PanYan_Prose Archive

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1	I decided to file for a divorce I personally don’t think you can get it back on track without outside help. Sounds like you need someone in the middle to listen to you both and hold you both accountable for your own actions. Often spouses stop listening to (or even hearing) the other and won’t take any advice. A Counsellor or mediator is an unbiased opinion that can see things from a non-emotionally invested standpoint. Is this person someone you still love? Did you like the person she was before the kids came along? Some wome…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/10/23 05:56 PM
3	I decided to file for a divorce I second the advice of investigating what is broken. Money and raising small children are the 2 biggest stressors on most marriages. It’s probably the hardest part of any marriage especially in the early years. Do you have any family you can ask to help with the kids? Do you spend time together as a couple, e.g. date night etc? You have not provided much detail into ‘what’ is not working with her. Do you talk about how you both feel? Do you argue? Is the intimacy missing? Before you file you nee…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/10/23 12:33 PM