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| 3 | Continuing a “Friendship” with a woman is not a good idea.Im friends with a few women I’ve had a crush on. And friends with women who’ve had a crush on me. Be a fucking adult | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Women should make the first move, its better for everyone.Im at a restaurant right now. All the couples have guys that are ugly or average. There’s maybe like one really good looking guy here. But believe what you want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Women should make the first move, its better for everyone.That’s why they need to approach. Ugly men date all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 08:44 PM |
| 4 | Women should make the first move, its better for everyone.I wouldn’t be chosen but I can get women when I approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 03:10 PM |
| 22 | Women should make the first move, its better for everyone.Most of you men on here still wouldn’t be chosen or hit on. And if they did hit on you yall wouldn’t be able to carry a conversation and they would walk away without getting your number | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsOh I see lol. I could see that. I went to an anime convention once and the hygiene from people there was absolutely terrible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 01:56 PM |
| 4 | Why doesn't the red pill push for expanded views of attractiveness?Yea youre not a good person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsDamn that’s crazy. I don’t know any middle aged men that I hang out with that are virgins | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsThey all have girlfriends or are bringing around new good looking girls every time to the hang. Im also 36 so all of us have social skills. Im sure the statistics are different for gen z though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsGuys on here complain about not having sex but every guy I hang out with in real life is getting laid. It’s not that hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 12:57 PM |
| -4 | women dont think about menI don’t care. Im desirable cause I know how to talk to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 04:05 AM |
| – | women dont think about menYou’re not desirable bro. Neither are most men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Passport bros is the only real solution for average and below average men. And men and women should agree with itThen go bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Men who don’t approach IRL are behaving in the way they’ve been instructedCool then don’t approach. Makes it easier for the rest of us guys who still do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 06:07 PM |
| – | You can either blame slut-shaming or not.It’s almost as if they’re not all the same women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 05:35 PM |
| – | Most here dont know what pump and dump means.Who the fuck cares? Get a hobby bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 08:29 PM |
| 5 | Life as a woman in west is so much easierNah. Being a man will always be easier as long as you’re not a little bitch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 02:50 PM |
| 12 | Many young men are viewed as blobsThat’s why they date 18-22 year old women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 08:56 PM |
| 2 | What are men wanting in terms of dating?I tried helping when I first joined this sub but I realized nothing will convince them that you can still do great with women being average or ugly. They would rather complain than work on their personality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 07:13 PM |
| 2 | What are men wanting in terms of dating?The number of men in this sub who play the victim is crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 06:44 PM |
| – | You have to be comfortable with the idea of getting cheated on to be in a relationshipChoose better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 04:53 PM |
| 1 | The gender ratio of single men and single women in most offline places is worse than on apps. Apps are statistically the best way to meet women for the average guy.Yea I do bbaby | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 12:38 AM |
| – | Women suck at simpingGood thing you’ll never have to worry about them simping over you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 07:20 PM |
| 5 | When it comes to chores, it's not that men won't help out/pull their weight. Women just hate to see men relaxing.Choose better. Everyone serious relationship I’ve had my girl always apologized if she was in the wrong without me telling her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 02:15 PM |
| 3 | When feminist women deny blatant redpill truths, like being a nice person alone won’t get you laid. It really pulls into question the integrity of what ALL women say. As if women are prepared to lie just to uphold their ideological beliefs.Just start talking about whatever. Over time you’ll get better and faster and wittier. If they’re a big talker then learn to be a good listener and ask questions about what theyre talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 01:16 AM |
| 4 | When feminist women deny blatant redpill truths, like being a nice person alone won’t get you laid. It really pulls into question the integrity of what ALL women say. As if women are prepared to lie just to uphold their ideological beliefs.Talking and having conversations. If you were to go to a bar alone would you be able to chop it up with the person next to you regardless of gender or age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 01:06 AM |
| 2 | When feminist women deny blatant redpill truths, like being a nice person alone won’t get you laid. It really pulls into question the integrity of what ALL women say. As if women are prepared to lie just to uphold their ideological beliefs.Practice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 12:59 AM |
| 11 | When feminist women deny blatant redpill truths, like being a nice person alone won’t get you laid. It really pulls into question the integrity of what ALL women say. As if women are prepared to lie just to uphold their ideological beliefs.I’ve never heard from a woman that being nice alone would get you laid. You should’ve learned by high school that you also need to be interesting and funny. So many of you on here are so socially stunted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 12:14 AM |
| 1 | You only smash cuz she pre-approved you.My women friends. They’ve smashed plenty of guys who they wouldn’t give a second look to based on looks alone. But then they got to know them and built an attraction them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 12:40 PM |
| 1 | The gender ratio of single men and single women in most offline places is worse than on apps. Apps are statistically the best way to meet women for the average guy.Yea I am too. Never got any matches on apps. It’s like the concept of having a funny and interesting personality is foreign to yall guys in here. Yall seriously dont understand women at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 12:29 PM |
| 1 | The gender ratio of single men and single women in most offline places is worse than on apps. Apps are statistically the best way to meet women for the average guy.So then these guys should quit complaining cause anyone can practice and build a personality. I know some people are neurodivergent and it would be harder for them but most men could do it. I was extremely shy up and couldn’t hold a conversation until I was about 23 and started working on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 02:42 PM |
| 1 | The gender ratio of single men and single women in most offline places is worse than on apps. Apps are statistically the best way to meet women for the average guy.Then I guess im a 10 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 02:35 PM |
| 2 | The gender ratio of single men and single women in most offline places is worse than on apps. Apps are statistically the best way to meet women for the average guy.These guys just want to play victim and blame women instead of taking accountability | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 02:34 PM |
| 1 | The gender ratio of single men and single women in most offline places is worse than on apps. Apps are statistically the best way to meet women for the average guy.Im definitely not using it like that. I use X like 2 times a year if that. You’ll fry your serotonin doing it too often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 02:31 PM |
| 1 | The gender ratio of single men and single women in most offline places is worse than on apps. Apps are statistically the best way to meet women for the average guy.Ok 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 12:52 PM |
| 1 | The gender ratio of single men and single women in most offline places is worse than on apps. Apps are statistically the best way to meet women for the average guy.🍻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 12:32 AM |
| -1 | The gender ratio of single men and single women in most offline places is worse than on apps. Apps are statistically the best way to meet women for the average guy.An you’re an average man that gets nothing hahahahah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 12:22 AM |
| 7 | The gender ratio of single men and single women in most offline places is worse than on apps. Apps are statistically the best way to meet women for the average guy.You explained it perfect. I usually end up mingling with another group and mostly talking to the guys in the group and we just have a good time. And at the end of the night if I feel that I was vibing with a girl in the group I’ll ask for her number if she’s single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 11:56 PM |
| 8 | The gender ratio of single men and single women in most offline places is worse than on apps. Apps are statistically the best way to meet women for the average guy.The average man also doesn’t know how to hold an interesting or funny conversation. Especially gen z, not sure if you’re gen z or not but they seem to be stunted socially. I don’t go out with the intent of getting numbers, i strike up conversations with people and if there’s a vibe then I ask for the number. My single guy friends also have no issues finding a girl to date. Have you never been out in public and seen how many average or ugly men have girls? It’s really not that hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 11:42 PM |
| 6 | The gender ratio of single men and single women in most offline places is worse than on apps. Apps are statistically the best way to meet women for the average guy.Ok man 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 11:28 PM |
| 9 | The gender ratio of single men and single women in most offline places is worse than on apps. Apps are statistically the best way to meet women for the average guy.What’s successful to you? I’ve gone on a lot of dates in my time from women whos numbers I’ve gotten out and about. Marriage isn’t for me so I’m not looking for that and I’ve had a friends with benefits for the last six months with a girl I met at a show so I haven’t really been approaching women since then. But mostly I just look for a girl to be fwb and when that ends I’ll start again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 11:28 PM |
| 20 | The gender ratio of single men and single women in most offline places is worse than on apps. Apps are statistically the best way to meet women for the average guy.Yea a personality. I don’t only get girls numbers, I’ve met a lot of guys that I ended up being friends with and went to future concerts with as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 11:17 PM |
| 11 | The gender ratio of single men and single women in most offline places is worse than on apps. Apps are statistically the best way to meet women for the average guy.It’s called having a personality. You should try it. Im 5’9, bald, and a little overweight. Never had an issue and neither have my friends who are also all average | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 11:11 PM |
| 8 | The gender ratio of single men and single women in most offline places is worse than on apps. Apps are statistically the best way to meet women for the average guy.I get numbers at shows, bars, and clubs all the time. Im a 6 at best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Putting in less effort in attracting women actually works.It means just be a regular person who can hold a conversation without doing too much. If you’re interesting and funny while being natural and yourself then there will be some women who will be into you even if you’re average/ugly. If they don’t, then you’re not interesting or funny and need to work on your social skills. Has worked for ugly and average men since the beginning of time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 03:10 PM |
| 9 | Would women still get married if they were legally mandated to frequently have sex with their husbands?If you don’t have the personality to attract multiple women then thats on you. Work on it and better yourself and quit being a victim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 07:12 PM |
| 10 | Would women still get married if they were legally mandated to frequently have sex with their husbands?Then dont complain about men losing everything in divorce. They shouldn’t have picked the wrong partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 06:55 PM |
| 7 | Would women still get married if they were legally mandated to frequently have sex with their husbands?And what about all the women who have to stay married in abusive relationships because they haven’t worked and have no money for a lawyer or money to move? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 06:36 PM |
| 7 | Men and women do not live the same lifeToday I learned me and my friends are all women apparently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Men will never go back to what they used to be for good reasonOh I didn’t miss that part at all. I said what I said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 12:14 AM |
| -2 | Men will never go back to what they used to be for good reasonIm not sending pics to some random. I never get approached by women. Im a man, I do the approaching and have the personality to win them over. I also go for girls who are in my league. You can go to any Walmart, concert, sporting event, mall, restaurant, and you’ll see plenty of ugly and average guys with girlfriends and wives. You probably are being a creep though if you’re getting called ugly by random classmates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 10:18 PM |
| 4 | Men will never go back to what they used to be for good reasonGet off the internet. Every guy I hang out with and talk to at work still talk to women. Or don’t, makes it that much easier for the rest of us | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Men will never go back to what they used to be for good reasonCool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 09:29 PM |
| 0 | Men will never go back to what they used to be for good reasonThis sub. Seems most guys have just given up. See the guy who responded to me above about guys not approaching because of being called creeps and rapist. But in real life most guys I know do approach women all the time and get dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 09:26 PM |
| 0 | Men will never go back to what they used to be for good reasonCool. Then don’t complain about not getting women. Me and my friends are all average and have zero issues with getting dates or getting laid. Same with lots of other ugly/average men. I mean all the guys in my social circle that are single all date and have no problems approaching women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Men will never go back to what they used to be for good reasonMaybe at least a few times. But most aren’t doing it consistently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Men will never go back to what they used to be for good reasonWasn’t it something like 40 percent of gen z men have never ask out a woman? I might be totally off on that number but it was still a number that made me double take | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 08:55 PM |
| 10 | Men will never go back to what they used to be for good reasonMen will never be like the men before because yall are too scared to talk to women and haven’t developed any social skills. The men who are interesting, funny, and have social skills will still continue to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 07:38 PM |
| 7 | Misandry is more prevalent than misogynyWhy do you let it get to you? You’re supposed to be a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 07:33 PM |
| – | Women who call themselves "baddie" are just as cringe, if not more cringe, than men who call themselves "alpha".It’s not that deep pal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 12:57 PM |
| – | There will never be a solution to mens issues because 🔵BP society effectively sees intersexual dynamics as a zero sum game (where accommodating one side means taking away from the other)Get off the internet. All of my women friends care about the men in their lives | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 02:22 AM |
| – | There will never be a solution to mens issues because 🔵BP society effectively sees intersexual dynamics as a zero sum game (where accommodating one side means taking away from the other)Cool. Has anyone ever given a shit about women until recently over the past thousands of years? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 01:59 AM |
| 9 | "meet my standards", "not settling", "treat me the way i deserve" ect. All of these buzz phrases at the core is just hypergamy,The obvious is that poor short ugly people date all the time. We all know this except for you and the other guys on here who can’t comprehend that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 11:26 PM |
| 13 | "meet my standards", "not settling", "treat me the way i deserve" ect. All of these buzz phrases at the core is just hypergamy,Im poor and all of my friends are poor. We’re all average except for maybe one guy. We all get dates easily | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 11:02 PM |
| 27 | "meet my standards", "not settling", "treat me the way i deserve" ect. All of these buzz phrases at the core is just hypergamy,Poor people also date you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 10:10 PM |
| 4 | Why do modern heterosexual relationships feel so empty? The growing resentment towards men is killing straight romanceNone of my women friends hate men and a lot of people are in fulfilling relationships. Get off the internet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 11:36 PM |
| 6 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.And yet me and all my poor friends have no issues dating or getting laid. I don’t hang out with a single guy that makes over 100k. We’re all normal guys and have no issues with women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 03:39 PM |
| – | Objectification is a myth.Some of y’all are so far gone it’s no wonder yall can’t get women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Radicalization of men is only way the change will occur.Andrew Tate doesn’t even believe the shit he says. He’s a grifter making money off of men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Women have ruined cold approachingCool. Cold approaching still works for me and the guys I hang out with so I’m going to keep doing it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 05:40 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about married couples wanting attention from people outside of the marriage?I’ve been the third person in a lot of couples marriages with their consent. It’s always been a lot of fun and they seem to have better marriages than monogamous couples | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 03:48 AM |
| 10 | Why do you ask your Partner to do Sex Acts she Does not Like?Please don’t date if this is how you think. No women should have to put up with your level of thinking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 11:40 PM |
| – | Women use chores to avoid submitting to menNo wonder so many of yall on here struggle with women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 10:12 PM |
| 5 | Abortion should be legal but the women who unalive their children aren't goodSo in other words, you know nothing about pregnancy and how it actually affects a woman’s body. Got it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 07:11 PM |
| 8 | Why do you ask your Partner to do Sex Acts she Does not Like?Then Im sure he has his reasons and the woman should respect that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 06:33 PM |
| 15 | Why do you ask your Partner to do Sex Acts she Does not Like?Or she’s more mature now and has learned to set boundaries for herself. Some of you men on here really need help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Women’s mating strategy (Hard to get) ruining our societal civilization, thus women need to change their tactic from Hard to get to Fair to getSo women should lower their standards and settle to have kids wiyh a man they don’t like for the good of society? How about start with getting rid of the rapist thats in the whitehouse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 02:34 PM |
| 6 | The idea that men enjoy the chase is completely made up.I love it. The flirting back and forth and the intense build up on both sides and the dopamine rush from winning someone over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 01:57 PM |
| 12 | Women’s mating strategy (Hard to get) ruining our societal civilization, thus women need to change their tactic from Hard to get to Fair to getSome of y’all dudes on here are weird as hell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 12:51 PM |
| 3 | "Women are people too. Just treat them like they are human". Is such anoverblown, and hella misleading advice for menWomen use those same words when talking about men, at least the ones I hang out with. I mean my fwb just yesterday told me to come over so she could crack me for my birthday 🙃 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 05:23 PM |
| -2 | "Women are people too. Just treat them like they are human". Is such anoverblown, and hella misleading advice for menMaybe it’s where I live, but all my women friends use those same exact words about the men they’re seeing or want to hook up with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Men can only access emotional intimacy through a romantic partnerMe and all the homies share our feelings with each other. I also have at least ten other people I could call that I can talk to about important things and share how I’m feeling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Women choosing abusive men is a skill issueAnd men choosing gold diggers and women who cheat on them or women who settled for them is also a skill issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 03:32 PM |
| 20 | Orgasm gap is not caused by men, its caused by women because they don’t close the gap of effort gapIf youre bad at sex just say that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 01:02 PM |
| 1 | There is no such thing as a men having a skill issue.Go touch grass. Nobody believes this in everyday life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 03:24 AM |
| 6 | There's a difference between "Women Are Wonderful" bias and "Women should be wonderful to me" bias.Why should they care about nice guys? Being nice is the bare minimum that you should be towards all humans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 05:16 PM |
| 1 | There is no such thing as a men having a skill issue.So which is it? Society believes that women make wise choices in dating. Or that society believes women should choose better because they’re always picking terrible guys. You can get on tik tok and see plenty of women making fun of themselves for their terrible choices. People assume that a guy who gets rejected has bad character? Yet the men I know who get laid the most and have no issues finding women to date are also the one ones that have been rejected the most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 03:50 PM |
| 9 | The way to fix the gender wars is for men to become more like women.There are just as many manipulative shit men that do the same shit that you described women doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 02:08 PM |
| 9 | The way to fix the gender wars is for men to become more like women.Im a man homie. And Ive fucked and dated plenty of women who were amazing people. If you’re not chosen, thats a you issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 01:57 PM |
| 15 | The way to fix the gender wars is for men to become more like women.Men have owned the gender war since the beginning of mankind. Now some of y’all want to cry about it cause women started having standards and don’t want to date you. Grow some fucking balls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Gen Z men who want to get married, if you are not competing for the female fantasy, why do you still wish to get married?And yet there are plenty of gen z normal couples who live normal lives that are very happy and in love with each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 01:10 PM |
| 19 | The way to fix the gender wars is for men to become more like women.Their post is wild | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 01:06 PM |
| 12 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolAll the best men i know date consistently or are in long term relationships/married. You are not apart of the “best men” if you’re worried about how you sit in a chair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 09:58 PM |
| 9 | TikTok Has Become Gender War Slop.My tik tok is all animals, food, sports, and traveling. And the people in my real life all get along men and women and they all date. Ive never even heard about the gender war in real life, only online | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 07:41 PM |
| – | Women who take the initiative and approach men are much less successful than people often claimI simply don’t care. It’s not hard to go out and make friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 07:28 PM |
| – | Women who take the initiative and approach men are much less successful than people often claimWell I don’t care about those men and I think they’re losers. I have no issues getting dates so I couldn’t care less about those men. So then don’t date. I love that for yall that we live in a time where a woman doesn’t have to depend on a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 06:44 PM |
| – | Women who take the initiative and approach men are much less successful than people often claimNo I guess not. I actually tell my women friends to not date cause 90 percent of men cheat or would cheat if given the opportunity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 06:30 PM |
| – | Women who take the initiative and approach men are much less successful than people often claimNo because men can attract women if they have a personality because women look at much more than just physical appearance. It’s what I try and preach to these women hating incels on here but they don’t listen. It can work the other way around but not usually. Men usually will always put attractiveness at the top of their list so it’s better for women to shoot within their own league. Feel free to go after hotter guys but they will always be looking for a women thats as hot as they are and more t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 06:04 PM |
| – | Women don't have life "Easier" than menA lot of the men on here just hate women cause their life sucks so much. Being a man is so much easier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 05:43 PM |
| – | Women who take the initiative and approach men are much less successful than people often claimBecause plenty of average men have dated hot women including myself. Women look at much more traits than just attractiveness like confidence, humor, ambition, how a man carries himself thus making it possible for an average man to get with women out of his league. Men don’t operate the same way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 05:31 PM |
| – | Women who take the initiative and approach men are much less successful than people often claimIf you have an average face, then you’re average. 5/10. Women always rate themselves and their friends higher than what they actually are. Seen it since the Facebook rate me days | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 05:23 PM |
| – | Women who take the initiative and approach men are much less successful than people often claimIm not hating. Just saying that’s why it happened cause most guys will say yes if they find the girl attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 05:22 PM |
| – | Women who take the initiative and approach men are much less successful than people often claimYall are going for guys out of your league | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 05:08 PM |
| 0 | Men not approaching: Why Self-Respect is the Ultimate "Win"Just say you hate women bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 04:19 PM |
| 22 | Men who get their life together for the sake of becoming attractive but then decide to be single should not be blamed for their choiceNobody cares dude. Live your life however you want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 04:03 PM |
| -1 | It's not a hot take to say that most women (doesn't matter if they conservative or liberal) don't like pegging, feminine men, or bisexual men.Nah getting sex is easy as fuck and so is finding a relationship with a woman even if you’re bi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 11:02 PM |
| 7 | It's not a hot take to say that most women (doesn't matter if they conservative or liberal) don't like pegging, feminine men, or bisexual men.Most women don’t. There’s still hundreds of millions in the world that do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 09:47 PM |
| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADYou’re a giant red flag | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 11:13 PM |
| – | Her giving “her best” to another man before is irrelevant.Some of the guys in here think about other men’s dicks way more than women do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 01:00 PM |
| 7 | Redpillers… are y’all so jaded that being liked is not enough?Get some therapy man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 03:33 AM |
| -1 | Redpillers… are y’all so jaded that being liked is not enough?Men have been attacking women for their looks on the internet for years way before smart phones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 02:24 AM |
| 3 | Men should not be approaching women.Nah Im good. I’ll keep approaching. Even if women were to do the approaching, most of y’all are so badly dressed, have terrible hygiene, and out of shape that yall still wouldn’t be asked out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 08:12 PM |
| -3 | Men should not be approaching women.Exactly. Literally men of all types are dating and getting laid. These dudes have so much self pity and will do everything but work on themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 08:09 PM |
| 5 | Why do Men degrade and insult Women who have sex with them?Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 05:57 PM |
| 60 | Why do Men degrade and insult Women who have sex with them?My women friends use those same words when talking about sex with men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 01:21 PM |
| 3 | Women are scared of not having the power in datingIt’s not that deep fam | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Men need to start leaving women alone.I don’t give a fuck about other men and the collective. I chase women because I know I can get them. If they say no, then I respectfully move on. But I’m going to keep chasing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 04:14 PM |
| – | Women's status in Afghanistan is result of geography and shows the fragility of feminism.Thank you for supporting feminism 🫡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 06:50 PM |
| – | Why can't women just tell men when they're unattractive?Hell yea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 08:42 PM |
| – | Why can't women just tell men when they're unattractive?It’s not. All of my women friends have experienced verbal abuse after rejecting a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 07:55 PM |
| – | Young men did everything they're supposed to, and its not enough. Indicates its NOT their fault, rather it shows theres a real problem of YOUNG FEMALE RADICALIZATIONGood doesn’t equal being interesting, fun, and confident. Im guessing it has do with these damn phones and people losing or never learning social skills. Especially younger gen z who grew up with the internet and porn at their fingertips. Men might be better people today but they’re less confident, less assertive, and less social than ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 01:17 PM |
| – | Young men did everything they're supposed to, and its not enough. Indicates its NOT their fault, rather it shows theres a real problem of YOUNG FEMALE RADICALIZATIONYou don’t deserve sex just cause you’re a good person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 12:35 PM |
| – | Young men did everything they're supposed to, and its not enough. Indicates its NOT their fault, rather it shows theres a real problem of YOUNG FEMALE RADICALIZATIONThat’s just being a good person. You don’t deserve a woman just cause you do and support all of that. You still have to be fun and and interesting and be able to make her laugh. Men will do everything except learn how to actually socialize and be men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 12:33 PM |
| 11 | Mainstream is acknowledging hypergamy, sexlessness, and hoeflation: We're at a tipping pointI’ve never heard anyone in real life bring up the topics that are discussed in this sub. Almost I everyone in my social circle and coworkers I talk to are in a relationship, dating, or getting laid. Edit: Actually the manosphere has been brought up in real life but it’s usually just making fun of those types of guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 06:12 PM |
| 4 | Approaching women at bars/clubs a waste of timeFinding a woman is an extra. Im there to bond with the boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 10:00 PM |
| 0 | Approaching women at bars/clubs a waste of timeI could go out tonight and bar hop and easily strike up conversations and get at least five numbers. I was at a music festival last week and got four numbers and I wasn’t even trying. Just talk to people to enjoy some conversation and if there’s if a vibe, ask for the number. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 09:58 PM |
| 0 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.They never will though. So grab your balls and man the fuck up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 02:49 PM |
| 3 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.Nah it’s easier to be a man. We get to approach who we want and either get rejected and move on or they like us back and we go on dates. Woman can go on a lot of dates but having to sort through all those men and their bullshit to see which ones are actually serious seems exhausting. Much better to be a man. If you can’t pull, that’s on your shitty personality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 06:39 PM |
| 5 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.As someone who has a lot of women friends, most of them haven’t even dated or slept with a Chad. They date within their looks range and if anything have dated guys who are beneath their looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 06:36 PM |
| 18 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.Most men who are pumping and dumping are terrible at sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 06:35 PM |
| 33 | CMV: Men in their 20s should date around and play the fieldThe men on here can’t even approach a woman and get her number. How do you expect them to date around? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 09:23 PM |
| – | Maybe one way to reduce red-pill misogyny is letting “average” guys have their own hoe phase later…..?A lot of ugly and average guys also have hoe phases when they’re young. You’re free to have a hoe phase whenever you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 04:38 PM |
| 9 | “I’d date a chopped guy who’s funny” is womanese for “I’d date a chopped guy who’s charismatic/high status”Women date funny loser chopped guys all the time. Source: most of the women in my life since I was in high school | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Women have no idea what an average man isThe average guys I know are either in relationships or have no issues talking to women, dating, or getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.Well it’s a good thing no one is forcing you to date then isn’t it? Most men don’t have anything to offer these days anyways. Why do you think so many women are choosing to remain single? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 03:54 PM |
| 8 | PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sexJust wear makeup then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 04:26 PM |
| -3 | Women are the ones red pilling menWell he’s spending his time hating on feminism when his country isn’t even feminists. Sounds like loser behavior to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Women are the ones red pilling menThey why do you give a fuck and spending your time hating on women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 05:51 PM |
| – | Women are the ones red pilling menYea people are shitty. But someone like you wouldn’t be getting women or dates even before feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 05:47 PM |
| -4 | Women are the ones red pilling menWhy wouldn’t they pick the top 5% when most men are terrible anyways whether they’re attractive or not? Might as well go for the hot guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 05:40 PM |
| 48 | Being a provider male is simpingDo whatever works best for your relationship. Also most men don’t make enough money these days to be sole providers. Most people in America are living paycheck to paycheck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 01:03 PM |
| 3 | Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worseMost men want quick hook ups and would take it if they could. Have you though that maybe most men are just shitty and selfish partners in general and thats why women are choosing to remain single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 11:58 AM |
| 13 | If gender equality means equal agency, why are men usually blamed for dating problems while women’s choices are framed as pure mens fault?They do all the time in this sub alone. Not wanting to pay the whole check and saying women should be the ones approaching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 05:51 PM |
| 14 | Sex isn't worth the hoops many men jump through to get it.Or you could just be funny and make her feel comfortable and skip all the other stuff | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Dating for straight men is entirely TOO MUCH WORKA good high quality girl would be ok with a coffee date though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 01:30 AM |
| – | Sexual Strategies TheoryYea man. Getting laid is a normal occurrence for many guys. Women aren’t difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 03:31 PM |
| – | Sexual Strategies TheoryI don’t have to be passive aggressive. I’ll tell you straight up. Quit being a dork and actually go talk to women rather than relying on some stupid paper. You wanted the proper information at an early age to avoid suffering when all you had to do was form relationships with women as a kid to see how they are and learn how to talk to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 03:28 PM |
| – | Sexual Strategies TheoryAnd yet there are short and average people everywhere I look. Getting laid and getting dates isn’t hard except the guys on this sub seem to make it seem impossible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 03:21 PM |
| – | Sexual Strategies TheoryMeanwhile Im over here getting laid just cause I can make them laugh and treat them with respect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Women need to embrace, modernity all the way.I like that so many men are against traditional now. Makes it so much easier for me as a man that still cold approaches, brings flowers, and pays for dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Men that want to be seen as "hookup material" should only date women who hookup with themJust about every relationship I’ve had started as us just having sex at first. The friends with benefits to relationship pipeline is really common | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 04:04 AM |
| 0 | What do you actually mean when you say 90-95% of men are unattractive?Ah I see | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 06:41 PM |
| -1 | What do you actually mean when you say 90-95% of men are unattractive?Ah I see | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 06:41 PM |
| 1 | What do you actually mean when you say 90-95% of men are unattractive?Makes it easier then since so many men are little bitches. Why are men scared? Most guys I hang out with have no problem cold approaching a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 06:36 PM |
| 14 | What do you actually mean when you say 90-95% of men are unattractive?I love this about women. It makes it so any average guy can get a baddie with the right personality but most men on here will still blame their looks or women’s standards for not being able to get a woman. I’ve gotten so many women out of my league just by being able to make them laugh and flirting confidently with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 06:09 PM |
| 3 | The amount of American women willing to have sex with a guy within 30 days is the same amount of American women willing to split a bill on the first date.Most of them. But I’ve always been really good at dates. Especially since most men have set the bar so low when it comes to first dates. Also there’s already some kind of connection or good banter going on before I ask a woman out on a first date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 05:14 PM |
| 3 | The amount of American women willing to have sex with a guy within 30 days is the same amount of American women willing to split a bill on the first date.Yes I do since Im saving for a home. If I wasn’t then I would have no problem paying it all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 03:33 PM |
| 6 | The amount of American women willing to have sex with a guy within 30 days is the same amount of American women willing to split a bill on the first date.There aren’t. The guys on here just use it as an excuse. I go on plenty of dates and most women offer to split the bill. Or maybe it’s just because I “choose better” as the men on here always like to say, that I find the type of women that are ok with splitting the bill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Nightclubs are never coming backAlso in Dallas. So many places to dance here and meet people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Nightclubs are never coming backWell hip hop and reggaeton clubs are alive and well in Texas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Nightclubs are never coming backWhat city? Yes a couple times a month. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 01:14 AM |
| 4 | Nightclubs are never coming backWhere do you live where they don’t have clubs uou can dance at? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Nightclubs are never coming backI go to dance and have fun with friends like most people do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 12:48 AM |
| 11 | CMV: The “grass is greener” effect is much stronger for women in dating than menHave you never hung around other men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Only Mid Girls give up sex freelySkill issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 06:23 PM |
| 0 | Men are in a desert and women are in swamp is misandry.Quit being a little bitch and a loser | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 02:44 PM |
| – | If its men's fault for not being able to get a date, then its women's fault for getting "used"You’re a fucking loser | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 10:02 PM |
| – | Would you choose to be born a woman?Nope. A lot easier being a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 05:33 PM |
| 7 | Typical workday hours are just as bad for men as they are for womenWhat?! Never heard this once in my 35 years of life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 04:47 PM |
| -3 | Self improvement is the correct approach, but after self improvement, meeting women is still a big challengeMeeting women is easier than it’s ever been, especially with the amount of guys these days that dont even approach anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 11:00 PM |
| – | Almost all women in the developed world are dating men out of their leagueWhat the fuck is this shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 12:54 AM |
| 5 | CMV: “Join Hobbies” and “Expand Your Social Circle” Are very low-ROI Dating Strategies for Most Average MenMost people still meet in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 07:20 PM |
| – | 30s are perhaps the hardest years to date (even if you're youthful)35 and it’s the easiest it’s ever been. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 08:59 PM |
| 0 | Nobody cares about men’s problems.Real life badass too. That’s why I actually have women friends and have no issues getting laid 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Nobody cares about men’s problems.I have plenty of women in my life that would do anything for me and that care about my problems and were there for me when I was going through hardships and never saw me as less of a man when I’ve broken down in front of them. Most of y’all dudes are just a bunch of losers that don’t know how to connect with people. If you don’t have any good women in your life, that’s on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 05:02 PM |
| – | Getting laid as a guy shouldn't be this difficultNah it’s easy as fuck even for average guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymore😂 true! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreDallas, Austin, Denver, rural Texas. Never had a problem in any of these places cold approaching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreMost of the men that complain that they can’t approach wouldn’t be approaching women anyways even if the “me too” movement or tik tok didn’t exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreMy Hispanic and black friends are like that here in the US. Get rejected and move on to the next girl. They handle rejection well and stay confident | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 02:31 PM |
| -1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreSame in my city. Me and all my friends approach women and we’re all average looking. It’s not hard to not be a creep. My girl friends get approached often and I’ve seen them give out their number to below than average guys because they knew how to talk to women and be funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreMe and most guys I know irl still approach women and get numbers and most of us are average looking. I don’t know if it’s cause we’re more experienced now or if it’s cause a lot of guys aren’t approaching anymore but getting girls has been easier than ever for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 04:09 AM |
| 1 | You will not get arrested for approaching a woman.I approach women. My friends approach women. Whenever I go out with coworkers they all approach women as well. Most of us are average looking and we all get numbers. Don’t be a creep and leave her alone if she says no. It’s not that hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 07:47 PM |
| 2 | The normalization of "Homie head" is wrong and should be stoppedThis has always been happening. Especially in smaller cities where there a less options. Most people in my friend group hooked up with each other when we were younger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Question for woman: are the good looking guys always better in bed?I’m going to hold your hand when I say this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 04:46 PM |
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