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31

10000% my NV-ex used to tell me in the beginning what a nice guy he was. Shocker; he wasn’t nice at ALL. He was straight up abusive. My HVM now never had to tell me how great he was/is. His actions tell me; every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 12:42 PM
20

So he thinks women should be barking orders in bed because men can’t listen.. what a weird way for him to announce he’s absolute shit in bed. I mean I’ll tell you once or twice I like this or that to be done slow or whatever but i’m not gonna keep saying it dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 01:52 PM
3

In what world is that a “prank”?! He’s an idiot and you don’t need no idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 12:32 AM
32

Most men in general are awful in bed. Porn has given this idea that women should come with minimal effort and that if they can’t make a woman cum it’s her fault. No dude; it’s you. Women need to stop faking it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 01:42 AM
53

The thing that gets me is that men are VERY vocal about disparaging women’s vaginas. How many times have you heard things along the lines of: loose, meat curtains, smelly, unshaven etc.. Sorry but you can’t have it both ways! I’m allowed want a dick bigger and thicker than my thumb you hypocrites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 01:18 PM
94

He’s the guy that drives an ‘02 Camry, lives with 2 roommates and is worried about being taken advantage of by gOLd DiGGeRs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 10:18 PM
6

“STARTING TO THINK”... Oh. Come. On.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:28 PM
13

I laughed out loud at this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:08 PM
5

Ya that’s exactly what’s it sounds like “I tried talking to other women and the turned me down. So now i’m back trying to manipulate you again”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:11 AM
1

It’s all women hating shit but if you say anything to retort you’ll get ganged up on and called stupid. It doesn’t bother me but I thought the whole purpose of PPD was debate..guess it’s just where red pill, black pill and incels can come together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 05:43 PM
5

I woke up to a warning from purple pill debate for calling out a guy on his “nice guy” post and participating in this sub, blah blah blah, manipulation, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:23 PM
2

This post is definitely all about “nice guys”. That’s what you are. If you don’t like it change.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 12:42 AM
2

You proved my point for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 11:05 PM
2

Men who say stuff like this are typically not good men themselves. They say they are and they love to lament their plight but typically they are toxic assholes who lack any self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:59 PM
11

I’m guessing he’s punching above his weight and doesn’t appreciate how women aren’t willing to date down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 02:53 AM
5

Was he expecting you to buy him Starbucks?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 02:07 AM
74

You’re 100% still a virgin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 03:10 PM
7

Dude you JUST told her your situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:08 AM
6

Why not just find someone aligned with your way of thinking? And on top of that what exactly is she getting out of this by “turning” her husband?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 10:00 PM
58

Years ago when I did online dating (before dating sites you had to match to talk) basically chatted to this same kinda guy. He didn’t put any of it in his profile but once we started talking he had 4 kids from his previous marriage and could understand why a 22 year old wasn’t interested in 40 year old him and being a step mom to all those kids. AND he also basically told me I should be happy to give up the opportunity to have children of my own because he’d had a vasectomy and his kids would be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:46 AM
5

She’s probably waiting for commitment or exclusivity before sex. Have you talked to her about this? She’s playing it smart and safe; she’s clearly not the type to sleep around. If you want sex make it exclusive if your not willing to do that then your stuck where you’re at and you should both move on after 8 months. If she sees you as a player then ya that probably why she’s waiting for some kind of talk that your interested and with her and only her.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/20 11:16 AM
19

Ill take Shit that never happened for $1000 Alex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 02:01 AM
52

Nothing makes up for a shit personality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 04:42 PM
134

Ahh ok short and roided out. Ya that’s a bad combo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 03:02 PM
54

How ugly are we talking 2,3,4?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:44 PM
29

I actually remember my Grandma saying something similar ish; saying, my Grandpas money was the family money and the money she made (from sewing, odd jobs etc. She never really worked outside the home much) was her money and she’s treat herself to wherever she wanted; a lipstick or a dress. This always stood out to me even when I was a small child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 03:49 AM
81

He was in a relationship for 5 years but didn’t love her..either he’s lying in the hopes that you’ll go full on Pickmesha and try to love him like he thinks he deserves or he’s telling the truth and just admitted he’s willing to waste 5 years of your life, lead you on and lie to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 03:07 AM
6

I mean didn’t he see your pictures before? Like what is he even getting at?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 03:02 AM
29

I saw the original post and thought the same thing. She also mentions that women never give them a hard time about it but all I could think was that ya I wouldn’t say anything but I’d be thinking what a desperate woman she was. The egg don’t chase the sperm lady.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 03:03 AM
10

The sheer audacity of this man. If he was really sorry he would have given her anything she had asked for without hesitation; especially because it for his children. They shouldn’t suffer because of him and his choices. Plus that bs about how he’s worked to forgive her, wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 03:09 AM
61

27 my ass. Add a decade to that at LEAST.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 05:48 PM
11

Yikes that’s a red flag in an of itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:41 PM
51

Na he’s nearly 40, dating women 10 years his junior and obsessed with instamodels. You 10000% made the right decision. He’s not worthy of your time. He’s going to be alone for a long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:51 PM
30

I’d literally be so pissed. Men don’t realize how much that stuff costs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 07:17 PM
196

I’m not sure if I’d be more upset at the low effort for treating my $37 dollar lip liner like a pencil..I’d have lost my shit over disrespecting my makeup alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 01:17 PM
26

Freaking. Weeks. He’s demanding bj’s 3 weeks after she has his child and refusing to help her otherwise. Boy how were you raised?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 01:13 PM
38

I think everyones options decrease as time goes on. Both genders get married, have families, age, gain weight... it’s a two way street. TRP like to talk about women hitting the wall but let’s be honest there’s a lot of men in their mid 30’s who aren’t looking that great either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 01:09 PM
3

He couldn’t keep a beautiful women happy if he tried it sounds like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 02:16 PM
5

Even some women think that too. What gets me is why date someone you think is such a store, date someone in your league who you feel isn’t likely to cheat then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 02:07 PM
3

He was a deeply insecure man. He was shorter for a man (which didn’t matter to me) but he definitely gave off a Napoleon Complex vibe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 11:39 AM
5

I wonder if it’s a “I’ll get her before she gets me mentality”? Like I cheat before she has the chance to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 11:36 AM
8

I dated a man for 5 years who thought I was beautiful and told me as much but he would CONSTANTLY tell me I needed to stop wearing makeup, preferred me to wear oversized men’s tshirts, baggy jeans and stuff like that. He once even suggested I trim down my naturally long eyelashes. This was a daily occurrence. He constantly accused me of cheating and being a whore etc (even though he was having an affair for 3 of the 5 years we were together). Eventually I realized he was deeply threatened by me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 03:06 AM
11

You should totally reply that; “ya, actually my daughter needed the money you stole back tkxs”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 03:02 PM
22

The audacity. Man I wish I had half of his confidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 12:59 PM
4

A lot of what I see here basically boils down to women/feminism/fds..etc baaddd. Men good. There’s a lot of horriable generalizations about women that fit whatever narrative is trying to be pushed. It’s rare to see an actual question on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 09:17 PM
4

Where are you getting this info from that women cheat more then men? And that all these women in open relationships have all these guy? It sounds more like a rant then an actual legitimate question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:20 AM
7

Buhaha what pride is he talking about lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:38 PM
10

I saw the original post the other day and wanted to comment so badly but I just knew I’d get bashed for saying ..that is either the worlds smallest lab created diamond to cost $300 or it’s actually a CZ (which I’m leaning towards the latter) but either way he doesn’t actually respect this girl. He cheeped out and is heading behind some crap about not wanting to support diamond mining. Give me a break..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:13 AM
3

I think men are just terrible at self reflection in most aspects of their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 08:37 PM
9

It’s probably because she was nice and friendly with him...which it’s her job. Men always mistake being a decent human with wanting their low value dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 01:33 PM
6

It’s never a single moment where everything changes. It’s been building up for years. The is what happened in my past relationship; I had been telling him for YEARS that some of his behaviours, actions and words were extra disrespectful and he just never took anything I had to say seriously; it never sunk in. Then one day I had a medical emergency and he wouldn’t leave work to be with me at the hospital and he hardly came to see me during my subsequent hospital stay after surgery. After that day…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:57 PM
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