will say something reminiscent of “the one who got away”. Example: My ex used to do this. My ex hated strawberries. My ex loved that color, too. Block and delete	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 06:14 AM
14	Make sure you are his first option. Men can fake and pretend you’re his #1 because they’re lonely, when in fact you aren’t the one they want. So good!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 06:08 AM
25	When he says you're out of his league... time for you to tell him bye. This is so eye opening! You’re 1000000000% correct	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/21 06:34 AM
2	For women of color/ minorities, be extra careful of fetishization or familial racism Yes, cringe!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/21 04:42 AM
10	For women of color/ minorities, be extra careful of fetishization or familial racism A narcissist NVM ex’s mom was very racist towards me, the entire time. She asked at every freaking meal if I wanted chopsticks, rice, noodles, translation, to see my papers, etc… no matter what we were eating. He wasn’t any better since he egged her on and they would throw their heads back and laugh together. So happy to have met you ladies!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/21 12:11 AM
46	Why do so many pick mes discard close female friendships once they get into a relationship? How do we not internalize getting discarded by them? My sisters do this. My sisters will ask for advice/help/signs/everything when they’re having issues with their men. If I tell them their men are LVM/NVM, they ghost me. And when they reappear, defeated and taken advantage of, they always say, “I didn’t know. It’s not my fault.” So over it. Sometimes I wish I was an only child.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/08/21 12:41 AM
24	What’s your best FDS quote? Bahaha	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/21 05:48 AM
28	What’s your best FDS quote? 1000000000%	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/21 05:46 AM
1	Never open up about your traumas until you know he's a HVM. Even then, be careful. I’m on mobile. I apologize for the format I think this is the post https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/o4cn1k/blood_in_the_water_a_custom_made_tactic/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/21 08:04 PM
3	Never open up about your traumas until you know he's a HVM. Even then, be careful. Thank you! I’m definitely going to test this earlier next time!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 04:49 AM
16	Never open up about your traumas until you know he's a HVM. Even then, be careful. I told my ex (of 3yrs) that I was experiencing anxiety and depression for the first time due to the Covid quarantine. His response, “Wow…you’re such a burden now. I don’t even want to talk to you anymore”. My advice is to be vulnerable early to vet them. I broke up with him immediately after that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 03:38 AM
72	The comments all say "men are dumb, he's being practical" but completely disregard what this means for how he values his hobbies over his girlfriend. Smh Bahahaha I love this thread	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 12:26 AM
43	If Miranda was a man, no one would have viewed him as the villain. Same! I hated all of her selfish friends and definitely the useless boyfriend	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/07/21 07:45 AM
3	Gets particularly spicy when you have screenshots or other material to prove what he did✨ My ex screamed, like eardrum shattering screaming, that he was “HORRIFIED AT THIS TREATMENT”,… I was just reading his texts back to him bc he changed his mind about something and denied it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/21 05:44 AM
2	Why Does He Do That? Answer: Because he can Thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/07/21 06:45 AM
6	Learning to Say "No" and Learning to Ask for What you Want The book “The Gift of Fear” is amazing. I highly recommend it! Trust your instincts! https://www.amazon.com/dp/0440226198/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_imm_QMSH4BB61440Q39TFEXG	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/06/21 11:12 PM
6	Learning to Say "No" and Learning to Ask for What you Want This is wonderful! Thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/06/21 11:08 PM
7	From me, to all you ladies Thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/06/21 03:31 AM
3	UPDATE: I got a job! (From: "I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit") Congratulations!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/21 05:08 AM
1	Yes you CAN be intimidatingly beautiful and that's why scrotes don't approach you (a blessing in disguise)! I wear Kendra Scott jewelry everyday. https://www.kendrascott.com	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/05/21 09:45 PM
6	"Sit down with him and have a conversation" Don’t “sit him down”. I did this and he said I was too sensitive and he needed a “rock” but was 100% unable to be a “rock” for me	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/05/21 01:35 AM