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| 11 | No wonder most guys never do this shit...This why I always conduct surveys after every rejection. Was my approach off putting? Strongly agree, agree, somewhat agree, disagree, strongly disagree? | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 09:50 PM |
| -3 | How to Give off More of a Sexual/Masculine Vibe Rather Than a "lets just be friends" VibeY'all are hating on this shit like some salty fucking jealous types. Yeah it's basic level shit, who you think he's trying to reach? Who you think comes to this forum? People who need basic help. I think he raised some good points like how being "alpha" doesn't mean you all gotta act the same way. Find your own swagger and maintain it. Don't be eager to please her or to try to mimic her energy. It was basic shit but I found it helpful still. I like the way he presented it. And for you smart asse… | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 01:23 AM |
| 2 | barring myself from here for a while, this stuff is great but i'm over intellectualising this shit so hard.Yeah this sub is only for browsing once every few months. Maybe before a night out. Otherwise it's the same repetitive advice over and over again. | /r/seduction | 10/11/16 12:26 AM |
| 4 | What do you say if the girl you approached turns out to be too young?Is this really a question you needed to post? You say bye and leave. | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Infield of Me Gaming A Hottie + Her Sister At Target lolhttps://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0iAzMRKFX3c | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 11:34 AM |
| 3 | Female pulls the automatic "I have a bf" line, loses a saleAnd it gets reposted on this sub and every other circlejerk sub on Reddit like cringe and cringepics etc. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/10/16 05:47 AM |
| 3 | Woman who cried rape after getting cold shoulder in Belfast nightclub is jailed for nine monthsWhy is this so downvoted? You make a good point. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/16 02:37 PM |
| 16 | I feel like when a girl says 'I want a guy who has his shit together' what she's really saying is 'I want a guy who makes a shit ton of money'...Yeah there's no need to read anything negative into that statement. Just have your shit together man. Have a job and don't live with mom. That's basically it. | /r/seduction | 14/07/16 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Hardcase Newbie: Today I asked a smoking hot 10 for the time and what do 'ya know...It got deleted by mods. I never would have. I'll probably get a warning. | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Hardcase Newbie: Today I asked a smoking hot 10 for the time and what do 'ya know...Holy fuck I checked your history and you're not a troll lmfaooo you're just a miserable fuck. No wonder you post in /r/whiterights. Poor guy, being a white male is soooo hard! Hahahaha | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Hardcase Newbie: Today I asked a smoking hot 10 for the time and what do 'ya know...Lol wtf was that? Are you trolling or just miserable? | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Hardcase Newbie: Today I asked a smoking hot 10 for the time and what do 'ya know...Nah but there's something about going your whole life being very attractive that kills your personality, sometimes. This goes for both genders. Often they've never had to develop a personality or sense of humour because they were socially revered for their looks. They never bothered with hobbies because life was pretty fucking fun without them. They can also be very self conscious though because they've constantly been told their value lies in their appearance which is a horrible revelation to e… | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 03:02 PM |
| 0 | Mature Advise from an Old Guy (by Seddit standards)He didn't attack you personally you're just taking it that way. | /r/seduction | 25/06/16 08:36 PM |
| 1 | I am going on a date with a hottest girl on my school and why you should just do it.What are you talking about? | /r/seduction | 21/06/16 11:50 AM |
| 4 | I am going on a date with a hottest girl on my school and why you should just do it.Great post man. Congratulations on just going for it. No idea what that guy is on about with luck vs skill. All you said was that you went for it. And you're very right about at least gaining experience. You have the right attitude. | /r/seduction | 21/06/16 11:50 AM |
| 1 | How To Find A Girlfriend In A Small TownLmfao holy shit what is this, seduction for high school students? | /r/seduction | 18/06/16 02:04 PM |
| 7 | What I learned about approaching after being oggled by gay men for a weekChances are the same amount of women are attracted to you but they aren't as forward. | /r/seduction | 06/06/16 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Should I let her friends come?Ah I see. Thanks for the response. | /r/seduction | 08/06/15 04:31 PM |
| 7 | Should I let her friends come?You call yourself cuisine? You don't find that a bit corny? Is it a brand building thing or privacy issue? Why not use your real name? | /r/seduction | 08/06/15 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Don't be nice, be kind.Love it. This is the kind of thing this sub needs to be reminded of once in a while. I really don't like how we walk a fine line between us and TRP. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Don't be nice, be kind.Then why the fuck would you write this if not for a call for attention? You could've left that thought in your head and the world wouldn't be worse off without it. And by the way you don't hate women, you hate what they represent and emphasize for you: the miserable failure of a person you've become. You hate yourself and they remind you of that. Go online and search for help on raising your self esteem. Start exercising, even just long walks are a good start. But fuck outta here with that women… | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Thank you! Thank you so much!Exactly. Straight out of a teenage dream. | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 04:33 PM |
| 15 | Thank you! Thank you so much!Dude, don't exaggerate a good story. If even half of this is true then that would be good enough. I hope this subreddit really has helped you but honestly anybody over 25 can tell this story has a lot of bullshit in it. | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 03:44 PM |
| 1 | [FR]: 4 Dates In & She Won't Have Sex... Your Thoughts?If you like her then who cares. Every girl has her tempo for her own reasons. Why are you timing this? Also she doesn't seem like the type to just fuck without attachments so if you do get intimate with her don't be an asshole. Don't be in this just for sex. This sub shouldn't be about how quickly can I bang a chic. You obviously know how to seduce women so the question of how long should you stick around without fucking doesn't really belong here IMO. If you like her then stick around. | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Ex gf wants to hang out randomly, any ideas why?No offense but this isn't the place for this kind of question. Check /r/relationships or /r/askmen. | /r/seduction | 07/05/15 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Best response to "I was thinking about you"This is one of the only subreddits I know of where people don't start ridiculous joke threads. It's honest conversation in here most of the time. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Best response to "I was thinking about you"I'm dead serious. What's confusing you? Let me clear it up for you. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 02:30 PM |
| 0 | Best response to "I was thinking about you"Tellin you man, start fucking 6's. Drive to a small town away from home if you want anonymity. | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Best response to "I was thinking about you"Lmfao no doubt. | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 09:37 PM |
| 16 | Best response to "I was thinking about you"Only masturbate every three days, your standards might change lol. I can understand the apprehension. But after getting a few easy blowjobs you might enjoy having that easy bootycall on hand. Don't force it if it doesn't feel comfortable. To be honest, I prefer dating a grade below what I could actually pull. I can't stand maintenance. Not even high maintenance, just any maintenance. When I'm the one obviously wearing the pants in the relationship and she knows I can do a lot better, a lot of th… | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 09:17 PM |
| 16 | Best response to "I was thinking about you"Yeah that's why I'm hesitant to post this shit. At your own discretion you know? Most of this dynamic is only a prelude to sex. Edit: like, I'm not like this at all times although with this particular girl I'm trying to keep it only about sex. Most of the information on this sub could fall into the hands of abusive guys and it often does. There's no big secrets here. Just look at TRP. So as much as I hate to publicly say the things I've said here, I still want to pass on the knowledge of creatin… | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 07:09 PM |
| 18 | Best response to "I was thinking about you"It's not gonna happen right away. Just keep working in it. Practice with girls that are a couple "levels" beneath you if you know what I mean. Start with girls you're pretty sure would go on a date with you. Even create a fake profile online with a picture of a very good looking dude just to practice manipulating conversation. | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 07:00 PM |
| 83 | Best response to "I was thinking about you"I actually told her I don't do notes. I want black marker. That's my usual method of operation. She was told as much. You find them everywhere. Probably on your bus right now or next to you in class or at work. Most women fall comfortably into the submissive category. Whether they've been with a Dom like me before doesn't really matter. This particular girl is new to this but she has fallen into the roll quite naturally. You know how you can imagine a pretty girl saying something like "you can d… | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 06:13 PM |
| 41 | Best response to "I was thinking about you"Hahaha. I've trained her well. | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 05:05 PM |
| 129 | Best response to "I was thinking about you"Well this is what I did just yesterday lol http://imgur.com/VlSWOAT | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 04:29 PM |
| 3 | The subtle art of pausingGreat post. What also ties into this is talking slower. You don't have to if it's not your style but naturally I'm a fast talker and I've noticed that when I purposely slow it down, people are really focused and interested in what I'm saying. Slowing things down in general exudes an air of confidence. You don't rush for anybody or anything because you're a boss. | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 06:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] She couldn't get enoughDon't be a smarmy prick. It would have flowed well with the story. Not everybody has time to read all the links in the sidebar at this very moment. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 11:24 PM |
| 12 | [FR] She couldn't get enoughYou skipped right over the escalation part which is really important. A lot of guys in here coming looking for help and have no idea what that escalation model means. Can you expand please? | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 10:21 PM |
| 4 | What's A good Second Date Idea?TRP is strong in here. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 10:17 PM |
| 10 | What's A good Second Date Idea?That's first date material. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 10:16 PM |
| 2 | What's A good Second Date Idea?Avoid stress? You got the game fucked up boy. That's an incredible opportunity for touching, kissing, team building, jokes. That's like half the date. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 10:15 PM |
| 6 | Advice to ignore a girl's beautyThis isn't pussyonapedastal either bruh. It's perfectly possible for a woman to get on your last nerve unless you're a spineless coward who never speaks his mind and let's people walk over him. Why is a woman exempt from getting on your nerves? | /r/seduction | 18/04/15 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Seddit listen up. Relationships are hard work. If you are not ready to work hard then don't start one.What an intelligent response. I hope you post more often. I really love the direction this sub is going in. Feels more wholesome and honest. | /r/seduction | 13/04/15 11:20 PM |
| 3 | If you’re introverted, stay true to yourselfThat all sounds good to me. I'm the same type of dude. | /r/seduction | 10/04/15 12:46 AM |
| 5 | If you’re introverted, stay true to yourselfDude if you think paying women compliments and giving them flowers in itself drives them away then you need to unlearn what you know. It's about how you do it and when you do it. But honestly that's another long winded topic I won't get into. I'm glad to hear of your improvements but be careful you're not changing who you are just to get women. What I'm proposing and what OP is proposing is that you don't have to. Confidence does not dictate personality or style. Introverts can be confident. Qui… | /r/seduction | 10/04/15 12:22 AM |
| 2 | If you’re introverted, stay true to yourselfAbsolutely. I'm down with all that. Except maaaaybe the social part because that ain't necessarily for everybody (real introverts, extreme shyness) but whatever, that's another tangent. Bettering yourself is a no brainer. Do it. It's just the types of approaches that are encouraged in here. The whole idea of negging rubs me the wrong way. Teasing is cool, negging seems a little more cynical. | /r/seduction | 09/04/15 11:08 PM |
| 8 | If you’re introverted, stay true to yourselfWho says being the typical "alpha" is greatness? You saying introverts can't be great? Not everybody has to be witty or slick with the words to get a girl to like him. You don't always need to neg to get a girl to value you. In fact negging on the whole is manipulative and dishonest by nature. I don't need to put her down to gain her interest. You gonna neg your wife too? Put on that act forever? Their are plenty of approaches and avenues you can take in seduction. The approach espoused in this … | /r/seduction | 09/04/15 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Why a lot of women love assholes and douchebags.You still can't explain to me how what I wrote relates to your sub full of fucking losers. Pathetic dickless fucks that you are. Women aren't the problem you miserable sack of shit. You're life will continue to cause misery as long as you believe that bullshit y'all are wacking off to over there. | /r/seduction | 24/03/15 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Why a lot of women love assholes and douchebags.Are you out your fucking mind? Lmao are you here recruiting? You dumb fuck, all I'm saying is that assholes aren't always insecure and crooks don't always have it coming back to them. If trp agrees with that then cool. But they probably also agree that the sun rises in the east. So is everyone who agrees with that a red piller? Lol you fucking idiot. I don't even know what side you're on, you make no sense. Trp is a bunch of maladjusted losers who don't have the capacity to think critically. The… | /r/seduction | 24/03/15 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Why a lot of women love assholes and douchebags.No I understand we have people in here that follow more trp philosophies but what exactly about what I said is trp? What I have stated is that not all assholes are insecure. Some of them are just confident but also an asshole. Where are you getting that what I wrote is trp worthy? | /r/seduction | 24/03/15 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Why a lot of women love assholes and douchebags.Sorry, I'm confused. Are you saying that what I wrote is in agreement with trp? Like you disagree with what I wrote? | /r/seduction | 24/03/15 03:22 PM |
| 12 | Why a lot of women love assholes and douchebags.Nicely written. Especially glad that you made that very important distinction at the end which is what separates us from trp. You can totally be dominant and decisive without disrespecting women and while still having empathy. It's a fine line the rookies often cross. Also I know this wasn't the point of your post but I have to disagree about assholes being insecure. That's what betas (for lack of a better term) wish were true. That's what they hope is the reality in order to make themselves fee… | /r/seduction | 24/03/15 01:20 AM |
| 4 | How to respond to "I have a boyfriend" when she likely actually does and it isn't just a random girl who you will never see again?What the fuck happened to this sub? We have an influx of adolescent level questions and answers from neck beards who have no place answering questions in here. Jesus. | /r/seduction | 27/02/15 04:22 PM |
| 8 | "All guys want is sex" shit testPeople are looking to get laid here and not alienate women. This is stupid advice. | /r/seduction | 26/02/15 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Behaviors that reveal romantic attraction - "Psychologists coded 36 verbal flirting behaviors — such as making compliments, asking questions and revealing information — and nonverbal flirting behaviors —such as leg-crossing, palming, leaning forward, playing with objects and nodding."Sorry, that was harsh and unnecessary. Assume attraction is about the approach and the first few minutes of the opener. Even when they're throwing shit tests at you or playing coy. Even if she's not exhibiting any of the subconscious body language indicated in this article. I'm not saying the article is useless but you don't need to be checking if she's twirling her hair or asking you questions. Assume attraction. If you internalize that, it gets rid of a lot of your awkward or self-conscious be… | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Behaviors that reveal romantic attraction - "Psychologists coded 36 verbal flirting behaviors — such as making compliments, asking questions and revealing information — and nonverbal flirting behaviors —such as leg-crossing, palming, leaning forward, playing with objects and nodding."Always assume attraction is not for idiots who can't take a hint. If she's not interested, move on. It's about the initial contact. | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 07:20 PM |
| 10 | Behaviors that reveal romantic attraction - "Psychologists coded 36 verbal flirting behaviors — such as making compliments, asking questions and revealing information — and nonverbal flirting behaviors —such as leg-crossing, palming, leaning forward, playing with objects and nodding."Or just always assume attraction lol. | /r/seduction | 13/02/15 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Any Valentine related openers?That's brilliant other than you'd need candy hearts in your pocket. | /r/seduction | 12/02/15 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Just a tip for the guys new to this sub: Always Assume Attraction.This is honestly the most important advice in this subreddit. | /r/seduction | 12/02/15 04:36 AM |
| 3 | Seduction around the world, is it easier?It doesn't get talked much about here because nobody wants to pretend like they know the whole map. With good reason. All this shit you learned from PUA and seddit and those youtube videos you watched... It has very little relevance in places like Colombia or Spain or Italy. You'll be lost out there trying to play it all cool and shit. I mean, certain things apply like don't sell yourself short and don't catch oneitis. But out there you also need to let go a bit. You need to dance, laugh at joke… | /r/seduction | 11/02/15 05:39 AM |
| 43 | I had a huge revelation I wanted to share about just slowing down and taking your time.Only way to get "friendzoned" is by being a lame subservient schmuck. You could hang out with a girl for years without sleeping with her but as long as you maintain an air of confidence and independence and flirt every now and then to show her that you are in fact a sexual being with an appetite then it's always a possibility to take it there. Patience is very important. It ties into the idea of slowing your words down. Talking too fast and too much or trying to bed a woman too quickly reeks of … | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 02:14 PM |
| 0 | (Free E-Book) What to say on a dateThis was absolute shit guys. Don't bother. English is not this writer's first language, at least I hope not. It was so poorly written that it kind of gave me a headache. The advice is incoherent and when it makes sense it's basic shit that you'll learn just from browsing this subreddit for 30 minutes. | /r/seduction | 02/02/15 09:47 PM |
| 2 | I avoid escalation, because it may lead to sex (and I'm intimidated by that).Fair enough but as long as we're worried about being able to afford a hooker then I wouldn't bother with the plane ticket. But yeah a trip to Thailand, Brazil or Colombia sounds like fun. | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 08:51 PM |
| 1 | I avoid escalation, because it may lead to sex (and I'm intimidated by that).So to afford a 100 dollar hooker I should buy a plane ticket first? Makes no sense bruh. | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 02:49 PM |
| 2 | I avoid escalation, because it may lead to sex (and I'm intimidated by that).Absolutely. And don't be so focused on the orgasm or on the technique. That comes with experience. The most important part of sex for most women is that you stay in the moment. Recognize that you have a person being very vulnerable and intimate with you. She's not a computer that you need to crack the code on. If you help create a fun and sexy experience she'll remember that and appreciate that much more than if you break a sweat moving your dick and fingers like a mad man trying to get her off.… | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 02:47 PM |
| 18 | I avoid escalation, because it may lead to sex (and I'm intimidated by that).Yeah this is not bad if you can afford it. Otherwise only fuck with girls who seem extra nice and understanding. I had this issue years ago and what helped was practice with a nice girl (albeit very naughty). What helped me mainly was pulling out before the point of no return. Get your dick comfortable and almost numb to that warm juicy tightness (almost). It's all in your head. The anxiety comes from the previous performances. If you can knock out a couple good ones then that will become your n… | /r/seduction | 25/01/15 11:07 PM |
| 3 | Tinder: Is there a science to what you put in your profile? or do girls only swipe by looks?Agreed but even then it still varies. You'll have those dumb chics who are only worth their attractiveness so they'll give it up a little easier to a good looking dude with swag. But you'll also get those college educated confident chics who just know they look good in a bikini but won't give it up until the third date. | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Tinder: Is there a science to what you put in your profile? or do girls only swipe by looks?Many women on tinder post bikini pics. That's not in the same class as lingerie. | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 07:25 PM |
| -4 | Tinder: Is there a science to what you put in your profile? or do girls only swipe by looks?Number 3 is total bullshit. | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Welp, I'm finally leaving guys. It's been fun. Here's what I learned.Not narcissistic at all. Chill out. This subreddit gets repetitive. All you need are the basics. The most important part is going out there and practicing, getting experience. Reading this subreddit over and over every day is just foolish after a while. | /r/seduction | 14/01/15 11:35 PM |
| 16 | Sent to Me by Girlfriend...Solid list of Questions to Establish Rapport/ Connection/ WhateverThis posted only a few days ago. | /r/seduction | 13/01/15 03:34 PM |
| 8 | Coming off as a player to women?Depending on their tone these sound like compliments. If they do see you coming from a mile away, so to speak, then you might be coming on a little strong. Maybe ease up on the amount of compliments or the intensity of the compliment itself. Subtlety goes a long way with women. It sounds like you're really emphasizing the act of complimenting a woman. The first time you meet a woman you really shouldn't be complimenting at all. I'll allow maybe one for the night but that's it. | /r/seduction | 12/01/15 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Push-Pull Texting Guide?Shyiit, I delete my texts often because I'm a private person and I don't like my personal life logged on my phone but I'll see what I can do in the next couple days. | /r/seduction | 12/01/15 03:34 AM |
| 10 | Push-Pull Texting Guide?Yeah I gotta say I'm pretty good at texting and it's how I've closed with the last 5-6 women I've been with. I think it's a fantastic tool. Much of the same things from face to face game apply. The main things for me are don't respond immediately (but also don't wait for hours), don't respond to her text if it doesn't really require a response, try to stop texting right when you're at the height of tension/flirtation (you can tell when she's really started to gush over you or feel the pull. Stop… | /r/seduction | 12/01/15 12:26 AM |
| 21 | NYT article: "To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This"Grow the fuck up. | /r/seduction | 10/01/15 04:59 PM |
| 5 | One thing I've never quite understood: Girls who take forever to text back, but still do.You should know that this sub is very TRPish. Lots of woman bashing. They can't handle it if a woman isn't completely tripping over herself to be with him. If she has any will of independence then "she's not worth your time." Very sad and insecure. Not all of them, but many dudes in here. Just take the advice on how to escalate but don't spend too much time in here. It's poisonous. | /r/seduction | 25/12/14 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Is there any way to approach on a public bus?If you say it with a smile it's playful. And that doesn't have to be the opener. You can start off with a smile and a "hey, how are you?" I've never done it but it happened to this girl i know. It worked. | /r/seduction | 13/03/12 05:04 PM |
| 6 | Is there any way to approach on a public bus?If you and her are both listening to music say "hey, I bet my playlist is better than yours." | /r/seduction | 13/03/12 02:52 PM |
| 8 | This is what's possible if you continue the journey...I'd argue that that kind of rampage only happens at the bigger venues. More girls obviously. But also they're in that drunk party mood. I don't think he could do the same at a mall for example. Not to take away from his amazing skill and technique. Just saying. | /r/seduction | 25/01/12 07:46 PM |
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