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| 40 | Adios trash bag couch creatureLol, men acting like a woman's career is important only when it suits them and can be used as an excuse. aloof to the physical part... aloof... just go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 11:33 PM |
| 2 | He broke up with me and now he leaves me loves letters at my doorHe sounds narcissistic. The cat will be okay, it has nothing to do with his ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 02:10 PM |
| 15 | Pickmeisha Flower Delivery UpdateI'm starting to think why flowers in the first place. It's such a gift for a woman. Why did she choose flowers. It's not even a typical gesture in culture to send men flowers. Ehhh. She should've ordered a funeral wreath for herself cos her standards dead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 08:34 AM |
| 36 | My profile stated my love language is “receiving gifts”And my love language is money, haha. As stated before, I'd block and let him be. Educating him means he can hide his drawbacks better in front of next lady. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 10:57 PM |
| 12 | Been seeing a man who I’m still feeling out if he lives up to being a HVM. Tonight will be our third date and he wants to stop by his parents house for a party! I’m so nervous!But you are worthy! He already knows. He already asked you. I'm just saying you already have what you wanted, you don't have to do more if you don't want to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 01:59 AM |
| 27 | Getting PMs from male lurkers and incelsCan you show us the messages? I'd like to see what they're like and maaaaybe make fun of them, haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 12:09 AM |
| 28 | Been seeing a man who I’m still feeling out if he lives up to being a HVM. Tonight will be our third date and he wants to stop by his parents house for a party! I’m so nervous!You've answered yourself. It's too soon and I don't think it will be a pleasant experience for you. Tell him it's too soon and you don't feeling like doing it. There's a lot of societal pressure you're feeling about this situation and it's not making you any happier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 11:36 PM |
| 192 | 39 yo Shiva Safai breaks up with 71 yo Mohammed Haddid (Gigi’s dad) because he didn’t want kids. Replaces him with gorgeous 26 yo millionaire Niels Houweling within weeks.Hadid was constantly cheating on her. Hitting up models on insta saying he's Gigi's dad. Flying to meet them in other countries. She was pressuring him into an engagement. Noone here is HV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 05:49 PM |
| 57 | Men on reddit like to constantly bring up this graph to show that men are attracted only to young women, while blatantly ignoring the fact that these women are attracted to men THEIR OWN AGEYeah. Who cares who are men attracted to if what they can get is totally different. Pussy owners decide who gets pussy, not the wishful thinkers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 07:58 PM |
| 7 | I fear my career is keeping me from being a hvw, but I can't go on my own yet.Hmm, the place might be cheap, but is your pay low? I've worked in a cheap place, but I was making good money as it was making money off the big number of customers. I really don't think this should be an issue with men. The only thing which is bad is if you have a better career than them. They really don't care and you also dont have to tell them where exactly you work. In general, a hvw has nothing to do with how much you make or what you do. It's how you feel, present yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 04:11 PM |
| 18 | Unattractive HVMsEh, I gave up on trying to be attracted to unattractive men. One said one time "you're so pretty and I'm ugly" and I couldn't bring myself to contradict that because we both knew he was right. I broke up with him over his looks and he was a hvm. So I don't think there's a point in dating men you're not attracted to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Abusing women is a major part of male bondingI must say I havent experienced that. The worst thing I've witnessed was when guys ranked girls at a party according to their physical attractiveness. They didn't know I could speak their language. I come from a family in which the father thought girls/women are the better sex and I kind of went with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 08:56 AM |
| 13 | Best way to respond to "Send a sexy pic" to OLD creeps..I think pictures entertain them. I prefer "Send money for my bills." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 08:40 AM |
| 12 | Not a peep for weeks and then hits me up for “wine and chill”...blocked!My condolences on the statistics exam. Statistics can be hell and I was really losing my sleep over that exam. Congratulations on handling the guy the way you did. All comments here are on point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 08:08 AM |
| 6 | "You're lucky to have me" and other things arrogant douchebags say"I deleted Tinder because I met you. You can feel proud." Lol, biatch, I don't care. I'm special and don't need others to be compared to because I already know I come on top. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 10:24 PM |
| 3 | And I oooooop... So I'm your type as you spend the whole day with cunts by choice? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 12:36 PM |
| 29 | What's the most hilariously stupid thing a guy has done on a date with you and how did you react versus how do you wish you'd reacted?He said that his dad gives him 20 dollars per day to spend (early student times). We went out to a Chinese dumplings bar, but he was complaining that he was hungry and how he didn't have much money to spend today. I felt overwhelmed with this guy, his weird controlling relationship with his father, his being broke, his conviction he was a big deal despite all that etc. The weird thing was that he had a lot of knowledge about stock exchange and helped other people make thousands. But he didn't ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 12:34 PM |
| 28 | What's the most hilariously stupid thing a guy has done on a date with you and how did you react versus how do you wish you'd reacted?"Scared, Potter?" Muahahahaha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 12:26 PM |
| 9 | Le swerve 🙄I'm dying, it was epic. And so much more effective than pushing him away with refusals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 12:16 PM |
| 8 | Slides into my dms and plays the victim when I don't play nice.Goddamn it. This is epic. I mean... That Venmo is an end goal. The end goal is for a HVM to venmo you for life. But this... For a lvm, so short and quick and to the point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 10:11 AM |
| 26 | The Story of Jason and MedeaI read this myth when I was about 10-11 and had some vivid nightmares later. Even at that age I felt like Medea's rage and cruelty was well-deserved and justified. It's funny because myth carry universal truths about how the world works. Yet, generation after generation, you have to experience it to know it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 11:42 AM |
| 13 | Cleveland Steamer Friday. One Night Only.I just want to say thank you to all the mods keeping us safe, sane and not letting subhumen waste our lives. We can block them in real life from our existence and vagina, but not here. I also think that's very clever what you're doing. I wish this cvould diminish the hate you get, but this all sub was created because of how men are, that tells you everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 11:38 AM |
| 9 | Have you ever been honest about a guy’s unsatisfactory performance in bed?I met with a guy twice. The first time I overdid my reactions. The second I acted naturally and only made sounds when I felt pleasure. I didn't feel much. And he was angry. He was angry that I didn't react the way I did the first time. He didn't ask if I enjoyed it. He was angry he didn't get the reaction out of me that was boosting his ego. I'm getting there to tell guys straight that it was unsatisfying. So far I've had this image of a super fragile ego in my had and it was more important than… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 08:46 AM |
| 30 | The Real Choosing BeggarsNow I feel like I should add some pictures of feeding my dog sushi. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 11:29 PM |
| 39 | Establishing assertiveness / queen energy from day oneLol, make him get you both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 11:24 PM |
| -11 | You deserve betterI don't care about feminism and where the ideology for this sub comes from. I'm here for the dating advice, I don't care where it comes from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 02:14 PM |
| 11 | This sub made me remember a "pick me" I used to be friends withI'm sorry that you have met her. She was a sad person. Definitely with little self-worth. And she hurt you, I think. Good she isn't in your life anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 10:58 AM |
| 19 | Went on a date with a dude I met last weekend. He complained about spending money on a date that went nowhere and implies I should have cut it short. Lol I’m so done dating.I think you're reading too much into this last comment. Remember, now to him it's not about you but about him. So he's saying anything to make himself feel like he can save any face in the light of the visible rejection. I mean he tries to think it was your fault not to have made the date shorter NOT his fault for hoping, wishing, wanting to see you and for something to come out of it. It's protecting yourself emotionally with a warm duvet of 'her fault = not mine = I'm a good, worthy person'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 10:33 PM |
| 59 | So We’re At War Now, I guess 🙄So Reddit boys from incel and extreme-oriented subs are going to read FDS? MY DATING POOL IS SOOOO IN DANGER. Men from there who are reading this: do yourself a favor and get better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 10:25 PM |
| 2 | After dealing with an absolute man child for the past three years, I'm having trouble separating depression vs. laziness with my new partner. Please please advise!So you should make him a proposal. You tell him what you told us. That you think he has depression and you don't feel he is what he was at the beginning of your relationship. You say you want to go separate ways and date other guys. That he needs to do better and then you can discuss it again. He will depreciate you for sticking with him. I repeat: he knows he is in a bad place. He will disrespect you for letting him disrespect you by not being a better partner. He will. Read this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 09:59 PM |
| 11 | New job? New city? Recent breakup? DO NOT SHARE WITH MEN. GUARD YOUR HEART.I'm on the narcissistic spectrum, so I don't really fear narcissists because I know how to hurt them. Having said that, it's true that my both parents are strong, caring and can fuck him up financially as they have access to sensitive information. I mentioned it once and a guy said it was one if the reasons he felt inferior to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 08:56 PM |
| 12 | Does anyone have a similar experience of breadcrumbing?To me this behavior is unknown, so I want to talk about him reappearing after years. I've noticed in my circle that guys tend to reappear at this age or 29-30. They had their fun and now they start reconnecting with girls that they knew in the past and who were gf material. In my casezI didn't want them then and I don't want them now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 12:11 PM |
| 20 | I think this is a HILARIOUS update. When I got the text I literally spit out my drink!!!! I guess the cold really does keep em crawling back.I hate it when they write like the plans are made. No maybe, please. No could you, would you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 10:49 AM |
| 15 | Online dating men are not worth it. He got mad because I ignored his invitation to f*** and called me a little bitchAnd I really like this post. He. Got. Rejected. And it hurt him. For a while, he felt worthless. They only thing he could do was to curse you, you, the withholder of what he deeply desires. He was powerless. It doesn't matter that he shouldn't expect more with this opener. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 11:16 PM |
| 119 | My life As the "Cool girl" is overJob is different. It's for money. Be careful. Wait, observe, watch people. Also fds teaches you not to invest too much in things which are not worth it. Job usually isn't worth giving 100% or even 80-90% unless it's your name on the door. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 12:21 PM |
| 19 | Second date and he already asked for exclusivity?Stop making out with him. Tell him you changed your mind and that's final. Tell him it's too early to be exclusive. To be honest, I think it'd be better to pass on him, but at least do these things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 11:07 AM |
| 17 | In today’s episode of #KickHimOut2020What is this shiiiit? Good thing I havent had breakfast yet, I'd puke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 10:35 AM |
| 10 | Marriage Advice UpdateThis is a great video. I think she represents my style even more than Shallon Lester. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 10:28 AM |
| 29 | Challenge! Get your shit together December!I can only say that a person has limited discipline ability. It's a limited source like coal or diamonds. If you decide to put it into one category, the other will suffer. So it's better to try to accomplish one or two things at a time. Then move on to next. This will spare you guilt and sufferring. For me it's skincare, hair care and vacuuming this month until I save enough to get a robot vacuum after my old one died. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 10:16 AM |
| 4 | Woman discloses sexual past, admits to sleeping with 11 guys, wants to wait for marriage to have sex again. Boyfriend is upset she won't let him smash... Daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men and keep your sexual past secret!!!It's very valuable what you're saying. I appreciate the scientific approach. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 09:02 AM |
| 7 | The 90 day ruleEh, I'd lose interest after that. You're right to tell him the truth. He even needs to hear it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 09:13 AM |
| 5 | The Power of Female SexualityCan you maybe recommend some writings, articles or youtube channels which talk about the topics you mentioned? I mean a general positive view of women's potential, strenght and power. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 08:35 AM |
| 5 | Just FYI, not all dating strategies work the same way for all women...I want another post. You understand fds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 06:49 PM |
| 12 | After being stood up twice, I stopped responding. It’s “my fault” we broke up, he deserved a conversation!Woah, your story is a beautiful one. I see you as a different version of me. Except I pursued a relationship with that douchebag. It ended horribly. You didn't. Well done. I love you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 06:38 PM |
| 17 | Had a date planned with a guy. Last minute he says “I don’t have money” and wants to have wine at my place LOLIn general, they're lazy, untruthful, not loyal, not faithful, have extreeeeemely big egos, are patriarchal, bound in the religion's point of view of a woman's role, rights and meaning. Their momma will almost be their most important lady and she supports her precious boy, not worthy of any other woman less than a princess, who then has to take over motherly care over him. Fuckboys supported by their culture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 11:57 AM |
| 48 | Had a date planned with a guy. Last minute he says “I don’t have money” and wants to have wine at my place LOLhe didn’t seem like the typical south European sleazy guy (no offence to anyone from Europe) Non-taken. They are exactly that: sleazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 04:39 PM |
| 11 | Communicating standards - light a 🔥 under his arseTake your dogs and ask him to pick up their poop. Walk is not a date and so he can't complain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 12:42 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on how to answer “how many people have you slept with”?3, all were boyfriends who loved me. Men can't handle the truth and will use it against you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Broke up with my boyfriend because of red flags, now I feel horrible. What should I do?What worries me is that you're not oblivious. You know what hes doing and you stay. This means you get something from this 'relationship'. And this makes me feel that no matter what we say here, you may stay with him or be with someone like him again. Giiirl, you are going to suffer. Locate what it is he gives you and try to find it with someone healthy in the head. Or maybe his craziness gets you going? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 03:19 AM |
| 10 | This is why we make them wait. Eventually even the most cleverly contrived mask will fall off. My name isn’t Sheby.Thank you for posting your story. It's very teaching and very valuable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 08:47 AM |
| 3 | Should a woman date a man that earns less than she does?Thank you for your story. I'm going to do the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 11:30 PM |
| 19 | Went on two dates and he was generous, attentive, etc. Second week in and he low-key called me stupid. Talk about MAJOR red flag. When I ghosted he tried to play it off by gaslighting me about a conversation I could literally scroll up and read. Anyway, he belongs to the streets.Woah. That's not a joke. That's an insult. What a prick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 12:36 PM |
| 5 | I messed up. Now what?Read this sub. Read the posts. Everything has already been said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 08:37 AM |
| 21 | Went on two dates and he was generous, attentive, etc. Second week in and he low-key called me stupid. Talk about MAJOR red flag. When I ghosted he tried to play it off by gaslighting me about a conversation I could literally scroll up and read. Anyway, he belongs to the streets.Can you post the screen in which he said to call you're lowkey stupid? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 08:17 AM |
| 3 | He sent me a picture of his ex?Thank you for posting this. My nose was clogged due to a cold. I snorted so hard what he did that it unclogged it. It's some new level of bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 01:18 AM |
| 9 | Bad dating coaches and terrible mainstream dating adviceI adore Shallon Lester as she has a quit your bullshit attitude to men. She outright trashes them. Love her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 01:00 AM |
| 358 | Pick me logic through the roofA man would be equally happy to admire other people's penises together, right? edit: because i kant zpell and also thank you for the silver! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 01:21 PM |
| 5 | For all the people scared to ask ‘what are you looking for?’ - just rip off the band aid ASAP and get the truth. Get comfortable asking difficult questions and weed out incompatible suitors early.Tactile my ass! Oh, wait: you won't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 11:21 PM |
| 13 | Think I might be potentially getting a slow fade/ghost. Is this a good text to send?Girl, he clearly doesn't want you. Time to move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 12:07 PM |
| 5 | Just blocked a man who believes my silence while I was helping my friend was “uncalled for”.Eh. I feel ya. Especially that about typing this long message and deleting it. It wouldn't change anything in him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Tell the man in your life that you don’t want to take hormonal birth control and that you want him to get a vasectomy or use condoms instead. Watch their hamster wheels spin.I had acne as an adult. Dermatologists were giving me different medicine, but it didn't really work. I have underactive thyroid, so I went to an endocrinologist with my thyroid. She took one look at my face, told me that I had to have increased male hormones and wrote down what tests I needed to do. Out of three male hormones that could be increased, two were increased in my case. From then on, it was all very simple. I got the full effect after about 6-8 months of taking pills. The kind of pill… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 05:52 PM |
| 19 | Dominant women always get what they wantYes, yes, yes, yes, yes. My life story is the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 02:40 PM |
| 7 | Male entitlement to sexual favorsI'm guilty of that. I've given bjs with no reciprocation. It was wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 07:21 PM |
| 8 | Reasons why we aren’t gold diggers for looking for money and investment.Why is it that many guys want to spend money on me? Maybe because I deserve it and they think so, too? I have my own gold, I want to increase it and increase my man's gold. Money is important. You can be ambitious yet temporarily broke, but if that's a constant, we aren't meant to be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 07:16 PM |
| 1 | How do we feel about practice dates?It's probably not the case. However, some older bartenders make really good money. A friend's brother is closer to 40 and lives this lifestyle because he's good and makes proper money. Check it out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 11:09 PM |
| 11 | TwoXChromosomes, except sometimes it’s Y, apparently. Cleared up some misconceptions about our sub and got banned and called a TERF...? With “feminists” like this, who needs the patriarchy?That subreddit doesn't accept neutral science. It's propaganda and bias. The saddest thing, it will make more women unhappy. I'm glad we have fds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 10:39 PM |
| 8 | Don't marry a dude with a small dick who doesn't satisfy you sexually or you might end up like this woman in 10 yearsPlease copy posts when you post about them, I'm in a different time zone and they often disappear before I get to read them. Can anybody tell me what happened? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 09:43 PM |
| 25 | Anyone else feel disgusted when older men hit on you?I feel the same. The huuuge problem is men who are grossly old to me visually are also men who are good for me in terms of maturity. Men take a lot of time to mature. I almost feel violated when men 10 years older than me think I'm available to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 02:09 AM |
| 19 | Met a HVM, how do I not be a pick me about it.All men I've dated did these things for me. Aim higher and remember you're the prize, not him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 01:01 AM |
| 7 | Love this sub so much I dug back into the archives for a small sampling of my ex “alpha” bf (who treated me horribly) unraveling via 3 years of unanswered texts. Get some popcorn and enjoy!I read it all and now I'm so tired. So tired. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 12:37 AM |
| 7 | FDS is Phasing Out Femcel LanguageThat's a good call. I hate when this sub engages with lesser groups of lesser men on reddit. We are queens and shouldn't be concerned with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 01:41 AM |
| 8 | Came across this gem today. My age-range setting is 23-27, not “aging like grade c dairy products”Jesus. This. Exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Had enough and broke free of an abusive relationship aftee trying 12 times last night. Muted him, felt guilty, didn't sleep - woke up with this (+ loads more). :-))))Now that's upright dangerous. Run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 08:42 PM |
| 8 | LMAO this MGTOW moid made a video about us on Youtube. THIS is the type of salty trash hating on on usHe's capable of having a successful film career in varied roles such as a hobbit/troll/leprechaun/gnome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 10:11 AM |
| 6 | Pet Peeve: "Men are visual creatures"I have 2nd degree burn scars on my thighs and lower stomach. They look like raw meat glued onto my body, no joke. But still, handsome successful guys think I'm beautiful/sexy. I asked them many times how come. I got different answers, but most can be summed up as they like beauty, but still are humans and beauty is not this ultra goal, the most important aspect of all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 12:08 PM |
| 10 | Single mom has two men fighting to be a father to her kid. Don't get it twisted, single moms are out here slaying in the dating world. Daily reminder never to forget your worth >_>Say what? It's not what the post says. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 10:36 PM |
| 5 | Confront moids and low effort losers or block and go?I put a few words, no more than a sentence of laconic explanation. I fight against women being "crazy" = doing things for no reason. Somebody else wrote here that a man knows what he did. No. These dumb ducks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Man (46) is pushing for a relationship with woman (30) who isn't attracted to him, is bothered by the age gap (16 years). Don't let these men "guilt you" into dating them. NO MEANS NO, LADIES!Can you tel me more? I just don't get how he arrived at this conclusion that because you're a sugar baby (=you get things from this), you'll sleep with him for free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 06:33 PM |
| 16 | Tell the man in your life that you don’t want to take hormonal birth control and that you want him to get a vasectomy or use condoms instead. Watch their hamster wheels spin.The pill is a godsend to me. I had adult acne and too much body hair. It turned out I, as many women, have too many male hormones (androstendion in my case). It alliviated that and straightened out my mood swings. Buuut, of course. I'm making men wear a condom anyway. I don't trust them with many things and so with my pussy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 03:59 PM |
| 21 | “You pass lookswise...” Gotta love dating apps!My portion of the household income? 100% for dealing with your laughable ass. I'm all for sharing, but theres time and place for such discussions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 12:15 AM |
| 30 | Say something nice about Alexandra and Keanu 💖They co-authored two books together. Deep content. It's really something, they know their souls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 09:10 PM |
| 4 | "My (21 F) boyfriend (28 M) doesn’t like to wear deodorant or brush his teeth regularly. Advice?"Ahahahahahaha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 09:58 AM |
| 4 | His excuse for being on Tinder while in an monogamous relationshipI love that this, in fact, might be fully and deeply true about him. This is what we need to scrap, this kind of trash, staring us in the face. Low value men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 01:58 PM |
| 2 | FDS Discussion: How are you working on yourself?I have a good job and a flat in the best location, good looks and style, so it's mental work. Im building my self-worth, compassion, understanding and tolerance towards other people. It's tough, but it's rewarding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 12:20 PM |
| 6 | I’m overthinkingAre you sure you're not more into attention than him as a person? Are you not madder that somebody isn't responding to your texts than that he personally isn't? And isn't it all somehow connected with your move? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 12:34 AM |
| 23 | To the moid lurkers. If women expecting more feels like an affront to you, it's because you're low effort and need to do better. That's not our fault 😂🤣We watch our crotches, bleach our teeth, shave our legs and many others. What extra do you do for women? What additional things do you give back in return? Most men give pure naked dancing shit in return, so evolve! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 12:19 AM |
| 11 | Have you guys seen this yet? r/Toxic-Femininity is planning a “raid” here on November 20, lol.Haha. Downvote and post offensive content. What else? Are you going to hack my Facebook? Just terrible, I'll loose my sleep over this. It doesn't matter in real life. Reddit is not real life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 09:11 PM |
| 6 | A little rant bout my bfYou can't be a therapist because your incompetent in what your boyfriend has. This is not normal 'be there for me help me'. This needs a specialist. And why this ducker checks your account? Not so afraid it can cause am anxiety attack then, is he? Bitch, please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 09:06 PM |
| -1 | Tempbanned from RPW for telling a woman not to be a doormatI subscribed to Pinkpill... for two days, but I don't understand it. I hope fds don't derive much pf its content from there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 08:40 PM |
| 8 | Not gonna be your slutty therapist!!I've been that. Except he wasn't misogynistic. But the rest checks out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 01:26 PM |
| 1 | I just got used by a friend I was in love with. He is now dating a friend of mine who is way more educated then I am, supermodel hot, and more accomplished. I’m going crazyYou want to move to another country because he slept with you and went on? Nobody in your field cares about that, believe me. It's a big deal only to you. It cause a few pieces of gossip, a few smiles, after that will be forgotten. Get over yourself. It was nasty and bad on his part, but you will be better off. Trash took itself out. Buy popcorn and watch what he'll do to his next victim. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/19 11:59 AM |
| 1 | The only way to respond to unsolicited dick pics!!Why buy a carpet if your body can make one itself? Bleh, everything here is so ugly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 09:36 AM |
| 2 | You’re not shallow for preferring taller menDid you guys also get this private message? It must've been inspired by this thread, Ahahaha: from SuperiorBeyonce sent 17 hours ago I heard u like tall guys Here's a random fact about me: the world record for longest handspan is 12 inches and belongs to an 8 footer -- my handspan is 11 inches and I'm 6'5 -- https://imgur.com/a/xWDtdJK My hands may be gigantic but I bet that booty would still be a handful to me ;) Edit: I don't know what's under this link, but I'm afraid it's an unwanted sausage… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 08:11 PM |
| 13 | Why Do Men Refuse to Be Responsible For Their Own Fertility and Then Act Like Its a Personal Affront If A Woman Gets Pregnant? Birth Control is 100%. You KNOW the risks.Im so sorry. I wish you well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 12:16 PM |
| 8 | Case 1: The biology teacher that "respected" womenEh, such people usually have a variety of mental problems and looking down at women is just one example of how disturbed they are. Nothing really positive to add here, I just hope they die out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 10:55 PM |
| 9 | You’re not shallow for preferring taller menThey can shame me all they want. My ovaries are mutes in the language of shame when they see an attractive tall guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 10:51 PM |
| 28 | GOLDDIGGING WHORE = Responsible Woman Who Selects Partners Who Can Actually Afford to Care For Their Offspring.While I have nothing against golddigging, men should realize some of us are looking for a partner who is affluent because we are. It's about finding matching status. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 04:34 PM |
| 2 | He follows a bunch of IG models, most of which are local (acceptable behavior?)Lol, I've heard of a guy who, during his 'relationship' with a woman, was involved in 17 other instagram and other romances. It's ridiculous and he think you're beneath him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 10:11 PM |
| 39 | Retarded Limp-Dick Incels Talk About How They’re Going to Start a Gender War and Put Women in “Breeding Pens” Over the Existence of This SubThey forget women aren't their worst enemy/competitor. Normal men are. Normal men will always choose the safety of women close to them over some weirdos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 09:55 PM |
| 9 | FDS now the SCARIEST Subreddit! And JUST in Time for HALLOWEEN TeeHee! 👻🙈If you are an incels in terms of looks, shouldn't it be wise to at least impress women with money? But then again, I expect logic from people who've built their identity on sex and being unfuckable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 09:38 AM |
| 73 | Don’t be a 🤡, girl.+ I'll change him + I'll make it up to him that his parents drunk, his mothet committed suicide, his miner father was killed in a mine + I'll be with him fwb and not fall in love or just to hear he can't be with for real because if she can sleep with him, she can sleep with anybody | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 11:26 PM |
| 18 | Male Trolls Are Pretending to Be BatShit Crazy Women Who (Poorly) Implemented FDS Advice and FailedI think it's great. They post shit like that instead of taking a closer look at themselves and improving. Posting this will get them internet points, but nothing real in real life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 04:09 PM |
| 4 | He confessed that he had a year-long relationship with an older blood relative. Is there any getting around this?I feel that's a bait post. You just cannot be that stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 03:53 AM |
| 14 | OK but just want to knowPrince Charming? Prince Delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 03:43 AM |
| 7 | “FDS is the most toxic space on reddit, even worse than redpill subs.”I really don't care about posts like that. Such people will always exist and they've already lost at life. I don't come into contact with them, I don't date them. They have a black plague in my eyes and are not existent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 03:39 AM |
| 48 | Don't ever feel ashamed of your preferences in menI tried to be attracted to shorter men, under 6 feet. But it's such bullshit, I can't do it. All my boyfriends have been over 6 feet, so if I can have what I want, I will not stoop to dating short men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Old “fwb” didn’t take rejection too well... insulted then blocked me. (I have no issues if his “better option” was a male, btw, but I knew he wouldn’t appreciate my comment)I don't understand it. Why did he take offence if you were only fwb? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 12:29 PM |
| 13 | My ex says I broke his heart and I’m pissedTo me, this guy wanted too much too fast. Clingy, desperate, easy to love someone without really getting to know them. Probably needs someone to live him just to feel loved and better about himself. Unfortunately, there are many guys like that. You did the right thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 11:53 AM |
| 6 | "Pick Me"s and How to Stop Being OnePretending to be more valuable than I really am (while in the process of building self-worth) has worked out for me nicely, too. It's bullshit that men smell bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 12:17 AM |
| 13 | Beware becoming/giving the "Girlfriend Experience"Eh, so true. I have been there once. It was sad and bad. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 06:18 PM |
| 45 | MORE SALTY MALE TEARS: “OMG r/femaledatingstrategy is way worse than r/braincells” and “Most Toxic Place on The Internet” 🙄I looked at some of the comments there. Men's reactions convinvinced me this sub is spot-on and needed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/19 12:36 PM |
| 12 | Evidence #865654667 that this sub is definitely on the right track 🙌💯I love it how they don't understand this post on this male subreddit you linked. They misunderstood quite a lot. I love it because they spend time complaining about this all and nothing will ever change for them, just becoming more and more bitter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/19 10:04 PM |
| 25 | Another woman discovers the typical male response to revealing her sexual past. Her reward for her honesty? He doesn't want to marry her anymore.Cheating is more than just having sexual past. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/19 03:33 PM |
| 9 | Advance Your Girl Game: The Five Second Flirt TechniqueOh, I love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/19 08:22 AM |
| 2 | Dating a guy with no sex driveI had the same. He was on anti-depressants. Unfortunately, they make your libido almost non-existent. I don't really know what to tell you... It won't pass away, stop or weaken. And they are necessary for him to live. I think you need to explain it to him what's missing for you. He just doesn't feel the drive, the need, it really works like a turn-off button for libido. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/19 10:21 PM |
| 16 | What value does he bring to the relationship?I'd add intelligence/a developed mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/19 09:28 PM |
| 5 | What do you do to keep yourself beautiful?I have hormonal acne due too many male hormones, so I stick to taking contraception religiously. I wash my face with oil cleansing method. I take oil supplements because my skin needs horrendous amounts of Omega acids. I always wear make up, otherwise fumes from living in tge big city will be landing on my face. It's more of a neceesdity, really. My make up has stable uv filters 50+ I have a really consistent, classic fashion style But the rest is rather sloppy or non-existent. I have good genes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/19 01:01 PM |
| 3 | Am I the only one who feels this way?My sister's joined a dance class and men keep refering to her hands as "your little hands". I feel ya. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/19 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Player BF to comforting ex plate (Comfort bad?)She seems like a weak pearson to start with. Wouldn't you like your plate, still a plate, to be somebody with some standards or less self-hatred? I mean she doesn't seem worth a second thought even after she swallowed all that you told her. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | A man's age impact on fertilityBut isn't it also that the older you get, you tend to want to have fewer babies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 07:50 AM |
| 11 | Guys are callous opportunists and that requires us to be ruthlessI'm a woman who was brought up low in empathy. I have deep levels of empathy and compassion though. I was brought up not to use them. I'm working in therapy to change that because I feel less human and I want to have access to these emotions. And I totally agree with this post because I think how men think. They just aren't like women and will put themselves first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/19 07:22 AM |
| 2 | Guys I let a guy wait a month to go on a date with me he saw I didnt have his number saved and he still wants to go on another date!There are categories they think of when they think of a woman they want and status isn't there. Status is not what they need and seek in a woman. To be honest, sometimes it's a big problem when your status is higher than theirs. I had exactly the opposite problem than OP three times. My status was higher than his. They stopped viewing me romantically and started treating this as a kind of competitions of status. And stopped being interested in me. Years later, one of them admitted his ideal was … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/19 04:21 PM |
| 7 | Guys I let a guy wait a month to go on a date with me he saw I didnt have his number saved and he still wants to go on another date!Men don't care about status. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/19 01:09 PM |
| 2 | I finally took the advice I saw here “never be with a man who lets you doubt yourself” and this is what happenedSo you've been with my ex. Eh. Get out fast and heal. They suck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/19 09:22 AM |
| 14 | Newly Single: The Lessons I Learned with Mr. BlueIf I'm supposed to do these things, it's better not to be in a relationship. I mean I'm all for not telling a lot, but there's no point in not showing your true self. Men are not something to be kept at the cost of pretending all the time. It's just not worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/19 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Found out about gf's loser exes and past slutty behavior. Not feeling attracted to her anymore due to this. Advice? Thanks!You don't sound like a catch either, so we can say she has a type. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 03:45 PM |
| 0 | RED FLAG? His toddler lives with his parents.Ahahahahahaha! That's all I have to say here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/19 03:40 PM |
| 15 | Where was this sub when I was single??I would like to keep dating other men after he asks to be exclusive. But I'm too afraid. I think there will be no one who will want to agree to that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/19 08:20 AM |
| 2 | can we ban personal advice posts? if you are fat, dont have dates for whatever reason just read the wiki instead. most of these posts are likely male trolls.I like them because they're more than just asking for basic advice. Also I think you can see that a post is suspicious and maybe written by a guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 12:31 PM |
| 11 | Most men have NOTHING to offer to womenEh, I'm trying to think of something to contradict this, but it's hard. When I think of my boyfriends, the most valuable ones were the ones who had the most interest in emotional support, my pleasure and good finances. They were still only somewhat better on this scale. Still far away from what I wanted and needed. I has more to offer and gave them more in sex and care than I got. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 11:32 AM |
| 6 | Can we not downvote posts where girls fucked up?I think it shouldn't explicitly say that men are banned here. That makes them lurk and not post after which they could be banned in bulk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/19 03:08 PM |
| 14 | Went on a first date that lasted hours, met up the next morning too and he was very into me. Next day said we don’t mesh??I was dating a guy like that and he had serious psychological problems. He didn't want to be alone, ever. Then if I said no to something, he would take it as saying no to him. He would then try to make me 'pay' for this by being cold and saying things to hurt me. It was hot/cold treatment, extreme clinginess with extreme distancing. Anyway, that kind of clinginess isn't a good sign in my opinion. I fear ot wasn't you and your personality that made him spend so much time with you. It mightve been… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/19 09:07 AM |
| 1 | I grew some balls and asked a guy at the gym for his number. Because I am a queenYou go girl! I know how it feels, it's a big step. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/19 08:54 AM |
| 3 | *UPDATE* My (27f) bf (35M is mad I downloaded a dating app... we are in an open relationship, by his choice.You did well. You protected yourself. You are a hero. You are a winner. It will be good and you deserve the best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/19 08:26 AM |
| 5 | Ladies: Could you please describe how a man should treat you? Could you give us example of 3 - 5 things that men have done for you, which you consider "fantastic treatment"?Your ex-fiance sounds amazing. But I think you should communicate clearly to your bf what you expect of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/19 09:56 PM |
| 1 | thoughts on dating male teachers?I think you've answered yourself what you want. It's what you want and it won't change long-term. I'm a private tutor and make decent money. But it will never be the level of banking/engineering as there's almost no chance of promotion unless you go from teaching to managing. Still even rhen, money is poor. I feel like having a wealthy partner is important to you, so try to find one. The compare if you are happier than you were with a teacher. I would go out with a teacher, but wouldn't date him… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/19 01:54 PM |
| 7 | My(27f) bf (35M) is mad I downloaded a dating app... we are in an open relationship, by his choice.You're scared you're never going to find love again? Let me tell you, what you have is no love. Love doesn't look like anything not even close to this. Casual friends are treated better than you in this one-sided farce of a "relationship". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/19 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Woman Agrees to Swinging To Please Boyfriend of 5 years, Boyfriend Then Says He Can’t Love Her Anymore Because of It And Doesn’t Want LabelsEh, they both seem broken and kinda worth each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/19 11:24 AM |
| 10 | Detaching from the f*ckboy you slept with: overriding OxytocinNo matter how much oxytocin I get, I can't help seeing it if he's an idiot/loser/has contrary beliefs to mine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/19 12:06 AM |
| 4 | Guess I shouldn't get dick pics before coffee. I told him his personality must be trash since all he could send was a d*ck picCommunist dick kinda, haha. I really liked your answer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/19 11:53 PM |
| 8 | Forced FeelingsI feel the same sometimes. They're too pushy. I don't even know you, guy. Chill a little, you're making me feel awkward and uncomfortable. To me, they transfer to an obligation more when they do it. I used to take care of my younger sister and O het the same feeling when they ask dooo you miiiss meee do you miss me aaaaaaaa! And they're offended when you say the truth, no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/19 03:56 PM |
| 17 | This guy dumped a woman and then calls her a cunt for moving on (too quickly according to him)He sounds mentally unstable, so that's a different story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/19 05:00 AM |
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