PandaSquabblesSloth Archive

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10	Seeking advice: Is using a location tracking app on my boyfriend crossing a line? As others have said, just because someone gives you permission, does not mean your behavior isn’t abusive. Honestly, some of the most insidious mental abuse happens under the guise of insecurities after being cheated on. Your insecurities do not give you the right to be abusive. It is why other posters are saying you need to focus on your mental health. The vast majority of abusers do not see their behavior as abusive, nor do they think they are being purposefully cruel. They are acting out of t…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/04/23 04:11 AM
3	would you understand if your HVM partner would hook up with other people on the side? One of the most important traits in a HVM, to me, is loyalty. Having multiple partners is sort of similar to being an addict. Nothing is ever good enough. What aren’t you providing your partner that he feels he needs to have satisfied elsewhere? Also: you mention that he only gets blowjobs. You realize that almost all STIs can be transmitted through oral sex, right? I would not be okay with that. Edit: You are basically what RPM are talking about when they say “enjoy the decline.” Enjoying the i…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/12/22 01:35 AM
1	Q4M: Would you wife up a slut who you're REALLY connected to? I’m a wifed up slut. I’ve had 2 serious relationships and when I’m partnered I’m monogamous and loyal. I think people these days entertain others outside of their relationship, and I do not do that when I am in a relationship. Cheating is rarely intentional, the water rises slowly and then suddenly you realize you’re underwater. That being said, you can feel the water as soon as your feet get wet. I don’t think most people purposefully cheat, but I do think people recognize the attraction when i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 05:18 PM
–	Can non-monogamy save a failing relationship? That’s kind of how I feel every time I see one of these posts. Like dang, how big is your vagina?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 04:43 AM
2	Why does being a single mother drastically decrease a woman's dating opportunities? Baggage. I have kids from a previous relationship and so does my fiancé. There is so. Much. Drama. Constantly. It sometimes doesn’t even seem worth it. If I didn’t have my own kids I would’ve been gone a long time ago.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 05:09 PM
1	For those of you 30+, do picky people really start to settle? You can be added to the birth certificate after the fact. For instance, if you file for child support against a guy you claim is the father, doesn’t matter if he doesn’t even know he is the father. They will serve him, do a paternity test, and slap him with child support. If the father decides he wants custody, that’s on him to hire a lawyer. This is how it works in Texas. A woman can do this without paying a cent through the attorney general. I really don’t even think a legal agreement before t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 01:21 PM
3	Q4W: What is your opinion on guys who use prostitutes? I could date a guy that had tried it out once or twice. At the level you’re talking, I couldn’t continue to pursue that relationship. Especially the sex tourism part. Regardless of what you say or actually engage in, we are strictly working off of your word. I would immediately make the assumption that the only reason to travel for WEEKS, in your own words, and spend that level of money is that you have tastes that cannot be fulfilled here. No reassurance would persuade me that you aren’t spendi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/22 04:43 PM
3	What are the physical traits of men you find the most important inorder for the men to qualify as your partner? Dark hair, dark eyes. I’ve dated short dudes (am 5’2, so not a big deal), and have been in relationship with obese dude, and now I am with a much more conventionally attractive guy (tall, fit, etc). Guys that don’t have dark hair/ dark eye combo can’t keep me interested. Race hasn’t mattered, but I’ve never dated Asian/Indian before. Not for any reason, just it never happened.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 06:18 PM
7	How 'Golden Penis Syndrome' is ruining dating for university women: Deficit of male students means men develop inflated egos and become 'Casanovas' who 'cheat' - despite a 'lack of social and sexual skills' I recently read a book called “The War Against Boys,” I think, that was written 20 years ago. Two decades ago you could statistically see boys falling behind and we’re still pushing it. It’s only going to get worse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 03:17 PM
55	How 'Golden Penis Syndrome' is ruining dating for university women: Deficit of male students means men develop inflated egos and become 'Casanovas' who 'cheat' - despite a 'lack of social and sexual skills' What’s the red pill saying? “Enjoy the decline”. These men think they are special because they are special. For decades the education system has made it harder and harder for young boys to succeed by slowly taking away their safe spaces in order to bolster up girls. We are left with a large portion of young men who have given up on academics because they have grown up seeing message after message supporting their female classmates while they themselves work through classes with no support messag…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/21 03:50 PM
7	I feel like a failure :) If you don’t finish high school, I would definitely suggest getting your GED and starting at community college ASAP. Get a two year nurse assistant degree or something else that interests you. High value men don’t want high school dropouts.	/r/RedPillWives	17/08/21 09:46 PM
1	One of the reasons the manosphere shouldn't lambast childfree women is that it openly discusses how "kids will wreck their bodies." This is not true at all. Had my son at 18 years old. I promise that with your standards applied, my body was completely “ruined.” Stretch marks all over my stomach, loose skin, the works. My stretch marks are seriously way worse than most people’s. 6 weeks out I was at my pre pregnancy weight. Didn’t matter at all that I didn’t gain excess weight. But I’m just some words on a screen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/21 01:42 PM
46	My husband says I haven't been giving him enough attention I have a 6 week old baby boy right now! In total I have 3 birth children and 3 bonus children, this last child being the only one that’s both of ours. I’ve been through this a few times with two different men so hear me out: He’s tired and stressed too. He’s also trying to navigate the new family dynamic. He also is working. Both of you are running on empty right now. He is also expecting a lot if he has asked you to keep up this level of housework. You both need to sit down and acknowledge that…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/06/21 02:37 AM
1	Can we talk about Suzanne Venker? Love Suzanne! She brings great people on her podcast which has turned me on to more than one good read!	/r/RedPillWomen	14/05/21 01:38 AM