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| -3 | Chivalry is dead and rightly soAgreed. Why is an older man somehow less capable than a woman? | /r/MGTOW | 13/03/19 03:15 AM |
| 3 | Guys who bulk up in an attempt to get laid are insecure beta malesAbsolutely that happens. But that's one guy you know. He can't stand to represent a population. Confidence doesn't have a set "shape" or "form" I'll concede. To reply to an anecdote with an anecdote, the way I look now does have something to with my pickup ability, while had zero, maybe even negative ability in my teens. As for the psychopathy that's once again one of many different traits that may help (see Machiavellianism, Narcissism). And beyond that there's a myriad of types of game. Some g… | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 07:51 PM |
| 4 | Guys who bulk up in an attempt to get laid are insecure beta malesBecause I disagree with you. | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Guys who bulk up in an attempt to get laid are insecure beta malesgroan I was 15 when I started working out. Under 120 pounds, braces, glasses, the whole nine yards. Nerdy, needy, nice guy. I was bullied often growing up because I was smaller than everyone else. Becoming physically fit impacted my confidence positively. What I want to know is why are you seeking value so hard right now? I'm guessing you texted a girl every day for a week with no reply telling her she's beautiful, then on the seventh day you called her a stupid slut and then saw on her insta th… | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 07:24 PM |
| 5 | Guys who bulk up in an attempt to get laid are insecure beta malesPersonally, I started "bulking up" (can tell you're not into health and fitness just by you saying that) because I was concerned with my health once I was no longer playing the sports I grew up playing. The gym became a replacement of sorts for hockey, soccer, lacrosse, etc.. I kept healthy, and as a byproduct of this, I grew more confident with men and women alike. Has my physical fitness directly affected my pickup ability? Probably not. Has it overall affected my pickup ability and self-effic… | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 07:15 PM |
| 2 | She said she had "happy hour plans". I've never had them my self but Is it by her self, guy, girl or what?Is.. is this a joke? | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 07:15 AM |
| 2 | Quick advice on girlONEitis. Edit: To expand - you got yourself deep into a hole here, not the kind we want though. It's likely too late to change the situation, she's confided in you about being with another guy. Only hope is to vacuum (leave her alone and see what happens) for a short while. Good luck | /r/seduction | 06/04/18 10:13 PM |
| 8 | How to approach groups at bars?Group dynamics can be tricky, read the Mystery Method. Mystery provides everything needed to open groups | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 03:31 AM |
| 14 | Church gamehope you're ready to be penetrated by the holy spirit | /r/seduction | 04/04/18 09:11 PM |
| 3 | Wanting the community’s opinion on this^ yes. While you can get her back, why on earth would you? Learn from your mistakes. Move on. | /r/seduction | 04/04/18 03:25 AM |
| 4 | Hey Gurl, what's popping in your Dating Life?~sigh don't ask that. Why should you care? Why should she care, and why should she answer? If you're asking this question, then you better offer to bring finger sandwiches for her and the other guys to snack on after sex, because that's a gay best friend question. | /r/seduction | 04/04/18 03:16 AM |
| 6 | How do I be more confident, if I’m not too good looking?To expand on this: don't worry about what you haven't got, you may never change those things. Be concerned with what you do have, and improving what you actually can change; work on eye contact, tone of voice, and cheeky grins. Have a good sense of humor? Focus on that. Learn about an abundance mindset, and work on it. Looks aren't as important as many would think. And of course, as said above: just be confident man! | /r/seduction | 29/03/18 02:53 AM |
| 4 | Approaching girls with friends at clubs?The Mystery Method is a tried, tested, and true model. Is it foolproof? Absolutely not. But it shows how to deal with all different types of sets, how integrate into a group, isolate properly, good closing, and everything in between. Like I said: learn the basics. Read The Game, The Mystery Method, and (though they are very different) the London Daygame model. Too often is poor advice given on the seddit; go straight to the source of information. | /r/seduction | 23/03/18 06:53 PM |
| 4 | Approaching girls with friends at clubs?Learn your basics; learn the Mystery Method. | /r/seduction | 23/03/18 06:28 PM |
| 11 | Athletic swag or bad boy swag?Well for one, don't say swag so much | /r/seduction | 26/02/18 07:53 PM |
| 5 | FR - Czech me out! Get in hereThis is good. That's what it's all about, my man | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Best resources/videos to learn how to Day Game at college?Best daygame resource is Tom Torero's podcast. | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 09:37 AM |
| 2 | PUA literature and status. ProblemGo back to basics. For material, read The Game by Neil Strauss. That's what started all this in 2005. Listen to Tom Torero's podcast, it's full of great insight, and not packed with the garbage that floats around too often (self help, good guy trash). The most honest truth is that whether you go out and day game, do gutter game, or night game- you need to go out and start approaching girls. It sucks at the start, but it's also exhilarating. You worrying about social status, money, or anything el… | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 09:31 AM |
| 4 | girls on campus residencesWith that attitude she'll think you're a creep. Start approaching girls. 6-7 mostly and figure your social cues. Get it down, get a couple lays and get your head in order. Then talk to her and you'll be amazed when she doesn't think you're a creep. | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 09:21 AM |
| 3 | One thing that is sure to happen if you don't approachLike some of the best day-gamers in the world say: do at least 10 approaches every session. Your first 2-3 will be stiff, too in-your-head, and clumsy. After that breaks off, they get better and better. | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 09:13 AM |
| 2 | What is a "high value" guy in regards to getting hot girls?"Value" is a term to describe a social construct. The social construct is one of security - or at least the concept of security; indeed, social security, financial security, and self-security are three big flags of value. If a man makes a great deal of money, but has poor spending habits and is a recluse, he may not be of as high value as is possible for him. Excelling in these categories (showing social influence, affluence, and high self-esteem) is the way to convey high value to not just wome… | /r/seduction | 19/02/18 08:56 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Screwed it up and interference in the setAwesome job on the approach man, a couple things could use some tightening. For starters: you need a new wingman. If you're out with a friend, problem 3 should be -more often than not - at the very least delayed by your friend. Being out with a friend that understands social dynamics you would have had a better run. Covering her surname when showing you her name may be anonymity thing, or could be a shit test (obvious that it works). Could counter with a neg. I wouldn't recommend snatching the c… | /r/seduction | 16/02/18 12:17 AM |
| 5 | Girl invites me to her house for art, idk what to do. Noob here.Lifestyles, Trojan, magnum, any condom will do it | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 10:29 PM |
| 7 | Girl invites me to her house for art, idk what to do. Noob here.Condom will fit. Really. And yes we mean facials, just take it slow at your pace, read the situation and let your body do the work, not your brain | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 10:23 PM |
| 26 | Girl invites me to her house for art, idk what to do. Noob here.Buy condoms, that's for sure. On point with the teasing, art can get a little messy, use that to your advantage - easy kino escalation. You both have intent going in, all you have to do is be casual about it. Play your cards right and you could end up with some face painting, my dude | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 10:13 PM |
| 3 | ice skating date coming upSkating is an awesome date, let me tell you why: Assuming you are a decent skater, simply moving around on the ice is fluid, like dancing. And if there's one thing women love more than fucking, it's dancing. Now whether she's good or bad at skating, it's easy to use it for kino escalation; maybe she's a poor skater, and needs some guidance, or maybe she's an experienced skater and wants to race, challenge, try to get you off your feet etc... There are so little negatives to skating my man, this … | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 10:05 PM |
| 196 | I had thought boxing would make me more confident when approaching girls and talking to them. Now I just don't need that.On the contrary, this is an awesome success story for the subreddit; you sir just figured out your inner game. That's the point of it all: I don't need it, but I'm here anyway so fuck it let's see where this one goes. You're living abundantly, well done | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Trouble between texting and face to face talkingSounds like she's just playing hot and cold with you my dude. You want to deal with her mostly in person, line up that date right away. She doesn't want to text, she wants to talk. Use that, work the kino, and it'll go way more smoother than talking to a "yup" wall. | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Performance anxiety is a bitch.Don't worry about it, don't be ashamed of it. It happens to the best of us. I personally carry some viagra with my condoms in case I drink too much or generally need some help. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 05:25 AM |
| 4 | How do I stop pressuring myself to get laid in college?I second this, and to build on it: stop expecting more from yourself. Just do things that make you happy, where you feel comfortable; find your element and thrive within it, then start to build outwards and challenge yourself. Success with women should be a side-effect of being more self-confident and abundant, not the other way around. | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 04:15 AM |
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